It seem like mostly you are just putting people down that are on dating sites. What’s wrong with knowing where someone is from, it’s just a conversation starter.
@cinemaseries9581 Жыл бұрын
most of girls on these apps use filters, in reality they are light years away from their online appearances
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah, exactly! I would say I’m one of them hahahahah 😂
@GeilerDaddy9 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Sounds like you're extremely stupid.
@MrBeretboy10 ай бұрын
Hello Ying. You and Eric put a smile on my face the whole time! You exhibit an authenticity and sweetness that is so refreshing. And Eric is a good friend who tells it like it is and in a hilarious fashion. You're a good team. Thank you.
@yinginthailand9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching us :)
@AlanStarkey4 ай бұрын
It's not a stupid question asking about freelance, probably half the girls on the site are freelancers.
@ignaciorestrada4 ай бұрын
More like 99%
@55Quirll10 ай бұрын
I am 68, living in Thailand since 2005 and the dating apps and sites are still hard to get around, I am used to meeting a person face to face. I did enjoy your video and the advice you gave for it. Take care and stay well and happy Ying.
@yinginthailand10 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching :)
@55Quirll10 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Very welcome Ying 🙏
@joelb0999 ай бұрын
My older step brother is also 68 yo and lives in chiang mai.. He says that dating apps are not at all helpful at all at this age.Plus he is just average to below average in looks dept..He used thai friendly when he first landed in C.M.Just a bunch of freelancers on thai friendly that all want money to have a 6 hour or less date.. My brother says Face to face is the way to go in meeting a respectable thai woman that does respectable work instead of freelancing... Thats how He found his 42 yo girl friend.. She was shopping at the food market., next to his condo...And he saw her every day and struck up a conversation.. Now they are celebrating 8 months together..He sent me pics of her. She looks only 30 yo.. She looks stunning.. Good on him..
@55Quirll9 ай бұрын
@@joelb099 That’s great news. I agree, meeting face to face is the best way to meet women 👍
@AdamSavageland Жыл бұрын
Great video! It would have been nice to see the original Bumble conversation between you and Eric since that one clearly worked 😊
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Hey thanks so much for watching 😊 I wish I had saved the chat history. I deleted all now 🥹
@AndrexFlounder Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand if you remember it you can still write it down 😁😁
@13hubi136 ай бұрын
@yingonyoutube i wanna get such a cute girl like you
@94vrcommodoreАй бұрын
They're good 3 tips you've given. People who just message 'hi' or 'hello' are just boring and waiting for a response.
@hassanrajput813721 күн бұрын
hi, I must say there is a big difference between people who are living in Thailand and who are traveling. people who live there have option to choose, take some time find what they want, whereas, the people who are traveling don't have that luxury. That's why they often indulge fast for meeting, hence the all network is different for settled ones and traveling ones.
@apollomoon1 Жыл бұрын
Fun stuff!! Thanks for posting. Before texting we had to talk on the phone. You’re right it’s much more meaningful to chat with a person and hear their voice. Much easier to make a judgment of liking someone.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I would say first impression is very important :) Thanks for watching 😊
@Buffa12717 күн бұрын
You seem to enjoy rejecting, then laughing about it. Texting is such a waste of time, that’s why we want to meet to have human encounter, not phone encounter, I have come to hate relationship through phone, it’s so fake.
@shaneashby5890 Жыл бұрын
That’s for making this video Ying, it was really informative. Hope you can make more videos about dating and educating us more about Thai women.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed 😊 Thanks for watching ^^
@mav18774 ай бұрын
I don't like Bumble dating app in general, but it might work in Thailand. I prefer to send the first message.
@hassanrajput813721 күн бұрын
There is language issues also. on apps majority of girls cant reply in English
@wanwan434511 ай бұрын
I love Ying accent!
@yinginthailand11 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@cwill200025 күн бұрын
This was a good video, your friend kept the video going.
@yinginthailand25 күн бұрын
Thank you 😊🫶
@MermanManly5 ай бұрын
Why is it that women complain if guys only open with, "Hi", "Hey", or "Hello", meaning they require more effort... but then most women open with exactly same thing? That's a double standard. Call it out for what it is. A relationship is a two-way street.
