Mr. man divorce this lady and go and do something important with your life

My Guy, this girl has her own plan, if she gets her way, after she's gone and get her so call PHD, this woman will dump you. If she refuses to comply with you and since there's no "Children" involve then it should be easier to get a divorce and move on.

Divorce her! She's only with you for what you can provide for her

Divorce this unserious woman ASAP and get a wife, life is uncertain and we need to watch our kids grow before we're old.

She is not in the marriage to this man. This man needs to run!

I don't blame him for asking for a divorce

She can still do her PhD. and have a child. I support the husband divorcing this woman. When she knows that she wants to do a PhD, why marry when she knows having a child will hamper it?

My brother let me advise wallahi divorce this nonsense and unapologetic woman. She doesn't love you. She has her plans. Please leave her and get a serious lady who is ready to settle down as a responsible married woman.

Pride is what is disturbing this girl. When she goes for PHD i doubt she will return to him

She is not ready for marriage, she is there for the comfort and financial support this man is offering her ; oga she will not come back after the master

Watching from London, this is the best decision for him.

Please my brother you’ve made the best decision of your life to divorce this woman. It’s not worth it to be fighting with her.

This guy don't have sense at all if u continue with this your wife your days are numberd

This lady is not serious. The husband may have another wife if possible.

Once she get opportune to travel out of Nigeria, Mr, forget about her. 😅😅😅

I am pained on her behalf 😢🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻

Please divorce her immediately. Her boyfriend is in abroad. She is not ready yet for marriage.

This lady is not sounding as if she knows what she wants. She is not ready to be married. My brother, FLEE FOR YOUR LIFE and GO FOR A SENSIBLE LADY. Viewing from Ohio, 🇺🇸

Guy Devorce this foolish Ashawo now, remember she want to travel abroad, if you continue with her, Omo is at risk of your life and destiny.

My friend that woman is not your wife, please if she's not ready to bear a child leave her because she has an agenda

Divorce her immediately, my man.

If this girl eventually decides to have a child, she will hate the child.

Please, them go their separate ways, because this lady is not ready for marriage. Not even apologetic, and call it a minor issue.

How does this lady want to do PHD with this her senselessness,😊😊😊 She is even in the wrong profession, A nurse that is suppose to give life but she is taking life, I cant imagine what would she have told or done to her client in a situation like this. Anyways, what attracts a person to his or her partner is a great determinant of the success or failure of such union.❤🎉

She’s sick 🤒 she needs help for REAL so because the pregnancy was just a couple of weeks it’s not a child and you removed it, it’s just blood 🩸 wow! This is evil and selfish because how kills there own pregnancy in a marriage?

Abeg divorce this fool She’s not ready for marriage

Oga this woman is playing games with you but it seems you're not getting it. I'm a married woman but support your decision 💯

You sure this child was yours. Time to divorce her

This lady is not ready

The girl sounds so immature

Bro, divorce her, she is not really in love with you. She has hidden plans.

My guy don’t waste your time move on , please this girl have several guys she is dating and plans to run away with one of them.

Mr Ben this lady must be sick. Please she is not ready for marriage

pls avoid her, she has plans to dump you if travels out. divorce her fast.

Divorce her. Period

This lady mean no good in your life bro act befor u regret later get your self a different wife and move on

You guys need to give up on this girl. She is not just ready for marriage.

Hi Ben,good question what is the solution. Please oga leave this hopeless girl and move on.

She is very unserious. She has her plans, i am sure she will leave you as soon as you send her abroad. She doesn't love you, she's after your money.

She is not even remorceful

I hope this gentleman act fast b4 it get too late.. this woman has no plan to be with you.

This babe knows what she's doing. She de use una catch cruise 😂😂😂. Wetin she won do don de are mind already. She's not a going to change. It's best to go for a divorce and have ur rest of mind.

The worst thing that can happen to anyone is when they are deceiving urself and you think you are deceiving others. In old age she will know what she did to herself.

My guy you have taken the right step. Pls stand by ur fit. Leave this Yaye girl my blood is hot hear .

Okay if the girl is not ready to give a child so is simply quits the marriage because you are not getting younger

For my own understanding I think this lady is ready for this marriage.

This lady is not ready for marriage

People don't understand that once you get pregnant it is a soul from the moment of conception. In 97 i lost my pregnancy of two weeks and I saw cells already formed. In 2003 i miscarried a 6 weeks pregnant gestation. And it comes out it was already formed with where the eyes and legs were going to be. And i was doing my nursing degree that's why I had the guts to look at it. As a nurse she should understand it's not just blood

I support the husband 200 percent

Oga divorce this lady and move on else she will divorce you when her plans materialize. She is using you for ride till her plans fall through.

MR BEN, DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. A FETUS IS CALLED "JUST BLOOD" 😮😢

Stephen is not READY for marriage responsibilities Si she putting pillow on her NAKED LAPS

Tomorrow I will see this man on Chiamaka's page acting as a single man

Go you don't want to go, enter you don't want to enter

This guy is an option. She is a gold digger.

