'I d probably be in prison now for beating my ex-husband's mistress! I beat her so badly! E Mbugua

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Metha ya Kagoni

Metha ya Kagoni

2 жыл бұрын

Esther Mbugua has tasted the bitter pill of infidelity. The pain tortured her so much that she opted to confront the well-known woman…her husband’s mistress.
Esther beat her so badly! At that time she felt like had conquered but looking back, she says that the beating would have landed her on jail. She advises women against confronting their husbands’ mistresses saying that if he has chosen to leave, let him go.

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@nancygachoki9628
@nancygachoki9628 2 жыл бұрын
At 34, the fights i fought🤔 Acha nilee watoto wangu For 9 years nilipigana, making a decision to leave is still the best thing i did
@abbiemumbi
@abbiemumbi 2 жыл бұрын
Women please never fight for a man. A man is not a price. Please let a cheat go. Once a cheat always
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
You’re right. Very profound
@bethwamaitha1099
@bethwamaitha1099 2 жыл бұрын
True but sometimes anger.....woooiii sisemi kitu
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Im so humbled and overwhelmed by your love Metha ya Kagoni Family...God bless you
@Betty_35
@Betty_35 2 жыл бұрын
Which year we you in Mutuma High
@magdalinegunda5458
@magdalinegunda5458 2 жыл бұрын
I know this young lady. She was my pupil at Mutuma primary. She was the best girl . Oh pole sana Esther. May God keep on blessing you.
@katekarrey8459
@katekarrey8459 2 жыл бұрын
Y'all that's my sister Sooooo proud of you darling
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@maggiekanyua2637
@maggiekanyua2637 2 жыл бұрын
Such a great orator!So truthful!You were out to make a family but the father of your children wasn't. It's good that you made a choice and walked out.May God grant the desires if your work.
@wanjirunduta5346
@wanjirunduta5346 2 жыл бұрын
As we watched this interview; we laughed throughout....some stories are heartbreaking but for Esther Mbugua I liked your sense of humour. It is a lesson well grabbed & learnt; Esther is beautiful, honest & very articulate; I enjoyed every part of this interview.....Congratulations @Monica Kagoni for keeping it professional; especially keeping the interviewee on track & ensuring that the viewers get a deeper understanding of the story line; in line with grasping lessons to help us tackle issues in relationships. Its been a great year, an educative session & inspiring moment being part of Metha ya Kagoni in 2021.....Keep up the good work @MK and the team. Blessings galore🙏🙏
@maxwellgichovi4066
@maxwellgichovi4066 2 жыл бұрын
I really feel for this lady. It is thro God's grace that Esther did not go to prison. God is to give you another husband.
@bredawakio5381
@bredawakio5381 2 жыл бұрын
This will never get boring this the 5th time a watching this she is a vibe💗
@elizabethwangui2008
@elizabethwangui2008 2 жыл бұрын
I like this lady narrates her story. She reminds me of my home village
@felistermbugua1702
@felistermbugua1702 2 жыл бұрын
Sister congratulations for speaking out siz. Hugs for speaking for the voiceless
@susangathoni9710
@susangathoni9710 2 жыл бұрын
It's only take God's grace to walk away from a toxic marriage or relationship am going thru it and I don't regret walking away my peace matters alot
@monienjeri3042
@monienjeri3042 2 жыл бұрын
I tell you,, i took so many yrs to make a decision to walk away from marriage,, hakuna kitu kibaya kama baridi kwa ndoa,,, kuchapwa na huwezi ongea ama ku make decision,, yani kuwa controlled kama kondoo,,, lkn wakati nilimua kutoka kwa ndoa nili chapwa on date 1 January 2017 usiku on date 2 ndivyo nilikata kamba......
@florence6292
@florence6292 2 жыл бұрын
She is a wonderful storyteller
@stephennjoroge4536
@stephennjoroge4536 2 жыл бұрын
Esther, my neighbour at home,watching from Qatar.
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
What a story Esther! Congratulations on finally leaving such a toxic environment. But truly your trauma response must be fight because you indeed fought. Thank you for sharing this story with us we have learnt a lot. Yes you will attract healthy love because you deserve. Monica we appreciate your work and feel better soon.
