How to Stop Wanting to Buy Stuff | Deinfluencing Yourself

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How to Stop Wanting to Buy Stuff | Deinfluencing Yourself

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7 ай бұрын

How to finally stop buying things that you DON'T NEED. Whether it's to create a wardrobe that you actually love or to purchase things that you will actually get a lot of use out of. In today's video, I'll be sharing 5 simple tips that I use almost every single time that I am going to buy something. These tips help me save money and shop much more consciously. These tips will prevent you from feeling like you have nothing to wear, despite having a closet full of clothes.
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@shellbell8062 7 ай бұрын

My favourite point is the one about paying everything first and then deciding if your budget has the capacity for shopping. If you have loans, credit card bills etc you shouldn't be shopping; you're just digging yourself into a deeper hole. It's so easy to do when everything is accessible with a few clicks and you don't have a realistic perspective of how much you are spending.

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more.

@julialongo 6 ай бұрын

The wishlist really works, I often go back to my wishlist and find that I’ve changed my mind about the item !

@violetteg.1709 7 ай бұрын

I've been making wishlists since 2018 and can hands down say this has helped my spending SO much. As always, love all of your tips Gemary. You're a great influence on the internet, thank you for another great video!

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Yessss, wishlists help me TREMENDOUSLY. & tysm 🥹🤍

@myhazyyyy8512 7 ай бұрын

heavy on the wishlists! as a thrifter, they helped me stop buying useless junk i've also made a rule that whenever i go thrifting, i donate things i don't wear. i think our generation is leaning towards hoarding tendencies with all the overconsumption. my grandpa was a hoarder and it is scary! glad influencers like you are promoting safe habits ❤

@alanascialo808 7 ай бұрын

This video title is literally THE thing I need to work on this year. Thank you Gemary!!!

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Let’s start 2024 off STRONG! 💪🏻 you got this.

@coronnss 7 ай бұрын

The timing of this video is so perfect! Have you ever considered making a video on how you organize your finances/save? If so, this would definitely be a video I would enjoy seeing in the future.

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Yess, I’ll put something together for a future video 🤍🤍

@hermig1711 Ай бұрын

Just came across this video and it was a good reminder to not get sucked into buying things that aren't for my body type - though I admire other's aesthetics, I have come into the awareness that I can admire things but I don't have to own them if the aesthetic doesn't match me. I'm still figuring out what does but that will come with time. Thanks for your tips!

@anjelicaa 6 ай бұрын

A tip I have is to go into the dressing room & try on every single item you’re considering purchasing because even though you know your size it’s not the same as trying it on & seeing how the clothes lay on your body.

@jenntruong6023 6 ай бұрын

Good tips overall! I have always made wishlists and I also save up for my shopping trips! Those shopping trips usually happen for my birthday, Black Friday, Christmas, and Mother's Day!

@Maybequizz 6 ай бұрын

It had been a while since I watched your channel. I don't know how to explain it but you seem more mature and confident now ❤

@Loveroflifee 7 ай бұрын

Please continue to make these! Such great advice thank you! ❤️

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Thank you! Will do!

@zozofab02 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this. I needed this as a guide for more proactive tips. I started cutting down consumption last year in all categories. I got much better and am trying to remain consistent in this new year 💕😤.

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

You got this!!! 👏🏻👏🏻

@zozofab02 7 ай бұрын

@@Gemaryermus Thank you 😤💪🏽. I’m definitely going to try lol 😂

@mingomango1 7 ай бұрын

One thing I do if I want something but know I don't need it and can't justify buying it for myself is simply asking for it as a gift for my birthday or xmas. I only do this for close friends and family where I have a general sense for what their budget for a gift would be for me so I don't ask for something too expensive for their budget. It's been great because it eliminates the gifting anxiety a lot of people might have and I also know I will love what I get!

@z-6517 7 ай бұрын

What you said around 4:20 is very true and I use this even with makeup/beauty. Using seasonal color analysis has helped a lot.

