Good gracious I am grateful for stumbling upon this. I saw myself immediately as a verbal assassin and I can not stand that horrible side of myself. I can do so much better than I do now, but lately I just seem to continue ending up in this same space. What's even more pathetic is that I really want to see my man face his challenges and overcome them, but I have watched myself wither into a person I also detest after the resentment kicked in. I need God.
@CisaGP10 ай бұрын
You wrote exactly how I feel right now .. wow
@MarlonFamilton2 жыл бұрын
Bravo. This is brilliantly put together, very well articulated and 100% spot on. I say that as a marriage therapist with 16 years working with couples.
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, we really appreciate it! Please continue to tune in, like, and share with others.
@studiooftheory2 жыл бұрын
This video should be the most popular video ever! If every couple watched this, life would be so much easier and better!
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We are so glad to hear that you found this video helpful. Please continue to tune in and share with others so they can benefit as well!
@EdG-rn7dk4 ай бұрын
I think your right on. You always hear one of the most important things for successful marriage is communication . We can communicate all day. But it must be meaningful and effective. I've been married 30 years and still learning things too enhance my marriage.
@user-we1tm3th7f4 ай бұрын
Both people must want to deeply do this. I implement ways to work on us, I was rededicated to god and my husband wasn’t, I involve biblical principles in my marriage and then some. He isn’t taking the charge to change his side of communication and yet, I’m always self aware of how I come off, reacting, while ensuring him that I’m listening. What’s so crazy is that his effort is Zero. So that means he’s not willing to change and that means he’s not self aware and doesn’t see his lack of husband efforts. But that’s great you too got it right! I’m very happy for y’all. To God give the glory.
@LordOfTheWings848 Жыл бұрын
I like the idea about studying your partner... What you suggested is not only genius, but romantic... The idea of my husband and I being so devoted to each other that we literally document every little thing about the person so that we can fully learn about our partner and understand them on a near scholarly level. Get a PHD in your partner
@joybeasley-young831 Жыл бұрын
This message is so on point I watched it twice just now. I wish the text message at the end was still active… I need the 30 day communication challenge in my marriage.
@albaus5 күн бұрын
Same here. Where is the 30 day challenge?!
@daniellethomas9733 Жыл бұрын
This both blessed me and cut me at the same time. So glad I came across this. Going to share with my Husband. Thank you❤
@213ireon3 жыл бұрын
It takes two willing participants to do this you can’t do this on your own
@IntentionalMarriages2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ireon, believe it or not I have wives in my Communicate Clearly Course who have been able to impact their marriage by doing the work by themself. It's been incredible to watch!
@SheepDog12b2 жыл бұрын
100%
@SteveAmoyawАй бұрын
@@IntentionalMarriages Hi can i still access the 30 day plan even after 5 years ?
@IntentionalMarriagesАй бұрын
@@SteveAmoyaw yes, our course is even more effective now with over 300+ couples having gone through the content!
@sg57202 жыл бұрын
This is what you called learning from your mistakes and moving forward. 😊
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe!
@servanpesmerge56432 жыл бұрын
May God provide you with love, respect and understanding for all of those who go through troubles in your marriages and if you are separated from your spouses. Keep the faith. Jesus loves you!
@antoniwalker2799 Жыл бұрын
This man is a miracle and as soon cere as they come. Saved my relationship and myself.
@jennifercooper35474 күн бұрын
Communication with the right people is key to help solving problems in your marriage. Instead of trying to gain the attention of other women & venting your frustrations about your spouses physical appearance, ie, she looks disgusting, or that she’s has terrible body order, you should be communicating with a marriage counselor & adjusting your behavior to accommodate your judgements. Do this with the right people. 🙏
@silvias28289 ай бұрын
Isn't it funny how all such types of videos are spot on but impossible to apply????
@dedematrangola85762 ай бұрын
It's 100% possible and doable... just very hard. You'll do it if you think the risk and effort is worth the outcome you most desire.
@womenspowerhour11 күн бұрын
Nothing is impossible with God
@albaus5 күн бұрын
Why impossible?
@MarriageMinistryMeals2 ай бұрын
Communication is essential
@SoulBeauty1111 Жыл бұрын
Whew! I know a verbal assassin. 😬 Kills me a little more each time and he doesn’t understand why it’s so hurtful.
@OneiArMani183 жыл бұрын
Beautifully articulated, so much gems in this presentation!! Thank you!!
@prophetddm2 жыл бұрын
Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jKqYhLOe0qq5p6c.html
@LindaKLee2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Hasani! I agree words can kill you!!
@LordOfTheWings848 Жыл бұрын
This is a perspective that is wonderful. I like what was said about compromise
@samanthadouglas34242 жыл бұрын
This is so good, I can relate to everything that's been said
@LifeHacks_Central Жыл бұрын
I recently discovered a fascinating video on how to prevent communication from becoming a destructive force in marriage. This video provided me with a fresh perspective on the importance of effective communication in a relationship and how to avoid common pitfalls that can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. I was impressed with the practical tips and unique approach presented in the video, and I'm eager to incorporate these ideas into my own relationship to keep it strong and thriving.
