Thank you for sharing your reinvention! Still a Registered Nurse today, I had my “ah ha” epiphany at 4 am on the way in to cover a shift for nursing. It was that I would write my resignation and retire in March. The following school year I did some substitute teaching and loved it! My principal at the High School offered me a full time position. Having obtained my Bachelor of Science Degree at age 55 qualified me to teach Anatomy and Physiology, Sports Medicine and Health Science. At age 63 I started my second career after the loss of my husband. You and I have shared the heartbreak together, grieved and started our jump back into the dating pool! I couldn’t be happier with my next chapter! You’ve helped me so much. I’ve been following you since November 2020
@normakeith44724 ай бұрын
Such an inspiring share. Thank you!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I so appreciate you being here! Life is a bow of cherries according to Forrest Gump. But we both know it's one step forward then another. Thanks for sharing!
@lorenvivero62224 ай бұрын
Chocolate--Life is like a box of chocolate according to Forest Gump, as he sat on the bench with a box of chocolate. You never know what you’re going to bite into.
@VegasDateNights4 ай бұрын
I definitely needed to hear this! My husband is in hospice with ALS. I turn 50 this year. I'm scared about tye future but I know I'll have to get back out there. I'm going to go back to school and become a teacher. I've akready started classes. I have 4 teenagers that all encourage me. Thank you for the inspiration Beth! I was supposed to hear your message today. .
@Teresa-K4 ай бұрын
God bless you and give you courage.
@tgardenchicken17804 ай бұрын
Hugs and success in the future.
@saba7704 ай бұрын
ALS is brutal. Sending you love and light!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you have your teenagers rooting for you! Life is hard at times for no reason at all. God bless as you move forward one day at a time.
@lorenvivero62224 ай бұрын
I’m a teacher and it isn’t what it used to be. A lot of work is done on the computer and they change programs every year. It gets a bit exhausting going to all the trainings. Many of my friends have retired earlier than they wanted to because they were tired of the trainings.
@megbouvier14 ай бұрын
You are an inspiration! I was blindsided by a divorce in my late thirties and after being home with kids for a few years, I had to figure out how to earn a living. I discovered my dream job in my forties and had not known it existed prior to that time. Fast forward: I'm now age 57 and run my own company doing work that is deeply meaningful to me. I love your upbeat attitude and chic style. Thank you!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Good for you! Life moves forward and we must too.
@helenamarianascimento57134 ай бұрын
I'll be 72 tomorrow (no April Fools) and have just started to learn Greek! Thank you for your wonderful videos! You are really inspiring!
@elizabethpetrie27324 ай бұрын
What a coincidence! I’m attending a wedding in Albania next year, and then will take a tour of Greece, as I’m so close. I’m starting to learn a bit of conversational Greek as well! And a few phrases in Albanian, too; I’d like to be able to chat with the other guests and not just the people I know. The Albanian families will outnumber us by a wide margin!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Brava! Now you have to treat yourself to a trip to Greece!
@helenamarianascimento57134 ай бұрын
@@elizabethpetrie2732 Amazing plans!!! 👏👏👏
@sandrawright81094 ай бұрын
I'm learning greek too. I'm 62..I love it
@jeannegross3104 ай бұрын
I embrace my music and feel that actively working on it, keeps my mind sharp. I have been a church musician for 62 1/2 years now, for 6 local churches, plus just 7 years ago, I started playing the baby grand at a local rustic resort every Saturday night. Finding new music and working on it has been a lifetime passion. Thank God, I have been really healthy all these years and so far, no arthritis in my hands. I have friends my age who were into ballet and tap, and I was so jealous of them. Fast forward to my current age, and my friend's passion for dancing stopped 40 years ago...while mine continues. It's what gets me out of bed in the morning and sometimes keeps me busy late at night. I have no regrets with my life, at this point!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing!
@shirleyraudebaugh28924 ай бұрын
I am eager to sort through my closets and donate all the errors I have made before finding you. Thank you
@elizabethpetrie27324 ай бұрын
You are indeed busting the myth that MIL = Monster-in-law! And what an important message you bring to us today. I have to admit that I was well into my adult years before I realized that I had to live my OWN life, not the life that someone else wanted me to live. (That’s tough when it’s a family member who has those opinions.) And never too old? Absolutely! I took early retirement 11 years ago, since when I went back to university (part-time over 8 years or so) and graduated with a degree in archaeology. Completely different from my previous career, and the fulfillment of a life-long dream to engage in something that has fascinated me since childhood.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Brava! Thanks for sharing!
