How to Get Your Ex Back : 7 Mistakes to Avoid
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In this video, Coach Alex and Coach Adrian discuss some of the most common mistakes people make when trying to get their ex back, and how to avoid them. By learning these mistakes, you'll increase your chances of success and getting your ex back!
The process of getting back with an ex is hard, because we know that there are many emotions. You don't know how to react. You don't know what are the best actions to do, what are the tools, let's say some secrets. And in the meantime, what are the mistakes to avoid? But there are mistakes that we see almost every day that are destroying some chances to get someone back.
0:00:00- What to Do and What to Avoid to Get Ex Back
0:04:06- The Most Common Mistake People Make After a Breakup
0:10:22- The Different Stages of Breakup Recovery
0:15:38- The Neuroscience of Getting Your Ex Back
0:17:57- How to Communicate With Your Ex
0:29:24- The Power of Subconscious Mind Manipulation in Getting Your Ex Back
0:36:48- The Different Types of Success Stories I See in My Work
0:39:12- The Power of Mindset in Breakup Recovery
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@2.22am 10 ай бұрын
8:54 , When Coach Adrin said even if you've done all these mistakes and you think omg that's me, i was actually thinking that. Then he gave me a hope❤
@fabmack1961 Жыл бұрын
These two guys have beautiful souls!
@MarvinRWard 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice. Especially about not continuing to talk about the past.
@armchaircouch Жыл бұрын
One of the best parts of most of both of your videos is that your voices are very soothing, and easy to relax while listening to. Thank you for your content!
@Mari-lv1rd 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for increasing my knowledge.
@Bonnadorable 6 ай бұрын
Love you guys! Thank you for all that you do and for your passion for helping hurting people.
@cooper6351 Жыл бұрын
Really great video, thank you 🙏🏼
@districtlivesports Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I looked up this channel. This content gives me hope 🙏🏿
@missmauenglish 6 ай бұрын
how did it go? did you get her/him back?
@rulonjjj Жыл бұрын
I love that I’m already on the right path. She just shit tested this last week and I believe I passed.
@FashionistaLyzaG1969 7 ай бұрын
I love watching the two of you.
@tomdick1777 Жыл бұрын
Best advice!!! 🙏🙏🙏
@neilpereira299 Жыл бұрын
This format is much better and has some substance.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you Neil for following and watching! Coach Alex
@kencraig8867 Жыл бұрын
Thank God for you guys. Thank you for what your doing.
@Pezaka 7 ай бұрын
Now this humility I need to learn
@paulsell2438 Жыл бұрын
Im getting closer to being ready, this video showed me I still have a ways to go...feeling positive
@johncochrane2806 6 ай бұрын
Thank you amazing video, I’m not ready yet to try and ask for forgiveness
@jabudube9826 10 ай бұрын
I really like your videos straight to the point and on point all the time. I like the point where you say making a mistake doesn't define you as a human being, for as long as we are not repeating the same mistakes
@user-ez5be6qj6h 8 ай бұрын
A very thanks to you both
@FrankyboyFloyd Жыл бұрын
This video is amazing and beautiful!....
@FaunaFloraFae Жыл бұрын
I love you both. Completely direct and to the point but kind in your delivery ❤ Thank you 😊
@bobbysilver272 6 ай бұрын
I feel I have changed, big time. Now I'm wondering whether I want my ex back. She needs to change too, and I only see she is still having an affair and not doing what i think is right moving forwards. I'm not sure she is worth it any more.
@fevbriosos1318 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for the great advised 💖
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure!
@LynEnrique 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the good advice
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@kennyplay5982 Жыл бұрын
That's me, my mistakes
@user-vi4hb2sj2y 11 ай бұрын
This was meant for me ..I made these mistakes...but thanks so much. Am learning alot
@kereiltutt5769 10 ай бұрын
What happened
@mikewalters5052 Жыл бұрын
you guys are really on point! great content and keep up the great work!
@kennyplay5982 Жыл бұрын
You guys make me cry at 3:00
@ultra6014 Жыл бұрын
Hi guys, brilliant video once again. Could you make content on how to contact your ex after 3/4 months no contact? Thank you
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Great suggestion!
@Michele-xi1zg Жыл бұрын
Great advice from you both! 29:59
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for following! Thank you Coach Adrian
@mlj1309 Жыл бұрын
You talk regularly about co depency but what about an ex who leaves you because you have a past of co decency and so you decided to be more independent and rely more on your passions, making him breaking up with you?
@kennyplay5982 Жыл бұрын
23:00 great ideas
@papahogdog155 3 ай бұрын
These videos are great, awesome advice. Also provides clarity and closure to an uncertain time.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 3 ай бұрын
Glad you like them!
@Jadtalhouk 27 күн бұрын
Just curious did u get bqxk with ur ex?
