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@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
Friends are overrated. I know people with dozens of "friends." Guess what? When they're in need of help, none of those "friends" are available.
@taydinnygaard3678 5 ай бұрын
As a friend, I can tell you my part time job is taking care of my friends and their bullshit. I can also say that I have a contact list of people to hang with, work on my house, help me move, get me some beer, etc…
@celticspirit1 5 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@Hans-de8du 5 ай бұрын
Simply the wrong friends. A couple REAL friends is as valuable as ANYTHING in life.
@grahams_number 5 ай бұрын
Facts
@youtubelearning2990 5 ай бұрын
And they don’t have friends. You’re describing somebody who has associates.
@almostgifted 5 ай бұрын
'I found the most peace when I finally learnt to stand alone.' David Goggins
@heartquaker427 5 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience in my life, I even once started praying “Please God never ever give me a chance to become a friend to anyone 😮”!!! Also remembering Arthur Schopenhauer’s Quote “Those who don’t like to be alone does not like FREEDOM” .
@crowdsurf 5 ай бұрын
Nice vid man
@Bawkr 2 ай бұрын
Goggins doesn't know he's also a genius. He thinks he's just fit and motivating but he's also so damned smart
@houreugh 5 ай бұрын
Humanity is largely mentally unwell. Now more than ever.
@Omnilosopher Ай бұрын
Agreed
@ke6264 5 ай бұрын
Im 36 with "no friends" and Im good. I have a stress free life and a loving family.
@stephenheyes1487 Ай бұрын
I've not had any really true friends, I thought there was something wrong with me I filled my spare time drawing . My family is more important, Iam happy going out and just been in nature and fishing, having hobbies has always been important, it helps with mental health👍
@carl6530 5 ай бұрын
The childhood friends that stay with you later on in life are irreplaceable. I couldn't imagine losing all of them, must be tough
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 5 ай бұрын
My best friend from highschool killed himself 6 years ago at 36 when his wife wanted a divorce. Can’t replace him he was a good dude that made a point to keep up with me even though I moved 2500 miles away.
@MX-CO 5 ай бұрын
My two closest friends growing up are both gone, One died very unexpectedly from suicide. Not a guy you would have ever guessed would do that. He had it together more so than anyone else, I know. And the next friend got hit by a car about a yr ago.
@brianmeen2158 5 ай бұрын
Yeah it’s tough. It’s even stranger when you meet up after many years with your best friend from childhood and realize that you are much different people and that the only thing you have in common at this point are your shared memories . Making new friends in your 30s is very hard especially if you don’t have kids
@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
Why are all these men self-deleting over a poon? 😢
@blockaderunner 5 ай бұрын
I think that mine did too around April 2020 with the high-gear of the C-V hysteria he'd been divorced 7 years but still being dragged back into court for upping child support etc up until 2020 even, his mom was in court as a witness, best friends he had that were friends with me as well growing up, he'd been going to bars drinking and socializing before his death, he'd been on the sauce and was once quiet big for his height of 5'9," but then quiet fat toward the end. None of those people in the bars were really his "friends" it was all superficial. I never knew the real cause of his death but it surprised everyone being so young at 44.@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
@MostHated332 4 ай бұрын
Well said. Friendships now a days are seen as business transactions. “What’s in it for me?”
@Mandi2727 2 ай бұрын
Yeah and so many narcissistic, manipulative and evil people out there
@JKFuerte 5 ай бұрын
At 51 I resonate with this. I've been divorced for over 10 years. It was really tough in the beginning. Still lingered for many years after. I got used to being alone, and learning that you don't need much at all to be happy. In fact it's difficult to make friends because you see how addicted they are to constant entertainment/stimuli.
@user-zm3px2qj4m 5 ай бұрын
I often see people in similar situations to me, with similar mindsets and think it would be pretty cool to get to know those people.
@user-sb6uf1pk9t 5 ай бұрын
You can still make friends at ANY age. The only reason why it is easier to make friends when you are a child or adolescent is because you are in an environment (i.e. grade school, trade school, college) where you see the same people everyday and have no choice but to be in relative close proximity to them. Certain kinds of adult jobs are also conducive to friendship building. A job where everyone takes the same scheduled breaks, and the breakroom is small and crowded is the best. Coworkers then have no choice but to sit next to each other, eat with each other, etc. Like school. Otherwise, people spread out, act aloof, etc.
