Exactly, sometimes ur silence is the best answer!

that's what it may mean to you but to the rest of the group or audience... it still looks like you are agreeing that it's okay for them to offend you

No. Not responding is always a bad thing.The problem is, *you* might think "I don't care. Why would I bother?" but that doesn't count for the other person. There are many ways one can interpret silence but none of them is positive. Even if you really don't care, you should react. You can do something as simple as saying "Ok, if you think so." and then just walk away. This way you will ignore them. It's not even much more but the effect is a whole different. Most typically, people will count silence as a victory (in what ever they're trying to achieve...). And that might even make things worse. However, if you react and then move on, you show them "yeah I heared you but I don't care.".

Sbeast I agree. Those who know how to speak, know also when.

elgato9o Don't care about what other people think. Don't let others influence your actions. Do it for you, not them. Silence is probably better.

i like that

You just stooped yourself WAY below the insulter's level.

You'll break your arm and end up looking like a weakling. The human skull is the hardest part of the body and your hand is the weakest. You do the math.

***** exactly the reason why you shouldn't get emotional. Most people have never punched anyone before, and if they do it ends up in their wrist being injured. Reality sucks, but hey...what can you do? Emotional idiots are going to be emotional.

ya mom swallows kids on the daily That's not good. Ive used that method every time someone insults me, it's not good people start getting scared and avoiding you.

Politically correct speech isn't my thing, fk off your name is longer than ur comment :P

lmao!!

XD

It's not so easy for me. I think I'm not smart enough for that.

Ikr I have no idea why people think it’s so difficult

Moromo Music I do what he says, laugh it off and joke about it if it’s not that bad. But there are times when you have to be firm about what you dislike and really just don’t care about. I believe that is what he should also include in the video. Because you shouldn’t let everything offend you but you shouldn’t brush off stuff that means a lot to you.

but arent you being too nice to assholes by just telling they hurt you? Assholes should be hurt more than they did to you imo. Only problem is - how to not get hurt even more from some people after that :( I think that way goes to killing people sometimes.

@@shhuayb woah let’s calm down brother 😂

Hey it's been a long time.... ah, uhm, almost 1 year... How are ya'll

Sameee

Me too

i would just say “okay?”

Well you could just do that. 😂😂😂😂

Planning now !

Here's one: you're an idiot

OnePercentBetter here's an insult for you XDDDD

OnePercentBetter same here m’dude

Shannen Canton omg did you just guess their gender wooooow just messing with you lol 😂

Insults online are given out like candy on Halloween my friend. Stay a while longer lol

Thanks for this man

Reflecting it back is what I'm struggle with... I Can't really insult people... I lack content...!!! What to do??

naib singh narwal I’m in the same boat as you, buddy.

genius

I agree. I always was the quiet person that would just laugh it off but suddenly realized the same person would continue to attack me.... i would pretend i'm not hurt but I actually am and replay what they said in my head. I think there is not a one size fits all -- you have to know generally who the person doing the insulting is and what insult is it, I believe.

cocolove 0730 that’s called them being racist don’t give them a reaction just be like “okay”

Love you coco! Listen to some comedy, adopt a dog, dedicate yourself to drawing If people dont like you so what :) Life is what you make of it :)

I feel you... Came to Germany when I was 13 and now I'm 18 but still kinda self-conscious about my German...

Same i always get called short

@@justsomelilimposter8103 just say great things come in small packages

Zexion98 That's what I was thinking.

Zexion98 This video was intended for people who get offended easily when the other person means no offense. Dealing with someone who is actually trying to offend you might be a different topic.

If you are staying silent you open the door more... They notice that they can do it without any response, feeling a dominant position where they use it against you, basically how bullying works...

no you're actually befriending him. now that you have replied to his insult in positive manner, you too can insult him next time without offending him.

mcsnurtle that is so insulting and fucking boring at the same time that halfway of the sentence, person who insulted you will just go away and never talk to you neither positively nor negatively.

