How To Seem Confident When You're Feeling Needy

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@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

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@auraezahra Жыл бұрын

I struggle with this and I'm looking to change my mindset. I'm confident and know I can get almost anything I want but I act needy whenever I find someone attractive.. This video helped LOADS

@beIIa_ Жыл бұрын

Wow, I am the saaame

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

It's similar to me, but I act needy when I love the person, if only like him, I don't even care, and I am very confident.

@auraezahra Жыл бұрын

@@Artland90 I don't think I've ever been in love (unless you count the guy i've had a crush on for the last 11 years). I don't understand why I feel the need to reply 2 secs after recieving they text me else I get anxiety. Also, I know I can do SO much better than my exes because idk WHY but almost every guy I talk to somehow catches feeling (i'm not bragging, it sucks sometimes) but it burns out pretty soon from my end bec i don't find them interesting after 2 months. BUT DURING THOSE 2 MONTHS I ACT NEEDY AS FECKH

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

@@auraezahra I get it, I push away people that I love, but I found out a couple of things. 1. I didn't feel deserving of love, somehow I felt that I wasn't good enough for that person, so I push them away before they leave me. 2. I create a history around that person, in the last case I put this person the label of a twin flame, so I put him on a pedestal, so I attract many men to my life except him because i put him out of my radar, I changed that story and I feel more confident when I am around him. I still working about the text, but I discovered was also history, I though that if I don't reply right away this person will leave me, but you need to remember that you don't need to do anything to be loved, if you are doing something at that moment and cant reply right away, it's okay, if you reply even though you are busy, take one step at a time, one day reply after 10 min, even if you are free, most of the time, it's just our mind telling us stories, but remember thoughts are just thoughts, no the reality, so if while you wait some random thought came up, like "you must reply now, other wise he won't be interested in you anymore" just said to yourself this is just a thought not the reality and stuck with the 10 mins, i think its just practice, it will became easier when you don't follow the story in your head, i also working even more on my confidence, so i know if its not here, something better is coming and that if its here and he is treating me nice, is because i deserve it and because he wants to be with me.

@its_her444 Жыл бұрын

me too. im confident and ik i can get whatever i want. and i met this guy last month and we alwaaaays talkk and he smiles at me in school and one day he decided to ghost me. ik he is not meant to me but i miss talking to him and im trying to fight that urge

@neranderthal Жыл бұрын

So funny how men say they want us to initiate, but when we actually do it drives them away! I think it’s me being brave but they think it’s desperation 🤷🏻‍♀️

@queenlii4334 10 ай бұрын

I will never do that in my whole life

@khrisi9410 10 ай бұрын

True plus they think they can easily exploit her if she easily demonstrates she like him by being available to him ie initiating, driving him around, answering all his calls, texting first, paying for things etc

@piriyaj1347 9 ай бұрын

I always initiate and it works though🤷‍♀️ like “dropping the handkerchief” but after that I lean back. Some men who are more introverted and careful need a bit encouragement or they will not risk harassing a disinterested woman. Then, it has to be their turn.

@Ashnesss 4 ай бұрын

Not all the time. Sometimes, it takes the pressure off and builds confidence in the man. It lets him know that it’s okay to pursue you. It depends on the guy, where’s he’s at in life and what he wants. If he’s not in a good place financially, he may want to pursue you but feels like he can’t. Dates cost money. He may be insecure of something else. You can tell when a guy is interested but holding back. With high earning alphas, things are different. They’re 6 steps ahead of you. So you responding to their advances, doesn’t make you look desperate. You have to remember, that a high earning alpha man has already met women who are ON and not afraid to show interest, and at some point, that has intrigued him. So you have to be a balance, if that’s possible for you. A high earning alpha will know what to do. He doesn’t need guidance. He just needs the slightest hint that the girl is interested and she has to show him that she’s interested before, during and after the date. If he can maintain her interest, he knows that he has a chance. But as an alpha, if she loses interest, he’ll start to doubt what’s wrong. And not every person, will chase you if you’re disinterested. They may have a bad experience where they put into much effort, with someone who was disinterested,

