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This is going to sound a bit weird. When I was in 9th grade, I had dance class. I live in a small town so there was only 20 some people in my class. We had to draw names from a jar for a partner. I drew this girl that I actually liked at the time, let’s call her Briana. So I was extremely nervous because we were learning how to slow dance, and I didn’t want her to think I liked her. So I didn’t put much effort into it. It felt really nice, even though I didn’t know how. She told me, “I know this sounds really odd, but let’s do this again sometime,.” So I said nervously, “uh I’ll have to think about that one.” That is when I realized that I just replied with the stupidest answer in the history of ever. My buddy was going to be throwing a party the next Friday, so I thought I could invite her, but she ended up going out of town to see her grandparents. So the next chance I ever get, happened to be a whole 3 years later. (This sounds like a story book, I know) I was in 12th grade and there was a dance, it wasn’t prom, but it was a dance to celebrate our graduation. I asked her to dance and she said, “so you’ve finally made up your mind?” We danced and I was so amazed that she still remembered me saying what I said. After the celebration was over, I drove her home and asked to go to dinner the next day and she said yes. A year and a half later, I’m with the best woman I could ever have wished to be with. I watched this video to refresh my memory because her sister was getting married next weekend. I don’t know why I decided to share this, but I thought it would be a nice story to save for ours kids when they are old enough.

My gf really likes slow dancing and I've never done this so hopefully tomorrow at a wedding (not ours ) maybe I can impress her

Well dammit. I'm a girl, and I clicked on this thinking it was going to be cringy, but I actually learned something. And props to giving your girl a say in this too, and not just having her there as a prop.

im going to a party with my girlfriend in a couple weeks. im going to ask her to dance for the first time. thank you for helping me learn so i dont look like a fool. this helped a lot! Update*** IT WENT SO WELL SHE LOVED DANCING WITH ME

this feels underrated

My aunt taught me when I was in 7th grade before I went to my school dance, I’m watching this because my girlfriend is coming over this weekend and she wants to go drive around the country, and I’m plaining to stop at this road where my grandparents had their first slow dance and their first kiss, but I want to slow dance with her at the same place.

30 min before prom

ok, now how do i find a girl ?

I've been teaching dance for 20 plus years. You guys touch upon details that most teacher never mention. Really nice teaching.

I am a girl and I'm going to try to teach my boyfriend how to slow dance before our one year anniversary (December 14th). Wish me luck!

I’m a girl and I’m learning a lot from this vid holy cow 😅 I’m here so I don’t embarrass myself at prom

Having my son watch this for a prom photo shoot and prom. I appreciate the instruction and how you broke it down it down and made it easy to follow.

Danced with this girl at her 18th birthday a couple of months ago and I’d never danced with a girl before and after she said it was very good. Now I managed to invite her to mine for New Years and will dance with her again. She’s from Poland too and dancing at celebrations is a big deal for the Poles so wish me luck for this.

Idk why am i watching this , but im surre im single

I’m one of those dudes that graduated high school during covid so I never had an actual walk on ceremony nor did I get a prom dance. My university is hosting a formal entitled “The prom we never had” and I’m literally watching this before I hit the floor. I’m super nervous but really excited. Thanks for this tutorial! The formal is in a couple days haha!

Absolutely phenomenal advice. And having the females perspective is extremely educational and helps with understanding the mentality of both sides. Thank you for the well made video, I learned a considerable amount. I was originally just going to watch, but you mentioning "get in your steps" motivated me to practice with the video, and it opened my mind. Huge difference practicing with and just viewing. Thank you!

Going to dance at my schools end year function, going to be my first time asking a girl to dance. Wish me goodluck!

"Or if you dropped her, gosh," I like this lady's voice.

even 3 years later you still save the lives on anxious boyfriends who want to slow dance with their girls and don't know how, your explanations and advices are really good, thanks for this video

As a girl, never taught how to lead a slow dance, but I can lead a waltz! But now I can impress my girl both ways!!

"how to" things like this really help me with animation--this was really helpful ! thank you !

Watching this 30 minutes before homecoming pray for me🙏

I don't even know why I clicked on this, but now I want to go somewhere I can slow dance with a girl, this actually looks super fun and relaxed

Your instruction should be mandatory in high school. Thank you so much, love your videos, so simple

I’m gonna try and dance with someone tonight at my prom. It’ll be my first time doing it. Wish me luck boys… Edit: I did it…she said yes 😁

I have prom this saturday and have basically never danced before. thanks!

My senior prom is coming up soon and i really want to dance with this one girl, hopefully all goes well and thank you for this video!!

I have formal tonight and my girlfriend already knows how to dance so I’m just here so I don’t embarrass myself

we’re going to try to have prom this year and im so nervous... i’ve never danced before, but i really want to slow dance with my girlfriend. this video’s really teaching me a lot.