@BirdNerd769 5 ай бұрын
I’m 40 now. Just got through a divorce. Have nothing in common with any old friends anymore. No new friends really. No desire for a relationship. Just me and my son. Loneliness can suck at times but honestly don’t have anything in me for anyone anymore.
@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
Being a monk has its benefits. ❤
@BirdNerd769 5 ай бұрын
@@monk4ever yes it does. Been in a so called monk mode for over a year now. At least with some of the practices. Like semen retention, celibacy, etc.
@DiSanto84 3 ай бұрын
same here, just no son
@oscarcat1231 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear. Things will get better. ❤️🩹
@user-mh3kp7we7i 5 ай бұрын
A bit ahead of you at 57.....you described it perfectly....went from friend group in high school to going our own ways as you described. Got married and had a family. Divorced after 20 + years. Lived outside of the US for over half my life. I am mostly alone now. I never thought my life would be like this. But yeah, it's a natural progression......the journey.
@dippin1523 5 ай бұрын
Agree totally.
@650Ryder 5 ай бұрын
I don’t think friends are overrated but I do think they’re very hard to find. It’s just difficult to connect with people with any sort of depth in our daily lives. Thanks for sharing this man - I can tell that’s not easy for you to talk about. There’s a lot of trauma wrapped up in that story
@unkelfaka6216 5 ай бұрын
I am a man. I am crying right now. To many friends gone....I have empathy to everyone fighting the darkness. Always tell your friends and family that you love them even if you sound gay to your hard ass homies.
@TheRedDevil_NC 5 ай бұрын
LFA being real and I appreciate it. You don’t need friends to be a top level man. Keep doing your thing
@davidcoppotelli3957 5 ай бұрын
Correct keep doing You. Friends Come and Go. All my friends are Married with there own set of Problems.
@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
@@davidcoppotelli3957 I refuse to be friends with married men.
@FREDISTHEBESTHACKER 5 ай бұрын
Everyones ur friend at first but when shit hits fan no ones there for u, thats just how it is sadly...
@obrienortega6942 5 ай бұрын
I always been a “Lone Wolf”. I’m not ashamed to say that I have a hard time trusting people. And no, I never been betrayed by any means (Thank goodness) that led me to be that way. I have a very small circle. If you have one friend that’s been there for you (good times and bad times) and supports you in any way (emotionally, socially, psychologically) consider yourself lucky. Being alone is a massive superpower. Stay vigilant and be safe.
@mikaeldinoto 5 ай бұрын
I’ve been working for the Toronto subway for the past 12 years. 9 years ago I was on scene where a man was hit by a train. That experience changed me. I’ve recently been dealing with getting over the past traumas in my life. I’ve been watching your videos lately as part of this journey. I appreciate you sharing what you did today, as well as all of your content, the conversations on the driveway with the boys ❤️ thank you
@kenlee-97 5 ай бұрын
Same with me bro. And to add- I've been extremely depressed lately to a good friend's wife passing away from a heart attack 5 months ago -they never had children, though they tried for 30 or so years... Everything my friend did before her passing was for her and their future retirement...😢
@Vbnnghjjnnb 5 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry for your loss. It's very strange they all died short before road trip.
@tmbrad1288 5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss. I can relate to this 100%. I also noticed the older I get the smaller my circle is because I have less tolerance for bs and drama.
@phillip6111 5 ай бұрын
You’ve got dam near 100,000 friends now my dude. Stay Golden 🐎
@KayciazWorld 5 ай бұрын
Im so sorry to hear about your friends, may they R.I.P🙏✝️🕊️ Id also like to add that, having friends isnt something you can control. The self improvement narrative is the worst because people bash themselves into thinking their not having friends, is their fault. However, you can't control how people behave. If someone wants to leave your life, theres nothing you can do about it💔
@brianmeen2158 5 ай бұрын
I disagree about having friends being out of your control. There is luck involved indeed but if you are positive and put effort into making friends you will likely have a few .
@stevewarner6621 5 ай бұрын
Facts Kay!
@oscarcat1231 2 ай бұрын
@@brianmeen2158sometimes our efforts are fruitless.
