I really hope this helps you!! i believe in you, go get her!! SHARE UR STORIES/TIPS BELOW! 🌈🦋🤞Need to know if a girl is gay? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ftunfcx02NDOYmQ.html

One day maybe I'll tell her... maybe... Also from prior experience, here's some advice; if she says no, don't linger on it. Don't let it consume you to the point where you feel worthless without her. Fill your life with things that make you happy and one day you will find someone who loves you back

i REFUSE to call myself a lesbian but im litterally in love with a girl and i cry all the time bc i thought i was homophobic and ive never been attracted to a girl before but i love her. help lmaooo

"I was heavily in love with my bff but I Don't want to hurt the friendship that's been going on for years" Me :GIRL SAME

You are like the elder lesbian sister I never had but needed...

Not me (who is possibly autistic) too afraid to say anything to her because she’s literally amazing, don’t want to jeopardize our friendship, and constantly confused by if she is flirting or not. she’s literally my best friend and she is a lesbian or bi (I can’t remember) so… Edit- GUYS!!! We’re dating now.

Great advice bby! Another idea - you can write them a little note, if you want a mix of in-person/"text". You can give it to them directly or leave it in their bag etc ♡

And honestly a big tip if you get rejected. Sure it sucks, but its way easier to accept and just move on once you've actually told them how you feel. When i was in uni i really liked a girl in my class, we got along really well, we would hang out everyday after class and i gave it a month before i decided to ask her out. But legit 2 minutes before i did, we were talking to someone and she mentioned she lived with her boyfriend. In my head i was like "FXXXXXXXK!!... Oh well, you win some you lose some" i ended up telling her a few minutes later, saying "yo i was literally about to ask if you were seeing anyone a few minutes ago before you mentioned you're boyfriend haha. But don't worry, i wont make it weird if you don't make it weird" and she completely understood it and were still good friends 3 years later. But after i said it and got a definitive answer, its such a heavy weight off your shoulders, even though its not the best case scenario

i fumbled so bad, i hope she realizes i really like her and Im just dumb and shy, i become aloof when i panick 😭

I am in the situation. I have a huge-ass crush on my best friend. At first I was going to try to “shove my feelings into a box” because she was aroace, but recently she told me she’s figuring out her sexuality because there are AND I QUOTE “too many good looking women”. So I’m planning on telling her. Especially since the plans she and I have talked about in the past of moving in together seem like they just might be happening. I’m a very anxious person so I plan on telling her in through my art hobby, since it’s a way that will make me feel less anxious.

I made an original alphabet, sent it to her so she can read the language, and wrote a love letter to her in the language. Some lesbians (such as me) are really extravagant with their gayness

Thanks!! My lesbian friend, Farrah and I actually admitted that we liked each other but didn’t want her parents to know but now luckily she said that she told them and now I’m finally able to propose to her :,) FOR THE FIRST TIME I’M FINALLY MAKING THE FIRST MOVE- (after over 10 years-)

I am 13 and i am lesbian I am so scared to come out to my parents i knew my parents don't accept me as a lesbian I always cry But most of the time you use to make me smile thanku for all the confidence you gave me 💖 Now I fell much better and i love my self 💙💙

How the heck did you know I needed this video? LOLL. You always make such creative and helpful videos! Thank you!!!! ❤️

I used your advice yesterday (Jan 20, 2022) and WOW I’m actually going to go out on a date with her! Thank you so much! I think the most unique and useful tip for me was to ask how they’re doing before you tell them because it shows that you care about their well being ☺️

Hey! I don't usually comment but your videos have really helped me come to terms with liking girls. I've had these feelings for years but have been too scared or worried to tell anyone. These kinds of tips videos are so nice in letting me know I'm not alone and I can be myself!

I have this girl that I like, and we’ve grown a lot closer over the past couple of weeks. She has said multiple times that she is open for anything and just discovering herself in terms of sexuality. It is now Christmas break and I’m gonna see her in the first week of January. We are going for a long walk trough the forest and then make a nice lunch together. I’m so scared that if I tell her I ruin the friendship. And I’m also in the same class (a class of 6) so I do have to see her a lot. I’m really debating with myself if I should tell her or not, also with my sight on the fact that I’m moving next year....👉👈

Great advice I remember the first time I saw my wife..I was in awe. We were not out...she is and was my best friend. I toke it slow even tho it would hurt I toke my time to announce that I liked her....being with her was enough at the time. I heard see had a crush having the same friends she had told a friend she liked a girl.....my heart sunk. My move was holding her hand that I could play off....but she grasped my hand...instant butterflies in my stomach I still remember it. Point is sometimes saying I like you isn't the best. If she likes you don't overthink she will reciprocate in other ways.. looking at you oddly....I had no idea luv is blind they say Our relationship grew to us coming out together we were 14 at the time. Falling in luv is hard...saying I like you tough saying I do.....is everything.

