How We Redirect Unwanted Behavior - Autism Parent Tip

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The Wee Family

The Wee Family

4 жыл бұрын

Our autistic daughter Braylee has been climbing on the backs of our couches and we have been okay with it as long as she does not climb on them outside of our home. Now that she is getting older and taller, the couches just cannot handle it. Instead of continually saying no to her, we decided to redirect her the behavior with a positive reinforcement. We will see how it goes! #autism #weefam #redirectingbehavior

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@emilia123zz
@emilia123zz 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like if all parents, regardless whether or not their child has autism, worked more to help their child redirect or understand what they need then life might be a bit better
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
We try to understand and help Braylee get her needs met because it makes things so much better for her, which also makes things better for us too. ❤️
@maddykrantz
@maddykrantz 4 жыл бұрын
My parents did that. I have ADHD and I love slime and putty. They hate it so they got me a fidget spinner and a fidget cube instead to help me with my sensory needs in a mess free way. It worked. I used them in class and at home and I never made a mess with them. I also just love playing with them too even if I am not using it to help me focus.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you found something that worked as a replacement! Braylee loves some things that are more messy but we often find a compromise and still let her do the messy things, just not as often.
@bon5339
@bon5339 4 жыл бұрын
The best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup. I love the fun you added to her life
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
😄
@xirisx1988
@xirisx1988 4 жыл бұрын
I also have autism. My grandma had also that bubble fish thing. Loved it so much.
@ekidd79
@ekidd79 4 жыл бұрын
4:52 Quarantine...a mood, demonstrated by Braylee
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She’s always good for mood representations 😂
@raisingautism8214
@raisingautism8214 4 жыл бұрын
love how she is listening to directions she is such a lil cutie
@raisingautism8214
@raisingautism8214 4 жыл бұрын
omgosh that thing is so cool emma loves to balance also
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She does well when she’s focused. She still has her moments haha all kids do.
@binkybunnysway943
@binkybunnysway943 4 жыл бұрын
She is doing so well in leaps and bounds bless her heart!! Hi sweet girl
@priscillafrye2951
@priscillafrye2951 4 жыл бұрын
Every single video, I hear Braylee saying more words and saying the more clearly, I really look forward to seeing what she's learned. BTW I'm a "grown up" but all of Braylee's stuff in your basement looks like so much fun. I'd love to try it out! My daughter only had mild ADD but she would have loved the balance beam, swing etc
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She’s getting better with all the practice! ☺️ It’s like her own personal playground! It helps for our long winters too. Perks of being a parent is getting to test of their fun things too 😂
@jp911
@jp911 4 жыл бұрын
She seems to be talking so well lately! Sky is the limit:)
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She’s always improving. All that practice is helping 😃
@mollytrott1247
@mollytrott1247 4 жыл бұрын
Great vlog. Like the music choice. Braylee is, such, a little doll. Seems like her verbal skills are sharper. She has a sweet voice and a good singer. Braylee liked her gift. She'll get a lot of enjoyment from it. She's so happy. She'd be good at gymnastics. Such awesome parents. 👫 Enjoy your night...🌜🌠😴😴😴💫 Love ya, bunches...🤗💛😍💖😘❤💞 I loved it. Broke my right arm, real, bad in seventh grade. Jumped over the pummel horse the wrong way and heard the snap of bone. Ouch! Was in a cast for six months. Learned to write with my left hand. Can write with both hands, now.
@Gionacloud
@Gionacloud 4 жыл бұрын
She is getting so good with her communication!! You are such great parents, always up to buy her something to challenge her and help her and just beign there for her and noticing her needs! I'm so proud of all of you ^^
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She’s definitely getting better 😄 that’s sweet of you to say. We do have a lot of great resources like our waiver that help get her most of her sensory things which helps greatly! We want to help meet her needs and keep her regulated and happy 😃
@caitlinhd2952
@caitlinhd2952 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh braylee was so cute today! She’s cute everyday what am I saying😂💞 love you guys
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
😄 thank you!! ❤️
@spike16965
@spike16965 4 жыл бұрын
omg she is just a doll. love watching you all. she copes very well.
