How To Wear A Silk Scarf Like A French Woman with Aleksandra Olenska

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There are some elements of french style that aren't really worn by Parisians, such as bears, but the silk scarf is one that is everywhere, and one question I'm often asked about is 'how do I wear a silk scarf?'.
In today's video I'll show you some different ways to wear your silk scarfs so that you can inject a bit of french style into your wardrobe anywhere.
Silk scarfs are a classic for a reason, especially for modern midlife women.
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@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын

I’ve worn silk scarves for 40 years and I love them. I don’t think they ever go out of style, they’re both classic and feminine.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

How wonderful to embrace and love your scarves style signature, totally agree classic and feminine and so many ways to wear them! 💘

@irenabeth 3 ай бұрын

I've worn scarves also for about 30 years. At work I was told I wear them well.

@elinarajaniemi Жыл бұрын

Bon jour from Finland! Oh, what a hidden jem your channel is! What a blessing to find you here 💛 It is very nice to meet you. I am all about silk scarves, I have been all my adult years. I already wore them back in college and I also wear one with goretex outerwear too. I am a tall woman with long neck and I find that a silk scarf balances nicely the swan effect that can look disproportionated. Also as a European nothing gives you that much needed warmth than a good scarf. I especially adore Christine Lagarde’s way to use silk scarves. Trés chic!

@joulsw3739 8 ай бұрын

I love my silk scarves. I worked in Harrods scarf dept during uni holiday where I learned about them. Hermes and Ferragamo are my favourites and my guilty pleasure when I can. I hate it when I’m asked if I’m a flight attendant though!! 🙄 I do lots of different folds but try not to make it too fussy around my neck as it’s not very long. Love love my scarves ❤

@lizroberts1569 Жыл бұрын

Love scarfs ever since my brother brought me one from Italy when I was 8 ! I especially like the scarf you paired with the grey cardigan.

@Polski_Kabaret Жыл бұрын

Love my scarves. Thank you for inspiration!

@fleurdixoncoote 2 жыл бұрын

I do love a scarf. I have an embarrassing amount of them and have yet to find a good way to store them all 🙈

@aleksandraolenska 2 жыл бұрын

Ooh me too! I store mine in some lovely old marbled matches fashion boxes, xao

@suecoles7824 Жыл бұрын

@@aleksandraolenska no outfit is complete without a scarf, I too have an embarrassing amount!

@simaabedini5908 Жыл бұрын

I have a Chanel, I adore 🥰

@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын

I sew little matching ribbon loops of mine, then hang them on a 36-hook rack. They never get creased and I can see them all. (“Belt rack” from Container Store, US).🙂

@LeenaLellu Жыл бұрын

A hanger with lots of rings

@judithanntoole8900 Жыл бұрын

I love scarves...and smiled through your entire video. A true joy! ❤

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much JudithAnn - love that we are all spreading the joy! 🥰

@janemorbaofficial Жыл бұрын

I am a scarf lover and love to enhance color around my face, thank you for your presentation! Voila!

@adriennebrown3778 Жыл бұрын

I love how relaxed you are when showing how to wear theses scarves. Merci!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Adrienne 😊

@maryjobetson1913 Ай бұрын

Your awesome! I’m just now finding you and I am so happy I did. Thank you for all the beautiful ideas. Now I want a zillion beautiful scarves!!

@noagruber8028 Жыл бұрын

I like this video very much . I have quite a few scarves and now know how to make the most of them

@AltoonaYourPiano Жыл бұрын

You have such an elegant and beautiful aesthetic. Stunningly gorgeous in so many ways. I really love your short hairstyle, too! It looks very pretty!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Oh thank you so much. I don't have a hugely loving relationship with my hair so your kind comment is extra appreciated! 🌺🌸🌺

@jennychavez603 Жыл бұрын

Aleksandra I love your channel. Here in America we don’t see women wear those lovely scarf anymore. I will continue wear my scarfs with your style. Thank you!!

@hazydreamer7965 Жыл бұрын

Madame, vous êtes charmante. I liked all your ideas and happen to be a person, who has a large collection of scarves, - 90 % of them silk scarves. I know there are so many pretty ways to tie them, just sometimes in a hurry, I stop remembering, how to do it. Now I have 4 or 5 short videos showing me, what to do. I prefer medium-large square scarves and also those small ones that look so sweet with a bow. Thank you.

