I (F25) went no contact with my family (M54, F50, and M20) when I was 18. Now they are reaching...

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@Manyshapes 2 күн бұрын

Lol. They destroyed your childhood and call you a bad daughter because you didn’t run back to them?

@brianbarber5401 2 күн бұрын

Tell every relative the whole story - cheating and all - and how they neglected you their entire life because your mom is cheater and your dad is a coward, and now they feel guilty, but don’t actually care about the harm they did. They just want to say they’re sorry, and have absolution of their guilt.

@lisabiased7112 2 күн бұрын

eve if OP was her uncle daughter what is her moms excuse she's the one that had an affair shouldn't she have treated OP right and even if she was an affair baby why do people always take it out on the child

@ChaoticAngelKitten 2 күн бұрын

Exactly! It’s your dang screw up! Not the kids! Don’t blame the kid for your stupidity, people!

@nameplayer1571 2 күн бұрын

Their guilt and push it to someone else. OP wasn't even defended because the father resent her. One is doing it out of feeling less guilt and the other because resentment. Even though he forgive his wife but he has still an ick and wouldn't hurt the wife because he forgave her. People forget that the baby is innocent but also if he don't want forgive his wife, the child is not his responsibility and the other way around if the wife is forgiven he must accept the child too and don't resent her. It should be only one way or another else this happened.

@SpencerMckenithWilliams 6 сағат бұрын

@@nameplayer1571 it requires a real man (an actual masculine man, not what soyciety or women say what masculinity is/should be) to love and raise any child, especially their own children. OP dad is a not even a good man, much less a real one. Everyone needs self respect to maintain and improve mental health among other things, men especially as guys have zero fallback plans meanwhile women don't even have to respect their bodies or their children and some emotionally and constitutionally weak but wealthy guy is still going to try to marry her. OPs dad has no self respect first for taking back a cheater, second, refusal to get the paternity test after the affair was confirmed, third agreeing to raise this child outside of his terms, or comfort zone, safe space compromised, with zero consideration to his own mental health and wellbeing, and fourth, and I really need you to focus your eyes on this , PUNISHING THE CHILD FOR THE SINS OF HIS CHEATING HARLOY, WHOM HE HIMSELF REFUSED TO HOLD ACCOUNTABLE BY REWARDING ALL OF HER TRANSGRESSIONS AND DISRESPECT BY RUG SWEEPING. I'd be p!$$3d and cut them off too if I was OP.

@Joey15811 2 күн бұрын

Personally I feel like the damage has been done. They have a lot of grovelling to do.

@rebeccaconlon9743 2 күн бұрын

How they treat an innocent child speaks volumes as to who they are. If op wasn't his, it still doesn't justify harming and neglecting op, but she's his and now they want to kiss and make up? They are nasty parents regardless

@HarryJamesPotter7 2 күн бұрын

There is a very special place for those parents.

@user-pf9yt7oy4d Күн бұрын

“Chicken nuggets for brains,” I love that 😂. I’m going to start using that LMAO

@julietaestamo8880 2 күн бұрын

Family: you are cruel and heartless. OP: I learned from the best - you.

@Alex20051 2 күн бұрын

With chicken nuggets for brains 💀💀💀

@liciewhiteley7376 2 күн бұрын

You don't need people who will ostracized someone over a "misunderstanding". But OP's dad shouldn't have accepted her if he wasn't going to treat op as his own. And if mom wanted to be a family with dad she should have fought for it. Finding out it was a "mistake" the whole time is not making it up to OP. Sad part OP probably could have done better had the parents nurtured her like they did her brother. Im nc with a family member. I told her she abused me for 30yrs, call me in another 30 of making it up to me. Every few years i get a call from her but its the same script I've gotten since we were kids. There's no change in her behavior, or habits. No remorse for all the things she did to me or to others. Just dialogue of her telling me how she is and everything happening in her life..... Of course she hasn't started making It up to me so everytime she calls her 30yr timer is reset. I think I'm being generous since every message is just her still keeping me in her circle of abuse.

@claytonthomas1980 2 күн бұрын

The OP's decision to go NC with her own family is totally worth it in more ways than one because their actions spoke louder than words plus the OP was better off letting them know what she maybe a horrible daughter but her own family made her that way so they have themselves to blame for that reality being played out as is, problem solved right there period.

@goatkiller666 2 күн бұрын

First of all, neglect *IS* abuse. Second of all, what you should do is exactly what you have been doing since high school. Your position on being in contact with them shouldn’t change just because they finally want it. In fact, going NC with people who won’t give you the time of day is easy… they take care of it for you. Going NC only matters if there’s some kind of desire for contact for you to refuse. They’re sick with regret with how they mistreated you over a misunderstanding…. So? They SHOULD be sick with regret over how they mistreated you. And since none of them EVER showed you that they cared, you never had a reason to bond with them. So now they get to live with the consequences of that fact. Your father didn’t want to take a paternity test, because he feared finding out you weren’t his, and he might mistreat you. Instead, he didn’t do the one thing that would have resolved the whole mess… and mistreated you anyway. It was easier for him to emotionally abuse a child, than be a responsible adult, get the necessary information to make an informed decision, and actually parent HIS CHILD. Someone ignores you, they’re teaching you how to live without them. It took you 18 yrs to learn that lesson, but you learned it. And now, they’re not coming to offering friendship and love, they’re coming to you demanding re-entry into your life, and access to your child. But what do they even bring to the table. Any kindness they show you now just reminds you of the unkindness they showed you before, and the moronic and cowardly reason they had for it.

@OKAYOKAY420 2 күн бұрын

"They rushed him to the UMMMM."

@Charlotte-Dilaurentes-The-OG-A Күн бұрын

😂😂

@zoe9190 2 күн бұрын

Personally, i am of the opinion of if someone has reached NC status, they should stay that way. If they truly wish to apologise, you can tell them thank you for the apology, but i dont want to change how things are. If you contact me again, i will consider it harassment and follow legal procedure to have a no contact order, all i want is to be left alone, and go back to how we were before, ignoring each others existence. Im NC with 2 of my siblings, and i just dont have anything to talk about with the 3rd one, and they are more stranger than family at this point

@walterlyzohub8112 2 күн бұрын

Just think if they are all harassing OP still then broadcast why NC on parents to every family member and let them deal with the fallout.

@joannwilde4617 2 күн бұрын

So your mom couldn’t keep her legs closed got pregnant by her husband’s brother and they both blamed you. Just keep them out of your life they are not worth it