I am a man who have been married for 28 years, and I will say, when you find a good man, You will see! Only weak men beat women!

This woman is a beautiful human being inside out

What saida has said is very true there is no worst torture than silent treatment

Those children will come looking for you when they grow up in shaa Allah don't worry

Wowww I am in awe of you! I am not a Muslim, but I am a woman. An African woman. A mother, married but not happy. Lost my mom when I was young, I can relate, so I listened very intently! I learned a lot! I love what your father said, about a man who puts his hand on his wife! Electronics, Infidelity, pornography and disrespectful spouse is my reason for divorce! I already know I want to get divorced. And had put in my mind that I don’t want to ever get married again. I am sorry your kids were taken away from you, but I am glad you did not give up. You are a hero in my book! Its not easy talking about what you went through, especially coming from a culture that sees what you doing negatively! But rest assured, you are helping thousands of people! One thing I would add, for anyone planning to leave an abusive or unhappy marriage must have a plan👍🏽. More power to you! Stay blessed! Your sister from another mother😍

Refusing physical mental and emotional abuse was the best decision you ever made my dear. Thank you for rescuing yourself

She is so so eloquent . Reminds me of jamila mohamed

This is one of the best interviews ever , never saw a Kenyan Somali so bold, fluent ,true keep it real Saida

Speak on it honey,💡you are paving the way to our young Somali girls to find there voice, and take decisions.

Saida Ahmed Rashid; the real definition of strength❤

Stay strong sister, a lot of women are in desperate situations and don’t have the courage to stand up for their self.

Im in love with a Somalian lady, i am a Christian and she is a moslim. We look each other so much. I love your stories

Congratulations queen ❤️I wish Amira can also take this bold step 👏

One thing I know about somali women is that they are bold,strong and don't take any crap.

Everything you talk about it’s like you are talking to about me and all that happened to me , you helped me grow

I am also divorced twice. the third time one man scammed my wealth on the internet. When a woman is abused she likes any man after that. Be careful as it can cost you a lot and a woman has a lot to lose.

Saida Ahmed Rashid...your truth resonates to all females regardless of religion ,ethnicity & country!

I love seeing African women finding their voices, may God bring your children back to you soon.

Saida, thank you for encouraging me that I can still fall in love again after a failed one

Our girls shouldn't be going through these problems I'm sorry abaayo saida you didn't deserve that my brothers please take care of our sisters don't be cowards

My dear God will fight for you hun. I was in the same situation couldn't see my kids or hang out with them. I got depressed coz no one understood what i was going through. People judged me wrongly and said alot about me but that's when i built my relationship with my maker. Only God made it possible for me to be re United with my kids. Am now a very happy mother and my kids happy too they are even improving their grades in school. The same God that it for me will do it for you too keep on praying,have faith and trust only him.

Never mind people opinion this is your life and sharing brings healing

You are a beautiful woman who deserves to be loved. I’m happy you are fine now. You are blessed

My ex used to say, you have to listen to your husband. I listened to when he hit me, I listened to the silent treatment, I listened to ignoring, then I listened to myself and I divorced him.

Thank you Saida for being bold to share your story. You are beautiful and very eloquent.

I'm proud of the strength you have shown. God bless you dada

Saida you have made a way for other ladies through your story😊

Saida we are so proud of you. You’re strong women .Allah protect your Marriage and Bring your children back to you.

AFRICAN WOMEN MUST HAVE STRONG SELF ESTEEM, AND SPEAK UP. THANK YOU FOR ALL THESE INCREDIBLE STORIES. AND WONDERFUL INFORMATION. GOD BLESS AND PROTECT YOU.

She a very strong woman saida well done and really integrent

Marriage is forever,why rush empower yourself and that will respect you. "IAM NOT THE WEAKEST LINK" say this everyday and you will achieve alot.

I just like the strength in you,yes these are your kids!! Continue speaking out girl,you may rescue many from your community and the whole word too.

Very proud of you sister. Abuse is never acceptable mental and physical.

Sorry for what happened to you am also going through what you went through but I knew one day things will be better than this i pray for the best.

Beautiful Saida. It takes lots of courage but l am very proud of you. All the very best.