If only I had the confidence to do this,me and her are so awkward and shy but mostly her but it's so cute I realized I had feelings for her a few months ago and now I can't stop thinking about her, she's so pretty even if she says she isn't, and I like holding her hand and when she pushes her hair back which is almost all the time cause it short and get in her way It's just so- Ahh😭

When I told my best friend I liked her I decided to do it in person but over the last few weeks I'd been developing a letter in the Notes app on my phone and I gave her my phone to read. I actually wanted to tell her nearly everything cause I was also coming out at the same time and there were other things about our friendship I wanted to tell her. I even included brittana quotes from glee cause we're both gleeks! In our conversation after her reading it I joked it was a work of art, I was really proud of my literary composition 😂 So I'm just saying you don't have to just say "I like you" if you don't want to, you can do whatever you want. If you want, make it special! ❤️

Also another way is tell her on April fools day. Then if they say no you can say APRIL FOOLS!

i legit just flat out told her an hour ago. she didn’t like me back, but she understood and its a normal feeling to have. she was happy i told her and said she wasn’t uncomfortable with me telling her.

i really enjoy you're videos it's just i luv you're energy and the chill fem vibes u give of💞💞💞🌈

That’s so true, good friends don’t care… I’m lesbian and o remember I quite disappointed a friend of mine because I didn’t love him back the same way… so yeah, he probably was different for a while and then we kept on going out. I loved him like my brother, unfortunately he passed away. So yes, friendship survive if it’s real.❤

Love that you said Olivia like 20 times 😉😘

In the last year I think I’ve been rejected a bajillion times, and I threw away 2 relationships that were a bad fit, and one situationship. I am honestly so beaten up that I no longer have the courage to ask someone out. It’s like the idea of having to go through that one more time is more than I can bear. I think what makes it worse is when there were clear signals that would be on a top 10 list of “how to know she’s interested” and she tells you that there was never anything there.

i needed this a few months ago. and i didn’t realize this amazing girl existed. i told my bestfriend i liked her and it was really weird but she was super sweet about it and i forget about it!

Tysm for tips!! I'm not scared too much to tell her, I just think that telling her could change her opinion about me, ruin our friendship ect. but I really wanna tell her soon. I'm more excited than scared. Again tysm for the tips!! (Btw sorry for my trash english)

Thank you for this video Lauren!! Could you please make another video sharing how to forget someone? I fall in love with someone who's impossible like me back but I love her so much and I'm suffering a lot 😭

YESSS I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO FOR SO LONG THANK YOU FR !!!!!

You just earned a subscription from me. I've been watching a few of your videos and find them both informative and entertaining. Thanks for being awesome!

Great advice as always and have been there and it’s so scary but it’s better to tell than it eating you away. Love this video and all your videos thank you so much

I love her so much. But you’re so right, it’s very hard to risk an amazing friendship. Funny thing is, I told her a while back I like her. I still didn’t get a clear answer. During that time I waited, she was going through a difficult time. But recently we’ve gotten so close, she says I love you a lot but I don’t know how she means it. Please give me some advice, I’m not sure if I should tell her again. P.s. I told her the first time through a letter, never said it in person.

Really good advice Lauren thank you!❤

Tysm! There’s this really pretty girl who I have a HUGEEEE crush on, like huge!! I keep seeing her glance my way and then quickly look away so I’m planning on telling her lol

OMG GIRL THX SO MUCH I REALLY NEEDED THIS

I feel like I will be panicking when telling her the truth.

When she said that a straight girl is not worth your time I fr cried because it is so hard to let go of a crush

I liked my best friend but the thing is, i don't have the guts to tell her. We ended the friendship a while ago because she was a really crappy friend and i don't even know why I like her. It hurts but it was the best decision.

Iam so convinced of what you said in this video.

Thanks for sharing your tips. It is really helpful. ❤

This was something suggested to me by one of my friends that if you don't wanna burden the other person w your feelings or if there's a high chance the person doesn't like you back but you still wanna put it out there OR want your feelings to be gone, the best way to approach this would be trying to put some distance b/w you guys and if that person asks you can let them know by saying something along the lines, hey, i feel like i have gotten some feelings for you, i don't realise when it happened, but just this is why i m just gonna put some distance b/w us for a few days because our friendship is priority. This way you're not putting any pressure on them, but also risk to your friendship gets low.

Yay another amazing video, I always love watching your videos. I can’t wait for the next video, love your channel+ videos. 💖

I like this girl and she's so much like me and yet so different. Like Fallin in love with yourself in a different font. And she's smart too, and like my first everything, and i don't want to make our friendship awkward by Askin her out but she's so lovely, I'll ask her after finals, hopefully it won't be too late. Whatever it is, i am happy to be with her as anything she wants me to be, just being with her is enough.

