How To Live With Toxic/ Negative People? - Few Practical Strategies

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@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

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@ipshi5903 3 ай бұрын

Some people don't want to be liked. They just want to be feared and obeyed. But if you obey them, they still won't let you to live normally, no matter how much you praise them or make them happy. They are just saddists and should be ignored absolutely.

@anweshabhattacharya4947 3 ай бұрын

True

@kajal-xe6fi 2 ай бұрын

It is so true, sis, I am experiencing this 🙄

@ismailpatel7222 Ай бұрын

1 billion percent true

@Noelle762 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been living with a negative, controlling husband under the same roof and what I am doing is to have my own space, my own room, my own routine, activities and keeping things to myself, limiting sharing time with him including anything related to our children and grandchildren. When someone doesn’t care, or want to know what’s going on in the extended family, there’s no point to share. I focus on myself, what I like to make me proud, and this makes me so happy. I believe that each individual has the right to live a happy life and don’t let others control your life and happiness ❤

@anweshabhattacharya4947 3 ай бұрын

Exactly 👍

@tonyakeldsen1782 2 ай бұрын

I can relate, or if you share something that brings you joy or that you cherish it get dumped on and puts a stain on it . Even favorite childhood songs or memories are met with ridicule or negativity so I keep things I cherish to myself and although we have been married for almost 15 years he still doesn’t know me and I do think he really cares because everything is about what he like or his experiences. So,e times I feel invisible

@mawteejalim273 2 ай бұрын

Your life and mine are same i leave seperate room so im happy and sleep well .

@padmavathyvenkatraman1384 2 ай бұрын

Your thoughts are inspiring,as I go through the exact experience with my family..but you seem to have the mental control and come out of it focussing on yourself..how do I do it ..pl want to talk to you once on this so thT I can also follow this and come out of my depression

@padmavathyvenkatraman1384 2 ай бұрын

Can I have your ph no..I am padmavathy age 63

@user-ft9ps4iiu 3 ай бұрын

Some toxic people are so stubborn...no formula can change them

@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

When we can't change, why to give space in our mind? Ignore & there are many things to focus in our tiny life 👍🙌

@RamGopal-hz6oz 18 күн бұрын

Very good. Thanku madam.

@j.ashokan.jayaseelan5863 3 ай бұрын

Clear as Crystal ! Thank you Mam ! Practice makes everything Possible !

@ambershah5079 2 ай бұрын

Ma'am, I enjoyed the words said. It's truly words happening nowadays. Negative people were unable to understand too, either in the work place or at home. Appreciate too 👍! So Impressive 😊 too.

@foodknowledge5271 3 ай бұрын

Fun Fact : These cunning selfish and toxic people think they are always right...they are the selfless generous and kind hearted people on this earth... Although Ma'am ur advices r good but it is too difficult to handle such people...bcoz if u r nice to them they will sit on ur head or if u try to teach them a lesson they'll play victim card. So either ways u lose. I've come across a few of such species 😅

@meeraom2522 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Devika,u r so wise . thanks for guidance.

@sapanasitaphale2300 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 💞 i will try it

@Meri.Awaz.aur.Akhirah 3 ай бұрын

No mam some people take reward and miss use they think we are weak we never say or act bad so they are continously like that never think about hurting , and letting down others and they think they are superior, I suggest we have to avoid completely if they are not your close relations others wise anxiety and depression will start u can not stay calm entire life tolerating them as the are nothing,

@lathapandian2680 3 ай бұрын

Mam ur an eye opener. God bless ur endeavours

@HappyMonk31. 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ma'am. 🙏

@pattypatt1 3 ай бұрын

Yes good , thank you Doc

@reetaamaravat5595 3 ай бұрын

Thanks mam for such a good information. I will definitely apply to it.thanks.

@snehajessicapaul2100 3 ай бұрын

Mam, thankyou so much for uploading this video. Truely your words are a great source of wisdom. You're blessed because you are a peacemaker. God bless you richly.

@sushmakothapalli9417 3 ай бұрын

Tq so much amma. ❤❤❤❤❤

@shashikalanaidu8026 3 ай бұрын

Beautifully explained Dr🎉❤. This video is very useful for everyone 👏 👌 👍. Tq Dr

@pratikshawadekar3883 3 ай бұрын

Thank you doc

@hemakotian7334 3 ай бұрын

Very good advice.thks mam.❤❤❤

@vinodsingh-gr1xj 3 ай бұрын

Positive talk in simple terms how to defuse the negative people, thanks ma'am😊

@user-ht1ez8tf9r 3 ай бұрын

Very Good Advise thanks for that madam.