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Such a good point. I love my light neutrals but darker colors and just colors in general work so much better for me! I want to do a future video on this.

@z-6517 7 ай бұрын

You should definitely do it! I think the video would be amazing. It took me a long time for me to figure out my type because videos always made it seem that hair and eye color mattered a lot when figuring it out, but that's actually secondary according to some. So I went from thinking I was neutral, leaning warm to neutral, leaning slightly cool. My makeup looks 10x better and I don't get influenced as much on makeup. I just get inspired, or I get more discerning on what colors to pick. Even if they're not my exact type, I borrow from the whole season or sneak options from the other cool season. It's like I've saved more money but have gotten to know myself, and love myself.@@Gemaryermus

@reggieb5145 6 ай бұрын

Thank you I really needed this message to be reminded to focus on my own body type

@thisisme6137 7 ай бұрын

YES, YES, YES... tysm, Gemary! ❤

@renadalqarni7055 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this - I appreciate how your advice is against your interests

@giafassion 7 ай бұрын

Great content!!!

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Ty 🤍🤍

@lgreen2605 6 ай бұрын

I am influenced to buy this green too!

@abbyjenkins7212 7 ай бұрын

This was amazing❤️ Danke

@cristinaph 7 ай бұрын

You are looking amazing, Mama! ❤ Happy new year! 🥂

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Aww tysm 🥹🤍

@butterification 6 ай бұрын

Gemary your videos don't show up on my feed anymore 😢. However I have to actually search for your name to get to see any new content 👍 Happy New Year ❤

@Gemaryermus 6 ай бұрын

Aww man, yea idk why KZfaq keeps doing that. Maybe try unsubscribing and re-subscribing + turning notifications on so that it refreshes your subscription? I’ve tried contacting KZfaq about it and it’ impossible to get ahold of anyone. 😭🤍

@biancacifuentes357 7 ай бұрын

This video was so helpful. Love your content. Ty ❤

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@nicolem9884 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video!

@jasminetyxo 7 ай бұрын

Love your content so much!! This was so helpful 🖤

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@LittleDogTobi 7 ай бұрын

Love your vids!

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥹🤍

@bipi420 7 ай бұрын

Loooved this video! Love from germanyyy 🎉😊

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

🤍🤍🤍

@robyngarver7869 7 ай бұрын

Gemary, I would love to know how you (or your viewers) found the Adidas Samba shoes to fit. Are they true to size or do they run large? Love your videos! Thanks so much!

@AM-qx5my 7 ай бұрын

Great video! Love your content. What size did you get the sweater you are wearing? Thank you

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Thank you! I got a medium

@yunarikku2723 7 ай бұрын

What bra are you wearing for this blouse? I have one similar and have no idea what bra would work!

@mykaydiaries1569 7 ай бұрын

Wow! You look very pretty! Is it a new haircut? You look very good! 😍😍

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Aw thank you!! 🥹 I just blow dried my hair 😂

@shaywilliams3358 7 ай бұрын

I have done this yesterday….

@Chi_di 7 ай бұрын

Where if your top from?

@valeriar3346 7 ай бұрын

where is the sweater from? such a beautiful color

@rebeccamendoza2969 7 ай бұрын

where did you get you sweater from?

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

It's from oak & fort. I have a direct link on my Shopmy page, it's linked in the description 🤍🤍

@--Singularity-- 7 ай бұрын

1. Pay Taxes 2. Pay Bills 3. Save your money

@luisaermus6048 7 ай бұрын

❤☝️👍👍👍

@michelles9897 7 ай бұрын

🤎🤍🖤🤎🤍🖤

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@adriluda 7 ай бұрын

Loved this video! I'll admit, your content has influenced me on a few occasions haha. Having said that, these are items that i still have and enjoy to this day 🤍

@Gemaryermus 7 ай бұрын

Yay! Yesss. As long as your getting use out of it! That is the more important thing.🤍🤍