I understand your emotional breakdown. Chronic pain is a lonely terrible thing. You’re probably being judged, you feel guilty because you want to be involved with your family. Just know you are special, you’re here for a reason and although it’s difficult, we have to be thankful for everyday we have. I also suffer with chronic pain from my back so I know the feeling of thinking you’re not doing enough. You are beautiful on the inside and outside and you are loved. Your sons are so handsome. I just recently found your channel and love it. I commented before on your haul but this video was emotional. Just take one day at a time sweetie.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Yvette It's hard to deal with emotionally, too. Chronic pain is just the worst. Thank you so much for your kind words, and thank you for taking the time to comment. It really means a lot. Take good care of yourself, darling, and I look forward to seeing you soon in my next video.xx
@shell28504 ай бұрын
You made me cry with this video. 😭 As a mother we put everybody first before ourselves, but you need to take you and your needs first. Your boys love you and understand in their own way. I've had many breakdown moments, that's part of real life. You do not need to apologize ❤ The red lip, OMG, was beautiful on you. You were in the fashion capital of the world, red is a staple color in Paris! I'm thinking Valentino red. Driving on the left side of the road is an accomplishment you should be proud of, I could never do it🤣 The one thing I did pickup in this vlog, I love the way the British pronounce the sneaker Adidas. @karenbritchick pronounces it the same way and she lives in New York City, the city that put Adidas on the map! If you do not follow her please do she is fabulous. She has the same je ne sais quoi that you have, something special that draws people to you❤ I loved the hoodie and trench look you had on with the Adidas. ❤❤ P.S. Your oldest son, he favors you, he has your beautiful eyes and eyebrows.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi Shell Bless you, thank you very much 😊 you guys are so lovely to me. I know we say it very different to you guys lol 😆. I will look up the lady you mentioned as I'm always looking for new people to watch. I know Zion always gers that from everyone. He does look like me lol Bless him. Thanks for taking the time to watch today's vlog as I know it was quite long one. Look forward to seeing you in my next video xx 😘
@angelawashington70074 ай бұрын
I plead the blood over you.. I send love to you from the USA via Texas... I understand your pain when you broke down after your first visit out with the boys... I'm 47 and had brain surgery and it left me with some dramatic changes. So prayers unto you!!! Bottom line you can do it and make it with GOD... Amen
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 Thank you so much, Angela Look after yourself too darling 🤗🥰 Sending you the biggest hug and all my love xx
@kimghoss60214 ай бұрын
Hi Jodi,this is by far the best video you’ve made .Total honesty we really got to appreciate what you go through most days.Yes as a mum we always want our kids to have a fun childhood and you clearly do your very best to achieve that for your boys.It did really upset me when you were crying and explaining how chronic pain effects you physically and emotionally but you push through it most days,it’s a lot for you to deal with as said you are just forty.Praying for you ,and I have massive love and respect for you.x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hiya Kim Thank you so much. This really means so much to me. You guys are so kind to me. I feel so lucky to have you all, and you accept all of me and not just plus size fashion jodie. 🤗🥰🥰
@jobybell85434 ай бұрын
I also have arthritis & fibromyalgia. It can be really crippling at the best of times. You’re amazing for doing this trip. Your boys can be really proud 😊xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Bless you. I totally understand the struggle. It's so hard going. Thank you so much, darling. Look after yourself, sweetheart 💕
@emmajones50754 ай бұрын
Nothing worse than pain❤❤❤ Boys have loved it there faces said it all❤❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
I agree 😩
@cathpinkett57374 ай бұрын
Oh love. Big hugs. I've been to Paris on numerous occasions when I was fitte r and that was a lot as it's so widespread. I have severe arthritis now and it's hard when your body won't let you do stuff. You are doing an amazing thing for your boys xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thanks ever so much, darling 💗 Yes, I agree it can get really unbearable. You take good care of yourself darling xx
@jackierowe91954 ай бұрын
How amazing are you ! The easy option is a couple of days in Spain but going there on your own is a different level ! How exciting for your boys
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you, Jackie 🤗 🥰 it was definitely a trip to remember xx
@bettyanitah63494 ай бұрын
So sorry about the pain….have you considered knee replacement surgery??plus trying prednisone for the pain….I know it’s unbearable…you’re a beautiful soul and I pray you feel better ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thanks darling 😘 Yes I'm having knee replace xx
@amandawicklow64234 ай бұрын
