"There's no grounding in asian culture, cause that's just life" no truer words have been spoken before

I think Phil would be the most strict parent if he had a daughter. He'd be like, "no one's gonna break my little girl's heart!"

2048 sequel episode where your kids reveal if you followed through 👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👨‍👧‍👦 HI KIDS!! -Uncle Mike

Nah Jenn, you are so right and I think Christine always tried to tell Phil this. The guys always got it easy in terms of chores, hanging out with friends, choosing friends, dating and even getting critiqued on how you looked by both uncle/aunts and parents.

I feel like Chris would be a good parent. I think he'd take time to tell the kid why he said "yes" or "no" instead of being an almighty power over them who shouldn't be questioned.

I relate to the attitude comment. My parents argue with emotion, while I use logic. When that happens, they call me a "philosophiser." It's definitely a culture thing.

I relate to Jen so much!!!! With the scared to ask for permission to go out so ..... no friends lol

OMG :'D Phil would be THAT parent, who think he's cool, and the kids would be so embarrassed of him... Sorry :D You're still amazing! :) Hopefully you will be awesome parents and we might see the next generation of Wong Fu :D I think the strongest punishment for me was the feeling of letting my parents down. Of course I got slapped a couple of times, but I quickly got over it. I always tried to prove myself to them (and to others too), so when they got angry, I thought I disappointed them and it was worse punishment than anything else they could do. So I guess It's more like emotional punishment?

Sameeeee Jenn! I'm 300+ miles away from my parents, but I can still hear their voices when I make decisions. That and my mom still calls me to tell me no alcohol (I'm over 21 already)

For having Asian parents and mostly growing up in Bangladesh, I definitely hit the jackpot. I never really got out a lot, but I always had the freedom to do so. The fact that they gave me space to do anything made me want to do nothing that could make them unhappy. I saw my friends doing so much crap from early teenage years and I just never even wanted to do any of it. Grateful to have ammu and abbu.

my dad is the "I told you so" guy and that's why I can never make a confident decision about my life

I think Jenn was trying to say that restrictions were different when she was saying boys and girls get different punishments. Girls are definitely more policed than boys usually do (i.e. can't going out late at night). It's definitely a privilege in being able to do that. But for punishment, I immediately thought about how boys got in trouble for like vandalizing walls or those big things like that while girls will get in trouble for like making her dress dirty or something like that. Parenting is definitely hard and complicated! :O

probably benson he would be a chill dad and he knows how to do random stuff

*I LOVE working out my eyes it's probably my favorite type of work out. I would like Jenn to be my parent so we could do eye work outs together :)*

I was too excited for this all day lol. I was watching a Bring it On movie as a kid once on ABC Family and of course my Indian dad walked in on the one kissing scene of the whole movie and the yelling ensued.

Parental control is like parental "prison." And then they want to know why you are still single!?

wow I am literally Jen

Who else misses Ashley already?

Can you guys have a lunch break where you just talk about Black Mirror?

#morals>#discipline

I relate to the joking abt physical discipline then realizing it was lowkey terrifying as a child. there have been so many times ive gotten spanked or beaten with all sorts of household objects and when i joke about it with friends that arent asian get so freaked out lol

I just realized after Ashley leaving, Jen is the only girl in lunch break.

New years resolutions going strong 💪. I'm going grass-fed🐮. Let's see some Wong Fu work out or food videos 😀

I feel like phil is already a DadTM

Why is this so relatable? My parents are from Korea, and I was born there too, we immigrated to Canada when I was 7 years old. (now i'm 18) I wasn't allowed to watch certain things/ and also had to come home at 5 no later. and after school if I went somewhere I had to call my parents. Problem! didn't have a phone until I was 17... so whenever I couldn't get myself a phone or forgot to, I got huge trouble... and I did too once wished that I got grounded. cause its definiety so much better than getting.. but as I got older, they stopped punishing me that way. Instead now they tell me through words

“First lunch break of 2018” they can never say that again and make sense?!🤔🙄😘❤️❤️❤️

“...I just got hungry and I came back” hahahahaha oh Benson 😂

Benson: maybe like physical labour Everybody else: *disregards*

I feel you Jenn!! I also went through just accepting and dealing with my parent's parenting style rather than trying to rebel & just didn't have any friends outside school hours and never did anything outside of school during middle/high school

It can certainly be tough living in two distinctly different cultures simultaneously. I'm glad to hear I wasn't alone in those difficult experiences. ^^

omg Jen I did the same thing! just never asked to go out but then in college didn't go crazy either. there was just joy in freedom of eating whatever I wanted when I wanted lol

More! part 2!