@listanthenya53924 ай бұрын
This is the best video from you Beth. You are representing so many of us. I’m 55 years and I feel my teaching career is coming to an end. I teach in a foreign country and I no longer feel motivated and really I’m at a crossroad. I’m praying asking God to show me my ‘next’ . I’m ready for change and it’s awesome to hear you talk about your journey. I think you should do more videos like this. Happy Easter Sunday to everyone!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Happy Easter! Thank you so much for the feedback. It's important to encourage one another so I'm happy to hear the video resonated with you.
@barbaraannfrench87734 ай бұрын
Thanks Beth such an important video when my husband died at 57 I felt that I was just waiting to die and had no enthusiasm for life and no idea who I was without him it has taken my a while but I have my own hobbies and friends now and feel positive about life and try to say yes to any opportunities that come my way
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
It's so hard to move past the death of a spouse. But I'm so happy you moved forward and embraced a new chapter in your life. God Bless.
@elizabethglenbentley78824 ай бұрын
Thank you Beth. This was so encouraging! I'm sure many women out there are struggling with the question "What can i do NOW??"
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
And there's always an answer! Sometimes, it takes time to listen.
@annacurcio74124 ай бұрын
Thanks for the great video! Due to a family crisis I had a complete career change at age 46! I started back to school while raising three children alone and became a nurse. I have been nurse practitioner for 15 years now and know I was always meant to do this! It was so difficult and very scary but absolutely worth it. Go out find your future everyone! You can do it!
@elizabethpetrie27324 ай бұрын
You are so right. And the future is today. “Someday?” Why not now?
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing! Life can be challening at times but that's when we grow the most.
@normakeith44724 ай бұрын
I just turned 60 in January and needed the inspiration from this video!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm happy to hear the video resonated with you!
@astorytoldhere4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this inspiration!!! You may never know the impact you are having, but I am grateful for your voice in the space!❤
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your encouraging words! I so appreciate you being here.
@virginiagirl66284 ай бұрын
At 57 a lot is changing in my life. It’s scary but I am trying to embrace it. Thanks for your inspiration, it definitely helps!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Life can be scary at times. One day at a time! You've got this!
@tplayspiano4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this positive video. I’ve played the piano since childhood, now retired after 40+ years in the business world; loving that I now have more time to play and study , learning new pieces for the sheer joy and challenge of it. People tell they wish they had kept playing ; I tell them it’s never too late to start again. I was recently turned down for a part-time accompanist job I was more than qualified for, I suspect because of my age. Their loss, says my healthy, happy 60+ year old self! Something better will come along.
@lisabeautyinsideout4 ай бұрын
Hi Beth! Thanks for this video share. I am 57 years old and recently started a KZfaq channel. Terrified but doing it scared! I just recently found your channel and enjoy all your content.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Best of luck!
@rosalindwooten1904 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your reinvention story! I have recently become a Life insurance Agent with a very reputable company. I didn't think I could do it , but my coaching team really encouraged and supported me. And my Daughter and Siblings were thrilled that I had the gumption to re-enter the job market at 70 years YOUNG! I also follow and appreciate your CLASSIC style recommendations! ( Been following you since 2019) Anyway, all the BEST and keep sharing and inspiring ALL OF US!!🤗💥👌🏾
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for being here! Best wishes on your new chapter!
@patriciaoreilly89074 ай бұрын
Well done you 😊 you gave me a lift . Thank you.
@mscathyg72704 ай бұрын
Thanks! Empty Nester, divorced, had to reinvent myself, but yes, there are hard days. Groups, friends & volunteering help! I am also still working to add purpose to my life.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You got this!
@kathyparker74024 ай бұрын
I so appreciate your videos. I am 86 years old, fornatuned to still have my dark hair (good genes I guess) and often that I don't look my age. I enjoy home and garden decor as well as fashion, still live alone. Your video today has given me inspiration to get a new spring hair style, more exercise by walking while enjoying the new season ahead.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@stillsassyover504 ай бұрын
I have reinvented myself a few times. Did it again this January - at the age of 59! Thanks for the continued inspiration.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Life has more than one chapter, right?! All the best.