You made me cry, so sorry you're in pain, I also have a chronic illness and understand. Sometimes it takes so much to stay positive. But you drove all the way to Paris, you love your two boys so much, so handsome bless them. Stay strong and brave, it's ok to not be ok sometimes. Sending love❤ xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you very much, darling 🤗🥰
@patriciakeegan6734 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie, I feel for you, please try & pace yourself. We had our granddaughters 18th birthday on Friday, we had a 2 hour drive & I was in agony before we had even done anything! We had a lovely night but I was in so much pain I couldn't get out of the bed in the morning. My husband had to help me up & dress me bless him. I always feel like I'm letting everyone down but my family do understand. Jodie your boys will be happy just having this experience with you so please don't be hard on yourself, I know how frustrating it is but we can only do our best. Take care xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 💕 Awww, bless you. I can honestly relate. I had countless times when my boys had to help dress me, and my partner had to even shower me. I always get the feeling of letting my whole family down 😔
@meryleneclissold24734 ай бұрын
Just watched this and laughed and cried with you. It was so interesting watching your break with your gorgeous boys, you are so lucky. I am not in the same situation as you but can appreciate how difficult it must be for you with your disabilities. I watch all your videos and enjoy them all. You are such a beautiful person inside and out and hope all the best for you and your family.❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awwww thank you so very much darling 🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰
@ann-mariecousins2504 ай бұрын
Loved watching Yr Mini break. The boys are absolutely adorable. Lovely handsome young men. Mummy did good. You should be very very proud of yrself. It was heartbreaking to see you so upset & in pain. Try not to beat yrself up as well tho because Yr doing a fantastic job. Nice rest with great memories to look back on ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, Ann 🤗🥰
@ann-mariecousins2504 ай бұрын
@bigprettyme1622 Yr such a lovely person & put on a brave face all the time & you need to get it out. Its just so shit. I can't imagine. I have arthritis in 1 knee & 1 hand weirdly enough & it is so painful so can't imagine what ypu go through. Mines not bad at the moment comes in flare ups don't it sometimes worse than others. Take care of Yr special self & remember we all love you & think Yr great ❤️
@user-sp4pm4lb2b4 ай бұрын
This was amazing ThAnkyou ! My son is unwell with a chronic condition . He so wants to go on holiday . This gave me some hope . You have such a lovely wee family Jodie I absolutely adore your videos .. xo😊
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww thank you so much sweetheart 💗 I do hope he gets to go on holiday, just prepare as much as you can before hand xx
@mummabee21214 ай бұрын
WOW Jodie you did fantastic 💪👏 i could never do that drive ( i can't even get to Basildon from Southend) your boys are a credit to you and the love you have for them shines out of you xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you, darling. Haha, that's not that far, u can do it, girl 💪🏼 I went to a really nice restaurant in basildon last night too lol
@janebrandon4 ай бұрын
Oh Jodie, we all felt your pain 😢 You are a strong amazing woman with gorgeous boys and I'm sure they are as proud of you as you are of them ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Jane 🤗 🥰
@lucin6254 ай бұрын
Jodi ❤ You are absolutely wonderful! ❤ Such a beautiful lady inside and out! You are such a strong lady, and fantastic Mum! An absolute inspiration! ❤ xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, darling. Honestly, I feel so lucky to have you all. You're all just so kind 🤗🥰🥰 xx
@vinettem81854 ай бұрын
Loved watching your posts. I'm so touched by your honesty. I send you so much blessings. Keep going you have a wonderful heart ❤️
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, sweetheart 🤗🤗🥰🥰
@williaminadonn74124 ай бұрын
I am so sorry that you're in so much pain ❤❤❤ a big hug xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, darling 💗
@lindaparris57564 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie this is my first comments to you always watching your show but seeing you in so much pain and crying its really make me feel so sad for you. But in life we all have ours cross to bear so you pray to God to help you along and he will he will not give you more than you can cope with ok. And you have two lovely boys. From Linda in Birmingham uk.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Linda Awww, thank you so much for taking the time to write to me. I'm always praying, but sometimes I do ask why me, and then I snap out of it because I remind myself I have loads to be grateful for, and there is always someone worse off than me. Xxx
@Suzannewatterson4 ай бұрын
Jodie you are just amazing I couldn’t do what you did travelling abroad and driving abroad as the only adult and I don’t have an illness like you do Your honesty during this video was so moving and brave of you to share what you have to endure You should be mega proud of your achievements on this trip I’m sure your boys are too xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so very much, Suzanne 🤗🥰 xxx
@dianawoods47724 ай бұрын
Jodie I'm sure your boys are enjoying your company and having fun believe me they are happy .