@eastman40Ай бұрын
Lol. What a coincidence. I was thinking, yesterday, to get on Tinder and find someone who can join me in Bangkok as my companion for two weeks of my whole stay at my cost. We go out and about and do many things together and we have a clean and a good fun together.
@yinginthailandАй бұрын
Lucky You 🫶 Glad you have fun 😊
@eastman40Ай бұрын
But I have not yet found anyone..... Still looking for@@yinginthailand
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
A lot of hungry foreigners in Thailand
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
@@eastman40 yes of course I m from Belgium
@eastman4028 күн бұрын
@@joostroelens8710 that's OK and nice. Every person deserves a good and a clean fun time.
@parinmetwaiyanetipong8463 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ll have to try bumble😂 thanks Ying for this video!😋
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thanksssssssss ka 🥹
@jddress5054 Жыл бұрын
Why don't the two of you date? You look great together. You seem to be on the same wavelength too. I personally didn't like the discriminatory comments but who cares what I think of you!
@ChristopherPhillips8 ай бұрын
Sounds like they did, or do. Eric mentioned they matched/met on Bumble.
@muajin7 күн бұрын
She ended up breaking up with him (heard it was due to him not spending enough on her). She was seen recently with a Swedish guy and she had a ring on. Looks like she’s engaged to this new guy
@Goldfinger555 Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here. Thanks - great advice even though I don’t want to use the dating app but always wondered how it worked. I can also give some of my single friends better advice now.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 😊
@Saricelina11 ай бұрын
Great video! khob khun ka Ying from California
@yinginthailand10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed, thanks for watching :)
@zhongguojiayou2675 Жыл бұрын
All these dating apps are a scam, I have a friend of mine, who used to use these dating apps, never got one single match ever. Plus, my friend isn't your average guy, he's good looking, quite humorous, good sense of humour & a lot of fun to hang out with. It seems, like all these darting apps, are geared towards catering to women rather than both sides. Women seem to get more matches than guys on all these dating apps. It's ridiculous & a waste of time.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I understand. I thought many guys also get a lot of messages. Thanks for watching 🙂
@giannilyanicks17184 ай бұрын
so don't try to find on these apps
@darassylmoniakam4 ай бұрын
cause there's often more guys on the apps than girls so they have too much choices i guess, sooo what would be the best solution?
@jamalgreen30564 ай бұрын
😂😂I’m an average guy well to most women in America I am but on the dating apps I do get matches the point is this just because you get matches don’t mean the females will actually talk to you.I mean dam it’s just like on social media on the dating apps most of us guys can’t even get any female to message us back.And even wen a few females did message me back we would message each other for like a few hours-one day after that the females will stop replying back or the others will just continue to look at my message and not reply back.This is why I’m meeting a Thai girl in person my first encounter with a Thai girl will be in person forget social media and forget these dating apps.These dating apps make money off of guys because they only charge us they don’t charge the women nothing.And some of the dating apps that do charge women they don’t charge them nearly as much as they do men.So you mean to tell me tons of men are supposed to pay monthly subscriptions for what and the benefit that we may get is not even a guarantee 🤔yea fuck that.Thats why over 1,000 employees from bumble got let go 2 months ago because they said it wasn’t enough men using bumble anymore.I have even been seeing women complaining about how it’s not hardly any men on these dating apps anymore shall not😅😊.Most definitely Thai friendly that dating app is the worst yes it has a lot more attractable Thai women on there but got dam u won’t be able to get no girl to consistently conversate with for not even one day.Some of them may give you there instagram because they will say they receive too many messages on Thai friendly.And after wen u get there instagram yall will literally exchange a few words between one another talking about very basic stuff and after that nothing.So unless u have your first encounter with these females in person fellas it’s a waist of time to get them to see u as someone different online.They get too much attention online and too many guys hitting them up they will mislead you and treat u like the rest no 😊.
@giannilyanicks17184 ай бұрын
@@jamalgreen3056 what we should do if we're in another country
@TCEssel Жыл бұрын
I prefer meeting professional business women through the course of my business and social activities in Thailand, but this is still helpful.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙂
@marijusofficial8 ай бұрын
This video is pure gold,Ying you should open dating agency if so many people write to you.I am just joking.I think Thaifriendly is good for guys,but not for girls.Bumble is nice for girls.Tinder is nice for both.Truly enjoyed this video.Yes a call is a pro move and needs to be executed at the right time.
