How to Speak With Confidence - 10 Secrets to Speaking Confidently

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Does speaking up in meetings, in public, or in front of a group of people make you feel like your chest will explode out of nervousness? Speaking confidently is a skill you can learn! Apply here for Dr. Grace's communication training and executive coaching program: masteryinsights.com/application
Once you apply those skills you will be more confident and articulate in all your communication, both in your career and life.
As you get more and more successful in your career, you're inevitably going to be called upon to share your expertise with more people, so it's better to prepare for that now! In this video, Dr. Grace reverse engineers her process for becoming a confident speaker and shares 10 secrets that you can implement immediately to help you speak more confidently. Share this video with a friend who needs to hear this.
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@explorerendeavour3009 3 жыл бұрын

#1 Speaking is a skill #2 Make it about your audience #3 Visualize yourself as a confident speaker #4 Know your stuff #5 Learn how to tell story #6 Dress confidently #7 Practice makes permanent #8 Know your audience #9 Don't dwell on your mistakes #10 Change your physiology

@ofwcelinepinagpala2114 3 жыл бұрын

thanks for the summary I screenshot.

@dnoray1 3 жыл бұрын

Live this summary really helpful to me-:))

@beckabejuela6716 3 жыл бұрын

Great , I have been speaking for ten years just the way I can, its only now I learned from you formally. Thank you for this skill shared

@ooieng8238 3 жыл бұрын

@Radhal08 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the summary.

@motivatedtann8178 3 жыл бұрын

For a native Chinese, you've delivered these pointers so fluently spoken English. It was excellent!

@feliciabazan783 2 жыл бұрын

I will never fall asleep if I have a teacher like you. Thank you for imparting your thoughts. Bless you 🤗💕

@LisaB_12204 8 ай бұрын

I am an English as a New Language teacher for the beginning class. I have no fear of speaking to my students only when my focus is completely on them and their needs. I've learned to stop confessing to them my errors and inadequacies. I appreciate hearing your testimonial about you growth with English. That's what I listen for. Thank you. Wow! You read to your mother! I was thinking of having my students read such stories. I did use my favorite children's book. I used it for pronunciation and vocabulary. I will bring it back this quarter. Thank you.

@mayshu1925 3 жыл бұрын

As a Chinese who also speak English as a second language, I am amazed with your spoken English!

@bmak0526 2 жыл бұрын

she is originally from Hong Kong, not China

@monicaestrada6284 2 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful and a lot of patience and understanding how difficult many other different languages can be in China and Hong Kong

@MrLuhuazhao Жыл бұрын

@@bmak0526 I am very sure she is chinese.

@MrLuhuazhao Жыл бұрын

@@monicaestrada6284 you don’t think people in hong kong speak Chinese?

@motiveperson143 10 ай бұрын

Same English is my second language and this year I am practicing on how to be confident speaker

@edgarbanosa9074 2 жыл бұрын

1. Practice makes permanent. 2. Process makes perfect...,thank you very much...

@nadinedavid1501 2 жыл бұрын

You are truly an inspiration especially to a foreign person trying to learn a new language which is extremely difficult as an adult and when your alphabet is completely different. To sound native is very difficult to achieve but you aced it !!! But with inner confidence one can achieve almost anything !! 👏👏👏

@savageintheconcretejungle5891 3 жыл бұрын

Stumbled when telling ppl not to use filler words but immediately recovered seamlessly. That’s theory and practical lumped in one. Brilliant

@ivainezharris2279 2 жыл бұрын

These are such powerful and refreshing points for public speaking. Thank you Dr. Lee.

@rashidaliosa8208 2 жыл бұрын

A good teacher is one who teaches well, a great teacher is one who inspires- Dr.Grace Lee, I admire your unique and inspiring presentation.Your great.

@TITOFROG1 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Dr. Grace. You are an awesome and giving person for helping all of us improve ourselves on so many and varied ways. Wish you nothing but the best and continued success.

@trivjay08 3 жыл бұрын

I can see this channel growing. Thanks for sharing these gems!!!!