@leluyaa4 ай бұрын
Thanks brother, I'm horrible at this. Lord help me!!!
@Bryant-i2k14 күн бұрын
I've been married 7 years and my wife really ignores me,disrespects me with in some ways I really feel she seems suspicious whatever she do I want her back to the same person she was when I met her. Don't even sleep in the same room.
@starlaks5882 жыл бұрын
Such a great message! Thank you
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
It's our pleasure! Please continue to tune in, like, and share with others.
@GuguMahlangu22 жыл бұрын
Focus in building the union other than fixing the person
@vikkibenson1626 Жыл бұрын
This is very insightful!!
@AdonaisDaughterEvangelist2 жыл бұрын
everything in that paragraph of the book describes what I've been dealing with in my marriage
@annettehalter21822 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY A BLESSING…… Thank You ❤️
@pauladossantos99212 жыл бұрын
Amazing I need in my marriage. I feel like I'm losing my husband.
@IntentionalMarriages2 жыл бұрын
Aww, hang in there and reach out to us to learn about our Communicate Clearly Course, which might help you?
@kennethukoh5192 жыл бұрын
This was amazing 👏🏾 🙌🏾. I have learned a lot thru this vid
@faithkaykambobe35122 жыл бұрын
Far sighted and near sighted differences are real...
@MeekSC19863 жыл бұрын
Amazing ..... Thanks ❤️
@MONA-rk4yy3 жыл бұрын
I truly love this video this is so good, packed with loving information,you two are truly great wonderful trechers❤
@prophetddm2 жыл бұрын
Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jKqYhLOe0qq5p6c.html
@samanthadouglas34242 жыл бұрын
Great message
@tushabejudith76532 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. Thank you
@CornelNorocea17 күн бұрын
Excellent
@DagenSkagen Жыл бұрын
Eeeks. Persistence beats resistance. This is something that a former friend used to say all the time. He’s now serving time in jail! This works on yourself, but also works in manners for an abuser! This is a very tight rope to walk. She complained about trying to change each other but in the end his persistence beat her resistance! This is still abuse. The long game of waiting for things to blow over is still something people use today. Feeling is literal. But now is subjective. Today could be great and who knows what brings tomorrow? I think we should think more about tomorrow than what we feel today! Todays feelings could be tomorrow’s heartache!
@mrs.overcomespraisevideo72932 жыл бұрын
Just listening to this...rich words
@nethanael71920 сағат бұрын
How to fix a husband that does the silent treatment and can't figure out how to communicate properly
@zibanibanda39332 жыл бұрын
I have learned so much from this.
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, we really appreciate it! Make sure to subscribe and continue tuning in!
@aliciaholmes13743 жыл бұрын
I’m def a verbal assassin
@albaus5 күн бұрын
I’m definitely a verbal assassin when I’m open hearted share my frustrations and get them invalidated, which I end up insisting on explaining myself just to get deflection pointers - it’s not his fault that I feel “that way”- my frustration level explodes and the verbal assassin takes over. I’m not sure if that’s the example in this vid, but I’m pretty certain it’s the narcissist/codependent dance happening :-( .. overall I’m glad that you too can admit it. I also am awfully satisfied that he pointed out our differences in communication, females do express their current feelings, and that way it also falls into radical honesty. I hate fighting, but I hate not receiving the honesty I expect, it’s disrespectful for me.
@TheGodoy Жыл бұрын
This is amazing thank you so much !!
@aliciawebb73882 жыл бұрын
I am seeing this for the first time. Everything you said is so accurate. Is the offer still available?
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
Please schedule a Discovery Call today so that we may assist! couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking
@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi88844 жыл бұрын
Great information Thank you for sharing this! I was even inspired to start my own Christian communication channel 🙏🏾
@PCar-ff2vh3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this interesting video ❤❤❤
@thewayofyahweh73 жыл бұрын
This was so good!
@turnthepage867 Жыл бұрын
These two married on looks, mutual attraction and Church.
@Tayslay12152 жыл бұрын
Dang he was talkin to me when it came to the whole Policy of Radical Honesty. I do allat wrong 😂 wow. Other points hit home too tho.
@CouplesAcademy2 жыл бұрын
We are glad you were able to take something from this video! Thanks for watching and don't forget to subscribe.
@thegamingrelish92722 жыл бұрын
I find it hard to communicate with my girlfriend. Sometimes going out for a meal together is uncomfortable because we both just sit there in silence even tho we both just had fun at the water park before hand. I want to hear from actual people who have had bad communication and then managed to turn it around. Need a bit of hope
@IntentionalMarriages2 жыл бұрын
Raising my hand over here! We really struggled to communicate early on. I shut down and wouldn't talk for days, sometimes weeks and my husband was more the verbal fighter. It took us years to learn how to use the tools to overcome these obstacles. Now we love paying it forward!
@patriciaadamson87118 ай бұрын
@@IntentionalMarriages My husband and I are in this boat, I really don’t care anymore and just am at the point I don’t care what happens to our marriage. Relationships really aren’t worth the effort. It’s all so pointless
@IntentionalMarriages8 ай бұрын
@@patriciaadamson8711when a relationship hits the apathy stage it’s very difficult to turn it back around but if there’s any hope, there’s plenty of skills you can implement to restore your marriage. Here for you, if interested.
