I Helped My Brother Leave His Bride At The Altar Because She InvitedOur Mother...

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8 ай бұрын

I Helped My Brother Leave His Bride At The Altar Because She Invited
Our Mother...
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@skeetskeet7041 8 ай бұрын

The fact that the bride and fam would believe the MOTHER over the groom is enough to show there would have been problems down the way

@nanook6620 7 ай бұрын

people that try to push for marriages to happen despite a very serious argument happening are the worst. it's almost always the woman's family doing it too. They probably know that no one wants the real her so they gotta make it happen some how.

@monejohn9973 6 ай бұрын

To be honest & The way his siblings saw it. He was about to marry his mom a fake narcissistic woman who pretended to be nice to get him. She just exposed herself before the marriage.

@treco2583 6 ай бұрын

⁠@@monejohn9973Yep!! He d

@arkhaan7066 6 ай бұрын

Not surprising actually. Most Spanish speaking countries are VERY matriarchal

@lightcpkhfm2305 4 ай бұрын

@@arkhaan7066 As they say on Mexico, the weight of a house is supported by a woman's shoulders

@brooke3965 8 ай бұрын

Am I the only one who was completely shocked when joe said “the only news I want from you is news of your funeral so I can celebrate” 😂 I lost my breathe I gasped so hard

@nanook6620 7 ай бұрын

nice little call back to when she took them to do the same thing.

@RandomGamerClips 7 ай бұрын

Wasn't shocked, just happy, because i know if that was my mother, i wouldn't ever be able to say that.

@angelmonderian6068 7 ай бұрын

I actually expected he would say that😅

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 7 ай бұрын

@@nanook6620IKR!

@EpicBunty 7 ай бұрын

who doesn't like a savage big bro.

@legendarymermaid 7 ай бұрын

If the bride truly believed Sam's family was like a cult and hated mother, why on earth would she want to marry into that? And even if she didn't think the abuse was that bad, she still should have respected Sam's wishes.

@phastinemoon 7 ай бұрын

If the descriptions of how they’re rebounding gives any indication… I suspect OP’s family might be rich. Or, at the very least, what my parents would call “a nice family”, so it would be a social step up, if not an economic one. Just a gut feeling (dad bought Sam a HOUSE as a wedding gift - just saying’)

@Saphirakii 7 ай бұрын

she probably wanted to ‘save him’ by getting him away from ‘the cult’ and that’s why she brought the mom back in

@victoriariopedre6389 7 ай бұрын

The house exfil gave to her ex-fiance

@elseggs6504 6 ай бұрын

@@phastinemoontbh thats slightly less unbeliebable depending on the country. Some still have a high homeowner rate

@monejohn9973 6 ай бұрын

And she's a narcissist. They don't care about anybody's feelings. But themselves and they think everybody's a liar butt themselves.

@daltonbooth2738 6 ай бұрын

Continuously calling their family “the cult” and the runaway bride jokes are amazing 😂😂😂

4 ай бұрын

I love the OP wedding planning "Julio" bit 🤣

@youthisme1483 7 ай бұрын

In conclusion, this family is the perfect definition of family. If I get to be a mother, I hope my children will keep supporting each other like this

@gaywaffle3592 5 ай бұрын

...Though hopefully not for the same reasons!

@_hearts4conan. 4 ай бұрын

fr, it was wholesome how everyone came together -- they seem like happy people

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami 3 ай бұрын

@@gaywaffle3592bro💀💀💀

@Kayko271997 8 ай бұрын

To the people who think it "undignified" to have Rita in the Wedding instead of the mom. Why would anyone choose a demonic mother of the angel of a woman who has been a great addition to your family? Sure Rita doesn't want to be the maternal figure but she's the one who has been there to foster growth and happiness whereas the mother lyched that all out of her family.

@f687sNFM 8 ай бұрын

because people are obsessed that blood is the only thing that matters

@mksmike 8 ай бұрын

People that speak only to say they said something.