@josephinerimmer68884 ай бұрын
I’m 69 now. When I was approaching 50, I was terrified. I cried for weeks in the run up to my birthday. I have no idea why it affected me this way. I enjoy being older now (apart from the ageing body part). I dress how I want, sometimes way outside the box. More importantly I have learned the importance of patience and thinking before I open my mouth.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@tracygray75744 ай бұрын
When I turned 50 I did something similar. My poor husband and kids! Hahah! But it took me several years and the ear and advice of a great friend to stop worrying about being 50 and embrace a new chapter. It took me a while but I got there! Now I’m proud of my age 65 and who I am. I still sometimes feel old and get down but I pull myself back up! Thanks to my wonderful family who were always available-husband and two daughters to pump me back up!!
@pkmat67864 ай бұрын
Thank you for such a wonderful inspirational video. I'm in the midst of my own remake and I hope it turns out as well as yours did
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm 100% sure it will! Onward!
@marieschmidt94164 ай бұрын
Interesting, thank you for your authenticity and the way you purposely live life-not just let life and time go by. I am not looking to "reinvent" my life, but at 68 I'm busy getting more involved with business than I ever was through managing a commercial building and my rental house, managing my 110 yr old MOm (yes 110!) and employing 5 caretakers 24/7 (now the employing caretakers is a biggest challenge). Being busy and involved is a happy life. And p.s. I just got married 6 yrs ago to a real sweetie.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are one busy woman! I'm so happy to hear you married six years ago! It's never too late!
@user-no3fj9bo4n4 ай бұрын
OMGosh, thank you so much! I'm retiring in 1 month and I so needed to hear this, today! Turned in papers yesterday & have been nervous today! Thank you for sharing!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! It's time for you to write your next chapter!
@user-no3fj9bo4n4 ай бұрын
@@BethDjalali This also means after 25 years in Alaska, I will be leaving the State. I have a lot happening this summer. There's much to be done in order for me to drive out before the pass freezes in September. If the dominoes don't fall just right, I'll be stuck until next Spring. It's an exciting but scary time for me. I have to live off my savings for 3 months until my benefits are processed, and I have an unexpected surgery at the end of April that may but a damper in every thing. Sorry to write a novel. 😊 Guess I needed to process all that. Again, thank you.
@user-wi4yg1es3b4 ай бұрын
Beth I'm happy that your path lead you to the KZfaq! I watch and appreciate all of your videos. This was very inspirational. I applaud 👏 your journey to success and happiness 😊
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I so appreciate you being here!
@BusyBeeMaree2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤I’m about to turn 55 and I make sure I learn something new everyday.❤❤❤Great video❤❤❤
@BethDjalali2 ай бұрын
Thanks for stopping by!
@marydenney82494 ай бұрын
This was an awesome video! We should all take heed with this message! It’s not too late!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You're exactly right, it's never too late!
@vickiewade84454 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this great video. I love all of your videos, but this one with the great message is the best one yet. I'm going back to teach French once a week. Maybe now I'll teach more! I take ballroom dance and am starting a new ballet class at age 65! Maybe I'll start learning Italian? Thank you so much again for this wonderful message that inspires us! ❤️
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing! You're living a vibrant life and that's what counts.
@debbietoner71364 ай бұрын
Very inspirational. Thank you for your vulnerability and encouragement.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks so much for stopping by.
@lindanolasco39184 ай бұрын
Thank you Beth for this topic. You are so correct. I needed to hear this to continue going forward and reinvent myself. A blessing for me today!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm happy to hear the video resonated with you! You've got this!
@kristinwebb36803 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, so inspirational! I am 57 and have been working on my next chapter the past couple of years. I appreciate you sharing your story as it gives me the inspiration to keep going.
@BethDjalali3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! And you keep going as well!
@wendymcaleer59834 ай бұрын
Wow B. That’s a super super story!! A true testament to believing in yourself and taking action❤️🇨🇦❤️
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
It's never too late!
@Lauriesdancin4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reminder, Beth! :) I am looking into some possibilities :)
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@songbird50304 ай бұрын
Thank you Beth for this video about how you reinvented this stage of your life. I am right there....I have been married 35 years, raised our six children and have been a stay at home Mom all these years. My dear husband passed two years ago and grieving has been so difficult and I wonder where do I go from here....thanks for encouraging us and sharing your experience!! I have been watching you since 2020, and I really enjoy all your tips and outfits!!
@carrieuzelac224 ай бұрын
At 54 I went back to school to get my degree in Counseling Psychology. I completed the degree at age 57 and began work as a substance abuse therapist. After three years I “retired” because I found counseling work extremely draining. Now I’m 61 and trying to figure out what my next chapter is!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I know you will figure out your "next chapter" . All the best!