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear
@gakiiruth575
@gakiiruth575 2 жыл бұрын
If kagoni can reach me my story is so similar but worse than this but I thank God,am healing,some inlaws are from hell ,,,waaah
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
@Gakii Ruth Ruth dear one, am sorry you have had to deal with pain and trauma. You’re right some people do seem to have come from hell!you did not deserve abuse, nobody does.Glad to hear you’re on a healing journey. Am sending you love, power and healing, every survivor will heal one at time!
@gakiiruth575
@gakiiruth575 2 жыл бұрын
@@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 Thank you for your encouragement,one day I will praise God for the milestone,it's only time,so in everything give it time
@florencemwaura964
@florencemwaura964 2 жыл бұрын
We!! I've been in this situation up todate but I decided this year to search for my peace of mind.
@kellylerry2068
@kellylerry2068 2 жыл бұрын
I love her confidence but now now now to people should love themselves more .Hope she sticks to her resolve not to get into another relationship in a hurry.Ni wale wale😀
@martinndaini6610
@martinndaini6610 2 жыл бұрын
Great Powerful message inspiration now
@hiramndirangugachau2983
@hiramndirangugachau2983 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Never make decisions while angry, Never make decisions while excited be sure you are not Yourself.
@cathyhighlyfavored
@cathyhighlyfavored 2 жыл бұрын
Ciaigana nì ciaigana....ukiwachwa achika! Thanks so much Esther for openly sharing your painful life story...great to see you've moved on!!!
@starsshiko4964
@starsshiko4964 2 жыл бұрын
She Is a good story teller
@maryannnjoki2318
@maryannnjoki2318 2 жыл бұрын
Physical fights are a projection of inner bitterness. I also used to get attracted to chaos. I couldn't listen or talk out. It's a spirit from the evil one. Acceptance is the cure. I learnt to accept and let go. Be it defeat or pain or even a job. Accepting it's what it is. Sending love from Ruiru 💓
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
You’re right Mary! Acceptance is the first step for healing
@zippyazu20
@zippyazu20 Жыл бұрын
She is a wonderful storyteller. I hope she can complete her journalism course. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
@loisegitau4897
@loisegitau4897 2 жыл бұрын
You were both young when entering marriage but it's better to be single than to live in a hell marriage.
@monicamwangi3122
@monicamwangi3122 2 жыл бұрын
Just love this lady..my agemate amefanya what i was heading to do bt mungu alikuja......good job monica
@Tinx.
@Tinx. 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady with a powerful message. Thank you for sharing, you speak so well.
@ja9293
@ja9293 2 жыл бұрын
A cheater will always be a cheater....a liar will always be a liar.......shindwe. And may all mipango ya kandos never have peace....shindwe Pia
@Jenniferspace
@Jenniferspace 2 жыл бұрын
Nima amen
@jennyjenny9438
@jennyjenny9438 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Lysinderose_Maish
@Lysinderose_Maish 2 жыл бұрын
Amen they will Neva know peace
@annmwariri8119
@annmwariri8119 2 жыл бұрын
Woiye let's learn how to ukiachwa achika... I know it's not easy when you quit the early the better.
@sheilajames9331
@sheilajames9331 2 жыл бұрын
Better late than never, am hear listening to this story.... Ladies let us learn how to appreciate and love ourselves, marriage is not a pass to life, just package urself and never fight for a biz without a profit
@MburawaUK
@MburawaUK 2 жыл бұрын
Gang can we tell Monica pole kwa homa, quick recovery Monica ❤️❤️. Lovely show.
@aloisenjuguna7365
@aloisenjuguna7365 2 жыл бұрын
I like your courage and truthful in you, you really fought for your place. Congratulations and God see you through with your endavours
@mercygachiri6636
@mercygachiri6636 2 жыл бұрын
Essy that was the best decision you made,,,may God expand you
@lilianwanjiru3494
@lilianwanjiru3494 Жыл бұрын
I knew this couple. Their business was really doing good. It's just sad.....
