You do know these can be scheduled ahead of time right? Even so, Dr. Grande is amazing.

Knock it off already. He's got dozens of videos in the can ready for upload. Get a clue.

Do you really think that he filmed, edited, uploaded and released this on Christmas Day??? He probably does a week of videos on the weekend, uploads them, then sets a release date for them throughout the week.

Why are you all being so nasty about a lady complementing the Dr? 😳😳😳😳😳

Why ? Inferiority complex 😂😂​@@hattyburrow716

I think that ship already sailed! Them kids we will be hearing from them on the 11 o’clock news

Those kids are 29 and 25 now.

It’s really a terrible experience

​@@lostandfound5145 😂

Can only blame yourself

@@KanyeKetchup if someone is trying to kill you the blame goes to the person being evil. And it’s almost never as easy as waking up one day, realizing that your partner is a psychopath and you need therapy and an escape plan and then coming up with that in just a few hours’ time. Especially when children are involved. You have to be very smart when you find yourself in that situation. You can think you’re clever and flippant and funny but I pray none of the people you love find themselves in that situation. Leaving is the most dangerous thing an abuse victim can do.

@@lostandfound5145 It sounds like you have firsthand experience. And I am sorry if that is the case. How horrible. I pray for your soul to heal.

@Many people consider infidelity the ultimate betrayal. One thing is for sure: It destroys trust. Things will never return to the way they had previously been.

@@DH-ve5bl My father was NOT unfaithful.

The narcissist was killed though?

@Annenigmatic. I was talking generally. I was not making a comment about your father.

@@MrTangent No, she abandoned me & my father and lived out the rest of her life across the country. I asked repeatedly to visit, but I never saw her again.

Howd u post this 6 months ago

Needlessly nasty….exactly!

​​@@GrannySoupLadleThe video was released six months ago to patreon members?

Alliteration!

Ahh there's no negotiating with a narcissist!!!

Nah, the moral is not to cheat on anyone you are in a committed sexual relationship with, and open marriages are an invitation to divorce., or worse. . . It is interesting how often murder victims whose spouse eventually is found to be behind their murder, have premonitions about, suspect that it may occur. They may talk to friends or family, but they don't leave, too often. Of course, getting out can be logistical ordeal, and change in general can be hard. I hope people can somehow find the resources and energy of focus to get away from others who they intuit are so malicious as to harm them in the way they are being foretold within them selves may occur. What a tough spot to be in for them! Crimes of passion. Maybe the moral is not to marry anyone unless you know both yourself and your spouse- to- be very, very well. Or, in addition, learn to identify narcissistic traits in people in general when you are young. Almost everyone has an ego. Be committed to the idea and practice of innocuousness as much as possible. Do not confuse love with sex. Sex is a primitive drive, and it is very strong in many people. Be responsible. Be damn sure you don't procreate with narcissistic people. It is interesting that before Dr. Grande started producing these true crime expositions, in some earlier videos he tried to teach about the dangers of narcissism. I think it is worth relistening to, but I can't recall its title. I wonder why Dr. Grande would post such a negative story on Christmas? Merry Christmas and every day matters. Joy and awareness to all.

I thought it was, if you actually love and respect your partner, don't betray them in the most painful way possible.

@@johnl5350 "if you actually love and respect your partner, don't murder them" FTFY

Leave if you feel your life is threatened..

you're a cheater

Yes, and you should also have the fortitude to leave your partner if you're the cheater.

Orrrr, just don’t commit serious crime. You can always get back legally. Social suicide by cheating, cause trust issues with their business partners, etc.

​@@alukuhitohe cheated too, and didn't leave either

@@reneegardner2286He should've left as soon as he knew she cheated. He was a stupid cuck to stay with her.

I agree as to not accepting something that can ever be clean. However, there is a biblical duty for a man to separate from a treacherous wife. He can't sleep with her after she has been with another man. It would defile him, his whole house and the land he lives on: Dt. 24:4.

Yes, but SHE wanted to end the marriage but HE wanted to her to stay SOLELY so he could have revenge by psychologically torturing her. She's may be a cheater, but he's a psycho and a murderer. If we're looking for an innocent party here, it's clearly her.

@@klauswigsmith ??? Nobody is innocent in this situation.

@@klauswigsmithno. There are two crimes. She committed infidelity, which is despicable. And he is a murderer. Which is a separate league of despicable.