@jthamilton64673 жыл бұрын
Will the communication challenge be happening again anytime soon?
@TamaraGrace3 жыл бұрын
I really love this. Thank you so much!
@surronzak8154 Жыл бұрын
Just say yes
@Bryant-i2k14 күн бұрын
What should I do?
@jonathanwalker1403 жыл бұрын
Great information
@Bryant-i2k14 күн бұрын
What should I do
@mfngeez4 жыл бұрын
Definitely an issue avoider
@chandrat84892 жыл бұрын
What if you’re husband talks too much? Just not to you!
@healingwithhanifa59842 жыл бұрын
like mine lol dude don't listen at all
@tzntv5973 Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely amazing directly to the veins of love and immotions. God bless you sir
@kingdomministriesbirmingha70409 ай бұрын
Nov. 8, 2023, i viewed this video on Communication. Towards the end you gave text info of how to acquire a 30 day challenge on communication. I tried using it unsuccessfully. However, I’d love to have the download if possible. Any direction as to how I can get a copy?
@destinychild68022 күн бұрын
Good morning sir. Pls sir how can get to u I need to go to MARRIAGE cancelling academy. I want to be a marriage cancellor . Am v much ready to learn . Pls I need your help sir. Even if people pay for the teaching am also ready to pay for the teaching. Pls sir I need your help. Thank u.
@user-vh3nm6vc6m2 ай бұрын
My husband need help with communication. Please pray for him. His name is Joseph James Clemons Junior.
@willieporter4276Ай бұрын
I’m sure Joe appreciates the shout out!
@Senior_Aevanu2 жыл бұрын
If one person is always wrong? How do you work through always being wrong?
@jeorjitakornu Жыл бұрын
I don't believe one person can constantly be wrong each time, rather the other partner has a problem admiting their wrong. Being the first to apologise doesn't mean you are wrong, it only means you choose peace rather than strife.
@cliftonbroadous68632 жыл бұрын
Greetings and thank you. We sent text but haven’t received any response. Is the challenge still available? My wife and I could definitely benefit. Thank you again.
@jennifercarasco745 Жыл бұрын
Wondering if you still have 30 day challenge available ?
@uma68223 жыл бұрын
Good 👍
@shamorimaxwell40412 жыл бұрын
Where can I purchase The Audacity of marriage book
@living4thekingdom1703 жыл бұрын
Very good
@prophetddm2 жыл бұрын
Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jKqYhLOe0qq5p6c.html
@isaiahhale1376Ай бұрын
How do I contact this man
@neek223 жыл бұрын
What about when the husband is faithful, the wife cheats and then shuts down due to the husbands response/reaction?
@BeardGawd883 жыл бұрын
ouch.
@josephllinas4173 жыл бұрын
Run
@ms.psmith13913 жыл бұрын
Seek couples counseling
@exceptional04 Жыл бұрын
@@ms.psmith1391 won’t help! They will only side with the one doing wrong..
@Justin-zj8nj2 жыл бұрын
i wiil be better
@christinestewart97343 жыл бұрын
Couples academy I'm interested in the email because I'm from Australia. I can't txt from Australia please send me more information please 🙏
@markoivanovic4333 жыл бұрын
Kudos for the Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you heard about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is an awesome one off product for Saving Your Marriage without the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.
@Simplycredit Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@user-tb6jw1wh4h10 ай бұрын
That number doesn’t work 😩
@prossyyav76092 жыл бұрын
What if you are outside of the US
@Big_Money_Trucker3 жыл бұрын
9:30 10:17 12:54 18:15
@danishcolor11 ай бұрын
The number does not work
@asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын
Why you does share Gospel to every one, So I does too?
@asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын
Cominication are different things but I stand on my faith without shaking
@Rhmapyn238 ай бұрын
I just stumbled across this video and Im blessed already 10mins into it. Please help me,Im going to be just a year into my marriage by January,but there's no peace nor excitement,my husband is the verbal assasin,always raining negative words on our marriage since we got wadded,he's the talkative type and loves to keep intouch with what happened/is happening around the world currently,and Im trying to adjust by watching the news and videos to be able to have something to discuss when we talk,because he's in the US and I'm in Africa,but it seems like nothing to him,he calls the marriage a failed marriage,a mistake and all the negativities you can imagine,though this is his third marriage,and our marriage is at the verge of tearing apart,sometimes I feel like just letting it go,because Im truly unhappy,please what do I do.
@jacquiejordon75003 жыл бұрын
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@prophetddm2 жыл бұрын
Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jKqYhLOe0qq5p6c.html
@fredriksvard26032 жыл бұрын
Worse than ted talks
@Light_in_the_Darkness7307 ай бұрын
Tips for Marital Conflict - How We Stop Yelling and Start Laughing Again kzfaq.info/get/bejne/f8mqjNSdvbfaY4E.html
@jacklyngeorge3476 Жыл бұрын
Hello I've tried sending the text to 33444, but it would not go through.