@TheGreatSeraphim 8 ай бұрын

The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

@Mistfall254 7 ай бұрын

@@TheGreatSeraphimreference nice tho I cant remember the scripture unfortunately book/verses and chapter

@sparrowflyaway 6 ай бұрын

Rita is the maternal figure, marriage isn't required for that. If she's caring and loving to the kids, and stays by the dad's side, then married or not, she's the maternal figure of the family. the egg donor who seriously accuses her young daughter of wanting to steal her own father from her mother is decidedly not a maternal figure in any sense of the word.

@DrewHoward-tk1jz 8 ай бұрын

Ayo, this is quite interesting. It's kinda crazy that Sam's ex went from the person he was going to the altar with, to a crazy lady trying to get pity from the internet.

@f687sNFM 8 ай бұрын

why do you think she and the egg donor got along, people who can hide their evil

@AleV69692 8 ай бұрын

@@f687sNFMhuh, that makes more sense

@user-fw7fj3df5r 8 ай бұрын

That ex bride is beyond crazy. Fake pregnancy and playing victim

@SergeantCuddles 8 ай бұрын

she went from being his future wife to acting just like his mom

@indigo_ig 7 ай бұрын

@@f687sNFMBAHAHA EGG DONOR I LOVE THAT

@sparrowflyaway 6 ай бұрын

How do you hear such horribly consistent stories and go "I don't care how badly she treated you, I'm going to ambush you with the blood relative you rejected on the most important day of our lives because family is important to me." Like how do you do that and expect to still be married to the person you're ambushing?!? Is there a single brain cell rattling around in Daniela's head that isn't laser-focused on herself?

@spacetofu5306 6 ай бұрын

Its the way how the narcissistic brain works

@andinaw.hasanah267 5 ай бұрын

Idk why but it's so amusing reading your comment 🤣

@duyvan247 5 ай бұрын

The problem here is this. It shows many thing about that ex. First, she is actively trying to push op brother Sam into her own value, which guarantee a half-Karen, entitled and cruel just like the mother. And Sam pretty much saw the mother in his ex at that moment. Second, it was a way to say that she can bring the person Sam hated the most in, means she controls Sam. So they didn't put up with that bullshit.

@ImNotaRussianBot 4 ай бұрын

My question to people like that is, You know terrible people have kids, right? Rapists murderers, serial killers, etc. So why do you think that you know better than someone else's lived experience? Are you so self absorbed that you think your opinion is more valid than someone's experience? Also, you believed a woman you knew for 15 minutes over your fiance and his entire family? Monsters can wear masks, my dear. That's how they are able to obtain their victims. Life isn't a Disney movie. Polite and smiling people can and do horrific things. Oh, and you need meds and an IQ test.

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami 3 ай бұрын

@@duyvan247exactly

@jamescastle7704 8 ай бұрын

I feel bad for OP, her bio mom thinking she was trying to get with her DAD 🤮

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 7 ай бұрын

Total narcissism there. That mom never saw her daughter as a person, but as a competition

@EvanCops 6 ай бұрын

I had to replay that. I just couldn't believe it🤮

@peachyarts386 5 ай бұрын

for real like, that's his daughter... it's called paternal love- just ew🤮

@kedhar3460 4 ай бұрын

being jealous of your own daughter for getting attention from her father is just sick

4 ай бұрын

@@kedhar3460 Its crap like this that makes me think we need a resurgence of Asylums, we got fancy tech to make sure nothing bad happens like in the past and crazies like the mother in this really need a nice padded cell so they can live in delulu land all they want.

@G1sandG1rlsGaming 8 ай бұрын

I can't really imagine continuing a relationship with someone after pouring my heart out to them about how shit my parent was and then they immediately respond with something along the lines of "You're over exaggerating aren't you?" Let alone commiting to marry them.

@narsilthefreak6171 7 ай бұрын

She's probably just the same and is either helping a fellow jerk or trying to ensure he won't mind when she turns out to be like that.

