I feel that too and its aweful

they are

Plot twist: his mom is actually super chill and gets the irony of his mockery.

Same thoughts

Saaaame

here b4 the third bot comes..

Lmao my family

What was the sound he made afterwards tho?XDDDDD "HAEYAAAA"

This is what my mother says as well 😂

Right 😂

I'm from Ecuador and it's the same as Asian Parents, they hate us all equally 😂

Ah yes, equality 🤷‍♂️😂

Lol

LOL (Make a LOL Chain below ) 👇👇👇

​@@riqzlxx ummm ok?

I felt the last line 🥹

I love you all 0% equally

Mm, she has you figured out.

Man, I was the favorite of three, it was awesome and I knew I was given special treatment and made sure to use it, lol. And then my brother got into medical school........... how the times have changed...

I love you all, but are you a doctor? 😂

ikr, that scene got me dead on the floor ROFL XD

Asian Mom: Why can't you be like your cousin? He cured cancer when he was 2 and got into Stanford when he was 3. The cousin's mom: Why can't you be like your cousin? He started his own business when he was 2 years old and got the noble prize for curing the coronavirus. When in reality, the two ppl are just ordinary kids 😂

@@claireshi7384 ok, fax

Asian mom: Why can't you be like your sister? She's in biomed and you're a youtuber! Also Asian mom: Why can't you be like your brother? He's already earning money while you haven't paid your student loan yet! You're IN SCHOOL, like some damn child, and you're already 20! So what if your school is called Harvard? You can't even provide for yourself, FAILURE

@@michaelschneider8201 Brother: Well my sister is still in school and she isn't making money, I'm making money right now. Asian mom: HOW DARE YOU TALK BACK TO ME 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡your sister studies biomed, she's way smarter than you, she will make way more money than you. Sister: Well I will get a degree in biomed and then get a good job that can pay off my loans... Asian mom: HOW DARE YOU TALK BACK TO ME 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡you can't even make money yourself right now, and you have to pay off money later, look at your brother, he is already making money and he doesn't have anything to pay off.

Exactly, hurts a lot!!

@just i c e and {/(k. Pm0

I'm the youngest and my mom has my picture as her wallpaper...

true my coisin is like:I love my siblings " and in their phone is the youngest

but my mother and father is like i love you guys equally then the photos is always my oldest brother

The neighbor's child is perfect in their eyes🤣

@@tulip811 the one with A+ in math is perfect in their eyes

@@tubax926 But yet again, sadly, even if u get A+ in academics, they'll find flaws somewhere. 💀

@@toothless8809 I know that feeling. I got top score in math and top of my class it was a hard math I was so exited to tell them. Long story short my cousin is top of all classes and won a medal for joining a spelling contest.

@@tulip811 The neighbor's kid is perfect in their eyes only because he/she is not their own child and they just want a person to compare their kid to. As a result, they only see their good points. If you point out the neighbor's kid flaws, they'll perceive that as talking back.

Don't let it get to you man, I'm sure she actually loves both of you equally, and age is a very good reason to treat both of you differently. She compares you to him because he has more achievements under his belt; since he has had more time than you to get those. Also this is totally natural. If the older brother is already successful in her eyes the mother will try to support him as much as she can, because you will get support from both her and your brother, so you don't need as much support from her as your brother does. It's evolutionary and logical Focus on your relationship with your brother instead of dwelling over how your mother treats you, your brother will always be with you, while your mother will eventually retire and you'll live separately.

Yeah like at least Asian parents are honest. White parents just lie and then be passive aggressively bias.

I went through the same thing except I’m the other (Golden) sibling. I see how it really got to my sister. Despite how hard I’ve worked to let her know that I saw our childhood the same way she did, Today, she doesn’t trust anyone, harbors toxic levels of resentment, acts like a child emotionally, and every time she’s in a disagreement she calls it “taking the opposite side of her” as opposed to genuinely having a different take on something. So while I cannot and will not understand your experience, my advice to you is to grieve what you didn’t get but absolutely deserved; move forward understanding you may never be loved the way you deserve by your family, and love yourself the way you were always meant to be loved. I may be the golden child but our family was all types of fcked up. So I removed myself from the family when I turned 18, became my own person and learned more about myself, nurtured some of my childhood wounds and when I returned, I was able to see things clearly. My mom tried her best with what she had. Your parents are human too. They messed up, but it doesn’t mean they wanted it to be that way. They just don’t understand what you need the way you do, and you may not know how to articulate it yet. Do you. My sister didn’t do that and ended up the way she is now and tbh she has huge woe is me energy, is super selfish, can’t maintain relationships with others, has emotional outbursts etc. You may have been dealt a shitty hand as a child but when an adult, you are free. You a get to choose your actions. if you want to be better, it’s your responsibility and no one else’s. And what you gain was a result of your choices. If you stay the same or become worse, that was your choice too. They made a mess in your house. Does matter more that your house is clean? (The right choice) Or that they be the ones to clean it up? (The egotistical choice) The house is you. If you want something better you have to accept may have to move forward without them.

