How to Raise Successful Kids

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@VALUETAINMENT 3 жыл бұрын

What would you add to the list?

@comocuandodonde 3 жыл бұрын

Well, first thing I would add DO NOT VAX THESE INNOCENT KIDS WITH THIS TRIAL SH*T. KEEP THEM SAFE AND HEALTHY!!!

@delasonbentick 3 жыл бұрын

Along with the list you just mentioned i'll add, Elements of Entrepreneurship. Little before Covid hit I bought a huge box of chocolate and give it to my 9yr old son and told him to try selling the candies to his friends and everyone else he knows. I did that because there were couple of lessons in that task I wanted to talk about with him. Now, he has created his own brand that will be a spin-off into other things. I'm documenting and posting this journey on my channel now.

@streetbillionairementor 3 жыл бұрын

Raise them through their experiences and own games...

@tokyodoru 3 жыл бұрын

this is brilliant advice

@TRKMPR 3 жыл бұрын

Taking more self-responsibility for their acts by enforcing them to take more action throughout the day.

@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын

Parenting is the most important duty to society.

@Wallewallewalle91 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@saltycannuck2381 3 жыл бұрын

I disagree ! taking care of ones self to become educated and succsesful is far more important then having kids and thinking they are better then anyone else. As a parent without good parents it is possible and very little of my life came from my " parents"

@kellyanne744 3 жыл бұрын

@@saltycannuck2381 I think Casey was referring to people who are already parents. If you are already a parent, then it becomes your greatest responsibility.

@saltycannuck2381 3 жыл бұрын

@@kellyanne744 your own life is still your greatest responsibilty with out it your kids will not be raised or succsessful in any way. They end up like what we see today in society.

@kevinbaltarejo4875 3 жыл бұрын

@@saltycannuck2381 Fair point.

@jakublesinskyportfolio 4 ай бұрын

I am 16 years old, but I value this videos tons because my ultimate goal, and goal of every man is to have their own children. Appreciate this!

@gord2358 Жыл бұрын

My three sons all turned out to be successful. Starting from a young age I encouraged them to make their own decisions. I told them that if they made a mistake it was just an opportunity to learn how to do it differently next time. Today, they're all in positions of responsibility, either as supervisors or managers.

@wolverinex4243 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm...successful doesn't mean not douchy. JS.

@mr.makedonija2627 Жыл бұрын

@@wolverinex4243 shut up

@wolverinex4243 Жыл бұрын

@@mr.makedonija2627 Saw a bunch of asses in high places. Not suggesting anything.

@BRBallin1 Жыл бұрын

Great way to raise them. I plan to raise my future kids this exact way. Fear of failure is such a huge barrier for many people

@Rambleon444 Жыл бұрын

The most important things to teach your kids these days is critical thinking, mental toughness, socialization, honesty, and adaptability. Everything else is accessible through the device in their pocket

@paulinasalih1247 Жыл бұрын

Well that's a very simplified way of putting it... But I see your point.

@anonymousanonymous1859 Жыл бұрын

Not to say that these issues aren’t important, but without a critical base of knowledge the “you can google it” argument is redundant. The best education research supports this. Giving your kids a huge base of general knowledge will support them in their ability to read and learn.

@BeanDar Жыл бұрын

Getting paid for chores was great for me growing up. I learned to work hard and save money. I learned to spend wisely and started doing my neighbors yard for extra cash. I was 15yo with $1,500 and I bought myself a Nikon camera and lens and pursued my love for photography. Then I turned that into some money as well, and that led into making videos. Skills I now use for various projects at work.

@Grannycoop Жыл бұрын

My mom & I raised my 5 boys & 1 girl in the ghetto. With the guidance of Holy Spirit we we able to raise them to be unselfish, successful adults, even though one had to endure prison for a season. Three of them earn 6 digits & all are endeavoring to help others who grew up in similar circumstances.