My guy that’s the best decision you’ve made since she’s not ready yet for marriage. My sister there’s no time to waste having baby’s as you can be going to school to obtain a PHD and making babies. Nothing stops your aspiration and I commend you for that educational goal but be reasonable my sister. Watching from New York.

How is this olodo going to do phd when she act like she does not have sense

SHE IS NOT A MOTHER

Some lady's are crying 😭 asking God to bless them with a child. Are you're here telling your husband that you're not ready to give him a child

I will not even bring this issue to Ben Cash!! Honestly

Man ,you are not married

My brother stop wasting your time with a lady who doesn't understand what life is about. File for the divorce and walk away quickly Where do you guys pick these kinds of ladies as a wife without vetting. Trust is 100% broken ...she has zero remorse

Oga, this girl dey marry herself...

That gal is evil what makes marriage to work out is baby .

My brother if you love you life give her divorce immediately haw can you wait 7 years before she can bear a child for u

Please man divorce this lady or you have children outside . This lady will shock after finish her school. Look that three more by the time you will be 60 year , mr man run or regret this marriage

Am telling you she has her own plan. She does not love you at all, shes just there for the money. She just want to make use of your wealth

That woman is possessed and has blood in her hands already.

Ben Cash advice not to divorce is wrong, let the guy his way , this girl has a personal plan ,

You can't serve two masters is either you are in marriage or you are doing your PhD simple as a single woman.

understand me!!!

Yes you are a VERY WRONG CHOICE HE MADE. I pray that God will show him mercy and give him his own wife again because you terminated his own pregnancy unless the pregnancy is another man's. My brother for this her attitude attitude here please THINK AGAIN ABOUT THIS LADY. SHE IS BEING MANIPULATED BY OUT SIDE FORCES.

She won't even come back to the man if she leaves Nigeria

Cash...for married woman to MURDER the child of the husband, the marriage has definitely broken down irretrievably... she is completely unserious and unremorseful... she's prideful and annoying...the world DOES NOT revolve round her. OGA MOVE ON...she will do worse later 🙄🙄🙄

Let this lady go and don't finance her PHD. If she go away don't stay in her life and support her she will not come back to you. Please get a divorce and marry someone else who want children. She married this guy to use him.

Divorce her and let her carry on her so called masters

She's not ready to be a mother, in this case he will explain tire but she won't change her mind, a married woman dressing like a slay queen.

Guy leave this woman and go and look for ur wife she is using u to pursue her career a lot is about to unfold she didn't consider giving u even one child. Let her go to pursue her career then when she is ready for husband she will now go and buy one. I see no submissiveness and respect. Guy run ooooo she have someone in waiting.

Beautiful woman I believe when you do not want to have kid please stay to your parents house. She feels like making a mistake marry him. Bro she will never love you, it is not a minor issue. From USA

Woman obey your husband and obey the marriage creed.

😂😂😂😂 the nonsense of this generation will never end

This is not marriage material

People are wicked! Why agree to divorce? Both under God can not remarry unless one party dies. That means living separated without love unless they come together and continue their marriage.

She has an agenda and once she gets it she gone.

She have a spiritual husband or someone she wants to get married too

Must you travel abroad to get PhD or do you have another plans overseas. Do you know how many children God gave you that you are flushing the one that came in.

She is getting attention outside just let her go. Or will regret having her later

U na waste time. Divorce her bcos she's not submissive

How many videos this guy wan dey

All about marriage is children

That girl knows very well what she is doing, she married you , to support her go aboard for her phd , I think she is in competition with you man. I do not trust her , just divorce has piece of mind, find another woman who’s ready to have a family

This man almost day all the chenilles

Divorce her because After her p.h.d she will divorce you and you will be in pain so bro save your life

Why you people try to get advice from these bloggers, these bloggers have no sense all they think about is forgive. Everything is forgive, forgive what about that man feeling. That woman think that it is easy to go to school abroad, she don't know that she will not live in any one home for free therefore she has to have a full-time job to pay her bills. She will get the shock of her life. I have been a registered Nurse in New York for the past 25 years, someone is talking nonsense in her head. This man should let her go and don't allow her to use him and leave him. Good luck to her, I hope that she come to New York where one room cost about $1200 and you share kitchen and bathroom let me see how she will pay for PHD and have money to take care of her self.

Mr man run oooh, hmmm

This man again. Now in the 3rd relationship. Ben Cash why are you people using actors?

Why does Ben Cash feel like her should be making decisions for his clients? When his client makes a decision, why is he telling them that is not an option? Is it his decision to make? Ben Cash, you are not part of the marriage. You are not a professional marriage counselor. Leave your clients to make their own decisions. This girl is not ready for marriage, muchless children. Please stop forcing people to stay in marriage they are not happy in. This woman is very immature.

Someone's son! Hmmmnn 😢

Bén Cash, it is only you that understand what you are getting at!! This girl will leave this man immediately she travels out and I ask Cash, will you forgive yourself? In Africa child is the major thing .

This lady isn't ready for marriage, and it's all about her. Mister, please don't let this lady bring a child into this world at this time because the child will suffer with this lady. Ben Cash, let that guy go find someone more mature and ready to be married and give this mam kids