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you, Diana xx
@taniaaustin64334 ай бұрын
I don't know if you've heard about this pain relief technique It may help especially between taking painkillers. Go and relax in a quiet area. Laying on your bed with curtains closed. What you do is just focus and concentrate on the pain. Because your brain connects to the nerves in your body. You can sometimes numb the pain. If you do this put a do not disturb sign on your door because if someone comes in and asks you how your feeling it stops it from working. Hope this helps you sweetie ❤
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
This is very interesting and one I will definitely be giving a go. Thanks very much lovely 🤗
@janetmartin77724 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie, I absolutely loved this vlog. The bond you have with your handsome boys is truly amazing, and it certainly shows how much they love you. Never ever apologise for your chronic pain and illnesses your FB family understands. You are such an inspiration to other people and talking about your chronic illnesses will certainly let them know they are not alone in suffering chronic pain. Take care and rest lovely 🌻🌻🌻xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you very much, darling 😘 xx
@lisab40334 ай бұрын
Ah Jodie. Bless yr heart. What a lovely time to have with your boys, they really are a credit to their fab mum. Sad that you were in so much pain, you cope so well with it, and are always so bright and cheerful. A lovely memory for you all. Keep smiling. God bless xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, Lisa 😊 I try to, but sometimes I just hope to bear the pain. Xxx
@tonyamiller2604 ай бұрын
Love this video. Praying for you always. Your young men are so handsome.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much 💓
@jacquelineallen99544 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie I am so sorry to hear that you are in so much pain. I sympathise with you I also suffered until I had my knee operation which made a world of difference although I still suffer with arthritis it is so much better. You are a wonderful person inside and out take care of yourself sending a big Hug xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you very much darling 😘 Fingers crossed I have my knees done soon too. Xx
@amandajones81014 ай бұрын
Aww gosh Jodi we are so in the same place. My son is so gracious with my health and I’m blessed to lean on my husband. Still… I know the crushing pain of chronic illness and then disappointment of missing out. I also have a KZfaq channel under a different account and it’s a nice outlet when I can do it. Just want you to know I relate - and I love that your boys are learning so much from you about compassion. They’re gorgeous young men, I’ve watched them grow the last couple of years. You’re clearly a good mom! Sending love and hugs from Indiana in the middle of the US. 😊❤🥰😘
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Amanda 👋🏽 Awww, bless you too, darling. We are lucky to have them by our sides. I will definitely go check out your page and show you the love and support you have shown me 🤗🥰 Omg I know the boys are growing up too fast 😩 I very proud of them 💖
@robertahinton37804 ай бұрын
You should be very proud of yourself you did a great job for your boys they’re so handsome but, it something they will remember for every it look like so much fun for them . I know you was hurting your the mom of the year because when I get lost I will have a panic attack 😅but you kept it together and gave your boys something to talk about for years well done 👍🏽💕😊
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Roberta xx
@botticellib4 ай бұрын
You're such an inspiration ❤ I have a trip coming up and dread the travelling and having people wait and FOMO. I've made a list of added things to take like rubs, hotwater bottle and a ice bag. Good for you making a massive effort!! I agree. It does feel "invisible" I've even downsized my explanation to describe what I'm feeling cos it's too much to explain to others how it feels.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much darling 💗 I hope you have the best time 🤗🥰 Yes I do that now too because it's a lot 😄😔
@basmahassan29094 ай бұрын
Talking about umbrellas, we always forget them in the car and end up buying more! A bit like shopping bags! 😂
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hahaha me too lol
@barbarabelote91314 ай бұрын
Hello Jodi I felt every step u took. I carry my meds with me everywhere I go. We women at times don’t think of ourselves first but ur boys are old enough to do things there while u rest in between walks. But to be honest I did the same thing with my boys as well. I too use the volt ram gel and I mix it with Vicks rub and vanilla and lavender oil and that helps so much. I had the surgery at thirty two yrs of age and I’m 61 now I’m much smaller then I was when I had the surgery and the pain has become much more worse. I suffer much more now then I did. The surgeon said it will return but it’s going to get much so now when I go out I have to rent a scooter just so I can keep up with my grown boys and two grand kids. Injustice use it for long distance.well I hope that u fill much better soon. I also hope that u can continue to enjoy urself with u an ur boys much love to u and tell the aunt sends her love. Be safe and I see u at ur next video. The swimsuit all looked nice but I like the pink swimsuit the best.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Barbara 👋🏽 It's just so frustrating when you feel like you want to do more, but your body just won't let you. Thank you for the advice on things to rub in my knees. Look forward to seeing you in my next video xx Take good care of yourself xx
@margaretbekhait97954 ай бұрын
Jodie understand how you're feeling as I had bad knees and decided to have surgery it was the best decision I made had both knees total replacement not going to lie recovery was hard but after 3 months I was a new woman can walk for miles and lost a lot of. Weight because I can walk now so I hope you get the surgery and never have to go through that kind of pain again just have to mention loved the red lip you looked stunning you should have left it on red lip and Paris perfect you should be so proud of yourself driving to Paris not easy stay safe stay beautiful.❤🍸
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Margaret I'm waiting to have knee surgery and the sound of it from so many of you are saying it life changing so fingers crossed, I don't need ti wait too long xx
@Adrienne0644 ай бұрын
Hey Loved One! So glad you and the boys got a chance to visit Paris and be together! I felt so bad that you were paining, and I continue to keep you in prayer! Thank you for always sharing with us; I so appreciate you for all that you do!! 🤗🙏💞
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hey darling 👋🏽 Thank you so much. I am truly grateful for all the love and kind words. You guys are amazing 🤗🥰🥰🥰
@dawnbailey43954 ай бұрын
Jodie your boys are a credit to you. You have brought them up the right way. I cannot believe they are happy to share clothes. I only wish other’s could learn from you. Keep up the good work. You’ve got lots more memories to make with your boys. I hope you’re had a good rest now.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi Dawn Thank you ever so much 😘 I know I'm lucky they share clothes because my boys never would. We had the best time, thank you 😊 xx
@ruthc4d4 ай бұрын
You are so brave Jodie!! I'm 38 and have mobility and pain issues myself due to a neurological condition. I have a 17 & 15 year old. I would be so anxious to do this kind of trip and feel so proud of you for doing it. I heard you mention you might not be able to do these things again in the future and wondered if you have considered using any mobility aids? Like a wheel chair? I know it's a difficult pill to swallow, it something I struggle with all the time and get myself in a state about needing something like that. You are amazing for going ❤ xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely Thank you very much 😊 Ur right, but like you said, it's coming to terms that I need more assistance to go out and about. Do you use a walking aid? Xx
@ruthc4d4 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 I do have a rolator with a seat that I can use to sit down if I need too... I don't use it very often as I said it is hard to come to terms with needing that kind of aid, however when I went on holiday last year with my family it made navigating the airport and unfamiliar routine so much easier to manage xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
@ruthc4d I will look into this kind of thing, but I normally book Disability assistance at the airport, which is so helpful as they push in a wheelchair to the plane. I highly recommend this x
@dianekeep52204 ай бұрын
You're so inspiring Jodie 😊 and so confident in yourself driving to Paris ❤ your boys are so handsome and respectful ❤ whenever I'm feeling fed up and moaning I'll look to you for inspiration x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you, Diane 🤗🤗🥰🥰
@DionneDean4 ай бұрын
You're doing an AMAZING job my love! Sending love and hugs from Miami!