@ceeford9919 7 ай бұрын

@@narsilthefreak6171Or She's that delulu. Cause there are people who are that toned deaf/entitled to think that just because their family was "functional" that means they know better and that it's up to them in a sense of narcissistic heroism to help mend broken bonds. Cause there is no way you can tell me that she wasn't daydreaming about all the praise she would get from everyone with her grand gesture of reuniting a "loving" mother and her child on her wedding day.

@monejohn9973 6 ай бұрын

Yea i got the same evil mom & if a man Did this to me. I'd be a runaway bride to. It's the ultimate form of disrespect. Not only that, but you're telling me all the abuse I went through as a child doesn't mean anything to you ....thats wild af😅 Like she's the reason why I have a short temper And no patience which I probably would have tried to fight Everybody they got in my face.😅 smdh

4 ай бұрын

Sadly this happens a lot, even more disgusting it can happen with CSA survivors, I was at a party where someone pulled that on a dear friend who was not in a good place and opening up about her past. There is a reason it took everyone a good 10 or more seconds to finally react to our friend smashing an entire bottle over the c^&* who said its head, pure shock that anyone would say that, and when we did act it was more so our friend wouldn't end up in prison for murder, not for the well being of the c^%* who tried to downplay horrific childhood sexual abuse by a family member.

@bwicket Ай бұрын

My dude's mom is a piece of work, and our deal is always that he controls our relationship with her. He wants one? Cool, I got him. He wants nothing to do with her? Also chill. No matter what, it's his business and not mine. No one can fix someone else's family issues. It's dumb to think you can.

@juanhaines7295 8 ай бұрын

I heard this whole saga. This is what happens when spouses act like what's best. I hope this family is doing well.

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 7 ай бұрын

Not a family... a cult

@kalezuki9231 6 ай бұрын

@@bUrRiEdaLiVe6Really hope you mean that in a joking manner , some times it's hard to tell some ones tone or actual meaning online since there wasn't any /s at the end or an emoji ( 😉 🤣 lol )

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 6 ай бұрын

@@kalezuki9231 yeah, I was following the line of the OP that calls their family a cult

@ZenoDovahkiin 7 ай бұрын

"Screaming that he didn't trust her" was enough, we all knew she wasn't pregnant after that. :D

@erickpoorbaugh6728 5 ай бұрын

"I'm offended that you want to verify what I'm saying instead of blindly trusting me" = "I'm lying and trying to guilt-trip my way out of getting caught."

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami 3 ай бұрын

KZfaq asked me to rate your comment for some reason, i fully rated it😂

@khaleesireyna731 2 ай бұрын

Would've been hilarious if he just replied with a simple "Nope" to her "You don't trust me!!!" Gurl, read the room!

@lifeofchika1784 4 ай бұрын

I compleatly broke down crying when you said all 3 of them had prepped for your period. There's a real stigma for men around this, so they have really done some work on themselves. This is such healthy masculinity and I left wth a jittery feeleeing. It's the love and trust between good people that makes life worth it

@khaleesireyna731 2 ай бұрын

Men who are chill about period stuff are amazing. I know there are plenty of people who will say that that should be the bare minimum (and I agree, but stigma still exists across the world), but whenever I see guys who are chill and helpful rather than all icked out about periods, I'm just so happy to see it! It's like you said, positive masculinity! Funny story: I have multiple cousins who are all at least a decade younger than me (the youngest is 20 yrs younger than me) and one cousin spends a fair amount of time at my place (his mom isn't in the picture, so it's just him and his dad. Whenever he's over, I get to play cool auntie/cousin 😂😎). One time we were playing video games and he found some tampons that had fallen out of one of my bags and asked what they were. I explained (in an age appropriate way) and it was so sweet because he immediately was like "oh, I'll make sure to have these ready for my friends that are girls when I'm older!". Warmed my heart!

@ThatAsianOverThere 3 ай бұрын

The cute bit about her dad and her brothers separately giving her presentations on menstruation after her first period has me weak. Too adorable

@jgamer2228 8 ай бұрын

The bride thought that her inviting his family was a good wedding present to herself?? homie dodged a bullet. That’s pure narcissism.