@cozmic6499 Жыл бұрын
Only hard thing for me is that she’s gonna do the things we did with someone else but at least I was her first and we both had a good time it’s just hard to accept
@skyewhitlock2479 Жыл бұрын
It’s actually a complement. They want to replicate what they had with you, with someone else. But the thing is, it doesn’t work.
@austinkesler4493 4 ай бұрын
@@skyewhitlock2479it is a little bit but it’s a really hard thing to deal with. I miss her a lot.
@rosenzala5512 5 ай бұрын
❤❤ facts on facts
@peppep1704 3 ай бұрын
Wow this video helped me reduce my distress. And I have hope now that maybe I can mend things. And if not that's ok. As long as she feels safe and happy now.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment!
@starchrisdayon538 Жыл бұрын
Yes it’s true the more I want him the more his away from me and it made me feel so very bad about it.
@maanecerezo7723 Жыл бұрын
thanks. we didn't break up but other woman discovered me. so suddenly stop our communication.
@starchrisdayon538 Жыл бұрын
Now I’m trying to move on without him
@5784Eva Жыл бұрын
What happened to old videos with coach Natalie ?? they are all gone .
@Pezaka 7 ай бұрын
How do I lay the foundation
@peninahruth2870 Жыл бұрын
Biggest point u hv made getting back to ua x really doesnt mean he/or she is ready n so its a procces to follow...hv tried this joke out coz of the love i had for him n for keeping my fmly going but this is the most messy thing i did coz the dude was not ready to change n was thrice evil than there b4...now i understand coz now he is chasing a person who is totally not ready for it n i now understand clearly abt ua point
@jilesmccauley1524 2 ай бұрын
I’m just having a hard time not reaching out I miss her so much
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 2 ай бұрын
It's tough but you can do it!
@estherloma157 Жыл бұрын
What happens when an ex comes to a relationship where another party is already involved with another woman and have had children?
@2010LQ Жыл бұрын
The problem is he doesn’t want to hear anything. I apologies no explanations. I’ve told him I would like to talk because it’s the only way he can get a clear understanding and explain myself and he keeps saying he doesn’t need any explanations that he clearly understands and knows how to read text and I tell him texting is not the best way to talk because often times they’re misunderstood and no emotions behind them and he would get upset if it’s long message but these situations are not to be discussed over text because he doesn’t want to be bothered. We have a 7 year old daughter married for 6 years together 10 years
@maybillytheray5186 Жыл бұрын
I know not to bring up the past but what do I do if she brings it up
@idolyce_sama Жыл бұрын
How do I get her yo take the steps with me I don't want to mess this up
@SaneandShinning76 8 ай бұрын
He did try to test me and I bummed. Again... Is there any chance... I'm hopeful...
@idolyce_sama Жыл бұрын
I'd love for a 1 on 1
@NokuthulaDube-sy4oi Ай бұрын
That's me I have done that
@scottjohnson-ij7nr 7 ай бұрын
What if she reaches out to you? A brief text but very personal
@odalysgarcia7073 Жыл бұрын
Today I tried talking to my boyfriend and I've apologized for making a big argument that caused our relationship to dissolve. I've apologized , but he does not want to try again but wants to remain friends. He says he still loves me, but is not willing to budge on getting back together again. What should I do?
@margaretworthing8645 Жыл бұрын
So ever think I write he can see it.
@hawaz123 6 ай бұрын
Hello i love your advice that goes for both of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am in a relationship crisis I’ll tell you what happened and give me your advice. I was at my gf house and it was cold outside so they had heater running so when i left her house got home to call her that i mad it safe she didn’t answer the call 20 minutes later i called back again she again didn’t answer 5 minutes later she called and she said did you make it i said yes and i said i tried calling you but you didn’t answer that’s when i felt she was lying to me she said oh i was closing the windows and my cat was jumping all over the place so that’s when i said why are you lying? And she said ok there you go i am going to hang up the phone then i said you want to do that go a head. And she did so its been 4 days that we have not talked to each others. So what is your advice? Thank you
@lubnaahmed1299 Жыл бұрын
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@kennyplay5982 Жыл бұрын
Omg , 17:30 this is wild.
@patientmumba8855 Жыл бұрын
My ex called me last week his asking me to get back to him it's been four months now we were not talking to each other...but there's an isue here I can see that he's still in the past behavior what he was doing is still doing it even now that he wants to get back so what will do yes I love him but am confused
@trouvailee238 Жыл бұрын
Is there any problem during no contact period to see her daily??
@liamcastellanos8150 Жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos very recently and I find them really helpful, the one scenario I cannot seem to find is when my ex (dumper) still follows me on every social media, we still have our relationship set on fb and she haven't even deleted our pics on ig even tho she was the one that broke up with me, it's been almost a week of no contact from my part and she still watches my ig stories, can someone tell me what may be going on?