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Dionne 💓
@SheerBlissMakeUp4 ай бұрын
You’re doing great Jodie…I also have arthritis in my lower spine and know how painful it can be…just one step at a time. Your boys will cherish every minute…it’s all about the memories you can make ❤❤ xo
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
It's so difficult dealing with chronic pain 😢 Thank you very much, darling 😘 xx
@tpink46514 ай бұрын
This was everything! Thanks for sharing 🤗
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww thank you darling 😘
@doreenmcloughlin57874 ай бұрын
Aww so glad you had a nice time .your boys are lovly .and your a lovly mum who loves her boys very much .hope you feel much better and not in as much pain in the days ahead .thankyou for sharing your little family's journey with us Love dolly x😊
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you ever so much lovely 🤗🥰
@rhianevans71894 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie Nothing worse than pain,as no one knows what we endure. The apartment is lovely. So compact. Seems as tho you had a nice break in Paris. I have been to Paris but not been into the city. People ask me all the time if I am ok dueto my spinal problems with my mobility. One woman did tell me that it’s the ultimate worst thing to have reduced mobility. I have been like this for nearly twenty years and it does not get easier so I sympathise with you. Well done you for driving to Paris as I don’t think i could not do it years ago I went tonstay with my cousin in America with my daughter who was twelve at the time. My cousin asked me if I would like to go to Carmel for my second wee. I erm said no as,I did it know anything about the highways and byways so we did go to Disney and on the way there the car broke down and we stayed in this little place like what you saw in the movies years ago as it was an old town called Bakersfield on the Sunday. We left USA on the Friday night and arrived in Uk the same day. Talk about jet lag Have a safe journey back and will see you on the next one All the best. Rhian xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
It's the most horrible feeling ever. 😞 Omg it most of took ages to recover from that wow 😵💫
@margim39884 ай бұрын
You really suit that red lip ❤ Hope you see this as a compliment but with your hair slicked back you always remind me of Sade 😁😘 What a lovely mum you are. Stay strong 😘 Loved this vlog and your honesty 🌷
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
Oh, thank you so much, sweetheart! 🥰🤗
@melissaa41684 ай бұрын
I think you were forgetting you did a long drive, toy then went off out, you then hit rain which was bound to trigger your condition then to top it off you had to get back to your accommodation. The day just took it out of you no shame, like you said you made it to Paris ...well done you tfs
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
That's very true, thank you. I needed to hear that 🤗🥰 Sending all my love you xx
@maximokit4 ай бұрын
Bless you sweetheart. There’s nothing worse than being in pain and nobody can begin to understand until they’ve been there. I have arthritis in my hips and it is so painful, my partner also likes to go walking for miles and I am fearing our relationship won’t last as I can’t keep up with him. It’s so sad.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely I really hope that doesn't happen, but unfortunately, these are the issues we face. I to got into a new relationship 3 years ago and at first because I only saw him from time to time I found it easy to try and hide just how much my illness impact my mobility and life. I would spend the night and day with him, then come home and be in excruciating pain for days and days after. It wasn't long before we started spending more time together, and then I couldn't hide it anymore. I'm grateful he trys to understand and he really does help me alot now buy I do feel guilty that he has to be with someone who suffers so much because it does limit what we can do daily. Sending you all my love and hope it will all be just fine. Xx
@jackie-f8k4 ай бұрын
😢😢😢 My beautiful friend 🥺❤️🦋 It was awful seeing you crying and in so much pain 🤦♀️🥺 This is how I feel when I’m on my feet for the shortest time 😢 It’s soul destroying isn’t it 🤦♀️ But I’m sending you very big hugs 🤗 and hope that you had a great time with your very handsome Sons 🥰💙💙 Not surprising really when their mum is a stunner 🥰😘🦋❤️ Lots of love to you all xx Catch up soon 🥹🦋💙 xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello lovely How are you darling? Bless you, I really is soul destroying 😢. We had the best time. Thank you 😊 xxx
@nadsgee72454 ай бұрын
Jodie, my lovely! Thank you for showing this. (I had tears in my eyes hearing you share your painful struggle 🥲) With all the obstacles you had faced with your disabilities...you have won, by not letting these challenges stop you. From driving all the way to Paris from England, spending quality time with your boys, doing a mini haul (loved it all) I am praying that if and when you get your knee replacement, that are able to do more of these travelling vlogs pain-free, but I salute you for courageous, "not giving up" attitude and your boys are supportive troopers too. 💪🏾 Ps: I loved the OOTD of the burgundy hoodie and trench coat and sambas (I'm gonna nick that idea from you) ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, sweetheart. This comment really warms my heart, I feel so lucky to have all you amazing people be part of my KZfaq family 🤗🥰 Thank you , I have never worn burgundy before, but I love it now 😍