@cathycathy4665
@cathycathy4665 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry dia esther,be strong women ,we women we pass alot thro this sily men but thea is God i n heaven
@janegithinji8520
@janegithinji8520 2 жыл бұрын
Haki l learn everyday.twice beaten l feel like l suffer rejection.but l pray my kids not to suffer like me.keep up the good job Monica.
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
Jane, sorry to hear you have gone through trauma. Your kids will be fine because now that you’re aware and living in consciousness you will break the cycle of abuse. Please do. Am sending you love, power and healing. For you and the children.
@revzippyelikanahhbstminist4609
@revzippyelikanahhbstminist4609 2 жыл бұрын
I just like this girl ,the way she ask questions.💞🤣🤣. Pole young beautiful girl. Dont give up, move on and focus. God is able
@trizahkogi3265
@trizahkogi3265 2 жыл бұрын
Waoo am happy for this beautiful Queen she is my best friend 💗 hug mumy
@mercygachiri6636
@mercygachiri6636 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage can frustrate someone vibaya Sana,,,I fought once n I swear i will never fight for anyone again,,,
@jamesgathaiya6450
@jamesgathaiya6450 2 жыл бұрын
She passed through alot but she made decision of her life time before it's too late Easter keep going
@shenlisha6229
@shenlisha6229 2 жыл бұрын
A nyc teaching May God bless you but as many of your viewers are requesting try to hold it in Swahili English ama uweke translation
@wambugua3873
@wambugua3873 2 жыл бұрын
Pole kwa homa .sad but eye opener
@felistafrancis1162
@felistafrancis1162 2 жыл бұрын
Eagerly waiting for it Monica
@alzubarapark3736
@alzubarapark3736 2 жыл бұрын
Kweli wanaume hakili hatuna , yaani niwache kwangu mbila chakula , ndio nifurahise wengine
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
Those are just the toxic men. Not all men are like that. We have healthy and emotionally mature men
@ruthnyakio2918
@ruthnyakio2918 2 жыл бұрын
imagine that. uache kwako hakuna chakula. upeleke kwa jangiri.
@monienjeri3042
@monienjeri3042 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂Ati njangiri umefanya nicheke,, i passed this shit some yrs back
@susankuria5176
@susankuria5176 2 жыл бұрын
Imgn na ukisota unarushwa nje kama mbwa you should value yourself jamani wanaume
@bethwamaitha1099
@bethwamaitha1099 2 жыл бұрын
I wish mngepewa hata mbili
@luckygal5904
@luckygal5904 2 жыл бұрын
Never fight over a man. He's a big person and knows very well what he's doing. Am single for about 6yrs now and still young. If he cheats once the better you prepare yourself as early as possible. I will never beg, knell and pray for a cheating man life is short
@susankuria5176
@susankuria5176 2 жыл бұрын
They only change to be worse
@luckygal5904
@luckygal5904 2 жыл бұрын
@@susankuria5176 true
@shikuhsymoh2859
@shikuhsymoh2859 2 жыл бұрын
Show iko tops 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥sad nd interesting ❤❤❤.madam monicah pole utapona homa🙏🙏.
@njokikamau4323
@njokikamau4323 2 жыл бұрын
Lesson learnt,a painful experience though
@ruthnyakio2918
@ruthnyakio2918 2 жыл бұрын
That is a great message from Ester. bless.
@thatayangoma5200
@thatayangoma5200 2 жыл бұрын
Am tuned
@bredawakio5381
@bredawakio5381 2 жыл бұрын
Best story ever she is a sweet story teller
@catewise6438
@catewise6438 2 жыл бұрын
I choose peace over everything fighting is not the solution gal...
@sammyshiku1956
@sammyshiku1956 2 жыл бұрын
My siz for sure,God does great.
@aminajuma9235
@aminajuma9235 2 жыл бұрын
hey hupy new yr 2022 monica.esther is very strong to tell this stories 'its bad hw men change and mistreat their wives.God bless her she is beautiful she deserves th bst.i aslo wrote message to yu since october im still waiting for yu to call me.