@yinginthailand8 ай бұрын
Hehe I don’t think I can advice anyone with dating hahaha You’re right, there’re pros and cons in all dating sites. We need luck 🍀 for that also haha thanks for watching 😊
@ResidentGG Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is more like educational for me.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊 Hope you enjoy!
@austinbarrett5295 Жыл бұрын
Love your channel! Thai ladies are the best ! Where is good place in Bangkok that you would suggest for a guy to meet a thai lady in person. Bars? Markets? Clubs? I can't imagine that dating sites is good when you are getting 500 responses lol.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
You could find Thai girls anywhere here. It depends on what kind of girls you’re looking for. The only site I got 500 responses was thai friendly which I don’t recommend lol Good luck and thanks for watching 😊
@williamgray8499 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the look at modern "dating stuff". As a 64-year-old I feel more like I was "Alice" peering thru the "Looking Glass"🙃
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
😊 thanks for watching ^^
@Phucket244 ай бұрын
Ying your too good for dating Apps your a stunner 10/10 just keep looking you will find yourself a decent man good luck
@yinginthailand4 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@EdwinRodriguez-zt5fx Жыл бұрын
Great video, it's interesting that saying hi for most guys as an introduction is frown upon but in Bumble that's the go to line for girls 😂. My question would be, what's the best way to meet other young that professionals? Not that there's anything wrong with bar/massage girls, but I feel like what makes a woman interesting to me is more on the intellectual and accolade side of the equation.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Hehe thank you for watching 🙂 I think you could find many professional young women online as well. I would suggest you take time talking to them and you will finally know if that makes sense 😃
@55Quirll10 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Could you suggest good sites or places to meet girls? I am 68 and have been in Thailand for 18 1/2 years
@regnorse4 ай бұрын
?? 19 years and dont know..how is that possible? @@55Quirll
@martinnormanton273014 күн бұрын
I use Tinder and 85% are bar or freelance in hua hin
@rolfkarneman6564Ай бұрын
Never had Tinder or Bumble. Tried thai friendly. So many women says "hi how are you" . Dont know how that phrase was invented but i never reply to those.
@johnfreeman4458 Жыл бұрын
Hi most girls on Thai friendly are bar girls looking customers. That why they are guys asking you these questions to you
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah agree with that. Thanks for watching ☺️
@MrGman2804 Жыл бұрын
Interesting @4:27 that nothing is on offer. As a guy, when I was in Thailand, I had the other way around. I was genuinely looking for a girlfriend, and frequently the contacts to me were offering things.... so from this I conclude 'Thai Friendly' does appear to have a large element of 'that' going on. I just gave up in the end, because I would say most of the contacts I received were offering 'that'. I still live in hope.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah, Thai Friendly is more for that kind of things. However, you should try Bumble. I think there's more chance to meet some normal women. Good Luck 🙂
@MrGman2804 Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailandThanks. Good luck with the channel Ying.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
Meet in person is the best way a lot of Fake people in dating site
@mathris2875Ай бұрын
I think it was good seeing the other side of the coin. A lot of foreigners are calling out their money to lure thai women. Yet a lot of men complain that thai women are only dating men for the money.
@lw60014 ай бұрын
Ying should be more proactive in what are common or pleasant introductions.? Take more narrative control of the next videos you develop. You're audience needs more interesting opinions and taste about Thai women. Very good video.
@JurassicRap4 ай бұрын
Bring this Eric guy back to our screens! Does he has a channel I could follow?
@yinginthailand3 ай бұрын
Yes, check out his podcast channel -> onenightinbangkok podcast :)
@karabogazАй бұрын
it's about appearance all over the world.
@PFG888 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! @5:52 - it would be really helpful to know what is your type, oh if you can do a video about what your type is and/or what is the type of most Thai girls. @17:20 - thanks, it's good that you provided example of a guy should do. I'll keep this in mind for next time haha. This video was fun, it'll be good if you have a girl friend who uses these apps too, so that we can also see the opinion/perspective of other Thai girls as well.