@itgoofy 5 ай бұрын
Crazy that all 3 of them had women problems that led to their demise. Sad stuff, LFA. Only time I've ever been seriously mentally in a bad place was due to women as well. I'm past that stage. SR helped me get over caring about women too.
@raversfantasy8873 5 ай бұрын
What is SR? Asking for a friend.
@itgoofy 5 ай бұрын
@@raversfantasy8873semen retention
@TheRenaissanceTechnologist 5 ай бұрын
@@raversfantasy8873 semen retention
@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
Us monks don't have these problems.
@DivineTQ 5 ай бұрын
@@raversfantasy8873 semen retention
@mariovaldez3147 5 ай бұрын
I can definitely relate to this. I am 33 with no friends. Also had a group of friends in high school. Made a few new friends in college but most of us grew apart, especially being red pill and into self development. And I’ve notice most dudes are simps and aren’t good with women. Acquaintances and dating is the way to go. I have rekindled with an old friend from grade school. Always had each other’s back. Grade school friends can be a option.🤔
@monk4ever 5 ай бұрын
The red pill is amazing. Still too many thirsty $imps out there.
@paigesta 5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that you lost your 3 best friends. You have impacted so many lives and helped so many people on your KZfaq channel. Thank you for doing what you do 😊
@survivethrive2468 5 ай бұрын
Hey man I really appreciate you making this video. I myself am 43 and in the same boat. I feel like a major loaner where I just don't belong or resonate with people or even family.. the brother hood I had in the military is irreplaceable and never was able to duplicate making those kind of friends in the real world even being involved with hobbies and such. It feels forced at times to socialize with people. U see wolves 🐺 run in packs but I feel like a lone wolf with no tribe. Nobody tells us as young children that when we get older we will lose friends and family. It's tuff to navigate through life knowing and accepting that some people won't be on our life's journey.
@HeatherLeiigh 5 ай бұрын
You replace those young childhood friendships with a wife/husband and kids, and pray that it sticks.
@oscarcat1231 2 ай бұрын
I agree.
@oscarcat1231 2 ай бұрын
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@Mandi2727 2 ай бұрын
I think one of the worst things is when your immediate family lets you down so many times to the point where you cannot relate to them anymore and you basically stop making excuses for them. I've always felt different, but moreover I really do not have anything in common as far as a spiritual level with my immediate family, which consists of my two brothers and a mother because my father passed two years ago. He was the only one that I felt close to and I wasn't a daddy's girl by any means, I was not spoiled, but we connected on a spiritual and a soul level. But I really believe that is because he was born in 35'.
@hablabamosa 5 ай бұрын
I still have a handful of my high school friends and I've been annoyed at the fact that I never really made friends in my twenties. This puts things into perspective.
@garydrago 5 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss man I could hear the pain and grief in your voice. Your best friends may not be physically present in this world but they live on in spirit through you and the message you spread of being strong, perseverant, and enjoying life to its fullest. Thank you
@SITO-TV 5 ай бұрын
Im 47 and the more friends you have , the more bullshit youll run into ( the bigger the circle the more gossip , back talk , peer pressure nonsense ) Not saying have zero friends, but vet your friends - ones you see once in a while and only give time and value to those who matter
@TimmyCramer 5 ай бұрын
58. Lost 3 friends to same situation. My large group of buds has whittled down to a few. My career, golf, outdoor activities, I stay busy enjoying life. I've got a 180 mile Colorado river rafting trip this summer and I beachside camp San Diego every summer 6 to 8 weeks. Keep enjoying life brother!! Timmy C Arizona
@thehoxtontrend 5 ай бұрын
Man, So sorry to hear this brother !! 😓
@mwtwaz 5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear what you've lost, bro. I lost my close friends I grew up with since 2009. They are not the same circumstances with yours. They just turned their back on me when I was at my lowest point at the time. So, from that point, I was not looking forward to having friendship. My priorities now are just my life, my parents, and my family. I only have a lot of acquaintance these days
@CorinMio 5 ай бұрын
Forget the past and make new friends. Don't let a few dickholes from the past keep you from getting close to new people.
@SuperAz000z 5 ай бұрын
You can survive without friends , but you will live with friends
@daniedeklerk1914 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for opening up, know it must of been extremely tough. Respect and love you brother!💯❤️❤️❤️ From Namibia.🇳🇦
@officiallyrory 5 ай бұрын
My friend! Appreciate how you landed on this topic and created a vulnerable space for yourself to talk about this! Continue to trail-blaze and help the community you have built!
