kuv ntseeg li koj hais tias os, Kuv yeeg tsis xav hais phem, hais qhov tseem xwm os. Kuv tu2 siab hais tias peb hais neeg Hmoob txiv neeg tsis cev thia qhua thua lwm tus phooj ywg no. Tia 2 tseem yog neshais rau nxhoo , txhoj ua lis no hos.. Nws hnub ywg yau2 tau os. Hnub ywg lis nes tus nxhais 19 xwm es. Peb sawsdawm saib2 neej rau qhov kuv xam hais tias nes yog ib tub qauv zoo rau peb cov hluas. Thov cov nes saib nes cov phooj ywg es qhua qhia tsis xwm uas li no lwm os. Yog me nyuam nxhais xwm es nws yua uas tam tob lis cas os. I am disappointed to still see this happening even amongst the Hmong men in our commuty that we had watched and followed when we were younger to now. I understand Nxhoo is thier friend and he had already brought her to his home, but I wished Tub and their circle of friends would've still spoke some sense into Nxhoo at least. She is just a child, around the same age as Tub's daughter 19.. How is she even going to be able to bear all the weight of 2 children and a husband and in-laws? its so selfish and quite manipulative of this grown 40 year old man to take advantage of this little girls naivety. He would be arrested if he was here in the states. I hope yall do better and learn from this Nxhoo