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1. He has to associate you with POSITIVE emotional experiences, 2. Space to appreciate those experiences (freedom)

I learned to give him space lol. It works. Makes the meeting times more memorable

The more I watch these videos, the more I think relationships and dating are way too complicated, so daunting - how do people even get married?! uh

I have been dating a guy for 3 months. He asked me to go on a ski trip with two single women and a married couple. I had to work so I told him I couldn't go but I didn't this exact thing. I told him to have a fucking amazing time and to send snowy mountain pics. I didn't text him a lot... but enough. He had a great time. I gave him total freedom. Was positive and happy and supportive. He came back more in love with me than ever. :)))). Great advice! I also believe that if you take care of yourself (go to the gym, keep a solid social life, and killing it financially (working hard in your career) will always make you feel great and you can project that into your partner! Love all of this!

This is true. I find as I encourage my new boyfriend to hang out with his friends and to have fun, he tends to miss my company and texts "I miss you" and kisses.

Mark, you start to freak me out. Every time I come across a problem in my new relationship, you post a video about it. I'm leaving for three weeks to france. But my relationship is so new. This is super helpful.. Thank you as always

My insecurities had ruined every relationship in my life. Now I will never ever show or let my insecurities on someone. Thanks!

Mark, this works like a charm. I gave him space, went out with my friends and the next morning I got a frantic text from him asking me if I was alright and why didn't I answer my text so that he could say goodnight and asking me to please NEVER do that again because he thought he was losing me. Amazing! Thanks Mark. I've followed you for a long time and will continue to follow you. I hope you are well. Thank you so very much.

There is no way that I am going to stand by and let my BF go off and sleep in a tent with another woman and him still be my BF.If he feels the need to want to do that then I will take my ASSets and look for a better man.

I think my man friend can have plenty of fun without sleeping in a woman’s tent... that is not insecure ... that is wisdom. ... that cannot be an example you really stand by. The ONLY reason these slew of women do not call you on this ... is because you are good looking ... and they want to appear a certain way to you. You know this as well. Have fun ... yes ... boundaries also... yes ...

This video is GOLDEN.. nothing but truth.💯 I recently watched a video (another dating channel) encouraging the "hot/cold" method and honestly, it didn't vibe with me at all...i have too much going on in my life to remember whether I'm supposed to be playing hot today and cold tomorrow 😂 I seriously can't keep up with the psychotic shenanigans of that method LBVS 😂 BUT YOUR advice is pure gold 💯and it resonates with me Every. Single. video of yours that I watch ...thanks for bringing truth 🤗

Yep, you nailed it. Remember to be the person he fell for in the first place, don't shift, don't project your insecurities.

Mark this is spot on. The man I've been seeing just came back from a trip without me and I handled the time away very close to your advice(I just watched your video) and I hadn't expected to hear from him much due to phone expenses. But he texted me several times each day. I was particularly happy when he went out of his way to share his experience with me so far away. He took this trip with a female friend. By not being insecure and needy I believe it brought him to wanting to share with me even more. Before he left he asked if I wanted to chain him I put my palm out to him open and said no I want to hold to lightly like this its your choice to stay or go but my hand is here.