@trangnguyen5293 3 жыл бұрын

A big thank you from me. My name is Trang. I'm living in Australia and studying English just one month ago. I came here in 2015 without how to speak English. I overcame a lot of obstacles until I could speak a bit of English, and I am continually learning, practising and understanding more in English. Thanks again for your helpful tips to build my confidence when I talk in English. You are an amazing

@fuifuiahkuoi3058 2 жыл бұрын

As an AAPI I really appreciate your videos on communication! Your wisdom allows me to see my potential in improving my knowledge & efforts in becoming better. Thank you Dr. Lee!

@debtfree7338 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my God. You have nailed it on the head for me. I have been making it about me and never comfortable with my delivery of my messages. Thank you.

@marjorierivera3135 3 жыл бұрын

Such an amazing speaker, the points you raised are very helpful to us. Loved the fluency and pronunciation. I am motivated to improve my stuff.

@rayhclee 2 жыл бұрын

Dr Lee, thanks a lot. You video is invaluable too many people and will a long way. I myself have been going through the same tough journey of learning to speak better. Good on you.

@swatipadhye2085 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Grace, you are just like your name...Graceful...I stumbled upon your video just now after listening to it, couldn't stop myself from hitting the like and subscribe button. Felt like I found a pot of gold! You are wonderful and engaging..thank you for sharing and stay blessed...

@myraville 3 жыл бұрын

I love the way you communicate. You're so good. 🙏❤

@aliyilmaz4045 3 жыл бұрын

You are a great teacher, wonderful teacher. I am proud of being your student in spite of my old age.

@barrysmith8193 11 ай бұрын

I’m retired from a full career of owning a design/build company. At 75 years old I’m committed to myself and my wife to not going down the “old people mindset” road. I’ve surrounded myself with a team of intelligent knowledgeable individuals that supports my goal and plan. Dr. Grace Lee is on my team daily to bring to me fresh ideas and current world wise thoughts. She is a must see for any age and any point in life.

@DrGraceLee 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate your kind words and authentic share. Grateful for your support, Barry!

@MegaDonaldification Жыл бұрын

You have just changed my way of thinking this morning. I never the act of types of winning speech, statement or pitch including the dreaded "tell me about yourself" at an interview was about having the audience at heart in tamden with some "emotional word" to create a story that will be meaningful to the winning process. The first 3 minutes 16 seconds is the best moment of my life. I have an interview in an hour 30 minutes and I am going to incorporate that emotional feeling the audience have only to elevate the moment with my solution. Thank you very much. I have seen this pattern on KZfaq but I wasn't able to capture the one word that made the difference which is the emotional word that expresses the feeling one may feel and requires someone to help them stay on the right path. This is were I come in with the required solution to save the day or start them from where they stopped. DR, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

@determineddespite 3 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I found this. I like to believe that I am a confident speaker. I will there, eventually.

@anyangthiep8802 2 жыл бұрын

That is very interesting story you reading to your mother. I believe I'm just like you, because I'm the first person in my mother house to know how to read and write. I think you reading to your mother brought you closer to her. Practice makes perfect and permanent. Please next time make sure not to play music on the back ground. Because I want to concentrate on listening to you. Thank you 💘💘💘

@GaudzRamirez 3 жыл бұрын

As I watched your video, I felt as though I was attending a seminar on public speaking. Thanks!

@karinarondon5184 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Very helpful tips! Loved your presentation!

@petersonjr8015 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Lee for your great tips. I have been struggling with "stage fright" for quite a while now. My work requires me to give presentations more or less frequently and its very important for me to refine my public speaking skills. I get freaked out a little even when doing zoom presentations with just pp slides in front of me. I love especially your points on "knowing your stuff" and practice. These usually makes or break my presentations. Thanks again for the tips and looking forward to more vids from you..

@sanatkumarghosh5123 2 жыл бұрын

Two thing's are prime importance in public speaking,firstly ,you have a messege to deliver and secondly that you have a faith on the audience that your self-esteem will ultimately transform them. In the present speeches we have come accross most of it.