@todorjivkov9626 10 ай бұрын
how is it going now mate?
@MarvinRWard 10 ай бұрын
What do you do if they are already seeing other people? Just give up and walk away?
@lonelygoose5136 7 ай бұрын
It could be they did not do the growth, and it could be it couldn't work for reason we may not know. I understand the thought, it creeps up on me even though I am doing the work for my own genuine desire to simply be a better man. To some level, a prerequisite for the our own growth lies in acceptance to engage in unconditional love. For me it became spiritual, we reject God everyday yet His love remains unchanged... Hope this helps
@barbiebeautiful9595 4 ай бұрын
I love my ex so much 😢❤
@user-em7ho9ej8g 8 ай бұрын
After 21 years of love and togatherness with three children, she fall for guy in just short term of comunication and almost 2 years togatherness and demand for divorce to get married that guy. Now we are separated and by divorce protocol to attend counceling at government office which was comoleted but not sure she file the case at court to get divorce. We are separated now for 9 months and stop seeing her and children for 3 month's . Not sure she will realised she will come back? not sure they both in contact as condition set by him to get divorce 😢 , Can advice further any chance to be togather again? Thanks
@stephaniemcentire2321 Жыл бұрын
So my husband hasn’t talked to me for 5 months and we don’t see each other. So I called to see if he was ok and he seemed so happy and out with friends. We have been together for almost ten years and he just cut it off. I guess I just figure he will come back or he won’t.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie We would love to help you and understand more about the situation and circumstance, please consider booking 1:1 session with us www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
@Almighted Жыл бұрын
What if we weren’t married but we separated ourselves from all joint account like cellphone, bills, insurance and etc? Does that mean it’s all over for good? Like separating all these things, seems like it’s a permanent decision. And I believe she is talking to someone while she was with me.
@lowpromofo3830 Жыл бұрын
I think one of the hardest things is letting go what you guys were and showing her your still looking out for her best interest to show genuine support, I think the more they see your okay with this they might coming back and the feeling of man he’s getting over me he looks happy might come back . But the talking to someone else thing happened to me too , she claimed him as a friend which in that moment you need to believe her non matter what because soon as you accuse it’s going down hill broths
@chiko1354 9 ай бұрын
They always are talking to someone They always have their parachute packed and ready to go when they suddenly without warning jump off the plane you thought you were piloting
@chrisszpond2387 4 ай бұрын
How do I set up a one on one session with you guys? How much would it cost?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 4 ай бұрын
Hi, here's the link : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@evangelinaprebot2951 Жыл бұрын
Hi , how can I get one on one coaching
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Hi Evangelina! You can book a coaching session as well as view our coaching rates using this link: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7lklJuCmpyWqKc.html -LATV Team
@denmarksuello1349 8 ай бұрын
how about my situation i din't do anything wrong he broke to me because he said he is gay but i dont believe it but my mistake is i beg to him and now he block me😭😭
@yuminadeguzman2582 6 ай бұрын
He loves to talk and chat all girls that he's saying they're just friends and it's hurts me so much.
@TAHNAEGENARO 3 ай бұрын
I understand
@rose1iverson3 7 ай бұрын
How long after a breakup should communication take place? We broke up last week after she said she needed time to heal. No infidelity or disrespect involved. Truly miscommunication. I try to not communicate much but I know I can’t go cold turkey either.
@tebohorakotsoane9397 6 ай бұрын
Going through same thing, but with the child involved.
@peninahruth2870 Жыл бұрын
Acctually u said we must not talk abt the past but that past is the one made us a part...now here is the thing when my x approaches me my main goal is to know if he realizes his mistake but instead of admitting he did n changed...he never accept n always blew up n claims me am part of his tears....haa do u think this person has changed or do u think he isvready again for a hpply marriage..mto me is just avwaistage of time geting back to a person u never apologize neither accept he messed instend laying a finger on me blaming me....surely we need to here person accepting his mistake thats when u know he has really changed by realizing his mistake ....otherwise moving forward with my life is much health than geting back to the sane mess ....
@eshabhattarai01 6 ай бұрын
And here I am trying to clear all the misunderstandings and willing to do whatever it takes to prove him but he doesn’t wanna listen probably because I begged and pleaded him countless times to give me a second chance. I’m blocked from everywhere. Somedays I feel like he would come back and somedays I just feel hopeless. A part of me has accepted that he won’t come back. Let’s see what happens :)
@phyllissmith3574 10 ай бұрын
I know your content is geared for the younger generation. Could have used this decades ago. How I lost the man of my dreams is still beyond me. Throughout our time together, which was decades, I don't know how it was possible, but I felt our souls intertwining as one every time we connected. Yet, we still broke apart. I felt that death, wasn't pretty. After being celibate for way too long, that is the only thing I miss and want. I lived the fairytaled love life which I enjoyed immensely. I just hate the fact, I feel like this man was guided to me when were 6 and 8. Met in our teens, and was inseparable for many decades. Then it was over. It didn't help that b4 meeting him love interests, either moved or died. Then also after we split the same scenario. Why this guy? I can't even work a word search without seeing his first or last name. Thanks for the clip though. 😊
@phyllissmith3574 9 ай бұрын
@FurryLewds It didn't. After giving me the feeling of a genuine true love story, he became a ghost. He does all he can to avoid me but yet moved 2x close to me when I moved. He was forgiven ages ago. Do I want him back? Not really, I just miss his touch.