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for watching 😊 will consider your suggestions 😘
@huhwhat98308 ай бұрын
Mediocre women are doomed. 555 likes in a week for an average one. That’s why I didn’t have much luck on that app. Too much competition for a bust down.
@intsccents Жыл бұрын
Hi Ying i realized i remembered you from your apartment reivew and not from Jonny somthings happening ? you are so poised and classy and i hope your channel does well for youI I did enjoy the brief conversation with jonny but as a traveler to thailand for now over 20 years i can say i liked your review and honest discription of the cost of living in your apartment . Keep bringing fresh and videos with a real Thai perspective and i think you can gain an audience of people like mysel interested in many areas in Thailand city living and otherwise .. L.A Rob
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Hello Rob 😊 thank you so much for watching. Yeah I met Johny and Som last weekend in Hua Hin and we made some video. They're really nice :) Hope you enjoyed your time here 🙂 I would like to do more videos about local people, hopefully I could post more soon 🥳
@human-ce5yg10 ай бұрын
I like to have Thailand friends but I don't know where I should look I also want to visit Thailand
@yinginthailand10 ай бұрын
Try those apps or there're community group on FB too. :)
@SB-do1bu7 ай бұрын
problem with her is she wouldn't even give an asian guys a chance. biggest red flag in a person
@yinginthailand6 ай бұрын
I give everyone a chance :)
@94vrcommodoreАй бұрын
Just one more question. When I use dating apps to meet women. When I meet someone online, I'll text as an opening line 'you've got a beautiful smile and nice eyes'. Is that a good ice breaker?
@yinginthailandАй бұрын
That’s also great but better say more like open question so that they can answer you more than just saying “Thank you “ You know what I mean? 😅
@94vrcommodoreАй бұрын
@@yinginthailand ok. Thanks for your tip
@vrino2237 ай бұрын
Nice video? Btw what is the track at 13.30 mins? :)
@alblack98692 ай бұрын
Use Shazam for that!
@vrino223Ай бұрын
@@alblack9869 i did and it didnt catch it :/
@vrino223Ай бұрын
@@alblack9869 did not work
@xx-uz2kz Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed video. Unique
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
Your video is very informative
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
I would like to meet a semi professional thai women, like nurse or bank employee, or secretary!
@vinced5741 Жыл бұрын
Very informative. Eric reminds me so much of the famous KZfaqr David Bond ...
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@regnorse4 ай бұрын
lol famous?
@darassylmoniakam4 ай бұрын
what would be the solution if we don't get any matches on these apps?
@yinginthailand3 ай бұрын
Try again 😄
@darassylmoniakam3 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand this is not a good answer.
@camwells9726 Жыл бұрын
It’s because there are so many freelance Thai girls use those apps for business , That guys are half expecting it
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah, agree :) thank you for watching ^^
@ekimandersom44789 ай бұрын
I don’t get these online dating things. Thailand is literally fully packed with gorgeous woman. If you can’t find a normal nice girl there, you won’t find it anywhere.
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
😂😂
@pedroborges0012 ай бұрын
Funny video, perhaps you two could date :)
@djwashx Жыл бұрын
So how old are you and it seems your not into older men so whats your age range curious because most Filipinos say they arent into looks or age where here you clearly are thanks for being honest and different!!!!!!!!!!
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
I'm 32 :D Thanks for watching ^^
@fruitloops3718Ай бұрын
Ying should have another guy to create her videos.
@tomix35683 ай бұрын
Interesting...you are very picky
@Steven91637 Жыл бұрын
Who is Eric?😮
@julianshalders60476 ай бұрын
They are stereotyping thai women, at least ying has a sense of humour 😂. Nice lady 👍👌🙏. Good luck with your channel.👌👍🙏🦘. Luv from Australia 👌👍🦘.
@yinginthailand6 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@FBICPSАй бұрын
Men are success objects, women are beauty objects!
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
Do you have to pay to be on these sites!
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
It’s free 🙂
@Hrangue7 ай бұрын
Whatever crazy things guys are saying on the apps, there are Thai women saying things that are just as crazy. "No date! Just f8%k!" "Work!!" "Now can meet ST." TF was mostly freelancers and scammers. And I met one hell of a scammer. I just wanted somebody to show me around. It didn't work out. I didn't think to try Bumble, but I might if I ever go back.