@lorenvivero62224 ай бұрын
I used to have 4 months off a year in my 20’s 30’s and 40’s. I did a lot with my time off. I lived in Paris and learned French. I took up cycling and did many tours in various cities. I traveled extensively to about 15 different countries. Two years ago I bought a house and am currently remodeling it to what I want it to be. Luckily I can retire in a few years and I don’t think I’ll have a problem wjth trying new things to keep me busy. Great speech! All what you say is true.
@stephaniedunn63874 ай бұрын
I needed this so much! Have you ever thought about creating an online course to teach women how to do this? I’m 53 and have been a stay at home mom for 19 years. It’s a lot to figure out and overwhelming to get a plan in place! Thank you!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for the suggestion. It can and is overwhelming at times, but there's always a path foward. xo
@yvonneannibale59804 ай бұрын
Wow thank you for sharing your story. A great video. It is so encouraging.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@StyleWithCathyOver504 ай бұрын
Hi Beth, I enjoyed hearing about your reinvention story. My story is similar to yours, you are a great role model for me and the many women who admire and appreciate you! Thank you for sharing. 🥰
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Cathy! I so appreciate your sweet words.
@lisamcallister65344 ай бұрын
I already did this. I no longer look like a Talbots queen, now more interesting!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
That's fantastic!
@bridgetmarian99844 ай бұрын
Thank you for your beautiful spirit and inspiring encouragement, Beth!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks for stopping by.
@debmurphy53004 ай бұрын
Thanks Beth, got me thinking. Positive vibes!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so very welcome!
@patriciamcmurray42724 ай бұрын
I’m retiring in just over a year when I turn 60. I started learning German 4 years ago. I’m looking forward to volunteering at a local cat shelter (my passion) and having more time for crafts and traveling.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are already writing your next chapter!
@ourretirementideas4 ай бұрын
For years. I’ve been thinking i’ve spoken to you before, and that’s it! Bloomingdale’s! We live in Los Gatos and frequently shopped in the city back then and we love the Ralph Lauren aesthetic!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
What a small world! And that was a fun job!
@carolschwaber65523 ай бұрын
TY for sharing!
@BethDjalali3 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@bostonsforyou4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I am 77 and have been stuck for 10 years
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
It's never too late to get unstuck. You've got this!
@marymohagheghi48754 ай бұрын
This is wonderful and so so helpful🌻🌻🌻
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to hear the video resonated with you!
@ruthwells39904 ай бұрын
You are a good “influencer”,. I appreciate all your videos and the transparency you share with the viewers. Thanks for everything.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your sweet words! I so appreciate you being here.
@fireworks40374 ай бұрын
I definitely needed to hear this today. A deep thank you for sharing this video. I would love more of this type of content in future videos. I love how realistic, positive and inspirational your message is. 😊
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm so happy the video resonated with you. More to come!
@tanyag69173 ай бұрын
Beth you are so classy. Thank you for sharing.... keep up content !
@peggyyoung26014 ай бұрын
Beth, Thank you Thank you. Just what I needed to hear.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@roleenndawa34024 ай бұрын
You're my inspiration since I started to follow your videos of not to fear change. You only encourage from our own way, where we think to manage or change here and there thank you I have seen that my way of getting ready how put things together and it's making things work easier to be on new track looks better than before thank again God bless 🙌 🙏
@ms.d42204 ай бұрын
Truly inspiring. Ty for this and all of your content. Everything you said is spotOn!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! And thank you for being here!
@mscathyg72704 ай бұрын
Awe you looked beautiful then and now!!!!
@lindaortolano78374 ай бұрын
Hi Beth! See......this video is why I am so happy I found your channel! Hugs! :)
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! Thanks for being here!
@lilykirwan32194 ай бұрын
Hi Beth, ur a fab gal,luv it,yes we all fail but keep going on ur new road who knows who we meet or which side road calls us, life is a journey,thank you
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
So true! Life is a never ending journey!
@Spenserifically4 ай бұрын
Always loved your videos, I really enjoyed this hope you do more along these lines!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@kerryparker89254 ай бұрын
What a great video and just what I needed. ❤
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks so much for stopping by!
@7-Liana-74 ай бұрын
My dear Beth, I haven't turned 50 yet...but everything you said we should do even before this beautiful age....it's all true, but unfortunately not many womens have this philosophy of life, power, grace, beauty, etc. Thx Beth for this content ❤❤❤
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
My hope is to continue to encourage all of women to age with grace, strength, and beauty. It's so important to have a positive attitude in order to live a vibrant life.
