How to have confidence, power and influence ?

How to have confidence, power and influence ? - Ross Jeffries

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Күн бұрын

David Laroche is interviewing Ross Jeffries, the king of seduction. Successful in terms of business as he came along at the right place at the right time, he says. Seduction is the fact of relying on men’s ability to communicate with women. Then, someone who is able to communicate with women cans ask interesting questions that awake curiosity. This technic can be used in plenty field and sometimes in selling product, but depends on what you sell says Ross. A tip that can help people to overcome fear is to change the meaning of it because fear is not a thing but a neurological activity.

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@matw1x 10 ай бұрын

This guy is deep. His teachings go beyond seduction. This is Enlightenment.

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

Performance confidence Acceptance confidence Compassion confidence Learning confidence

@romarioosborne5546 6 жыл бұрын

Ross Jefferies is like an old alpha lion who still feels he can dominate all the other cats in the jungle. He has a huge ego, but it is one that he got from grinding with girla and people and getting out his comfort zone. He has inspired me on this insightful video. Thanks for the upload

@learn1718 3 жыл бұрын

Just the boss of the dating coaches but no one saw him pulling women 🤣

@dogguyful 3 жыл бұрын

@@learn1718 he's the founder of NLS, neurolingustic seduction.

@johnprim 2 жыл бұрын

Eh... the man's genuinely more intelligent that 99% of people.

@mikereiss4216 Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure he sees it as a competition or that he's better than the young lions but just that he got there first.

@barnabassackey1283 Жыл бұрын

Is this king croc ?

@coolarjun24 5 жыл бұрын

This is work of transcendence. When you hear it across time over and over, it will make deeper sense. This Ross guy is too good...

@akshayhiwrale 14 күн бұрын

I can understand when he was talking about happiness which is not bound by any thing. I have done Vipassana (meditation course) which is 10 days nd when doing that you reach to certain point( for few sec) where their is no though in our mind nd as you know the hardest thing for humankind is to stop thinking, so when u reach to that point man that state of mind it feels awesome because u r at PEACE when their is no thought in your mind u r not sad , you r not happy, just u r at PEACE and that is the best feeling u can get .

@TwiztedHumor Жыл бұрын

Did anyone notice how he was using hypnotism in his voice when he started to talk about using trance to allow people to become open to learning?

@dancyr9638 5 күн бұрын

the sounds he is making on the glass seemed like some technique as well

@namratajain2887 7 жыл бұрын

Great discovering Ross Jeffries in France ! Thank you David. It's just stunning to discover the increasing number of people experiencing spiritual consciousness. I totally agree with Ross, there is a common mistake made by many teachings : not to take in consideration the two axes of development : the horizontal, which deals with all that is conditional in our life (health, wealth, relationship with family, friends, collegues, etc.) and the vertical axe (spiritual consciousness). Isabelle Podovani talks about this very well in one of her talks in France. Love you David and Julie for making us discover wonderful people living in this world :)

@coolarjun24 5 жыл бұрын

Namrata JAIN you there nailed some of it.. This is good...wow.. so many are getting it..nice to meet you Namrata

@bliglum 11 ай бұрын

This is pure gold... If only more guys could hear the message of men like Ross Jeffries, the staggering statistic of 80% of suicide victims being men would likely go down. Sadly though, traditional masculinity has been deemed "toxic". Men like Ross here, are ostracized, and suppressed... As "men" in the western world continue to grow weaker... Speaking of, I notice young men are wearing tights, and perming their hair now... God help us...

@thedjruiner Ай бұрын

Yup

@brianmeen2158 6 күн бұрын

Agree. Every young guy I talk to is push him to listen to Ross first and foremost .. If I ran a school there would be a “Ross Jefferies” day

@toderox 5 жыл бұрын

Thanx for this interview @David Laroche World

@matw1x 10 ай бұрын

Shinzen Young. Wow. This guy is aware af.

@rodrigobelinchon2982 Ай бұрын

any video from him you recommend?

@ahmidahmid9303 4 жыл бұрын

i can recognize one when i see even in this interview he used tricks to push his view 1-he validate the boy to ease him "you ask smart questions" was smart move. 2-he used his father story very well "compaction". that's what i noticed and i think there is more this man is well informed great interview

@kjcornwell Жыл бұрын

Best RJ interview around. To many people "active listen" blabbering about left brain facts and figures. I apricate your ability to sit still and be a great mirror to extract very cool stuff.