MimicTheFakeTreasureChest Hey man, you are not cool! Wachu gonna do about it?

Milenatureza. well. eh your right. im not cool, but popularity really doesn't matter to me.

MimicTheFakeTreasureChest Hey dude, you were suppose to joke about it...

Milenatureza oh. dammit! i did it again!

i stay quiet too except i don't really get offended......just think most ppl opinions are pointless and even if they are true so what i know my weaknesses way better than anyone ........it's like they are telling me that the sky is blue or sumthing

Feeling hurt is necessary to help you agree to the insult. Just agree what they said and work on it. Because you're hurt, you'll be motivated to do whatever it takes so they no longer can insult you on the thing they insulted you on before.....

No no no you stop it at its source at the beginning your basically asking them to keep evolving their strategies come on there's no pacifist way out of this

niecers Thank you for that :)

***** You're obviously not from Philly.

Say something back

awsomwgirlbr lol good one!

JohnyMST u r great enough don't change

😂😂

Looool thats what i like lmaooo😂😂😂

Why to the dentist?

JohnyMST I’m the 2nd type. I hold everything in. Help me out please.

how would that look like in the given scenario of "hej, you gained some weight!" ?

hahaha. They're all situational and it's a bit hard to make a disagree and amplify on that scenario.

no I didn't gain any weight, but alot of it!

yeah i got so fucking fat I don't know how to look at myself anywhere below my boobs. no I actually been fasting - no food for 3 days. I'm proud of myself - now i can fit into clothes not especially made for me :). and I'm getting even better thanks for worrying about me though.

All when someone thought you gained weight... Waoh

what if they complement with question like why are you so smart? And further more , if they are smart persons too,.

Gta5410 u dumb fuk, your english is not good that doesn't imply that Indians are not good at it, infact if u research u'll find that indians r among the top best english speaking people. leave alone the benefits u've got from this video in ur 3rd class college.

when you get a compliment just look them in the eye and say thank you. (perfect) thanks for noticing ( a bit arrogant) you think so? I always though you're the smart one. (insecure) ookay?(unappreciative,rude or not accepting the compliment) if it's like a questions you start with thanks and then you actually answer if you dont really know you can say something like thanks. though i don't know I guess I was born this way. (slightly funny and arrogant.) thank you. my intelligence comes from lots and lots of books(short simple) thank you. i try to improve myself a lot including biography books, movies, tutorials for which i spend at least 3 hours every day.(long and easy to continue if the person you speak with wants to know more.)

Kim Jinhwan Exactly lol

"lol"? Seriously?

@@shawarmageddonit I also just keep quiet because I don’t know any insults

As of recently, I've just started lambasting them in my head. It's not a bad strategy

Time flies...

It's just hurt so much whenever if we think about it

Gabneyy example

What do you mean? We need more

Nah that can put you in trouble The best way is to become a bodybuilder I bet no one will ever insult u

Mee too

@@lopkiza5935 not really

And my dick swings past my knees

imagine trying to act hard in the yt comment section lol

yeah agree

use czech vibes... best on yt

AustrianKronos I gave this a dislike for no fucking reason oh my allah....

Yeah!

Same, this is the third video I saw and I am impressed by how interesting and easy to understand all your videos are

Improvement Pill hey man I have a question.I am usually the funny kid in each of my classes until one day there was just someone who beat me to it; now when ever I say something it doesn't even seem to be funny anymore because the other guy is the one making all the jokes and stealing my mojo.I feel like I can't be be the funny one when someone else is doing it better.Any tips on how I can make my jokes flow with his or top his?

Moses Chavarria 👍

Moses Chavarria make em your bff 😂👏

but they can beat you then if they are pissed. Its kind of conflict. On one hand you want to piss them and annoy them because they did it to you. But if they can hurt you physically - you do not want that. How to deal with that?