@Oddatelierent Жыл бұрын

The things I hate the most when it comes to guys is that I seem too desperate Like I act weird, I talk nonstop, I make a fool out of myself to make them feel like they're smarter than me , I cake makeup on my face, I adjust my clothes every 2 seconds, I fix my posture every 4 seconds, I follow their social media first , I ask too many questions

@mynew6972 Жыл бұрын

This sounds just too familiar to me

@lou15176 Жыл бұрын

But the good thing is you are aware you are doing all of these things ☝️ instead of trying to change everything at once just start with the leaning back a little. I should imagine you will begin to relax as you build confidence with it. I’m the same, it’s because we think we are going to miss an opportunity but if he likes us then we are wasting our time with the chasing. Something I do which sounds a bit silly but it’s only to myself is I say in my mind “I am the prize” 😂😂 I say it walking down the street and it seems to draw people too me x

@Oddatelierent Жыл бұрын

@@lou15176 oh thank you for the tips ❤❤❤

@Nandini-cc4vb Жыл бұрын

Read the book Why Men love B*tches it’ll help you a lot

@lou15176 Жыл бұрын

@@Nandini-cc4vb And the power of the p***y x

@natural3362 Жыл бұрын

Ladies! Please heal and know yourself. The key is to know yourself

@Anonymous__S Жыл бұрын

Just like hou explained in the Jia mindset: showing yourself and that you're access8ble and the lean back and allow yourself to be pursued

@michelleGarcia-sk9np Жыл бұрын

This is very true. I was very masculine bc I enjoyed controlling situations and men. I was proud of “knowing what I want and how I like” but realistically I was projecting masculine energy and my ex Boyfriends were more passive. Now that I’ve changed so much and for a lot of healing, I enjoy being more Feminine and letting the man pursue and take care of me. It’s less exhausting and feels amazing. We’re biologically designed this way. I now love masculine men and now knowing I’m The prize!

@annaclement9858 Жыл бұрын

@@Anonymous__S oh Jesus Christ. Look at history, look at prehistory. Look at what men did and what women did and how well empires functioned. Why do you always ask other people??? Find the answers on your own! You have a phone you’re commenting this on, right?

@JMBBrasil 10 ай бұрын

Same here. Thank God!

@rosati4891 Жыл бұрын

I don’t really give off desperate vibes in dating (I think), but I definitely have them in friendships

@ThatgirlINTP Жыл бұрын

Damn, same here!

@ThatgirlINTP Жыл бұрын

I think we give those vibes in friendship cause potential friends tend to already have some other friends. So we feel at disadvantage. One thing that helps me is to view every interaction as practice, like the end goal is not making friends but slowly getting better at making myself a “catch “ hahah. Getting better at listening , bringing interesting stuff to the table, etc.

@iloveme5979 Жыл бұрын

Same

@rosati4891 Жыл бұрын

@@ThatgirlINTP Do you think so? I think I give off desperate vibes because I really really want to become their friend 😭

@ThatgirlINTP Жыл бұрын

@@rosati4891 yeah i feel ya, for the longest time I wanted more friends in my life because the end goal for me is to have a true conexion , you know? Thats what I look for in a friendship, but those stakes are pretty high and can make the whole thing nerve racking. So, the idea is to take all the shots we have a friendship more...lighthearted I guess? It’s really nobody’s fault if the friendship doesn’t blossom at the end, but the interaction can still be fun anyway.

@TiffanyandMor Жыл бұрын

I’m definitely guilty of this. I become kinda obsessed with them and wanting their attention. I need to learn to disengage and just go with the flow.

