We all have this groovy inner guidance system, but many of us disconnect from it. Watch this video for guidance on how to know the difference between the fear of your ego and the love of your inner guidance system.
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@rajefferson7610 жыл бұрын
Just as a follow up. I received the 10% raise I requested. I felt that negotiating a lower rate was an ego move and I felt more confident sticking with the rate I wanted. FYI There weren't any other negotiable benefits.
@iDalisMediaTV10 жыл бұрын
I work with many talent brands and one of the issues that I could not really explain, was knowing when the fear (ego) was ruling their decisions regarding their career. To say to them that they are building up a wall as they repeat the thoughts of fear against their inner guidance system (God) is great way to explain it. Thank you so much.
@lisaweng92919 жыл бұрын
ah thank you for this!! makes so much more sense after watching it a few weeks later. thank u for sharing the part about how the inner guide is a visceral feeling as opposed to the ego which is about logic and intellect and how its gonna support me in the future and how to guides me from the past and what its gonna do for me in the moment. a self reflection reveals how i may have been operating from a place of ego and I'm willing to choose to trust my inner guide instead
@kaidarnold65208 жыл бұрын
I did this, and I asked for guidance. When I was done, I felt I needed to keep writing. It said "The Lord and God will help you. They will accept you." I had chills. I've never poured my heart out like this before and it feels awesome.
@johnbehneman15464 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!! I need to slow my life down more to be more in tune with my ing. I believe that is why I am here. to strengthen my soul. To become a better version of myself.
@MissDanaAshlie10 жыл бұрын
I agree that the ego is oftentimes coming from a logical, rational, analytical place and the intuition is more of an essence...a feeling. Although, I'm sure it's a little different for everyone. Where I don't agree is that she says that if you're "new to the work" you're probably in your ego..or you probably have ego come up first and have to work on intuition. What a huge and therefore inevitably flawed generality(!) There are plenty of people who are SO connected to inner intuition and have never read a single book or watched a vlog or even have thought much about it objectively--people who are intimately bound to this essence. Many times they're from a simpler way of life and more grounded into what's important ...love, connection...the senses. Some people don't have to "Unlearn.." their narrow minded ego-ic perspective...I've found often these people aren't Americans or from Western world, but still, for Gabby to use that as a basic way to define (the difference between ego and intuition) it is way flawed in my opinion. Further, I've found amongst my american counterparts and myself, it's often time the ESSENCE that guides us FIRST that whispers in our ear... (Just DO IT! Take the Leap! You've got this!) and then the RATIONAL mind, that swoops in with its dose of fear and doubt that picks apart that first hunch that was very well rooted in wisdom. Which is -unless I misunderstood what she said, but it seemed pretty black and white-the opposite of Gabys advice here.
@celissewillis93996 жыл бұрын
MissDanaAshlie I agree! Personally, I had a shaman friend tell me once that I have a “very grand intuition”, which looking back over my life, is true, but I’ve chosen out of fear & situations I’ve been in to choose the “what if” ego voice which to us as humans, sounds more rational, because we’re taught to rely on rational thinking. Of course by default, you’ll also attract people & situations into your life that are walking, talking versions of your ego & therein lies the problem w/people thinking more ego based that intuitive. I lived with a landlord for 3 years who spoke through his ego everyday & at times I felt like I wanted to drop kick him, like stop placing all your personal fears on me! He looked at it as being helpful, when I would tell him over & over again it WASN’T.
@LisaGallegos4 жыл бұрын
She said MOST people who COME TO MY WORK. Not EVERYONE. Not even most people in general. She says "Most people who come to my work" which makes sense. If you're already connected to your intuition, you're probably less likely to pick up a book called super attractor, as you're probably already attracting. Even if you do, she didn't say EVERYONE she said most people.
@ToddSmith729 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for this. I have held the intention of listening to intuition since May of this year, but have truly been meditating on it since September. Shortly after my intention, I had an experience that called strongly on my intuition. I have struggled with this distinction because the "thing" I feel to be true is also the thing that I desire. The ego (I assume) has thrown doubt at this and suggested wishful thinking. What you describe about the sensations of each is exactly my experience!