@iljacosper4 ай бұрын
I feel your pain! I always have to wear my knee brace and wear my tried and true walking shoes ( under armour hover) with arched insoles...I feel like a broken doll sometimes
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
I totally can relate. I feel broken inside too
@iljacosper4 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 I can’t stress enough though that when you have plans to do long walks you need to wear the right shoes, I know it sucks because we want to be fashionable but luckily sneakers are in fashion 😊
@veronicaletmeaskyousomethi84574 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking me to Paris. I love the shades & red lip. The neutral lip is classy. Lovely for day, but with your complexion that red lip will ALWAYS be an absolute stunner. I guess you can figure out I wear a red lip a lot🤗
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 😘
@paulajones3994 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie there's nothing worse when your in so much pain l can't even walk now as my knees are on bone bone pain so bad but just to say you look stunning have lovely time away x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi Paula It's so horrible, isn't it. That's exactly how mine are bone rubbing on bone. I worry every day I will not be able to walk at all if I don't have my knees done soon. Thank you so much, darling, and please look after yourself xx
@joanneosullivan88044 ай бұрын
In sorry your in so much pain , your a beautiful person x
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Joanne 🤗
@julieonwubiko34784 ай бұрын
Girl you did good just know god loves you n your on the right road to getting wear you want to be keep going as our some one thatl look up to as lmy self have to walk with oxygen n breathing machine it l don't know you but when l watch your vlogs you make mesayto my self keep going so god be with you your blessed love your vlogs
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 😘 awww I'm so happy my videos give you a lift to keep going 🙏 Take good care of yourself, sweetheart, and I look forward to seeing you in my next video xx 😘
@chronophobia71174 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie! This was a lovely vlog to watch, and you’re an amazing mum, your sons will remember the effort you put in despite the pain you’re suffering! I wish you kept the red lipstick on though, you looked stunning! I’m inspired to rock a red lip when I go to Paris in the future! ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you very much, lovely 🤗🥰 I used to love a red lip 💄 👄 I honestly don't know what is wrong with me. Xx wear the red lip girly 🥰
@caroleclark17074 ай бұрын
Dont underestimate your self Enjoy x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Aww thank you darling 😘
@denises96804 ай бұрын
Hi Jodie, gosh you are so brave I've never even thought of doing anything like this before! When my boys were younger I'd book a coach trip and if their dad wasn't working he'd drive us. I don't drive unfortunately! But even if I could I don't think I'd be this brave. Your right to feel proud of yourself I'm proud of you 😊 at least you had a great time. And going with your boys and having those memories is everything. I loved the dance they both did when they saw the busker that made me smile 😁 the busker liked it too 😂 Jodie when you were crying I was crying too 😢 knowing how much pain you were in...so sad. Your boys are always going to be there for you. Your eldest is your double! Both boys are gorgeous ❤ my husband has Chronic pain and he's in constant pain daily. I'm his carer and the struggles he goes through every minute of the day. It's hard seeing someone that was fit when they were younger and now can't do as much. It's heart breaking. I too now have issues back problems arthritis in my knees and a bend in my spine I too take meds to ease it but meds can only do so much. We can't win! We just have to smile and carry on 😂 😊 this was fun to watch so thanks for sharing. Nice car too love the colour 😂 see you in your next video/vlog take care ❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hiya Denise Awww thank you very much darling 😘 Bless you and your husband 🫂 I truly is hard to live with. Everyone say zion looks like me, lucky him looool 😆😆😆 Thanks again hun, I too look forward to seeing you in my next video xx
@denises96804 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 🥰
@williaminadonn74124 ай бұрын
You have two handsome young men I hope you had a great time xx❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Aww, thank you, darling 😘 We had a great time. Thank you 😊
@janicewilson34034 ай бұрын
oh jody I feel your pain you done brilliant for your boys x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you very much Janice 🤗🥰
@debbiecollins23544 ай бұрын
Jody, you are amazing to do this with your boys. You’re a lovely mum. I feel your pain when you get upset. I know how it feels you look so lovely and your boys are lovely too. Can you tell me please where did you get the badge that goes around your neck, I’ve also got blue badges but I have not got anything to go round my neck so would like to get one xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello lovely Thank you so much, sweetheart 💗 It's a National Disability Card. Look it up. Actually, I will pop the link in my description box below this video for you. It's really handy to have to make people aware or use it when u need to use a service.