Oh Gosh, FINALLY I find the right video about real slow dance. Thank you! ;))

Can’t believe how good and helpful this video actually is?? Was super straight forward, simple, and honest. Bravo

My Girlfriend doesn’t dance, and I was the Clumsy Guy. But you two are actually teaching me how to dance, and how to teach her. After 2 years I’m ready to propose, and would love to dance with her that night. Thank you for showing me in a way I can understand. Wish me Luck!

Simple is elegant. Thank you! I was looking for a video on slow dance to show my fiancé. I was looking for exactly this, but KZfaq kept showing me these super complicated videos. This is simple and honestly, it’s perfect! Thank you. It’d be great if you could do more of these.

AHHH I FINALLY FOUND SOMETHING GOOD FOR A SLOW DANCE- my boyfriend and I have a few parties these next couple months we need to go to, this is so simple and perfect.

Just came back from dancing at my middle school. I can’t say it looked the best but it’s a memory I’ll hold forever.

Thank you so much for no BS, just dance. I will def try it next time !

Awesome presentation. Haven't danced in 35 years, but my daughter is getting married next year. I don't want to embarrass either of us 😃

ima slow dance with my girl to ed sheerans perfect.

Learned this in church growing up, along with Swing dancing basics with a few moves. Completely forgot about it until it mattered and I realized I already knew what to do and didn't feel nervous at all. Really good and simple skill to develop that you will not regret.

Watching this because I’m trying to write a good slow dance scene. Thank you!

video with 17k views is more helpful than the one with 5 million...

Never have i ever smiled and blushed continuously for 12 minutes and 28 seconds. I was about to sleep when this video came on my feed and as soon as i saw it, i knew i had to watch it. Very informative and boosted my confidence thanks!

trying to talk to a girl at a party in a few days who's one of the only ones tall enough to dance with me. No idea if we'll end up dancing but this gives me a little more confidence. Thank you!

Watching this two weeks before prom, I asked my crush out and for some reason she said yes. When it comes to dancing I'm a nervous wreck wish me luck boys

This video is very simple and not complicated like others i'm gonna try this at my school's dance hopefully it goes well.

Here in Germany it's a rite of passage for 14 year olds to go to "Dance School" for a couple of months to learn ballroom dancing and a bit of etiquette, culminating in an "Abtanzball" (dance graduation ball). This is mostly a thing in smaller towns, but most of us who did that at least have the basics of how to dance at events. Your video is great for people who did not get to learn it when younger.

*Imma turn on "Earned it" and slow dance with a girl (if I find one).*

Absolutely appreciate this so much!! My bf has always asked me to dance or he'd say he can "envision us doing a slow dance at -parties, future friends or our wedding-" and while I've always enjoyed the idea of it and know how to execute the basic box step (thank you mom for making me watch Fred Astaire movies growing up) I am extremely self conscious and have a lack of confidence when/if I dance, especially slow dancing. What's funny I feel more confident with hip hop style choreographed dances (maybe because it reminds me of an exercise rather than an actual dance) but slow dances I feel puts a little more pressure because while I know everyone else is doing their own thing, I still think of "oh god what I f-up and make a fool out of myself because everyone is watching!!" BUT hopefully, as I have come across this video, very simple, very easy way to learn, this can kinda help me get over that little bump in my own road and put my mind at ease a bit and I'll be able to ~confidently~ dance at a friend's wedding in Sept with him! :D plenty of time to cool my jets, practice and just go with it. Thank you for the vid!

A great video indeed! Glad I found you all. It was a pleasure to watch you all dance together.

I love the depth you went into and how everything you talked about has an explanation. I'm writing a slow dance scene and this is super helpful for breaking it down to the small details. Thanks!

I discovered your channel as I prepare a father-daughter dance for my wedding! I also look forward to learning these dances with my fiancé. What a great channel! Thank you for being here!

This has to be the most informational and straight forward dancing video I've ever seen, thanks a lot yo.

no way, I didnt know what to search for to get to learn this dance that I wanted (this one), did type in how to dance with a girl and the first video that is recommended is this. Not only I got exactly what I was picturing in my head/ looking for but I got it in an easy way to understand, I got all the extras I wanted (circle her and the dip) and I did not got bullshited with whatever. Straight to the point, helpful and great explanation. Thank you very much 😁👍🏻

I was so happy to find you here. It’s just like being right there with you. Very best wishes.

Easy to follow, easy moves, clear explanation how not to do. That's a top notch guide!

This was amazing, you guys explained this so well. I feel so much more confident now. Thank you!

Valentines day is in less than a month and this video has really helped me get the hang of slow dancing. I really hope im able to get enough practice before then. This really does help specially because i couldn't find any other video that explains it this well😅😅

At 73 still love to dance slow or fast. I just love it. Thanks for bringing real dancing back.