@unstoppablefrank 2 жыл бұрын

This is like a masterclass! Great video!

@rumham7863 Жыл бұрын

Addiction is an activity we partake in too, wow that is a very profound thing to think about.

@MrRene1968 6 жыл бұрын

Ross is a an awesome teacher, as arrogant as he may sound, he knows what he preacher, I can not get enough of what he shares. Have watched and listen his lesson, and everything time I get lost of valuable knowledge. Keep up the good work Ross.

@esmaster0072 5 жыл бұрын

This guy finally achieved what it takes to be happy which is awareness of your inner potentially to control your feelings and Aline them to pleasure. Next step is to put that potentially at work on dayly bases for the rest of our lifes. Unconditional happiness, what a great concept.

@nkululekomthethwa7656 2 жыл бұрын

The interviewer is very clever, I like his questions.

@UnlockYourWellness Жыл бұрын

Fascinating stuff. Amazing interview, I’m in awe of this guy.

@charlesbukowski7730 3 жыл бұрын

I use the ross language patterns, and they really work!

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

Really?

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

What did I observe a long time ago is that women are generally get curious on a guy if they noticed that girls give him attention, and they tend to compete on that attention.

@hornedlobster 5 жыл бұрын

Great interview! It felt more like a fluid conversation than a robotic interviewer. Well done.

@MKANDRESTINPEACE 10 ай бұрын

the rythm Ross uses is so relaxing🙏🙏

@mrluvit8232 9 ай бұрын

fully agree!!! 💯

@Michael-4 5 жыл бұрын

Just imagine having a friend like that who dissects everything you say all the time.

@joyfulness9968 3 жыл бұрын

Make him as a mentor instead

@hunchofmateus2422 3 жыл бұрын

In order to do that you have to learn how to listen people. The best friends are the ones who really listen to all your shit.

@jeffxcc 5 жыл бұрын

Love this video! This is the essence of Ross Jeffries he is one of the greatest teachers! Seduction is juat a trogen horse. He teaches you how to walk through life on your terms, with ultimate influence and certainty. .

@socraticproblem86 10 ай бұрын

I remember when Ross sent out a newsletter. He was talking about his father. Rosses Dad was a military man. I vaguely remember it. It was during the days of the early internet 😅

@miguelhernandez1one 4 жыл бұрын

Man I totally look up to Ross Jefferies totall legend

@pillay83 7 жыл бұрын

Incredible stuff. Much respect. From South Africa.

@nkululekomthethwa7656 2 жыл бұрын

Mzansi fo sho

@kalaklah4848 5 ай бұрын

This interview from Ross Jeffries is absolutely riveting.

@scottherf 7 жыл бұрын

The cyrano de Bergerac of deep communication. Learnt much from this man.

@scottherf 7 жыл бұрын

The happiness is called universal compassion. You'll experience it when you reach a Maslow peak experience. Thank you.

@pas2356 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent perspectives!

@rodrigobelinchon2982 Ай бұрын

that was a great interview , letting Ross explain and talk and developing the focus

@KylerBorn 2 жыл бұрын

Ross is a blessing 👍

@niclasnorby6252 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful interview

@ginguz1 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the video!

@rocklee619 Жыл бұрын

Love this conversation! Some people may label Ross's talking style rude, but sometimes it's necessary to deliver your message... lol I'm used to having coaches and getting uncomfortable feedback sometimes, so I guess it doesn't phase me 💜

@dominiccocchiola6922 3 ай бұрын

Guys might be 30 watching this not even knowing they have more years of being a bad ass with women than they have lived so far. Ross is getting tail well into his 70s and until hes dead. There is a chance for us.

@brianmeen2158 6 күн бұрын

True but many young guys these days just don’t even seem to have the strong urge to get out there and meet women. On average they strike me as much more lethargic and passive than previous generations . Have you noticed this too?

@brianmeen2158 6 күн бұрын

True but I find many young men these days don’t even seem to have that strong desire to go out and talk to women .. they seem much more lethargic and passive than previous generations - have you noticed this too? Btw I think men put too much value in simply “hooking up” with women. After you do it a few times you realize just how rather underwhelming it is. I’m not saying it isn’t pleasurable but it’s usually not worth the time/effort/stress that most men have to put in to get it

@SStabi 6 жыл бұрын

Great video thanks!