@debbiecollins23544 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 thank you lovely xx
@RitaLeigh-ld4yf4 ай бұрын
Well done Jodie on making those wonderful memories for your boys. Driving to Paris is certainly a challenge with your medical condition but you were brave enough to do it which shows what a strong person you are. Yes you had your moments when the pain got to you but it didn’t ruin your little break your boys would have loved it. I’m a lot older than you but I have osteoarthritis myself of my knees so hope you don’t mind if I give you a couple of tips. Firstly never wear flat shoes even in the house as it makes the condition worse as there is no cushioning to take the impact. Try and wear trainers, I rip the insoles out of mine and buy memory foam cushioned insoles…I get them from Amazon this has made a huge difference. Secondly a product I’ve become to rely on for my knee pain is called Biofreeze, a completely natural ingredient which means you can take your medication with it unlike a lot of rubs. It kind of freezes the pain, I get it from Amazon. I hope you get your knee operations soon then it will be a game changer for you , you’ve lost so much weight already you certainly deserve it. My fingers are crossed for you. ❤❤ xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Rita Thanks so much for these tips. I will definitely try and make these changes because at this point, I will try again xx
@blondscientist4 ай бұрын
This was great to watch and to know you better! I took a lot of inspiration from your fighter attitude. 💪🏻😊
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, darling 😘 Yes no matter how hard things get, I will never give up xx
@bernadettew36144 ай бұрын
Hey Lovely, never ever apologise for being human living to live with chronic pain etc. you’re a hero honestly! You’ve just driven all the way to blummin Paris! Superwoman! With 2 teenagers too😳🤯😝I felt every step for you 😢Try not to beat yourself up for something you cannot help. This won’t be the last time! for sure Darlin, just plan a little bit more n hire a wheelchair or get crutches at least for that support next time. Recommend nerve blocking injections, morphine n lidocaine patches actually strapping the knees and new knees too. If you’re stuck the deep freeze spray (like deep heat but cold) is a miracle. It numbs the knee n back pain immediately. You’ll get a new lease of life promise. I’ve travelled all over n have the same as you too for over 20 years n have travelled all over n at 65 still don’t intend in stopping n I’m saying you better not either n btw one knows you there 😂 😜 Celebrate your achievements Jodie…Amazing 👏👏🙏🥰❣️ Ps believe me you don’t need the lashes but understand you yourself , new shades from Pareee!whitwoo😎
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, darling, this comment mens the world to me. Thank you ever so much. I'm actually waiting to have my knees done. I do have a special strap made for my knee, but it doesn't stay up. I will try the other things you suggested, thank you. Don't be a stranger would love to hear from you again. Thank you for all the love and support. Look forward to seeing you in my next video xx 😘 🤗
@bernadettew36144 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 Ah you’re welcome. Just a tip. Those lidocaine patches you can get from your gp or consultant. Put them on either side of your knee. Place the bottom of the patch on securely and the pull up n over with tension up n over your knee. It takes the weight of them and supports them too., but deffo ask about nerve blocking injections they’re miraculous. They take away at least 60% or more of the pain away for at least 3-4 months. You’re much too young n vital to be suffering like that. Good luck Love.🥰
@sher-sherb86554 ай бұрын
Hey Jodie I know it was hard but you really did give the boys a lovely time. Don’t be too hard on yourself ❤❤❤
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 🤗🥰
@paulajones3994 ай бұрын
Thank you Jodie to write back your a lovely person you take care darling and just have say you look amazing x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi Paula Awww, thank you so much 💓
@kathleenfarrelly43484 ай бұрын
Wat a lovely place to enjoy
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
It was lovely 😍 👌🏼
@dawnmorris80274 ай бұрын
What a fabulous looking family ❤keep the red lip you look bloody gorgeous 🥰 take things slow and if you feel any pain sit down i deal with this everyday don't let it beat you, i don't ,and i have cancer flower my son is fabulous with me and youres will be too i also have fibro and if you need too, use a crutch or a stick it helps honestly xxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, darling 😘 Xx
@HeatherBathgate-py6wr4 ай бұрын
Omg you are amazing I know what it's like to be in so much pain when walking, you just have to keep going .💕
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awwww, thank you, darling 🤗🥰 Yes, we sure do 💪🏼🥰
@allisondowning3834 ай бұрын
Hello Jodi, I am crying now because I know the pain. You know I have arthritis in my knees also but one thing I had to do was find some type of relief so I have very stylish canes that I use, I have some that have flower design on it, I have a purple one and etc. I know this is hard but you will be able to take the pressure of your knees a little bit. I really did not want to do this and I felt so same as I am 41 years old , but you know I said I don’t care if some people look at me, it was the pain and you know what no one is making me feel uncomfortable but me. In fact people have been very kind in holding doors, giving me a seat etc and I walk with pride. You will be able to be with your boys more.My canes have a small rubber stand at the bottom so I don’t slip. Honey please take care of yourself and ask your doctor for help. I will pray for you if you don’t mind.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hello Allison Thank you so much for this message. Honestly, I don't think you all understand just how seen and heard I do from you all. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone, but speaking to people like yourself who truly understand my struggle makes me feel that less alone. I think I will look into buying myself a stick that will help hold me up a bit more. I hope you are keeping well yourself? Thank you so much, sweetheart 💗 I hope to speak to you again very soon. All my love Jodie xx
@jmoniz61744 ай бұрын
God bless you Jodi.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
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@jeanroberts82624 ай бұрын
You did good my lovely I to have leg problems pains an under statement I felt you pain well done you you did it 😘
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely Awww, bless you. It's the most horrible pain 😢 Thank you darling xx
@midgetjones32314 ай бұрын