@juleswifey6003 Жыл бұрын

Amen. ❤

@believer7280 3 жыл бұрын

Teach your kids to love, respect and be kind to all people. Sow seeds of goodness into their lives. Most importantly, teach them to pray. This life is short, their soul is forever.

@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын

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@MssMalak 3 жыл бұрын

Very well said ! I can add to what you said Teach them to love all humans don't push your kids to much to hate other religions, respect should be to everyone in mutual way, and they are not better then any one else !

@believer7280 3 жыл бұрын

@@MssMalak I agree with you. As a follower of Jesus Christ, He is my example. He is loving and merciful. He even loved His enemies. And although He is all powerful, He humbled himself and laid down His life for us.

@MssMalak 3 жыл бұрын

@@believer7280 respect 🙏

@gizmoe1976 Ай бұрын

But you must also teach them to be wary of Wolves. Being kind can teach you to be naive. The world is full of bad people who will lie, cheat, steal & injure you. I know 1st hand & lost a child forever being “nice” to everyone. Protect your children & only provide good things to those that earn it.

@cautilli 3 жыл бұрын

Patrick you have no idea how much this type of content is very appreciated and needed. Thank you!

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@deplorusbrownjr.8387 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this... I realized almost all my interactions with my kid I call my kid's names and bark orders at them... After seeing this I called them over during different parts of the day to ask them how their day is going.. We homeschool and I work from home. I can see their faces light up.

@missdaisy4738 3 жыл бұрын

I have 3 grown up boys,I’ve been married to there Dad for 56yrs,if you ask each one of them,” What was your childhood like” each one will give you a different answer. Simply because they are individual ,and see life differently. I’m a youngest sibling of six,and we were all brought up differently at least through the eyes of each of us. I don’t think you can predict the right way to bring up a child,you can only do your best at the time.

@willnill7946 3 жыл бұрын

You mean “their Dad”. Did you teach your kids English?

@eperey 3 жыл бұрын

UuJ

@missdaisy4738 3 жыл бұрын

@@willnill7946 Is that the best you can say. How pathetic.

@Carlitherianlove14 Жыл бұрын

@@willnill7946 what was the point of your negativity ,what did it accomplish all that does is put someone down for no reason

@righthasit8136 Жыл бұрын

@@willnill7946 were you thought thoughtfulness? 🤔

@kasapbandy1776 Жыл бұрын

There are alternatives to “because I said so” This really spoke to me, and a lot of millennial and gen z. We were taught that it’s disrespect to ask why. So many missed opportunities to explain life. It does not create respect for elders, only resentment.

@chanaguerrero5762 3 жыл бұрын

Did my dude say, "pobrecito"? It came out so natural. You can tell he's been hanging with our Hispanic peeps in Texas. Two 👍👍up.

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@christycastillo7468 3 жыл бұрын

Those were my exact thoughts!! 🤣😎

@anthonyv4678 3 жыл бұрын

Came here to find this comment

@art_ill 3 жыл бұрын

Both of my kids are high honor roll, accelerated math and science, varsity mvp in their respective sports. They have never been in any kind of trouble and never needed more than a "no-no" in discipline when they were young. The "secret" is love and attention. Play with them as much as possible, listen to them and be attentive when they try to communicate. They are very well rounded and just good kids even though they went through our divorce when my boy was 5 and my daughter 3. Love and attention and setting a decent example and they will raise themselves right. They are their own people not an extension of yourself you get to control.

@linus9624 Жыл бұрын

This and nothing else. Attention and love is everything. People who talk about something else is clearly deluded.

@mikasd9 Жыл бұрын

Just being there and not being a piece of shit are 90% of the battle

@linus9624 Жыл бұрын

@@mikasd9 sure is. Threats, punishment and ”tough lessions” are just plain stupid. Kids need love, understanding and compassion.

