I Confessed To My Wife After Bringing Her To The UK, She Couldn’t Forgive Me & Divorced Me

I Confessed To My Wife After Bringing Her To The UK, She Couldn’t Forgive Me & Divorced Me - Man

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@oneghana.9893 23 күн бұрын

The man is very intelligent about his choice of words he use to answer DJ Nyame. Carefully listen

@hisholiness2010 23 күн бұрын

A very intelligent and a smart father who loves his family and kids so much.His answers to all the questions are superb. Dj NYAAMI thanks for bringing this experience father here to share with us 🎉

@stevoo209 22 күн бұрын

in my 27 years, as a ghanian haven’t heard of any women divorcing in Ghana after they find out their men give birth outside marriage. The wife could even take the child just for the husband to be around home, this would have ended differently if the woman was still in Ghana. Am not supporting infidelity though 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

@user-ug7yp4tf8x 20 күн бұрын

Sit there I divorced mine , and got married 6 month after.

@veraassabea4594 20 күн бұрын

He cheated on his wife and had a baby outside of his marriage yet he's saying he doesn't trust his wife smh

@highlyfavoured5121 16 күн бұрын

@@user-ug7yp4tf8x😂😂😂😂 Dassal!

@highlyfavoured5121 16 күн бұрын

@@veraassabea4594Right?!? He should please help us make this make sense. 😂😂

@highlyfavoured5121 16 күн бұрын

@@user-ug7yp4tf8x😂😂😂Dassal!

@ginglesgiant8866 23 күн бұрын

He owned up to his mistakes and face the consequences. Very positive approach to handling and facing life challenges and looking after his children. Still going strong 💪. Keep trying until you get it right...*so be it*

@korkoreffon2921 23 күн бұрын

That woman is making excuses with that case, she might have a boyfriend in Ghana, the man loves her with the children, he could have married that woman, this man has worked very hard, the woman is wicked, is good he moved on

@marydonkor6619 23 күн бұрын

I have forgiven you in advance la... The fact that you were able to work things out for me to join you , confess paaaa de3, you are my ideal man wai❤

@donpetazaragomatuta9988 22 күн бұрын

Sorry for asking please are you the ex wife?

@RichealAmissah-uc4re 23 күн бұрын

The woman has regretted big time, i'm being honest because this is not any issue for it to course alarm

@phyllisakuoko8343 21 күн бұрын

Like seriously would the man also accepted the wife if he find out she gave birth to a baby with a different man ?Men stop justifying cheating pls

@randominterestingvideos4733 21 күн бұрын

@@phyllisakuoko8343why wouldn't he accept it if his wife had been abroad 10 yrs without a husband and she's been supporting him and the kids during those years? U dont expect someone to be faithful to u if u haven't seen the person in 10 yrs. Remember, everyone has needs that must be fulfilled. She should be happy qnd grateful he brought her to europe. Some men would've neglected their families

@phyllisakuoko8343 21 күн бұрын

@@randominterestingvideos4733love your submission but this might be only your thought what about the rest of

@randominterestingvideos4733 21 күн бұрын

@@phyllisakuoko8343 the rest of what? Will u wait 10 yrs for your husband in abroad if u saw more handsome men than him there and couldn't return back home during that time?

@phyllisakuoko8343 20 күн бұрын

@@randominterestingvideos4733 then have to accept the consequences

@abrahamniilartey6492 23 күн бұрын

He should have confessed to the woman when she was in Ghana.....#wisdom

@KwakuAmaniampongKyerefo 22 күн бұрын

✌🏽✌🏽

@donpetazaragomatuta9988 22 күн бұрын

She will have faked that it wasn't a problem till she reached there with him

@ashantiduchess6251 23 күн бұрын

So this guest cheated on his then wife and somehow the wife is a bad person because the husband brought her to England. How are ppl reasoning this days 🤦🏽‍♀️

@josico02 23 күн бұрын

😂

@abigailadu9978 23 күн бұрын

Ummm, not shocked, when men can do anything in our culture.

