‘It’s better to not be liked than to keep compromising your own needs and wants.’ ‘To doubt yourself is to disrespect yourself.’ Wooo those are.. they hit me hard. Thank you 🙏🏻
@notanadvicecolumn2 ай бұрын
“to doubt yourself, is to disrespect yourself “ 👏🏾
@Chris-hp2ggАй бұрын
People have two lives. The second life begins when they realize they only have one.😂
@loveandlife98402 ай бұрын
You radiate a 90s vibe! Nostalgic! ✨
@themercedesexperiment2 ай бұрын
Omg I’ve dimmed my light for so many years because for some reason, my existence bothered so many people. I tried to make people believe I was “just like them” so I would act less educated or not dress my best to get people to like me. It made me really depressed because I wasn’t being true to myself. When I look back at it, I cringe 😬 you can’t control how people see you or feel about you. 😅 I’m a reformed people pleaser now
@Sharonbabyy12 ай бұрын
Frrrrrrrrrr
@malavina44652 ай бұрын
you’re genuinely one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen you carry yourself so elegantly
@HAGS20212 ай бұрын
“You are competing for something there is no finish line for” WOW
@magicshop26533 ай бұрын
THISSS !!! ..heavy on not wanting to take too much space/being a threat… bc sometimes I can really feel people projecting things onto me so then I just automatically back away 😭
@Poppy_0016 күн бұрын
Dimming your light to make other feel more ‘comfortable’ is so real, especially if you are a beautiful woman. I face this at my corporate job, I hate it. I always feel like I’m walking on egg shells. But you are right, it does not do you any favours! Instead you will seem like you are easy to manipulate and take advantage of. Lastly, dimming your light will not rid of their intimidation! They will still treat your poorly because of their insecurities and at the end… you lose.
@Itsjustritah2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Not trusting yourself is so energy draining, you end up pleasing everyone except yourself
@tori619226 күн бұрын
i don't know how i would act if i was this pretty
@ki.nichelle16 күн бұрын
the face card is stunning! stun-ning. and with the right attitude and intellect to match. literally you have alright to think highly of yourself. thank you girl for being brave to speak on this confidently. i understand and highly agree!
@lanielxx2 ай бұрын
“It’s better to not be liked then compromising your own needs and wants.” SO TRUE ❤
@Jess-yp9fo11 күн бұрын
Yea being the nice girl is HELL 💀 I hated it there but genuinely didnt know how to be anything else since i was taught to be an insane people pleaser my whole life. These habits and changes are so so important to live a fulfilling life. authenticity is key! Just being. No acting. Its ok to be kind which everyone should be, but be REAL
@baharsorosh30833 ай бұрын
GOSH YOU ARE SO PRETTY
@larizatarango2 ай бұрын
it’s better not to be liked than to keep compromising your own needs and wants
@user-fw8kg4tb8e2 ай бұрын
Girl your energy is so comforting and you’re so gorgeous as well!
@Jess-yp9fo11 күн бұрын
I know im not the only one who clicked bc shes absolutely gorgeous ❤
@Echolyris2127 күн бұрын
😂 it was on my feed and I clicked because of that. Now here listening to what she has to say.
@zekefeldmann159917 күн бұрын
calling me out with the isolation part and I'm truly going to cry
@mtewc382 ай бұрын
Damn I needed this. I’ve repressed my needs and wants for others long enough. I’m ready to value myself fully now 🦋
@San1999.323 күн бұрын
You’re so pretty!😍 your facial features are attractive 😩💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@PKP12 ай бұрын
Culture clashes from the east and west for modern western Asian young people causes that humility and modesty to dim our light. Through that healing and prioritising of our personal integrity authenticity and structure of morals ethics and values we become out super power which is best for everyone
@marianazuniga50522 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Just today I told myself I was done doubting myself and not choosing myself. I felt ashamed of all the times I abandoned myself in the past but I’ve chosen to let that shame go so I can move on with my life. To anyone that’s struggling- keep pushing. As she said, it does get better ❤❤❤
@marinaluna27992 ай бұрын
You’re so so gorgeous wow
@sukrita95252 күн бұрын
I've the same experience like you and it always be my pattern I''m tired to stuck in the same problem ! thank you for sharing I wanna love myself as a healthy way
@sarahali902626 күн бұрын
I feel you when you were saying why should I "humble" myself just to make others feel better about themselves. I know that not exactly what you said but that the message. Also with the "that the most selfish thing" that was true because not being you is going to make you uncomfortable and you know that not nice company to be around. so yes work on yourself but also see your triggers let life flow and stop having expectations just breath. Your doing good girl and i like how you gave personal experiences.