@Linda-ot3pj 25 күн бұрын

INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO ! ( Canada 🇨🇦🌸🌸🌸)

@user-qp4vm6xf1d Жыл бұрын

Hello from Japan! I really liked your you tube! So beautiful indeed!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Oh thank you so much. And hello in Japan, what a beautiful country, I long to visit again! 🧡

@CruisingEngineer Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed your scarf-tying methods. I tied a small knot at the corners on the last large scarf where you pinned the corners for the same effect. Great quick shoulder covering on board cruise ships. I have Hermes scarves purchased from second-hand shops! You don't have to be French or rich to own beautiful scarves.

@giuseppesabatino6895 Жыл бұрын

Mi piace quando si lega Foullard.💛💚💙💜🤎🖐🖐

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Love this! And love a vintage silk scarf - there are so many beautiful designs out there aren't there! Merci, xao

@lucindamoran8686 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Beautiful tips! I love scarves! I have a big pillowcase full lol! I tie them in my hair too! I wear them every day! For every occasion! Many are very old!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

How wonderful to have such a collection squirrelled away in a pillowcase! You're right, they are so versatile. I'll be working on a little scarf series at the end of the month. Oh I love them tied in my hair too! 😍

@marcia6722 Жыл бұрын

Love this!! I have been looking for a video like this for quite awhile. Thank you.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thanks Marcia! 🥰

@yogablossom100 6 ай бұрын

I have at least 15 scarves and I never know how to use them so glad I found your video. Thank you

@mindyxm Жыл бұрын

Thank you Aleksandra! I have been looking for a video like this for a while, this is so helpful. Also your skin is gorgeous, you are glowing!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Rosie, I'll be working on a little scarf series at the end of the month! The skin is probably genetic, though I'm also fastidious about my skincare (people asked so I made a little video on it on my channel too!) Hope you[re having a wonderful Spring! 💞

@stellapatterson9834 Жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this, thank you ❤

@extraordinarywomennextchapter Жыл бұрын

Loved this video Aleksandra!

@SilviaN1 Жыл бұрын

Great advice - I especially love the last example 😍

@Sattva468 Жыл бұрын

Just discovered your channel, love it!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thanks Elise! 🧡

@saramaloney6082 Жыл бұрын

So glad to find you! You are lovely, ... what fun and great ideas. I am going to knot my long thin scarves I love that! New idea to wear the point to the side with the square neck one. Thank you!

@annegousha9484 Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed the variety of ways in which you demonstrated wearing large scarves because I have a very nice collection of silk scarves and always tend to wear them only a few different ways over and over. Most often I admit I lack the confidence to wear them more. You have inspired me to wear them more often. Thank you for this video.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Silk scarves are just so joyful aren’t they! Thank you for your warm message. Do let me know if you have anything else you’d like inspiration on, maybe I’ll make a video on it! 🌞

@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын

It takes some confidence to be different enough to wear them, but every time I do, I get multiple compliments on my outfit🙂

@SparkleinSac 5 ай бұрын

I love these ideas.

@ankemilia7474 Жыл бұрын

I am so so extremely grateful for finding you. Beautiful ideas 🙏🤗♥️

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Oh thanks so much Emilia. Hope you're having a wonderful start to your year! 🥰

@dinbx917 Жыл бұрын

LOVE the opened half bow!! GREAT idea. I have about 65 scarves, mostly silk, from around the world. They are my signature. I love how you play soft and bright colors!! I have lots of creative opportunities from your video. Thank you!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Wow, what a collection! I love a souvenir that is pretty and practical, and it sounds like you make the most out of your wonderful collection! Merci! 🥰

@kweenjade01 10 ай бұрын

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="693">11:33</a> that looks amazing. This video was fun to watch and you've got great energy. I love your calm enthusiasm. 😊

@aleksandraolenska 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for taking the time to write these kind words! New KZfaq series launching start December 😊

@badsugar Жыл бұрын

Really like this video and the different exemples you demonstrated. I feel like the carré de soie is so underrated in general, especially in men's wardrobe. I love to wear them in my casual oversized streetwear outfits as the great detail or to link colors. Definitely a great accessory, and an even greater video! :)

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, and love that you wear them with casual oversized streetwear outfits, I can imagine that looking wonderful! Have a lovely weekend! 😍

@melilifabulosa5505 Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed that video- I love seeing your pleasure when describing the colors and textures of fabric. Subscribed!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Oh thanks so much Melili! 💗

@pippalewisNYC Жыл бұрын

Fantastic!