@HarperSophia 6 ай бұрын

Yuppp

@CareerKnight 6 ай бұрын

And her further actions just added to the size of the bullet he dodged.

@ravenID429 4 ай бұрын

The only good thing about narcissists - a lot of them are stupid enough to show who they are🤣

4 ай бұрын

@@CareerKnight It went from a bullet to a tank shell

@nick-brothwood 3 ай бұрын

Bro didn't just dodge a bullet, he dodged a 31 inch Armored-Piercing Shell that was fired from 38,000 metres!

@melonman6522 8 ай бұрын

Sam nearly married someone as crazy as his mother!

@aureliaalessio 5 ай бұрын

He dodged a bullet!

4 ай бұрын

@@aureliaalessio pretty sure he dodged an nuclear capable ICBM

@spicynoodles2742 7 ай бұрын

At the moment when the fiancée believed that everything the brother said about his mother was a lie, or exaggerated, I already knew it was a red flag for miles, how can you call the person who experienced it firsthand exaggerated? 💀 This isn't even a narcissistic mother anymore, it's a psychopathic mother, and the ex-fiancée is just as bad, that's why she wanted the mother to be there.

@khaleesireyna731 4 ай бұрын

As someone who has been no contact with both parents due to narcissism, it never ceases to amaze me how often people who DO NOT GET IT will bend over backwards to try and rationalize away your experiences and say you need your family. I've just accepted that those people belong in one of two categories: 1) their own families are toxic, and they're DEEP in the "family first" fog. Been there, done thar, got the crappy t-shirt. It's not worth it. Or 2) they had a genuinely good experience with an overall healthy family dynamic, and sadly, they lack the ability to comprehend that their experiences are not the universal experiences. I can't MAKE them get it, so I just hold firm on my boundaries with it and if anyone pushes me, I show them the door.

@Thaddius0 4 ай бұрын

she nailed it when she accused them of being hardened as humans due to no maternal love. Yep lady, you raised a platoon of soldiers with self respect who aint taking your shit

@ri.b.8700 7 күн бұрын

Well said.

@sachi5749 7 ай бұрын

10:43 so op says they divorced when she was 3 ... but mother had commented about her trying to be the dads wife or something???? SHE WAS AFRAID OF A LITERAL CHILD WTF??!!

@beyourself5659 4 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm also confused 😕 af what is that

@kingyosh3183 3 ай бұрын

That just means the wife is nuts

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami 3 ай бұрын

Exactly she's sick🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

@poppy-jb3st Ай бұрын

either the egg donor is absolutely insane or this story is fake. either way i wouldn't be surprised

@LittlePastaPeeps Ай бұрын

My adoptive mom had maternal envy from the year I turned 1. It can start young as hell, from my understanding.

@Brixujel_Rimulex 8 ай бұрын

"Maybe this time, he will make it to the alter" That last part got me to laugh hard enough for my Clap-On-Lap to turn on.

@givensurname1296 6 ай бұрын

Daniela thought they were "exaggerating" over *their* mother because she, Daniela, is just like their mother.

@mizzeti 6 ай бұрын

I am sorry, but if I ever hear someone telling me that their mother took them to celebrate "something" when their stepmother died, that person would be dead to me and I would not think for a second that it was exaggerated. How can anyone sane of mind say that someone should reconcile with such a monster of a woman?

@somecatyoudontknow6471 7 ай бұрын

All children deserve parents, not all parents deserve children.

@CaitlinIrwin-cd2hh 5 ай бұрын

The dad calling the cats his grandchildren is adorable!

@QrincessQri 7 ай бұрын

I hate how people with parents that are physically abusive, mentally abusive, or even both have to jump through hoops to be heard. My biological ‘father’ is a lot like the mother from hell in this story. Only showing their true face to their spouse and kids. To everyone else it’s crocodile tears and “woe is me” stories that NEVER happened. It especially hurts when people you trusted hear your abusers “side of the story” and choose to believe them over you. In a way it’s a good thing because it shows you they never really cared for you and your well-being so you might as well as cut them out of your life altogether… but it still hurts...