@kazdnn5949 5 ай бұрын
I made one of my best friends in my mid 30s. I’m now mid 40s, 10 years on. It can def be more difficult to make close friends after your 20s due to fewer shared intense experiences like, say high school or college. This friend and I got close through hiking/backpacking adventures together. He now lives in a different state, married with a kid, but we still keep in touch and make time to visit each other about once a year. I’m really lucky to have a friend like this guy. I’m kind of a loner and fine by myself but true friends are worth coming out of my shell for.
@tedknight1676 5 ай бұрын
Sorry for loss your LFA this was a very thought provoking video , im 63 and im alone i had a great circle friends before covid and almost all of them have moved you put on the best content in the manosphere your good man LFA.
@rickyking1790 5 ай бұрын
65 and alone to brother
@oganime9536 5 ай бұрын
ey LFA mad respekt for u!!! you’ve been through a lot, yet or maybe that’s why ur message is so strong and relatable. i’ve been learning a lot from u and happy to be part of ur subs
@player99l 5 ай бұрын
I've got chills at the 8 minute mark. I'm so sorry what happened to you. Stay strong, brother! You're doing great work, man
@walterheisenberg4625 5 ай бұрын
I’m really sorry to hear this story LFA. Thank you for everything you do for us. We really appreciate you more than you’ll ever know and I can personally say your advice has had a very positive impact on my life.
@TheRenaissanceTechnologist 5 ай бұрын
Appreciate you sharing such difficult stories from your life and your friends' lives. Real life is brutal. Your content is helping many men. It's certainly helped me. 👊🏽 Thanks brother
@dannystro_ 5 ай бұрын
the video content just keeps getting better and better, thanks for sharing your story LFA
@maverickmountain 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for being vulnerable in this video, bro. I can feel your loss Stay strong 💪
@Happy-Me. 5 ай бұрын
Great video LFA. It would have took a lot for you to share this with us! Many thanks!
@ychacker5903 5 ай бұрын
Damn, that hit hard!!! I just want to give you a big hug man. The incredible inner work you must have done to become the person you are today. You are an inspiration, keep up the good content.
@philivan1997 5 ай бұрын
LFA thank you for opening up, brother. Been watching you for years now and I can see how you matured even more and can now share your experience..
@mikeleuk 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this brother. Lost my best friend a year and a half ago doing what he loved most. Peace
@CanadianDrifter777 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your vulnerability and your strength. You expressed yourself well. Happy New Year and keep the faith!
@acidgambit8138 5 ай бұрын
LFA, I cry for you. Must be such a suffering feeling. Thanks for sharing. Much appreciated!
@Jero-Drive 5 ай бұрын
Stay strong LFA 💪. Your brothers are proud of you and the work you do is amazing. Keep it up 👆💯 No matter what life hits you with, keep moving forward.
@maximusperception6008 5 ай бұрын
Bravo! The realest video I’ve seen in a long time. It hits home I’ve lost friends I went to school with, coworkers, and relatives. We only have but a short time on this earth. Man I’m sorry about your friends! My Deepest condolences! I’m turning 40 in two months so I’m at least halfway or so- through my life. I do have 2 friends I grew up with and one I met later. I used to have alot of friends in my teens and 20’s but we parted ways. Though, I do have many acquaintances and family , (my cousins etc.). Life is short “it’s not how long you live but how you live,”the greatest commandment is love.
@thesix-footstoic4169 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for being Vulnerable with us brother. I gotchu!
@crackinlackin6189 5 ай бұрын
im sorry for your loss, friendship is important, thanks for sharing
@69pacecar 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for discussing such a personal story. I can relate somewhat as one of my good friends died from brain cancer when he was only 31. Another friend had heart problems in his mid-thirties and ended up getting two heart transplants (the first did not take). He lasted a few more years but died when he was around 40. I still miss them both and think of them often.
@andromeda1439 5 ай бұрын
Great video man. You're helping a lot of guys out here. Much love.
@85_Tibo 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this man. I’ve been consistently watching your video’s since 2019. I guess you really never knows what somebody can go trough. You’ve changed my perspective on life in a major way with some of your content. Like an older brother I never had. Makes a grown man wimp away a tear. Stay you🙏🏽
@mindgoesbodyfollows 5 ай бұрын
Wow man. This one hits hard. Completely changes my mind about not having friends.