@littlebird8837 Жыл бұрын

Lovely video, thank you...now I have more ideas on how to wear my scarves 🌟🦢🥰

@katerinachlmi6312 2 жыл бұрын

What great suggestions! Good work!

@aleksandraolenska 2 жыл бұрын

thank you Katerine 🥰

@lidiyajohnson7460 Жыл бұрын

Brilliant! Amazing! Fantastic!

@kimberlyberlin4999 Жыл бұрын

This is your first video for me. I must say you have a great energy and shine joy. I love scarves and have been adding to my silk collection. I really love the wool eye scarf you showed. New subscriber here.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Hello Kimberly and thank you for your warm words and for subscribing! Joie de vivre is important to me, and your comment is much appreciated! The wool eye scarf is quite fun isn't it - it's an old Kenzo one 🤩

@claudiabbc7314 3 ай бұрын

Lovely! Could you tell us about how to choose colors and patterns, snd how to match them with different kinds of clothes?

@camillea7697 Жыл бұрын

Very fun…I’m inspired.

@linascheynius4028 2 жыл бұрын

This was wonderful, thank you!

@aleksandraolenska 2 жыл бұрын

thank you Lina, hope you're inspired to wear a silky scarf! xao

@kerstinmcintryre1869 5 ай бұрын

Great ideas thank you for sharing

@FoulBayRd Жыл бұрын

I have a little Liberty silk scarf addiction some I've had since the seventies. I liked this video as it kinda perked up my interest in finding new ways to use them. At sixty seven I may have to give the bikini a miss but I like the idea of creating a difference in your casual wear. Everyone here, west coast Canada, is constantly dressed like they're going camping.

@Swan.princess Жыл бұрын

East Canada too and middle is probably even worse like they’re going to beg for money, not camping

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Oh I adore Liberty and imagine they did some amazing carves in the 70s! I spent a few frozen winters in Montreal, and it was all very practical and functional, and loved to wear my silk scarves with the Northface goretex jackets and fleeces (and loads of layers underneath) It helped me to feel more like myself! 🤗

@maryjones5710 2 ай бұрын

To make the last look, I just fairly loosely knot the ends. I have a huge summery silk scarf and did this during summer as it was so hot, only the coolest, sleeveless dress could be worn and I didn't want my arms showing.

@sheilagadde5975 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@user-gp2ik1pr4d 10 ай бұрын

Vorrei vederti con altri colori bellissimi legati al collo stretto ❤❤❤👍

@LuckyMarisa Жыл бұрын

I love to wear a scarf in my hair.🧣

@lindajoy23 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this tutorial, I’ve always loved silk scarves and have worn them intermittently throughout my 64 years. My style is quite edgy and I love the juxtaposition of edge or grunge with a silk scarf. I’ve picked up my best pieces from charity shops, I look for silk with hand rolled edges as an indication of quality if the scarf is not branded. I have a number of very stylish French friends and believe me they don’t own Hermes or Gucci scarves 😊

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

I love that idea of the juxtaposition, so cool! And also vintage scarves, there are so many amazing treasures to be found out there! Thank you for watching, 🌻

@framboise8845 Жыл бұрын

Hermes silk with a torn ACDC tee. Rolled and worn arount a straw hat. My fave: around my head, in a bohemian hippie style, with a tail going down and brought back over the shoulder.

@christinebeames712 Жыл бұрын

Just found you , great tips

@user-yc1ct7vv7s 6 ай бұрын

Really great video. Well made and informative. Lovely delivery. Thank you.