@7-Liana-74 ай бұрын
@@BethDjalali I totally agree with you...I hope this comes true one day. Life is too short, at least let's make it beautiful. I hope that this will come true and that I will always see this around me.💋🌹❤
@jacsn20114 ай бұрын
Have tried to start a KZfaq channel, still can’t figure it out. Lol. I’m working at a boutique & a makeup art for Seint. Slow moving, but still a bit intimidating. I’m 71
@lisabeautyinsideout4 ай бұрын
Keep moving forward and don’t give up on having your KZfaq channel. I too am a makeup artist and just trying all the things I don’t know and that’s difficult but learning something new keep my muscle brain working.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Some things take time. Just keep pushing forward one day at a time.
@jacsn20114 ай бұрын
@@lisabeautyinsideout yes I keep trying. Any particular makeup line? I just started last May. I’ve learned alot from watching Nikol Johnson. Thank you for the encouragement!
@jacsn20114 ай бұрын
@@BethDjalali yes thank you!
@lisabeautyinsideout4 ай бұрын
@@jacsn2011also with Seint since Nov. 2021
@pearlbrandwein47314 ай бұрын
I'm certain that it was interesting for you to live in far-flung places. How about videos on fashion that's popular with the native populations of the countries in which you lived. I've re-invented myself so many times that I've lost count. My greatest motivation is and always has been BOREDOM. I started as an academic at Princeton (still am the youngest PH.D. in Comparative Literature @ NYU) but after mastering teaching & publishing, I went to work on Wall Street with my portable skills. I hit the ground running, became a marketing/PR executive, & I also taught marketing to investment bankers. Then I got bored, took a pay cut to work in City government. That was an eye opener, and yes I taught there too & wrote reports on audits for public/media consumption. Then my sister asked me to be her theatrical producing partner (she's a playwright). Since I have the clothes (I've always been a fashion plate), I agreed. I was also wooed by a prestigious think tank for whom I consulted. At the end of 2021 -- during the pandemic -- I was stuck indoors without going to the gym, movie tributes at MoMA & other venues, or to museums, operas/theatre/ballet/lectures/galleries -- I decided to subscribe to a streaming service with only foreign programs (I'm fluent in 7 languages). My posts have not only brought me recognition from major media outlets but enormous popularity with the subscribers & a contract as a blogger & cultural historian. At 72, I'm not ready to retire; those who meet me can't believe my age. I lost my dear husband when he was 42 & I was almost 52 after 5 yrs. of marriage. I think about him daily -- we were soulmates. I socialize constantly but haven't found someone I want to date yet. Who knows what tomorrow will bring!!
@rachelmifsuddebattista28244 ай бұрын
How lovely....bless you..x
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for the suggestion and thanks for sharing your journey.
@elainepipp50454 ай бұрын
Thank you for this post I want to start a KZfaq channel.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
You can do it!
@charlotteeshun13934 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏 berth.
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
My pleasure.
@JaneILynch4 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
That's very thoughtful of you!
@ramiemanderscheid37164 ай бұрын
Great video!
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for stopping by!
@vickigarvie40934 ай бұрын
Very inspiring 😁
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@marymohagheghi48754 ай бұрын
Wow do I wish I had had a mother-in-law like you😅😅
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
What a lovely compliment! Thank you.
@brooklynusa67014 күн бұрын
😂any time is perfect to reinvent ourselves
@jeanninepowell27894 ай бұрын
So what about the book??
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
The first book didn't get picked up which is why I didn't have to think about my social media presence. The second book is yet to be finished as the blog, and social media channels tool presedence.
@nikkiwitt94754 ай бұрын
Did you keep your unpublished books for later?
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
After nine years I'm determined to finish the second book.
@barbararupert47744 ай бұрын
Try 80‼️😱🤣😎🙏
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Each decade has it's challeges. Onward!
@saba7704 ай бұрын
❤
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Thanks for stopping by!
@fabulous6054 ай бұрын
May I ask what the books were that you wrote please?
@NancyVelasquez-pw7px4 ай бұрын
I researched and did not find any books published
@BethDjalali4 ай бұрын
Hi! The first book didn’t get picked up by a publisher. The second book still isn’t finished after nine years. I switched gears and became a full time blogger. Fingers crossed I will finally finish the book!