How To Have Your Wife Drooling Over You

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@cechernandez 9 ай бұрын

My husband just got home and I met him at the door and he grinned and said were you waiting for me at the door? He loved it❤

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

LOVE that 🥺

@cechernandez 9 ай бұрын

@@MilenaCiciotti you guys are changing lives and strengthening marriages. I’ve seen the fruit big time in my life. I’m praying for y’all. 🤍

@fswan1944 9 ай бұрын

Have you read Fascinating Womanhood?? It's another great one on keeping husbands happy and adoring 😊

@mikeysflag1519 6 ай бұрын

Am doing this to my husband every day for the last 23 years❤❤. And kissing and hugging. And the faces of our teens😂😂😂 and the rolling eyes.😂

@isabelchapman1558 9 ай бұрын

These videos are such a gift. My husband started praying over me every night about a month or so ago and it has totally shifted our marriage. There's more tenderness and intimacy and spiritual alignment. Praise God!

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

Wow praise the Lord!!

@Brianna-yh7iy 9 ай бұрын

Milena, it’s so refreshing to have a godly channel to watch on KZfaq ❤️

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

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@marinahall5752 9 ай бұрын

Yes! Can we have more husband perspective videos!? Love hearing their side on what we can do. I feel like a lot of men are closed off on how we can help them emotionally. Living for these series your putting out! ❤

@alicardon1013 9 ай бұрын

I was saved about 4 years ago. My husband and I had been married for 4 years at that point with 2 little baby boys. 1 chorinthians 7:14 is what I held onto dearly! Having faith that one day my unbelieving husband would be saved. Lo and behold, the Lord worked through my family like you wouldn’t believe 😭 my husband was saved about 2 years ago, praise God! It still blows my mind that Jesus would save a couple of punks like us. All the glory to God.

@rebekahdavis9052 9 ай бұрын

I’m believing this for my husband, praying for the Lord to pick him up and love on him like the father he never had. Our family needs this desperately. Our family needs more Jesus.

@Helloitslina13 7 ай бұрын

Husbands are grown men not boys that need a wife mother, they can make the same effort and decisions as the woman and also NEED to put the SAME effort as the wife does, not all the weight relies on the wife to make a marriage work 🤦🏻‍♀️

@AbbeyStorm 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely but the only person I can change is myself. "Be the change you want to see"

@jenniferwalsh1731 4 ай бұрын

Exactly! They have this video and one for the other spouse too :)

@paytongrant8103 9 ай бұрын

I have tears imagining my husband praying over me. I beleive the day will come in the name of Jesus.

@flowersandlace 9 ай бұрын

i’m praying for the same thing 🤍🕯️🙏

@WalkWithFaith7 9 ай бұрын

It’ll come!! I’m not as long as the older women she talked about but I prayed for my husband for a while I’ve been saved 5 years and just this last Easter he got baptized me and my mama prayed for him everyday straight and had people in church pray for him and I saw his heart soften now we read the Bible and pray he’s still growing in doing things on his own (we’re always growing lol) but for him to be open to all these things is such a amazing prayer answered. Keep praying keep inviting him to church, my hubby use to play video games when I took the kids to church each week now he gets upset missing a week. It seems like it won’t ever change but it will be the light and love of Christ Jesus will soften his heart God bless ❤

@iwillforeverpraisethee 8 ай бұрын

Amen! His timing is perfect! Praying for that day too! ❤

@jademeador9527 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for these videos! My husband and I have been walking through a super tough season in our marriage. Milena your video inspired me to pray over a renewed mind and spirit for my husband & I and also strive more to honor my husband biblically. Working on myself ; I can tell has changed the way my husband treats me and responds to me. Thank you both!

@RevivedRadiance. 9 ай бұрын

Wonderful! I love this and the other one too. I listen to your videos during my workouts! My husband wasn’t a Christian for the majority of our relationship. By the grace of God, he accepted Jesus on our 7th year! 🎉 It has now been 10 years for us. This year, our eldest son died and it has only strengthened both of our faith. I’m not sure that would’ve been the case had he not come to God a few years prior. God’s timing is immaculate.

