Good gracious I am grateful for stumbling upon this. I saw myself immediately as a verbal assassin and I can not stand that horrible side of myself. I can do so much better than I do now, but lately I just seem to continue ending up in this same space. What's even more pathetic is that I really want to see my man face his challenges and overcome them, but I have watched myself wither into a person I also detest after the resentment kicked in. I need God.

Bravo. This is brilliantly put together, very well articulated and 100% spot on. I say that as a marriage therapist with 16 years working with couples.

This video should be the most popular video ever! If every couple watched this, life would be so much easier and better!

I think your right on. You always hear one of the most important things for successful marriage is communication . We can communicate all day. But it must be meaningful and effective. I've been married 30 years and still learning things too enhance my marriage.

Both people must want to deeply do this. I implement ways to work on us, I was rededicated to god and my husband wasn’t, I involve biblical principles in my marriage and then some. He isn’t taking the charge to change his side of communication and yet, I’m always self aware of how I come off, reacting, while ensuring him that I’m listening. What’s so crazy is that his effort is Zero. So that means he’s not willing to change and that means he’s not self aware and doesn’t see his lack of husband efforts. But that’s great you too got it right! I’m very happy for y’all. To God give the glory.

I like the idea about studying your partner... What you suggested is not only genius, but romantic... The idea of my husband and I being so devoted to each other that we literally document every little thing about the person so that we can fully learn about our partner and understand them on a near scholarly level. Get a PHD in your partner

This message is so on point I watched it twice just now. I wish the text message at the end was still active… I need the 30 day communication challenge in my marriage.

This both blessed me and cut me at the same time. So glad I came across this. Going to share with my Husband. Thank you❤

It takes two willing participants to do this you can’t do this on your own

This is what you called learning from your mistakes and moving forward. 😊

May God provide you with love, respect and understanding for all of those who go through troubles in your marriages and if you are separated from your spouses. Keep the faith. Jesus loves you!

This man is a miracle and as soon cere as they come. Saved my relationship and myself.

Communication with the right people is key to help solving problems in your marriage. Instead of trying to gain the attention of other women & venting your frustrations about your spouses physical appearance, ie, she looks disgusting, or that she’s has terrible body order, you should be communicating with a marriage counselor & adjusting your behavior to accommodate your judgements. Do this with the right people. 🙏

Isn't it funny how all such types of videos are spot on but impossible to apply????

Communication is essential

Whew! I know a verbal assassin. 😬 Kills me a little more each time and he doesn’t understand why it’s so hurtful.

Beautifully articulated, so much gems in this presentation!! Thank you!!

Awesome video Hasani! I agree words can kill you!!

This is a perspective that is wonderful. I like what was said about compromise

This is so good, I can relate to everything that's been said

I recently discovered a fascinating video on how to prevent communication from becoming a destructive force in marriage. This video provided me with a fresh perspective on the importance of effective communication in a relationship and how to avoid common pitfalls that can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. I was impressed with the practical tips and unique approach presented in the video, and I'm eager to incorporate these ideas into my own relationship to keep it strong and thriving.

Thanks brother, I'm horrible at this. Lord help me!!!

I've been married 7 years and my wife really ignores me,disrespects me with in some ways I really feel she seems suspicious whatever she do I want her back to the same person she was when I met her. Don't even sleep in the same room.

Such a great message! Thank you

Focus in building the union other than fixing the person

This is very insightful!!

everything in that paragraph of the book describes what I've been dealing with in my marriage

THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY A BLESSING…… Thank You ❤️

Amazing I need in my marriage. I feel like I'm losing my husband.

This was amazing 👏🏾 🙌🏾. I have learned a lot thru this vid

Far sighted and near sighted differences are real...

Amazing ..... Thanks ❤️

I truly love this video this is so good, packed with loving information,you two are truly great wonderful trechers❤

Great message

Beautiful message. Thank you

Excellent

Eeeks. Persistence beats resistance. This is something that a former friend used to say all the time. He’s now serving time in jail! This works on yourself, but also works in manners for an abuser! This is a very tight rope to walk. She complained about trying to change each other but in the end his persistence beat her resistance! This is still abuse. The long game of waiting for things to blow over is still something people use today. Feeling is literal. But now is subjective. Today could be great and who knows what brings tomorrow? I think we should think more about tomorrow than what we feel today! Todays feelings could be tomorrow’s heartache!

Just listening to this...rich words

How to fix a husband that does the silent treatment and can't figure out how to communicate properly

I have learned so much from this.

I’m def a verbal assassin

This is amazing thank you so much !!

I am seeing this for the first time. Everything you said is so accurate. Is the offer still available?

Great information Thank you for sharing this! I was even inspired to start my own Christian communication channel 🙏🏾

Thanks for sharing this interesting video ❤❤❤

This was so good!

These two married on looks, mutual attraction and Church.

Dang he was talkin to me when it came to the whole Policy of Radical Honesty. I do allat wrong 😂 wow. Other points hit home too tho.

I find it hard to communicate with my girlfriend. Sometimes going out for a meal together is uncomfortable because we both just sit there in silence even tho we both just had fun at the water park before hand. I want to hear from actual people who have had bad communication and then managed to turn it around. Need a bit of hope

Will the communication challenge be happening again anytime soon?

I really love this. Thank you so much!

Just say yes

What should I do?

Great information

What should I do

Definitely an issue avoider

What if you’re husband talks too much? Just not to you!

This is absolutely amazing directly to the veins of love and immotions. God bless you sir

Nov. 8, 2023, i viewed this video on Communication. Towards the end you gave text info of how to acquire a 30 day challenge on communication. I tried using it unsuccessfully. However, I’d love to have the download if possible. Any direction as to how I can get a copy?

Good morning sir. Pls sir how can get to u I need to go to MARRIAGE cancelling academy. I want to be a marriage cancellor . Am v much ready to learn . Pls I need your help sir. Even if people pay for the teaching am also ready to pay for the teaching. Pls sir I need your help. Thank u.

My husband need help with communication. Please pray for him. His name is Joseph James Clemons Junior.

If one person is always wrong? How do you work through always being wrong?

Greetings and thank you. We sent text but haven’t received any response. Is the challenge still available? My wife and I could definitely benefit. Thank you again.

Wondering if you still have 30 day challenge available ?

Good 👍

Where can I purchase The Audacity of marriage book

Very good

How do I contact this man

What about when the husband is faithful, the wife cheats and then shuts down due to the husbands response/reaction?

i wiil be better

Couples academy I'm interested in the email because I'm from Australia. I can't txt from Australia please send me more information please 🙏

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That number doesn’t work 😩

What if you are outside of the US

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The number does not work

Why you does share Gospel to every one, So I does too?

I just stumbled across this video and Im blessed already 10mins into it. Please help me,Im going to be just a year into my marriage by January,but there's no peace nor excitement,my husband is the verbal assasin,always raining negative words on our marriage since we got wadded,he's the talkative type and loves to keep intouch with what happened/is happening around the world currently,and Im trying to adjust by watching the news and videos to be able to have something to discuss when we talk,because he's in the US and I'm in Africa,but it seems like nothing to him,he calls the marriage a failed marriage,a mistake and all the negativities you can imagine,though this is his third marriage,and our marriage is at the verge of tearing apart,sometimes I feel like just letting it go,because Im truly unhappy,please what do I do.

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Hello I've tried sending the text to 33444, but it would not go through.

Great message