Its oddly comforting relating to kids who got their ass whooped when they were younger. Also the conditioning thing.... So relatable....

1., I would have Jen as a parent, she seems fun :D 2., I grew up with only my mom (my dad is european, not met him much), and she was, still is!! the strictest parent ever! She would beat me up for having bad grades, for not being obedient, for arriving home "late", for using the computer/internet too much, not helping her (I do), etc. Until high school I was mostly obedient, but after that, we would argue daily, wich hasn't stopped yet, and I'm already 25.... When I do something "bad", she scolds me, when I do sg good, she never praises me. When I stay home, she says: Go out! When I go out, she says: you're never home! When I went to university I secretly chose and put in 1st place a school that was far away, so i stayed in a dormitory, she was so mad...anyway, it was super hard getting rid of my habit of getting jumped in surpise and closing whatever I was doing on my laptop out of reflex when someone came in my room, cause my mom would always do that, scare the hell out of me and shout in anger that I "wasn't studying".... But finally I'm moving out soon!!!!

Personalities affect parenting effectiveness too... parents' & siblings' but also the child in question. I think I'd like to have Bendad as my parent bc he can do all kinds of things. I think I'd learn a lot from him!

I'm 23 and I feel like I have been so used to not going out that I just became very reserved and have never went out to hang with a friend ever in my life.

oh my god this is way too real :O so glad I'm in college now

"Stop giving me attitude" omg that was such a real part of my childhood discipline LOL rt @ Jen talking about logic vs emotion Also I stayed in my room all the time that grounding would've been pointless LOL my parents always tried to get me to come out

I think Jenn would be an awesome parent! Hearing how she was raised makes me believe that she would know what to say to her kids in whatever situations come up.

I would definitely choose Jenn to be my mom. Just because she’s seems the gentlest, and wouldn’t yell at me 😂😂 (looking at you Phil)

yeah! distance was it for me! not so much what i watched, but sitting too close was a no no

I completely relate to you Jen!! My freedom was buying ice cream and candy because my mom never let me have it in the house. I️ think I didn’t become rebellious in college bc I was so conditioned to think of bad consequences, so I’m honestly the “mom” of the group bc I keep everyone safe! (Thanks, mom? LOL)

aah love you guys

the arguing w emotions point is so accurate!! and soo frustrating haha

A Black Mirror Lunch Break would be amazing

I relate to Jen..being scared of the consequences xD I gave myself curfews and disciplined myself at a young age and morals was very important. It's true that kids sometimes have to learn things the hard way to understand how to make better decisions for themselves. I always saw Phil as a good father figure after they did that babysitting video with Wes and Ted loll.

Wow, my whole childhood in around 12 minutes. O.O cool video, such a nostalgia blast! Haha by the way, I'd choose Phil or Wes to be a parent. :)

I feel u jenn!!! Whenever my friends wants to go out, i don’t even ask my parents bc ik what they’re gonna say >.

Jenn from pbs to MTV. Now she swagged out w her jean jacket n black beanie. Oh yeah 😎

Wow I relate to Jenn so much :o I never watched sitcoms and always watched kid shows even into high school haha I also didn't even bother asking my parents a lot of things (including hanging out!) because I would get bombarded with so many questions that I kinda just didn't ask anymore ._.

My parents are from the Caribbean and my asian friends always tell me that they had similar experiences growing up haha. Yeah I got slapped around a lot, couldn't go to sleepovers until I was like 17. Being grounded is literally a foreign concept. If I didn't wash the dishes I get yelled at haha. I definitely think that it made me more fearful to try things because I never really had those "experiences." I have never done drugs and I had my first drink of alcohol around friends my freshman year of college. I also think that my morals are pretty aligned with "doing the right thing." And my personality in general is pretty reserved so I guess it's a combination of everything.

This is fascinating to have a discussion about parenting when none of you are parents yet (that you know of). ;)

In Chinese there's a saying "打是疼，骂是爱", meaning beating is to show we care while scolding is to show we love. Sums up the whole tough love thing I guess.