@moriahjade 9 ай бұрын

I absolutely love the moments that Jordan makes guest appearances with you on your channel. It’s nice to hear a man’s point of view, and it’s great that you guys model such a healthy relationship 🤍

@hailycampbell7578 6 ай бұрын

I love the messages here! There’s a lot of truth. It is important to note that you can and should still have healthy conversations regularly about what you need from each other so that you can meet each others’ needs. Women don’t have to silently hope and pray. Prayer is powerful, but so is acting and speaking in kindness.

@cheryldemouey1068 9 ай бұрын

So much wisdom! I pray God continues to use you and Jordan to bless the lives of others. Thank you for opening up and sharing this with us!

@LilyanaLunny 9 ай бұрын

I don’t want this series to end 😭😭😭 I can’t wait to hear what Jordan has to say!!!

@louricka 9 ай бұрын

i absolutely love these type of videos!! it's also very refreshing to see Jordans perspective as a husband. even though i'm not married nor engaged yet, i enjoy watching videos like these that prepare me for when the time comes. glory to God for this, may God continue to bless your marriage together. thank you for letting us witness a piece of it hehe ❤

@ashb2404 9 ай бұрын

Some much of showing true love is doing things we do not necessarily FEEL like doing in the moment... But its so worth it in the long term... And it goes so much further than our words do... but in the right moments words are good too... when my husband seems stressed by work or nor loving it i try to find a moment to thank him for providing for us so well Love the direction your channel has taken.. 😊

@nicolemarie4216 9 ай бұрын

Loving these videos! Sending them to my married friends. I’m noticing so many marriages going through trials - the spiritual attacks are so real and heavy right now.

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

amen sis amen!!

@MegaTelenovela 9 ай бұрын

I love it when you guys make videos together and get Jordan's perspective too ❤

@aschialnna 9 ай бұрын

I loved this SO much😭 This is such a beautiful and eye-opening series!! Ughhh keep it comingg!!!

@Nwabi23 9 ай бұрын

Milena!! You guys these video are so precious! You are helping us so so so much 🥺♥️ Praise God!

@TheProudmummy3 2 ай бұрын

Thank you!! Yall did a really great job at breaking all this down.

@Homewithlinds 9 ай бұрын

Love this!!! Loves that he mentioned about working out❤❤

@jeska7309 9 ай бұрын

Lol the chaining to the bed got me cracking up….you guys are so cute! Jordan spilling your tea 😂 appreciate this video! Thank you❤

@lemonsweetheart09 9 ай бұрын

Would it be possible to do a video on your winter capsule wardrobe, how you continue to wear feminine dresses even in cold weather?❤

@elyanieto8164 9 ай бұрын

I tried the quick pick up of the house before my husband got home and the first thing my husband said when we greeted each other was “the house looks nice babe” and all I could do was laugh to myself because it worked 😂

@Aliciae2009 9 ай бұрын

Praying with your husband is truly beautiful ❤

@Meleannieliz 8 ай бұрын

I’m glad you guys shared what you guys are going through bc that is my life rn. My husband is a busy man, he’s in the military and electrician it’s hard to actually spend intentional time together. And I know it’s just a season☁️✨ God bless you guys

@OSHANNARAE 9 ай бұрын

I loved this. Thank you for this video it was truly a blessing ❤

@carlykamps411 8 ай бұрын

It’s awesome to take responsibility for being Christ like to your spouse, 100%. However, biblically , a lot of these things start with the husband- you said, “A lot of these things start with the wife.”God’s will is that husbands reflect Christ, and Christ is the initiator, He is the example of love that wives respond to with love in return. In Christian culture, I notice often just how much pressure is put on women to hold the relationship. Husbands are called to be the head, the head is the source of the body. I wish more husbands would see the seriousness of their role as a husband SO that women could respond. This video series seems to assume women are generally constantly nagging, abrasive - laughing at their husbands prayers to their face? Does that really happen with people? Am I missing something? That’s insane. I like to believe the best in women, especially Christian women. No one is perfect, but to laugh in someone’s face as they are praying speaks to a more serious issue that’s not related to the gender of “woman.” I’m thankful I have a wonderful husband; and I will not stop being Christ to him if he ever were to stop being Christ to me. However it is incorrect to say that it starts with the wife and we need to be cautious of putting traditional views (which often blame the woman for everything, even if they are the ones getting abused)- over scripture.

@Dahlily 8 ай бұрын

I'm not a christian, but i appreciate this comment 🙏 it always goes two ways!

