How To Stop Being A Nice Guy & Get Girls

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🙅🙅 Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - Ultimate Guide on How To Stop Being A Nice Guy 😏😏
We always try to be nice guys because that’s what we have been told since childhood.
Also, what’s wrong with that?
I am sure we have encountered this scenario.
When we were being really “nice” to a girl,
We were buying her expensive gifts and doing her favors to try and impress her.
But in the end, the girl chooses that “a*shole” guy over you.
She starts dating him while you treat her like a princess.
Why does that happen?
What are the traits in a*shole guys that get all the girls over nice guys?
Why do nice guys finish last?
If you’re a nice guy, this video is for you.
I am sharing a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy,
And become a person that everyone loves and respects.
First, let’s talk about some traits of nice guys and playboys.
Nice Guys
- Are the ones who go beyond their ways to help a girl.
- They do her favors and buy her gifts.
- They are always there for her and keep checking on her multiple times a day.
- They fight with other guys who talk about their girl, like Will Smith.
Playboys
- They do not buy girls drinks in the beginning.
- They’re not a girl’s puppet; they stand their ground and maintain their boundaries.
- They do not offer undeserved favors.
- They are clear about what they want.
- They inform the girls they don’t want to be in a relationship.
Playboys put their priorities over others.
It is not about nice guys vs. bad guys.
It comes down to strong man behavior vs. weak man behavior.
Playboys are strong, and nice guys are pushovers.
Nice guys are weak; they go out of their ways to help others,
To try and impress them. They are people’s pleasers.
Girls treat them as a shoulder and take advantage of them.
You need to stop that. You must start standing up for yourself and not let others treat you as a doormat.
In life, we want a win-win situation where both sides are happy.
But nice guys feel shitty inside while making others happy.
They let others take advantage of them and lose their sense of self.
Even as kids, our parents showed us love, when we did things according to them.
You need to stop this pattern and become a strong man.
In the video, I talk about five steps you can take to become a stronger, grounded man.
Watch the video to get a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy.
Love,
Kshitij 💖
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The viewer is advised to read and understand the laws pertaining to the protection of women in India, including under the Indian Penal Code, Information Technology Act, Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act, and various Fundamental Rights of Privacy under the Constitution.
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@roshankhadka21
@roshankhadka21 27 күн бұрын
Imagine we are in the world where being nice is a cheap💀
@good_preaching
@good_preaching 24 күн бұрын
We are living in this world
@fabfest1294
@fabfest1294 23 күн бұрын
Be kind
@clxown
@clxown 22 күн бұрын
Be nice but not stupid my bro
@vemanthreddy4210
@vemanthreddy4210 20 күн бұрын
Ok. . .
@vemanthreddy4210
@vemanthreddy4210 20 күн бұрын
Noice .
@souptikzzroy-7773
@souptikzzroy-7773 Ай бұрын
There's nothing called one sided love ..it's simply called simping
@redcrowyt2690
@redcrowyt2690 Ай бұрын
It's simple until it's starting hurts
@priyangshudasofficial
@priyangshudasofficial 25 күн бұрын
Absolutely
@Dipto-dy2ox
@Dipto-dy2ox 21 күн бұрын
Depends brother.... Depends on the scenario from person to person...🤧
@vemanthreddy4210
@vemanthreddy4210 20 күн бұрын
Ok . ..
@vemanthreddy4210
@vemanthreddy4210 20 күн бұрын
Noice .
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Ай бұрын
Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy. Love is a waste of time.
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Ай бұрын
@@shortsofriju3516 👍
@talawar7236
@talawar7236 Ай бұрын
Chuth chaiye tho kya kare?😆
@biswaruproychowdhury8820
@biswaruproychowdhury8820 Ай бұрын
Bhai stay single by choice but there is no need to to prove a point by that definitely not for proving relationships or being in a relationship is a bad thing to happen
@IronManLifestyle
@IronManLifestyle Ай бұрын
Lol. Average victim guy looking for excuses for his own failure to meet someone that loves him.
