I wish someone told me all these long before now. Mistakes I made in my teenage age, I did because of the dysfunctional home I came from. So many things I accepted, I did because of the dysfunctional background I came from. But I am honestly happy and grateful it is coming now.. I thank God for the transformation he is doing in my life, my heart and my mind. I will marry right and my partner and I will be good Godly parents, in Jesus name 🙏🏾 Amen
@godgrace5619 ай бұрын
I also made mistakes in my teenage age due to the same problem, I wish I heard this teaching during that time but I thank God that it will help me to be a better parent
@olabisidurojaiye9 ай бұрын
Amen
@olabisidurojaiye9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir. This are the things we have denied for a long time. This is practicality and reality .
@ogechukwundukwu80289 ай бұрын
Amen.
@SpaceMattersRealty8 ай бұрын
Amen!
@user-ux1fl2ui9p7 ай бұрын
I was cutt off from my entire family back in 2000, I had just turned 4years. I was raised by my father's cousin,this woman raised me with a hand of iron. I didn't have a childhood, because my guardian forced me to be all grown up by the age of 5years . Till I turned 20years, the only time I felt loved and accepted was when I met Jesus Christ, with a changed heart I left my country Uganda to Qatar so as to find myself and purpose. I believe oneday I will find my way back home. Every child needs a parent,so never be absent in your child's life. Love y'all ❤
@sarafinaok7 ай бұрын
God bless you and be with you always
@feliciadickson80726 ай бұрын
Sending you love and virtual hugs 🫂
@BenitaTdaughterofZion6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤, lots of Love, thanks for the testimony
@Namuggah5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry that the adults around you failed to protect you. You are so loved and it does get better
@user-ux1fl2ui9p5 ай бұрын
@@Namuggah Bless you
@clotildefaye59107 ай бұрын
Whenever this man speaks he soothes something in my soul. Yet, at the same time, because of the content of his messages, he is pointing out my hidden hurts. God bless him 🙏🏽
@delmwadeshi9007 ай бұрын
Sir, I've only recently found you, but in the few months that I've watched you, you've brought clarity to long suffered situations, and all I can say is you are undoing decades of the work of the enemy. The Lord only can bless you for us.
@sonitayufenyuy41287 ай бұрын
Ive never heard my life described to me like this..I have dady n mumy issues..no wonder pple are always taking advantage of my vulnerability, it ends today, Jesus has healed me 😫🙌🙌🙌
@mercyforster59878 ай бұрын
My children will have healthy relationships in Jesus name amen
@mheyrie4 ай бұрын
Amen and me too
@sougerianqueen99033 ай бұрын
Heavenly Father help me to express myself and live out every gift and talent you have blessed me with 🙏🏽 I uproot every wrong foundation in my life 🙏🏽 Father Lord help me to a better parent and speak life into my children to inspire and motivate them to their full Godly potential 🙏🏽 Lord have your way with me and remove any fear from my mind that is holding me back 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I manifest the calling upon my life in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏽 I Break Free 🙏🏽 Walk gallantly 🙏🏽I Break Into New Expressions 🙏🏽 I live the life God has given to me 🙏🏽 I become bold and audacious 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽
@Helenteee3 ай бұрын
The father is the law giver the mother is the law interpreter.God bless you Apostle. Coming from a dysfunctional family can break you even as a girl child, you would have to be looking for love even from the people that would still take advantage because you are vulnerable. May we all be healed.
@JournalwithPraise8 ай бұрын
Literally getting the therapy I knew I’ve always needed from this channel 😊
@savanna39859 ай бұрын
The emphasis should be on HEALTHY PRESENT parents. My father was a very abusive alcoholic who damaged us beyond explanation and I wish he wasn't present. Because of him I transferred my issues to my husband and its now that I am getting therapy
@Pearlrutherichard8 ай бұрын
I get out from the definitions of others. I refuse to walk in the projections of the insecurities of others. It's the beginning of a new order for me. I will not be a grave yard of God's abilities and talents for me. I will not be subjected to the moulds of others nor will I massage their ego anymore. I shall become all that God wants me to be. I shall bless the world with all that God has placed in me. I break into new expressions. I'm no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions. I am God's child. I manifest after my divine ordination.I am no longer held back. I have the spirit of boldness and audacity. I will not be small. I impact the world. I am relevant and useful.I am free from today henceforth. Thank you Apostle Femi. Thank you Jesus.