@janemugambi6825 3 жыл бұрын

Great content there. Thank you. I especially love no.4,7 and 8, because the struggle with stage-fright is real.

@thomaskipkemboi2023 2 жыл бұрын

This is beautiful. 10 strong and healthy points. Thank you

@LongNguyen-ij1hx 2 жыл бұрын

You are so wonderfully confident in speaking. You are a great inspiration! Thank you very much for sharing your valuable secrets to speakinging confidently.

@gabrielartillaga1194 3 жыл бұрын

Great stuff! Thanks. I'm a senior citizen watching from Puerto Princesa, Palawan, Philippines. GOD bless.

@WisdomSeries 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Dr. Grace!

@TheFredrico77 2 жыл бұрын

I love the transcripts...it helps with memory. Listening and reading at the same time is fantastic for remembering the key points. Thanks Dr Grace 🙏🏽 😘

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate your feedback, Dave. Glad to have you here on my channel!

@gicirochantal3844 8 ай бұрын

Your contact plz

@monichu91 3 жыл бұрын

❤️ Thank you so much, I am sending this link to my daughter who is struggling with speaking, talking and she was and still has this shyness of speaking out even at this age considering as an adult now. Your help will be immensely valuable. 🙏

@DrGraceLee 3 жыл бұрын

How did it go? Was your daughter able to get some valuable takeaways from this video? Is she in a more confidence space now?

@DeliciaTrini 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice! Thank you so much!

@passion-basedlearning 8 ай бұрын

You are great, organized, and able to clearly explain this complex topic"Speaking up in public". Words are powerless to express my gratitude to you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart

@sobiacsay2208 4 жыл бұрын

These are all priceless points that if applied, can take someone's speaking skills from zero to hero!

@hannahbeghi8148 3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@shalominfo5017 3 жыл бұрын

L7uuuuil

@josephinenalubula288 3 жыл бұрын

Personally, I second you with all my mind, body and soul!

@aminatayobami4744 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

@cksammi Жыл бұрын

Hi Dr Grace, love your video here. I've always had issues doing any presentation because I'm also Chinese American but wasn't born in the US so I have a natural fear of public speaking. I'm a grown man middle age now and came here when I was 10 but I never did learn the English properly so I still make grammatical mistakes when I speak now and then, that's probably why I have a fear of speaking unless it's scripted and I can read then it's a bit easier but still get nervous. I do think that's my weakness and need to improve because of my career in sales. One thing I have learned is that is to speak slowly and also to take a breath in between sentences but of course this may make the audience fall asleep but at least I don't make too many blunders. Thanks again.

@elaineyaz6451 3 жыл бұрын

This is what I’ve been looking for. Public speaking is my weakness that I need to develop.

@dawnrobertson4982 5 ай бұрын

@DrGrace, I am so impressed by the work you did to learn English, and to master phonetics. You are an example that one can accomplish what s/he puts their mind to. Thank you for being an inspiration.

@messue428 3 жыл бұрын

This was incredibly inspiring and helpful. Thank you.

@wamboimugo5948 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate listening to you, coming from Kenya where English is a second language, I feel uplifted by your encouraging talk thank you.

@CoolDeepSingh 2 жыл бұрын

Here are the list: 😀 1. Speaking is a skill. 2. Make it about your audience. 3. Visualize yourself as a confident speaker. 4. Know your stuff. 5 . Learn how to tell story. 6. Dress confidently. 7. Practice makes permanent. 8. Know your audience. 10. Change your physiology.

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the outline!

@akinbobolaoluwatobiloba3097 3 жыл бұрын

Your guides are quite simplified and educative.

@bryanryan4504 Жыл бұрын

I don't fear speaking in front of others. My fear is rejection or sense of rejection. Not sure if others feel this, but if I engage someone in conversation, I dislike it when next time, the person avoids me for another conversation, or if I see people yawn when I speak.

@CL-jb9nd 4 жыл бұрын

Your English is so fluent and wonderful!!