@Vxbhav
@Vxbhav Ай бұрын
@@IronManLifestyle lmaooo
@Calgxyox
@Calgxyox Ай бұрын
Kshitij,ur doing a great job.These kind of videos is very rare on the net & very informative.Great goin bro 👍
@gyoubuoniwa4662
@gyoubuoniwa4662 Ай бұрын
quality content bro appreciate your work helping out the boys
@gtxgonnacry4201
@gtxgonnacry4201 Ай бұрын
Excellent!! Earlier I was single ...after following this I am single and without friends😢😢
@joshbrandon1750
@joshbrandon1750 29 күн бұрын
bro anyways you have to have boundaries for yourself else you will be cheap. You will have few friends but the real ones
@narendra7338
@narendra7338 29 күн бұрын
Being single is way better than being in the wrong Circle
@jyotiradityaroy5109
@jyotiradityaroy5109 29 күн бұрын
Make friends brother ladki chorke chali jayegi par bhailog kbhi sath nhi chorenge 👍
@ShivamKumar-ch7tk
@ShivamKumar-ch7tk 28 күн бұрын
Ekdm
@joshbrandon1750
@joshbrandon1750 22 күн бұрын
@@jyotiradityaroy5109 kdum sahi baat
@raiyanrahman5813
@raiyanrahman5813 Ай бұрын
This type of video format is very helpful and relatable👌 kepp it up bro❤️
@YourAashique
@YourAashique 27 күн бұрын
Thanks for highlighting these topics.
@LuckyVerma-rr7ez
@LuckyVerma-rr7ez Ай бұрын
thank you so much bhaiya please make more videos like this and aware our youth boys because your content is too much relatable with our situations .... waiting for your next video
@DIGIGURU-gi3kk
@DIGIGURU-gi3kk Ай бұрын
Today you will only survive if you have kshitij mentality❤
@disciplineseeker
@disciplineseeker Ай бұрын
😂
@himanshuregar5478
@himanshuregar5478 Ай бұрын
Thank you big brother its really helpful ❤
@Shivam07u
@Shivam07u Ай бұрын
6:22 thanks for clarity bro 😂😂
@ZoldicsDiaries
@ZoldicsDiaries Ай бұрын
Dushmaan mile hazaar- par Biwi na mile Chinaar!!!😉
@SanTVMUSIC
@SanTVMUSIC Ай бұрын
Bro 💣❤️ keep making men confident ❤❤
@AstroHeadlines
@AstroHeadlines Ай бұрын
Thanks for Uploading the Actual Thing love ur Content
@_0sahab847
@_0sahab847 Ай бұрын
Stay strong king's 🔥💪
@ZoldicsDiaries
@ZoldicsDiaries Ай бұрын
Dushmaan mile hazaar- par Biwi na mile Chinaar!!!😉
@rishabhchawla8024
@rishabhchawla8024 Ай бұрын
Your videos are very helpful
@ketanthekahanikaar
@ketanthekahanikaar Ай бұрын
Your videos have really something valuable.
@swastiksoni1728
@swastiksoni1728 Ай бұрын
Sir, you are the reason I am in relationship .
@MyChannel-ez6hl
@MyChannel-ez6hl Ай бұрын
Thank you for information
@user-my3ec6ff3c
@user-my3ec6ff3c Ай бұрын
Bro make a video on how to manage 2 girlfriends
@Shivam07u
@Shivam07u Ай бұрын
Bro please you make a video how to make two gf❤😂
@SonuSonu-pw2dd
@SonuSonu-pw2dd Ай бұрын
Bhai tum kon ho 🙏
@AbdulAziz-xw7zr
@AbdulAziz-xw7zr Ай бұрын
😂
@Sky-yj7wj
@Sky-yj7wj Ай бұрын
😂
@koji5959
@koji5959 Ай бұрын
+1
@Mr-Atheist
@Mr-Atheist 22 күн бұрын
Great work sir
@anandbhalerao9531
@anandbhalerao9531 Ай бұрын
Bro is making extraordinary content i want him to make more and post daily ❤
@yashkohad
@yashkohad Ай бұрын
Video ka topic bohot hi sahi choose ka bcz its a today’s social truth topic , being nice is not bad but being used by someone is wrong
@nikhilpatil6808
@nikhilpatil6808 14 күн бұрын
Wohh..really Wonderful✨😍
@MRX_ONETAPER
@MRX_ONETAPER Ай бұрын
This video is really helpful…..😊
@dhruv_15_jain
@dhruv_15_jain Ай бұрын
Content getting best day upon day go on kshitij bhai ❤
@AdityaSingh-zz2rc
@AdityaSingh-zz2rc Ай бұрын
Very greatfull to see the ..video ... Kshitiz bhai .. ...