@hailycampbell7578 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for saying this 🫶🏻

@caiohme19 9 ай бұрын

Hi Milena, thank you for making these videos. I’ve been a single mom for 11 years I use to write letters to my future husband but stopped due to pain from past relationships, but as of recently The Lord is softening my heart and placed a desire in me for marriage. He has me praying for my future husband every Tuesday and not just my future husband but my daughter’s and son’s future spouse. So these videos are helping me to prep myself to be a godly wife who is intentional about the things I do for my future husband. Thank you for you faithfulness in the Lord and being a example of how a godly holy wife should carry herself. 😊❤

@shyranewbill7907 8 ай бұрын

so beautifully said! I will try this myself ❤

@angelrose23a 9 ай бұрын

These are great tips! Some I already do and others I need to work on! Your channel is such a blessing ❤ I’m curious if you would ever do a video on books you have found helpful or life changing in motherhood, marriage or your walk with God?

@kourtneynino2070 9 ай бұрын

I seriously just love these videos!!

@StoicAurelius1 5 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you so much, you’re a such a good husband, you challenged all of us husbands to do better not just to expect our wives to do good when we just stand by. I will definitely subscribe to your channel.

@Urban_Off-Grid 9 ай бұрын

New subscribers and I have to say I’ve watched several videos now. I’m loving it. Thank you guys for honoring Abba and sharing. The world needs more of this. 💜🙌🏽💌 blessings to your family.

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

wow praise the Lord 🥺

@TheTwoWitnesse5 8 ай бұрын

The way you both look at eachother is so beautiful.

@gembets 9 ай бұрын

Love you guys I continue to learn so much through you both ❤ that I install in my life daily

@user-bk3tu5gh9h 9 ай бұрын

Love your channel so much!! ❤❤❤

@emilyfield937 9 ай бұрын

Love this series as someone newly married to gain wisdom and start these things now

@itskaylajim 9 ай бұрын

I am 2 minutes into the video and you both called me out!! THATS A GOOD THING! I would have send this to my husband mad but you reminded me what I want to really do is pray for the change and let god do the work, cause he will do a way better job than me!!! Thank you Jordan and milena ❤🙏🏽

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

Amen sister!!

@chatswithkass1496 9 ай бұрын

There’s no greater love than someone who will pray with you and for you. Because they literally love you THAT much to take your needs to JESUS who is the one our soul loves more than anything else in this world. ❤ so good!

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN

@laurenclark1439 9 ай бұрын

I love how right after I watched milena’s video, I was saying I wish Jordan would put one out so I could show my husband ☺️

@Dana-mb1hd 3 ай бұрын

I love you guys! This video is SOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!!!!❤

@SavviSchaub 9 ай бұрын

I would LOVE for you two to do a video or podcast on how to fight fairly with your spouse!!

@PerfectGodPursuingMe 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for letting us witness your marriage. Great tips shared here.

@alychiriboga2511 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this video! 💗

@user-nh5zx4um6p 9 ай бұрын

Loved this 💝 Be well 🤍💙🤎

@nicolericca2581 9 ай бұрын

Needed these videos so much.

@ryleevavra8619 9 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh y’all we need SO MUCH MORE husband and wife and living godly together content! Please keep this going. I need this. My marriage needs this!! ❤

@kendracassidy6975 9 ай бұрын

Breaking of bad habits 😭😭 2 mins in and needed this!

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

🙌🏻🙌🏻

@mommyjaslynn 9 ай бұрын

Excited to listen

@a.kay.c 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely love this video! Hearing about the woman who’s husband turned to Christ after 67 years was encouraging to hear. ❤ 1 Peter 3:1 says, “wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without talk by the behavior of their wives”. Let’s be women who win over our unbelieving husbands!

@nbabombshell 9 ай бұрын

Yesss thank you for doing the other side .

@graciefreed 9 ай бұрын

I love hearing The Lord speak through y’all 🥰

@RevivedRadiance. 9 ай бұрын

I’m cracking up so hard at the end “go make-out with your spouse. Byee!”

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

🤣🤣

@cechernandez 9 ай бұрын

I want a video from you and Jordan where he gives the male perspective on how to make your husband drooling.