Love this video!! I have done some serious practicing of this way of life in the last couple years and was single for most of that. In my previous relationships, I didn't give men space to miss me, and I smothered them with my Love, and I was insecure. All the pitfalls! I've spent probably 5 years being intentionally single and 2-3 more on top of that, all the time trying to get better at self Love, becoming a person I am proud of, improving my thought patterns and beliefs, changing my habits, and changing how I behave in relationships. So much of what you advocate for! I have been listing to your videos and a few other dating coaches for a few years now. Now I am in a new relationship with a wonderful man, and we've only been dating for two months and I can already tell he sees me as the one and only! He says he misses me immediately after I leave. It's so wonderful. It's easy, we love eachother.. we accept imperfections and places we don't agree when it's not important.. we give and take and take turns. I know how to say what I want and I know what I want! I give him space, I appreciate him, I'm proud of him, Lots of positive feedback, and when I give constructive feedback I've managed to learn how to make it either like a teasing joke or a "would be" compliment, or I'm able to say how something makes me feel, or how I'd prefer x, or that x would be awesome, or that I need x to feel y.. I'm able to stick up for myself, stand tall, be proud, and therefore hold my stance and not waver into insecurity. I no longer need constant attention; I can accept that love isn't 100% constant love, that there is an ebb and flow, different moods, situations, and that he needs space to go away so he can come back again.. I can accept now that there are times during the day that our love feels more like friendship or maybe we arent attached to the hip or hes busy or not affectionate.. and it's fine!! All because I am secure in myself. On top of all that, I have had lyme disease this whole time. Dating with a disease is such a struggle, and previously it was a big sore spot for relastionships to go awry. This is because I'm not busy enough, or I have too many symptoms, I need too much help, or I'm too much in self pity victim mode. But I have finally overcome this! I still have the illness (although it's a bit better) but what's changed most is my ability to handle a relationship during illness and not have the illness swallow it up or dominate it. I believe strongly that this is because I now come across as high value, and before I came across as a low value woman because of all those insecurities and therefore neediness. I also accomplished the "when to tell him I'm sick" strategy, finally, with success. Before I may have said it on a first date or even on a dating profile! Just because it's in my mind a lot. But no, that was wrong; I need to treat it like more of a secret so that my other life and personality things are at the top of our connection..leaving occasiobal breadcrumbs about individual, normalized symptoms here and there (ex. Small headache or stomach ache or foot cramp or eye twitching or my leg hurts or a food allergy or tiredness, etc), so its not too huge of a surprise.. and then my illness becomes something I can share when the connection is strong enough that I can be vulnerable and it is then an act of trust to share my secret struggle. Amazing! You Mark Rosenfeld, as well as Clayton Olsen, Matt Boggs, Matthew Hussey, and shein wade media /the feminine woman.. You have ALL helped. Thank you so much for what you do! One other youtube video that's helped me over and over is by actualized.org where the bald guy (whose name I forgot) talks about masculinity and femininity. How most issues are because we treat dogs like they're cats and we want cats to act like dogs. Boyfriend and I agreed that the "ten years ago" versions of us would not have liked eachother. I am so glad I have taken control of my life and rededigned my mind. This stuff works!! I hope lots of people continue getting your anazing advice Mark! May all the women reading this be inspired and have hope that they too can change.. it happens by changing you into someone you will love and respect for 70 years, then changing how you see yourself, and then everyone else sees it too. Have a great day ⚘

This is one Of the best advice I have ever heard about relationships. It's hard but what is hardest is usually the best. Thank you for your great videos

Awesome video Mark! I have struggled with this many times, having a good female friend to unload your crap onto during these times is paramount. It saved me from this torrid path of self destruction and allowed me to build a solid foundation with my guy. His security and validation came in due course and without coercion. Love your work 😍

I think if you tell a girl that she can have fun. Done ... you lose her. I would think that you don’t even care and maybe start looking for another option. It’s better not to say anything or just say that you gonna miss her, than to be crazy jealous or to tell her to have fun.

Thank you Matk for .. 1. Your honesty 2. Explaining what men are thinking on a women's intellectual level. Men and women are so different. You are the bridge I need.

I LOVEEE that you got right to the point instead of dragging and wasting 10 minutes of the video like most youtubers do 😩

serious. real. genuine. you take it out of emotions and insecurities and bring logic, thinking, and presence. thank you for keeping it real. this summer was excruciating. I almost lost the most important person in my life. I know I have to keep my daily mental health self care routine so that I can do all the other things I need to. maria

when it's real you will know. There is no room for games and trying to make someone miss, respect when both of you are for real with your feelings. I know this because I found the man that I am meant to be with forever. we just had a connection to each other from day one. He missed me and I missed him when we were apart.

I've come back to these older videos today for a refresher course on Mark's healthy, common sense approach to relationships. He's never steered me wrong!

Mark, I love how genuine and honest you are. You are a real man. Thank you for making this video for us. I hope in the near future I can be with a guy who has the same quality like yours. All the best! 💖

I have binge-watched soooo many of your videos the past hour.. and I gotta say you are the best dating coach I've ever stumbled upon! Keep the good work up! You are truly amazing!

