"I asked for an increase and my boss said I was pretty & would appeal to rich men, so I quit"-Kiekie

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Жыл бұрын

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@marieokeke-macauley3739 Жыл бұрын

"There's a limit to what you ask your parents for" you see the thing about Kiki is the fact that she's effortlessly real. Very eloquent and speaks facts!! Gotta love her!

@somayinaayerite7643 Жыл бұрын

I love her sense of humour 😄

@olabisiolaleye6876 Жыл бұрын

She had to say her “Thanks”😂😂😂😂

@tobioluwadiran1644 Жыл бұрын

I got to know her through her talents, not from her background. Rich kid or no rich kid, this kid will do well eventually.

@foluolumideko7701 Жыл бұрын

This was fun to watch. People will hate whether or not you are from a privileged background. Bukunmi has paid her dues, and she is reaping the fruits. There are lots of people that are even more privileged but never got off the ground. Hard work + God's grace is all that matters.

@Redbow3 Жыл бұрын

Why’s this suddenly about Bukunmi? What’s the connection here? 🤔

@foluolumideko7701 Жыл бұрын

@@Redbow3 Kiekie's name is Bukunmi.

@Redbow3 Жыл бұрын

@@foluolumideko7701 for real 😧? I thought she’s Kikiola, Okiki, Kikiope or something of the sorts, moreover I thought you were referring to Bukunmi Oluwashina with ur comment. I apologize for my assumption.

@joyewoma Жыл бұрын

@@foluolumideko7701 ohh really

@tranquilmomentswithme7643 Жыл бұрын

Kiekie 😂😂 amazing human

@theajaoalimat Жыл бұрын

People will always talk bcus Rich kid or not, KieKie is hardworking and has paid her dues. She deserves all the flowers❤️

@drnjayy 2 ай бұрын

We all love Kiki, gorgeous, principled, classy,witty, funny and multi talented

@nkemnwabugwu5152 Жыл бұрын

Kiekie is such a hard worker and so talented and beautiful.

@lawracleslp1808 Жыл бұрын

It is never the same . We all need to stop thinking that we know what it means to come from a poor background . When you hustle as a rich kid, it is from a different mental state from that of the poor kid . It is not about obvious similarities in hustle and push - it is about the mental origin that is propelling the push . For example : a poor kid will never leave a job because of the comment of her boss as long as she is not forced to do anything . Her reaction was that of a typical rich kid with a sense of value and few steps up the Maslow ‘s hierarchy of needs . Where would a poor kid get millions for a TV show ? All we need to say is “yes I hustled , but I know the experience is different for the poor kid and I will never understand “. Simple ! And move on. It is an uncomfortable answer but we all need to get use to it. Well done girl.

@Msmalomo Жыл бұрын

Who told you a poor kid won’t leave because of what their boss said? That you don’t know of any doesn’t mean there are none

@brownchocolate7120 Жыл бұрын

You are so right. Her mind set alone is different because of her rich background. If you have ever experienced something you can't talk about it. Poverty no bi your mate

@sheiswisdom1 Жыл бұрын

I see your perspective and all but Omo I am not a rich kid o but I can leave a job beacuse of a comment that down plays my effort.

@asantewaaagyemang4988 Жыл бұрын

You're right! The poor would only leave when he/she has other options. If not, you would have to endure. The experience is truly different from a kid with a rich background hustling. A rich kid can stay home looking for better opportunities and would still be fed. But a poor kid, need to make do with what he/she has while pushing for better opportunities.

@saranghae2808 Жыл бұрын

@Tosin Malomo hi there, "poor" has levels. Besides, the point is that you should acknowledge your privilege. Privilege makes a significant difference, even from a mindset perspective like someone else said.

@lifewithniffy Жыл бұрын

Kiekie is so funny...even when saying serious stuffs

@kunuprecious5536 Жыл бұрын

This video touched me deeply. People imagine that if you are comfortable or rich that your life is perfect. Honestly, it's far from the truth. Life isn't easy for anyone.

