This is a response to a comment regarding me mentioning being "Puerto Rican". I felt that with all of the comments being made about it, my thoughts on it should be pinned. Thank you all again for all of your kind words. " icilmaa yes actually I do. But tell that to John and Sally when they ask what I'm mixed with. People don't want to know my genetic make-up down to specifics. They really just want an answer so they can go on about their day. And guess what - I'm quite positive they will accept it I realize that PuertoRican is not a race/ ethnicity. To me it's a culture and a nationality - one I don't identify with. So, I don't feel comfortable mentioning "Puerto Rican" at all and I don't. "

take pride in the fact that your mom is an amazing lady that raised you to the strong woman that you are today and thanks for sharing your life story with us much respect for you

Hi, your Mother must be a remarkable woman to instill such strength and resilience in you. You could call the Phoenix police and fax them your mother and your birth certificates, then give them the go on recovering your DNA bar code. Then he will be held responsible for his crime. I wish you & yourz peace and love. Great job on your video.

You are incredibly brave for trying to figure out who this guy was.

I've watched a number of these DNA videos. Your's was the most moving. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Truth be told there are many of us who have "uncertain paternity" events in our bloodlines. Yours is more recent. I'm sorry the sister that you reached out to did not deal with you more forthrightly. She has probably developed mechanisms to deal with the shame associated with her brothers actions. I'd be willing to bet that their are others in that side of your family origins that would be more compassionate. You are a beautiful person inside and out, and an example of mercy and maturity. Just to be able to deal with this whole issue in such a balanced way is really great. I am glad you got some peace in the knowledge of what really has happened. You should consider finding an avenue to share with others that have a similar history, you could be a real encouragement to them, and it would bring further healing to you as well.

So, sad that his family couldn't accept you, as you are, their loss. I'm glad you found him, now you can put that part of your history to rest, and even though his family wasn't ready to accept you, at least you know where they are, and who they are for your children's sake. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story with us perfect strangers. I will definitely keep you and your Mom in my prayers, and I have to pray, for the people who left a thumbs down, because something is really wrong with them.

This is by far the most unique and interesting AncestryDNA story ever. I'm glad you were able to find out who your biological father is. Thank you for sharing your experience.

this woman is so beautiful. I'm a product of rape also 😕 you win some you lose some but you still won cause you're alive

You are a hero in my eyes! To be able to be so public with the circumstances around your conception, and to be able to critically analyze how you want to integrate that information from your DNA test into your life and your perception of who you are, is admirable! I am in awe (and you are the first DNA result KZfaq, of the many I've watched, on which I've commented) of you and your ability to record such an honest video!

I just want to say thank you to all of you who have complimented my efforts. It took me quite a while to pull everything together and to get to the point of actually posting it. All your kind words are appreciated.

You my sister are very brave. My mother was also raped at age 13 and decided to keep the child (my older brother). I never thought of asking him to take this test to find him being it truly bothers him not knowing.

You are 100% beautiful sister! Great video!

When someone asks what you are, they probably mean your ethnicity. But there is so much more. You are gentle, courageous, well spoken, brilliant, self-accepting, balanced, resilient, brave, and absolutely beautiful.

This was interesting to watch. Especially given the circumstances. I commend you for posting such a personal video. I'm glad that you are at least able to narrow it down. Although you don't want to have a relationship with that side of your family, it would be good to at least get as much ancestry info from them that you can so you can make your own family tree and pass that down to your children. This is the kind of info that gets lost and stumps people generations later who want to uncover the truth. GOD bless!

girl I would have stalked her page too lol. great work. DNA is amazing. I found my grandpa's real dad through ancestry. it's a game changer. thank you for sharing and continued blessings

You're courageous for telling your story. It is so funny when don't or can't admit the truth, doesn't she know DNA don't lie. Great detective work.

they should put this on CNN. wow, this is a dope video!!!

I just watched your video again and I'm still amazed at the person you are. I hope all is well with you and your family.

Girl, this the realist video I have ever seen! You did that!!!!

Hi, your testimony really made me want to cry. I am so sorry you and your mother went through so much. You are a very beautiful, courageous and strong young woman as a result. Thank you so much for being so candid and sharing your life with us. God bless you.🙏🏿😊

Also.....your kids and other decedents deserve their biological roots also.....This is not about a relationship with him.......it's just roots.

Thank you for shining a light on this kind of subject. People need to learn from stories like this, and put predators away so they don't continue to cause harm.

Incredible video.. thank you for being so brave and sharing.. peace and blessings to you and your mom. And congratulations on ur results..

Your mother has very strong feelings about going full term, to be polite. She's very brave woman and has very strong feelings about life.