@aleksandraolenska 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m a total silk scarf lover so have made quite a few silk scarf videos! ☺️🙃☺️ Bon week-end 🧡

@user-gp2ik1pr4d Жыл бұрын

Sei stupenda con il foulard legato ❤😊😊😊

@user-gp2ik1pr4d 10 ай бұрын

Mi piace molto quando e legato stretto al collo 10 👍👍👍

@cynthiagilbreth1352 Жыл бұрын

Love these ideas, instead of the baubles, this would be a good use for those orphaned earrings. Thanks!

@mariademelo9627 Жыл бұрын

Gratidão!🌻 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@understandingthetimes4544 Жыл бұрын

The man dressed like the queen really made my day.

@theaweavers8576 Жыл бұрын

I love ti put one on my bag or basket as a hit of colour and then they are available if you get cold etc can you make a bag from a scarf or two !! Also take a large scarf around yr neck on holls then use on the beach as a sarong!!

@nancyhoskins197 Жыл бұрын

I prefe ingr a looser look about the neck. Putting the scarf in a triangle, corner to corner, and draping, as you did the Japanese scarf you received as a gift. It is my favorite look With a longer scarf, the triangle in the front, disguises a "tummy". It is also looks well with a strand of pearls or statement necklace nesting on top. Using a brooch as a scarf pin on the shoulder is fun, and adds additional personality.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Love that Nancy! Sounds like you’re accessorising with aplomb - Fabulous 🤍🤍🤍

@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын

You have great taste, thank you

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

thank you! xao

@KazHampson Жыл бұрын

You have very glassy looking skin, love to know what makeup you are wearing.

@rafellahernandez61 Жыл бұрын

You are so beautiful, I like your style ❤❤

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Raffella, 🥰

@dianecourtney2724 Жыл бұрын

I’m not a scarf person but you made me want to become one 🌹

@aleksandraolenska 7 ай бұрын

I’m sure you can become one! ❤️

@cherishparkhurst8124 Жыл бұрын

I've incorporated a small scarf on my rearview mirror in my car I love scarfs and i matched the color to the car color.

@joulsw3739 8 ай бұрын

In the U.K. it’s illegal to add ornaments to the rear view mirror so can’t do that here

@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11 Жыл бұрын

I just put on a navy Ralph Lauren t shirt and white pants and added a scarf around my neck. I love scarf’s and wear them since I was 18 years old.,,😊🇺🇸

@lynnepettit5903 Жыл бұрын

To anchor my scarves I use a tiny bulldog clip or clear hair Babette underneath so that the casual look remains in place all day

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Love this tip Lynne! Thank you 😊🧡

@ReiNa-yu8eb Жыл бұрын

Can I wear a silk scarf in a satin dress?

@dinbx917 Жыл бұрын

Would love to see how you do a true ascot, with knotting and flipping over. . .

@archeewaters Жыл бұрын

you can add an earring instead of a broach. also gives you pearl detail. :)

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

LOVE pearl earrings, especially more unusual ones! 🤩

@kimtaylor1528 Жыл бұрын

Wouldn’t that damage the silk with holes?

@archeewaters Жыл бұрын

@@kimtaylor1528 yes, if you break the threads by puncturing the fabric. you can instead, gently work it in so it slides between threads. once you remove it, gently massage the fabric so the opening disappears.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

@@kimtaylor1528 yes it can do - you can always stitch or knot of the scarf is big enough instead of using pins 🥰

@joycegreer9391 Жыл бұрын

I never thought black and navy went together.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Ouiii! So chic. I’ll make you a video in the coming months Joyce 🖤💙🖤

@joycegreer9391 Жыл бұрын

@@aleksandraolenska Okay. That would be great!

@gingernightmare9152 Жыл бұрын

Would that be Agnes B.?

@SpartaWarriorCodeRed Жыл бұрын

Have you done videos on how to wear scarves away from your neck? I’m in my sixties and have not so firm/smooth skin in my neck plus I do not have a long neck. Needless to say I don’t want to draw attention to my neck. I do have nice colorful scarves but don’t know how to add one to my outfit for color but not draw attention to my neck.