@annuoraon6821 3 ай бұрын

Thanks .... A lot

@KrishnaKumari-pg7tt 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much madam 🙏

@ramanbhaipatel4415 3 ай бұрын

Very useful to me. Much difficulty in my life

@snehlekani2906 3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Mannu-dj1th 3 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot mam you changed my mind ❤ I'll definitely follow all your words

@neetarajmane-sj8bz 2 ай бұрын

Thank you mam

@elizabethrayer2314 3 ай бұрын

Good Advice mam❤

@ganeshbhogaraju4558 Ай бұрын

Thanks a lot for your video!!

@charudattakarangale1435 2 ай бұрын

Very nice topic discussed 👌👍👏

@swapnagudimetla6845 3 ай бұрын

Good information mam 🎉😊

@krishnarenu-td7qe Ай бұрын

Very nice and useful tips Ma'am 🥰🌺

@asmath5564 3 ай бұрын

Madam Nice informative, just thinking like a psychologist mind who acts self counseling

@sarammasaramma6620 3 ай бұрын

Yes correct advice 100/0🙋‍♀️

@birbahadurgurung5266 3 ай бұрын

Mam I have subscribed your channel.Please keep posting such good ,informative and knowledgeable videos.Good Luck!

@anweshabhattacharya4947 3 ай бұрын

I have experienced people, if I am good to them, they become more and more rude.

@jayitamajumdar6287 3 ай бұрын

They think it's weakness not humbleness

@flickhunter8900 3 ай бұрын

Yes exactly same experience i had. The more nice u r, the more u will be treated like shit. Be little rough and don't share much personal information

@foodknowledge5271 3 ай бұрын

Right... the more you are humble and nice the more they will sit on your head

@sunithadevi5601 2 ай бұрын

Same experience

@NK-pe2im 2 ай бұрын

True... Same here

@krishnarenu-td7qe Ай бұрын

Love you ma'am 💖🌺🥰

@kavii1696 26 күн бұрын

Mam I cleared my accountancy paper mam.. 😊 thankyou so much mam..

@devikabhatnagar 26 күн бұрын

Well done👍🙌

@kavii1696 26 күн бұрын

@@devikabhatnagar thankyou mam... Some day I'll be in business field pls guide me rit at that time mam

@arumugammurugesan8147 3 ай бұрын

It is very useful video for my daughter who is suffering misunderstanding with her mother in law. Thank you.

@maheshmahesh346 3 ай бұрын

Nice Video

@vssandilya1000 3 ай бұрын

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@Ak-bs5ox 2 ай бұрын

do not be scared of toxic people, ignore them and stop talking to them as much as possible, try to stay away and avoid conversation but if they bully you shut them up

@sarammasaramma6620 3 ай бұрын

Life is likehandling a glass be calm, gentle sand truthful 🙋‍♀️

@geethac.v6828 3 ай бұрын

Mam sooooooper u are absolutely correct.introsprction soooper.i got solution.peace cool environment imoroved becas of u. U saved me.u saved my family.Auushmanbhava madam.👌👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌👍

@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

Stay blessed always 👍🙌

@VanessaNaick 3 ай бұрын

Morning pls help me to stop smoking and get up with a headache on my eyebrows every morning will appreciate your advice Thanks have a blessed day Om Sai Ram

@MPSBINDRA 3 ай бұрын

Man v good video .

@user-lm9iy8yb9j 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤it's a formula of people who r engaged in official work either GOVT or pvt job ..even the known unknown far relatives neughbourer who always demotivates oposses n try to pull down ...throws Bad words ...behind the screen ...something like in Ramayana ..".Monthora s " role for that he ...The Rama spoiled n tears for ❤❤❤❤ 14 years ....

@mariyaranjitha5832 3 ай бұрын

Very nice talk thank you so much. Can you send some videos about how to speak fluent in English mam ❤❤

@starieprincilal-fk5sh Ай бұрын

👍👏

@anweshabhattacharya4947 3 ай бұрын

They think good and nice people are weak.. so they talk in more rude manner.. so, this technique of being nice and caring does not work with most of the egoistic people ma'am. These people respect only those who are confident and strong.

@priyamali8833 3 ай бұрын

Very true,but what I think we should not fight with pigs because they will love it ,and make u as they are

@anweshabhattacharya4947 3 ай бұрын

True

@queenqueen977 3 ай бұрын

finally a logical and sound advice.