@CareerKnight 6 ай бұрын

Or they are locked in the "family is what matters/always forgive family" mindset and it is easier to believe the story that confirms that than admit that one of their core beliefs is wrong.

@monejohn9973 6 ай бұрын

Right some ppl really are demons 😅. I had a stupid cousin who knew that my dad was never a part of my life. And I was his only child. And we got into an argument when I said that he didn't love me. This dude couldn't think of anything he did for me. Gave me, no pictures😅. Some people are just so delusional to your pain. But luckily I cursed him out and told him he cried about people not talking about his dumb dad. So unless you want to get beat up, don't mention mine.

@khaleesireyna731 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree! I recently got in touch with one of my uncles and we talked a bit about my cutting off my family/my abusive father and the fact that HE BELIEVED ME was such a weight off my shoulders. It really is difficult, because not only are you painfully aware that your parent(s)/family were such trash that you had to go no contact for your own well being (and therefore, you don't have much in terms of family), but there are so many times where you have to defend and argue your own experiences because people who never lived ONE DAY in that crap come in with the "it couldn't have been THAT bad". The one positive there is that it's given me even more appreciation for the people who DO believe me/support me. Those people are the real ones!

@Mernom 6 ай бұрын

The almost wife's problem was that she tried to impose her own values on another family, and refused to even consider the option that she doesn't understand the circumstances. Also, I like how they took the 'cult' insult and ownd it.

@TheReal_Antrey 8 ай бұрын

Op: After all this drama might not want a wedding Brother: Now listen here...

@ziqi92 5 ай бұрын

People who treat family blood relations as a sacred structure that can never be questioned are to never be trusted. These people value appearance and “institution” of family more than the people in the family, and that’s toxic.

@luviee_ 6 ай бұрын

Lmfao, the audacity to scream at him he doesn’t trust her after all she did & when she was trying to fake a pregnancy is hilarious

@JaytaylorArts 7 ай бұрын

It’s crazy that some people think ALL families are universally the same and their experiences with their family can be compared to others. Any marriage that starts with your partner going behind your back or ignoring your concerns about a family member you have no contact with is bound to end in disaster. The Ex-Sil’s claim that Sam should reconcile with is mother was WILD. The whole point of the no contact was because all the other times he and his siblings tried to reconcile, it failed because the mother was a peace of shit…. (I have family members like this and they always tell me to make up with the person I have no contact with and it just pisses me off.)

@nurlindafsihotang49 3 ай бұрын

Like......you have to HAVE TRIES EVERYTHING...I MEAN EVERYTHING....BEFORE YOU DISOWNED YOUR MOTHER. Instead giving benefit of a doubt and check for herself daniela just invite ex's mother in law because "the right thing to do"!? F that! Sam really dodge a bullet.

@katara4907 5 ай бұрын

My heart for the dad asking Op to ask to tell everyone his kid aren’t alcoholic is so sweet

@mattdavis4248 8 ай бұрын

I wish I knew every member of this family. They all sound like great people.

@chessieray1465 8 ай бұрын

The thing that should have been kept fresh in their minds was how Daniela wouldn't let it go for so long at first. That's how you know they're gonna pull something.

@khaleesireyna731 4 ай бұрын

Agreed. I'd have been ready to drop-kick her at her calling everyone affirming the mothers abuse "dramatic". I've got a saying when people say disrespectful ish like that: "You didn't live A DAY in the hell I lived in for years, so you damn well don't get an opinion on how hot the flames were".

@malikpittman6376 8 ай бұрын

Joe is the older brother I want and hope to be

@Chuck_vs._The_Comment_Section 7 ай бұрын

Basically, he has still been lucky. There are more than enough partners who reveal their true colours only after they are married.

@DarqueQueen7 8 ай бұрын

I am so glad there was an update with this OP and her family! I am so happy they are doing well and continuing on with life. Blessings on them all and a Happy 2024 going forward!❤ And I am sooo willing ro join this cult!