@bobbysamson211 Жыл бұрын

I just have to say Chude makes these interviews flow effortlessly. 🙌🏾

@theajaoalimat Жыл бұрын

Oh my Goodness. There is no one without Thier own Story to what they have achieved. I am so happy for KieKie. She deserves all these recognition she is getting now. She is so hardworking and I love her so much😍😍😍

@nneomaogbonna9472 Жыл бұрын

I love Kiekie and everything she represents😁well done girl.

@amamansaafriyie Жыл бұрын

This was genuinely refreshing and beautiful to watch. I love kiekie. She’s just a breath of fresh air.

@kurajosariemen0991 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful with brain helps a lot…I love watching and listening to KieKie😊❤

@klarallowely2326 Жыл бұрын

Kiekie went through a lot and didn’t give up because of those setbacks ❤❤❤ she laughs about them today

@bison7664 Жыл бұрын

Lovely interview

@momoftriplets4392 Жыл бұрын

So fun to watch

@ericking3459 Жыл бұрын

Great interview🎉🎉🎉

@suliyatrasaq2936 Жыл бұрын

Fun watching the interview

@omopriscilla3535 Жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you 🤗🤗

@the_live_in_podcast Жыл бұрын

You spoke well Sis❤

@tonybee2.2 11 ай бұрын

This is so enlighten

@chiolaschopchop792 Жыл бұрын

This is so inspiring thanks Kiki and mr chude

@kingzina Жыл бұрын

Oga Chude 🙌

@blossomchinaka1167 Жыл бұрын

Kiekie is just so much FUN to watch and listen to!😊🤗

@olayemiolasoji9565 Жыл бұрын

Kie kie is so funny😂😂. I love her

@emmanueloluwaseye1302 Жыл бұрын

This is so satisfying to watch!, welldone kiekie.............

@preciousimhangbe5410 Жыл бұрын

This video is the most satisfying I have watched … hilarious and sensible

@boluchildspecialist Жыл бұрын

I love, love Kiekie. She is so amazing 😘

@oluwatosin1287 Жыл бұрын

I love this woman and I appreciate your growth

@sarahnwankwo8868 Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed this. Kiekie is such a refreshing soul.

@kojoagyekumboateng1997 Жыл бұрын

She speaks so well!!!!!!!!!

@Thenaijamom Жыл бұрын

Love love kiekie

@omolarafajana934 Жыл бұрын

Keep winning dear🎉

@charlesogun Жыл бұрын

Kiekie, always so natural

@greatmindstudios Жыл бұрын

Kiekie is determine honestly ❤

@lifeonarollwiththeomonose Жыл бұрын

Nice 😅 Kiekie ❤ Her story wows me every single time

@jexbling Жыл бұрын

I love Kiekie so much 😍

@shekusandraiyop5664 Жыл бұрын

It was inspiring watching, my take him even the privileged we admire have their own challenges and low moments. Be patient and persevere 📌

@boluchildspecialist Жыл бұрын

You need to see the I jumped into the video, seeing Kiekie 😃😃

@anuoluwaolaleye7786 Жыл бұрын

For reall🥺

@247tonytipon Жыл бұрын

I love her so much 😍💯👌

@Letstalkwithmira Ай бұрын

Beautiful story ❤

@Chuby_ubesie Жыл бұрын

It's not a crime to come from a rich family

@Ladespur Жыл бұрын

Behind every glory story full ground

@serahdonald Жыл бұрын

Finally someone said it

@missblessedbellablessed Жыл бұрын

Love her❤

@georginaallename5126 Жыл бұрын

I love kie kie so much ❤️🥰😍. She is multitalented and I love her vibe 😍😍😍😍. She is so hilarious 😆 also. She is a good dancer also. Her page and her content is everything 👍😍.

@oloridestiny3251 Жыл бұрын

I do do, it didn’t do 😂😂😂😂

@dentaldiscjockey8405 8 ай бұрын

I love hearing her speak

@CherishedNike Жыл бұрын

I love Kikie she is a strong black woman that had value for herself. Greatest Bowenite. ❤❤❤