I've never danced. You did a great job of explaining it and I can't wait to try it out. Thanks for making it

Excellent, within a few minutes incorporates a number of BR dance steps and techniques in a easy follow dance sequence

I’m watching a lot of these videos trying to figure out how to dance with a girl at homecoming. I’ve never danced before and this seriously helped! Now to practice

Not sure why this came in my recommended but I have a feeling I’ll be glad I watched this through some day

You taught this in such an easy-to-understand way. And it was really engaging! Watched the whole thing, thank you

Thank you so much, this is so useful, and you two share such a lovely energy.

This is a brilliant way to teach dancing. You take it slowly at first.

Wow! That's probably the best explanation and simple tutorial, I wish I could of seen this like forty years ago. Thank you.

Thank you SO much!! My son is getting married in 10 days and my friend who was suppose to teach them to not stand there in a circle backed out!!! You both are a lifesaver❤️

Easily the best dance tutorial I've watched. I feel so much more confident now on how to slow dance. THANKS so much.

The dance steps were great. The commentary with it was priceless, esp. the girl's perspective!

Thanks for the help, sir. I hope I get to use this one day.

Really helps and keeps everything very simple and forward for my first highschool dance lmao

Me too! My stepdaughter has invited me to dance with her at her wedding reception! I want it to be perfect!

This is awesome. All I need is someone to dance with.... lol. Thanks for sharing.

Watching this 3 weeks before my Snocoming dance, thanks for the tips. I watched this week's ahead bc I've never slow danced ik I'll have to slow dance that night so yeah thanks so much

Every guy should know how to do it! Thanks for the tips, I usually have to improvise on the spot.

Beautifull video, nicely explained. I love to slow dance, thank you very much! 👌🏻

O I love it. This is such good training! Thank you so much! I have a wedding dance that they're almost 100% going to force me to be a part of and I have been trying just these steps over and over. This is amazing. Thanks both of u. Brilliance.

Thanks for this video this is very helpful to our Js prom today 😅🙏

Thank you so much for this video! Yesterday was my prom and my date absolutely loved our dancing! I watched this video and some of your other videos to learn how to dance. Thank you so much! Without your help, her night wouldn’t have been as special.

Already got a few songs for me and her. *cough* Earth Angel *Cough*

I’m going to a Winter Formal with this girl I like in a few weeks and I have no clue how to dance in general so I will be watching this over and over again until that day. I just want to thank y’all in advance just in case I forget to come back and thank you afterwards.

thanks bro i really need it in 20 minutes real life saver

Me and my boyfriend want to try dancing and we’re gonna try in a few days. This really helped!

Yo thanks for this video! My senior ball is coming up in a few weeks and I was getting a bit worried as to how to dance with my date cuz I’ve never slow danced before. This video really covered everything I was wondering how to do so Thank You!!!

Never danced before and not the type to go to settings like prom or weddings but this video really shows how dancing is a silent conversation with your partner

This was great of you both, thank you! So helpful!

What a great Video, easy simple explaining. Thank you so much, this helps a lot!

this is super cute, simple and casual, and at the same time very romantic! Exactly what I needed, thanks guys! Gonna ask her to dance tomorrow during our time, wish me luck!

Awesome work. I will be doing the foxy etc. God bless you. Thank you

Thank you for this I can see where I'm messing up at very detailed. Love it.

OMG, thank you so much!! This will help me so much with my Homeschool Prom coming up. WISH ME LUCK!!!

Thank you so much for this video. It was my prom night and I could lead the girl all the time and she was impressed by the end of it... You guys are a saviour

y'all hooked me up here. Girlfriend and i went away for the weekend to see my folks for easter, and I had asked her to dance with me (my birthday fell on that weekend and she had asked what i wanted). So long story short, danced like a pro in the slight open space of a holiday inn room in west virginia to a randy travis song while we were both halfway through getting ready for church. This was instrumental in being able to be good at it!

I didn't even get to the end of the video but I'm already grateful, thank you!

being assertive going forward is all about holding a frame (both of you firmly) and leading with your chest not your feet... super important for a follow to be able to be comfortable and not get stepped on or pushed around.

Let's hope this comes in handy one day

Watching this 10 days from our wedding and first time slow dancing in my life…🤦‍♂️🙏🥴lol

I'm gonna be back here someday and I will be so glad I watched this✨

As I'm a competitive ballroom and Latin dancer I clicked on this video expecting it to be cringey and funny. But now I think that it is an amazing video because you explain the leading very well! A few years ago I started taking ballroom classes at the danceschool Elmayer which is really famous in Vienna. Compared to that dance school, which is really well-known in Austria and is famous for its waltz classes, you managed to explained so many things so much quicker than the teachers at Elmayer. Thank you so much!