@G4BriEL777 5 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this video man, my heart goes out to you. Stay strong and all the best man.
@photoguyoc9775 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this deeply personal matter. I also really resonated with your video about opening up more and letting your guard down as far as connecting with new people.
@chaseboen2448 5 ай бұрын
This was a very heartfelt message that was very informative. What was said resonated very deeply in a lot of ways. I had a cousin from moms twin sister that got hit by a train and the circumstances where possibly similar to what was hinted at. You lose people that are close and it can affect us in ways we don’t fully understand. Not having friends has that negative stigma that makes us think we should have them. But some people are better off alone. I would be completely happy as well on some land somewhere. Nature is where it’s at.
@theoneandonlykyle9800 5 ай бұрын
I used to have friends what I found out is that. They were all users and only cared about themselves. So I became a loner and that's pretty much it.
@alexanderbrace2611 5 ай бұрын
I have to say this was articulated very well, listening to you talk through what's happened made me realize you can always be more patient, but loneliness isn't always bad
@michaeldunn3004 5 ай бұрын
We appreciate you LFA, thankful for you and your content 👊
@Ech3ssa 5 ай бұрын
Thank you. Sorry for the loss🙏🏿🙏🏿
@GigaBased604 5 ай бұрын
This is one of the realist videos I've ever seen from you brother. And I've been watching on and off for a long time as we are similar in age and maybe similar in our journey and experiences I think. From the friend you don't know you have in Vancouver B.C. Canada :) Thanks for sharing this with the boys brother.
@Robbielazar 5 ай бұрын
Brother, I’m so sorry for your loss and I mean it. Keep your head up
@greekmistis 5 ай бұрын
thats why you are such a helpful and strong human being !!! THANK YOU! FOR ALL the content and help you have provided us with
@WilliamGann-iy9bo 2 ай бұрын
Amazing insite from you, as well my fullest condolences and Heart out to ya Brotha for the dear brother hood lost along the Journey. We'll see them again❤
@code_lift 5 ай бұрын
i appreciate your vulnerability. I feel like i know you a lot better now and have been watching your videos since the beginning
@ksl4380 5 ай бұрын
Aye. Sorry for your loss. Well said, and I concur. Like any life experience, friends come and go. Just enjoy the time u have. I find that helping others does wonders. Cheers.
@1werewolf 5 ай бұрын
Everyone is going thru something. When I stopped judging people, my heart ooened up. We must be in this world....not of this world. Good video...thanks for sharing....
@ShaquanDeshawn 5 ай бұрын
LFA, thank you for sharing your story brother. Lends perspective. Appreciate you
@kalefraser2623 5 ай бұрын
Really sorry to hear that LFA, your the man
@lappy0749 5 ай бұрын
I'm thinking the reason you don't fight anymore is because your true friends that had your back, are dead. Having your brothers beside you in battle is priceless. You've adjusted to your circumstances...
@thami.rubushe 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing bro. I can tell this was not an easy video to make.
@mr.jazzbodkelsey58 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I'm going through something similar. Much love to you and your brothers, man.
@martinlistengart9887 5 ай бұрын
I've been following you for a long time. I hope you're doing well. Greetings from Argentina 💪🏼
@bryanland2149 5 ай бұрын
LFA Thank you for sharing means a lot people come and go over the years
@aservantinbabylon 5 ай бұрын
I'm 54 and haven't had "friends" in decades and honestly, don't want them, especially as more time passes. Most people are just not worth wanting to be around. Got lots of acquaintances, that is just fine when I need some human company, but I find a lot of solace and peace in my time alone.
@brianmeen2158 5 ай бұрын
Yeah in my mid 30s I realized that I was more frustrated when I was around friends as they liked to complain about their wife or kids or their job and I remember thinking “why am I I doing this?” So I went the solo route
@The.Harsh.Truths 5 ай бұрын
Damn LFA you really have my respect. This was a really heartfelt video. Thank you for sharing it.
@goonies80s98 5 ай бұрын
God bless. LFA is the one we all need.
