How to raise a kid without legs | Interview with y parents (emotional)

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Today I sat down with my parents to ask them some questions about what it was like to raise me. What it took to get me to where I am today and some of the challenges along the way!
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Spencer’s charisma and dynamism captivate audiences every time he speaks. Whether addressing corporate leaders, non-profits or the education world, listeners are mesmerized as Spencer describes his journey after losing both legs from the pelvis down at the age of five, to when he climbed, and summited, Mount Kilimanjaro using his hands and wheelchair. Spencer is a top-ranked keynoter, author of the best-selling book Standing Tall: My Journey, and star of the documentary Redefine Possible: The Story of Spencer West, which debuted at the Toronto International Film Festival in 2012.
Produced by: Spencer West and Jake Clement

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@lauramcmillan9592 3 жыл бұрын

“You wiped your butt same as er’body else” is top notch dad energy.

@EloLeChan 3 жыл бұрын

I really like his dad lol

@BH-el4rs 3 жыл бұрын

Way to go mom, for being an ADVOCATE for your son, even against the doctors wishes. A good parent knows what their child needs.

@noone-um4hk 3 жыл бұрын

I was born blind and the doctor said I would have severe learning disabilities. They gave my mother information on it and suggested it might be better to send me to some type of medical care facility, My Mom also fought them on this and they hated her. But, she continued to do exercises with me when I was a baby, and by the time I was one I was no longer blind. Going through school I was in AP classes and had no problem going through college and earning my Master's Degree. Just goes to show you that doctors don't always know what is best for your child.

@ASMRJey 3 жыл бұрын

I had something similar but not as severe as yours. I had a period in my childhood where I was really scared of fire and would run out of the house every time my mum cooked something in the kitchen because I was scared of the house burning down. I think I saw something in the news about a house burning down due to a left on stove so that triggered it. They took me to a doctor and he told my parents (without doing any checks whatsoever) that my brain was probably underdeveloped for my age and that I will not make it through school because I would be too stupid for that (not his exact words, but that’s how he meant it). Fast forward a year and my anxiety of my house burning down suddenly disappeared. I got into primary school and was the best student from day one till the end of primary school and continued to be one of the bests in HS. So yeah... doctors aren’t always right and if it’s is something very serious: get a second opinion.

@private13 3 жыл бұрын

@@ASMRJey that is crazy! Doctors like that should probably just quit practicing medicine..

@brittanypierre3104 3 жыл бұрын

@@private13 medicine isn’t perfect

@private13 3 жыл бұрын

@@brittanypierre3104 ...did you not read either of these stories? They are both examples of bad doctors. Of course medicine isn't perfect. That is why it's called practicing medicine. As in there is always something to learn no matter how long you've been doing it. Know-it-all doctors who shut people down like that need to check themselves or quit 🤷‍♂️

@brittanypierre3104 3 жыл бұрын

@@private13 lol I’m not gonna argue with you sir. These are educated people we’re talking about, they go by the book and they mean you no harm. They have oath in contract to only do the best for patients. That being said, going by the book may not work for every patient as there are millions of variations within circumstances regarding illness and conditions. Even the best of the best physician can get it wrong. Saying they should quit their job when they are doing what they went to school for is silly. Why don’t you try diagnosing and treating people with your big bad uneducated self not knowing shit since you think you know it all.

@asherroth2086 2 жыл бұрын

Seeing your parents in this video I now understand how you turned out to be so amazing!

@gabrielaparadamorose6183 7 жыл бұрын

So much of who you are comes directly from your awesome parents. They should be forever proud!

@Spencer2TheWest 7 жыл бұрын

You're so sweet Gabby and you are so right. Just like your kids. :-)

@madcitywendy 3 жыл бұрын

Bravo! As a trained medical social worker I just applaud your parents courage and conviction! And I celebrate you and everything you have built in your life.

@rosalindadevine8965 7 жыл бұрын

You & your parents are so brave & courageous. So much strength. You guys are such inspirations. ❤

@Spencer2TheWest 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks darling! All that I am came from them!

@SimiSilver 3 жыл бұрын

You’re the spitting image of your incredible Mom! I have five kids. Your parents are obviously patient and loving 🥰🥰

@BH-el4rs 3 жыл бұрын

You and your parents are nothing less than a true testament to the human spirit, to pure love, courage and strength. God bless you all.