@maggiemioni8414 Жыл бұрын

It’s so true about nature staying the same!!!! THANK U so many people have a different mindset

@Oddatelierent Жыл бұрын

The way I *NEEDED* this video

@yuookii150 Жыл бұрын

I went through a break up today, just because I was actin desperate 😭

@auraezahra Жыл бұрын

sending love to you hun

@ALASSE3 Жыл бұрын

Ignore him , do new activities and things and he will be back

@yuookii150 Жыл бұрын

@@auraezahra thank you so much 💗

@yuookii150 Жыл бұрын

@@ALASSE3 thank you but i dont wish to be with him again 💕

@flirkvslife2385 Жыл бұрын

Slay❤️❤️

@neonangelsrequiem09 Жыл бұрын

I love your videos! Please continue keeping them straight to the point and concise. I have autism and ADHD so stuff like human mind games are effing complicated for me but I'm aware of how impactful a person can be just by having knowledge of how to conduct oneself and I'm here to learn on that. Your vids are the most comprehensive out there 💗🦋

@fatee6956 Жыл бұрын

I have adhd and had struggled with people for the longest time you don't have to play any minds games just working on your beliefs and you'll act it unconsciously

@richiiauds2715 Жыл бұрын

i love this channel so glad i stumbled upon it. truly the wake up call i needed.

@natural3362 Жыл бұрын

If you're needy with a man, it's because he doesn't want you, therefore it creates more unwanted needs.. Hence you become needy. Heal and put your crown ladies. And let go of any men that bring out the neediness in you

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

I do not agree with the part, which you say that if you are needy means that he doesn't want you. I think it means that you need to take him out of the pedestal, but it has nothing to do with what he feels. Be needy has to do with you no with the other person.

@natural3362 Жыл бұрын

@@Artland90 i disagree. It takes two to tango and it's a dynamic and a cycle. Being needy has to do with unmet needs. Unless you're needy from the get gi then it's your problem

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

@Natural woman that lack of self-confidence and self-love then to imagine, assume the worse, for example if a guy dont reply right away, they will assune is because he is not interested in her anymore, when usually and if its your partner it's not the case. In the other hand if someone already say I'm not interested in you, well if you insist and you are needy with that person, it's your fault, if the other person was clear and you still there, it's you that choose to be there, it's not the other person fault. When you are busy working in yourself, loving yourself, you don't spend your time assuming the worst about people. You can check Dylan James videos.

@natural3362 Жыл бұрын

@@Artland90 i disagree. When you're with the right person, there is no neediness because all needs are met. The guy will tell beforehand that he is busy to not let the girl wait for too long but if he always busy, it'll make the girl be needy because she wants his time. He subconsciously rejected her and left her wanting more. Subconscious rejection lead to more neediness because the woman wants some closure. It doesn't matter if it's women who are full of love or not. If you're with the wrong partner, then simply leave.

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

@Natural the only one that can meet your needs is you. When you give that power to someone else, it is when you become needy and unhappy.

@shyknees108 4 ай бұрын

Even for ppl who know & understand the message, this video is a precious reminder!! 💜

@emmarampf7354 Жыл бұрын

Fuck I was just slapped in the face by this video and I’ve never been more thankful

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

Welcome 💗

@nadineee_12 Жыл бұрын

Have you ever experienced not getting attracted to anyone and at the same time no one seems to want to get to know you? I mean my friends tell me I'm pretty and compliment me with othet stuffs, and in the past I also had some suitors back then. But ever since the pandemic and right now, I feel like no one really finds me attractive, but at the same time, I don't get attracted to anyone too. It's been a mystery to me, but I don't really think too much about it as I'm not really into getting in a relationship right now. I'm just really curious why, maybe it's how I present myself? I don't know. Just really want to tell this to anyone who doesn't know me personally.

@tears2392 Жыл бұрын

Sis, same It's not like I am ugly. I look fine and am also a no-nonsense kind of person I don't talk with people who are just out to waste my time. My personality also seems to be pretty outgoing but still, no guy is keen On me 😅 Like where am I going wrong...

@badbot4ever566 Жыл бұрын

If your not attracted to anyone why does it matter?