@alwaysbeclosing5797 5 ай бұрын
The content has only gotten better, and the realness maintains as always. Stay doing your thang LFA, you’re helping the world to be a better place, and letting the dudes know that we all have our share of problems…and we can all find our way through them. Ya don’t give up. Ya don’t wither away. Another day is another opportunity, to learn, be kind, stand up for ourself, practice humility, make alliances, smell the roses, turn a chick on, drive a classic Lincoln, enjoy a cigar…whatever. Enjoy this life how you choose while ya got it 😎
@josephang9927 5 ай бұрын
I didn't know you had such a sad story to share. Thanks for sharing it bro.
@Aprilisca 5 ай бұрын
Impressive video LFA. Amazing to find out why you do what you do. Keep it up and give your best to this confused en confusing world! Thanks for sharing this.
@stuart3808 5 ай бұрын
Damn I did not expect that today. 😢 I'm 46, and yeah keeping friends is tough, never had "brothers"... sounds nice... but I can't imagine having that and losing it. You seem like a really good friend to have, and you are helping. Thanks for sharing.
@shanan1124 5 ай бұрын
Thanks LFA… I needed this video…👍🏾💪🏾👊🏾
@bensprinks 5 ай бұрын
Great presentation! Thanks for the transparency.
@eytschmaen Ай бұрын
What no one can take away from you is the memory of your friends. Thank you for sharing your story so openly. 💪
@jayde8253 5 ай бұрын
I love that story and how you used that tragedy to motivate you to save others from the same fate in a bad relationship . I wish I was out there in Oklahoma we would hang out for sure 👊🏽. Thanks for sharing LFA. Our challenges in life make us who we are and it is from people like you that we can navigate the darkness with your light. 💪🏾. Appreciate you brother. 🍻
@TheHumanSynthesisProject 2 ай бұрын
You are a gentle and considerate soul. You are not to blame for your friends deaths. Really appreciate the authenticity, its sorely needed these days.
@terrorrbabbletwo 5 ай бұрын
Great video, sorry to hear about your friends. You make a valid point that a lot of folks don't seem to understand, which is that we can be ok and live fulfilling lives without friends. I'm going on my 18th year of being in the military and I can attest to this lifestyle. You will meet guys that will take a bullet for you (literally) and then before you know it you are all living in separate states, often times separate countries on opposite ends of the world, courtesy of Uncle Sam. Rinse and repeat every few years, give or take. My friends have come and gone and so have my relationships with women who I thought were in it for the long haul... Boy was I wrong. Despite all of this, I've just learned to be at peace doing my own thing and focusing on myself (work, gym, dog, hobbies, cooking, etc). Love who you are and make yourself a priority, always.
@Oflores88 5 ай бұрын
LFA thank you for sharing man. 🤝
@lerronwright2007 5 ай бұрын
Dang, bro, thanks for sharing that and continuously finding ways to teach and inspire ❤
@ashtonfrett2536 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..That took a lot of Power and Strength.
@sole__doubt 5 ай бұрын
Real content here Blake. Happy New Year brother.
@lilc5353 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your personal story, I'm really sorry for your losses. 😢
@Chris-tz2we 5 ай бұрын
Yo Bro sometimes you see ppl and you never kno what u been tru. Thanks for opening up and I am sorry for your loss!
@youngmoses777 5 ай бұрын
Rip to the fallen lfa thanks for opening up about that for us who can relate we appreciate the honesty
@the_raging_tomato 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. This will touch somebody’s heart for sure. ❤️🍅❤️🍅
@Carybackup2 5 ай бұрын
He can fart and it will touch your heart 😮😅😂
@Carybackup2 5 ай бұрын
Sara your friend ❤
@the_raging_tomato 5 ай бұрын
@@Carybackup2 not the time, Cary. Not the time.
@sophie8466 5 ай бұрын
I feel it. Your strength and your supper. ❤. Nice shirt. ☺️
@sophie8466 5 ай бұрын
I mean support. Lol
@dr.cancan 5 ай бұрын
Although English is my 2nd tongue, I could understand more than words, the feelings. I am sorry to hear your losses and I hope your friends RIP! I cannot pass without saying that you were also describing my dilemma between being ok with loneliness and trying to keep up with old friends who never initiate the contact. Your words were encouraging to be ok with being lonely. Thank you for this sincere video!
@dylanlawrenceholland3295 26 күн бұрын
nice to see you this vulnerable. thoughts are with you and your friends
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