How To Make A Shy Kid Confident

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Nicholeen Peck - Teaching Self Government

3 жыл бұрын

Shy children don't stay shy their whole life if their parents know what to do! While there are different personalities, confidence in oneself and being able to converse with people is something that can be learned. How can we teach our children to get out of their comfort zone and socialize with people? Watch on to learn more about this!
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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government
Key Moments in this Episode
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00:49 What's in this video?
01:09 You can't really make people do anything
02:35 Ascertain why they are shy
03:11 It requires patience
04:07 Pre-teaching
06:34 For children using shyness as a control mechanism
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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?
Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system - Teaching Self-Government - can help you turn chaos into calm.
"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.
Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.
In 2009, Nicholeen and her husband starred in the BBC reality TV show, “The World’s Strictest Parents” (watch here: bit.do/StrictestParents). She became an overnight sensation by turning around two out-of-control teenagers from England after just one week - without shouting, threats or manipulation. Her amazing success comes from the positive parenting techniques of using calmness, effective communication and principles of self-government.
Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.
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“My husband and I have started implementing some of your techniques, and our house has been so different!”
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“I feel that my children respect me more. I will be eternally grateful for what I have learned from Nicholeen Peck.”
Michelle Baker
“If you want to forge the strongest family bonds possible, to repair damaged relationships, and redeem a child that seems completely lost, then this program IS for you.”
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Пікірлер: 26

@marissahicks3529 2 ай бұрын

I’m here to learn how to reparent myself. I’ve always been a bit shy, but it was the most intense when I was a toddler. I’ve been dealing with toxic shame, guilt, fear, a victim mentality, and several narcissistic traits for the past 15 years. Thank you for your insight ❤

@user-sp4fe8oi3t 4 ай бұрын

I am 28years old and extremely shy here in US unfortunately. I am not American and I have poor English which is the reason of me being too shy and unsocial.. for almost 8years with no friends here and my daughter is growing shy just like me 😢 Very frustrating and I feel stuck

@Pl3ylistjp 6 ай бұрын

Not me watching this as a kid because I’m too shy at class

@Thatonegirllyuh 3 ай бұрын

Same I have no friends

@cestmoi4532 Жыл бұрын

Oooh, good tip- shyness as a mechanism of control. Of course, I knew this but needed to hear it again. Thanks! 💛

@TeachingSelfGovernment Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!

@kittykat.3456 Жыл бұрын

Wait- I can't tell if this is sarcasm or genuine

@DeoliOfosuapea-eo3if Жыл бұрын

@@TeachingSelfGovernment THANK YOU FOR THE LINK

@elenapolenichkina6460 2 жыл бұрын

Great information!

@TeachingSelfGovernment 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@rict.4938 4 ай бұрын

You made me feel better about my technique. I am doing a good job. 😊 Thank you

@TeachingSelfGovernment 4 ай бұрын

Yes, you are! I'm glad your self-analysis helped you find ways to praise yourself. You've got this!

@boitumelosidyiyo3527 2 жыл бұрын

My 4year old son is super shy, like super super shy, even at school he doesn't even have friends, he can read, he can spell, he knows all the flags of the world, knows the entire human skeleton borns and organs and what they do, all he wants to do is just study, he hates being taught so he simply doesn't take instructions at school which makes him seem like he doesn't understand the work he does, i don't know what to do with him, even when you ask him ehat5he studied, he can tell you before bed time literally telling me about the phases of the moon and explaining each one of them in detail. He had/has speech delay so his finding his words and his turning 5,he only speaks English because books are written in English, while we africans so English is like 4th - 6th language to most of us, so his often belittled or bullied by kids even adults about not knowing how to speak his language, i had learnt months later from him when he told me his teacher would literally push him, shouts shut up at him! Because of the language he speaks. My son got more withdrawn, i had taken him to a new school where all kids speak English, his still trying to find his place in the new school with new teachers, the old school had traumatized him, the little friendliness he had in him has been literally been ripped out of him, so i just need to find something to make his less shy

@karolinastepien9499 10 ай бұрын

Looks like you have very special talented boy. Just don't let him think something is wrong with him. Sounds like he's amazing.

@saffron948 10 ай бұрын

Hi I feel that you explained the situation of my son, my son speak our won language and English and french everything about earth and galaxy he knows he is execellent in math but he has just on friend he doesn’t talk in the class he doesn’t show his homework not even eat good at school and he is tell shy to talk loud 😢 I don’t know what to do with him.

@ssgundes1 Жыл бұрын

You should watch sensitive. It’s like a fawn stress response. Many people are aggressive or leave fight or flight, but highly sensitive people usually freeze or fawn. It’s not a manipulative choice As you kinda say it is.

@TeachingSelfGovernment 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

@fembot521 6 ай бұрын

Starts at 5:00

@busobuso8494 2 жыл бұрын

thank you, this is very informative video❤️❤️❤️

@jesnakj5022 2 жыл бұрын

Really useful video... Also the best presentation of yours..... Keep going ❣️

@thumper6425 3 ай бұрын

💜💜💜

@intidharabla Жыл бұрын

My son is so shy he knows his things but when he goes to nursery he don’t speak in fs1 the teacher was amazing last year after sometime he started talking and more confident this. Year unfortunately I don’t see that much care or effort this evening he told me one of the assistant asked. Him to write on the board he refused he wanted to draw car so she told him don’t come tomorrow to school I feel very disappointed and. I can’t believe. This. Happening he is smart boy but it take him time to adjust

@TeachingSelfGovernment Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you're going through that! It sounds like his teacher needs to be pre-taught about his adjustment needs and, if they don't respect them, then other action needs to be taken. I can't give super detailed advice on the information I have here, but I'd love to hear more about it on my weekly Support Group calls! I can go into more detail and give more specific advice there. Here's a link with more information on that: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/support-group/ I hope that helps!

@saffron948 10 ай бұрын

I had the same problem with my son today the first day of visit she just explained me the negative point of shynesses of my son and she was not looking professional finally I decided to make a complaint on her cause it’s not the way to judge kids at school like this