Hi Saida, I'm a Somali sister and I must say I’m proud of you. You did amazing getting out of abusive relationship and bad marriage. Building your self and being the mother they deserved for your children. Go forward abayo

I understand how you feeling sis. I have giving away my first born, I remarried two more time I have 3 kids, but I can’t rest with out my son.

Sister Saida you are a very strong,well spoken lady , I admire your personality and your laughter after everthing you been through.

Such a brave and beautiful lady. May God be with her.

Saida we are proud of you! Thank you for your testimony. You know how valuable you are.

So sorry saida i really fill u .people should take example from u coz they suffer alot in silence and have nothing to do only to suffer in abusive marriage

Don't worry sister,, your children will remain yours forever,,,boran said((mataan Fula baefi in walallu))your children will be yours coz you felt the pain through passing with your in Labour pain,,,so God is with you,,,you carried them nine month's and above Labour pain then raising them,,,Allah Will be with you

You are not alone, the court decided that my 13 year old daughter should stay with her paternal grandmother. I am comforted that in a few years time, she will come back to me.

I understand how you feel I really do. Unfortunately that’s the world we live in today. My ex wife and I separated two years ago and I went through hell. This people are pure evil “ Narcissist “ I was married for 15 years and my ex was European and we have two kids. My ex wife always treat me with silence treatment. Always provocative, self centred, always seek for validation and self approval. It was mentality draining. They make people feel worthless. This people are demonic with no empathy or feelings.

I left my abusive husband 6 years ago. I am now 30 years old and so scared to get married again. Your story has inspired me to loosen up and move on.

I was abused in the first month of my marriage. I had to end it i was abused emotionally n psychologically it was too much for me i had to leave its depressing but i dont regret why i left i know all this will come to pass in shaa Allah 😊😊😊

Saida woman you ROCK. You have done well.

My sister you're very strong lady, keep up been strong for your kids. As a man I am on your side and supporting all ladies of any city's. The smile on your face shows your clean hart. Supporting your from London.

Wow! Love her. I like the way she is able to find her voice against the retrogressive culture practices that are disadvantaging the women in her community. Am also glad that she was strong and courgeous enough to leave the narsissitic marriage. Kudos sis!✊

The Bible says we fight against spiritual wickedness in high places. These forces has agents on this earth. That man is one.

I like that "iam a strong woman "you are indeed. God bless

The one word that I can describe her is bold and brave

Keep on preaching sis, it takes a lot of courage to speak up ❤️

This husband was a true classic Narcissist. They isolate the spouse and they create Stockholm syndrome. Unfortunately Narcissists create dysfunctional children also. May God preserve her children as they now live under the Narcissists thumb. Saida Thank you. You have done what few women let alone from your community will do. Blessings, build yourself. You are a born leader.

Saida, you’re amazing for standing up for yourself and paving way for others. You’re the Advocate the for young women and women in abusive relationships. This platform will build courage and confidence in many women. Thumbs up for addressing even Christians relationships. We need more like you 🙏

You're strong enough 💪 it's hard to express your past problems or currently feeling as somali girl infront of public . You're good beutiful mother 👩. By the waye divorce isn't shame, say no time needed!!!!!

You are speaking for so many people ..Allah is with you !

Keep up the good spirit Saida, you are a strong person.

Saida I am from Eritrea I appreciate you are so strong and inspiring full of hope be happy God bless you and your children.

Salute siz Masha'Allah you are strong woman, Kindly reach out to Amira

I admire your courage, your children will look for you when they are off age. I pray that God will bless your marriage, you will find peace and happiness in your new marriage. Continue to be empowered. God bless you 🙏

Nice of you .thanks your voice is heard even in heaven.

Love your smile. I commend you for your courage. Stand up for yourself. Abuse of any kind is never acceptable. Falling in love again is natural. I wish you good luck and all the best for your future.

i like how proud she is, Mashalaah.

Masha Allah I proud of you, you are very strong keep going. Always remember fallow your heart.

Saida,you're just an amazing woman,you've gone through hell and back but still very strong and courageous to explain what's our sisters are going through at our backyard. I think it's high time for our communities from northern kenya to change this tradition of suppressing women's and girls and remove this obstacles between them and their future dreams. This tradition may date back centuries but has no place in 21st century.