@francescos7361 2 жыл бұрын

Good work man thanks a lot

@alexanderworkchannel 6 жыл бұрын

Great info - Thanks

@theredninja2817 4 жыл бұрын

The master at work

@Dbulkss 7 жыл бұрын

I feel as if there should be one more which is change confidence. Being confident to changing situations. Being able to adapt to change an also wanting change since getting complacent is negative for progressing forward.

@factopolis7752 7 жыл бұрын

Dominicanbulk isn't that the same as acceptance confidence?

@Dbulkss 7 жыл бұрын

akeem anderson Yeah true. But ambiguity is more vast then simply accepting the fact that you are not good at something right now.

@yannickdanis2185 3 жыл бұрын

Wow c'est la meilleure entrevue que j'ai vue de Ross, il a vraiment enseigné plein de choses intéressantes. Bravo d'avoir osé le rencontrer.

@mihaimihai9770 9 ай бұрын

I have the all his seminars on a hard drive which doesn't work anymore :)

@EricFisher.TheVillages Жыл бұрын

Nice, useful thanks man.

@vonspeex9608 5 жыл бұрын

Great stuff

@TheIntelligentView 7 жыл бұрын

GREAT Interview!! I've been studying Ross since 1998 - on & off. He IS a smart guy.

@OzOnO123 5 жыл бұрын

dude, just saw this interview and he knows as fuck

@user-hc7id9gz3i 9 ай бұрын

How did you find the results of using his methods

@ansmfella Ай бұрын

Ross is the Frank Zappa of charisma, attraction and persuasion. Ahead of his time and also timeless master

@brianmeen2158 6 күн бұрын

I think Ross is brilliant and I think he can teach men how to persuade but don’t think he can teach them to be more charismatic .

@WisdomQuest-v4h 7 жыл бұрын

J'ai adoré l'entrevue, il était vraiment perspicace et intéressant!! I loved the interview, it was really insightful and interesting!!

@sal8082 4 жыл бұрын

Questa intervista è molto interessante!

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

20:56 words to live by

@scumbagg6155 6 ай бұрын

Powerful!

@WRCWPLX 11 ай бұрын

Hearing Ross in this interview and comparing him to his initial PUA videos is a huge difference -- the Ross Jeffries in this interview exhibits wisdom, something that lackef in his original videos..

@scottzvidzo5564 11 ай бұрын

This guy is as smart and articulate about his craft as James Cameron at movie making and there is lowkey resemblance

@boxo5051 7 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@noticetheknow-it-all4341 7 жыл бұрын

Ross was spitting game at your girl covertly by the way.

@AlienK-cycromegreenplanet 6 жыл бұрын

Notice the Know-it-All hahaha forreals

@diegopagani2010 3 жыл бұрын

Covertly and consciously

@jamesrawlings5781 3 жыл бұрын

@@diegopagani2010 Yeah. Creepy, wasn't it?

@maryrosenathaniel9975 3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesrawlings5781 yup

@ilijasavic6549 3 жыл бұрын

@@AlienK-cycromegreenplanet what with know-it-all? I can't see

@duosythe 7 жыл бұрын

Are there any other interviews where Ross talks more on his response to the question at 31:20?

@pwrong6450 5 ай бұрын

It’s funny how he control the room. How to be inviting what he wants you to be apart of his frame. Also how to be dismissive of your thoughts respectfully and bring you back into his frame. How to control you emotionally bringing you to a low when his father passed then bringing you back up. Pretty decent overall. Also showing confidence and being Elite and vulnerable at the same time

@marcwildeman7520 4 жыл бұрын

Feels like i hear Richard Bandler talking.

@sunnypai4031 10 ай бұрын

Seduce the mind and the body follows.😊

@moniquemcdonogh698 6 жыл бұрын

Well done David- awesome interviews with invaluable insights.

@abdomahfouad4699 7 жыл бұрын

He is so funny man 😂

@gomontv137 7 жыл бұрын

Actually this intro is quite good...

@buffalotraffic 6 жыл бұрын

Where's he talking about that the real estate is worth half as much? Certainly not anywhere in Ca.

@gustavoherreramx 7 жыл бұрын

Awsome grate interview is like Watching Jesus talking jaja

@Truthseeker1961 7 жыл бұрын

Why the RSD guys are silent on this seduction legend now is beyond me...this guy even predates 'Mystery'...old fucking school all the way, there are WAY too many pickup 'gurus' now spoiling the broth...too many.

