Really? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

That's a negative mindset which also reeks of trust issues. If you cannot trust others best to be single and become a priest

@@SM-ce1uy So according to you anybody who chooses to stay single should become a priest? Can you explain how you figure that?

@@SM-ce1uy A single man can trust many other men and even many women, except the one he marries.

@@SM-ce1uy Lol 😂😂😂😂 some men don't know they like men too

I would these tips on/close to someone that is interested in me.

Thank you now I don't have to watch it

@Mr. Beats then your not the one🤷🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️and its ok!!

90 % of men will say seee ya so ladies do these things if you want to be single

MrPieceFull your not the type of men we are trying to marry though...

Lol

Men hate on this info because he's a Dusty! He knows it and doesn't want to be played, because he wants to be the player. That's why they even watch this channel, he's threatened! Hehehe! 😂🤣 On here, a man should shut up and realize he needs to step up himself as a man!

A woman should should "step up" herself as a woman too and not be nitpicking at what they want, but what they need for themselves first. You wanna tell a man that he has to "be a man" (whatever that dumb phrase means) then you need to be a damn woman.

Ashley Johnson COMPLETELY agree about woman. I don't need anyone. But for grown woman (not young without enough life experience) I understand and disagree with one statement. There are VERY FEW men that are on the up and up. Or you live in a fantasy world and refuse to see this or just young and only had a handful of experience with men. I'll say woman are the same too...but I'm not living in a fantasy world, HELL NO! I seen and experienced enough to understand why woman want to live like this. I need a healthy middle ground myself. But I get why they live like this. Some woman chose to stay dumb, or ignorant to reality! Fact!

Mrs S you will be single and not by choice! You have understand and study humans' psychology, which first and from most we are animals, people have morals only to be outta jail , so listen to Ashera, she's giving you psychology lesson to be able to live in this world and get whatever it is that you want.

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therealdess ٤ 😂

saaaaameee ,but im over that shit

Hahahaha😂😂

When he says "I'm looking for a girl to fall in love with" while talking to you dump his a$$

Hope it lasts...

itsonlyhalftime666X lol

@cool chicka Nope. It's not the right time yet.

Once I hit my 30's I think I'll be ready and I'm being honest. I just don't want my girlfriend watching this video because I ain't gonna lie, these are some really powerful manipulative tips, and I ain't trying to be a victim to it.

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Wow

Well, there are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

And you are not even embarrassed to type this?

@@elputasyou sound dumb. Why would she be embarrassed and she’s winning? U must be a dusty

Ava Williams yes girl!

Same here

Same here

Yes! I would also add to your list Chloe_ (hypergamy) Aly Art (body type, makeup, hairstyles), but MOST IMPORTANT Meredith Miller and Dr. Ramani (narcissists) so you can identify red flags in the first date and get rid of the Dusties

I swear yes!!! And wizard liz too

Ratchet kingdome that’s okay.. you’ll never have anybody 🙂 keep on

Who wants to marry a man with low self esteem anyways?

Low Self-Esteem ... Keep it real, baby! No MONEY!

then dump the men with low self esteem

Or men with sense. Are men really that stupid 🤔😯....ok well that explains 🤣🤣

Has any of this advice worth?

Give it Time

And you're 27 now 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@RomyPidgin lol whats funny 😂 i want to know the joke.

@@robertmartin6238 it works on real men bcz broke men act like a woman

😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯

Great honey , make sure he treats you like a queen before during and after.

... so he wants kids

Yesss you’re so right!

Them old heads be capping

Exactly, I met a older guy saying the samething and he played me smh . Asshole

Gothhana

update?

Because its witchcraft

Well, good luck getting a man...

I think what you said can be defined in one word: prostitution. Well, good thing you're honest about it...

Mikaya Moorleghen lol! Did it work?

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bikerchic650 lol yes I’m actually engaged!

Mikaya Moorleghen Wow...Congratulations!!!

Yaaaaaassss huni

How did it turn out

How long did it take?

+Cool Chicka Then, they were not meant for you.

Darnell Hendeason No sex before Marriage only happens Representative. of Georgia. Armenia. & Muslim countries... age is no involved if you not 50...

Same here. I always do the "when I get my husband one day" thing. It gets him everytime lol

Husband? Or slave disguised as your husband privileges? Most women appear to believe a man is garbage unless he worships her. It's sad as can be.

Let me guess... You're still single right? Divorced?

@@xavierwoodley Nobody wants a simp lmfao

@@babyc.3015 I know that's a lie. Most, if not all women want a simp. He just has to physically look like an "alpha" male, so you don't feel like you "settled."