@kushalshukla444
@kushalshukla444 Ай бұрын
bro i have been following you from 50 K subs , love you brother
@pritech8302
@pritech8302 15 күн бұрын
Good job bro
@user-uh1sj4bg7f
@user-uh1sj4bg7f 26 күн бұрын
what we dont want to listen but NEED to listen.
@mohammadfaisalfaisal9634
@mohammadfaisalfaisal9634 Ай бұрын
Good video 👍
@suryakantapradhan6935
@suryakantapradhan6935 12 күн бұрын
Thank you kshitij sir for this video
@rohitthapa1666
@rohitthapa1666 27 күн бұрын
Thanksgiving bro your support
@Rg4gamer800
@Rg4gamer800 9 күн бұрын
I can definitely say you explain things in a very good way you are not saying that being nice is bad you are just explaining that is good to be nice until you are not being used and i implemented this in my real life and drastic changes❤️❤️ Earlier i use to think gym jakr body bana kr he baat banegi, but now i know how to flirt respectfully with a girl and build attraction, however i am still in learning phase only 40% skills developed till now
@himanshugohil4609
@himanshugohil4609 Ай бұрын
Thanks bro 😎 ham logo ko rah dikhane ke liye 😊
@anirudhkulkarni7249
@anirudhkulkarni7249 Ай бұрын
3:22 Kshitij bhai ne bol diya circle chodne ka matlab chodne ka ❤🔥........Was stuck in this from long time
@rkbehera2001
@rkbehera2001 Ай бұрын
bhai aisi video honi chayeye yaar.... maje maje mein bohot kuch sikh gaya...
@sigmaworld4955
@sigmaworld4955 29 күн бұрын
Thanks for spreading anti-simp awareness.
@jayprakashkumar9518
@jayprakashkumar9518 Ай бұрын
great bro....
@akashgupta6793
@akashgupta6793 Ай бұрын
You're the Superb🔥🔥Bro❤️💪🏻
@superiorarts..443
@superiorarts..443 19 күн бұрын
Top level content no more Mr nice guy 👌🏻
@GangasagarAffiliatemarketing
@GangasagarAffiliatemarketing Ай бұрын
Super video its useful like new teenage generation
@satyachaitanya2431
@satyachaitanya2431 4 күн бұрын
Thank you
@souhardya1487
@souhardya1487 Ай бұрын
That guy actually deserves better and dodged the bullet.
@animba5440
@animba5440 25 күн бұрын
Netflix Recharge 😂😂😂 It seems most didn't get this one.
@realhxrry
@realhxrry 21 күн бұрын
*"High value men."* This sole phrase is enough to conclude almost everything that a man should be.