@nadineee_12 Жыл бұрын

@@badbot4ever566 i guess it’s because of peer pressure and low self esteem, like i sometimes think i’m not worthy or i’m unattractive just because no one seems to really like me. It really sucks to have these thoughts

@badbot4ever566 Жыл бұрын

@@nadineee_12 here’s some insight for you . This is how most men go through life…like 90% of men. No one comes up to us . Majority of the time women look at us like the creature from the black lagoon. To be fair social media has made what’s going on in the dating scene worse . Ex women at the gym on TikTok calling men creeps even when those men aren’t looking at them. I would say look inward focus on yourself so you don’t need validation from any outside source. Cuz it’s only going to get worse . Men have checked out.

@nadineee_12 Жыл бұрын

@@badbot4ever566 thank you so much! I’m really working on myself right now in every aspects, and honestly it’s frustrates me whenever I have those thoughts, and having friends whose focus is on having relationship doesn’t really help

@Artland90 Жыл бұрын

I think the only thing that I do not agree with is on feminine and masculine energy, I am a very confident person, and if I like someone I usually like to show I care about this person, I can be the one that sent the first message, that write him nice quotes and I don't think you need to let him come all the time, the problem in my opinion comes when you want something in return, when you send a good morning message, expecting the other person do the same, and if the person doesn't then you get angry or disappointed, but when you do it genuinely because you want to know about this person and want to do something nice, then it's okay, and it's when actually it became mutual effort, I like that, if he didn't reply as fast I won't think is becuase he doesn't want to talk to me, but rather he must be busy, so I left a message so when he has time he can reply to me, and I had never been left on read, the person always reply and i think this not only apply with couples, but with friends, do the things becuase you want to, becuause you care about them, some people said that they do it and finally get tired becuase the other person doesn't do the same, if that is the case then you are not doing it, just becuase you want, but becuase you are waiting something in return, is like when you give money to a poor person, you do it becuase you want to help and even if they don't say thank you, you feel good, becuase you helped someone that needed it. It's not easy to come to that point where you are not expecting something but definitely help you to build more genuine relationships. At the end, you are the only one that can make yourself happy, so once you step on that, the other things that you do, you just do it, becuase you like to give other people the best.

@dalkomhanni Жыл бұрын

Yes to this!

@ColinKelly8 Жыл бұрын

I can make it through the rain. I can stand up once again on my own.

@shirleyohara5943 9 ай бұрын

I definitely need these confidences

@ayuodagiri1577 Жыл бұрын

love this video.

@Cloverlopes Жыл бұрын

U should start a podcast

@afrinaanwar9988 Жыл бұрын

Hello, I am a new fan and I have watched all your amazing videos and totally agree with your lessons and inner values. But, can you please make some videos on how to hold your feminine energy in workplaces, professional spaces and meet people in normal settings? Especially dealing with people in general in a more formal setting? Thank you. Love your videos and sending good vibes to you and your channel 💖💖

@Cranberries87 Жыл бұрын

It was my understanding that you should be able to get into more masculine energy while at work, simply because masculine energy is “doing”. You have to produce and do at work, so women may need to shift into masculine energy. We aren’t supposed to have NO masculine energy, it should just be balanced and used at the right time - like work. At least this is what I was taught elsewhere.

@afrinaanwar9988 Жыл бұрын

@@Cranberries87 Yeah, what you are saying really makes sense. I am new to this energy spectrum. thank you for your insight

@goodmorninggurl Жыл бұрын

Everything said here is true. Would have explained my story but I'm too lazy to type but trust me.. EVERYTHING SAID HERE IS TRUE

@jcqwater8713 Жыл бұрын

😄 pls share when you feel one day

@victorynn3208 Жыл бұрын

Please share😁😁

@dewishlist4548 11 ай бұрын

Thank you

@nourzuhair8477 Жыл бұрын

I like your content

@blabla7652 Жыл бұрын

This sounds like a game. If I like someone, I will pursue him because i want him to do the same. You shouldnt be worrying about these things with the right person.

@tomdata6757 Жыл бұрын

Nah i've seen it in real life.. my friend really really likes this guy and she's the one who makes the first moves and takes control of their entire relationship basically she comes off needy and desperate and the guy now barely gives any effort or even cares for her.