@surfacing88 Жыл бұрын

"They are their own people, not an extension of yourself you get to control." I wish you could have spoken to my parents 35 years ago.

@khoimavlogs5161 Жыл бұрын

Nice my doesn't like school but he wants to be richer than Elon Musk

@rilwanj Жыл бұрын

Something I learned when training kids was listen to their feedback, nobody one is infallible, you don’t want them to pick up the habit of thinking they are right all the time and getting defensive when challenged.

@kasapbandy1776 Жыл бұрын

That’s where Jordan Peterson comes in. I bet they’ll get to meet him too. “Always assume the person you’re talking to knows something you don’t”

@Vinnisharma1988 Жыл бұрын

Parenting is the one lesson which must be taught in schools or colleges. Other subjects will not benefit society as much as teaching good parenting. Good parenting makes a better human.

@kashemvai5025 Жыл бұрын

Im setting a reminder in email for 5 years so that i can rewatch this video

@mmatrainee 3 жыл бұрын

I have never clicked so quickly AFTER thinking about the subject matter

@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын

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@scarface416 3 жыл бұрын

best thing you can give your kids is time, attention and your happiness.

@emmanuellikealion8822 Жыл бұрын

Brother you nailed it...I’m a single parent of a 5 and 3 years old boys...you have spoken out loud my inner thoughts and ideas of parenting. Great work, we’ll speak again once they grown up and see the results

@gianisain8880 3 жыл бұрын

You are the father that was never present there for me !Thank you !

@mekawoods5102 3 жыл бұрын

Oh God, 40 years! I can't imagine yet! My oldest is 31 🙏🏾

@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын

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@ferfernando950 3 жыл бұрын

He is raising his kids "hoping they are going to be successful". I'm raising my kid hoping he's going to be HAPPY!!! And if he needs success to be happy, then we will go for it. Because what everybody needs at the end of the day is to be HAPPY, not just successful. I know too many unhappy but successful people... And I don't want that for my kid, nor for anybody else.

@pkc3168 Ай бұрын

Best comment!!

@Nobblin1 11 күн бұрын

Stop being delusional, teaching them life skills now will help their future. Success looks different to all. Obviously nurture your children , and let them be kids but don’t be naive. You can teach kids at an early age about health(what activities are they doing ) food they are consuming , their strengths and weaknesses how to acknowledge their emotions & how to handle , how to be responsible for future career development of their choosing , what are your kids consuming (books) etc etc.

@robertpennington1200 3 жыл бұрын

You need to raise "happy" children. Successful almost immediately puts pressure on them to live up to some ideal. just make sure they are loved and given confidence and the rest will follow

@alicejoshua5598 Жыл бұрын

You are 100% True. This is the foundation of it all, the rest will flow

@ex7229 Жыл бұрын

Hapiness isnt the most important thing in life it is a by product of other more important things. Accomplishment is a big one.

@n.m.8627 3 жыл бұрын

You are a great dad and role model! Your kids are lucky to have such a great dad

@michaelfalgares 3 жыл бұрын

Really love the parenting videos you make. As a new father it’s very helpful

@JRmidwife 3 жыл бұрын

This is good. Especially explaining but not over explaining. I raised 2 sons. Respecting each one individually and teaching them to respect themselves, everyone and everyone's property has gone a long way. They were more selective with friends and now with mates. Also knowing that what I model is more important than anything. They took away a good work ethic and entrepreneurial desires and goals. They are in their early 20s.

@sarahm415 Жыл бұрын

Love hearing this guy talking about Parenting. Coming from a mother of 2 toddlers.

@philmehrart Жыл бұрын

Pat your point about parents wanting their kids to avoid adversity and raising soft kids is exactly what happened with us as a family, my dad really wanted us to be safe and comfortable but it made life very hard for us later on, in terms of navigating the world growing up. Now I am doing my best to learn what it is to be a strong man on my own terms

@FranciscoRodriguez-dh7rr 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Pat. I needed to hear this to steer my rapid growing younglings in a better manner.