@Anouchka95Z 9 ай бұрын

Yes I had the same thoughts

@HOMANRACING15 9 ай бұрын

Yes please my thought aswell

@user-zy2se5ki3r 8 ай бұрын

Love this thank you both

@themellowmama 9 ай бұрын

At 7:20 you guys cover the very concept that I believe clearly illustrates Conscious parenting- Demonstrating God’s unconditional love to our children & spouse; reaching for curiosity and connection and modeling as opposed to fear, criticism and manipulation. ❤

@brookebales2931 9 ай бұрын

Great points y’all 👍

@user-sc8mj1jf3n 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your opening testimony about that woman and her husband being saved. Praying daily for my husband to fall in love w Jesus the way have. I truly believe and have faith that one day my husband will be leading our family through Christ ❤️

@slsmith-xp2hq 9 ай бұрын

Yes .. I love this other point of view!

@emilyvelazquez7884 Ай бұрын

I love these videos you have on marriage. Would it be possible to make a video for people who are dating someone they plan to marry? I want to know how we can prepare for marriage and also connect emotionally.

@TheWanderingPreacher 8 ай бұрын

Very well said!

@robiniapseudoacacia3 5 ай бұрын

I love this one too! I need to allow my husband more time to work out. For a while I was hindering him.

@hbsabrine3579 8 ай бұрын

Im a muslim and I am learning so much from your channel. And after watching a few videos in your channel, I can definitely say that there are so many similarities in the way God expects us to live this life. Which makes sense obviously, since it is the same God. Bless you and your family❤

@Lilly-mq2uk 9 ай бұрын

Can you do a singles mess series, how to prepare, what to look for as a single person etc, how to deal with feelings of uncertainty during the last days.

@AP-mz5tb 9 ай бұрын

Jordan is spot on

@Mags106 6 ай бұрын

The bit about going to bed together is so true.

@meschouxpetits 9 ай бұрын

Omg your cat is so cute.

@yashaswiupadhyay1579 9 ай бұрын

Love your videos! I was wondering where you got your copy of the bible? I’m not a Christian but really want to read it

@Aliciae2009 9 ай бұрын

My grandma was one if those lady that won here husband to the lord ❤

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

wow praise the Lord!!

@lindabueckert9559 8 ай бұрын

Yes.. wives need attention. And help in the home.

@ayannabrinae5869 9 ай бұрын

Can you please make a video about how you guys kept your relationship spiritually appropriate as you transitioned from gf and bf to engaged to married or tips

@meccashields1415 8 ай бұрын

I believe that she already did one but it was a while ago. Years ago I think.

@amywilliams6321 9 ай бұрын

If you are dating or married to a non believer - just let God do his thing. Praise him in all you do and it will be contagious ❤

@micahmaxim 9 ай бұрын

As a believer, dating an unbeliever is not a wise, and most likely a sinful idea. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked. But if someone is married to an unbeliever for one reason or another, yes! The Lord will work and use you. As he says in His word. ❤️

@2frenchies777 9 ай бұрын

@@micahmaximWhat if when you got married he was a believer and then through time and years of marriage he isnt? Im not saying this is happening to me. Im just asking out of curiosity?

@jessica-jr1uc 8 ай бұрын

Could you please share the preaching you mentioned in this video regarding praying with you wife 🙏🏼

@jenniferhall8316 8 ай бұрын

prayer and having worship is very intimate,

@ileana.e.jimenez 9 ай бұрын

LOL not me listening to this around my kids and the first thing that comes out of Jordans mouth is "SEX". I never put on headphones so fast in my life 🤣

@susannahjoy4220 9 ай бұрын

LOL Had the same thing happen the other day, had it playing in the back ground, left room for a minute and she was on that subject. Just gotta remind myself she is a "watch while kids sleep" channel 😂 (not complaining, or bad mouthing, I enjoy her channel so much, like having that close girl friend you can Share all your struggles with and get good advice)

@youtubeacc 8 ай бұрын

Sex isn’t shameful. That could have been a great teaching point

@HarmonyandHope7 9 ай бұрын

6:09 this is so true! My husband (who is a minister) is the one who nags, complains, etc and is not affectionate unless he wants sex which he thinks/calls “quality time” so as a result I emotionally shut down, it’s so confusing to think that I’m suppose to ignore my feelings and still give my body. 😫 other than his attitude & situational affection, he’s a good husband.