@carollohn5590
@carollohn5590 4 жыл бұрын
Your such good parents. Your always looking for ways to help her grow and to educate her. You try to keep her focused and I just love how happy Braylee is. Love her singing and everything about her. She really is so precious ❤️. The Wee Family is the best.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
You’re so sweet to say that, thank you 🥰 she’s a great kid and deserves what we do for her
@seapixie1966
@seapixie1966 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Wee family, watching Braylee and your life together reminds me so much of life when Rhys was young. I feel such a shared sense of pride and excitement ..I can’t really explain why but it’s there. And she makes me laugh in the way he did at the same age..the voice changer and the bubble tube were favourite of his too, and he’d speak into a desk fan to hear his voice 🥰🥰 Thank you for sharing your precious little girl with us and the best is yet to come. Love from the UK xx
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you can share the enjoyment and excitement with us ❤️ they’re definitely good things to have and she enjoys 🙂 talking into a fan as a kid is the best 😂
@francescordova1611
@francescordova1611 4 жыл бұрын
That voice...I love it! Braylee’s such a sweet child. She brings a smile to my face.🥰
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to hear that! She’s pretty infectious, especially when she’s happy 🙂
@Wildernessadventuresoz
@Wildernessadventuresoz 4 жыл бұрын
Wee fam you guys just make my day. I had a particularly difficult work day and my son has been very tricky over the last few days. But I see Braylees sweet face and cute voice and it make me smile. Thankyou so much for sharing your wee family. 🥰
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that you haven’t had the best few days and we hope they get better! I’m glad that we can help even a bit 💕
@mallorygibbons4975
@mallorygibbons4975 3 жыл бұрын
I've always said my daughter was my little stunt devil. No fear n always active n not afraid to try things. For her climbing on n jumping on n off of the furniture I got her a little jungle gym for the yard n she's always had a trampoline n between her teacher,speech,OT n behavioral therapist we all came up saying "feet on floor" or "feet on the floor" n it did start working. It wouldn't keep her from initiating it but as soon as I said it she'd at least listen n get right down. She stopped for awhile then started again but now I just tell her sit down or no jumping on couch n she'll listen for a little while but if she's full of energy n very excited/hyper she'll listen but go back to doing it if I leave the room or a few minutes later.
@anamac820
@anamac820 4 жыл бұрын
Awww!! That is an awesome surprise!! Great job Mom and Dad!!!! 👍🏻
@bionicprincess8008
@bionicprincess8008 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee has the most gorgeous, big eyes. She is a precious child. You guys are the sweetest parents. You are always trying to make the best life for her. She is one lucky little girl 💗
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
We are very thankful for her and she works really hard and deserves us helping her too!
@Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
@Kaitlin_and_Kaidale 4 жыл бұрын
Awe I love the balance beam! She looks so happy💗
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She enjoyed it! Gotta love our climbers 😁
@PotatoQueen1989
@PotatoQueen1989 4 жыл бұрын
omg Braylee with the hair bow cuteness overload ♥
@rainbowreels9113
@rainbowreels9113 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee saying bus is making my heart dye of cuteness
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@alexandriarodriguez2404
@alexandriarodriguez2404 4 жыл бұрын
Omg! Did b imitate everything you said in the bus😫 shes so adorable!!!❤️
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
It’s always makes me smile when we say random things and she just repeats whole phrases that we said
@tyreesetjjoyner1995
@tyreesetjjoyner1995 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee enjoying the gymnastic beam. I like it. Chris Ulmer of SBSK would love to see Braylee in the future.♥️♥️♥️♥️
@celesteroberts5794
@celesteroberts5794 4 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and I love it form Celeste Roberts
@blucklightfoxartinnovation9357
@blucklightfoxartinnovation9357 4 жыл бұрын
nice video well done david keep up the good work well done a+ much love to you guy's :) you rock Braylee
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
🙂
@oakcitizen554
@oakcitizen554 4 жыл бұрын
Nice progress Baby B, I'm happy for you ❤️
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
☺️
@faithfulservant1050
@faithfulservant1050 4 жыл бұрын
Omg !!!! Braylee looked so cute with that big bow in her hair... She is absolutely adorable🤗💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜🌼💜✌
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
I thought it was a good choice! It did look cute 😄
@amandaflege7981
@amandaflege7981 4 жыл бұрын
Great job B on the beam thats so awesome
@dream2451
@dream2451 4 жыл бұрын
Wake me up before you go go by Wham, It's a good morning by Mandisa, The sun will come out Tomorrow from Annie, Wake up sleepy Jean by the Monkees... this should be a good start.
@brendashadley6007
@brendashadley6007 4 жыл бұрын
Yes it's a cute rain coat
@mallorygibbons4975
@mallorygibbons4975 3 жыл бұрын
My daughter has not let us put her hair up in over a year. She does love to wear headbands n Disney princess crowns so it stays out of her face for the most part but it gets in the way when doing certain things. My daughter would love that bow, though. She's always had a thing for bows (Minnie mouse). In the past couple months she did randomly out of the blue ask for a hair tie n let me put her hair in a low,loose ponytail for a short period of time though. I'm hoping that's a step towards letting us pull it up sometimes. The balance beam is awesome. I can see her doing gymnastics. I always said I was gonna put my daughter in singing/dancing classes n gymnastics because she was always n still does tumbling,jumping doing flips,climbing, balancing, singing n dancing but then as she got older I figured she probably wouldn't take directions from a teacher/coach n would just do it when n how she wanted. I think she could now though.