@@klauswigsmithidk why people kill their cheaters either just walk away or cheat on them back. I had an ex in 2011 that cheated on me with a friend of mine so I cheated on her back with a cousin of hers that she hated, then I just broke up with her. She almost drank herself to death but I didn’t lay a finger on her. 🤷🏻‍♂️

@@peaceunion5316 cheating is bad, but it's not a crime.

She wasn't blind she was scared. She knew it was him but behaviour like that isn't enough to keep him locked up for long (if at all). Once he got out he'd go after her and she knew it. It was safer for her to deny it.

@@Floridafanatic28and it didn’t help that she relied on him financially and she may have felt that he’d hurt their son even if she survived a divorce. Unfortunately, her bet did not pan out. Poor woman and her poor sons.

Being jealous because your wife loves and dotes on your son is vile all by itself. If only she had divorced him then found a new partner, maybe none of this wouldve happened.

Or don't use antifreeze. Ethylene Glycol. once odorless and tasteless, was reformulated to contain a substance that makes it unpalatable and detectable.

She probably tried to get a divorce multiple times but she was being abused and manipulated by her husband. It's not her fault that she was murdered.

Her letter was not admitted Round 2 because it was too prejudicial (damning to Mark) and also, because defendants have the right to face their accusers, and Mark couldn’t face Julie given the fact that she was dead.

@@stlounsbury OK thanks for the info👍

Somehow that does not seems right to me. If the document could be verified as for as handwriting or DNA it should have been admitted as evidence, IMHO.

@@denniscrannie1126 I agree sounds odd. Murderers face trial all the time when their victims are dead. Maybe the lawyer found some legal loophole?

I thought death bed confessions were allowed? It probably has to be done in a certain way I guess?

People have been killing cheating partners since the dawn of humanity.

@@alukuhito probably even more often when there was no divorce available... and when investigation methods were very primitive

Isn't the plural of cactus "cacti"?

@@angelawatson1594 “The plural of cactus can be either cacti (from the Latin plural) or the conventional English plural cactuses.” Cactuses sounds better to me. I’m not a big fan of Latin when I don’t need to use it.

@@tracyking5945 great to know. I was taught UK English and that was always in my tests, along with the plural od " hippopotamus". 😉

Saw a MSM ridiculous "climate crisis!" story of huge cacti in such as AZ where temps have ALWAYS soared in the summers- and they were implying that "the world is on fire!" as per their usual ridiculous fearmongering & their proof of this was these huge cacti were DYING out there as a result. Truth was that the one dead cactus 🌵 they showed had rotted from the inside because the woman who's yard it was in was CONVINCED it needed tons of water to survive & she killed by flooding it every day to "save the planet!". The MSM broadcasted this stupid story as proof of their claims of the world being on fire. Nevermind in the desert these particular cactus live decades out there at the mercy of the desert nature, surviving on their adapted root systems FOR that climate. It's so infuriating & damaging when these fearmongering lies cause ecosystems to fail, and the Green Dealers regularly DO destroy ecosystems with their "cures".

This was before medical records were protected against improper disclosure by HIPPA .

Yes, very strange. I wonder if that is only Mark's statement and not what really happened.

Yeah, that really bothered me too. And Ambien is a dangerous drug. Added to Paxil she could have been zombified. Totally irresponsible.

Yeah I never heard of a doctor prescribing anything without examining the person. Very weird.

Justice? She shouldn’t have cheated!

@@frogmantoad8110so cheating is a capital offense????

​@@frogmantoad8110cheating doesn't constitute death and if that's what you truly think you are a psycho and you need to see a therapist

@@alisonsonderfan7576only to idiots

​@@frogmantoad8110men cheat all the time. you leave, you don't kill

Doubtful. Unless they're very bored, they scheduled the upload for Christmas.

Be very careful and take your feelings seriously. Julie also prayed she was wrong.

OMG be safe

Run!!!

I love this!!! From now on let's call it Grande Time❤ Dr Grande is one of my favorites on here❤❤

Dead men tell tales with forensics...

That's what I thought. Of course his lawyer couldn't cross-examine the author of the letter. His client had killed her....

They must not have had any other family. How sad.

I can't think of anything worse 😢

Agree that in theory, it seems to fit the wicked step mother scenario. But truth is often stranger than fiction. In a situation with no easy choices, who's to say she could not provide the least traumatic environment for those poor kids.?

It's like a Lifetime movie premise

Holy moly. How did you know? Glad you had that sense to keep your baby safe

That’s so interesting sounds like a precognition. It saved your son, good on you for acting swiftly

What the?! How good are instincts!?