@yvonneacheamahsachie77 23 күн бұрын

He said nkrataa nti oooo but they wife should have forgiven him after he personally told her

@KUSZPREM 23 күн бұрын

Bo ho biom!!!! Hahaha

@robertagreenslade5434 23 күн бұрын

So should he have lied to his wife?

@dinaritatawiah3645 23 күн бұрын

I agree with him 💯 its always good to marry from your own people

@frankmills8713 23 күн бұрын

Sorry I’m not gonna bring any woman to America for any benefits.Find your own way and work on your documents cos I won’t help you.We all smart now so good luck to the men and women doing this stuff.

@reginaayisi-duodu6932 10 сағат бұрын

Abrokyere is not for men alone wea

@lydiaofori9686 22 күн бұрын

Nice interview Very honest , wise and smart man. Well spoken, cheer up life is short . Berma nsi nsuom ansa na wa"ham.👏👏👏👏💯

@razakmusah8050 23 күн бұрын

Never try to bring your current wife to UK,,,if you do so,,,then prepare for divorce

@MsStefy01 22 күн бұрын

Especially when u know u cheated on her

@victoriaalale8098 22 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂@@MsStefy01

@victoriaalale8098 22 күн бұрын

@@MsStefy01😂😂😂😂

@nanaaburokyiregyasehenetak1233 13 күн бұрын

Not all women are bad but 90% are will divorce with bad minds

@davidkrobea-asante5931 2 күн бұрын

Thanks for advice. Nonetheless, people are deferent. I am not going home anytime soon and as you know living abroad alone is difficult. Hooe it wont happen again.

@razakmusah8050 23 күн бұрын

Very wise Man❤

@ChristianAttor 9 күн бұрын

This man is awesome and wise❤ much respect to you, Sir. I have learned a lot ❤

@jameselliot2611 23 күн бұрын

men can cheat and still love his wife. If woman cheats, her love for the husband is dead. it is two different things. some men cheat just because of loneliness or for excitement, or pleasure or lust, but will still love his wife and keep his wife. If woman cheat or go behind her husband, it will be difficult for that marriage to continue, deep inside her the love for her husband is gone.

@OseiKojoAbraham-cu3cf 22 күн бұрын

You are very much mature person paaa

@D2047h 16 күн бұрын

🙄stop that silly justification. And what you said is not🎉 true. Your ego won't let you understand that women can do the same for loneliness and excitement. Let your woman do same and all hell will break loose. Don't do something you know you can't take when reversed.

@kingshomes8546 23 күн бұрын

🚨it’s good you confessed, but you should have done it while she was in Ghana and if she was ok to forgive before bringing her !!!. Most of time people unforgiving people like her you will investigate and find out she also probably cheated while living in Ghana anyways 😂

@kodomrichie4564 23 күн бұрын

Was thinking so😅

@Ghanadiaries 23 күн бұрын

Even if she did, she didn't bring a child home😂😂😂. I think it will be difficult to forgive most Ghanaian men when they cheat because they aren't romantic mpo😂😂😂😂

@hannahowusu-ansah2491 23 күн бұрын

You are right

@kodomrichie4564 22 күн бұрын

@@hannahowusu-ansah2491 hmmm

@patriciadaadi7962 23 күн бұрын

Some of these things you should hv assess ur wife first before telling her,some secrets are better send to the grave

@kingshomes8546 23 күн бұрын

Eii Patricia 😂😂😂. I guess we will never know yours

@nnsuromannsoocompanyltd4893 23 күн бұрын

He did his best for telling the truth from his own willingness but my brother should have read Micah 7:5 carefully before telling her

@patriciadaadi7962 23 күн бұрын

@@nnsuromannsoocompanyltd4893 that's where the assessment comes in,y3 wh3 kruni anim ansa na yama ne rice oo

@patriciadaadi7962 23 күн бұрын

@@kingshomes8546 yh silence is golden

@py20 23 күн бұрын

How do you hide your child till you die? You want him to be a dead beat father?