This is what I need right now. Been battling with major depression and anxiety lately and it's affecting our relationship. My boyfriend is out of the country and I am always anxious about him being away from me. I'm drowning in my own thoughts and insecurities. Thank you for this video, Mark.

I am also a psychologist , I love the way you explain situations and not afraid to use your simple vocabulary ! I do that as well

Mark, this was a phenomenal video! Love how raw and real you are. I actually paid more attention to how you were verbally articulating the analogies. Being a positive person can be exhausting, but I have done exactly what you stated, and it works! Thank you for sharing. ~Bambi (xoxo)

Wauuu! Congratulations Mark! I can say, without of doubt, that you really are one of the best expert in this matter of relationships. You are very subtile, imparcial, tactile, and tremendous center hearted - minded. I really appreciate your excellent work and I'm sure women will be grateful to you. Thank you!

Love this Mark. I have 2 years more in a long distance relationship. These tips are so helpful. I know I give it my all and treat this man like gold. If he leaves I know it's the best I had to give. We have a blast during every visit. Thank you Mark, you help so many people. ♡♡♡♡

Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. I feel like a weight came off of my shoulders after listening to your words, the theory is clear but the practice is a bit hard sometimes, but listening to your words have made me feel like I'm on the right path, I don't feel like I'm exaggerating with the trust I give my boyfriend during our time apart, as a couple women around me have stated. Happiness comes from within and real love doesn't hold on a leash, quite the opposite, if you truly love a person, you want them to be happy and to reach their goals. A most sincere thank you.

I like what you say. A great part of our life's journey is to stay grounded in ourselves and know that no matter what, we will be ok. This kind of strength comes from within and from the deep connection with yourself first:)Thank you Mark and bless you for your fantastic videos. Very sane advise in this insane world! lol!

Omg!..thankx a lot for this video mark..I really love to hear how you explained being a high and uninsecure women..Unbelievable .I and my partner HAVING LDR but before he goes somewhere else..I always remind him..that I do alwaya TRUST him despite of everything..I do care but I dont compete..thanx a lot mark😙

hi mark! i have been following you for a year now..i love all ur videos and i learned a lot from them..thumbs up for you!! the only thing i can hardly deal with now is that my bf has so much negativity in life but i keep on inspiring him by giving some messages because we're having an LDR now..he's in France and i am in Thailand..he thinks all of the world's problems and he's so much concern about what is happening around us and that sometimes makes me sad but i keep on pursuing him by being so positive in life and telling him that i am his number one supporter in everything he does and that i will stand right beside him no matter what it takes.. :-) because of that i don't know if he really misses me or not..but i never oppose him yet i keep on being positive on him..every time, we chat, he always says about the problems in the environment..and that i reply him by giving some positive messages..

Great videos! Just came across them and am enjoying listening to you. One thing I try and notice in relationships is the saying......A person may not always tell you how they feel, but they will always show you....watch what they do. It saves time because some people hang on to long to something they should let go of. I hope you have a great day!

A lot of good advice in your videos Mark! Being in the dating scene again, it takes a lot of patience.. and courage putting yourself out there. And I'm 61 makes it tougher, for competition out there. I haven't found someone yet, but I give myself a pat on the back for putting myself out there, going on dates, and having faith that someone that I truly connect with will come along. Ladies don't give up! I would say, that I've learned- Don't be in your head too much, and be enslaved by your expectations- Don't wait by the phone, wonder when or if he'll call- keep your own life. Nurture, love and focus on you in the meantime. If you're interested in him & he calls back-great. If he doesn't- don't text him back, he has your # is he is into you. And don't be impatient about instant results.. it's all a process, and it takes time. Just keep a positive frame of mind, and faith that eventually the right man will come into your life..

Sounds like it's okay to be attached to the one you love but not to the point of being dependent because then, it spoils everything, thank you again for your videos Mark.

Incredible video as always ✌ I have worked hard on myself for a long time now and I 100% agree with you. I think it boils down to recognising that inner mean girl will always be there, but acknowledging her in your own time is what's needed, not letting her out in public. Thanks again Mark, your a romantic genius.