@michaelmadubuko54194 ай бұрын
Amen Amen Amen
@GraceChimera-tn6jl5 ай бұрын
Oh wow😭😭 It's like you're talking about me I didn't go home for holiday last semester becoz of the same reason I admire my friends who cant wait to go home for holiday😭 I stayed on campus for the whole holiday alone and people kept asking me why I can't go home I felt sorry for myself May God bless you apostle femi God is speaking to me through your teachings I know will have a Godly marriage and my children will not go through what I'm going through because of my husband and I
@folashadeadeoye74219 ай бұрын
Sir , you have perspective into this matter, I have never heard anyone talk about it this way. This series is a confirmation of the things that God is speaking to my heart and the podcast he told me to start . Thank you , thank you sir
@JournalwithPraise8 ай бұрын
Finally started a KZfaq channel this year and seeing this message at the point where I was going to quit is really special to me. Thank God I saw this message 😊❤❤
@PassysKitchenАй бұрын
If you grew up in a complete home with parents who gave you the right guidance please be most grateful for that. Unfortunately some of us didn’t have that privilege but thank God for the gift of the Holy Spirit🙏. Thank you @Pastor Femi🙏.
@osakpolodanielighodaro155910 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this message, it was on point, Dishing out realities some of us struggled with for years. I have always felt I was living in the shadow of myself for years. It feels like I always put up something that am not. Always trying to please others(sustaining the image people have about me). The only time I show my talents is if there is someone then to encourage me. Thank you soo much sir for this message. I almost deleted this chat but I told myself that I must break free. I break free.
@swillztv405210 ай бұрын
Amen in Jesus name! I'm so rooting for you.
@Adojipeniela7 ай бұрын
You are brave for this and I thank you for showing us the real you,God bless you!😊
@MagmayChannel7 ай бұрын
I love you ❤
@ribaker8226 ай бұрын
🤗❤
@tapestryoflove075 ай бұрын
Amen!
@ruthchanda64448 ай бұрын
Grew up in a system where we were told marriage is problematic. Dont submit to a man he will take advantage of you. Get all possible achievements to intimidate your husband and so forth. I am so thankful to the Holy Spirit that it is now before my marriage that i am now unlearning all the things my dysfunctional environmental taught me. Holy Spirit help me Lord i pray thee. Amen
@BenitaTdaughterofZion6 ай бұрын
Very westernlike. I'm being raised the same way, thank God for delivering me in my youthful years.
@temiloluwaadebisi753610 ай бұрын
I break free Thank you so much sir I came from a dysfunctional family so I understand and can relate. This message is for me. I am relieved ❤️ Thank you sir 😁🥳
@ronnazya2984 ай бұрын
My father abandoned us for another family, i always told myself that everything was good because we all turned out successfully, however, I have come to realize how that has affected me but I believe God is healing my heart, rewriting my story as I dedicate my life to him. I am free and will have a successful happy family . Thank you Man of God
@isabellannaji19178 ай бұрын
This message is needed. I’ve been so Hurt and scarred so much that it feels I might never heal😢, I’m trusting God for healing
@insidetoriashead89898 ай бұрын
You will heal...keep leaning on God and open your heart
@joan.frankish87168 ай бұрын
There is nothing the Holy Spirit cannot heal
@joyologe85878 ай бұрын
You being aware means the healing has started already.
@Adojipeniela7 ай бұрын
On this journey too,we will both break free!😊
@marylinus32555 ай бұрын
Thank God I got to listen to this message, before I got married. God bless and increase u, Apostle Femi.
@rebeccaamonor49093 ай бұрын
Stepping out in faith virtually. “I break into new expressions. I am no longer a slave to people’s opinions or emotions. I will not try to manage people’s emotions.” Today is the day I finally break free!
@imoakpadiaha94119 ай бұрын
I also came from a dysfunctional background… now I know where all my insecurities, fears, etc come from… I believe that I'm beginning to be transformed and free tho, though God bless you sir🙌🏾😭
@boystarlightstn26709 ай бұрын
i step out of all that hold me back from expression and am no longer a slave to people's emotions, Amen.
