How to FIX Your PARENTING MISTAKES! | Dr. Shefali and Shawn Stevenson

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The Biggest Parenting Mistakes (and how to fix them)
In this episode you’ll discover:
* How having parenting expectations sets us up for failure.
* What conscious parenting is.
* How the parental ego causes dysfunctional relationships.
* The importance of surrendering your ego and approaching your child with empathy.
* Why we should always assume that our children are doing their best.
* What it means to end the chase for happiness and success.
* The difference between controlling your children and influencing them.
* How to tap into your child’s unique essence.
* Why the parent-child relationship influences your child’s self-worth.
* How to teach your child resilience.
* The relationship between your inner child and the imposter ego.
* How to support your child’s natural temperament.
* What the acronym WARM stands for.
* The most important principle of life.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
00:30 - Conscious Parenting
18:28 - The Narrow Idea of Happiness / Success
26:30 - The Power of Responsibility
31:55 - Your Child’s Blueprint
38:10 - Your Greatest Teacher
50:20 - Your Inner Child / Awakening
1:01:40 - Kid-Speak
1:07:30 - Start Right Now
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Пікірлер: 22

@GoogleAccount00 Жыл бұрын

I love how direct she is with incompetent parents who implement poor parenting and blame and damage the children. I appreciate her advocacy for children.

@melindawebb0 10 ай бұрын

It takes work, it takes awareness, it takes paying attention and it takes letting go of control and needing to be righteous. And while it may seem that this is a lot of work, the joy and ease and grace that becomes available to the young person, the parent and the home, it is 100% worth every effort.

@ancadi4ever Жыл бұрын

Thanks for opening my eyes dr Shefali, just listening to your talks and podcasts in the evening changed my views so much and made me understand so many things,I am forever grateful My 2 year old has a better mom because of you❤

@cupcake-yj2bx 5 ай бұрын

I knew the day my child was born that I have to take self development and healing seriusly. Like I have to stop bullshitng myself and be fucking for real. She is now one years old and there is so much I feel like I do not understand. It is like I know what not to do but dont know any other alternetive. I was raised in a conventionaly "good home", but reflecting back now when I have my child there is so much limiting belfs and behaviurs that has to be unlearned from my childhood. ❤

@marcelasvirbelovakuziakova7517 Жыл бұрын

Love her ❤️❤️❤️

@SouthernOR 8 ай бұрын

Such an amazing way to look at how to help “raise” your child in this world - thank you

@teriw56 6 ай бұрын

Spilling a lot of truth here.

@chichibonita Жыл бұрын

Omg I can’t wait to listen! I’m reading her books! I just squealed 🤣🤣😫

@user-yl1gl9dz9c Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this podcast. So insightful and hopeful. Thank you for letting me know that it’s not too late. 🙏🙏

@ClassicJukeboxBand Жыл бұрын

Here is the biggest mistakes most parents make: Parents should drink more. Since kids are stressful, alcohol can help you handle the stress better. Be demanding and controlling. Children need structure in their lives. Be sure to tell your kids how worthless they are. This will keep them grounded. Never treat your children with any consistency. Get mad at them when they do what you expect, and praise them for not following your rules. Encourage your kids to be selfish, and only think about themselves. We live in this kind of world. Punish your children severely for every minor mistake. Encourage them to always follow the rules, believe everything any authority figure tells them, and not to question what officials tell them. Make sure your kids live for today. Stress the importance of instant gratification. The future is uncertain, so there is no need to worry about it. Also, let them know that they don't matter to you. Let them know what really matters is what you want, and they are lucky you had them in the first place, so they owe you, and will for the rest of their lives. Most importantly, make sure your children grow up to not care about others, but always have a good time. Most people already are this way, so why should your kids be any different? This way of parenting will be the best way to have successful, happy children in the long run...maybe not.

@lkjhgnonan4234 Жыл бұрын

Lol

@hiawathawaimea Жыл бұрын

PAIN = Pay Attention Inward Now You can learn from joy aswell and thats the world I feel we are entering

@mkuajara 10 ай бұрын

Me encantaría poder ver sus c9ntenidos en español, son excelentes 🙏🙏🙏 Felicidades y éxitos 👏👏👏

@dad102 8 ай бұрын

I love her.

@magda3150 2 ай бұрын

Examples are best to tutor someone.

@scandl01 Жыл бұрын

What she is describing as "traditional" parenting is just bad parenting. There are many traditional parenting examples that are actually loving and healthy.

@sandroca18 Жыл бұрын

Very good video, a eye opening! Thank you!

@maherhalawani5103 4 ай бұрын

They don't need to have a birthday party with a photographer to be happy

@gogomez874 8 ай бұрын

As a mother I have been told that ALL children are sponges and my children are limited by the experiences I don't provide them. My kid enjoys electronics because it's the path of least resistance to dopamine. Not the piano lessons, soccer, gymnastics, tennis, football, gardening, or painting, math parties. My kid is average. I cried because I work with average people all day who can't live day to day life and can't pay their bills on time.

@gogomez874 8 ай бұрын

PS. I was a 4.0 student, but now I'm an average parent 2.0 😊