How to master your Emotional Intelligence | Mikaeel Ahmed Smith (Full Podcast)

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What does it mean to be intelligent? Immediately we may think of figures like Albert Einstein and those who possess a genius-level IQ. People who have committed much to memory and have brains like computers.
Yet today, this traditional understanding of intelligence has taken a major shift - whereby those who have excelled in their IQ are being overshadowed by those who have mastered the EQ. Emotional Intelligence.
Today we are joined with Shaykh Mikaeel Ahmed Smith, a teacher at Qalam Seminary in Texas, and author of the book “With the heart in mind - the moral and emotional intelligence of the Prophet ﷺ”.
Join us, as we unravel the profound concept of emotional intelligence to not only better our lives and relationships, but to better our identity as Muslims and embodiments of the Prophetic Sunnah.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:45 Defining Emotional Intelligence
8:00 Articulating and timing your emotions
11:00 Defining Moral Intelligence
17:30 Using Emotional Intelligence in Dawah
20:00 Neglecting hearts in Islamic Schooling
23:39 Prophetic Proofs for Emotional Intelligence
26:30 The three brains by Imam Al Ghazalli
29:00 Using Emotional Intelligence in relationships
31:45 The Importance of Touch
41:00 Achieving presence in an overstimulated world
50:10 Removing Distractions
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@leroygreen214 2 жыл бұрын

It’s videos like this that draw me closer and closer to taking my Shahada. This is beautiful

@sumayyahali9004 8 ай бұрын

Take it. You only live once

@omegatheofficial-7528 8 ай бұрын

I’m reading your comment a year later; i hope you’re doing good and you’ve made it to the right path…please take your shahada if you still haven’t May Allah guide you I wish you well

@user-dn3rp5yl1i 8 ай бұрын

My allah guide you and I.a you take your shahada right now

@Pluralperspectives 8 ай бұрын

May Allah make things easy on you, bless you with enlightenment, and guide you to the straight path. Ameen. 🤲🏼

@nainashowkat880 8 ай бұрын

May ALLAAH guide u brother.Indeed HE ( the Almighty God) is One,who has no partners.ALLAAH ,the Sustainer needed by all n the One Who needs no one.He has never had offspring nor was He born(the Uncreated) .And there is no one comparable to Him.

@Umbro015 2 жыл бұрын

RULER: R = Recognition (recognize your and others' emotions) U = Understanding (understand your and others' emotional state) L = Label (if you can't name it, you can't tame it) E = Expression (emotions have to be articulated in the right way) R = Regulation (yes you express, but you regulate it as well - space out the stimulus and response so you can choose which response to make)

@abigase135 2 жыл бұрын

I might've missed something, could you tell me why he chose the word ruler?

@Umbro015 2 жыл бұрын

@@abigase135 I'm not sure of his particular reason, but mnemonics are typically used as a learning/memory tool. So by simply remembering "RULER", you can recall the exact steps (Recognition, Understanding, Label, Expression, Regulate) we need to think of when we're interacting with people in the middle of an emotional exchange to make sure we communicate effectively and positively. Of course, I imagine this will require a lot of active practice to master, but it will be beneficial for all of our relationships, inshaAllah. Personally, I think RULER is a great mnemonic because we must "measure" our behavior in a "measured" way 😀

@lifeandzindagi Жыл бұрын

@@abigase135 may be to rule on our own emotions to guide it to response positively and not insanely. RULER of our own emotions.

@salman_alanas Жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu khair❣️

@Umbro015 Жыл бұрын

@@salman_alanas wa iyyakum!

@Sammy-yv8sf 2 жыл бұрын

This the best video I’ve ever watched. I’ll forever remember this.. all that time I was going through feelings and hurt was actually valid. I was allowed to feel that way and I feel happy and insha’Allah I’d be able to move on positively R= recognise U= understanding L= label E= express R= regulate Thank you for this beautiful content, may Allah (Swt) bless you all.

@mylordtakemeaway 2 жыл бұрын

we should say, "this might be the best..." just like any other things we compare as this could unintentionally, nevertheless be a lie because there could be another video that we don't remember and that could have been the best

@fightingdreamer8681 8 ай бұрын

Ameen 🧡

@jasminasinanbegovic6225 Жыл бұрын

In my opinion it goes so, practice Ahlak....you don't have to be born as a person with characteristics of patience, easy forgiving one or anything. Even if you are not raised as such from your parents, you can raise yourself on your own. When hardship comes and you can't handle anymore, instead of complaining or cursing, sustain your tongue, practice gratitude for what you have, pray, you will avoid sinning and engage in ibadah...so you come automatically to God a bit closer. Practice it until your state of mind changes after that reality changes as well. When you want to fall in rage sustain, backup until you calm down and you know what to say calmly, it's never too late to speak....it is to late when wrong words come out. Train it the same way you go in gym, this is gym for soul