@flourishmaxwell44274 ай бұрын
Amen
@adewoyinadenike24158 ай бұрын
I don’t know what pastor Femi is trying to achieve in these series, my mind cannot process it all. But whatever it is may it be one of the best things he will achieve through Christ in his ministry. No lies, I lose and miss words to describe how this is blessing me.
@babatundebukola45968 ай бұрын
This message is deep. thank you sir for allowing God to use you for us. so many of these things you said affects me, but I'm breaking out. I am consciously walking out of this abuse today. I BREAK FREE. I AM FREE.
@arise68868 ай бұрын
Thanks God for your life
@insidetoriashead89898 ай бұрын
You're free!
@tildahmagoba77618 ай бұрын
Absolutely loving this series. It's refreshing to see the church address dysfunctions in the family
@sharon_Stralia2 ай бұрын
Apostle...i know God is blessing you..... But this is special.... GOD WILL BLESSSSSS YOU. i am glad i watching these teaching while on summer break i have all the time.
@QueenEsthersDiaries9 ай бұрын
This series is a much-needed Therapy for me. Thank you so much sir!
@kemeyfal8 ай бұрын
I agree, therapeutic session
@munachionuigbo8 ай бұрын
He said that when a mother is missing in the life of a child,the child becomes wayward because she has to develop some sort of strength at a certain age. Some mother's push their children to the wall sometimes by expecting so much from them . For instance because you have sent your child to primary and secondary school you start expecting that child to be paying bills at home ,you start billing the child unnecessarily. You never appreciate what the child brings to the table and that's not fair. Later on when you and this child don't have connection. You make it look like the child is stubborn,evil spirit is following the child
@11Dreams7 ай бұрын
I agree some moms and dads behave this way - they are dysfunctional. The purpose of this series is to help bring healing, break that cycle so we do not unknowingly repeat dysfunction with our own children/wards, and help manage the relationship with the parents with “wisdom”. Yes. We need to forgive & honour the parent no matter what they did - it helps with healing and opening doors.
@yveunacks474210 ай бұрын
I break free, I break into new expressions, I am no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions, I live the life God has given to me. Thank you Apostle, this was for me even down to the dancing part. It's a new day for me. Thank you Father.
@vickyike79686 ай бұрын
Pastor Femi, I am gradually getting addicted to your messages. Chai…. Raw truth. No embellishment. PURE truth. God bless you sir.
@priscillatravis9 ай бұрын
The relief I feel in my heart😩🙌🏽🙌🏽is unexplainable. God bless you so much Sir
@joeloludamilola872710 ай бұрын
Glorayyyyyyyyyy🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩!!!! I'm freeeeee!!!!! Thank you so much, father❤... It was a session of deliverance for meee!
@mabeludoh40327 ай бұрын
Thank you for opening my eyes...will definitely train my children well
@calebsyoutube10907 ай бұрын
i shed tears watching this. thank you sir. i'm free from the burdens of my family.
@omotolaniabolade50939 ай бұрын
Thank you JESUS I was at the verge of losing my mind and your video pop up on my instagram page😢... I was a lovely and sweet girl but how i have become so cold and withdrew despite been a sanguine😢😢. Dysfunctional Background has really dealt with me and is affecting everything(i know this isnt me) God please help and healme😢😢 1:32:00(i cant express and communicate well)😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@femi_lazarus9 ай бұрын
We will love that you watch all the series to get complete insight and healing that you need. Our prayers are with you always
@SpaceMattersRealty8 ай бұрын
God loves you queen and wants you healed. No matter what happens, please be positive always and hold on to God. I am rooting for you.
@princesskara562829 күн бұрын
I am so grateful I started watching Pastor Femi’s messages. I have had my fair share of mistakes as a young lady, but never an again because it ends with me. Moving forward with the help of the Holy Spirit, I will be better🙏🙏
@11Dreams7 ай бұрын
So true. A person from a dysfunctional family or household must heal first because he/she has the tendency to perpetuate the same mistakes they encountered when growing up.
@Humanandwellness6 ай бұрын
God bless you apostle You actually mentioned my case of breaking free from the opinions of others and expression of oneself May your oil never run dry 🙏🙌
@chrisokoh74197 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this enlightenment. I have learnt a lot. Now i pray for myself and my siblings that the negative patterns in my family won't get to us. We will be the best husbands and wife to our spouses, Amen. God bless you for us.