@gracemwangi9930
@gracemwangi9930 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome kagoni,, we are here to stay ,
@marykiguta7739
@marykiguta7739 2 жыл бұрын
Pole sana
@agnesmacharia6055
@agnesmacharia6055 2 жыл бұрын
But don't marry the person who you love so much let the person love you l mean you 40/100 and Him 100/100 that is what I can love Thank you
@lucywanjiru6522
@lucywanjiru6522 2 жыл бұрын
Pole kwa homa Monica n quick recovery
@shikuhsymoh2859
@shikuhsymoh2859 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting kwa sana ❤
@jackmuraguri1836
@jackmuraguri1836 2 жыл бұрын
This is an interesting story.
@Lysinderose_Maish
@Lysinderose_Maish 2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you girl... Keep going
@mercymwiti7185
@mercymwiti7185 2 жыл бұрын
Esther God is with you and your children
@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534
@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady Harding working lady
@Cate861
@Cate861 2 жыл бұрын
Wooi Monicah cold imekushika kabisa pole saana
@wanguibundi4017
@wanguibundi4017 2 жыл бұрын
When things come to such a point like this it's always good to seek God's guidance to avoid any damage or loss of life. It's good to step aside and give your children the peace they need and give them a Godly environment, forget what the world is thinking just my opinion and ready to be corrected. It hurts but to be on the safe side separate and continue living and God will make for you a way where there seems to be no way. Monica thank you for the highlight and God bless you and Esther we love you. ❤❤🙌🙌🙏🙏✝️✝️
@damarismacharia5954
@damarismacharia5954 2 жыл бұрын
Nangoja kwa sana
@mwangimuiruri6132
@mwangimuiruri6132 2 жыл бұрын
Nyundo n underrated weapon
@margaretmungai1924
@margaretmungai1924 2 жыл бұрын
A gud storyteller.. Hugs gal
@emmahkabuiya6558
@emmahkabuiya6558 2 жыл бұрын
The best show 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@estherndungu3283
@estherndungu3283 2 жыл бұрын
Mbsni eagerly waiting
@naysahope5399
@naysahope5399 2 жыл бұрын
Very supperb for narrating such an interesting story indeed. It reminds me the previous painful years back🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Story za misri🤣🤣
@missngai6135
@missngai6135 2 жыл бұрын
Pole kwa homa Monica
@milkakamau1478
@milkakamau1478 2 жыл бұрын
But why do nurses punish young girls even if it's an abortion 😭😭😭😭... Soo inhuman
@MyJOSE2013
@MyJOSE2013 2 жыл бұрын
you should. why abort??
@margaretwangui1703
@margaretwangui1703 2 жыл бұрын
Kagoni....naskia sauti yako ni kama uko na homa... quick recovery mama and thank you for bringing ester on board I am inspired ❤️💕
@lynetmuthike9876
@lynetmuthike9876 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting
@ireneterry9517
@ireneterry9517 2 жыл бұрын
Atleast it was not a waste of sin but about the beating part she's a liar check on the ground
@angelicakirangi6298
@angelicakirangi6298 2 жыл бұрын
Sad! I was the mistress ended up to be the wife, little did I know that it will end
@wambsmie
@wambsmie 2 жыл бұрын
Pole now you are wiser
@brandonwakaranjaofficial4715
@brandonwakaranjaofficial4715 2 жыл бұрын
Ndamba gwitia Chai haha Blue springs thikiririe
@faithkagunda1017
@faithkagunda1017 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@shirulioness3504
@shirulioness3504 2 жыл бұрын
Gaitu ga gwiciarira😘😘😘😘I love you
@mamamalaika4413
@mamamalaika4413 2 жыл бұрын
Thina wa atumia nigwitua ega 😞. Once a cheater is always a cheater 😪
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
Many at times people are trauma bonded.
@melisaevey6306
@melisaevey6306 2 жыл бұрын
Mimi monicah nilipiga msichana war same case na hii but I thank God my hubby Ali side na mm but hii ilisababisha kulipa msichana coz nilikua nimempiga sana bt ctawai pigana Tena at the end of the day mutengerio na mutengerania gutiri utahuma ctawahi tena
@lilianmumbi7271
@lilianmumbi7271 2 жыл бұрын
Wui ma kai muthuri ucio e wa wana atia he is not real uko strong ka ulimzalia tena women are strong
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
He’s toxic
@antyshiko8571
@antyshiko8571 2 жыл бұрын
Uyu ni wa gwitu biu....