@juljanapepnika9174 2 жыл бұрын

35:18 thats so true, when my brother was born my mom tells me that he was crying so much but once the doctor put him on my mother chest , when he felt the warmth of his mother and saw her he stoped crying immediatly! subhanallah

@peacenow6618 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

@zendarkritical 2 жыл бұрын

Ameen ya Raballalameen. Also, it's good to write "SWT" (and say the phrase this abbreviation stands for) after mention the name of God Almighty. Like this: Allah (SWT) Writing it like this is the appropriate way (its not exactly necessary but it's thikr that's beneficial to you and appropriate) talk about Allah (SWT). This phrase stands for "subhanahu wa ta'ala", which means "The Most Glorified, The Most High". Saying SWT after mentioning Allah (SWT) both gives the praise, respect, and glory which is due to Allah (SWT) and also gives you free hasanat (good deeds). By the way SWT is not usually said/written after saying things inshallah or bismillah and similar tathkir but if you want more hasanat then you can feel free to write it down / say it. JazakAllahukhairan for reading this. Also, read this for more info if you would like (its a very easy to read and short article that covers a lot): en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_honorifics

@seeki3315 2 жыл бұрын

Narrated Abu Raja Al-Utaridi: We used to worship stones, and when we found a better stone than the first one, we would throw the first one and take the latter, but if we could not get a stone then we would collect some earth (i.e. soil) and then bring a sheep and milk that sheep over it, and perform the Tawaf around it. When the month of Rajab came, we used (to stop the military actions), calling this month the iron remover, for we used to remove and throw away the iron parts of every spear and arrow in the month of Rajab.

@whatsreallyinvaccineshealt756 2 жыл бұрын

The Prophet P.b.u.h Said Allah has sent down both the disease and the cure, and He has appointed a cure for every disease.---$unan Abu Dawood 3874 No Misfortune can Happen on earth or in your souls but it is recorded in a decree before we bring it into existence - Quran 57 : 22 ( The Question is why do we trust Doctors more than Allah ) Science does not believe in Allah & we reject science on this matter.

@shahee6579 2 жыл бұрын

anyone got the link for sheikhs book

@alhamdulilah4950 2 жыл бұрын

Amin

@safina2022 2 жыл бұрын

JazakAllahu khair for this. Emotional intelligence/wisdom/regulation is something that needs to be brought to the forefront. The love, mercy and understanding in Islam has been left behind and its return is essential in our daily practices. May Allah SWT guide us and protect us Ameen

@Hudanasheeds 2 жыл бұрын

When he said the power to slow down time and choose his response. It is meant that one who is focused and present in mind will have more time to think clearly to react in the best way possible may Allah keep us present and allow us to train our mind for success. And feel peace in prayer

@itsamatar5320 2 жыл бұрын

I’m 💯buying the book!! This brother is a gem ..thank you OnePath for making this happen

@zainabmohammed9993 2 жыл бұрын

What’s the name of the book

@user-mx6ql3te4z 2 жыл бұрын

@@zainabmohammed9993 With the heart in mind 0:33

@basharatrasool4294 Жыл бұрын

Can u send me pdf of this book

@okiburrahaman6774 2 жыл бұрын

The understanding give me goosebumps... Wow the realization that there is a blessing in every Sunnah is enough we don't have to research about the philosophy behind it.. 😍😍😍😍🥰

@najahfuller9256 2 жыл бұрын

100%

@abdosalah8783 2 жыл бұрын

Last week i downloaded that book named (how did the prophet behave with them) talking about all type of people around the prophet family, friends, and even nonbelievers . Seriously what I can say is what god said " and indeed you are of a great moral character " صلي الله عليه وسلم 💚💚💚

@josealiah2915 2 жыл бұрын

were can I download dis book thank you

@essence_bd4658 2 жыл бұрын

From where?

@Abdullah-Md Жыл бұрын

From where?

@ellajackson7089 Жыл бұрын

this man energy is sooooo good,I always look for people like em😄 thanks for invitin him

@mastulanakiboneka5146 2 жыл бұрын

Emotional intelligence- should be the hallmark of doing da’awa. Thank you brothers👏🏾

@thepeacefuldeen9769 2 жыл бұрын

Brother i really wish that your channel has subtitles ( i was told that these subtitles aren’t correct) for people who have difficulty in understanding and hearing like me i would appreciate that🤲🏼May Allah make this content successful as we could learn , And bless you with alot of successful and good health May he Also guide us all.