@rohan925
@rohan925 28 күн бұрын
Sir can you make video on the difference between eve teasing and a good approach
@rktrishika1184
@rktrishika1184 Ай бұрын
Best video
@muhammadrehanulhaq3118
@muhammadrehanulhaq3118 Ай бұрын
I have gone through this situation and now I laugh at myself what I was doing 😂😂
@NikunjanChakraborty-gq4zp
@NikunjanChakraborty-gq4zp 12 күн бұрын
Fr . I also had similar experience the girl with whom I was nice ( like very nice ) ignored me . After that when I started being myself { it is different}
@arunmeena4881
@arunmeena4881 Ай бұрын
bro thank you for teaching indian youth nice communication skills bcoz your videos also works on workplaces and school tkank you bro😌😌😌😌😌😌
@AshTheDuke
@AshTheDuke 20 күн бұрын
Thank god i have never been a victim
@anandbhalerao9531
@anandbhalerao9531 Ай бұрын
Bro make an video about how to start converstion with unknow womens and what to talk to her ❤
@gopalkrusnajena7383
@gopalkrusnajena7383 20 күн бұрын
Stay strong boys . Being alone is so happier than being binded in a relationship. Don't you see your parents fighting? Don't you see news ? Don't you feel the burden of relatives? Don't you lose your autonomy of staring great works when someone close interfere? Alone is always happier than getting close to anyone. When you allow someone into relationship with you.. you loose autonomy and give permission of asking questions to the person. Think again 👍
@TheSketchX
@TheSketchX Ай бұрын
Where has your old music intro gone man...bring it back with a bang
@adityatiwari6998
@adityatiwari6998 Ай бұрын
"Arman khade ho gye" was epic line
@siddharthjagwani
@siddharthjagwani Ай бұрын
I am a victim of trauma bonding. Got bullied for 2 years😢
@astopgeming1.1m8
@astopgeming1.1m8 Ай бұрын
Content me jaan dal di❤🔥
@hossainabrar18
@hossainabrar18 Ай бұрын
iPhone Kidney Bech Ke Aate Hai 😮.........It gives me goosebumps😮😮😮
@Lucknowkaeditor
@Lucknowkaeditor 5 күн бұрын
Thanks
@Anurag_Gawai
@Anurag_Gawai Ай бұрын
The best tip for relationship is. Don't Start !💗
@TheTanmoy16
@TheTanmoy16 22 күн бұрын
Nope that's running away like a coward. Be tactful.
@pradeepagnel2262
@pradeepagnel2262 Ай бұрын
hi Kshitij, which course is better mentorship 2.0 or simp to stud
@th3r3x5
@th3r3x5 2 күн бұрын
A similar thing has happened to me. 🙂 Taking the Ls but I learnt my lesson
@acousticsid862
@acousticsid862 Ай бұрын
Bro aap sahi batate ho ksam sy apne mai bhoot kuch change feel kiya hai maine personality to thik hai meri pr girls k maamle mai nhi to maine aapsy kaafi kuch seekh aur aage dates bi kiya karuga aur apne liye thik duduga thanks bro ❤❤love respect from Himachal mandi ❤❤
@gorgeousyou844
@gorgeousyou844 11 күн бұрын
Iron man does you have any side effects till now after doing eye surgery pls answer
@safe1123
@safe1123 Ай бұрын
Conclusion of story Invest your time, energy, money and love On that girl who also invest you on those things truly . *Loyality*
@rendoxbhai9916
@rendoxbhai9916 Ай бұрын
i would love to see sakshi on your channel
@spreading_comedy8
@spreading_comedy8 18 күн бұрын
thankyou sir you are great sir loe u
@MyChannel-ez6hl
@MyChannel-ez6hl Ай бұрын
Please make more videos
@Akgaming_004
@Akgaming_004 Ай бұрын
Bro make a video on how to manage 3 to 4 girls
@K.S_20087
@K.S_20087 Ай бұрын
Part 2 chahiye 👍
@svmjyoti7942
@svmjyoti7942 29 күн бұрын
6:40 ha but some times we want to help the other person in that situation it might not fit as simping
@Sigma7723
@Sigma7723 Ай бұрын
Ye ldki acting mst krti h😌
@fk-StarBoy
@fk-StarBoy Ай бұрын
Lagta he real life me practicals ker chuki hai 🌚🌚
@shibu3716
@shibu3716 Ай бұрын
Ye uski gf hai
@samxdits_
@samxdits_ Ай бұрын
Iski insta id pta h?