@swatinaik4322 ай бұрын
you're so prettyyy😭🤍🌷 thank youh so much for this video💗
@EtherealBeauty223 күн бұрын
I love this video! You just helped me understand a part of me I unconsciously lived in.
@n00dless2 ай бұрын
I have been binge watching all of your videos they really help me with my healing process, going through a breakup right now and it sucks but I’m learning to really enjoy this moment of healing myself for myself and moving forward 🧘🏽♀️
@Haha2face-gw6hfАй бұрын
i love this advice not to mention, you don't just have a beautiful face but a beautiful soul
@ebonydaise94032 ай бұрын
Wow , so glad I found this channel . I do pretty much the same thing . This is eye opening for me . I struggle with accepting my challenges . Legally blind and Single sided deafness kind of makes it difficult to be around a large group so I have stayed to myself so that I won’t have to ask people to repeat themselves . I am now learning to stop worrying about taking up space and giving grace to me.
@noursdiary.Ай бұрын
I discovered your channel 20 minutes ago and I'm already so impressed with everything. Your calmness your beauty your vibes your aura 🫶🏻🫶🏻 keep going
@Nb335552 ай бұрын
So happy the algo recommended you! Love your aura and the message. Very refreshing ♥️
@floaresbianca79452 ай бұрын
I am literally mesmerized by her 🦋
@AmyYayra14 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. Thank you very much. The part about being on your own not being true peace. ❤
@LuzoloTiago22 күн бұрын
Just casually slayed this video. Totally feeling seen and heard right now💕
@Jess-yp9fo11 күн бұрын
I needed this wow!! Leveling up alone sometimes has to be the best option bc like myself, some of us were scapegoated and cant rely on those around us. This message is spot on. The internal is whats most important ❤
@2791mirandaКүн бұрын
Love this, thank you for being amazing 🙏🏼🩷
@sweetmelonmochi_x2 ай бұрын
thank you for blessing us with this video, sending blessings your way too.. you're voice needs to be heard
@alenaatoutlemonde40362 ай бұрын
I love this video. Truer words have never been spoken and there was no bullshitting - like other self-development videos. Thanks for the lovely video.
@khristale.876920 күн бұрын
4:44 was what I needed to hear. Thank you love
@angelglowstudios14542 ай бұрын
I resonate so much with this, I definitely needed to hear it. Thank you 🙏🏾
@Outworker00717 күн бұрын
Young, beautiful, and already wise. ICONIC!
@TonnaReign2 ай бұрын
Stunning 😍💕‼️‼️
@flyhigh67902 ай бұрын
Literally 🥹😍
@doudouiness66709 күн бұрын
It feels like am listening to a SOUL not a human GIRL I helped me to clear my thoughts ❤
@jacquelinecorona4609Ай бұрын
Just what I needed to hear exactly in this moment! ✨✨✨ Thank You for your words of wisdom! KZfaq always recommends just what I need to hear, thank you God! 🙏🏻♥️
@breannaestrada4192 ай бұрын
I just found you at the right time. Thank you for existing.
@jkidtaco52 ай бұрын
The divine timing of this video was incredible. It was an immediate sub. Keep going! This random girl is rooting for you!!!
@D.E.S.T.I.N.Y.G15 күн бұрын
OMG I was just looking for new KZfaqrs to watch and as I was scrolling and I saw you omg you are honestly the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen
@suzisarkisian678912 күн бұрын
So relatable…Thanks for sharing 👍🏼
@EcomCarl2 ай бұрын
Such an empowering message! Prioritizing self-worth and authenticity leads to deeper fulfillment and stronger connections with those who appreciate you for who you truly are. 🌟
@Misana22 күн бұрын
Glad I clicked on this. Appreciated it more as the video progressed.
@agathasuzyАй бұрын
This video truly resonated with me, thank you very much for sharing your wisdom with us!
@organic_angel2 ай бұрын
I don’t usually make comments like this BUT you are absolutely gorgeous! Don’t let anyone put you down, they’re just insecure around your beauty.
@majinpayne41442 ай бұрын
I love your Voice & Energy ❤ God Bless & Thanks... Music is 1 of my favorite things & all though your only speaking. Your Voice is a Instrument. Our Voices are Instruments.
@stephokereke2 ай бұрын
Healing energy, thank you beauty.