Omg we went to see the tower in May and went to that restaurant!!! The toilets were mad! PS I love your videos- new subscriber.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely Welcome to the family 😊 Omg did you. The toilets were so cool 👌🏼😆
@heatherrennie3904 ай бұрын
Well done Jodie driving to Paris🚘👏I would be a nightmare trying to drive on the right side😂Quality time with your boys💙💙So Perfect😘Great Memories made for you all.Boys made me laugh dancing to busker on way to Eiffel Tower😂You pushed yourself out of your comfort zone.Amazing lady.Hoping you get your knee replacement asap.x x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 😘 I had a moment, I'm not going to lie but I quickly got my act together. I really did push myself to do as much as I could.. xxx
@beverleyemmett45214 ай бұрын
Dear Jodie. I have had many times over the years, just like you have experienced with the pain everywhere, and I finally succumbed to buying a mini disability scooter that folds to the size of a trolley dolly so that you can put it in the back of your car. It has honestly changed my life and I wish I’d bought one sooner. Sending you healing hugs and I wish you all the very best with your weight loss journey.😘
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, darling. I may need to look into one, too. 🤗🥰
@sallymarshall86184 ай бұрын
Oh Jodie I really feel for you, I suffer with painful knees but I don’t thing I’m as bad as you. please rest relax and start again tomorrow . I’m sure the boys understand and hope it doesn’t spoil things to much. Can you hire a mobility scooter for the rest of your stay. Love to you and your family xxx try a face oil at night for your dry skin I love it xx 24:44
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi Sally Thank you ever so much 😘 I really appreciate all your advice, love, and support 🤗🥰 Will look for a face oil xx
@colettemikaelson1604 ай бұрын
Zion cracked me up with the look he threw 😂😂 They are growing into lovely young men Jodie, they are a credit to you. X I need to stop being such a baby about long distance drives and put my big girl pants on and go more places lol Know your boys understand and they love you immensely, we are so hard on ourselves as parents x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely Omg I know Zion always has a look on his face. Lol Yes, you do. Honestly, we spend more time stressing about things that 9 time out of 10 we had no need to stress xx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much xx
@colettemikaelson1604 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 teen boys for you 😂 I may have seen it on occasion from my two haha
@skrefurbishedinteriors4 ай бұрын
So brave Jodie well done girl! I could never! I will however do Eurostar and ubber as much as possible everywhereee... 😂😂
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
I did consider that 😁
@veronicaletmeaskyousomethi84574 ай бұрын
The boys in the bathroom with the doors were a hoot! You have a very handsome family. There is no doubt they are your young men.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
😁🤗🥰
@veronicaletmeaskyousomethi84574 ай бұрын
I have to finish watching it this evening.
@bizzyduffy8734 ай бұрын
Hi jodie, u did so well driving to Paris. Did u ever try rubbing castor oil into your joints. Alot of people swear by it and anything is worth a try. It has to be the organic one in a glass bottle.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hiya lovely I have never done that, but yes, it's worth a try for sure. I will look into this. Thank you ever so much 😘
@bizzyduffy8734 ай бұрын
Anything is worth a shot.
@leonaallen40444 ай бұрын
Hi Jodi I know how you feel I have arthritis also the knees hurt so bad some days you take care of yourself
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you darling You take care of yourself too love xx
@dianeknight48394 ай бұрын
You did better than I would have. Get some rest love. Maybe you should hire a mobility scooter, it is not worth being miserable. Don't cry Jodie, it makes me sad to see you like this. I bought a knee and a back brace which helps when I have to walk. I knew you would end up like this, my joints were hurting just seeing the distance you walked.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you, Diane I really tried my hardest and walked unassisted when I could, but most of the time, I was held up by one of the boys, bless them. We made great memories so I'm so happy about that. Xx
@jacquelineharriette28964 ай бұрын
Well Done for driving to Paris.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you darling 😘
@user-lv4tn1rx7u3 ай бұрын
Your a great mam.love u connie from dublin ireland xxx
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much, Connie xx
@Mn54bu4 ай бұрын
So sorry . Next time get knee braces for knee arthritis at pharmacy store. That helps me. For me the rain and cold weather trigger it. Hope it helps ❤ You have a beautiful family.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling Yes, I have a knee brace, which was made especially for my knee, but it keeps falling down now, so I will see if I can get something in the pharmacy. Yes, the weather tiggers mine too. Xxx
@starperry17844 ай бұрын
I feel yr pain i have had a operation on my feet i have had osteoaritis for 20yrs over the yrs it gets worse ime now in a wheel chair ive also got so much pain in my left knew it is unbearable i understand how yr feeling xxxxx
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this. This illness is so horrible that it actually scares me. But I try most of the time to stay positive. Take care of yourself, sweetheart 💕 💖
@anitaseethiah31614 ай бұрын
Hello Jodi just watch this vdo I can relate I cry you a beautiful soul inside out sending you healing prayers. Can I please have the link of the air bnb thanks god bless❤
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
Thank you darling ❤️ I will see if I can find it and then I will poo it in my description box below this video xx
@basmahassan29094 ай бұрын
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@karenbell59074 ай бұрын
Wish I’d known you were going. We went couple of years ago. I pre hired a mobility scooter that was delivered to where we were staying. I couldn’t have managed to walk round the corner never mind to the Eiffel Tower or around Paris. If I’d known I would have given you the email from the mobility company I hired it from as they were brilliant! Try to enjoy as much as you’re able. Uber if you can to main sights. The tour bus is good too as it takes to all the main sights and you can get if and in as many times as you need to.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hiya Karen I will definitely look into that next time as I just couldn't manage it. It is nice to hear that you are still enjoying life by visiting other places and not letting your mobility stop you. Thanks for the advice and recommendations xxx
@carmels32714 ай бұрын
Love the red lipstick on you. What shade/brand was it? Almost makes me feel brave to try it!