@JoleenBardowell 9 ай бұрын

Pray for your marriage

@feather8894 9 ай бұрын

you don't ever have to ignore your feelings and "give your body". your feelings are valid and if you ignore them for too long, the situation will only get worse. maybe talk to your husband? if you are afraid this talk might turn into a fight (which sometimes is also fine, because humans have complex emotions and anger is often triggered when we are/feel vulnerable - which is good, because a marriage the the place for vulnerability!) I encourage you to look into nonviolent communication. Also choose the right time and place to talk about this issue. I hope this helps and good luck! xx

@monicajackson5869 9 ай бұрын

It's sad how so many "godly" men are the ones mistreating their wives. This is not the first testimony I have heard like this. I sympathize with you sis. Would he be willing to go to a Christian marriage counselor? Prayer and fasting on your end is needed in this matter, along with communication with you husband about what you need from him. Nagging and criticism kills the intimacy on so many levels

@shannonm2005 9 ай бұрын

I watch these videos and read the comments and I just think “how do I get a spouse?” I pray about, yet I’ve been single for years and nothing really seems to change. This content is beautiful and heart warming. As a 31 year old single mom (my sons father left when he was 1.5). This just makes my heart ache because I long for this but it’s just not in Gods will. Idk how people get so lucky to find men of God at such a young age who love and admire them and put them in a position to raise children, rather than work full time. I’ve never been blessed with a man who either A. Truly loved me or B. Had any ambition for the future it’s always one or the other. So many married couples who love each other in the comments, how do you even meet people nowadays? Asking for a friend. Prayers if anyone comes across this comment. I found the Lord much later in life and now I fear being alone forever or not being able to get married young enough to have a family and children. May God bless all of your marriages I pray peace and prosperity over all of your families.

@alexarc3815 8 ай бұрын

For your Maker is your husband, the LORD of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called. Isaiah 54:5. I recently listened to a woman who went through a long season of singleness and still is, and prayed to God about it, and his response was this verse. It is different, buut, there is no better husband than him! While you are waiting for a human husband, ask God what it looks like for him to be your husband. I hope you will find encouragement and know that you having faith later in life was in God's perfect timing!

@saramcclernan 5 ай бұрын

Omg the hand towels 😂😭 I'm glad I'm not the only woman who deals with that. God help us lol

@avalucia1828 9 ай бұрын

I love this - thank you for sharing! I keep wondering why Milena does not wear a wedding ring anymore lol

@sarademill1934 9 ай бұрын

It broke

@hatchlylopez6024 9 ай бұрын

As a wife, I’m applying all of this to myself 🤭

@jessicamorris2955 9 ай бұрын

BINGO!!🎯

@Jackie-fy7ke 9 ай бұрын

Milena I like your videos but honestly this was way better getting your husband’s perspective because when it was just you telling wives what they should do or advice it made me feel guilty but with both perspectives it really made me understand why I act or feel the way I feel sometimes.

@JESUSSavesWAKEUP 7 ай бұрын

My husband cheated on me while pregnant with my cleaner and 4 weeks postpartum while moving across country with a newborn. I tried that and now im done. Im done.

@lamarquescoleman9747 9 ай бұрын

Alright proverbs 31, force to be reckoned with!!

@blakejordan3742 9 ай бұрын

Finding the hero in your husband by Dr Juli Slattery 100/10 recommend!!!!! ❤

@cechernandez 9 ай бұрын

I loveee this…honor your husband regardless of if he deserves it bc it’s positional honor not deserved honor 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@globetrotter3956 9 ай бұрын

Lol My husband’s behavior, words, and actions should absolutely impact how I treat him. The same should apply to me. Being a man in the relationship does not mean anything. Husband and wife are equal and should be treating each other with the same respect and love.

@youtubeacc 9 ай бұрын

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@feather8894 9 ай бұрын

@@globetrotter3956 thank you so much, I really needed to read this after finishing the whole video. Man and woman are not only of equal value but deserve the same respect, freedom of choice and "honour".

@heyoitsrico100 5 ай бұрын

where is your cardigan from?? Please

@Nieshas_mind 9 ай бұрын

Please do a video on how to give your marriage to the lord...