@bettytheladygod7899 Жыл бұрын

I'm inspired

@estherkomolafe99 9 ай бұрын

Kiekiee is a vibe😂

@olufunbiomolayo9892 Жыл бұрын

I really love KieKie. Keep winning Sis

@mfonrobin9019 Жыл бұрын

My favorite Actress

@ms.bar_bie_lala Жыл бұрын

I love you kiekie

@user-nr9bj3xr3m 4 ай бұрын

Love you kiekie❤❤❤

@jhules Жыл бұрын

Nice one! I love her diction and how she switches to the funny accent lol ❤❤❤❤

@Moren_chronicles Жыл бұрын

All I can say is Werey ni kiekie 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@imemelda8391 Жыл бұрын

She's intelligent ❤

@adeolaracheal8286 Жыл бұрын

I really like her😊😊😊

@Tommy0507 Жыл бұрын

I love kiekie

@anuoluwaolaleye7786 Жыл бұрын

Kiekie🥺❤️

@Fortunate_crown Жыл бұрын

Wow! What actually shocked me in this session with KieKie is her accent and the way she speaks. I never knew she is this fluent - the pronunciation of the words, the lilt her voice has, is really beautiful. Maybe this is because of the KieKie I know... 😂😂

@arikeid.8896 Жыл бұрын

She's very educated with a masters degree. She attended a private uni in Nigeria and went to the UK for her masters. She's just very goofy, don't judge her by her funny accent.

@nietah325 Жыл бұрын

She's eloquent 🎉🎉

@joy_oo Жыл бұрын

@@arikeid.8896 She is indeed because I even attended a private secondary school with her

@tytobieola2766 Жыл бұрын

Wheels on steels. That when we been following kiekie😘

@angelhansonndoho6069 Жыл бұрын

I knew she’s a rich kid, that her skit with miraj , where the girl said “ you father bought benzema for you “ got me thinking about her background

@moradeyoolowoniyi3853 Жыл бұрын

I just say love kiekie 😂😂❤❤❤

@wumlekwumlek1887 Жыл бұрын

Bless you 🙏 ❤kiekie ❤❤😂😂

@Zobaokonkwo5302 Жыл бұрын

🥰❤Kiekie of lagos

@aderemiadebowale4983 Жыл бұрын

Is it my father that is helping me to write content and also act it out. Well done kiekie. You could have chosen to be spending your parents money till you enter your husband house but you choose to hustle it out on your own legitimately. God bless you indeed and make your hustle pay

@hopepeace8060 Жыл бұрын

It's better to be hungry than sell one's soul.

@tolual3986 Жыл бұрын

Thumbs-up kie kie

@obinnawilliams9436 Жыл бұрын

Can tell she’s such a sweet person.

@olumidejesutofunmi4503 Жыл бұрын

Kiekieee🎉🎉🎉

@teegirl859 Жыл бұрын

I love kiekie so much 😂😂😂

@b_rightnkiru394 3 күн бұрын

Kiekie ❤❤

@davidbill01 Жыл бұрын

I love you Kiki see principle. I left that place I just pray I will stand on my principles like you intelligent woman...

@kiv_daniels Жыл бұрын

So if your parents are rich, you shouldn’t aim high in life? Because people would give the credit of your success to your parents. Hmm

@Truly_Mul Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@jgirl3975 Жыл бұрын

My sister hustling as a rich kid is different o. Let's not get it wrong. But anyways only God can make ppl great. We all get his mercies on different levels. Baba God abeg help me so that my children will not start where I started. Amen

@iyarejacinta6716 Жыл бұрын

We want the complete vedio please chude

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@iyarejacinta6716 Жыл бұрын

@@WithChude if I had my money I would have subscribed since

@Lightbearer0001 Жыл бұрын

This was so concisely inspiring. I can't wait to see the whole version

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@cynthiaokeke1041 Жыл бұрын

K to the I to the E❤

@seunadeniyi8657 4 ай бұрын

She should be crowned Drama Queen😂😂

@immaculatetola 11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@Ifusheart Жыл бұрын

❤

@ComfortAbraham-pb2zt Жыл бұрын

Sho ti mo kie kie

@zion4630 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@akeem7227 Жыл бұрын

Even rich kids dey do olosho n hookup. Its the mentality tbh. Thanks for sharing kiekie

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 9 ай бұрын

The privileged background I see is her disciplined family Her parents asking for a proposal and not dishing out money for frivolous requests were her stepping stones. This helped her to learn to stop and think and become responsible to chart her own course Some hungry parents borrow to give their kids anything they ask for and end up raising kids that have no drive Even a poor parent can replicate this principle Wealth is a fruit. Before we beef rich kids we should go and find out what seeds their parents planted and replicate it if we desire wealth Money does not know who is from a rich or poor background,if you plant the seeds that bring it,it would answer After all we have more people who are wealthy today thay came from dirt poor backgrounds

@mfonrobin9019 Жыл бұрын

You're beautiful

@florenceflourish6367 Жыл бұрын

Na Person go introduce person to person to have open doors oo... I gerrit. Kiekie, fine girl....This interview make sense.