You seem to have so much self assurance and peace within yourself; I hope you carry that with you always. you are defining your self and not letting the past define you, You're a good soul so stay brave and surround yourself only with those who give you love.

Wow, that's awesome detective work. Very impressive.

Wow. This was such a brave video! Blessings to you and your family.

A daughter I had given up for adoption 49 years earlier found me 4 years ago. Such an amazing trip. I can understand you not wanting a relationship with him, nice to know who you are, isn’t it? Thanks for speaking up, even with that daunting history.

First time seeing this channel. You blew away how focused and deyermined you were to find out about a sensitive part of your life. I applaud you and pray your Mom heals. .

you're brave! The story alone brought tears. bless you and your family!!!

Rape baby to a very young mother here too. *hugs* Trying to find the mystery man myself.

That is one hell of a story. God bless you!

you look ethiopian

This was really interesting Life&Crew and you did a great job - clear audio and a good pace. It was so much better than so many I have tried to watch. All the best for the future for you and your family.

Glad you did the test for yourself and for your children. His sister must straight be in denial but that's her loss. Some people are just not prepared the expose the skeletons in their closets. God bless you!

Sorry, I see the pain in your eyes, I can tell you had to stop the video to collect yourself!!! I hope you got some questions answered, and found solace at the end of the day!

I am proud of how you presented your findings of this very sensitive issue. I wish the very best for you, your mother, and your family.

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I noticed how you kept saying he is your "dad." He doesn't deserve the title "dad." However he is your father. Continue to stay positive and encourage other people like myself.

I enjoyed listening to this video. I'm so sorry that you found this out about your Dad. I pray your Mom heals..

Thanks for sharing. Fascinating effort to Id your bio father. You are smart and brave. Too bad his family does not want to know you -- they are missing out. But it would probably be awkward and hurtful. So glad you have a better idea of your genetic background.

This is the most fascinating DNA reveal I have ever seen. I am sure to a degree this must have been hard for you. Thank you for sharing your story and god bless you.

You're so brave. Thanks for sharing your story. You definitely are an inspiration for other people.

Congratulations on your closure. Thank you for posting the raw side of life that so many folks are not willing to divulge.

You are wonderfully made and maybe it's good you found out about who he really is. Now you know...let it go. And live your life sweetie.

It doesn't matter who your father is you seem like you turned out to be a wonderful person and that's all that matters

I just happened upon this. You are amazing!!!! I'm so very sorry about what happened to your mom and what she continues to deal with. Blessings to you and your family.

so courageous my sister. may God bless your mom and heal her. stay strong.

Wow! I've never heard of someone actually finding a first cousin via Ancestry DNA. That's awesome!

Thank you for sharing this you and your mom are really brave.

Nice story. Glad you found the answers that you were looking for. I'm sorry for the pain he caused you and your mother. You seem like a sweet and intelligent girl. You were raised right. Your dad's poor lifestyle choices is his problem. Be strong. Carry on. You are your own person. Peace

How amazing to discover the answer to that mystery! I am glad your mother gave you a good life and you are very grounded and a delightful young wife and mother. Good job to your Mom. She has had to deal with a terrible experience/memory and I am sure still does. She could have aborted you and tried to forget and go on with her life, but she didn't. She did the noble thing, the heroic thing, the Godly thing - in loving you and rearing you to be a good person. She took a toxic destructive blow and turned it into such a beautiful jewel, a treasure. I am glad you can see where your features come from - and have validation there. A sperm is NOT a father. There is nothing there to follow up on. You are wise to close that door and end that chapter as it will go nowhere. Thanks for sharing your story. Best wishes.

If you tested your mom you could really identify which parent you inherited everything from.

Wow that was an amazing story. I applauded you.

Interesting story. I think you are very brave for doing this. I can understand the curiosity and the wanting to know where you came from. There is no shame for you OR your mom in this. The shame is his and his alone, which are no reflection on you and yours. thank you for sharing!

Thank you for sharing. My mom was gang raped and I too did Ancestry DNA. Haven't really pursued searching but do see several 4th cousins. Hard to narrow down with so few closer connections. I'd love to talk with you more but there is no way to send you a private message. I'm on FB if you want to connect. I help moms and children of rape conception through Choices4Life(dot)org

you are such a wonderful human!!!.I only got great vibes from you, thanks for sharing your story💓

I am glad you got the results/ answers that you needed!,And yes stay away from that family! . I pray your mother is doing well because the whole time you were speaking I had her in mine and I dont even know her. May God Bless you and your family. Take Care!

Thank you for your story. It is amazing how many stories like yours exist. Maybe one day you will find half siblings.