@nxtchpforme9154 3 жыл бұрын

This is the rational AGAINST SOCIALISM, RACE THEORY. Help make individuals to be functional.

@cud981 2 жыл бұрын

You are a straight up badass , keep up the good work.

@impressionsphotoboothatlan6266 3 жыл бұрын

Your parents are great. Very smiley and transparent

@boblossie3192 3 жыл бұрын

Wowwww...... I've seen and commented on several of Spencer's videos and just about always comment on how spectacular and exceptional he is. Not to take away form you buddy - but it's clear that you come from pretty remarkable parents. You are what you are - in great part - because even though life threw challenges at you from the get-go - life also had you come into the space of these two to raise you, shape you, and give you the space and support to allow you to grow into who you really are. My only frustration is that I didn't get to be your neighbor!

@marcicunningham3889 7 жыл бұрын

I love everything about this!! It's so true to real life, your dad is typical Kenny and your mom is just the nicest lady in the world. I love them both, and they did a great job!! On top of which, they were like, practically children themselves when they did it!!

@Spencer2TheWest 7 жыл бұрын

Right?!?! Remember that time you scared us in our tent in our backyard and my dad left us for dead?

@marcicunningham3889 7 жыл бұрын

Spencer2TheWest of course I do. I love scaring people, but your family is especially satisfying!

@charitysibanda7525 3 жыл бұрын

@@Spencer2TheWest your family are so kind and carring

@tom-ss2mn 3 жыл бұрын

You have great parents. I can see why your such a good person

@carolpickering7657 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this! Sure have awesome parents! Always impressed with you Spencer!

@Spencer2TheWest 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Carol! Jake also has some awesome parents...and grandparents.

@mishybear42 3 жыл бұрын

How blessed everyone is to have your videos to look at if they should find themselves with a disabled kid!! Thanks for sharing your life!

@DMV8662 3 жыл бұрын

Im a SHRINERS HOSPITAL Alumni!!! I spent 3 years as an inpatient from 1967-1970.......

@julierocketqueen6257 3 жыл бұрын

Rock star parents right here 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@nigisttamiru8672 7 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it.

@Spencer2TheWest 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@case1962 3 жыл бұрын

*"We didn't want to leave you to somebody!"* (With jovial laughter, all around.) Your parents are cool AF. I see where you get it from.

@ChrisW228 2 жыл бұрын

I empathize so much with your mother. I have some serious illnesses, and I find that a lot of doctors can’t separate between facts and opinion. I always respect that they are telling me accurately what the problem and the options are. I sometimes disagree with them regarding which option to take. As your parents said... the choice your doctor would make in your shoes, isn’t necessarily the choice you would make.

@spreadlove1777 3 жыл бұрын

He is way more able than me with all my limbs😫 or “normal” surely inspirational. Thanks man

@crystaledwards9878 3 жыл бұрын

Gosh, your dad reminds me of my own dad. Such a Wyoming guy.

@denisecaringer4726 3 жыл бұрын

I love your parents. So wise.

@Kate-ws4vp 3 жыл бұрын

Pinhead, lol!! Our son wanted to name his little sister (almost 3 years younger) Jennifer Meatloaf Wheelbarrow...we didn't name her that... ; ) Your parents are wonderful people!

@MummaQuan 3 жыл бұрын

My little cousin wanted to name her baby sister Lennon pretzel and my son wanted to name his little sister Starla, he even brought a plush star to the hospital for her when she was born 😂 he was pretty mad we didn’t name her that.

@greddaaa1209 3 жыл бұрын

My brother wanted my parents to call me Julia Pineapple

@mariesrodriguez8680 3 жыл бұрын

VERY GOOD LOVING PARENTS.

@cosettelewallen4281 3 жыл бұрын

Such an endearing and lovable family dynamic...lucky!

@mandymoffatt 3 жыл бұрын

Your fam is so cute😊 I love how they advocated for you!

@NameLessOne0500 3 жыл бұрын

I love your channel! It's so insperational. Sometimes when I'm having a tough time or need some inspiration I come to your channel!