At least she cared enough to lie...? The irony for me is that my older sister was a handful, she was the first one, the beloved one. My mother took her side regardless of if she was right or wrong. The worst thing I ever did was outperform her in school (thought I could earn my mother's love at least.) But it made me more hated 😅 It's better to let it go (I know it's not easy or completely possible.) Some things aren't worth trying to change or can. If I realized that sooner my childhood might've been a bit better.

Same my mom blames for everything even if I’m not involved

As an Asian it is not actually hate. It is more like a challenge the parents do for the children to aim better in life if one wants the approval of the parent they will strive to out do the other to please the parent. It's like when you get sick they will scold you and throw words at you and call you stupid but deep down they are worried like crazy they just don't show it. They have a very different way of showing love. Hahaha.

ikr that mom is a LEGEND

Ya know, if their children try to kill each other in the future, I won't be surprised

@@silviaherondale4102 aren't every sibling like that though even outside Asian household?? You tell me except Asia the whole world are loving cuddling and nice and kind and sweet siblings??

@@euchiii3596 From what I've known, siblings would pull pranks and dummy jokes on each other, but when shits get real they will be there and help you. This is my experience.

Girls do get it easier in the society.

You have to watch to the end. The sister got the same treatment. Haha

@@skullmax3595 NAHH U DIDNT JUST SAY THAT TFFFF💀💀

@@katdied1011 whats wrong with spittin fax bruh

@@skullmax3595 fax

Because he is not a doctor??

doesn't matter, no doctor. no lyfe. you could be a demon lord and your asian parents will still ask, _"are you doctor yet?"_

Because it has no future ?

Son : KZfaqr with more than a million followers, also endorsement. Mom : Crying 😢 - My son is jobless, that's why nobody marry him. Waiiiit....maybe he's also gay.

Hoiyaaaaaa

Why can't you be more like your cousin ! ??

same

OMG 😱 that's me!

Lmao same 🥲

then you have done something wrong 💀💀

Ouch

same (': both my siblings said that im the favorite

It’s more accurate than Simo Hayha

Ikr lmao

My middle child sister gets more attention for me lmao but it’s just for me 😅

As a middle child i see this as a win, it's better than being abused like your older sibling until they failed suicide or be childish immature jerk like the youngest. I love when my parents neglect me! More then when they are on my ass.

I’m the middle child

​@zoviqi2388 this is painfully true

My mom is Italian, from Italy, and it is like that with my Italian cousins too growing up. So it's a Mediterranean thing too. Not sure if maybe today it has improved a little.

lol true

That's extremely normal for elder sibling in an Asian household.

Us

@@sennie6296 That's extremely unusual for a child to ask that, why don't they know their parents gonna say try asking me in English instead of Failure.

Ya so true....

There's nothing clever about that it's really damaging to both siblings. It's destructive and vile.

Clever? My mom do this to me and my sister and it made me hate my sis fiercely with with all of my guts and end up bullying her verbally and physically too cuz my mom do that too to me and I can't retaliate her so I'm venting it on my sister cus she's younger and I regretting it so much! Turns out she also got the same treatment like me from our mom and plus from me. She doesn't have anyone to vent it so she vent it on herself, aka self harm. I'm so shocked when I know about it. Thankfully we are able to rekindle our relationship later and clearing all the misunderstandings between us, ofc when my mom works overseas.

But also their least favorite child lol

@@nicoletrudell2065 I’m the least fav,middle,most fav child at the same time then

Oh my what is wrong with some people. Love yourself sweetheart and reject those who put you down.

As I was growing up, my mom kept on comparing me to Eva, my BFF who was also the top kid of our class. Then one day when I was at Eva's place, I overheard Eva's mom comparing her daughter to me! So you'd better check out what Elizabeth's parents tell her. It might be "Why can't you be like (your real name)?"