@Kickysan 2 жыл бұрын

Best 50+ minutes of my life ever hands down yo...❤️

@zubsaif 2 жыл бұрын

Wallahi this is most deserving topic ever needs to be put together…this is what.

@Msferedrose 2 жыл бұрын

I honestly love these. Love having these playing in the background while working and then revisiting the points that resonated the most. Keep up the good work guys!

@abbysheyba8421 2 жыл бұрын

The Prophet aleihi salat wa salaam was absolutely brilliant, measured, balanced and perfected. Nothing about him was too much or too little, perfectly well rounded.

@OldChannelUnknown 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing work, thank you, i'm gonna use all these informations to help the people around me

@Unichab001 2 жыл бұрын

You herree yoo do a video about it الشعب الجزائري يحتاجك

@laflegma380 2 жыл бұрын

This is the best video I’ve seen in my life probably. May Allah swt grant this man jannah. Such intelligence.

@want2cit 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdullilah this brother is so correct he was talking about all my weakness. May Allah reward him.

@faizasrishty9922 2 жыл бұрын

I hope everyone watches this insha'Allah. Such an important podcast

@fathimaali3777 2 жыл бұрын

Need of the hour!!. Jazakallah khair shukran Jazeelan.

@NasrisLeftFoot Ай бұрын

I love sh. Mikaeel. Can listen to him for days

@l00tenant_ne0x 2 жыл бұрын

MasaAllah, so many pearls of wisdom popping off in this podcast! Elhamdulillah.

@vanessa7566 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I’ve been needing, thanks.

@naisa9705 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of my favorite channels jazakamullahu khayr. Keep it up

@ahmedkhalid4783 2 жыл бұрын

i love this sheikhs energy and enthusiasm may allah bless him

@zs4926 2 жыл бұрын

JazakaAllah for this, amazing, insightful and truly an eye opener! May Allah (SWT) reward greatly all those who were involved in bringing this about, Aameen.

@esmailamariam9162 2 жыл бұрын

Shaykh Mikaeel is a blessing!!

@SabzQaafow123 2 жыл бұрын

Just ordered your book! can't wait until it arrives! Jzak'Allah Shiekh

@user-zy4qc6wy2o 2 жыл бұрын

JazakAllah khairan. Absolutely enjoyed it!

@user-zy4qc6wy2o 2 жыл бұрын

I bought this 2 years ago and read it, Alhamdulillah!

@faryaarshad9846 10 ай бұрын

This is SUCH an important skill that needs to be taught to everyone.

@Dhakir2304 2 жыл бұрын

Sheer brilliance.. Can't believe I missed this podcast when this aired

@lover7403 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you all abundantly, it is so refreshing to see this 🤗

@awoawil3010 2 жыл бұрын

Countless times I'm here and listening it over and over again 💝 this podcast Is so close to my heart ❤💙💜💖💗💘❤

@nurn.3969 Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah . I was in need of this. Thank you. Alhamdulilah. May be I learn something inshaAllah

@youngswooz 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah this podcast made me start to think. May Allah guide us and make it easier for us to enter jannah. Amen

@surayatimol2385 2 жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah..this was so beneficial..may Allah grant us taufeeq of amal

@AbdulhayyeMaricar 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best podcast I have ever listened to. Masha allah

@tahsinalam6720 Жыл бұрын

Emotional Intelligence what i was studying about.This podcast has accelerated to dive in my research. Just wow.May allah give them more articulation. 😊❤️

@farisha866 2 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah !! It was a beautiful session

@amine-qy7ih 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah truly amazing Jazakoum Allah khyr

@JREVideos. 2 жыл бұрын

Mashaallah, a great knowledge to be learn ,may Allah bless you sheyk and the two host in both dunya and akhira❤

@dryasmeenpathan7028 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah may Allah grant the onepath team jannah

@mejrarebronja8300 2 жыл бұрын

This was just amazing, thank you!

@alihyder3546 2 жыл бұрын

Hands down 🙌, one of the best podcast yet! Please share the social media links of the speaker, so that we could benefit from his knowledge. Thank you for such content for free👍 Peace and Salam from India 🇮🇳☝️

@hahazim34 2 жыл бұрын

This channel is something else

@zee4582 2 жыл бұрын

This is similar to subconscious reprogramming but in a halal way becoming more conscious mentally and physically in every moment

@haboonaimee 2 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah man this man words are like pieces of a key that opens ones heart

@shafter164 2 жыл бұрын

MA keep up the good work and jzk khaira for keeping bringing to the world loving sheikhs like this MA

@sufiyansaeed1863 2 жыл бұрын

The best ever podcast of my life😍😍😍😍😍😍😍love from Pakistan

@rezaankhalid 2 ай бұрын

Mashallah this podcast was so effective

@hassanlukyamuzi6576 2 жыл бұрын

I like the articulacy and the ocean of knowledge embodied MashaAllah may the Almighty reward me for listening and you for delivering the knowledge.