@iccgospel6349 22 күн бұрын

DJ Nyameee keep up the good work; that’s the nature of woman.

@KUSZPREM 23 күн бұрын

So this man left his woman for 10 solid years. Had an affair and had a kid on top of it. Yet, wonders why the wife couldn’t be understanding???😂😂😂😂 how would he feel if the roles were turned. The least he could have done was disclosed that to her in the early stages

@robertagreenslade5434 23 күн бұрын

If the roles were reversed, the man wouldn't be in the UK

@robertagreenslade5434 23 күн бұрын

You're judging him for being honest. Do you know what the woman did in those 10 years? Hear both sides before you conclude. Although your or my opinion both don't matter in his life lol

@jay_stack1270 22 күн бұрын

@@robertagreenslade5434😂

@randominterestingvideos4733 21 күн бұрын

He left his wife to cater for the kids but couldn't return for 10yrs. He took care of the kids and her needs during those times but his needs wasn't satisfied. He even brought her to europe. Most men wouldve neglected their families. U dont expect someone to wait for u 10 yrs and be faithful without his sexual needs being satisfied. If the tables had turned, I'm sure he'd understand. Maybe he wont continue the marriage but he also wont disrespect her wife like that for supporting him financially for 10 yrs.

@patb-d2264 21 күн бұрын

I am a woman but I have my own concerns about a married woman who claims celibacy for 10(!) years. 'Abrokyire-going' leaving spouses for long periods such as this brings about BIG ISSUES! At the end of the day, this unfortunate situation has a lot to do with our economic hardship and our individual ways of resolving them. Thank goodness the children are doing well with their education.

@peacesempare4855 23 күн бұрын

How can a child born in uk comes to ģhana to fight for dad's property?àfrica mentalities and properties

@kpakpooti1 16 күн бұрын

@@peacesempare4855 There is always two sides to a story, read between the lines

@evelynkyeremateng7744 16 күн бұрын

FOOLISH TALK, HOW DO YOU KNOW THE PROPERTIES ARE IN THE NAME OF BOTH THE MAN AND THE WOMAN?

@nanaaburokyiregyasehenetak1233 13 күн бұрын

Exactly bro African mentalities hmmmmm

@hannahowusu-ansah2491 23 күн бұрын

You should have told her when she was in Ghana.

@kofisikasika5603 23 күн бұрын

Men sometimes makes mistakes Oo ah …. Some ladies too are heartless

@salomeykoi8963 22 күн бұрын

Hmmmm@@kofisikasika5603

@kwameyb 22 күн бұрын

@@kofisikasika5603there is no guarantee in life abt anything. Most important is to be able to live with your decisions and if not try your best to make amends but for the rest move and like he said enjoy your life. That’s it

@geniusinvestorGH 23 күн бұрын

Sharp guy...I like his thinking and decision making

@lexisasiam279 21 күн бұрын

A whole life lesson learned in less than 1 hour , bless you DJ

@Winner6984 23 күн бұрын

If you are planning bringing your wife to join you in abroad just prepare your mind and spirit about divorce so that you don't get shock when it hits you!!Just prepare for divorce.Protect yourself and everything that you have.

@saneye_77 23 күн бұрын

Aswear

@thoamasakpalu4456 23 күн бұрын

How

@Timewilltell-kf3xo 23 күн бұрын

The truth is most women back home are still in marriage for survival, so once they get over here ,they are like village fowl that has been release from a cage

@yawagbesielias985 23 күн бұрын

Why bring her sef

@adamsobina1 22 күн бұрын

Hhmm God bless you for this advice

@gidaas 22 күн бұрын

He should have told the wife the truth before bringing her abroad. That way she could decide if she wanted to continue with the marriage or not. You can't judge her reactions after she joined you. Transparency is very important, no matter what the consequences might be.