@UseYourManners123 Жыл бұрын

I didn’t know he had a parenting segment! This is awesome. I’m glad he has shared his perspectives. He has some excellent advice. I would like to hear more.

@ruthchavarria119 Жыл бұрын

Thank You 🙏 Patrick, I also wanted to add, Always let Your Kids know how important they are as a person and to you as parent and How much Loved they are .

@FinancialShinanigan 3 жыл бұрын

Kids are a great visualization of their parent's personality

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@mR-dc4oq 3 жыл бұрын

I saw this and said YES! Why? I hadn’t even heard it yet but I have a lot of respect for you and your opinions. I had to listen. I had a lot of challenges in my life from a young age (who hasn’t?). I have one child and now grandchildren. That child of mine has grown up into an amazing, intelligent, successful (that’s measured in many ways) ,and loving human being. So now I’m working on my grandchildren!😌 Thanks for all of this. Good ideas and many I employed. They work!

@JessicaOrban3606 3 жыл бұрын

Great discussion and tips. Parents should also pay close attention to what the child needs as an individual. Rules are rules, boundaries are essential, but a one-side-fits-all approach on how to teach each kid doesn't work. I love that you said to not compare them to each other. One of my kids is very strong willed and asks 1000 questions. I love explaining things to him, and people are always blown away with how much he knows. If I just answered "because I said so" or "that's just the way it is", he would not feel valued or have his need to understand his world met. My other son is calmer and quieter, but he needs more emotional support and physical connection to feel loved and heard. They're both amazing little dudes, and I am so thankful for what they teach me.

@miguelbertonatti 3 жыл бұрын

Fantastic talk. One of my favorite talks from you. You taught me so much

@tomashbaugh8891 Жыл бұрын

Patrick- I love your natural curiosity! You are a great master of questioning and interviewing. You encourage me, thank you sir!

@kellyanne744 3 жыл бұрын

This video is gold.

@sandip.7968 3 жыл бұрын

Such great advice, right on-target. My children are out on their own now, but how I wish I had been taught this when they were infants. Pat, you would be a fantastic instructor in a parenting class.

@joshuaatwells Жыл бұрын

Every time I listen to this it motivates me to be a better parent. My boys thank you.

@TheNationalWellnessOrg Жыл бұрын

You are so so appreciated. Thank you. ❤️

@justinmanning 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Patrick. The future looks bright with young kings like Tico and Dylan coming up.

@Je.rone_ 3 жыл бұрын

Raising kid right is so difficult, and so important... but anyone with the urge to "you know what" can have kids😳😳

@freeindeed8416 3 жыл бұрын

That’s crazy

@mrd799 3 жыл бұрын

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@Shiloh_Speaks 3 жыл бұрын

This is gold. I am listening.

@Socrates1944 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this with us all! You are a great inspiration to us parents. Hopefully, they will take your advice! ❤

@JedymyJedymy 3 жыл бұрын

You are a machine Patrick - keep pushing 🚀💸🦈

@imhectoreli 3 жыл бұрын

More of these parenting tip videos please! Having my first baby girl this week!

@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын

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@RickMeza 3 жыл бұрын

What a great content Pat ...keep them coming man! 🔥🔥

@federicogiller5741 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Pat, great vision. I appreciate your thoughts to help me be a better parent. Loved the content, especially the creation of the shadow YET not shielding the kids so they too have a chance to develop their own power.

3 жыл бұрын

I and brother was "spoon fed" by over protective parent. Dad had zero involvement with parenting. I had a late start in life when I was 40+. As man child become dad at 38 and 46. I learned from the mistake and now have my daughters 'bump' their heads, asking their opinions and teaching them about respect for others, property of others and themselves, love and hugs. And more. Great video thank you.

@sick1mind1 3 жыл бұрын

Read "drugs" instead of "hugs" at first and I was like 'Wait a minute...'