@naveedakhtar5723 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Very informative and thought provoking

@sarahbeck6907 11 ай бұрын

This is pure gold, allahuma barek 🤲🏼❤️

@peacenow6618 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu Khayran Ahsanul Jaza

@Mariam-em8zh 2 жыл бұрын

That was amazing. Ty for sharing such beautiful knowledge

@salman_alanas Жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu khair❣️

@abuuk 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful SubhanAllah, what an exquisite talk show!

@Hoodie_queen 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for choosing this topic ❤❤ Mashallah

@Ishratmoona 2 жыл бұрын

So much to learn from it . Worth spending your time ♥️

@Unknown-tj8iz 2 жыл бұрын

May allah reward you brothers ♥️🌹

@avanahmad2051 Жыл бұрын

I love this so much. As I am getting into philosophy and finding this is very helpful.

@mohamedabukar8786 2 жыл бұрын

Jazaka allah one of the best i have ever watched ❤💖💓💕♥

@ahsanwagan 2 жыл бұрын

Man i love these podcasts

@foziajfr 2 жыл бұрын

My coach always says "Stay in the moment" my biggest struggle, May Allah SWT grant us all mindful presence Inshallah. 🤲Ameen.

@nebatabduyusuf9496 2 жыл бұрын

Masha'Allah brother Mechael this is powerful. May Allah grant you jennetul firdos 🤲🤲

@kjy05 6 ай бұрын

SubhaanAllah amazing work

@MariamZawjatNomayri 10 ай бұрын

ربنا زدنا علما و انفعنا بما علمتنا. امين

@RevertsQuest 2 жыл бұрын

Mashaalh knowledge is blessing....thankz you brothers you allowed me to realise some of my qualities

@kawthergasim7108 2 жыл бұрын

Helped a lot thank you guys!!

@rumaysarizwan7806 Жыл бұрын

Best podcast

@rasheedajamal381 11 ай бұрын

Subah Allah . what a beautiful inspiration talk.

@TheNoob23712 2 жыл бұрын

It's awesome. This fascinating topic can chnage your way of thinking . Jazakallah hu khiran kaseeran

@adiljafri1094 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakumullahu Khair !

@sarahbenzai5358 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing content guys! وفقكم الله فيما يحب

@proudmuslimah..1020 2 жыл бұрын

It's beautiful that we are all one Ummah 💗💖☺️

@ayeshasamah9258 Жыл бұрын

Loved this discussion

@tasneemrasool8222 8 ай бұрын

Thanks a trillion for this treasure of beautiful information I have been craving for.Jazak Allah Khairan kaseerah. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤

@AS-qg8cc 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely beautiful anologies... Keep it up, one path! MAY Allah take you from strength to strength

@benslimen6092 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakallah khayr a great video, may god bless you for sharing knowledge 🤲

@abrotheronline9555 2 жыл бұрын

This was amazing, brothers. Alhamdulillah.

@-saheehinternationalorisah4959 2 жыл бұрын

Assalamu Aleikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu Mashallah and Say Mashallah and remember this to (make this a habit and when not around a believer say it with ur tounge and lips with intention to and or extremely softly so that even u can't hear) when need be (acknowledgement, praise, admiration, understanding, sight/seen, beauty to you & or not to you, when you want to praise Allah (it does mean praise be to Allah after all)) because a women once praised one of my parent for having really whitte teeth which she does not have and my mom does bruah her teeth very well and this was never near sight of possibility before but than allmost all her teeth fell out out of to much bacteria suddenly because she didn't say Mashallah and the result was ayn (what people call evil eye wich is actually known as eye

@UrwaFarhan 8 ай бұрын

JazakAllah khayr

@alifgraphics 2 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah Subhaanallah May Allah protect you for us AAMMIN

@infaalsheikh9507 2 жыл бұрын

The best part of this whole podcast was the examples of Prophet SAW ❤️💯

@zalsabila1282 2 жыл бұрын

masyaAllah ,as a muslim we have a best ever rolemode in we life ❤️❤️

@ermmok.1048 2 жыл бұрын

Subahanallah i learned so much may Allah reward all of you Inshallah

@easyandnatural6320 2 жыл бұрын

ماشاء الله لا قوة الا بالله Beautiful extracts from the Seerah of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. True , people who are emotionally intelligent, if they are not regulating themselves through the Quran and Sunnah, they can exploit and opress others . This is based on personal observation and experience. Alhamdulillah!!!