Holy smokes, I’m so thankful you are so clever and perceptive and got away from that monster.

Wow! Thank god you got away. Never a reason for a large life ins policy for a baby

Definitely

No need to torture yourself. In the hospital we get an hour window, 30 minutes on either side of the scheduled time, to give the medication. If it’s due at 9, we can give it from 8:30 to 9:30. If you’re waking up 20 minutes early your pain isn’t under control. You want to get ahead of pain and then stay on top of it.

Hope your tooth infection clears up soon! Happy Christmas (even with a toothache).

​@@peacefreedom4930I never knew that. Great info thanks. Happy Christmas, btw.

I'm in a rehab hospital for my knee replacement surgery and if I don't ask for my pill they figure I don't need it. I usually sleep from midnight to 5 or 6, so I miss one pill, you don't get 2 when you wake up!

Get it treated - infections can kill.

Maybe if Adulterous behaviour wasn't present then Happy families would live long and prosper. Poor fella......was the kids even his???

@@statementleaver8095 I totally agree with what you say, however, murder is not the answer.

@@GigiRulesTheRoost And I 100% agree Murder is NOT the answer 👍

Most likely not

@@statementleaver8095I don’t agree with adultery but I get the feeling that marriage was on the rocks before she did that.

@@slowtheplanedown I am not wrong in what I am saying, you just dont understand it. Maybe you are just a "smart" guy that lacks experience.

@@SindriKrYou’re right. The awful personality and behaviors of the narcissist take any physical beauty they may have and just flush it down the toilet. They’re so unattractive after they’ve yelled at you repeatedly, cut you down, punished you, ignored you, harassed you, etc. They are their own and our worst enemies.

Yes they are very unattractive though they pretend to be charming, because they have to shock the victim with ugliness.

That’s his words. That may not be what happened.

Very calculating and cold. He is a psychopath

you'd have to experience domestic violence yourself to understand coercive control

Yay! Hope you had "a good day, mate!"

Jade Janx's case is completely different. In her case, it was a man she thought of as a father. There was the profound love and trust ..a completely different bond she felt for him. He started with hiding cameras and taking video of her when she was just 14. The cases are not even remotely like each other.

It does make sense actually, because everything was fine until she broke the trust. She's the one that destroyed the marriage. This often happens. One person in a couple cheats, the other tries to forgive and move on, but it's impossible, and they end up cheating too, because why not? They were betrayed.

@@alukuhitosmh your thinking is off. He made her stay. She wanted to leave. He didn’t forgive. He started having an affair. He stalked and harassed her with nudes😒. What didn’t you understand about this. Yes she made a mistake but he did the same thing for what 6 years then killed her.

@@QuilaGee Maybe he wanted to make her pay the ultimate price for what she did to him. Anyway, both of them should have ended the relationship once the cheating happened. She started it.

@@QuilaGee it wasn't about a mistake mate she gave herself to another man she let him claim her.My guess she was his adored wife which switched to another man's easy crumpet and conquest.Her lover was raw genuine desire Mark was a provider.He provided... problems for another man's fast fun

Note I have got to 1/4 of the video when I write this

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She started it. She should've ended the relationship when she cheated.

@@alukuhito but she wanted to, he threatened her to stay because of their son. And it still doesn't mean that cheating requires murder - why didn't his mistress kill her husband as well?

@@carnifaxxshe wanted to after she cheated. He was talking about before she cheated.

@@blackgold754 that makes no sense - why would he threaten her BEFORE she wanted a divorce? Just to be safe or what? And when the relationship is already over, the paperwork just finishes it, not starts. (Also I don't see your own rules being applied on him - and he cheated for a very long time, not one weekend in a whole lifetime.)

@@carnifaxx You replied to a comment that said "She should've ended the relationship when she cheated" to which you replied "But she wanted to". To that I simply tried to tell you that she wanted to end the relationship after she cheated on him, not before she. Also, yes I'm well aware that my rules do not apply to him because he cheated only after she cheated. I don't consider counter-cheating as bad in my book as the type of cheating started first by individuals. Although, I wouldn't recommend it cuz you gotta move on and it is unhealthy, I can understand why people would do that. He did that to make her feel how it's really like to be hurt by somebody that betrays you. Also interesting how you mentioned he cheated for a long time, not weekend, not days but a longitme. Like as if that somehow makes cheating good if it was done for a weekend or days lol.