@factopolis7752 7 жыл бұрын

Truthseeker1961 I've got to be honest, some seduction courses are just pieces of all the knowledge he's put out and the person now focuses on a single tool he's done or expounds on it but they don't really give credit, maybe because they don't even know where it came from

@Dbulkss 7 жыл бұрын

beautiful

@Dbulkss 7 жыл бұрын

What word does he say at minute 24:16??? "The Buddhist say there's 3 of consciousness"

@thereal4114 7 жыл бұрын

The Buddhist say there are 3 impurities to consciousness.

@henryvillalona7833 2 жыл бұрын

1) I saw you here I noticed that you are by far the most beautiful woman here so I thought let's go talk to her and see if she is someone who I would like to get to know. My name is .... 2) Change the meaning; Talk to a girl is actually doing her a favor.

@zeiddouak9833 20 күн бұрын

Oh my GOD ...this is a rare video. very interesting But here is a serious thing : you may be better than many. You may be the best for a while. But if you believe you are the only one who knows the truth of something ...that means it is the end of your little knowledge. Finally, it was really really interesting to speak about unconditional happiness , my question is : is it about being okay with this life as it is Or by being thankful to OUR GOD about what we know and what we dont know ? Which one is accessible always and eternal

@llucaslayerr 3 жыл бұрын

13:10 this thoughts come because the devil is always trying to put you down. You must fight him everyday or you lose

@06comment 7 жыл бұрын

Ross Jeffries speaks so metaphorically I reckon this interviewer truly understood about 60% of what he was saying.

@hawaiilife8084 7 жыл бұрын

Interesting... I think the French guy understood completely everything Ross Jeffries was talking about. It was specifically Jeffries' innate and consistent method of suggesting that gives that impression. We all know what is a metaphor and if it's figurative or literal. The French dude makes a comment like "confidence is like a muscle" and Ross Jeffries spends 5-6 minutes long-windedly explaining WTF a metaphor is,,, suggesting that the French guy doesn't know to the point that he persuaded the French guy to believing it! How many times does he say: "Do you understand" Do you get it?" Jeffries knows exactly what he's doing for someone fluent in NLP. He actually does it in almost all his interviews... He is a great source of knowledge but kinda insecure as he always needs to one-up and disagree even when he agrees with someone to assert his Alpha-ness and expertise... Ah, kinda douchey...

@06comment 7 жыл бұрын

To be honest I agree with a lot of what you said and maybe i didn't give the french guy enough credit. Could actually be Ross undermining him throughout.

@charlesbukowski7730 3 жыл бұрын

28:47 he start a pattern xD

@PainkillerPhysio 7 жыл бұрын

That man is sweating ego all over the place... He has some good points though :)

@wetdog5431 6 жыл бұрын

Eric you're like why is he so confident.

@Jetsfoo305 3 жыл бұрын

You probably lack confidence

@leonreaper90 5 жыл бұрын

He has a beard, I believe him

@hylketromp5076 5 жыл бұрын

Although I find Ross Jeffries a bit rude in this interview, the content is profound

@RamonRuizG 6 жыл бұрын

Sure he's arrogant, but he knows when the interviewer hasn't jumped to his level of understanding. The interviewer remains unchanged by what Ross is saying so in a way he's being disrespectful, that's why Ross hits him hard sometimes. He's seeing a closed mind.

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

True

@adriaanpruyssers1459 7 жыл бұрын

Ross Jeffries is so smart and seems so wise. That he hasn't written a decent book is surprising

@ppumpkin3282 7 жыл бұрын

You're right. Ross is brilliant. I've been watching him for years yet I still find a few nuggets in this interview. I was wondering though, if some of this stuff would come across as well in a book.

@diamondgirls6541 Жыл бұрын

He wrote some books and I read them

@kinraade 3 жыл бұрын

7:50

@valdocarvalho603 Жыл бұрын

Fear is not thing, it's an activity... change it dam

@HolaSoyFranchesco 7 жыл бұрын

traduscanlo al españoooooool

@joyfulness9968 3 жыл бұрын

This boy is mimicing Ross's body language (the way he is sitting) to appear more likeable. But I believe Ross was fully aware of that old psychology trick.

@Jetsfoo305 3 жыл бұрын

Duhh. It’s what he’s teaching

@joyfulness9968 3 жыл бұрын

@@Jetsfoo305 Duhh Ross never teaches such a cheap trick.

@yannickdanis2185 3 жыл бұрын

It's called calibration, and it's pretty much in the basics of NLP, that he very well masters.

@joyfulness9968 3 жыл бұрын

@@yannickdanis2185 it's called mirroring in psychology.