@@xavierwoodley I'm not someone without boundaries so I wouldn't want to attract a man w/o it as well. If he's a simp he's a loser. Ew

Really? You actually think so? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

Aint nobody worried about marriage except women lol

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Amazing, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

eklou yawo O.M.G. really!?? ALL men do is "PLAY GAMES"! FACT! IF y'all didn't constantly try to play woman, we wouldn't even need these videos. You said this is why men don't want to marry?! Um, wrong!!!!! They don't want to cause there to busy PLAYING GAMES! Plzzzz! You talk like we got all these great men to choose from. Wake up and drop the BS

False

Act like a lady, think like a man. So, men play games, then women play too

This is most likely an insecure man with low self esteem of course he’s to sensitive to chase

How sad.

If you have another man's kid, you can't play this game. It's to easy for a man to walk away from all the mess that comes along with being a single mom. A very low value man can't play this game ethier.

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i think you better think about your life in 5 years... and if he dies you cannot get life insurance , or you have no say over what happens to his body... I also say you cannot do much in this country trying to be TOO "spiritual" you need a balance... you need a real ring, and a real marriage ..... if he believes that then he needs to buy you some land with your name on it instead of giving you a ring and a marriage certificate...because when he is ready to leave you, he can get up and go with no thoughts.... no paper work and no reason! those dusty Hoteps are only finding spiritual excuses for why they cannot afford a ring and get married ... your whole family and future will be cursed living without order... in all reality if you have kids, you will be a baby momm and he will be a baby daddy. even gay people can get married now.... and they do.... for legal and financial reasons which is smart.... don't be a fool, and marry someone who is not very smart and plans ahead, unless you have a stack of gold bars and money , please do things the right way before you regret being that unwise as to take a shell and give yourself to a broke man lol this is 2017 not 1862....

last call I know that game. She's right. This is him getting the benefits of a husband, but you will never get the rights of a wife. Don't go for that crap

I think that is awesome he doesn't believe in American culture.

Abeisgreat1 shut the hell up. 🤣 men can be so illiterate ...

I’m 3 years but he’s 25 and says to wait until 30 (I’m same age) 😭😭😭

Yes, please!

It’s waste of time

Shera said she doesn't do one since she thinks it's bogus

Kala Headley Then that’s not the man you need.

By planning to get what you want over other women’s tears using lies will only add karma on your life, early or later. Same could be done to her one day or to someone she cares the most. Then she will know, how he feels to be wronged.

It might not always be about tricking. If you are behaving in a way that resembles a wife, then it is less likely that he will propose because the interaction is already similar to that of a marriage. Even though it might appear counterproductive but i feel what she is saying is if you want to be his wife, stop acting like is wife until you are.

TheTuesday11 I lost interest once the word manipulate was spoken. It's a shame. Women like me suffer for women like that. If a man don't wanna marry you, let him be. Love yourself, be ok with being alone, and be prepared to earn your own money. If you have to constantly remind him of your good qualities, he doesn't deserve you. He needs to know for himself your are that one. I'm sure the trolls will have a ball with me. Frankly, I don't care. Although most of this is 100% correct so no shade intended, manipulation is another form of self harm. To see this type of ignorance being put out into the universe shows me we live in a materialistic superficial world. Hopefully you all use your better judgment.

Diva 504 men like games and a challenge and if you’re not manipulating them then they’re manipulating you!

Kali Palmer thats right! You got it girl

Diva 504 let me guess. You're single

Really? Gold, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

agirl nameD this is why we dont get married😂😂😂🙂

Well, it's going to be a little harder than that, sis: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.

Let him. Sit back and enjoy.

@@kristen6393 Really? You don't think you'll need to do something for him in return? Just "sit back and enjoy"? I doubt it: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.

you are so wright marriage is a suckers bet i was married for 28 yr ill never do it again anyone that gets married in this day and age is foolish to many women like this chick out there. women don't care about men just what they can get from him

Aria R that’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Did you try? My pisces mf has flipped and talked to me about children after I started caring more for myself 🤣

This nonsense will not work on any man over the age of 35.

don't want wife

guest 😁😁😁

Some men literally don’t care. Find your match.

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@@bxndo5ivehis name is *pretty boy* and he doesn’t like competition…😂😂😂

A little scary? She openly admits she believes in manipulating men to do what she wants. This woman is pure evil.

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You got married

@@ashajeremiahqw8775I did 😌

Hell naw

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