@khrisi9410 10 ай бұрын

And you probably experience a lot of little rejections that add up and impact how you feel about yourself in a negative way. Men most likely react in a negative way by being less available and ghosting. If you chase a man he will run. Of course do what you want but trust me being less needy is empowering.

@valse6475 Жыл бұрын

you came at the exact right time lol

@Tony-nt6sr Жыл бұрын

It'll be great if make more video on song jia plz....

@magiclovelinu7234 Жыл бұрын

On the receiving and giving end I run out of patience since they also major depressed

@jazong-wj9zm Жыл бұрын

i need the video!

@nyanperonachan4291 5 ай бұрын

Me: why do I feel like I gave too much when I literally sent just 1 message 2:40 "let go of every control" Me: huh

@cdl6953 Жыл бұрын

I’m the opposite. I look and act as if I don’t want them and apparently I don’t look single and look comfortable like I don’t need anything. 😏 I have to change that too bec I’m giving off the wrong impression and so guys don’t approach me

@Elven. Жыл бұрын

Can you make a video on low investment men who want you to feel accepting or even grateful for them? Men who want you to invest a lot

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

Walk away.

@Elven. Жыл бұрын

@@femininerenaissance yes, I'm doing that. Thank you! maybe a video on how not to get caught up in that dynamic, when everything starts fine, there's investment and then you start to lose perspective and lose yourself. The game changes, he pursues when you walk away but there's no going back to the beginning. How to notice the red flag

@tamsam471 5 ай бұрын

wish they taught this in school .. so many of us grow up with such unhealthy mindset .. wish I knew about this channel sooner

@Afrodite-ku5mg Жыл бұрын

Make more videosss ❤

@pixi3d3ath47 Жыл бұрын

How do you deal with an ex who is this way? I’m not a needy person, I broke up with him because he had low self esteem and used that as an excuse to guilt trip me for not spending every single day with him, and is now harassing me to the point of showing up to the dorm where i live at midnight at one point. I tried my best to let him down gently, but he will not grow up and seems to think that if i speak to him, I suddenly want to get back together. He also seemed to treat me as if I was “needy” for at all giving him a simple compliment, but would go on these grand gestures complimenting me almost as if to brag to others about it. He also is clearly not over his ex because he would discuss her constantly. We’d only dated 6 weeks, and he simply won’t leave me alone after our breakup and my residence advisors aren’t listening to my concerns.

@user-qm4wh4ng4w Жыл бұрын

I really would love a video abt this but for other relationships. I am good at making friends but somehow horrible at keeping them. I make them laugh and am always trying to be of help. I've always been a therapist friend and have always come up with solutions that actually work for them when they ask for it. I try to make them feel as comfortable and in a good mood always. but in a few months time they just start distancing themselves from me. I've tried everything, toning it down and even doing nothing sometimes. I don't think it's how I look either cuz a lot of people rate me too be an 8-9 on the attractive scale. I've switched schools multiple times for separate reasons so I don't think it's the area cuz it was always the same.i won't say I don't make ANY friends but it's kinda sad that I'd please 20 people and end up with maybe 1 or 2 whod wanna stick around. I don't complain or burden them with my issues but stuff like that still happens. do I just come off as obnoxious when I do this? there have been times where I might be a little too naive about my self though. people who I thought of as close friends would just be calling me annoying and weird behind my back. I don't even let that change my mind about them being good people and I feel like maybe I am the problem. if I sit back then I end up being really alone

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

This is way beyond just not knowing the differences of the masculine and feminine. Maybe you will like this video from The Crappy Childhood Fairy: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/h5NlaLNylratn5s.html&ab_channel=CrappyChildhoodFairy Good luck on your healing journey! 💗

@felicityw5163 Жыл бұрын

I was in a similar situation. Most of them don’t really want solutions, they just want to talk about it, so being an active listener is enough. When they haven’t asked for advice, just don’t give advice. I lost two best friends because of my giving unsolicited advice. It seems that giving advice and wanting to help is a masculine energy while attentive listening is a feminine energy.