@uncommonwealthentrepreneur924010 ай бұрын
I'm just getting to know this personality... The few clips I've watched on Instagram brought me over here to get more
@blessingnjeri982310 ай бұрын
Me too 😁
@japawithdeewon18810 ай бұрын
Me too😊
@izhabelbella52659 ай бұрын
Me too
@jessicaacheampong79549 ай бұрын
Me too
@abimbolaodubona45258 ай бұрын
Same here🔥🔥🔥🔥
@emergents593 ай бұрын
Just listening to this But wish i heard earlier Coming from a divorced home at an early age had to survive by myself Till i met the holy spirit Thank God for his love 😊
@talktimewithfifi10 ай бұрын
Such a powerful message. Thank you very much sir.
@thelmaejiro550910 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir We need more of this These are issues a lot of us are dealing with and it has really affected our relationships
@weliketravelsweliketravels75436 ай бұрын
Pastor you are what I asked God for . I’m a single mom and when I had my child in 2023, I asked God to help me raise him well , and then your messages comes up on instagram. Your words are therapeutic. Thank you.
@thelmachibemba69154 ай бұрын
I am always happy to be here. Thank you Lord for this message,it was not easy but your grace was abound.
@williamssarah93897 ай бұрын
God bless you sir for this I've listened to part 1&2and my God its an eye opener to be better and do better I break free from the opinion of men amen
@RomaricIKO9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much apostle for this timely messages. God bless you sir. You are indeed a gift from God.🙏
@SpaceMattersRealty8 ай бұрын
The comments are interesting an I'm learning from them as well. Thanks to all those who shared in the comments. May God heal us and our homes
@mphotshwaedi29047 ай бұрын
Pointing out my hidden hurts and now that I'm trying to build my life from scratch at 30😢I'm a victim of carelessness and a dysfunctional family background.God have mercy on me and my children.
@SholafunmiAregbesola6 ай бұрын
We'll be fine. It will be well.
@imoakpadiaha94119 ай бұрын
God bless you sir. This series is such a blessing to me🔥🔥🔥🔥
@oroboadeopeoluwa31059 ай бұрын
Thank you for this powerful message Sir. May God continue to increase you in wisdom and knowledge.
@Phoebenails1437 ай бұрын
I am so grateful to God , for bringing this sermon my way, My dysfunctionality had a touch one on me , But God in his infinite mercy saw me through, Thank God for healing , I am still in the process of healing , amd I can see the manifestation of His goodness , thank God for bringing this message my way, God I will forever be grateful , And I will serve you till everlasting, 🙏🏻
@ayobamiadebisi14458 ай бұрын
Oh my God!!! God bless you Apostle, I am freef from the grips of the opinion of men and living an expressive life of purpose
@Phoebenails1437 ай бұрын
Pastor Femi Lazarus , God bless you sir , Ur days shall be long , God , I been crying listening to you sir , God bless you, Thank God for healing ,
@joshinfiniti29868 ай бұрын
What! Such quality of information. This is the voice of God.
@joyokungbowa75522 ай бұрын
Powerful message , thank you sir.
@dollarsqueen6 ай бұрын
I'm actually in tears listening to this message, it tells a lot about me. Dear God heal me please 🥺🙏
@ADeepBreathWithYahweh5 ай бұрын
This topic of trauma and dysfunctionality VERY deep. Wow😢. But I thank for Jesus ! God bless you Apostle Femi!
