I hate everyone out there.
My client said to me at the beginning of our session.
Can I understand, I said and asked him at the same time: “What happened”?
Almost close to tears, he talked about his last 3 weeks. My customer is 48 and has 3 children. A C-level job and have yourself and your life well under control.
Except sometimes. When the small, external aggressions pile up inside him.
Except sometimes when he's sad, desperate and doesn't want to make his wife a therapist, then he asks me.
His last 14 days have been a rollercoaster of emotions. Major customers canceled, 2 employees quit, an employee from his past just won't stop hurting and suing him.
"I hate them. These ignorant liars. These sad little pathetic guys. Clerk, administrator, loser. These people who are so dissatisfied with themselves that they won't tell the truth, or call, or just shut up and deal with their bullshit. They have to humiliate others in order to exalt themselves.
Between tears and anger, he repeated this sentence in loud passages.
Then he became calmer and I asked him:
“Do you want to be like that too”?
NO, no no no never for heaven's sake.
Ok, then here is your solution and you won't like it at first.
1. You have to be genuinely interested in someone.
2. You must act with righteous actions.
3. You must offer genuine love.
That sounds absurd because that's exactly what you expect and need from others. Rightly demand it.
Look, the trick is here, you use my method to look inward. Not to the outside. You allow exactly what others have already destroyed to grow within you. You show interest and respect. You go the extra mile. You invest time and truth. You offer love when others trample on you.
You even have to do that.
Because if you let your LOVE be destroyed from outside, then in the END you will not only hate everything and everyone. Hate is still a feeling, after all.
But after HATE comes indifference. And indifference is no longer a feeling but a state.
Everything and everyone in life becomes indifferent to you.
That would be your inner death.
The most successful people I know are indifferent to nothing. On the contrary, they laugh, they offer help and their hands. They are certainly also consistent when it comes to not letting negative energy into their lives. However, they remain loving and soft. Not always for others, but above all for yourself. Because no successful person wants indifference or negativity in their life. Neither as a feeling nor as a person.
StaySoft, take the first step and you will become the person you so much want in others.
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