@jayitamajumdar6287 3 ай бұрын

Egoistic, narcissistic person is tough to handle...they have learnt to satisfy their ego only

@violet-hy1el 3 ай бұрын

Exactly

@nafisanaushad703 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Ma'am for your valuable video I am facing one problem since 14 years of my marriage . My husband elder brother wife we all stay together room and cook seperately . She always complain to others about me if her clothes tear she says I cut it or I went to her room when she is in outside her room in kitchen I tear her clothes . And she complain these and many false things about that I did bad to her to my in-laws.and they trust and support her and I without doing anything wrong I feel that my in-laws what they will think of me I am very much in tension since 14 years please help

@gayathrivenkatesh8233 2 ай бұрын

It is not needed to satisfy anybodies ego needed to be genuine with your feelings n words so that the person get transformed

@preethchermanna3204 3 ай бұрын

Zipppppppp your mouth picture was excellent…. It will remain in my mind 🙏👌😄

@ShylajaSimha 3 ай бұрын

❤

@stanleyif7988 3 ай бұрын

Good advises. Find out root cause. Change job , if possible

@flickhunter8900 3 ай бұрын

Maam u r spot on. 100 percent agree eith ur views

@vssandilya1000 3 ай бұрын

Teacher _______ 18/2/2024 1:57 PM ________________ V.S.Sandilya ________________ Teacher, you taught many as many students come and go as you teach subjects many as students grow and go. You are the same as you were as years tumbled as waves and you changed according to subjects were ever training as per the waves. You are good at teaching from nursery to college as the students learn from teaching how to flourish in life after college. As batches change every time you remain still with duster, board, and chalk which you use time to time as you train with duster,board, and chalk.

@anusharaju6850 3 ай бұрын

please make video for living with toxic parents where they are partial over the kids. It is a traumatizing very much. I request you.

@gayathrivenkatesh8233 2 ай бұрын

Only love n understanding the person from where he is coming from can make changes

@HuaweiNovae 2 ай бұрын

Dr.thanks for ur suggestion, but it is not easy to live with this toxic/cunning persons ex husband/wife etc. Persons with negative nature will never change throughout life, ex.mountain can move but person nature will not changed at any cost. Persons goes through this situation only knows better. However ur suggestion is gud. Thq.

@Ashok-kw2ds 3 ай бұрын

😊😊😊

@sivasrinadhu 3 ай бұрын

Very informative. How to deal with people who reach out to take financial help and forget to return it and gets upset when asked for the repayment??

@sunshine-db2zm 3 ай бұрын

Dont answer them or loan money to them again avoid them...

@syedyaqoob9164 3 ай бұрын

NAMASTAY MEDAM .

@rajalakshmikizhakedath7797 2 ай бұрын

My sisterinlaw is trying to make my husband listen to her eventhough she is married and far from the state where we are in lying.

@selvikonar4350 3 ай бұрын

Life is in our hand . Enjoy it.

@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

Stay happy always 🙌

@mohsinelectronics7190 3 ай бұрын

Pakistan..me nic consoling..

@anilar7849 3 ай бұрын

🙏🏻👍🙂

@raghavendracharan8117 3 ай бұрын

Madam today many people are suffering from paranoid schizophrenia, ocd and many other mental health related issues .so please suggest how to come out of such diseases and live a happy life.Thankyou madam

@queenqueen977 3 ай бұрын

"disease" is a very wrong word choice.

@vijaya1493 3 ай бұрын

Hi it's really true, to live with negative people, my husband is one of the negative person what to do beyond that he is such good person also, what to do mam, every movement I try to urgent with him, I am very much fed up with his. Behaviour, I don't know how to live with him, give me solutions. Mam

@MrZulu1978 3 ай бұрын

Mam in start of her video very beautifully explained you should introspect yourself so get this thing in you first. Than only you will understand. Please dont consider my reply as third party teaching. But introspect itself is very big thing/adjective. And finally dont judge people, understand them. Life is beautiful njoy it😊

@Milagrina 3 ай бұрын

U hug him n give one kiss everytime he is angry or irritated it will cool him.

@kusumakp1410 3 ай бұрын

Do episodes about behaviour problem ( Mental) I am leading with toxic what u told in above episode and behavioural problem husband😢😢😢😢😢😢

@bandasrinivas1695 3 ай бұрын

Same pro;lem with neghbers

@p.sashikiran6026 3 ай бұрын

💐👍

@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

🙌

@vypindelhi9458 3 ай бұрын

Hi Ma'am How to remove people and live alone?

@preethchermanna3204 3 ай бұрын

But won’t they do more if we ignore and keep quiet??

@user-ht5iz3em2h 3 ай бұрын

Mam create one vedio how to deal with mentally ill person, how to handle

@shobhadandu4026 3 ай бұрын

Amma ...Everyday consuming ragi idli good for thyroid patients?