@MisterMonsterMan 3 жыл бұрын

Keeping them out of the public school system could be a start. Separate school system or even home schooling if possible can give kids a big advantage over public educated kids. Especially with all this identity social justice type of stuff being taught in many public schools today.

@mariaguzman1552 3 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@kyleelyk2650 3 жыл бұрын

True that tan man ! The schools are a joke now days and I feel as if all it accomplishes for the majority is teach them to be an order follower Think for yourself question authority 😁

@TheSilverLining80 2 жыл бұрын

100%

@champtunes Жыл бұрын

Great points, thanks for sharing. As a new father, I appreciate this.

@justindivito1279 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely amazing topic. I'm a father of three and it is very challenging to navigate being a parent and to know if what my wife and I are doing is right. One thing I would say is also conversation with other parents and having debate amongst parents also is a big help. Watching this video gave me a while new way to approach my kids and try something new. Great video

@happycoconut8260 3 жыл бұрын

Even I am not a parent or dating anybody, this is a good advice. Thanks Pat :)

@goofywill90 Жыл бұрын

i can't wait to see your kids grown-up reflecting on their dad and how they were raised.

@sarahm415 Жыл бұрын

You need to do more parenting videos. This is gold. Thank you always.

@saarthakpanda9143 3 жыл бұрын

*Congratulations on the future baby to Patrick Bet David!*

@rushrush1209 Жыл бұрын

Be supportive and caring. Encourage them to succeed, but also show tough love. Make them accountable for bad decisions, and never reward bad behavior. Also, hope for some fortune as well.

@philipinkoom2313 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not a father or married yet but this has really educated me a lot I need to share this to all my friends both the married and the unmarried .

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@bigfootanon6896 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Patrick!

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@nirolama112nd8 3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant! Thanks for the wisdom and the great advices.

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@tonymascarenhas5754 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you pat for this lesson.. How I wish I had known all of these some 5 years back..My kids are 9 & 7. I have a lot to improve with my approach.. Better late than never. God bless you, your family & all those people who are touched by your life. Thanks & All Glory be to God.

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Жыл бұрын

7 and 9 or 17 and 19. If it's the later then don't let the devil deceive you into thinking it's too late

@Bjamin9891 7 ай бұрын

It takes a big man to accept their shortcomings and grow. My hat is off to you

@jenniferlee7167 3 жыл бұрын

More parents should hear this. My father is successful monetarily, but our mother was materialistic and "things" were most important to her. My brother and I grew up abused and not allowed to have an opinion about anything. We were told we "knew" nothing. We were told that "children" were bad and that our parents could never have anything (material) because of "us". We grew up trying to get away from the pain that was inflicted. My brother lives on the West coast-Oregon and I live on the East Coast. Our parents are still alive in the midwest. Neither my brother nor I had children. We are 65 and 67 this year. I have learned a lot and I know that Pat has some great ideas to have a great family.

@beastwithredpill Жыл бұрын

Damn sorry to hear that, my parents raised me in a similar fashion. I was the only child that seems to not have been a fuck up. And to this day my parents don’t know why 1/9 of their kids is doing good while the other 8 are doing shitty. But I owe it to myself to have an enjoyable life and when I have kids to right the wrongs in my family by having great children who are at least prepared for the real world!

@elvinedmeade9846 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. More please

@coloradoskilife4793 Жыл бұрын

Awesome man!! Needed to here this and you nailed it. I have 3 amazing girls but always learning to handle situations better

@Frasianfamily Жыл бұрын

I would say that you do know if you’re doing a good job in parenting before they become adults. If they regularly communicate with you, trust you, and want connection with you, then you’re doing good. Parent the kid you have, not the kid you want and they’ll be their best self.

@ex7229 Жыл бұрын

What if your kid is lazy and I want them not to he lazy. I guess I should accept that. No thanks I was able to steer that poor behavior out of them.