@@Name-lt2tz i thinl this strategy is only use for youtube comment

Unique Bacon Hair Idiot sandwich is the best one

THIS BEEF IS SO RAW IT'S EATING THE SALAD

Tell him you are on a tight schedule:-P

Usually i just be sarcastic lol

Ignore or be sarcastic as he said^

DJDobrev you just need to understand sarcasm to agree

The best way to hit inside the one that offended u is using sarcasm that does not appear offending in the outside. But in tbe inside. It will make ur opponent looking like a fool of he reacts to much of it. And u can just say.. I didnt say that. U the one who thoughy about it hahaha

Greg Rodgers Punch them in the face.

+Greg Rodgers By asking them questions that decode their behaviour and makes them self reflect. In your example with the dog you can ask: "Why have you said that it is "just a dog?" " He/she might reply: "Because the lives of dogs don't matter so much" "Why don't they matter so much?" "Because they are less developed species than us" . . . "So are you saying that a less developed being has lesser value than a more advanced one?" "Yes" "Why?" "..." If you keep asking these types of questions you will get to the truth why that person is doing what is doing; whether that person has a different belief system from you or whether that person is just plain mean. Then you can decide for yourself if he/she has a point or not. If he has, you can acknowledge their right and shift your perspective, if you want to. If not, then he/she might self reflect and change point of view(if that person is not a fool). Either way, problem solved. If you keep practising this strategy, you will reach a point where when people cross the line, you will immediately know the answer to their behaviour and don't even bother about it. It will be their problem, not yours.

Greguar12345 thanks for that really helpful insight how to deal with this kind of reply, really appreciate it

+Greguar12345 If you ask "Do lesser developped species deserve less rights?" and they answer "Yes", then just say: "In that case, you obviously don't warrant the right of my attention" and walk away. End of story.

+anythingnew The same goes with me . .

If their main purpose in insulting you to piss you off and you keep undermining their comments like this video has taught they will stop insulting you. Easy! Agree and Amplify will always work.

Always gets them xD

Jacob Williamson Unfortunately when I say that, they try to “correct” me and say “No its not a opinion its a fact”. I tell them well it’s your opinion that your opinion is a fact, until they get confused and give up.

niw10pro just respond "yeah just like how bad your grammar is"

okashi10 ...yes, nice animation.

John Proud but your comment is actually funny.😂

And then people start insulting you with the insult you said to yourself when someone insulted you. Not cool...

Exactly!!

I guess it comes down to your ability to creatively come up with an alternative of what to say, based off your experience with conversations like that. Someone outgoing and always in a group talking will firstly be less likely to be the focus of an insult, and will also have experienced it happen to other people and know how it feels too. All these social experiences allow you to decide creatively about your response. Try and try again. If you say something stupid and get dropped on because of what you said to yourself make your answer a little less believable and try again next time it happens. Don't let this become a big concern every time you go out with friends

I knew a guy who would reply to a insult with something so fucked up you wouldn't know what to say

kevin gonzalez damnit man, that's what I was thinking

😅 right

Not that easy.....

Trust me bro. You're not a mistake. You have some sort of purpose in this crazy life. I too have questioned why I'm here. It's a very difficult question to answer but if you find your purpose, you'll feel better.

So u mean to say that ur achievements make the real difference rather than ur personality

Freddy Brainy I did this, he responded with “ Yeah, he tells himself that” goes to show that that response doesn’t work all the time.

Agree and amplify

Damn his voice is so sexy

i would have sad that my mom cooks food very tasty thats why i am fat u as

@@shashankmall6077 does not sound like effective.

Improvement Pill thanks man I would really appreciate if u analyse all techniques needed to rap and make a video

I gotta spit sick bars hit them really hard as hard as a fart bombard ....haha lol

Sarbjit Singh hey thats pretty good

Nikola Kraev o thanks hahhaaa where u from buddy

Sarbjit Singh im from Bulgaria,and you?