@saneye_77 22 күн бұрын

She could pretend bcus of abroad

@nanasarfo3817 22 күн бұрын

You're very smart man. Similar thing happened to a friend mine.

@user-xj7sd4yh7l 22 күн бұрын

I think in the womans mind she divorced him already in Ghana before coming to Uk ,she wanted to come and find small fault so she can stand on it to make their divorce an open one

@jay_stack1270 22 күн бұрын

🤔 you’ve a point

@dianasiraa7454 21 күн бұрын

Which is small fault? Will the man forgive her if she had given birth for another man in Ghana before traveling?

@evelynkyeremateng7744 16 күн бұрын

FOOLISH TALK! WILL ACCEPT IT IF YOUR WIFE ABROAD COMES TO TELL YOU THAT HE IS HAVING A CHILD FOR ANOTHER MAN BECAUSE SHE NEEDED NKRATAA. STOP YOUR FOOLISH JUDGEMENT ON HIS FORMER WIFE!

@obengfamily2213 19 күн бұрын

You're a very honest person for accepting your mistakes. Lesson learned; we need to forgive one another and move on in life.

@vivianasante1313 20 күн бұрын

DJ Nyami I agree with your guest for his reason why he married from his hometown. I wish him good luck in his new chapter

@MaameDrowaa 22 күн бұрын

You made the greatest mistake for not telling her when she was in Ghana, that would have shown you her reaction, good or bad.

@dansoosei3006 19 күн бұрын

This man is very intelligent and wise....

@sandras-asante8252 23 күн бұрын

If a man cheats he expects forgiveness. But the other way doesn’t work. What would you have done if she had told you whiles you were away, she slept with someone. You cannot hurt someone and determine how she should cry/react. You really hurt her. There should have been another way to solve it. Regardless, I love how he’s a great and honest man. It’s unfortunate that he made the mistake with that illicit act. A broken home affects parenting a lot. The woman should be careful with how she’s handling her boy. School is very important. His family would have been just a beautiful one if it didn’t break up. He’s a great dad. He only messed up as a husband. I pray that all is restored soon. May God touch all hearts involved🙏

@KwakuAmaniampongKyerefo 22 күн бұрын

Fri hc kc !

@stevoo209 22 күн бұрын

⁠but ask yourself how many women divorce in Ghana after they find out their men give birth outside marriage…this would have ended differently if the woman was still in Ghana.

@sandras-asante8252 21 күн бұрын

@@stevoo209 that’s why he should have told her in Ghana

@nanaaburokyiregyasehenetak1233 13 күн бұрын

I don't know if you are a woman cheat on your husband and see

@user-xj7sd4yh7l 22 күн бұрын

Respect big man 💪

@johnboateng9027 22 күн бұрын

To be honest, some women are heartless.Aborokyire mu ns3m pii.Agya i salute you w'ate ,ayekoo. GOD will safeguard all your endeavors.

@salomeykoi8963 22 күн бұрын

If you had told her whilst in Ghana, you could have saved your effort and money for bringing her to UK. Sorry Mr guest but that was a slow move

@thebill8891 23 күн бұрын

You make big mistake You should have told her when she was in ghana and face the consequences whilst she was there Afterall she was in ghana and you had nothing to loose

@hannahowusu-ansah2491 23 күн бұрын

You are right

@irene4770 23 күн бұрын

It will make no difference, she would have divorced him after she arrived anyway

@AMANFIFARMS 23 күн бұрын

She will keep quiet when she’s in Ghana and once she arrives gives him the middle finger

@yawagbesielias985 23 күн бұрын

Why bring her in the first place.