Hi Mark! I'm a new subscriber. I found you because I randomly started thinking a lot about a guy I thought I was over. You helped me realize it was more about my neurotransmitters. I just finished a project that had me fulfilled and preoccupied and I have a lot of romantic associations with this time of year (summer in the US). Understanding all if this, I feel less victimized by these feelings. I have to tell you though, what's kept me watching is seeing an amazing emotionally intelligent guy putting himself in service to others the way that you are. It reminds me not to lower my standards because there are really amazing men out there that I can reach the level of connection and intimacy that I'm capable of with.

Wow, your advice is incredibly helpful! Long story very short, I had straight-up given-up and was diving into bushes to avoid men (who were "all the same" and "wanted only one thing"). Buuutttt, I found Marks videos and started listening during work; took notes and applied them to a situation I was working out with a dude who I adore but was not into me -except for the obvious). Once I applied the techniques, ESPECIALLY the respect video and worked on my degrading/past habits, within moments of me respecting myself, he is now interested. Pretty genius! I feel completely different within two days of heavy listening and have had normal/non-toxic, kind and interesting men approach me and actually succeed at getting my number. No dick-pics or drama from these guys! Amazing! Thank you! I am beyond-words grateful for your awesome advice!

Actually we meet in my work but we just know for 3 weeks only am always happy wid him maybe thats why he misses me and cant forget me.. the way i show him kindness and thats true mark..Thanks🙂🙂

Another beautifully stated video Mark. Your approach in coaching comes from such a positive and loving place. Thank you my friend!

Wow!! I am now officially a fan of yours! I have been watching several of you videos, but this one takes the cake! You are so honest and humble and so logic!! Thank you so much for this video! It has helped me a lot to understand men 🙌🏻👌🏻👌🏻❤️❤️❤️

I LOVE Mark's emotional and MENTAL maturity! Finally a smart and HOT MAN, who GETS IT!!!🌡🔥

Mark. I'm so glad I found you here. Can you plz share more video about long distance relationship, please? Love u

YOU, my sir..are the TRUTH!!!! You are affirming everything I'm experiencing right now....good vibes only!!! so glad I came across your channel! you are confirming and giving me life!!

Mark...this was a very positive experience...im not commenting again, therefore making you miss my comments and this positive experience...

I have now watched so many of you're videos, great advice I'm upping my standards and making my life better for me 😊

Sure wish I would have watched this a few months ago🤦‍♀️

Wow. I watched tons of videos from many different coaches But never heard this before. Thank you mark. You gave me more self confidence on dating ❤️

This is helpful with regular guys. I just recently realized mine is a narcissist and it’s a completely different way I have to deal with him. We are more entwined with each other than either of us realized. It’s different tactics each day. I have to gage his attitude because it will change in a HEARTBEAT. It took me years to realize he is a narcissist and just recently saw just how far he push for total control. researching narcissism now and dealing with our relationship keeps me on my toes now that I know what I am up against. But otherwise, mark’s advice is sound and worth trying! I have watched a lot of mark’s videos and tried to apply the teachings, but my narcissist plays by his own rules...some things work and some don’t so I am going thru ALOT of trial and error with mine. And it’s easier said, than done...to just up and leave him. We are deeply entwined. Thank you mark

You're so knowledgeable! Some guys would never think of how things work in the long run..such good advice/common sense... thanks.. 😊

Hii Mark!!! Omg this is perfect time for me right now to use these.... Thank you for all these advices.... i love your channel...

Thank god, women need to hear this!!!!

Hey Mark, thank you for your work, you bring such positivity to our lives ..., when I see the notifications to your videos, I always smile ,and expect amazing content .

I was insecure and this really ruins my relationship. Now I am putting back the pieces together. Thank you Mark for great videos, this helps me to be a better partner and a better person. And see things from another point of view.