@thehoneydeev 3 жыл бұрын

Why wouldn’t her English be fluent?

@mandyng9032 3 жыл бұрын

@thehoneydeev she mentioned that English is not her first language but Cantonese is. I also am surprised how excellent her English and she speaks it without any accent. I unfortunately stuck with an accent for life.

@explorerendeavour3009 3 жыл бұрын

Speaking and keeping practice and use English constantly, of course.

@kaizenyamazaki5397 3 жыл бұрын

@@mandyng9032 you should start practicing english now. That is the result of her hard work.

@Channel800Billion 3 жыл бұрын

@@mandyng9032 I've got an fb group that can help you.

@gaddielboe4064 3 жыл бұрын

Wow indeed being confident of yourself matters a lot. so great and motivational

@monicaestrada6284 2 жыл бұрын

I feel it will be amazing and everyone will learn from each other

@edwardwong654 2 жыл бұрын

This is so good that I want to rewatch it again. And Bethesda is so grand although I remembered it as being decrepit and dangerous in the 70's when I was a little kid. Great complement to the usual Vancouver waterfront. My two favoruite running venues, Central and Stanley Parks. Cantonese is also my first language although I was born in Manhattan, but English is my de facto language. Great video and thanks.

@natasharees8219 3 жыл бұрын

I have stage fright when I speak infront of persons like in meeting When I dance and teach dance, it is different, am so confident. Thank you for these stages. Will work on it

@royallen1711 2 жыл бұрын

Informative and well presented. Thank you!

@stanleypgayflor 2 жыл бұрын

The only challenge I faced in school currently is speaking. I find it difficult to express myself even in the midst of two. I always thought I have problems with my brain, the part that controls speech. Thank you so much, Dr. I have decided to face my weakness

@korimlijanice9843 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks coach, for sharing your experience how to improve speech this can help me to communicate with people.

@srherlina3751 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing me such things how to be a confident person because when l start to speak in public sometimes l am nervouse and it makes me to loose the topic that l already prepare.

@andypham218 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your genuine and informative video.

@biubiu_xiner 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tips! I was not very confident almost in my whole life, but I recently decided to face my weakness, you are awesome Dr. Lee!

@DrGraceLee 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome to hear, and I am cheering you onwards and upward!

@blessings9889 2 жыл бұрын

Same to me here🤗💯

@mariafebronia2690 2 жыл бұрын

Watching for the first time and I like u

@rosamiagarnace6596 2 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you... You're so authentic...generous🥰to share ur gift💐

@SnowS162 10 ай бұрын

I love your channel Dr. Grace Lee. Seeing you are Asian like me helps me feel like it's possible for me to improve my communication skills too. Thanks so much.

@chillwithmari 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this Dr Grace!!! U speak very well!!

@williammastropieri2144 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Lee You are great!

@bobbytryte2927 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, this is just what I need right now...Bless you

@Erudite48085 3 жыл бұрын

She's motivating! She makes us feel improvement is accessible!

@ajinkyakhandare4748 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Dr.grace Lee for this fabulous video 😊

@prof.jojopangan2407 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Grace thank you for sharing your wisdom on building confidence in public speaking. -Prof. Jose Journal

@user-lb9tl1qt6l 2 жыл бұрын

You can not imagine how helpful are your tips for me!! Thank you so much Dr Lee. You are so amazing! Wow! ❤️

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome! Glad to have you here on my channel.

@ruckus181 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Grace! Appreciate the insights :) And I always get stage fright

@micahdooley2729 Жыл бұрын

Great advice, Dr. Lee. You are an amazing person, and it is hard to believe that English is your second language. Thank you. 🙏

@samrag9101 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Doctor for your time and efforts.. very usful content looking forward to see your next interesting video😊

@daklakdaily3671 3 жыл бұрын

What the best video ! Thank you for sharing with us . Have a blessed year there👍🔔🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

@GuilfordGardenCT 3 жыл бұрын

I just found you and the moment you started speaking, I had to subscribe. Amazing content you have here.