Thank you so much for this advice it would help so much! Keep up the great content❤

I've been in love with a straight girl for four years, we've gotten really close despite my feelings for her. I write music about her and we do theater together and she's so beautiful and funny and amazing. Her boyfriend is the luckiest person in the world. I love her so much and I'm trying to move on but it's so hard (she's also going to college next year and I'm a few years younger so it would really be in my best interest to let her go) and I don't know whether to tell her how I feel or not. Like I know she's straight and there is no good reaction to hope for but I feel like I've been lying to her for our whole friendship and I feel worse about it every day.

Lauren your a very bright young women and I am proud of your accomplishments so far you are a romodel to many and a very good one your video was great 😌

omgggg thank u very veryyyyy much really thank u I was so lost thinking for months and you solved the problem so quickly When I get into a relationship I will come back here>_

Thank you so much for this video it really helps me right now that I’m trying to tell the girl that I like how I feel so thanks so much

Wonderful insight

Thx so much for this! There is this one girl and I'm pretty sure she's pan and likes me back and this really helped me!

The problem is that I have already told her that I love her, but she just continues the conversation as it was without anything. I'm stumped lol Tysm for the video, your work is really helpful~~

Omg tysm lauren this help alot

I love your videos so much they have really helped me figure out who I am thank you so much! Also, I discovered your channel a few months back, and I was watching some of your older videos when I found that you had created a discord server but when I tried to join, it said the invite link has expired. If there’s still a server, do you mind sending a new link so I can join too? Thank you so much!! Your videos are amazing and I’m loving the 12 gays of Christmas!!

thx i really needed this

I am so nervous, like my heart is beating so fast - i have another bi friend who is supporting me to tell her and I AM SO NERVOUS LIKE I AM SHAKING, She is bi, and i know her for 5 months now and I DON'T THINK THAT NORMAL FRIENDS CAN TALK 10 HOURS STRAIGHT BECAUSE WE DID IT, AND SHE PLAY PIANO FOR ME AND SING AND GAHHHHHHH THAT SHINE IN HER EYES I JUST CANTTTT I AM GOING TO CONFES TO HER AND I HOPE FOR BEST

I always say the wrong thing or sound too desperate so this helps a lot

This helped me a lot! OMG, thank you.

Great great advice

You have "comfort family friend" or like "comfort aunt" vibes, not sure how to explain it but your videos are great and have helped me quite a bit :)

So....i told her and i lost her but i understand she's not for me so i will wait . For the right one Lauren you always give me a hope thank god you exist

Bestie told me at her house over smores i was going to tell her later to so things were GREAT! Yeah she was really nice and a bit scared I was shocked so just go out with it! You will fell great.

Omg this helped me so much I’m going to ask her today tysm I love your vids🫶🏻

So this girl I like she is so cute and this video help me tell her and she likes me to thank you for making this video.!

You actually give good advice 😬 compared to other videos on KZfaq

I had a crush on someone out of my friend group once, waited a few months and then impulsively decided after school that i would just tell her. She said she doesn't feel the same and likes me as a friend. I said something along "its alright, i guess i just wanted to tell you that you are an amazing person". After saying this she didn't looked uncomfortable anymore and we just said the usual "see ya next week". going home i felt really relieved to get that of my chest and be able to close that chapter. few years later the friend group still exists and we are getting along great and are also still friends.

My crush is a year older than me and her and her whole family is homophobic- She is also the popular girl in her class. Although I have been texting her on snapchat recently and she has been replying which is surprising because she hardly ever speaks to me. But when I see her, she just gives me... ✨The Look ✨ which is also amazing so... maybe I could have a shot at it. Anyways, thank you so much for making these videos, I really enjoy them. Your an amazing content creator and I will never regret watching your videos.

from my experience, telling people (ESPECIALLY THEIR FRIENDS) reallyyy helps. i liked a girl in 8th grade, and i ended up kinda telling her friends. they were able to tell me that she also liked me, and i went off of that. also, if her friends let it slip to her, even if she didn’t like you before, it may put the idea in her head, and once she’s thinking about it, she might come to like you as well. or maybe she already likes you, and she’ll end up telling you

Yeah! I love your video as always;)

I love you lauren, you are the best 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Ok i'll tell her this afternoon!! That's so stresseful 💀💀

I am in my mid teens, am pansexual and have a crush on my bi bff so this was a really great video tysm 💜

I meet a girl this year and were going to be best friend she know my secrets and at the same time shes my comfort place i dont know the days past and months i feel like i had a feelings for her but now she tell that she had a boyfriend and then i was like feel sad but at the same time happy for her to find one, but she dint know what i feel that im into her. Maybe i keep it until my feeling's gone 😕

Great advice !!!!!!!!!!!!