@lauragoreni3020 Жыл бұрын

Ask yourself why do you want so many friends and why do you please so many people in the hope of getting friends. When it's about friends, it's quality over quantity, so of course most people won't stick around. You don't need to chase them either. Friendships should be felt naturally, you don't get to give all your attention to one person in the hope of becoming friends. Friendships don't work like that. If you keep doing it, people will just use you to listen to their problems and hang out, then they'll disappear. Friends are the ones who want to get to know YOU, not you listening to them all the time. Also, your personality shouldn't be based on listening to others and being nice. You can be a good listener and nice to others, as long as you don't define yourself only by how you treat others. Do your thing, either with others or alone. If you can't stay alone, people can sense it, and they don't like it.

@user-qm4wh4ng4w Жыл бұрын

@@femininerenaissance I spent hours binging yours and her vids. a part of me kinda didn't want to believe anything and was just trying to find inconsistencies with what she said but the more videos I watched the more I could piece together about myself. I can't thank you enough

@user-qm4wh4ng4w Жыл бұрын

@@lauragoreni3020 honestly it think you're right. I've been doing this for so long I feel strange not to attach my self worth to my services. it'll still take a lot of time to get out of and there will be hundreds of people that might do the same thing and leave.. but I can't wrap my head around the fact that that's a bad thing because maybe I am helping everyone just a lil at a time regardless of what I get in return. I think I'll have to really sit back and reflect for some more time before I can really decide what I should really do. just recently have I been taking interest in myself to understand what kind of person I really am so its prolly gonna take a while. thanks for this though.. I didnt know there was a peaceful and nice community on KZfaq of all things lol. you really made me feel not that alienated

@jessicasmith6938 Жыл бұрын

What’s the case when you hook up with someone and you thought things went well but you don’t hear anything after that. Did I put a repelling energy up or was it just that the guy had just a hook up intention.

@Weila4tube Жыл бұрын

Thank you for a preciously valuable content! I'd be super glad if you could cover a case like mine: it feels like I really have an abundance mindset and stable self-esteem already. And I treat men presumably like you advice in your videos, and they behave accordingly. However, I myself find an interesting man sooo rarely that I nevertheless treat him like he's the last chance. No joking - due to high standards (and I don't feel like lowering them) - there is like 1 man in 5 years that I consider somewhat interesting. I try to stop myself from appearing needy, but that's too challenging on practice. Challenging not because of the lack of innate esteem, but merely due to how hard it is to really find a man for me. How can I stop myself from appearing needy despite suddenly becoming needy in this particular person?

@rush8280 Жыл бұрын

Figure out how someone who values their own company above anyone else's would act, and then do that until you genuinely believe you wouldn't care if you never meet another interesting man again. Then keep doing that no matter who is or isn't in your life.

@Weila4tube Жыл бұрын

@@rush8280 I do value my own company above anyone else's, it doesn't conflict with the fact I want to experience sensations only a male partner can offer - there is no equal substitute for all of them, alas.

@Marjani1968 Жыл бұрын

I want to know is it bad that my twin sister and I invited this guy that we met at music festival to go skating. He replied saying he maybe could go, but declined and said he was extremely busy with school/ work. Further, a couple of days before asking him, he commented on our post when we went to Pilates, and said he wanted to go. Was this a bad move and I should’ve have asked? Will he no longer pursue a friendship with us?

@hudaverdirey868 Жыл бұрын

Hey, it does all make sense but the problem is what if I am unattractive? I won't have that many chances to date and stuff. I feel all these videos are only for average or attractive women. I do care myself I do put makeup on, and my body is okay but my face has really masculine features that don't attract men, thin hair even tho I care my hair. We all know men care about your appearance a lot so in this situation what should I do, please don't come with beauty is subjective.

@ailish3012 Жыл бұрын

I can relate! personally I find that the best thing to do is make your initial attraction known very subtly- by looking at his eyes/lips, touching his hand or something verrryyy softly- then immediately stepping back. goal is to make them unsure if u like them or not! also masculine features are in..if you can use some makeup to feminise masculine features I think thats the most beautiful type of beauty!