@jerrygodleads9772 Жыл бұрын

I’m at a stage where I need to quit my job but you know what the fear of leaving a job and not having another one does. In fact, I had to pause on the job seeking spree I was on because it occurred to me that I really do need a new job. I need to start doing what I’ve been wanting to do. Any job that I’ll work 6 days a week is not for me anymore! I want to work only 3 days a week for someone else and put the rest 4 days for myself and my God. I keep hearing people advise me to not resign yet until I get another job. That’s the norm but that norm is annoying to me when I know that it’s should be the main dream I should be pursuing if the job is not it. Chude and Kiekie , what would be your advise? Ps: I’m not from a privileged background but I’ve been able to save up a little to take care of myself while I’m building my fashion brand.

@elizabethnwaokolo8088 Жыл бұрын

So I personally, left my job in 2015, I had no new job, no money. I left the job cos my pay was so meager. People advised me then not to leave, how would I cope etc, but I was fed up, it felt like if I didn't leave the job, my enemy was going to die, so I told them not to worry about me and I will not beg them for money(cos maybe that was their fear) and I will survive. I ventured into selling of petty things, it wasn't easy at all, but I was determined not to be dependent on anyone financially. Fast forward to now, I run an online jewelry business that fetches me atleast over 1m monthly......plus I relocated out of Nigeria last year, so I still run my business that's in Nigeria. It all boils down to determination....follow your heart, seek God's blessings plus be very determined.....if you know u r lazy, just keep doing what you are doing.... determination to work and achieve your desires result should be your focus and work on it ...

@obayomibukola6424 Жыл бұрын

The story of my life presently

@FrancesUchechukwu-tj7fl Жыл бұрын

@@elizabethnwaokolo8088 Thank you for this response

@sylviaharriet3673 Жыл бұрын

Pray about this well and ask God to direct you Just know that quitting the job won’t be easy but with persistence and consistency God will make a way for Pray and follow your heart.❤

@promiseeweh5969 Жыл бұрын

I recently resigned my job too, obvious reasons as yours , I know this not what I should be doing , I need more time for me and to grow my relationship with God. I don't want to come to a nervous breakdown because of a job that they really don't care about your mental and physical wellbeing as long as you can come through for them. I have to be sane enough for my daughter too.. it's not been easy these last two months but I'm running a home lesson for few pupils and I'm getting by also planning on going for my masters abroad. I have strong faith this is achievable, I don't know how to raise the money yet but I'm very positive and hopeful. So yes I know you did the right thing once your heart is no longer there it will be tormenting for you and frustrating. Just focus and be determined you will achieve more and build your own niche

@jamieolowolayemo7641 Жыл бұрын

I love kiekie so much! 😊💋 brilliant and sexy❤

@belthaayuktanyi8729 Жыл бұрын

I like her but the interview wasn’t that interesting 😏

@adetorooluwadamilola4320 Жыл бұрын

Hater

@godisgood9099 Жыл бұрын

Tell Sophia who doesn't come from a rich background but wants to live the billionaire life. Using her uncle's name more than his biological children. Continue to set a good example Kiekie.

@goodnessnma7001 Жыл бұрын

Is it Sophia Alakija?

@Tunmhise Жыл бұрын

@@goodnessnma7001Momodu

@oriode2783 Жыл бұрын

Keikei I love you o, but you shouldn't have mentioned that part of indomie & egg and wanting to call daddy. If only I had such means growing up my life wouldn't be as fucked up and traumatic as it has been and still is now. My dear, I would have sold my soul for someone to show kindness such as your parents. I love you still. Keep going higher ❤️✊