Me: "Someday i'll tell her🥰" My anxiety: "NEVER! EVER! NEVER!😈" Also me: "😭🤧"

Thank you. I want to confess to one of my dearest friends (luckily I already know she's lesbian, and I'm bi) and this is surely helpful!

I Love your Voice and the way you speak. Its s Cute❤

When you said i was heavily in love with my best friend but i didnt know how to tell her i just was like Same

I am learning to be cool and not jump into anything anymore I just meet this girl through our discord group and wasn't expecting catching feelings day one even though we been talking for a while and felt a connection.

that plant crown is everything!

I like this girl from work and today I got the courage to tell her, she said she appreciated it but she doesn’t share feelings. I understand because we haven’t known each other long, but I wanted to take a risk and this time it didn’t pay off. I’m just wondering what I did wrong, we all deserve a chance right?

Thanks

I've been debating if I should tell her or not. we've been friends for good while and she flirts a lot with me but sometimes jokingly especially since she kinda backpedaled on it recently. she said she had a crush on me and always sends poems or makes stuff for me. but literally yesterday I made a post saying I wanted a gf (which was aimed at her) and she reposted it which gives me hope. but idk I don't want scare her away bc she said she never been with a girl before.

helpful!

Question: the girl I like is straight but she keeps giving signs that she might consider doing something with a girl, and when I asked her if she’d ever date a girl she said “probably not, but no one’s 100% not fruity.” She’s also personally said to me that if she ever comes out she’s calling me up, and that if she was a lesbian she would date me. She’s also had a crush on a girl before but still claims to be straight. What do I do?

N worst of all is when you really like her, but you're both on the same group of friends, and you feel kind of it will be destroyed if you'd start dating and then cut off

Thanks a lot i am going to try to tell her soon 😅 (I am bi) but yea tysm for the advice I’m pretty sure she’s not gonna like me back but I will just tell her and hopefully we can still be bsf😅

OMG TY

I really like this girl in my class... I'm pretty sure she likes a guy and he likes her. She brought It Up today, I felt so jealous I just sat there for the rest of lunch staring off into space.. I kinda wanted to cry. And she kinda knows I like her and she acts like it's no big deal. She was hugging her friend from behind and was like "I bet your jealous" and one time she was like "ew I'm not gay" so I said I didn't actually like her and she dropped it and Did not really mention it alot and we're still kinda friends. I wish she liked me :(

so I know how its feels to have a girlfriend and my tip is if you think your not being a good girlfriend to her talk to her about it and see how she feels and maybe it can help u not stressed about it because I used to do that and its may help. good luck getting the girl and hope yall have good day or night :)

i love this video it really helps and my birthday is december 18

I consider myself “straight”. I’m 29 years old, married to a man & have only dated or been attracted to men my whole life. I met this woman at work about a year ago & I don’t know how to explain it but something pulls me to her. I feel a great connection but it’s not sexual it is more emotional/ intellectual, but I could also definitely kiss her. I have been suppressing the way I feel well… for obvious reasons, but recently she started showing me more attention & is kindof showing that she feels the same way. Idk though 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

Everything is right but when it comes to give her reason why i love her its hard because i cant think of any reason it just happened all of a sudden i dont know when and where I've fallen in love with her i just realised that i love her so much i had so many crush in my past life and i know why i love these people in my past life but for her i can't think of any reason in my mind why i love her one thing i know i know is that I've never fallen in love like this before i think i believe that true love comes only once in our life and i think it's definitely her but the point is that i don't think im gonna tell her how i feel because were not even friend just classmate and how am i supposed to tell her that i love if i can't even accept myself that im lesbian

When is the right time to start the conversation about how you think you are interested in them I have always been interested in trying something new but I am not familiar with my tee

Im a Christian and im bi and im okay with it!!! All the Christians that hate on lbtgq is not right. God made us this way!!!!! 😊😊😊😊

My crush has liked me since 3rd grade so this helped me so much I think I’m gonna tell her when school starts! I’m scared 😟 thank for the help

Childhood crush is a really good way to tell there sexuality

I just started making friends in school and have feeling for one of them.

Omg ty so much I'm ten and I have a best friend who is also bi I haven't told her yet wish me luck!

We have been friends (not like best friends) for 4 years, I know she’s bi yet if I tell her and she says no then the friendship will be gone and awkward, she has hugged me before but idk… I’ve told 2 of my friends that i do and I really just want to tell her even if I do get rejected just to get it off my chest to her, I can only tell her in person since I don’t have her sc or anything like that since we aren’t that big of friends but we talk sometimes