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Hello there, I've had so many thoughtful questions and responses that I'll make a little neckscarf series at the end of May, and will be sure to think about your question. Thank you for your comment, and see you soon! 🌺🌺🌺

@philcrewdson1132 Жыл бұрын

Everyone should own a Hermes scarf or pocket square!

@r.p.8906 Жыл бұрын

you have a cool tone face and you need cold winter colors to have your face pop. I love this video but most colors are off because of the clash of color season. The right color scarf on YOU, will make this video go from very good to fabulous. Subscribed! Stay away from cream... <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="600">10:00</a>. 😍But you knew that already!!

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your thoughts - yes LOVE colours!😍

@giuseppesabatino6895 Жыл бұрын

Sei bellissima con quel foullard legato cosi.❤🧡💚💚💙👍👍👍

@aleksandraolenska Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Giuseppe ☺

@giuseppesabatino6895 Жыл бұрын

Sei stupenda col Foullard legato mi piace💯💫🗯

@somaroychoudhary7705 Жыл бұрын

I love that eye scarf of yours 🤍

@caravanrose Жыл бұрын

Ooo the big eyes 👁 👁 👁soooo fashionable and trendy 🙄

@christineribone9351 Жыл бұрын

People in the US don't wear scarves. But there was a time there when one would tie a scarf around the handle of a handbag.

@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын

Yes, we do.

@christineribone9351 Жыл бұрын

@@kimberlyperrotis8962 maybe old ladies like you do

@laurebourgeois8482 Жыл бұрын

No. Not every stylish French woman has a Hermès scarf in their collection. Only rich ones do.

@carolmarr6607 Жыл бұрын

We can always wear pretty scarves that don't cost the earth and look just as good.

@joannathesinger770 9 ай бұрын

Not true! I have bought 2 vintage Hermès scarves for roughly $120.00 each in excellent shape. A new designer scarf would cost you that much in a department store!!!

@mparstrikesback 7 ай бұрын

@@joannathesinger770$120 is still a lot for a second-hand scarf for the average person. I don't think EVERY French woman has that kind of money for accessories.

@joannathesinger770 7 ай бұрын

@@mparstrikesback ROFL!!! The $120 is for a preloved scarf. New ones start at $400. You don't watch many videos of French women on the street. They wear Zara clothes, but their shoes, handbags, and accessories are from designers like Tiffany, Hermès, and so forth. What they invest in lasts them for their lifetimes.

@mparstrikesback 7 ай бұрын

@@joannathesinger770 and I'm wearing a Shiaparelli scarf as we speak (also obtained second hand) but I recognize that $100 scarves are expensive to a lot of people. So what?

@beefitze7281 Жыл бұрын

lovely smile lovely face , lovely colouring , ..... the shoes , the skirt length , the legs ; oops,

@yuenyeewai4907 Жыл бұрын

😴😴😴😴😴😴😴

@bobduvar Жыл бұрын

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="285">4:45</a>... Nothing fits there ! The scarf is too thin. The knot is to flat. The style does not fit with your beige pull over. A bit larger scarf would have been perfect with your neck.

@JB-3794 Жыл бұрын

I like beautiful scarves, especially large ones for the winter that are thick and warm. I've never taken to wearing small ones. If they're a color I've really enjoyed, I've sometimes wrapped them around a lampshade. Maybe tie one to my handbag, or a longer one through my belt loops. I honestly don't see women where I live wearing the smaller scarves around their necks, and I thought they had gone out of style many years ago. About using a scarf to add color to the face? I've heard that's a reason to wear a scarf around the neck. Why not experiment with makeup instead? You might not need to wear more makeup, just better makeup that looks natural, but looks like your skin is revitalized and has a glow. Not only older women suffer from lack of color on their face. Women of all ages benefit from a healthy glowing skin. Someone may have a colorful scarf on, but when you look upward, the same dull lackluster face might be there. I think I'd work on that problem before tying a little scarf around the neck. Example: Marilynn Monroe never wore jewelry, scarves, etc. Her method was to have the best hair and face, and not detract from that with earrings, necklaces, scarves, etc. Do you want to be complimented on your vivid scarf and jewelry, or your beautiful complexion and well kept hair? Less is more. I never thought a scarf made a woman more beautiful. Those little prim scarves look like they are chocking a woman.