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you, darling 😘 It a Mlia creamy mattie lipstick colour Razzleberry 👄😘
@patfernandes77414 ай бұрын
Please, please, please looking into Carnivore, Intermittent Fasting and Oxalates. Your story resonates with me so much (and I've got 20yrs on you). I've lost 40kg (have another 40 to go) but even if weight loss isn't your goal, I've been overwhelmed by the almost instant improvements to my health - I went from not being able to walk more than 20 yds without pain and breathlessness to joining a gym on day 10.....and now I've got a 100km walk planned later in the year, plus off all my meds. There are lots of vids on here from credible sources. Best of luck.
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi lovely I have done intimate fasting and have lost just over 4 stone. I'm currently at a stand still but will get back on it very soon. I know once I'm lighter, my knee won't be as painful. I'm so happy you are where u are today. Well done for staying consistent and not giving up 💪🏼👌🏼🤗🥰
@patfernandes77414 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 Do look into Carnivore and Oxalates too. - IF is great but not enough in isolation. Completely changed my life health wise in terms of pain....and boy do I feel it if I deviate. Congrats on weight loss......I'm at that tricky half way stage too. Best of luck.
@neziswaanasir5933Ай бұрын
Your boys are soooo cute
@bigprettyme162229 күн бұрын
@neziswaanasir5933 awww thank you darling ☺️ 😘
@e1618994 ай бұрын
Jodie I have similar problems with the artheritis. Can't you get an operation for your knee?
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Yes, I'm on the waiting list to have knee replacement, but until then, I have to bear with it 😩
@reginaramsey71974 ай бұрын
Hello love I was crying right along with you I live in the United States I live in the state of Colorado very high in the mountains so we get rain and cold I also suffer from chronic pain I have diabetes I also have high blood pressure I am with a considered morally obese very heavy and weight I also suffer from knee pain and I also have neuropathy I have no feeling in my feet very much my hands and I'm 52 years old I'm still very young and I haven't worked in the last 9 years because of my condition and I also forgot I am also on oxygen I've always done physical work I've always worked I've had to move back into my mother's and my father's home I am blessed that I have a home and a roof over my head but it's hard My boys are older now I have a 24-year-old and a 21-year-old very good young men I'm very proud and my oldest just made me a grandma about a month ago so I have a little granddaughter by the name of ivory and she's beautiful and I cry because I know I can't take care of her I fallen a lot so that scares my son for me to keep her because he worries that if I fall it would be scary you know so just remember arthritis flares up whenever the weather changes it's cold wet keep your head up you are so beautiful and I know that if me and you ever met we would be the best of friends so I'm glad you made it to Paris I grew up in Germany Manheim and I've had them pleasure of visiting just about every hair including England so I love what you are putting out because there's so many of us sorry I had to make such a long comment but I just felt the need to let you know that you're not alone and stay amazing Good evening my love
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Hi my lovely How are you? Bless you it's not easy but we still just keep going. That must be so lovely to have a granddaughter 🤗🥰 Keep your chin up and just let you said we are not alone. I'm so grateful to have you all here 💛 xx
@MargaretEverson-fg2zj4 ай бұрын
Hire a wheelchair the boys are big and strong enough x
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Definitely something I will have to look into, but I'm very heavy, and I'm not sure they could do it for long xx
@ppthegreatest39414 ай бұрын
Darling im fairly new to your channel, you have a beautiful family. I was thinking how gorgeous you looked with red lipstick when you said you felt uncomfortable with it on. My husband suffers with chronic pain, it certainly can be hard to live with. Hugs xsuex ❤ ❤
@bigprettyme16223 ай бұрын
Oh, thank you, sweetheart! 💕 Yes it hard for the person living with it and their family who have to see them in constant pain day in day out 😫
@ginaalexandra_4 ай бұрын
Jodi look into liquid collagen
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
👌🏼🥰
@aliciametters20254 ай бұрын
God bless you Dear! You are so gorgeous and such a great Mom! Selfless you are giving your all to your sons! Darling what is your nail color if I may ask! Perfect nude on you! 💃🏽
@bigprettyme16224 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, darling 🤗🥰 I'm not sure what the colour is as I get the dip in power at the salon. When I'm in next I will see if I can find out for you. Xx
@aliciametters20254 ай бұрын
@@bigprettyme1622 Thank you Dear! You are precious!
@florenceosatimehim36064 ай бұрын
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@kerry12334 ай бұрын
Well done you driving to Paris. Your local pharmacy in Paris will arrange a wheelchair for you.