3rd: the possibility to miss out on these emotions by losing you or having only sporadic contact

I never ever chased any guy in my life. I believe it's guys job to chase girls

Wow youre spot on with that. Ironically, theres a coworker of mine who I actually dug in the beginning, you know, when i first met, but over the course of six months, Im now the one getting pushed the opposite direction because of the hovering and PAINFULLY obvious insecurities that He has been showing..and the funny thing is....we havent been more than friends, but now, for me, it Will never be more than that BECAUSE of his grip...Life and matters of the heart are much more fragile than people realize, right? Thanks for youre video!!!!

This are things I have done always without knowing about it, till now. It has worked every time for me and we're almost 30 years together now

You're super smart at this crap! Wish I could listen to your videos all night so it would actually stick in my head!!!

Love the shirt Mark 😃

Wise words. Thanks so much and for warning us about the advice NOT to take! So great to get a man's perspective!

Hell yessssss!! your advice always work for the best, man! I couldn't agree more, I mean this is exactly what we need to do to prove them that we truly love & trust them. We really have to understand that everyone has every right for their own freedom so we should give them their whole time, let them do whatever they want & enjoy it! people - especially men- hate when they feel like they're locked out of their freedom, so set them free ,they'll appreciate & value you even more =) ! Personally, all I did -when he went away- is being okay with it, thanking him for everything & being sorry if I ever caused him anything. Now it's been 3 months, I never initiate texting or talking to him. I guess he misses me :p because he texted me 3 times in this last month, but i kept it short i want him to miss me more lol, but I'm doing great with my life & I really hope he's too! & HEY PEOPLE out there; always follow Mark's advice,he's gonna save your relationships

This is so helpful tips. I will surely apply this. Thanks Mark😊

I just read your are Australian. .. ye ye. love the australian accent 😊

Hi Mark.. you are so correct.. I tried the same method...the trust factor works very well..and I encourage him to go and be with his friends and enjoy his time...he was so happy and he told me when he was back you are the best companion and great girlfriend,and literally I had seen some of my friends suffering with their girls unpleasant way of dealing the situations and make the unhappy while they are away..

Now thats real advice spoken with real unconditional love. 💕

No sane guy would ever date a devious woman. Never bring another guy to provoke jealousy, we will see you as being devious and untrustworthy and will not hesitate to look for someone with more self integrity.

Lol. How freaky are you mark. This is exactly what i need right now. 👌🏻

omg...this helped me so much...its so simple and i was so blind..."postive emotional experiences" wow...gonna try it

Well said. This is the ULTIMATE truth. Awareness is key thank you for your enlightenment and knowledge. This is so selfless of you to bring us this information. 😉🍾🍻 Cheers!

I just missing your channel Damn am in love with this (Hii!! My 5years Xman he back saying he missed me but ..he madè me hate men when we break up how can I start making up with him

How can I apply how to make a guy miss you in long distance relationship?

This was GOLDEN, with only 2 videos I watched you have helped me so much. I can't wait to see the rest

Hi Mark, I love your videos but I just wanted to tell you how much in particular this video has meant to me. The concept that someone has to associate me with positive emotional experiences has been so profound for me in terms of how I approach my relationships with men but also everyone around me. My friendships are stronger, more men are drawn to me, strangers on the street want to know me! I would really love it if you could do more to really expand upon this concept in terms of how a woman can ensure that people around her have positive associations. For me it’s included taking a more easygoing and flexible approach to making plans, not ever laying a guilt trip on anyone, asking others about themselves more often, using positive feedback to show support for my friends and never negative. Can you give some more ideas?

Do you feel pressures in your relationships to live up to your coachings

This goes for women as well. Men do the same thing with make us want to...leave

Mark you are a godsend love all of your coaching just be sure to love the woman who stands with you behind every good man..

Wow great advice Mark! When I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship, I will definitely put your amazing advice to good use. Thank you! ☺️

What kind of f...k relation is this where partners are happy only with other people? B.S....Happiness must be shared together, as a couple.....otherwise, cheatings appear...often guys are saying... "I found at her, what you didn't give me" ...or "I realized that I had more fun with her"... or " I wanted to try something new"...If a guy is in a casual relationship, as you mentioned... Sky is the limit of his betrayal because he knows he has at home a girl that swallows all his crap in order for him to be happy and in a so called relation with him....

u are just to beautiful and handsome to be a youtuber

Ooh I really LOVE that,And Mark's energy As well:)

This is so true! You are awesome and inspirational Mark! Thank you 🙂

How about when he said "go have fun, enjoy your time with your family ( I went to visit my family in California) and I got back two months after, he told me that he got someone pregnant while I was away...