@GrowYourWealth101 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing video Pat! 💪 Parenting is the most important part in your life! 🙏

@UnschoolingCOM 3 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@GrowYourWealth101 3 жыл бұрын

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@jacobbocht5661 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Pat!

@zanyarbaez4739 3 жыл бұрын

This is outstanding parenting advice Love all of them but if choose one give them the chance of Independence and relying on themselves and their abilities and challenge them from time to time. Thanks for sharing

@ikickrocksi Жыл бұрын

Hardest job I’ve ever had is being a mom but the most rewarding. ❤

@TylerSinden 3 жыл бұрын

That's a unique way to look at parenting. It's a 40-year test where you get your results.

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@goreallaone4492 Жыл бұрын

I listened to this with my kids in the car thanksgiving!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@soniamunozgallagher4415 Жыл бұрын

I follow you for all kinds of business ideas, tips, motivation, etc. After watching this video, I respect you even more. You sound like you are doing an incredible job as a father. I feel like you hit it on the head with every single tip in this video. Kids truly are so different and parenting is the hardest and most important and life changing job we can have.

@Xlino 3 жыл бұрын

How do people dislike this? This is great advice!

@adebowalegbenga4316 3 жыл бұрын

My Mum used some of these your techniques on me, despite no father, and it worked like charm. Perfect!! I recommend this video for every responsible Parent out there 👌👌

@yohannsimpson9879 Жыл бұрын

This is such a quuuuaaaaallllliiittttyyyyy video!! Perfectly clear, timed, and relevant. I just became a Dad. This video is saved and is going to be Reference material. Thanks a mil!

@Tonyswoodshop 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pat. I wanted to ask you this question. Even better you made a whole video. Much respect.

@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын

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@robertlelieve2025 3 жыл бұрын

I live in a very poor and dangerous country sir ,your videos are so encouraging and inspiring,they are one of the things that encourage me the most to be better and fight everyday .

@samarmas5082 3 жыл бұрын

I'm 36 years old, and I got 6 kids, 4 girls 2 boys. And they all have different personalities, so it is hard to raise them to be successful but I'm just trying to do my best and teach them about respect. Respect and honesty are really important. I paint cars in a bodyshop and a mechanic at home. So my kids like what I do and my daughters help me at home. They know how to use my tools and know their names. They are smart but I don't tell them , I let other people see and tell them that. And that makes me proud

@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын

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@billionshadesgirl 8 ай бұрын

Tell them that they are smart please. Coming from you, it will live forever in them

@tonycarrera69 Жыл бұрын

My son is 4 and already debating and asking all kinds of questions! love him

@creativeartbyluvensky Жыл бұрын

Such a great method, Team work, the explanation of why when it comes to a parenting decisions, and creating a currency are gold. Thanks for sharing Patrick.

@VINTAGE-AMERICANA 3 жыл бұрын

Patrick. Would you please give us 25 of the movies on your list? This would be most helpful for me to consider as a single father. --I have used documentaries, movies and other entertainment to help with life's lessons, but in the last few years I have found it time-consuming to decide which movies to watch. Little help please, and thank you for another very educational video.

@debbiereynolds3498 Жыл бұрын

We don't raise children, we raise adults ~

@tookay4ever 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the info man! Always have great information, this guy is not talking down ever he just envisions truth and sometimes it’s hard to hear but it’s better to know than to shut out.

@wynnjessop9944 3 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate what I have learned from this video! Would you be willing to share your list of video that you mentioned in the video? Thanks Pat you are a great source of information and Inspiration

@krotsin 3 жыл бұрын

No matter how perfect you try parenting your kids it’s not guaranteed they will succeed in life.

@royaltylifestyleofficial848 3 жыл бұрын

It doesn't guarantee it, but as a parent, you do your part hoping for the best and keeping faith. 🙏🏾

@ln3041 3 жыл бұрын

No matter to guarantee, but it is all about the odds, which you can increase as a parent or not.