@k8idid10 жыл бұрын
My newest way to tell the difference is actually now, like you said, a subtle feeling. For example, if you were offered your dream job but for 3/4 the pay: in your gut, there is a feeling if openness and expansion (intuition, you know this is going to be what you want and need); followed shortly thereafter by your chest, a feeling of tightness and anxiety (your ego is attacking your heart space and telling you that you can't get by with less money, and you can't take a step back in life). It's almost like your ego attacks your chest with anxiety, because that is where it thinks your drive and decision making will come from: your heart. But if I get a sick feeling in my stomach, my gut, before i see an ex or something, I know that's my intuition. There usually will be a drive to continue on from my ego which pushes through blind. Where I talk myself into something I know is wrong... And as I write this now I realize how much different everyone must be.
@ToddSmith729 жыл бұрын
Great visceral explanation! I can very easily relate those sensations to my intuition and ego feelings.
@k8idid9 жыл бұрын
That's awesome Todd! Thank you for the compliment. Your comment made me think, actually... the resulting thought of which, I will message you, as it got to be a bit long winded for commenting space. :)
@MyKitchenShrink10 жыл бұрын
I agree Gabby that the inner guidance and wisdom is all about coming from a loving soul place. Awareness is key. I also agree going deeper and asking what is the inner need? What do I need? How can I get that need met etc... : ) peace & whole foods!
@angelsrosena10 жыл бұрын
Ok, let’s talk about it. One year ago I was badly wishing to have a boxset hardcover edition of a collection that I wanted to read, but I live in Brazil and the only edition we have here was in paperback, then when the HC Ed. Came to the store it was too expensive that I just saved the link and said: I will have it someday. So last week , something was telling me “go to a literature channel” and to be honest, I hardly ever follow this channel’s new videos and the first time I heard this voice I said “I’m not gonna see this channel, I can count how many videos I like”, but when the third day came and that voice was there telling me the same. So I did, I don’t remember the last time I went to see that channel, when I saw the first video, the boxset HC Ed. That I really wanted was there to be given away, I got so happy and then read the rules to win it and did my part. So I saved a place to put this boxset on my shelf, imagined it here and be grateful for. One week passed and when I went to check who had won that boxset, GUESS? That was another person. So my question is: If I wasn’t supposed to win this give away, why I had that voice for three days? Like I said I only recall that channel because of it and how can you prove that intuition is ALWAYS right? Emotion is about something you really want it to happen but in this case I was on my own before this voice came. Can you explain this to me? Sorry about my English
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
she rocks with eagles I respect that 😘
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
mom from another life see Danzig mother she held a light
@nathandunlap97174 жыл бұрын
Good video
@hayleycarrtv10 жыл бұрын
I loved this video Gabby. Thankyou, Normally I think my intuition speaks first, then my ego kicks in and says I "can't" do it... But this video was perfectly timed - because It's definitely not always the case that my best idea is first! =)
@mandhanratnjadhav.60944 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much. Wonderful as usual.
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
I think you are a keeper
@maybhank53008 жыл бұрын
I notice that when it is my intuition speaks, I won't trust it. I remember walked pass a store and saw a very good looking guy and I immediately heard something said "you're going to see him again." And I was like nah I won't. And I did and we started talking a month after that. Or I sense that something bad is going to happen tomorrow and I was like nah don't be so negative about it and yes, something bad really happened. And when I make decisions I will be very calm if it turns out to be right for me, not be "too" happy about it. When I get too confident or too happy something will usually go wrong after that (I think it's not me being happy, but my ego.)
@hyungseonam6 жыл бұрын
Chayanapat Bhankohleing This is so true!!
@kaylasheppard77464 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you mean
@rajefferson7610 жыл бұрын
It's tough. I'm negotiating a higher pay rate for a new job. I think my ego wants to cave in and take a lesser amount. I know I'm worthy but I also want the job. I don't want to sell myself short but is it my ego that doesn't want to accept a lower rate? So I ask myself, if I knew I was 100% worthy what would I do? I would be calm and stay in faith. Let the Universe do the work.