My father was also born from a similar circumstance. I found my father's half brother via dna test. I contacted him. My "uncle" never responded. But I did find out what ethnicity that they are. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you!

AMAZING VIDEO. I knew you were part latina the second I saw you!!

You have such a good attitude to dealing with this and connecting to your biological father's family....you know your identity is with your mum and her side of your family. Your mum's love has made you who you are today. She is a very courageous woman. You can rightfully claim and explore the cultural heritage from his side of your tree without identifying with him or his immediate family. He has brought shame to his ancestors but you and your children will only bring pride. You have given your mum justice by uncovering the identity of her perpetrator. I honour you for that.

When I first saw you, I said to myself that you look black, and south American! I'm so sorry about the circumstances surrounding your other half. You're so strong, and you're such a blessing to the world.

life and crew GOD bless you for your strength and courage to find out that information

Congrats on your success in your search. This is quite an interesting story.

You kinda look like tia&tamera.

You are a brave lady that's classy and discreet! Excellent qualities!

You are so courageous for trying to find out the truth. At least you know you didn't miss out on anything. Don't worry about inheriting any bad that was his character issues not yours. You have to checkout the testimony of Joyce Myers, sometimes it is better they aren't around! God bless you brave lady!

Thank you for sharing your story. You and mom are survivors!! You are beautiful and this should be made into a movie.

Your kids and grandkids in the future will be thankful you did this

Wow, you have a very unique perspective on everything. So sorry that you and your moms have to deal with that history. Hope life is going okay for you tho.

This is a very interesting video. Thanks for sharing

wow super interesting story glad u shared! don't worry we are all individuals our ancestors don't determine how we behave, it's nice u still wanted to find out about that side of ur family! God bless you!

I knew you were from San Francisco area by your accent! Me too! Thank you for your courage in sharing this video. I learned so much. I am sorry your mother had such a bad childhood experience. I am so glad you are here. You are a terrific lady.

You are incredible and strong and your mom is awesome and so strong!!

Wow, you're beautiful and very clever! The yearning to know is like an itch we need to scratch. It sounds like there is not much you cannot do having been able to figure all the historical and genealogical details out. Best wishes to you and your whole family for a happy future.

Wow, that is some story. I am really impressed with how well you are dealing with the information. You seem to be an optimistic and positive person and I think that is great. As far as things being passed on to your children.... you are a decent person aren't you? I don't think just because our parents or someone in our family is a bad person that we will be. Give them lots of love and guidance and they will be fine. It's your influence on them that will in a big way help them to become who they are, that will help them to be good people. I'm sure your mom was a positive influence in you life and that's why you turned out so well :) So now you will be the positive influence in their lives.

Sue him for a paternity DNA test........you deserve to know your biological ancestry for sure.....DNA does not lie!

You look so much like my friend and her sisters. I don't know her DNA background or anything but it's amazing how much you look like them. She just classifies as black American.

Congratulations. You are a very smart girl. Your work was amazing. Wow. Best wishes.

If someone asks you “WHO YOU ARE”...I would definitely ask them “why..I’m a Strong 💪🏽 Woman”! Unless, you’re absolutely sure it’s important to share it all with them for whatever reason? May you be continually be blessed, prosper and be in great health. 🤔🙇🏻‍♀️🙏🏽🔍🔑💗🇺🇸🕊💎

Puerto Rico is a national identity not an ethnicity

Thank you for sharing your story, I love your courage and curiosity that led you to investigate the crime against your mom. I believe this kind of "sleuthing" as well as DNA testing will catch many sexual criminals in the future. Something you said caught my attention. You mentioned the man who attacked your mom ended up in AZ, and I remembered that there was a documentary (maybe 10-15 yrs ago) that exposed the fact that the US prison system was shipping hundreds of sex offenders to this one tiny border town in Arizona upon their release, I guess because of a computer error. Anyway, these predators were sneaking across the border into Mexico at night and attacking all these poor factory workers (even killing many of them) and sneaking back. After all these girls went missing this Mexican journalist investigated and she made a documentary - which forced the US to change its system. I don't know if this applies to "Alejandro" or not, but perhaps it will help you as you search for more pieces to the puzzle, if you continue.

Keep being the strong person you are. Your mom is lucky you are her daughter. Strong spirit. Female soldier.

This video is really inspiring me to get the test done and find my fathers family. He was murdered when I was young and I only know his maternal side. I’m glad to see that you don’t try and hide your story that’s what makes this video so special!