@yinginthailand7 ай бұрын
I agree that some Thais are just as crazy. It’s hard to really find the normal person on the apps. You should try bumble :) thanks for watching!
@ov77237 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video, guys! Going to Asia for a quite a while and since I'm single - I don't mind meet a nice girl. But all youtube videos I see and most of forums is "How to pickup prostitute"...such video disgust me
@yinginthailand7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊 Hope that's helpful ^^
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
So do you like older guy?
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Depending on how much older 🙂
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand, but it looks like you already have a boyfriend? Good luck!😊
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
Is this guy your boyfriend?
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yes
@paulsandford3345 Жыл бұрын
Oh well!😊
@jewelrunner77562 ай бұрын
Am i the only one who is getting major 'friend zone' resentment vibes from this guy with her!??.. 😂😂😅🤔 He seems so on edge/uncomfortable as hell when she talking about guys she liked!.. Was absorbing some passive cringe energy over here!!.. 😂😂😬😕
@timkahn2813 Жыл бұрын
im 73 so no use . but even old men have dreams .
@xstensl882311 ай бұрын
jimmy page is 79
@joostroelens871028 күн бұрын
So very old Boy
@jjcohrs3046 Жыл бұрын
Does bumble work in Malaysia also ?
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think so :)
@richardbrown9344 Жыл бұрын
Ying is beautiful and I love her accent..
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 🙂
@jagathkulathilake1692 Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@barnold62Ай бұрын
Dude is showing his insecurities.
@whynot09692 ай бұрын
The guys might be your age, but if they look for a quick hoock up?.. do you want that kind of realinship for long term? or more body count that devalues you in the long run, and you won’t be able to pair bond. DONTruin your value girls…….
@yinginthailand2 ай бұрын
We all want long term relationship with one great guy 🙂 We date to marry 💯
@whynot09692 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand I’m very selective who I give my time and energy too, but I’m glad you think that way, as so do I, only for the long term otherwise you just hurt people. Thank you for being the way you are, gives me hope 🙌
@yinginthailand2 ай бұрын
Good luck 🍀
@whynot09692 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand thank you, and you top ✌️🙌
@JimJNebraska24 күн бұрын
Definitely unsubscribe after that video!
@kaifxaif950227 күн бұрын
Waste of time and energy.
@jimwong2823 Жыл бұрын
checking in the 5-star hotel with super hot Thai wife? Hotel clerk checking if freelancer😂😂. Clerk realized comfortable speaking to each other? Plus $40k ring. Clerk made huge mistake😮😮
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Ohh 😅
@regnorse4 ай бұрын
if your name wong why would you two get a second look??
@Akdon67 Жыл бұрын
Didnt know there's that many farangs on thai tinder
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Yeah there are many ha
@user-co4wl2br1t Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand First time in Thaifriendly, but why I need to pay subscription?
@user-od9iz9cv1w8 ай бұрын
Great advice. So happy to not be doing this. What a frustrating waste of time.
@yinginthailand8 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙂
@goldplaybest Жыл бұрын
Holycrap... you are 31 ? i tought you are 22/23..
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Haha 😊
@gotaplay Жыл бұрын
Oh my , I certainly don't think your just an " ordinary " girl , enjoy your video ... That guy who's message you read first was bragging haha another weekend millionare 😂😂😂😂😂 Obviously you don't need a dating app ...
@yinginthailand Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 thanks for watching 🙂
@Steven91637 Жыл бұрын
Ah these farang thai pretenders 😮
@TruckerBill05312 ай бұрын
Pretty narrow minded in my opinion
@yinginthailand2 ай бұрын
In what way?
@jacobeickhardt846 ай бұрын
sorry, but this guy seems like a clown...
@yinginthailand6 ай бұрын
Which guy?
@kyprosalbakri8963 Жыл бұрын
It seems you are a bit shallow.
@ekimandersom44789 ай бұрын
Yeah dude, most girls are
@bitemenow6095 ай бұрын
Many Many girls are Freelance. Unless you ask, You may never know.