Hi Mark, Your videos are very informational and most of your advice already applies to my personality. However, I've had all negative experiences in relationships. Therefore, I will admit I am probably the most jaded person on this planet and completely anti-dating (very very very long stories). Now, a problem I've always had (and still currently have).....is they my ex's are constantly missing me for sex.....and new guys, who ask me out are also looking for sex (I can tell). So, it's a constant battle fighting these perverts off....which has resulted with myself refusing to date and living out my life solo. My question.....How do I get guys to leave me alone?

that is sooo true Mark. I am evidence of this. I had for some time a long distance relatioship ,,,we only saw each other every 9 months as we lived on different continents . and everybody thought this will not last more than a month! we met for only 20 wonderful days once a year.. It lasted amazingly long because I never showed my insecurities...even though of course I sometimes had some, who doesnt? I always was enthusiastic about his going out with friends, wished him a great time and never ever whined.or pestered him: w/ " who are you going out with ?: etc." then I also told him that I'm going out with friends or a friend to party or dinner or weeekend so he would know I'm also enjoying my social life and am possibly treasured by "others" as well, and that has kept him on his toes!. he could not take me for granted either!. He knew I was attractive and that there would always b a danger. I often noted some hidden jealousies and it pleased me to know he was worried about losing me .I often brought up good memories of the past that we did together into the present, to refresh our realationship. that worked as we laughed while reliving our good or funny times together. He kept texting or calling me every day, so I KNOW I was always on his mind. We lasted several years which is amazing to me..

When he feels that you trust him, he will miss you even more. When you show him that you trust him and believe in him, you are creating more positive experiences for him and you are being a high value woman.

Mark Rosenfield most attractive man alive

What about an open relationship? My insecurities are always heightened because he does have the option to sleep with other people.

Marks my favorite. Great help and advice

I’m living in Aus and learning English. I watch your channel for English listening practice because you speak little bit Aussie English and put subtitle :) it’s great that I can learn about relationship at the and time! Thank you!

I was "the best f****g girlfrnd he's ever had", (He so often said so. Without the "f****g" in his words!). But alas that didn't make him stay...he ran off... To come back, be a nice/angry person again and again... No true reason concerning me. But deep unworked issues in youth. He jst found it too difficult to be polite to me after a nice day of work together.... Hyper sad no? After having been in the lonely desert for 6 f****g yrs, prior to meeting him, we were so glad that at long last we had 'found' each other. So happy. So in love... But his terrible anger issues and his controlling habits (at few strange times), made the relationship into a calvary for me. I just wish he wld've worked on his issues before meeting me. Or at least showing his will to want to work on them (in therapy) whilst together. I pray God works miracles. Either that he comes back a much better person to me, (because, besides the anger isdues, he was soooo good and a great man to me), or I am blessed w/ a fantastic superbe new man! Pray for me plse! Thank you, thank you, thank you.

such distracting arms along with genius tips. 😅😥

Very helpful tips, thanks. I wanted to give more likes 👍

Such true, intelligent and honest advice. On another note you're so brave... the sound of that wasp, bee or fly in the background would have me running lol

Don't take this the wrong way, no malice intended...but...if you want to attract top quality women, you need to burn the shirt you're wearing in this video, lol P.S: Great video

So good advice again and so true! Nice Mark 👍🏻! Trust is the foundation of your relationship!! My man travels a lot because of his work and I totally trust him... always! And when he is away he misses me more than I do him 😅 (but this I do not tell him 😬)!

So smart! This exactly how it is working. My mom said: don't ever let him to feel like in a trap. Wait until he is calling just let him feel that you have fun and he should start to chaise you and miss you otherwise you will be gone. It always works. Make man likes you and then leave him space that he can realize what he wants.

THE LAST TWO COMMENTS ARE HILARIOUS! ahaha We have to see the humor in every situation!