So relatable!!!!

I think Benson would be mellow dad that keeps kid so busy with construction projects, there wouldn’t be time to act up or rebel.

Lol I like Phil’s LEGO cup! 😂😂❤️

Jen was runnin' that 4k Netflix Marathon! Shout out to the binge watchers! ;D

my parents were super chillll, like super chill. i was punished but the last time I remember getting punished was when I was in elementary school. i guess it's also a trust? i didnt really go through tiger parenting but i had a lot of freedom and i guess my morals kept me in intact lol now im in nursing grad school and the more im in college, the more im getting closer to my parents than ever

I'd pick Benson! I'm confident he'd indulge all of my Lego wishes and we could work on DIY projects. I'm a gamer (something my parents thought would be a phase when they bought my first console...LMBO), but most of mine are pretty harmless? I'm not good at FPS and whatnot, so I do a lot of strategy and platform games. I think Ratchet and Clank, Jak and Daxter..those would be my "shooter" games.

Black mirror is SOO GOOD

Yup. Nature vs nurture

The accuracy of this video tho

It's nice having a Viet perspective :3 stuff I can relate to. Sadly my parents equally hit me too even if I'm a girl, probably the only consistency in their parenting.

I was totally distracted by Phil's Lego cup. xD

Totally can relate to these topics! :-)

Lol. I relate to all of this. I'm 24 and about to get married in June. During winter break while I was home from MED SCHOOL, I got yelled at for coming home late after visiting my fiance at his parents house. I came home at midnight!!!

Ayy it's not only me and this makes me a bit more relieved even tho I shouldn't be but I'm still a teen got so many years until I have freedom

I would want Jen as my parent cause is so nice and doesn't seem so strict will be a cool parent to have

You guys should have David So on lunch break to talk about asian parenting/ tiger parenting.

My mom wouldn't let me watch the Tellie Tubbies and I'm not mad about that now😅 I would choose Chris and Jenn as my parents because they are adorkable.

good episode :)

I love lunch breaks cuz I relate so much

I FEEL LIKE THERES NO GROUNDING IN ASIAN CULTURES BECAUSE THATS JUST LIFE Wow preach! Also about the sitting away from the screen I swear my mom pulled me away every two seconds telling me it's gonna mess up my eyes lol

6:05 "house of flying daggers!!" lol jkin i had to

Havent heard the word 罰站 in so many years, still gives me the fearr 😂

phil... because he is such a nice guy!

wow I relate SO HARD with Jenn

Can definitely relate a lot to Jenn XD Everything in this video is totally true

THAT LEGO CUP THO

I watched Whose Line and the Hot Chick often when I was in middle school, but I never got the inappropriate references until college XD

I remember the first time i ran away from home i was 9. I wasn't allowed to leave the fence so i sat in the far end of my backyard with my lunch pale filled with clothes.

Is that a friggin' LEGO mug...?!

I'll take Benson and Chris as my dads for sure.

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW Chris is actually a "bad" kid

That mug is 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

omg clifford and arthur

Jen because she seems like she would be more lenient and understanding

"Attitude" or "reasoning" = "talking back to parents" lol

idk my parents raised me in a way where i love them a lot and never want to piss them off. it's like i love them so much that i don't want them to get angry since that's tiring and they're old and already stressed out about other stuff

aww haha jenn is just too cute

Going out at 6pm lol I feel you jenn!!! 🙄

everything Jenn said, I relate 1000000%

that lego cup though Phil..pretty awesome

omg Jenn I relate to you literally 100%

I want Jenn!

"I feel like there's no grounding in Asian culture 'cause that's just life." That's so true. Exactly how I felt growing up. 😂

I would probably like to have Phil as my parent because he seems chill and he would be able to tell me off if I am wrong or something, I don't know. When I was about 6, my parents allowed me to watch anything my brother watched, so I watched Anaconda when I was around 5/6. I always wondered how it felt to be grounded because of American Movies and stuff, so I kind of provoked them to ground me but they only grounded me for about 2 hours and in that time I just fell asleep.

Benson: "maybe like physical labour?" lmao

Benson, no question

Definitely Benson. I feel like he would discipline me by taking control of my stomach and using it against me. Don't be rebellious because then you don't get food. That would definitely work on me XD