@fk-StarBoy
@fk-StarBoy Ай бұрын
@@samxdits_ 🌚
@Sigma7723
@Sigma7723 Ай бұрын
@@fk-StarBoy bahut 🤣
@sahilahmed_7
@sahilahmed_7 27 күн бұрын
100% right 🔥❤️
@calisthenics69guy
@calisthenics69guy Ай бұрын
Ye Pyaar nhi ye to Dhanda hai Kalyug me kaha pyaar milega yaar Srip Single raho or Success ke pichhe bhago Or Money 💰 kamao Apne ap Sare ladki Pichhe aajayn ge
@heetshah531
@heetshah531 Ай бұрын
"This is not a pallu" Once again the deepika padukone inside her came out, LITERALLY!
@MDTaiseerHassan
@MDTaiseerHassan Ай бұрын
Instead of watching this read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy
@Devil-bc1yv
@Devil-bc1yv 19 күн бұрын
In such kind of relation but unable to get out as I really need emotional support😢
@metalheadtaz
@metalheadtaz Ай бұрын
Mark Manson calls this non-neediness
@mEvEeeee
@mEvEeeee 26 күн бұрын
bhai how to chat with a girl if we know each other and what to chat after some days?? on which topic? make video on this
@himan_shu_tech
@himan_shu_tech Ай бұрын
How to escalate the things up if she shows intrest in me and also trying to flirt?
@deepakrajtoday
@deepakrajtoday 23 күн бұрын
if the purpose of your life is to get a girl, then you need to reconsider your purpose.
@SonuKumar-xz3wr
@SonuKumar-xz3wr Ай бұрын
1:20. 3:32. boundaries Say no mani nice girl iv, 7:32. 5:36. Value add tease & flirt,
@mohdshariqansari2233
@mohdshariqansari2233 Ай бұрын
Kshitij bhai boht sahi bate btata h agr har banda ya majority guys iski bate mane to aj ke time par ladkiyo ki jitna bhai badhe huye h or vo asman me udh rhi h zamin pr ajyngi fir in londo ko itna pgl nhi hona pdega ldkio ke piche or in ldkio ka attitude bhi khtm ho jyega
@pritech8302
@pritech8302 15 күн бұрын
well said
@sauravsardar6819
@sauravsardar6819 Ай бұрын
i dont wanna live in the world where kindness is consider as weakness ------byKeanu Reeves
@mayurgupta9994
@mayurgupta9994 Ай бұрын
Kshitij bro 🤜 content is getting good day by day.... Boundaries wali kuch alag ho sakta tha .... Agar directly mna kr deta toh...... How does it matter....?
@ajeetyadav7908
@ajeetyadav7908 Ай бұрын
What about people who are dark skinned or nor handsome, are girls ready to accept their proposals?
@gayakwadusha5118
@gayakwadusha5118 28 күн бұрын
Heartbreaking 💔
@harsh8660
@harsh8660 29 күн бұрын
Maturity is when you realise this is all true
@AlphaAbhishek
@AlphaAbhishek 23 күн бұрын
Bro make video on multiple relationship management
@harishrhr1412
@harishrhr1412 27 күн бұрын
Could you give English subtitles for your videos because mujje Hindi only thoda thoda maalum,it would be useful for other language audiences
@EastsideTravelOFood
@EastsideTravelOFood 20 күн бұрын
I am also the same situation culprit
@aayushorts739
@aayushorts739 6 күн бұрын
I'm doing all these things & It works definitely. I always tease and flirt with girl & she gets attaractwithe me. 😂
@ranjith7229
@ranjith7229 22 күн бұрын
Note :- No Simps were harmed in this video 😁
@vinprime369
@vinprime369 Ай бұрын
stop getting girls be nice guy
@mudassaranjum4649
@mudassaranjum4649 29 күн бұрын
👍 good
@balramgupta8484
@balramgupta8484 Ай бұрын
Bro make a video on how to hide your relationship from family 😅
@ajaythomas2009
@ajaythomas2009 29 күн бұрын
U r a coach n someone our generation neef
@Dweepkumarsarkar2004
@Dweepkumarsarkar2004 Ай бұрын
Thanks for 3 subscribe
@shridhar786
@shridhar786 28 күн бұрын
Kshitij looking more Slimmer 🔥
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