@tltt_2023 8 ай бұрын

How does a female grow this healthy mindset and become extremely confident and feminine? Like be a badass and allow others to see you in a way you see yourself. For example, I am a very sunshine and angel-like feminine girl sometimes. I feel more comfortable in that way BUT, after years of being or acting masculine and depressed, it’s like my life has become so uncomfortable because I am not channeling my inner sunshine feminine beauty. My Earthy beauty that I’ve missed sooo much! This has caused me to be desperate with friends and guys when before, many depended on me! I love providing instead of asking and taking! So I just want to feel amazing again because I no longer have that energy and everyday has been so sad for me, I hate it so much

@tltt_2023 4 ай бұрын

@James-gp5cw I am thankful for your concern but I already have God in my life, I’m working on it. No Christian is perfect but still, I am grateful. I’m just living my life right now, trying to work on myself and then live the most adventurous, fun life I wanted. Through God, I can still live the fun teen lifestyle so as much as I do need God, I have Him. I don’t need someone telling me of my Faith, no offense, but if it were of a religious case, I would have asked on a religious video. Once again thank you but your answer didn’t satisfy me:)

@PratimaPangare 11 ай бұрын

What if my man is in feminine energy? ,.. still I should let go ?

@dreamscometrue233 7 ай бұрын

How to seem confident when feeling needy: 1.Let go of control, don t control that man 2. Mirror him: if he ghosts u, ghost him back Feminine energy is being, masculine energy is doing. Let him do the Chase. 3. Work on your self Esteem outside of the relationship: learn how to validate yourself, listen to your own advice and don't always rely on others opinions and advices.

@amethyst6073 Жыл бұрын

Can you make a video to let the man know that you're interested through body language

@mynew6972 Жыл бұрын

And withou comming of desperate

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

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@badbot4ever566 Жыл бұрын

You can look at him . And smile at him. Most women look at us men with disgust or contempt so if you do the opposite of that you should be ok. Or you could go up to him and introduce yourself. It’s not desperate or needy ,if he’s not interested and you don’t take the hint then it’s needy and desperate.

@amethyst6073 Жыл бұрын

@@badbot4ever566 thanks ! I didn't get any notifiication for your reply earlier.

@mapleleaf922 Жыл бұрын

1. do not attempt to control the situation with a man. Let it go entirely in early romantic contact with a man. 2. What u should do is mirroring him, leaning back and then letting him come back. If a man taking too long to make a move, let it go entirely, do ur things. If he likes you, he will take control by closing the gap. Feminine energy is being and Masculine energy is doing. 4. Let go of the masculine energy in relationship and embody the feminine energy. 5. Knowing how to validate yourself. Learning how to tune in with your own intuition and trusting it.

@KaelaRosee Жыл бұрын

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@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

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@aliveslice Жыл бұрын

7:26

@silverstonehere Жыл бұрын

Pls make videos abt women domination.

@supermassiveblackholeeater6612 Жыл бұрын

i love your videos

@erzascarlet47 Жыл бұрын

So what if a guy is shy? Is it not ok to express how I feel and ask him out?

@Nathais22 Жыл бұрын

First 🫶🏼

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

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@supermassiveblackholeeater6612 Жыл бұрын

you need to please make a video on self esteem

@allurized Жыл бұрын

exactly the video i have been looking for! thank you for taking the time to upload these tips for us. you’re amazing, love. 🤍

@femininerenaissance Жыл бұрын

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@jaiminbetts154 Жыл бұрын

The guy i like is really shy - when he liked someone before they didn’t even know as he never approached them. Should i still remain passive 🥲

@blancheb3533 Жыл бұрын

Yes. I've dated guys who said they were shy or didn't experience having a girlfriend before but had no problem pursuing me. You can be friendly and appreciative of him, maybe ask him some questions about a subject, the weather, etc, smile a lot, but let him take the initiative.