@rajashekarpathange8154 3 ай бұрын

It's not that easy to maintain normal life. I have a issue with my soninlaw, aslong as we lisen to them things are ok, the moments we try to tell them you're hurting us, they agree. Then thay start sceaming to cut the relation it self. Like that first diplomatically he cut off from my son and wife. Then i try to reasion out with him, that how to maintain relation, he got mad on me too. So whoever comes on thair way they become enemy's but they will not change. They will go to any extent to mould people around them, if you dont listen they cut you off.

@mittapallikumarshashi7199 Ай бұрын

Mam if i express my feelings about himina cool manner,he will understand for that minute nonly for that one day itself.from the very next day he will continue what he really was. I am bearing this character since 21 years without saying a word even to my parents.please give me asolution what to do with him

@abadhootpanda1937 Ай бұрын

It is an excellent topic Mam. How can I keep up contact with you in need? 🙏🏼Thank you immensly 🙏🏼

@muruvayikuttan266 3 ай бұрын

Mam hindi me video dalenge tho acha samajme aayega bohoth helpfull hoga hindi Dale or samjayen please

@rajahm8412 3 ай бұрын

Mam please inform how to control negative thoughts

@devikabhatnagar 3 ай бұрын

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@shobhadandu4026 3 ай бұрын

Amma hypothyroid patients raagi flour thinacha? Daily ragi idli thinacha? Entha ragi permittable per day

@shreyashosamath2849 2 ай бұрын

Please help me mam anxiety ke liye

@lonelyworld7868 3 ай бұрын

😢 since 14 years I'm suffering these kind of.......😢😢😢 I'm done i can't anymore

@kbjaya1781 Ай бұрын

20 years iam suffering

@sreenathgs7903 2 ай бұрын

ನಕಾರಾತ್ಮಕ ಜೀವನ ನಶ್ವರ . ಸಕಾರಾತ್ಮಕ ಜೀವನ ಸುಖಸಂತೋಷದ ಸಾಗರ.

@rosalinprusty3250 15 күн бұрын

Madam how to deal with your coworkers if all are against you just because you came from outside?I tried my level best to be good with them even I listened all the things what they told me to do.how to deal with such persons who is very good to you but at your back she talks negative about you and make everybody against you?

@devikabhatnagar 15 күн бұрын

I have seen same case in my workplace but that guy never used to express any feelings apart from smiling. He used to focus on his career & enhanced his skills. Got a wonderful offer in another organization and right now he is in a great position. The backstabbers still in the old organization with the same package. Got a guidance ? Stay happy always 👍🙌

@ramakrishnadevajana1750 2 ай бұрын

What to do with cunning people who have ulterior motives and they are close relatives ?

@shardachillara4232 2 ай бұрын

How to tackle blame and insult by your near and dear

@gopipadmakrishnan 2 ай бұрын

I have a radical Muslim living in our apartment, who is troubling in all sorts of ways, starting from parking, drying clothes, maintaining plants etc etc etc how to deal with such character. PS - I tried talking, counseling, scolding, nothing is working.

@bachusentertainmentworld4256 3 ай бұрын

Ur videos r very inspiring a nd soothing Amma.....i want to speak wid u....how can I contact u

@Haqkalaam 2 ай бұрын

Iam frm joint family now we shifted but My sister in law is always jealous with me and after troubling me alot she started ignoring my 4 yr daughter it is very painful and no one in my in laws are saying anything to her not even one person is saying her that she is wrong even though they know that how much pain iam going through because of her negative behaviour 😢

@soniamanchanda1976 3 ай бұрын

Pls ma'am make this video in hindi

@geethac.v6828 3 ай бұрын

My husband equal to title😭

@user-zq9eg8se9k 3 ай бұрын

Pls mam, start spoken english classes ..... easily your teaching

@radhakrushakari1011 3 ай бұрын

Madam mere ko jagane diabetic ulte mero medicine play kundli foodman control

@AditiWMehta 2 ай бұрын

There is No right time, place, environment ever…. They don’t like to go in public place at all because that person will have to be nice in front of the world.

@INDIAN_8611 3 ай бұрын

I have tried all these except buttering them in IT company... Few managers always act as blood sucking mosquitos or terrorists....

@swathidn 3 ай бұрын

How to handle saddist husband and mother-in-law who is all the time trying to find negative in everything we do ?

@mansibeautyvlogs780 3 ай бұрын

I have two narcissists in my family....😢 Have been tortured nd dominate by these two for over 3 yrs now...I feel I will not be able to survive for that long.