@annamoore7654 9 ай бұрын

My husband and I always say “is that my *insert sweet nickname*?” When either of us come home and it makes us feel seen and loved ❤

@MilenaCiciotti 9 ай бұрын

love that 🥺 how sweet

@bakedvegan6379 9 ай бұрын

#4 is number 1 for me lol

@Watchitthere 9 ай бұрын

Amen amen!!!!

@raeleighfranklin5243 9 ай бұрын

I do have a quick question you mentioned earlier that we should stick by our partners, even when we feel as though they don’t deserve it. How do you go about it when a sense of trust has been broken in any way it could be infidelity, spiteful words, or even lack of honesty, how do you continue to serve your partner and when do you know it’s enough to draw the line.

@2frenchies777 9 ай бұрын

I honestly feel like only you would know that. Have you prayed about it? Is your spouse doing everything he can to try to fix things or does he have a sense of he doesn't care? There are so many factors that play into a situation like this.

@kevi308 7 ай бұрын

Praying the Lord saves our husbands as well and that we may one day very soon experience a Godly marriage

@annelinnn 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing all this wisdom! 🤍

@toade22 9 ай бұрын

Good points! ...but I am not sure how these things are based on the wife or start with the wife. Especially when we look at the relationship between Christ and The Church, when the husband is called to lead ..and when initially men 'lead' 'start' the chase as it pertains to courtship/dating. Each person should play their role ..but I don't see it as starting or lasting with the wife. Based on order I imagine it be moreso the husband ...or the person who is called / lead to ...make the change because it can go either way.

@monicajackson5869 9 ай бұрын

I was literally getting ready to type this message! It doesn't start with the wife, it continues with her. The husband has given the instruction to love...period! Lead in love and grace and she will follow in love and grace.

@taylorowens4290 9 ай бұрын

so good. it starts with the wife. needed to hear that.

@grobbymuleya 3 ай бұрын

The part of respecting your spouse even if you’re not happy with them is kinda like the structure in the military or government. You respect the rank like you would a commanding officer or the president. After all why would you disrespect someone you chose to call your husband or wife.

@emilymildner 5 ай бұрын

Even if a wife is nagging, even if she is contemptuous, immature, and failing, her husband, by the grace of God, can and ought to love. He can sit down, look her in the eyes, and listen to her, even if she isn’t a good wife. Men are capable of loving their wives even when they are not lovely. The same goes for women, too! So long as there is not abuse or danger, there needs to be consistent love outstretched, spiritual/emotional/physical intimacy initiated, and consistent effort to be the spouse and person that God calls us to be. God gives us all we need. He is our strength, our protection, and our joy. If you are experiencing strain or hurt in your marriage, I am so sorry. That is not how it’s supposed to be. Stay strong in the Lord and remember that he cares for you. That he sees you. That he will uphold you. Continue on in love and prayer❤️

@katruth 9 ай бұрын

Hi Milena, would you be able to explain if we need to submit spiritually to our husband? And if so, what does that look like? My husband is absolutely a leader in every way and I LOVE IT but I struggle with the idea of submitting spiritually. I'm not sure why - I don't feel threatened by his leadership, it's more that I don't agree with some of the conclusions he's come to about scripture. I'll use an extreme example: let's say a husband thinks that giving a child a smack as a punishment is acceptable but the wife does not agree with hitting children. What should the wife do if she clearly feels like that is wrong? Submit and be quiet about it and trust that her husband knows best? Does she have to correct the children in the same way? Or should she challenge him and object to hitting children? (Without it being naggy) Would love to hear your thoughts about this and it would really help me.

@jIlLiAnganz 9 ай бұрын

My heart hurts so bad watching this video because I've been praying for years for my husband to have these breakthroughs. Please keep me in your prayers - That I can keep a good heart to believe "If God can do that in/through Jordan, He can do it in my husband," instead of feeling comparison. God is no respecter of persons, what He can do for one, He can do for another, right? I want so badly to be encouraged by seeing godly husbands, instead of feeling deep sorrow that my desire for that is unmet.

@WalkWithFaith7 9 ай бұрын

No person is to far for Christ ❤keep praying the Lord will soften his heart he did for my husband just recently I never thought he would be as open as he is now don’t ever give up praying 🙏🏻

@instagram6445 7 ай бұрын

You need to fast