@spacebumps. 11 ай бұрын

7:00

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

17:54 self confidence

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

Acceptance confidence vs Performance confidence

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

Compassion Confidence

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

Learning confidence

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

Tolerance for uncertainty(tolerate or enjoy what's going to happen or happening rn) -look from other persons perspective -look from 3rd persons perspective of what happened here

@justsidu 3 ай бұрын

Learning = conscious practice + getting outnof the way and Letting the understanding flow out of the unconscious

@malthus101 4 жыл бұрын

He's a great speaker... hope he's less grouchy than he used to be, it doesn't suit him.

@teblar 2 жыл бұрын

19:47

@mitchellmurray4725 5 жыл бұрын

Momentum is not interchangeable with force and is actually defined as p=v(velocity)m(mass). just putting that out there

@eddsalad1461 Жыл бұрын

9:23

@noticetheknow-it-all4341 7 жыл бұрын

He is me

@wombythewizard1673 5 жыл бұрын

Sure thing ;)

@phohead 5 жыл бұрын

I just discovered this guy. I feel I have a lot to learn from him, but jeez the creep factor is strong with this one!

@oldnatty61 5 жыл бұрын

Way too much work, energy, money. I got other things to do. You guys have fun.

@williehaller5840 5 жыл бұрын

Well aren't you important good for you buddy

@shadowboxing1729 5 жыл бұрын

Meditation... I would like to get in to that..

@strahinja95 11 ай бұрын

Great interview, but I dislike that he is flirting with the woman that is off the screen with. Tells something about the guy. Good ideas and delivery though

@hawaiilife8084 7 жыл бұрын

I myself would be annoyed interviewing Ross Jeffries' ego, maybe if his grounded self could join the interview would be nice... For someone fluent in NLP, he throughout the interview uses his words to belittle and condescend and treat the French guy like he don't know shit. Why? Because he probably has the unconscious or albeit conscious habit of one-upping whoever he talks to in the effort to make himself seem more like an expert... Count how many times does he say "do you understand? Do you get it?" Then he just says " no you don't get it" and goes on to long-windedly explain what a metaphor is like we don't know WTF a metaphor is... " confidence is a muscle". I'll give him he has dedicated and committed a lot to his knowledge but yeah cmon man! Don't be a douche!

@factopolis7752 7 жыл бұрын

HAWAII*LIFE *808 I have two questions 1) do you think he may be asking if you understand because he speaks a different language and some things don't translate that well? 2) since he's so fluent in NLP, do you think maybe he said "you don't get it" because he read the interviewer?....

@m.k9357 7 жыл бұрын

HAWAII*LIFE *808 Yes, it's very interesting how people that practice and commit themself to a certain lifestyle and mindset with love and respect are different to those who are still in a ego manipulating mindset. It's really fascinating

@FrostRare 7 жыл бұрын

There's a moment where David says "I can tell what a man is doing to attract a woman"(paraphrase) and then Ross replies "Or so you say" and then continues as though he didn't essentially unveil this guy as a con artist on his own show. You are right that Ross condescends the interviewer constantly through embedded commands and a bunch of other things. The thing is, Ross doesn't give a fuck. He's probably trying to pull the camera girl.

@truckerwellnesssusa 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha... good to see I wasn't the only one thinking what you thought. I was like... oh man this guy's like on his high pedestal just belittling this guy! To me he comes across as a former nerd who found a secret power and now has a ego problem. Lol

@fustilarian1 6 жыл бұрын

I found it more patronising that he had to keep reminding everyone what a metaphor is.

@Haude92 7 жыл бұрын

Ross Jeffries gives some real good answers, but the reporter doesn't seem to feel comfortable on camera or even interested in anything Ross has to say...

@hawaiilife8084 7 жыл бұрын

Patrick Haude Did you notice how many times Jeffries says "do you understand?" I lost count but that in itself is NLP and has its effect and Jeffries is fluent in NLP and knows this... He actually does it in all his interviews and it is an effective but douchey technique... He plays semantics and disagrees when you agree with him, accuses you of making assumptions, and a chronic one-upper. All this works to suggest and imply his expertise and mastery while condescend and belittle whoever he speaks to. Granted he has skills and knowledge but definitely ego isssues.. He drills the guy about what is a metaphor literal or figurative and later he compares himself to Jesus the Messiah, and then brushes it off like it means nothing, no he suggests it and knows what he's doing...