Hey I started following a month or two ago when my friend first found your channel and showed me. Your channel has done a world of good for her and I'm very thankful these videos exist. Whatever happens this weekend, you are a good person. It is a damn shame their transphobic behavior is putting you through this and I hope your coming out forces them to rethink their opinions.

Oh sweetie I wish I could give you a hug right now! I hope things go well with your family, and financial problems really suck. I'm glad you have good friends you can count on, and know that we love you and support you! Whatever happens with your family, it's not your fault. YOU are not hurting anybody, your Aunt's intolerance will be to blame if she can't accept this. You have to live your life and the people that truly love you will understand that. Please take care of yourself. You are a strong, beautiful woman and you can handle this!

Hang in there my friend! 😺

Who you ARE is not hurting anyone. Those who do feel hurt are not hurt by you. They have only been hurt by the culture that taught them to hate.

Family... oof. Yeah we never asked to be a point of contention, but we have to be ourselves first. For me, my extended family has shown support and isn't happy with my dad who wrote on FB that he won't call my Daisy cos my great grandmother Daisy and 'the family' would be 'most upset'. An aunt told me no one told him any such thing and she sent me old family photos of my namesake! So at some point there's probably gonna be a big blowup and everyone will have to take sides over me, and I know most of my siblings will be on our parents's side. And I worry about my mum's health which was already impacted once by anxiety ovet the 'unresolved situation'. When I came out and told her I don't like to be called my old name, she actually dropped a plate! Good news though, I had my 3 months E checkup yesterday and my numbers are going the right way and my E dose got increased! And I wore a dress to the appointment, my first time going out in one. (I have worn skirts out before.) Now I just need to figure out what to do with my life and get away from my parents. And probably have a good cry over lost relationships. I wish I could hope love wins out. Really hoping it's going better for you. Be strong for yourself and be kind to yourself. You deserve it! Edit seconds later: typo in the very first line :(

Please know one thing, sweetie. You are hurting NO ONE. They hurt themselves with their own hate and intolerance. They impale themselves on it and do so willingly. How anyone can't see what a wonderfully beautiful young woman you are is flat-out denial and beyond me. I'm so sorry for the fear and hurt you are going through. That THEY are putting YOU through. I would do anything to deflect that. Momma bear wants to protect you but she can only offer words.💔

Big virtual hug again. No matter how old you are coming out to parents is really hard. Personally I went and saw my dad and step-mum in boy mode with all intentions of coming out and somehow my dad ranted about a local transfemme, so I didn't. When they come to my town I then did it, and my step-up was awesome and she managed my dad really well .. he seems OK now. I was so freaked out, but in hindsight was just my mind being mean. I hope everything goes good with you .. Big hugs 🫂