@precieouxАй бұрын
i will heal and love and trust. i will have healthy relationships. God bless you apostle🙏🏻
@judithchika28587 ай бұрын
This message is a true blessing. I break free from every dysfunctionality. God bless you Apostle
@nimatayomide2238 ай бұрын
I step into a new expression🙏🏾I break free from every pain or thinking or anything holding me back🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
@marympesuka8 ай бұрын
I will be bold and audacious🙌🏾🙏🏾thank you for this teaching man of God,may God richly bless you...I am free indeed
@bukonlalawal79638 ай бұрын
4 things that are affected by dysfunctional backgrounds. 1. Relationships. I must find my expression. World judged by sight. Build healthy relationships begin with me and I must be mindful of people who enters my life When will I get out of the definition of me people have. Anyone who abuses me is not a friend of my destiny
@margaretbrima511210 ай бұрын
Thanks you sir you preach with reality God bless you and your ministry amen
@victorwinner49110 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this message sir🥺. It is a huge deliverance to many of us🙌 words cant describe how grateful I am sir🥺🔥
@adedojachristianah7516 ай бұрын
Very impactful. God bless you sir
@olabisidurojaiye9 ай бұрын
Yes sir. I just love how you disperse the truth. Fearless
@inatonekespiff8 ай бұрын
Beautiful message! Sinks deep , I have no words Sir!
@andrewyorke63998 ай бұрын
Such messages. We need it more...
@flourishmaxwell44274 ай бұрын
Father lord thank you for the freedom of expression 🙏🙏
@nmaumeh9 ай бұрын
This is sooooo valuable and liberating. God bless you exceedingly abundantly! If you belong to this house, please don’t joke with your pastor 🙏🏻 Blessings
@mercyforster59878 ай бұрын
This message is so liberating oo
@adenijitifeoluwa40798 ай бұрын
Thanks so much sir for been an incredible blessing;all glory to our great LORD GOD
@user-ky9ew4xp5e5 ай бұрын
Hallelujah thank You for this word 😢
@mercyforster59878 ай бұрын
Wao this is a balanced message. Thank you sir
@misanmeggison41566 ай бұрын
You spoke about me sir. My foundation has really affected my life.😢😢😢. Wish I knew all these before now
@adeolaadeniyi_Tv8 ай бұрын
This message met me at this time, am about to give up... I pray for total healing
@rosemondamponsah82436 ай бұрын
You are really an end time preacher.
@SimplyKea10 ай бұрын
This is so sad for me. My son’s father passed on five years ago. My son was just 6 years old. I pray for him daily that he becomes a strong brave man who knows who he is (identity).
@kemeyfal8 ай бұрын
Sending hugs, prayerfully look for a reliable male figure to be around your son.
@SimplyKea8 ай бұрын
@@kemeyfal he has uncles that are a huge part of his life. Thank you so much for the encouragement 🫂
@kemeyfal8 ай бұрын
@@SimplyKea Well done Mum
@tapestryoflove075 ай бұрын
I break free! What timely a message.
@deborahmanari42867 ай бұрын
Absolute truth, God bless you Sir
@kanyinsolaawe39766 ай бұрын
Thank you Apostle God bless you real good
@nazfav27577 ай бұрын
There is need for the church to preach messages that resonates with diverse realities of church members.
@carolineedoh5842 ай бұрын
Wait o are you serious with what you are saying about yourself?? That you can beat your chest to the whole world boldly like Samuel did in the Bible.I have just started following you online and it's like you are not of this generation.But I am so happy and I thank God for your life and your parents. May the Lord continue to strengthen you in Jesus name
@abiolaalice96118 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for breaking the tables of generalised ideology
@blessingochuole81005 ай бұрын
Am heal , and I am moving on in Jesus name 🙏
@boluwatifeolowo83907 ай бұрын
God bless you Sir for this message.
@thelma_s7 ай бұрын
1:41:10 Spoke to me directly. I struggle so much with expression. Very little confidence and most times I'm correct.
@victorjoy25846 ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus for Apst Femi Lazarus. 😢😢😢
@ezechinedu56927 ай бұрын
I am blessed to come in contact with this message. I will marry right and my marriage must work
@kansiimesarah50438 ай бұрын
Am crying 😭😭😭😭 I pray God heals me😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Olajumoke_Adeife9 ай бұрын
God bless you pastor Femi... this has blessed me and this is also my confirmation from God...may you never lost contact with God🔥🔥🔥
@ijeomanlemchukwu37327 ай бұрын
God blessed you and your family sir
@Marvskitchenn8 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this. God bless you and yours.
@specialagent76409 ай бұрын
This message was for me Thank Apst
@akubukoelizabeth9 ай бұрын
Thank you sirrrr Someone is finally preaching this
@franchescaasamoah30467 ай бұрын
I WILL HEAL. I AM HEALING AND I UAVE HEALED IN JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN 🙏 🙌