@GRORGvideot6 жыл бұрын
Something similar once happened to me. I was asleep, it was night and I was dreaming that me and my former co-worker were cops (don't ask why, I'm not even a police in real life :D ) Well, anyway, I suddenly woke up from deep sleep - because my phone started ringing. I was like "who the hell is calling at this hour?!" I looked at the phone and there it was, the name of the same ex co-worker who was in my dream. I had his number and for some reason kept it too (had not seen or talked to him in 2 years when the phone rang). I was really spooked by this but I answered still. "Hello?" No reply, just some silent rustling. I thought - and still do - that while his phone was moving about in his pockets it chose and dialed my number accidentally - at the exact time I was dreaming. It's hard to believe, even for myself, although I know it happened. Haven't really forgotten about that incident and it was like 15 years ago.
@juuustpeachy7 жыл бұрын
Today, I had a situation that I felt very disrespected in. I understood where the person was coming from, but truly felt like the way it was expressed was uncalled for and full of criticism taken too far. I felt like I was being continually belittled and degraded, falsely. It felt necessary to stand up for myself, rather than to allow myself to sit by being verbally harassed and violated, by saying "I can understand where you're coming from, but that is something I am completely in the right to do." (regarding drawing personal boundaries) The other person then told me to drop my ego, several times. Was it my ego talking there? I can see why being "defensive" would be considered ego based.... but was this more so my soul finally having some self respect and protecting me out of love (knowing that continuing to subject myself to that treatment would cause more harm than cutting ties)?
@celissewillis93996 жыл бұрын
Kendra Rose I don’t think having integrity is the same as the ego, which is what it sounds like you established here. People use the comment “drop your ego” pretty carelessly, but if at your core, you’re truly feeling disrespected & you have to do something that someone else doesn’t like to finally stand up for yourself, your mental & emotional well-being & draw those personal boundaries, when you never have before, then they’re going to be uncomfortable with it & lash out at you for it. From what you said, you did actually take the time to listen to their side, & acknowledged hearing what they had to say & that was important as well. But verbal abuse of any kind is NEVER ok & standing up for yourself is NOT an ego move, it shows you have some self respect & you’re establishing it. People who aren’t used to seeing that wont like it, but that’s not about you, it’s about their need to control other people & situations. Standing up for yourself is taking back your power. Not an ego move.
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
yes to answer your question
@TrustInTheUniverse6 жыл бұрын
She says to trust the feeling, but what if the feeling is negative...? She says anxious feelings come from ego...
@nathandunlap96275 жыл бұрын
we got your back I got yours :-)
@BevLeeChannel7 жыл бұрын
gabby there is a typo in the title :)
@FeelGoodWithin6 жыл бұрын
Thankx so much😊
@dulcesirenitainspiraciones74894 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@PushPastParalysis10 жыл бұрын
I have something that keeps coming up for me...no idea how or when but I know it's my intuition so I know not to ask those questions lol.
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
stonp on the wicked one Darlene
@hasen51910 жыл бұрын
so if you reason your way into an idea then it's an ego? that sounds odd. I think it has to be a bit more subtle; you must differentiate between actual detached reasoning (that's coming from a calm mindset) and post-hoc rationalization (coming from an emotional mindset).
@MAPSMAPS123410 жыл бұрын
Interesting take! I've wondered that before, also. Could it be when she says to look at the "feeling behind the thought", that she might mean it depends on whether that reasoning is causing us anxiety versus peace? Perhaps when we're anxious about our rationale (that emotional mindset you speak of), we've applied an invalid line of reasoning and the ego's at work; but if we're in that calm mindset you mention, the reasoning is consistent with our intuition?
@hettijayne5 жыл бұрын
hi gabby I really hope you can help me wit this, I am giving up dieting and counting calories and started intuitive eating however ive started eating my 'forbidden foods' and ive gained weight I feel like my ego is scaring me into wanting to start a new diet or track calories again, but my intuition knows intuitive eating is best for me. But I really want to lose some of this weight and be comfortable again I dont feel comfortable right now, what should I do?
@bmxshow6 жыл бұрын
Everyone......
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
your momma calling but your having fun
@DanielleNMoura9 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@nathandunlap69575 жыл бұрын
she looks amazing right
@heydinavarro30677 жыл бұрын
I feel like my partner is cheating and I cannot find anything. I feel like he is but I do not know if its my intuition or my insecurity?
@kaylasheppard77464 жыл бұрын
If it's based in fear, its insecurity. Your intuition doesn't come from fear