@allancuseo7431 3 жыл бұрын

Tons of strength

@deefromtx5530 3 жыл бұрын

What a lovely family. ❤️

@violetmartha916 3 жыл бұрын

Well clearly Monroe had heard the story a couple of times 😉😂 Seeing your lovely parents...now it all makes sense. 💘

@shelley9263 3 жыл бұрын

Spencer, your parents are awesome and so are you! I’m like your Mom, and I’m a Mom of 2 young adult boys, I never just agree with a Doctor! I always go into an appointment well equipped with knowledge and knowledge is power. ❤️🍀

@thatcrazydaisey3437 6 жыл бұрын

That dog just laying there😝 btw your parents are amazing I saw you at WE believe Sain John and you are so inspiring and amazing

@Spencer2TheWest 6 жыл бұрын

Isn’t she cute?

@thatcrazydaisey3437 6 жыл бұрын

Spencer2TheWest most definitely she looks like a fluffy female Justin Timberlake

@nxtchpforme9154 3 жыл бұрын

Love the way dad discussion.

@lucyann5561 2 жыл бұрын

You are a blessing to others my dear

@jasminejohnson5368 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful family! Blessings ❤️

@despitecovid283 3 жыл бұрын

I was always so curious who raised you to be this amazing, when I saw you on Tiktok. Your parents are fucking amazing. (Can we swear on KZfaq? Sorry!) Mad props to your parents. 🙇

@berrycarbs 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful parents!

@LL-sq8se 3 жыл бұрын

Great parents ❤️

@LaDimplez91 3 жыл бұрын

I love them!!! Your dad so chill and honest.. "you were spoiled rotten"🤣 and your mom so real and easy going. No wonder you've got such an awesome personality! ♡

@mfranck1 Ай бұрын

Really nice family. ❤❤❤

@fabfabfab1556 3 жыл бұрын

Such sweet parents ❤️😍🙏

@judymoye4368 3 жыл бұрын

Love the family dynamics!!

@aminalouiske8538 3 жыл бұрын

God bless your parents

@robertmas320 2 жыл бұрын

What his dad says at 4.56 is very very true

@TheSweeter71 5 жыл бұрын

LOVE YOU.

@cookielove9310 4 жыл бұрын

I LOVE YOUR MOM AND DAD! GLAD MOM DOESN'T TRUST DOCTORS LIKE THEIR GOD. YOUR SO LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH SMART AND LOVING FAMILY.😀😎

@lydon65 3 жыл бұрын

You look SO like your Mum

@xemmyQ 3 жыл бұрын

oh wow! you're the spitting image of ur dad!

@cosettelewallen4281 3 жыл бұрын

I love your hat Spencer!

@kyleerosee3 3 ай бұрын

❤

@rhondabeckwith8782 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting! I agree with your folks. I worry about your shoulders, do they ever get sore? Do you think in later years they will give you problems? I can only believe not all pple would be able to tolerate and be so adaptable. You are very special in many many ways. Are you aware of that?

@eppityrrell8236 2 жыл бұрын

Your the image of your mom same smile and laugh

@randalllaue4042 3 жыл бұрын

Lucky to have social media, good and bad...

@nxtchpforme9154 3 жыл бұрын

Hard to believe in the 1980s double strollers were not around??

@williamstevenson2166 3 жыл бұрын

Your parents are cute, but your dad is gorgeous 🤫🤫🤫😀😀😀

@denisegreene8441 3 жыл бұрын

Doctors are not God, although some sure think they are. I was a sickly baby and one pediatrician told my mom my legs would straighten out when they fixed my bowel issues. She called him a quack and told the nurses he was not to touch me. Another doctor told her I was hydrocephalic, again she knew I wasn't. Granted my mum had some medical training but she wasn't a Dr. And she could spot an idiot a mile away. Parents generally know their kids better than some doctor who sees them for one aspect of your life.

@DrRobertMPick 3 жыл бұрын

You look just like your Mom!

@charitysibanda7525 3 жыл бұрын

I have a sister doesn't have legs like you l want her to be active jus like you dear wish you the best

@grlgrl7047 3 жыл бұрын

But seriously... How old were your parents when your mom gave birth to you? I mean, was your dad 10 years old? Hehe jk / Found you channel a week ago, been watching all the videos!

@nxtchpforme9154 3 жыл бұрын

Not clear how he sits?? Ribs. Pelvic bones??

@gabekeliinoi3969 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I’m curious too