@robertagreenslade5434 23 күн бұрын

Good point

@Adepadufie20 22 күн бұрын

The biggest compensation to forgive was the man to send her to UK...such a selfish woman 😢

@kpakpooti1 17 күн бұрын

Eeeh Men will justify their wrongs all the time period

@enoughisenough1478 22 күн бұрын

she have her owns plans famm 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@Jesse-po6xu 22 күн бұрын

You see some men? if it happens to be the other way round by hearing the wife was cheating in Ghana 🇬🇭 would he have forgiven her?

@jay_stack1270 22 күн бұрын

❤I SALUTE 🫡 THIS MAN ❤

@rassfigo6748 22 күн бұрын

I hope he makes the effort to talk to his ex wife. What he did wasn't right but one can also argue that the ex-wife was also just in her decision to leave marriage. Its tough but he needs to reach out to her for the sake of their kids.

@nanaboatemaa9022 21 күн бұрын

If he had told her whilst in Ghana, she would have had no problem with that, just because she wanted to come to Abrokyire.

@nanaboatemaa9022 21 күн бұрын

Man you made a good decision of not bringing your children.

@twumbemjamin4057 19 күн бұрын

I really like hw this man talk wow beautiful

@derek4698 22 күн бұрын

Inform her when she was still in Ghana and let’s see if she would accept for you to use that nkrataa to borga her or she will divorce you.

@nanayaw22 18 күн бұрын

DJ,until u live here,u won’t understand it.Who in Ghana will understand what goes on abroad?😊

@humphreyasamoah1169 23 күн бұрын

Very sad story but in all your wife didn't try at all because after having a kid with another woman you try your best as much as possible to bring her to the UK, this alone should tell her that you love her

@Ghanadiaries 23 күн бұрын

😂😂😂K)t) de3 ne bo dwe3. If the woman did the same, will you be writing this.

@humphreyasamoah1169 23 күн бұрын

Be honest which woman will do that travel to abroad find a another man give birth with the new man and later gather money and bring his first husband to abroad and moreover is not a sin to give birth with another woman according to our culture

@bobbyjones7428 23 күн бұрын

So from now on all should learn lessons from this story tell her while she's at home in ghana and see her reaction

@AMANFIFARMS 23 күн бұрын

@@bobbyjones7428she won’t say anything when she’s in Ghana 🇬🇭 buh once she comes she will grow wings

@MsStefy01 22 күн бұрын

He could have cheated without bringing another kid in the world

@michaelkusiampofo8390 21 күн бұрын

A lesson indeed,you shud know the kind of woman you are marrying very well,

@johndongo636 15 күн бұрын

Hi Mr. Asante, long time no see. I hope you're doing well. This is Nesto, Paa Kow's (Ice Tee's) friend. We used to live at Kentinkrono together. I'm also in the U.S. Nice seeing you again.

@davidkrobea-asante5931 2 күн бұрын

Nesto, longtime. Thank God we are alive and doing our best.

@yussifmukhtar8725 16 күн бұрын

I like this guy smart man

@TracyMartinez-ok6py 23 күн бұрын

Eiiii Fear women ooo hmmm

@isaacaddotei8042 23 күн бұрын

Woman saying we should fear woman. Hmmmmm. I have taken the advice one time. Thank you very much from the horses own mouth. 😊

@gladysmensah8505 15 күн бұрын

Dj ,it depends the contribution 21 years not qualify,contributions is 35 years

@saneye_77 22 күн бұрын

She is only looking for excuss to leave the man bcus of some bad influence

@nnsuromannsoocompanyltd4893 23 күн бұрын

Marry again thumbs up 👍 😅😅😅😅😅

@joanaagyapong4364 22 күн бұрын

Wowww, some women! women! women!...this woman will regret one day aahh, a man who did everything for you back home, knowing your husband was not having papers and even if he had done this not stsying with this baby mama, you couldn't forgive him to start freshly 😢. Be you sir and move strongly because life is a struggle but with this positive mindset you will get to your destination, all the best sir 🙏

@endtimepropheciess 23 күн бұрын

Today I'm early but chale fear them

@nanakay121 23 күн бұрын

Is he the son of the late Agya Ntow of akakye and apakye fame🤔🤔🤔

@yawboakye6708 23 күн бұрын

His Fante accent and looks resemble Agya Ntow

@bobbyjones7428 23 күн бұрын

😂 u

@jay_stack1270 22 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 I had the same thing in mind

@davidkrobea-asante5931 2 күн бұрын

No guys am not. Am fom Ashanti. Many people say that I speak like a fante growing up till now.