@krotsin 3 жыл бұрын

@@ln3041 I see how many parents put too much pressure on kids with their expectations

@ln3041 3 жыл бұрын

@@krotsin anything exaggerated is an issue, and I agree on that point. But it is a different discussion.

@justindavis2711 3 жыл бұрын

I duno, I reckon if you did perfectly prepare them for anything, it would be almost imppasible for them to fail

@gr8_22-15 3 жыл бұрын

As a father, and who is someone who is constantly wanting to be better, this was one of your best videos for me. Thank you!

@sonz4205 Жыл бұрын

Old video but gold. Great advice as always!

@rywints Жыл бұрын

Loved this man. Thank you for sharing

@jordanwilliams8040 Жыл бұрын

I do the same with my kids. I made a list of the best 30 movies that we should watch together that are age appropriate for middle school. A great way to learn lessons outside of school

@ginatran4698 Жыл бұрын

Would it be possible to share that list with us?

@jordosara Жыл бұрын

I would love to know your suggestions too. I have an 11 and 8 year old

@mshairdesign1800 Жыл бұрын

@jordanwilliams8040 Жыл бұрын

@jordosara FOREST GUMP THE COUNTE OF MONTE CRISTO FAR AND AWAY LEGENDS OF THE FALL DRAGON THE BRUCE LEE STORY CANT BUY ME LOVE SAVING PRIVATE RYAN RUDY CAPTAIN CORELLIS MANDOLIN A.I. INDIANA JONES first movie SCHINDLERS LIST at age 14ish Those are the ones I can remember for now

@pedramghozat 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Pat! Can you give us a top 50 movie list of yours?

@mariamataleo6784 3 жыл бұрын

💯💯🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ I need that list too! Hope he sees your comment!

@ZRSmetalgrooves Жыл бұрын

What great insight and advice. I have 3 kids and this is very helpful to hear.. Thank you sir much appreciated, 👊

@isaiahlopez7112 Жыл бұрын

Love it, I love your financial and parenting advice. Straight gold!

@97JG 3 жыл бұрын

Not a parent yet but I keep my future family and children in mind as a strong motivation pulling my closer to my goals. Always interested in how Pat raises his kids, thank you for this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🔥

@georgeg2369 3 жыл бұрын

1. One on one parenting 2. Balancing teamwork and competition 3. Creating opportunities to debate 4. Teaching independence 5. Limit the use of “because i said so” 6. Watch the right movies to watch with kids Eg. Walk the line, Johnny Cash Remember the Titans 7. All your kids are different 8.create a currency for kids 9. Ask your kids their opinion 10. Setting an example

@nishantyagi619 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@seanc.mcnally2118 Жыл бұрын

Love your enthusiasm and frankness, Pat. I've had several Iranian clients over the years and I was so impressed with them as fellow human beings. Thanks, Man...

@blongth89 3 жыл бұрын

I press like,share and saved in the first 30 seconds. Awesome content

@MindfulAttraction 3 жыл бұрын

This dude really Photoshop the baby in his hands

@potatocheyy 3 жыл бұрын

Ur ok dude?

@GBMM7 3 жыл бұрын

What’s your point ?

@martinmurage780 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@nas8326 3 жыл бұрын

I didn't see any dudes in the video

@tookay4ever 3 жыл бұрын

I mean none of his kids are babies so what did you expect him to do, hey I know covid is going on but can I hold your baby without a mask for my youtube? Lmfao cmon dude.

@muhammadghazialgifari2016 3 жыл бұрын

this video doesn't lose any meaning or substance even for me as a teenager listening, it takes away nothing, even though it's still a long way for me to go, even though i don't really know if i'll have kids or not, i can safely say that the lesson spoken here will be used by me for at least something in the years to come, dope video