@lindsaytaylor803
@lindsaytaylor803 4 жыл бұрын
Your daughter brightens up my day and I love her and your parenting I am an adult with special needs Mainly lering but with some physical when I was younger I had therapys for speech and ot. My parents when I was little was just like you tow keep up the great work ;). Love #LindsayTaylor
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that compliment! It means a lot ❤️ Braylee is lucky to be so well loved by so many people!
@jvance6
@jvance6 4 жыл бұрын
Omg that is the coolest present ever.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
We try to choose things for her that will have practical use.
@nazaharin
@nazaharin 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome parents..
@AmazingMavis
@AmazingMavis 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gah, “gween!” 🥰
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
😄 I love how she says her colors. ☺️
@ellielopez7101
@ellielopez7101 4 жыл бұрын
I will be very interested if it is coeliac disease. (The preview for the next video). Looking forward to hearing, wishing you all the best
@codieflo3776
@codieflo3776 4 жыл бұрын
This is random, but the bubble lamp behind Braylee at about 2:34 is the exact same lamp we have for my autistic little sister, she loves it
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! It’s a big hit here with Braylee. She loves being able to turn it on/off and change the colors herself.
@codieflo3776
@codieflo3776 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily That's awesome, we can't manually change the colours on ours, it just fades through the colours but my sister still loves it
@somedude172
@somedude172 4 жыл бұрын
i cackled at 4:53... thats EXACTLY what i wouldve done lmao! i love this kid!
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 she cracks us up on a regular basis. I love the way she thinks and interprets things and she just does whatever. 🙂
@livesinarizona2303
@livesinarizona2303 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 😂😂😂 I don’t need approval for my purchases. Me either girl!! Keep doing your part to stimulate the economy. LOL
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 being adult is great. Hahaha. I definitely do my fair share in that department 😉
@Anton2004
@Anton2004 4 жыл бұрын
Holy crap!!! Where did you get that bubbly-fishy thingy for Braylee?!?! I want one!!!
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
www.amazon.com/SensoryMoon-Bubble-Remote-Bedroom-Aquarium/dp/B075QKKJ4P
@Anton2004
@Anton2004 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily Thankies!
@Dragonlove3
@Dragonlove3 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@cutestkittensanimalrescuep8531
@cutestkittensanimalrescuep8531 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely respond to her verbal words it's like talking to a wall how long are you going to do that cuz you don't get a response. You guys are really good parents I can see you work as a team and really attend to her. When she was bouncing on the yellow thing she was saying video. If you don't congratulate her for her speaking while she's speaking and respond to her why should she do it? Maybe if you miss some words cuz you're talking you could go back over her videos and say good girl you said video.
@GroundhogBaby
@GroundhogBaby 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee looked so cute with the pigtails. I love it. She is doing so much better with her talking. I have a question. I don't know if I missed something or what but what were you two talking about at the end of the video about Braylee's re-evaluation and another diagnosis? Did she get diagnosed with something else?
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
David hasn’t edited that video yet, but all of her re-evaluation stuff will be the next video
@GroundhogBaby
@GroundhogBaby 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily ok thanks I was a little confused.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
No worries! It will be out tomorrow!
@markquint2680
@markquint2680 4 жыл бұрын
💜💜👌🏻
@dawnberry3797
@dawnberry3797 4 жыл бұрын
I mentioned on here before how my granddaughter Sophie does not like many foods either, like B. She use to be starch only velveeta shells and cheese french fries chips tator tots she is finally trying and liking other things I think I told you before bacon seems to be top of her list now lol. I was amazed to hear B won't eat spaghettios, neither will Sophie the first time we gave them to her she gagged, she still hates them . And yes I had to use google to make sure I was spelling spaghettios right.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee doesn’t do most fries, no tots or mashed potatoes surprisingly since she’s so carb heavy in her diet preferences. She doesn’t like any sort of sauces or condiments so I assume that’s why she doesn’t like spaghetti or even spaghettios.