@weekendzieweekendzie5491 20 күн бұрын

The best decision was not to bring your children.

@VidaAppiah-hr7vc 16 күн бұрын

You are still handsome man

@mawunyokpogli 23 күн бұрын

So sad

@Adepadufie20 22 күн бұрын

That woman is very ungrateful ah

@richardnimako4725 23 күн бұрын

First to comment. Many problems everywhere.

@doreenboateng2531 19 күн бұрын

Cheating is not right but this man is honest. I will forgive you if you were my husband because there are men who live with their wife and still goes around to cheat. You were not around your wife for years.

@VidaAppiah-hr7vc 16 күн бұрын

Hmmm 3y3 asemooo

@kofisikasika5603 23 күн бұрын

Somebody sacrifice to get where he is to bring even if he that are u suppose to do that ahhh

@YawScott-fy2hc 23 күн бұрын

Fear women ooh fear them hmmmmmmm

@thoamasakpalu4456 23 күн бұрын

Hmmm

@damoahlydia1284 23 күн бұрын

Oh after Confessed to her.....hmm

@YawScott-fy2hc 23 күн бұрын

I will keep fearing women paaaa but their sweet mhom

@Ghanadiaries 23 күн бұрын

@YawScott-fy2hc Let the woman confess the same, and all of you will have different judgments.

@fredmag1310 23 күн бұрын

well..the second coming could me worse..make no mistake!..i reserve ma comments...

@leticiaoduro8645 21 күн бұрын

Hello Hello brother

@videoyoutube6881 22 күн бұрын

Be careful on your decision 😂

@sicklion2354 21 күн бұрын

Body no be firewood

@afuaowusuaa2865 18 күн бұрын

Evev though we have not listened to the other side , but the woman is shadow minded

@kwameghana5369 21 күн бұрын

DJ should have asked him of the tribe of his ex wife

@davidkrobea-asante5931 2 күн бұрын

She is an Akan Ashanti lady.

@queenriegnsadepa8727 22 күн бұрын

My boyfriend in Uk did the same thing to me he want to Ghana to impregnate another lady and still talking me till one year later and he comfim to me i should forgive him this what he did when he want to Ghana I told him I won't forgive him if it my husband I can forgive him but not my boyfriend

@DanielAdusei9 22 күн бұрын

Good decision.. uk here is not for the weak one 😢

@queenriegnsadepa8727 22 күн бұрын

@@DanielAdusei9 it hurts but I have to let it go 😢😢

@DanielAdusei9 22 күн бұрын

@@queenriegnsadepa8727 it’s well.. which part of Uk u live?

@queenriegnsadepa8727 21 күн бұрын

@@DanielAdusei9 I'm not in Uk please

@baduconstance2239 21 күн бұрын

His story isn't Clear

@bbone4390 20 күн бұрын

The funny thing with women is,she left the husband and will end up dating a married man..

@user-ug7yp4tf8x 16 күн бұрын

@@bbone4390 John tickle it balls

@danielakuffo4688 23 күн бұрын

Why didn’t you just cancel her visa and reported the divorce to home office so she can be sent back to ghana . So you carry on with your life . Masa We are divorced so why still stay on my visa eye simple

@queenriegnsadepa8727 22 күн бұрын

This is not big issue biaaa that will make her live the husband

@DanielAdusei9 22 күн бұрын

Are u here in uk?

@queenriegnsadepa8727 22 күн бұрын

@@DanielAdusei9 no please

@videoyoutube6881 22 күн бұрын

Again