Such inspiration,may you never know pain in your relationship anymore InshAllah and may Allah bring you closer to your children and family Ameen🤲😘😘😘

Mashaa Allah May Allah make it easy for u n everyone else who is passing through the same situation .

Very sad to hear this,am a father of girls when I see someone mistreating them like this it doesn't sound good,but Allah has made you to overcome,now don't let the past to dictate your future Inshaallah. Being strong sometimes means being able to let go. From northern Iraq. Nagayat

Northing make me happy like when I see women like this taking her mind freedom to all women I’s all what is needed

Wah!!! Such a courageous lady you are.... 😭😭😭😭 I really don't understand what's happening with this generation marriages toxic is real love life more than abusive marriage no second chance in life beloveds......... happy for you dear you have found love again!!! I know I will also find love again Amen 🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸

What she went through is called narcissistic abuse. It is the worst you could ever ever deal with. I am a victim of this abuse and I have been in this nightmare for 6 years. The financial and the emotional abuse is the worst as well as the silent treatment. Narcissists enjoy inflicting pain on you by abandoning you and treating you like a garbage. It is very painful experience and I am still grieving. 💔😢

I am a young somali girl with a bright future ahead.i feel inspired Mdm Saidah...we have a culture that women have to withhold secrets of a toxic marriage with the fear of being judged or being physically abused by family members or husband. I ain't married yet buh thru you i have learned to weigh culture and what i deserve as a woman wen time comes in shaa Allah. May Allah bless you

Thank God you got your self out of that trouble , you are very strong woman thanks for teaching alot of people out side there

You’re very strong lady, God is with you and will bless your life always. I really loved watching your story. From 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇵🇹👏🙏🏽🙏🏽

Beauty and courage.You hv motivated so many Muslim women to come out and fight for their well-being.You are so brave 👏❤

Rasul s.a.w said the best person is the one who is good to his family

It shall be well Saida God will keep your kids safe

Very Inspiring, you are a voice of positive change,I believe other women in your community will receive stregth from your story,well done!!!

I feel you girl, nothing is permanent. Things will be normal. My prayer let it gooooooo

As a Family Life Coach I have so much RESPECT for her and really Allah Reward her and her children wherever they are and her Current Husband. She has given a platform for OTHER'S who are secretly going THROUGH that.And another key point she said Such MEN'S can even try to manipulate the professional acting like his PIOUS and loving...I thank her BRAVENESS AND HONESTY.SHE HAS HELPED MANY LIVES I WORK WITH MUSLIM WOMEN'S MOST ARE IN PRISON FOR SNAPPING OUT...STAY BLESSED.

I’m glad you speak out for self manshallah u really strong women keep going

I'm happy for you take care of yourself and hopefully one day you will find or your children will look for you.

A true woman Allah bless your marriage

As a Somali girl myself I learn so many things from your story sister. you are inspiring women and strong women keep going. Thank God almighty that you overcome the struggles and challenges. My prayers is with you insha Allah you will get your children back. May Allah almighty keep you save and blessed.

Thank you so much dear Saida..I have learnt alot..

Fixing the society one case at a time! You are a wonderful, beautiful, strong lady keep caving a blueprint for all women to have a voice and choice. I celebrate you!

So sorry about what u went through.Inspired by your strength. MashaAllah may you and yours stay blessed

Thanks for being so brave I'm also going through the same but believing God for a better husband

You a very strong woman,proud of you.

Much peace to all mothers and our sisters

I salute you Saida your the people who will change tomorrow keep talking and you will change others

Thank you for speaking out and sharing your lived experiences. I hope this gives other ladies out there hope and courage to come of domestic abuse realtionships. I hope you find happiness and peace in this life and Insha'Allah I hope your children find their way back to you soon

You have the right to talk about your story!

Who's the person disturbing such a beautiful soul😍

So inspiring sister. May Allah grant you happiness in your new marriage

Oh i love u! Love the bravery and boldness! I love seeing women who survived an abusive marriage speak out and save other women trapped in such . I am also an abusive marriage survivor and i am married again and i just recently shared about it on my channel because my survival wasnt for me be silent.

What beautiful queen. I would not want to put a scratch on such an angel. That’s my African queen

God bless you Saida, continue educating fellow women,,, great great video,,,,

Congrats Sister, I believe your encouragement will help other ladies come out to speak as boldly as you.