@margaretwambui6302
@margaretwambui6302 2 жыл бұрын
Esther🙆🙆Aki umepitia...waah.
@shirulioness3504
@shirulioness3504 2 жыл бұрын
Hau hakuheyana nijajoya😁😁😁😁😁😁
@marykamau3085
@marykamau3085 2 жыл бұрын
Woi monicah pole Sana homa itaisha
@violetaseyo5005
@violetaseyo5005 2 жыл бұрын
A luhya but addicted to your shows
@milkahwatene3798
@milkahwatene3798 2 жыл бұрын
Ihiko cia thiku maa ni irarigithia.monicah pole kwa homa
@katrinekaundu4416
@katrinekaundu4416 2 жыл бұрын
Monica uko na homa pole ...
@gracewaithira700
@gracewaithira700 2 жыл бұрын
Wooooie Esther never tell in-laws your ploblems i went the same too but thanks to God through humiliation l'm strong
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
Aki some in laws! Isipokua wale wa Virginia Kamotho, wengine acha tu
@charitywachira7913
@charitywachira7913 2 жыл бұрын
Never tell your in-laws what you are going tbrough.From the time in memorial there is no good daugher-in-law.you better tell your friends.Remember acording to them you are an interuder n you are destroying their son.solve the problems in your marriage n if its not working leave n move on.
@monienjeri3042
@monienjeri3042 2 жыл бұрын
Khaii me here, i told my mum inlaw tuongee akanisho hakuna haja ya kuhaibisha baba ya watoi wangu,, nikasema sirudi huko coz walikataa tuongee
@ezzifavoured4371
@ezzifavoured4371 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂what a story and a strong woman she's
@lilianmumbi7271
@lilianmumbi7271 2 жыл бұрын
Wauh many reasons that makes women get married
@hannahkimani2891
@hannahkimani2891 2 жыл бұрын
She's is a good story teller ...atî nyundo 🙆🙆🙆
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607
@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 2 жыл бұрын
Nyundo ya biuu. Ndegwa nduiii, mwathani!
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Ya kuhururira micumari🤣🤣
@marykariuki7381
@marykariuki7381 2 жыл бұрын
Great story but the part I don’t understand is he rejects you mbele ya POLICE. He protects the other woman but you still go ahead to welcome him back home and have another child for him. Yet the other kid ameshindwa kulea. Mimi, I belief the father of your kids is the greatest decision you get to make not having children. This man had already shown himself not worthy of the title father, why have another one with him?
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Depo failed me dear...But watoto ni baraka nawalea with outmost love
@marykariuki7381
@marykariuki7381 2 жыл бұрын
@@esthermbugua2445 sorry dear. I did not mean it kwa ubaya was just wondering but I now understand. My fav part ni hapo kwa nyundo 😂😂😂😂😂
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Sure hun nakuelewa...mimi nilisha pona sija take any offense
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Nilikua fundi wa mitamburuko 🤣🤣🤣
@marykariuki7381
@marykariuki7381 2 жыл бұрын
@@esthermbugua2445 thanks 🙏. Those kids o am sure will be a big blessing to you and society
@masynancy5613
@masynancy5613 2 жыл бұрын
Monica witû homa nî gûthira amûkîra kûhona Kwa narua
@joanmwangi1023
@joanmwangi1023 2 жыл бұрын
Riu niwega kuga niwahenanirie hindi iyo wamuhurira na nyundo?
@starsshiko4964
@starsshiko4964 2 жыл бұрын
Gatundu my home
@rebeccangure246
@rebeccangure246 2 жыл бұрын
Yes nii huritwo ya mwiri na tukamba cira Monica
@annkabui8811
@annkabui8811 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔😭
@esthermbugua2445
@esthermbugua2445 2 жыл бұрын
Past should never define us dear...stay strong❤️
@estherndungu3283
@estherndungu3283 2 жыл бұрын
Monica pole kwa mafua
@nancynjogu3822
@nancynjogu3822 2 жыл бұрын
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