@laurabaltazar6735 Жыл бұрын
I already made this mistake 😢I don’t see how I can take it back …
@palmerphil0901 9 ай бұрын
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@Badazz_toya Жыл бұрын
Me n my ex recently broke up I been wanting to be with him he says he confused he can’t trust me again I love him so much I hope we can get back togther I messed up by pleading n begging but now I give up
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Don't give up Latoya! We have a video on our channel that talks about how to regain trust from an ex. I hope you find the time to check it out. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7lklJuCmpyWqKc.html -LATV Team
@kmcgregor8843 Жыл бұрын
how do you get to a place where you stop pinning and realize that, why work for an ex back who didn't want to work for me in the first place?
@lowpromofo3830 Жыл бұрын
One of the hardest things to accept for me
@user-cg4gc6me2z 2 ай бұрын
How can i speak with one of you ?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 2 ай бұрын
You can book a coaching session here : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@majoriebasiima645 9 ай бұрын
What if the ex moved on months ago and feel they are doing well. Does this process work on someone who already moved on
@jtinsfv1 4 ай бұрын
probably not
@admeziemkarim6114 Жыл бұрын
What to do if the divorce with my ex wife is due to her midlife crisis
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sometimes for these instances you have to allow the individual to go through their personal issues and growth, otherwise the issues will continue Does this make sense? Thanks Coach Alex
@maloucal-is5677 Жыл бұрын
your topic is about ex ,i always watch your video but your most topic is ex on my situation why i need to impress my ex i dont like him because he is a womanizer why i need to let him back
@lalthaihlawncheu3321 Жыл бұрын
After a year of separate my ex wanted to have something to discuss with me so what do I do please help
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the comment and following. We can certainly help you, please consider booking 1:1 session! Use link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
@etiennekruger2858 6 ай бұрын
My ex broke up with me, i made alot of mistakes that was mentioned here. She keeps on telling me she does not know what the future holds. I really want to be with her? What can i do?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 6 ай бұрын
Hi there! We're sorry to hear about this and thank you for sharing this with us. I know our coaches would love to help you with this so I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with one of our coaches so they can help you through your situation. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
@soundofsilence1483 Жыл бұрын
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@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you @soundofsilence1483 for watching! Coach Alex
@JKS2284 Жыл бұрын
I need your help 😞
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Hi there, I know our coaches would love to help you with this! You can book a coaching session with us using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/ -LATV Team
@JKS2284 Жыл бұрын
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I would love to book it, but I'm in the financial difficulty right now and can't afford it. I really know it would benefit me from the testimonials I've read. I'm really in a bad situation. I'm learning from your videos as much as I can.
@pearlchakraborty2731 Жыл бұрын
I hope i get him back 🙁🤞 im following your tips
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pearl Please book 1:1 session Use link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks, Coach Alex
@niteshgohil2462 Жыл бұрын
What if she is going to marry someone early😢😢😢
@tebohorakotsoane9397 6 ай бұрын
I fear this one Soo much, I hope by the time it happens to me I would have moved on and having the best woman for me.
@matthewbarrett176 Жыл бұрын
My ex-wife and I split for 1 year now. She has reached out "for the kids" to me 6 times already, and I blow it every time because i couldn't control my emotions, I have made every mistake possible. 4 months ago, she started dating someone, this person has also gotten divorced around the same time. But it seems to me the have skipped dating and gone straight back into "married life" would you say this is a rebound relationship and have I blown it for good.
@m1ll1on4r3 Жыл бұрын
U really would take your wife back after knowing she probably had kissed, touched or had sex with an another dude ?? Bro that’s fucked up.
@austinkesler4493 4 ай бұрын
I hope things worked out for you.
@phwayfav4235 5 ай бұрын
Is the coaching dedicated only for the heterosexual relationship?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 5 ай бұрын
No, we can help all relationships beyond heterosexual relationships :-) If you would like to book a coaching session with us. You can find more information using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
@Trackstareman23 Жыл бұрын
Adrian seems a bit dim and uneconomical with his speech . Not worthy of payed counselling. Alex on the other hand appears a lot more sharper.
@VennelaKaramsi 7 ай бұрын
The biggest mistake is wanting an ex back.
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