@dawnberry3797
@dawnberry3797 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily Ya Sophie doesn't like condiments either. Oh and she hates eggs
@AmazingMavis
@AmazingMavis 4 жыл бұрын
Jack LOVES to climb up on the back of the couch and perch
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Since quarantine it became an obsession almost and we had to come up with something. It’s not 100% but it helps. We are still working on it
@mackenzieb2218
@mackenzieb2218 4 жыл бұрын
I swear what they make in kid sizes they should also make in adult sizes. I love that freakin rain jacket lmao
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
I know! I think that often or see people commenting about specific things she wears and how they’d love it in their size!
@spike16965
@spike16965 4 жыл бұрын
yes for raincoat
@Annikas_toycastle
@Annikas_toycastle 4 жыл бұрын
Hello I love braylee’s bow I made some bows
@jozie9712
@jozie9712 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I was wondering, did your daughter's school close or is it open? Many schools are closed, it sounds like she goes to a really good school.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Public schools are closed. She goes to a therapy center full time. We call it school because that’s where she goes in place of school year round.
@yaboicj3775
@yaboicj3775 4 жыл бұрын
Don't those knobs on the balance beam raise it higher?
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
That’s as high as it goes. It goes from 18-24inches high. Which is fine. We wouldn’t want her falling from higher than that if she stumbled. It’s a good height for her with the crash pad. If it went much higher I think she would struggle to get up onto it without climbing something else
@Annikas_toycastle
@Annikas_toycastle 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question what does braylee watch on tv I watch my little pony on trees house I’m 18
@natrag01
@natrag01 4 жыл бұрын
How much was the bubbles thing I want one
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
www.amazon.com/dp/B075QKKJ4P/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_yoeZEb8A2B7N9
@andrewyorke3352
@andrewyorke3352 Жыл бұрын
👍🇬🇧
@steamdgm
@steamdgm 4 жыл бұрын
How are you guys doing I am doing good I like watching your videos I am still working and I hope you guys can do a live stream some times but if you can’t it’s ok
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
We are well thanks. I’m glad to hear you are good too. We do live streams every so often but won’t have time at least this week
@rebeccainspiringhope4357
@rebeccainspiringhope4357 4 жыл бұрын
Have y’all thought about putting her in music lessons? I think she’d be good at violin.
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
She was in music therapy before everything closed down. We haven’t started them back at this time. She enjoys playing around but can’t read music to our knowledge and I know sometimes that the motor planning and coordination of playing instruments would be a bit more difficult
@insertcreativehandle
@insertcreativehandle 4 жыл бұрын
Where you thought she said W I think she said Dark Blue? I don't know but that's what I heard
@Cheeselover2626
@Cheeselover2626 4 жыл бұрын
I think everyone has tripped on stairs like she did
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Probably so!
@brendashadley6007
@brendashadley6007 4 жыл бұрын
Order a box of cheap shaving cream off line you get a 📦 way cheaper .. How much fun Braylee girl you have that down in no time take the socks off it be easier for you your feet will grip it better too cute stay Blessed 🖤🌹🖤
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
The shaving cream that we use is pretty cheap normally, less than $1.00 but it’s just carried at Target but that’s okay. She doesn’t go through too awful much of it. Maybe 1-4 cans per month. She usually is barefoot running around at home but I think she came in from getting home and just still had them on. But good to remember 👍🏻
@ImagineAsylo
@ImagineAsylo 4 жыл бұрын
What does Braylee eat?
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Mostly carbs, dairy and some fruit. She has a lot of food aversions. We made a video about it a while back.
@spike16965
@spike16965 4 жыл бұрын
ever thought getting her in gymnastics?
@andrewestrada6094
@andrewestrada6094 4 жыл бұрын
Hey good vlog today wee family I would like to know what is braylee favorite cartoon character or animal super hero I am stating to draw and color stuff like that I would like to do one for her send it to you guys
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
Braylee’s favorite cartoon character is probably Mickey Mouse. That’s so cool that you’re getting into drawing and coloring 👍🏻
@andrewestrada6094
@andrewestrada6094 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah okay I will work on it and see how I can get it to you guys in Minnesota
@TheWeeFamily
@TheWeeFamily 4 жыл бұрын
We have a P.O Box 🙂
@andrewestrada6094
@andrewestrada6094 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily awesome can I get information for the po box so I could send it to you guys I also want to send you guys a letter
@andrewestrada6094
@andrewestrada6094 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheWeeFamily and you and stacey would like one as whale let know I will be greatly happy to Send you guys one as well
@emilymartin225
@emilymartin225 4 жыл бұрын
20 SECONDS AGO
@Daves-hereagain
@Daves-hereagain 4 жыл бұрын
This child has great motor skills she loves to sing but she isn't verbal.
@jodyburke8328
@jodyburke8328 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Carlos...you playing with a toy?
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