@mariacamilacuellarflorez1984Ай бұрын
this is my first video and really love it, thank you for your words, love your jewelry btw
@angelinavitaleco964019 күн бұрын
I appreciate you sharing this. It's rare to see a beautiful girl be honest about these kinds of things. Being a beautiful girl myself it's not easy to find other beautiful girls sharing honestly about things like this please continue❤ this is an awesome video
@rih4932 ай бұрын
You will hit a million soon mark my words
@essence____beauty_922 ай бұрын
Such a amazing content message thank you ❤❤❤😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
@Thuso_TАй бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@a.mary902 ай бұрын
blessing to you, thank you for this video today!
@GrownGirlGlowUpАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing these encouraging reminders for us women who continue to glow up, level up 😊
@cierrat694322 күн бұрын
I struggle with this so much! Thanks
@lifewithpotse2 ай бұрын
This resonated with me so much. I needed to hear this, thank you.
@alondradelamora09172 ай бұрын
I love this! You are well spoken ✨
@GodsFavorite12 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤ and you delivered it beautifully 🤩
@atariq5139Ай бұрын
Had me tearing up at the end! Thank you for such a beautiful and thoughtful video
@carmencatalina90864 күн бұрын
Glad i saw this the new me don’t care anymore because I wasted my 20s and refuse to repeat that bad habit in my 30s❤
@ItsKorenTV18 күн бұрын
I’m on a mission of bettering me and not giving af thanks boo!
@siphosethumzaidume6592Ай бұрын
Ohh my it was needed indeed🙇🏽♀️!
@thankyou509317 күн бұрын
Wow! She is BeYoutFULLY Authentic!!And Deeply Profound. WoW!! Again!
@butterbean55448 күн бұрын
Very intelligent video, i needed to see this today. Thanks!
@Liyahsarai3 ай бұрын
girl you are stunning! love your content
@feer34942 ай бұрын
I just got super luckyy and found your channel 💗💗 love it here
@lucapalladino-xw3zt20 күн бұрын
your ethereal
@nickiii53032 ай бұрын
This is a good video and it needs more likes. This is so true and it is great at your age that you have cultivated this belief system. Keep putting out content.
@soothingnoisehaven916 күн бұрын
Thank you for what you create
@femmeglow.conscious25 күн бұрын
I can relate to this so much. Especially the part when you talked about "trying not to take up space" to make others feel comfortable... years later i realized that even when i was not my best self and trying to make others feel better about themselves i still had people in my environment being envious about my looks and my life.... After reading plenty of self-help books and journaling about my feelings and thoughts i realized that it does not really matter if you try to make yourself smaller or just be authentic because people are gonna be envious about you anyway and they will feel uncomfortable in your environment anyway even if you are the kindest person in the planet with them. So it's better to be yourself and thrive to be your best self because we have only 1 life. Why should we live with the regret of not living a life true to ourselves because of the expectations or opinions of others about us?
@goseemekah22 күн бұрын
Wow. This was so relatable and you called out everything I couldn’t verbalize! Thank you. I’m subbed ❤.
@kayyrachelle93 ай бұрын
Wow you are so PRETTY 😍
@setitoffart55502 ай бұрын
Appreciate this SOO much! I really needed the exact basis of how to know my worth and I had it but I like to have a structured idea of these things so that I KNOW. Thank you gorgeous!
@simrandsouza20222 ай бұрын
Goshhhh I need a makeup tutorial for that amazing look ❤
@RishaniP2 ай бұрын
Coming soon!
@Themoment8882 ай бұрын
I second this
@PearlNsiimaКүн бұрын
Oh My God we are literally the same person ❤
@mariedias8695Ай бұрын
You are ethereal
@carolinlovelifecoachСағат бұрын
It´s great to help others feel proud of themselves.
@gracekd76423 күн бұрын
Simple, Claire et Précis !
@RA-IL2 ай бұрын
I fell in love at first sight.
@nxbxxha_176413 күн бұрын
You are literally so beautiful 😍
@user-kx9jl5sg1r4 күн бұрын
The way you speak..it’s so beautiful. Would you like to make a video on that?
@user-dp2lx6qf3l2 ай бұрын
Omg shes so perfect
@Minimini856203 ай бұрын
Wow this hit really hard ❤ thank you so much for your words ❤❤
@Dazedandc0nfused6 күн бұрын
Eloquent and wise subscribed
@naegolden59583 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!!
@Mai-lk1utАй бұрын
Love your videos also you’re pretty wth 😭💗
@adventureswithnicole3322 ай бұрын
This is exactly what ive been looking for omg thank you so so much baby xx💞
@LORENABELLO17 күн бұрын
It happens the same to me, trying to go smaller to fit or to not bother other ppl