How to STOP Being a People Pleasing Manager

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Makeda Andrews

Makeda Andrews

Күн бұрын

Are you a people-pleaser as a manager?! If you tend to fall in the category of wanting your team to always like you and be happy then this video is for you. I'll be sharing some of the greatest lessons I've learned as a recovering people-pleaser.
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@sierrah.9922
@sierrah.9922 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I needed to be talkative, which is not me. When I did speak with my team, I spoke with authenticity by being flawed. It's working lol
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
Sierra! An NMA student!!! So great to see yah love. You have to add this beautiful picture on your SLACK profile btw lol.
@beingroxy
@beingroxy Жыл бұрын
Hi there I'm a new manager, no prior experience🙌🏿. But it's so hard as I tend to be a people pleaser at times due to past childhood issues that eventually carried over to adulthood. I've dealt with some disrespect because I've questioned some of their behaviors and received lash back . Because when someone would say "something" I didn't really like I would suppress my real emotions instead of saying it right then and there 🤦🏾‍♀️ so those that I have shared things with stated to me I need to learn to tell them right then and there instead of going back later to question them. It's a learning experience indeed.
@prettyflytraveler
@prettyflytraveler 5 ай бұрын
Wow,this was an eye opener.
@JenniferBrick
@JenniferBrick 2 жыл бұрын
returning with the 🔥🔥🔥I see!
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
Hiiii! Trying ;)
@jeevapanneerselvan3092
@jeevapanneerselvan3092 2 жыл бұрын
Make, your thoughts are really helping me a lot. I have been searching all these days
@phyllsgilliam6088
@phyllsgilliam6088 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information because alot of this info is what I am focusing in like setting boundaries and to stop people pleasing and to be more authentic. For amlong time I felt I had to play a role for people to accept but now.. at 52 years old it is time for the new.
@seunadelusi2549
@seunadelusi2549 10 ай бұрын
Hello Mark, could you also make videos about Supervisor. Especially first time Supervisor especially leading a team who have strong mindset. Or when you feel the manager doesn't take your sides but rather takes one of your team members sides.
@martinsamuko
@martinsamuko 3 ай бұрын
Thank You so much. This is very helpful.
@Pedroson001
@Pedroson001 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Love your authenticity over this, exposing yourself online with such vulnerable information. Love from Israel.
@suzanneecklund4478
@suzanneecklund4478 9 ай бұрын
This was really good. Thank you.
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 9 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome! Happy this was a support to you.
@Kelly_r_v
@Kelly_r_v Жыл бұрын
love your wisdom! thanks
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews Жыл бұрын
Kelly! Thank you :) Glad you found the video helpful!
@juneelle370
@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🪷
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome June. 💛
@boogieeweb3
@boogieeweb3 4 ай бұрын
Becoming an assistant manager is teaching me alot about myself and my management style.
@vichhayeangkim
@vichhayeangkim 2 жыл бұрын
The Mak Attack! I love ❤ everything about this and agree wholeheartedly.
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you
@hadiyyahjenkins
@hadiyyahjenkins 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You Makeda
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@fplluke
@fplluke 4 ай бұрын
This is so helpful!!!!!
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 4 ай бұрын
☺️ glad to hear it!
@nithinrajeevan8943
@nithinrajeevan8943 2 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I mean I know it's hard but it's so worth it. It's like Sierra above said, once she did what came natural for her - it worked. I hope people watch this and are empowered to do the same.
@user-vg9wn6ez1g
@user-vg9wn6ez1g 17 күн бұрын
Great video..analyse your behaviour ❤
@hayleyclaire8681
@hayleyclaire8681 9 ай бұрын
Great video! This has helped me quite a bit. I wanted to ask, could you possibly do some role-play / acting type videos? They always help me more than just listening to advice if you see what I mean. Like show what both sides looks like (nice side & professional side)
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 9 ай бұрын
Hi there!! So glad you enjoyed this video. Yess within NMA we do exactly this through role playing as I do want to give my students lots of examples and practice. If you’re interested in learning more and joining us click here: makedaandrews.com/nma
@blaxicanx
@blaxicanx 9 ай бұрын
The changes this video talks about are so hard when you have anxiousness.
@AboutThatActionTV
@AboutThatActionTV Жыл бұрын
Great content I would love to interview you
@SuperDB215
@SuperDB215 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’ve been a manager for years. And this is something I struggle with. I’m starting at a new company tomorrow and I definitely don’t want to fold. I’ll be putting by boundaries right under my keyboard for easy access!
@makeda.andrews
@makeda.andrews 2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaasss! So glad you're doing that. We are most likely to follow through on the things we write down so I'm confident that you will hold firm to those boundaries when you write it down :)
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