@DrGraceLee 3 жыл бұрын

Well, it's a better place now that you're here! Thank you for subscribing!

@mandisasinuka3478 3 жыл бұрын

Powerful and insightful speech.

@GuilfordGardenCT 3 жыл бұрын

@@mandisasinuka3478 Yes, really amazing content:)

@providence9481 3 жыл бұрын

ME TOO!

@sweetypatnett6123 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, it was very informative. I had to overcome stage fright by pretending i was the only one there. Thanks for the tips! I still have a long way to go. 😊🙏😊

@maureenbrown7270 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, thank you, thank you . Your presentation was awesome.

@marialevy6109 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your valuable skills and ideas.

@wingsofinspiration 3 жыл бұрын

Wow thats incredible👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽..Thank you so much for sharing this..I need it.

@monicaestrada6284 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like learning and taking up a second or 3rd language is beautiful it's amazing it's a learning experience and you grow from it and you learn many different experiences from it visiting different parts of the world you need to know different languages and learning Chinese is a beautiful language

@abidemimustapha4515 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not a stage fright because I don't look at the audience's eyes directly, I look straight to their hair, with this I don't have contact with their eyes to freek me out😀 It works like magic💥

@nyebazashivan3064 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@LisaOWhite 3 жыл бұрын

Sound cool! thank you! I am scared to look at the eyes too... I forget everything immediately :))

@abidemimustapha4515 3 жыл бұрын

@@LisaOWhite: Thank you ☺

@danakampurira2219 2 жыл бұрын

You are the best mentor I have ever seen

@TaraGhimite 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Dr Grace Lee

@shareewilliams6967 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Grace Lee for this helpfu linformation and for sharing your gift with us. Blessings to you and your family

@DrGraceLee 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your thoughtful message. Blessings to you too!

@user-jw8uw1vt4k 10 ай бұрын

I am a 54 year old man and I just get absolutely paralyzed when I have to speak in public in front any number of people and I don't think my knowledge base is developed and even my vocabulary is so very limited. I am not sure if it is even too late for me to start working on becoming a better speaking and transferring ideas worth listening to. These tips are so valuable Dr Lee. But I already feel anxious. I want to start today to learn the skill of public speaking and to speak without any filler words...

@ayimdora297 2 жыл бұрын

THANKS OUR DEAR DOCTOR.

@ivykhoo783 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Grace, you are courageous and strong.

@mikerockgospel 2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR THESE TIPS

@laurietyer9437 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for caring about us 🌄

@anniehe7797 Жыл бұрын

You are awesome Dr. Lee. I run every morning listening to your video. Learned so much and encouraged by you to overcome accent, stage frightening and build more confidence!

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you, Annie.

@fadhilikisusange8650 7 ай бұрын

I just found a new learning platform. Dr. grace you're so amazing for the incredible lessons.

@leenszy3184 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I have stage fright. I am thankful for this video.

@lilibethnieto55 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you...for a wealth of knowledge on how to speak confidently ❤️ Love what you have shared 😍

@swagatikanayak2778 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much for the content . I can't stay with out subscribing whn I heard ur content .. Awesome 🙏🙏

@purpleplanet3138 3 жыл бұрын

You are a gem! Loved, subscribed!

@justinamusyoka4986 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this insights.

@dnoray1 3 жыл бұрын

This is the most informative & useful video I have seen in awhile. Good point about not dwelling on mistakes-:))

@ohenebhaqhwuamiotengpato153 2 жыл бұрын

So educative ❤😊 Yes I’ve experienced stage fright 😢to it extent I hardly speak in microphone cos my voice is too louder and noisily shaking in microphone

@AwesomeThreeEs 3 жыл бұрын

This is very true. You are an effective speaker and got my attention 👍👏😀

@sharonodonnell2786 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, appreciate your grace, Dr. Grace. Have taken notes - much good content in this video. I have felt insecure talking in front of group #2 step may help this. Also, appreciate your articulate English & voice.

@DrGraceLee 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful to hear that my video is helping you. Keep up updated on your progress!