Wow. What did your mom say when you find the guy? Your story actually touched me. I know it wasn't easy , but thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry that happened to your mom and that it is a part of your life. I'm only looking at this from the outside so I don't personally know your story, but I hope you and your mom both have good lives and are at better places. Sending peace to you and your family.

Girl, you turned out well and tell your mom that she and her family are responsible for raising somone/you, who from all appearances, is a balanced young lady who is leading a focused life (school, wife, work, mother). Tell your mom that I pray she finds peace and that she may consider therapy for the trauma she is still experiencing. Clearly, she is affected by post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Thank you for speaking openly and sharing your story. It is too bad that even now he is being enabled and sheltered by his family. Their loss as they could have handled this much better by acknowledging you and the circumstance. Their loss. Peace and Blessings to you, your mom and your family. May the God of your understanding continue to keep a hedge of protection around you and continue to heap blessings upon you.

thank you so much for sharing your experience with ancestry dna! i just ordered a kit and am hoping to find a match to my maternal side because my mother was adopted.

wow your testimonial you did good to find out well done

My half aunt came up as a 1st cousin match at 1022Cm(how I found BF family). There are charts that show centimorgan ratios to determine if someone is more closely related by the # of CM across however many segments of DNA you share.

Wow, powerful story. Thanks for sharing.

Interesting story...never knew my father...knew who he was, never met him though. A decade ago I started building that side of my tree... Through that process it was like I got to know them a little with having to meet them. In my case, being as old as I am now, why stir the pot? :) Couple of bad eggs in that part of the tree too...crazy people! That one guy burned down the family house three times! When he was going for the fourth, his brother caught him in the act and shot him...LOL Didn't kill him though...this is like back in 1890 or something...Another guy came back from Vietnam and never said another word the rest of his life... So, yeah, I'm hoping I didn't get any of that too...:) Thanks for the story! oh..p.s. I see it's been a while since you posted this, but alot of the time those areas you mention, the DNA is there because those same people were migrating across so to speak..and some would stay while other moved on...When you were mentioning Greece/Italy...and another I was thinking Sicilian (Mafia)..:) But I think you mentioned Iberian Peninsula also? So you can kind see how they are starting out in one place and skipping across...and ending up in Puerto Rico... If you wanted to go futher you'd probably want a mtDNA test...(Ancestry is an autosomnal test) The mtDNA will tell you your straight line maternal ancestors, mother to mother on up the tree...the Mile Y-DNA test works the same for men. What I'm getting at is you could subtract the mtDNA out of the autosomnal test and get a fairly decent idea of your paternal straight-line ancestors...and know for sure which side the Asian is on, unless both...something like that. They got calculators now that help you do that...:) Anyway, thanks again..:)

Im scared but im going to do it! I know my dad did some awful things to my mom; she doesnt want to share. I was told my dad is Native American. I just want to know. Thanks Life & Crew!

Interesting story, Thanks for sharing :)

You look East African, I'm sure you have that Ancestry if you perhaps did GEDmatch for more details

You are beautiful and I commend you for sharing! :). I was adopted and that is my main reason for doing this.

Congratulations on your efforts!

I honor you for sharing this. Your are brave, and beautiful.

Very interesting story. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you so so much for posting this!! I just got my Ancestry results back and I also do not know who my biological father is - I hope I can find out who my father is as well. I feel stuck already though! How did you get the tree to lead to him!? Did you know who all the people from your mom's side were to "eliminate" them? You are brave to post your story but thank you! I am working on my KZfaq video journey too ❤️

Intelligent if that were a Race, it would be You. I Love the Way that You are So calm, collected and can sort through the (mixed nuts) & being a driving force. Everyone has to come to terms, the best way that they know how. For Me if I were you (just saying) for further Peace of Mine (& if you have the Resources). I'd go to Court and drag his COVERING UP family into this. I know that his doesn't sound positive and you may NOT be there NOW. I'd cover all the basis, just in case down the line, in the Future, that you some hidden, laden, suppress emotions that are "laying in wait". It may be for Your Mothers sake. Am Speaking from the perspective, that if & when his Family dies, without facing Their (cover up) truth? Going to Their Graves, feeling Safe! I don't FEEL that they have the Right in Ignoring his CRIMES, in Sanitizing Their History. (not so much addressing their blood line) But Their History at YOURS and Your Moms expense. There are Statue of Limitations. There are still Subpoena's & Other Orders that can be done, in making His Family into Complying, if anything as "Aiding & Abetting". Your family should not suffer without Justice. And that Justice is....Compelling this to Surface, knowing that You & Your Mom were WRONG! IF I had a Daughter, I"d want her to be like you.....Choices. Its all in Choices. Good Luck. Continue a Good Life in Keeping The Faith~