@Reaper-bd9bl 7 ай бұрын

I like joe. He's a good big brother.

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 7 ай бұрын

He's a LEGEND

@phastinemoon 7 ай бұрын

The Rock of the family (not surprised, since he’s the oldest

@issaknife3132 7 ай бұрын

King Joe❤

@kents012 7 ай бұрын

One of the most common pain points I see when it comes to marriages. The woman becomes so self-centered because it's their wedding, completely forgetting it's their soon-to-be-husband's wedding too. This was a no-brainer on the bride's part if only she took a few more moments to think about it.

@AstronautLoveTriangle 7 ай бұрын

This family is beautiful. I'm glad there are families like OP's in the world.

@xTsunamiix 8 ай бұрын

I love this family so much!!!! They are incredibly strong and sound like such amazing people. I feel terrible though. Bc they’ve gone through so much, but I don’t feel too sad. I really feel joy for reading about such amazing people 😭 I guess not the emotions they were particularly aiming for but yk. I really wish them the best!!!!

@thatoneannoyingtornadosire8755 7 ай бұрын

Same here, watched and listened from start to end of the video and hearing about how strong the family was made me start sobbing. They all care and love each other a lot, the moms side of the family are completely rotten and severely missing out on having truly amazing people in their lives.

@YazeedArtt 8 ай бұрын

I love the part he's say ' waiting his mother funeral and celebrate.. making remember my dad's funeral and my lated dad's wife.. called me and brothers.. '6 Demons'

@duckynoodles3560 6 ай бұрын

This whole story is like a really well done reboot of the movie *3 men and a baby* OP,may you and your family have an amazing life despite this crazy event that had happened

@Akuvistic 5 ай бұрын

In my eyes this is the equivalent of someone telling their best friend they have an extreme phobia of something, let’s say spiders, and the best friend turns around and gifts you a spider. “I’m only helping you get over your fear! Unlike YOU I know the importance of spiders on the ecosystem.”

@girl1213 8 ай бұрын

His ex doesn't value family, she values the idealized ideal of a family, which is not possible because every family has problems and sometimes they are so bad that they can't be fixed. OP's mother certainly is one of those who don't want to be fixed because they honestly believe that they are victims and there forth deserve good treatment. But that's not how life works. The mother cheated and that was wrong. The mother wasn't nice to her children and that was wrong. Yet in her mind, they weren't because to her that's how things are supposed to be: a benefit to herself only. It's the same with the ex and her family. Only they benefit from this idea that anything can be fix because you're "family," and cannot accept that OP's brother has proven them wrong. Now they have a problem that can't be fixed to their benefit. People like this love to play games like this and can't stand to lose. Best to beat them at their game and leave them behind forever.

@Pikapower7 2 ай бұрын

If any of the siblings had been adopted, or if they had adopted a child, you can bet they'd be treated awful by this woman for not being "blood."

@bellerain381 7 ай бұрын

I was so relieved to hear this little family got their happy ending! 😊😊😊 Sounds like they’ve been through hell and now, they all are living their lives and still have each other!

@Noramythseeker 7 ай бұрын

Not 👏 all 👏 mothers 👏 deserve 👏 to 👏 be 👏 mothers 👏 and the ex-fiancé will forever be single.

@Roronoa1213 4 ай бұрын

“Sorry to the nice Daniella’s out there, the *FUCK YOU* wasn’t for you” had me dying 🤣😭😭😭

@megan00b8 4 ай бұрын

In that moment the ex could've saved the relationship, but she didn't know two key things: the first is that family is an emotional bond, and the second is that blood is just a liquid.

@teelyn1609 4 ай бұрын

I love this family! They sound wonderful and the fact that Dad has embraced the cats as his grandkids as well makes me want to hug him:) I’d join this “cult” in a heartbeat!

@-FPujithaSuri-mg7tr 6 ай бұрын

all the drama aside, but this is such big happy and lovely family, I just hope the have all happiness

@chaotic476 8 ай бұрын

This should be a soap opera at this point...

@theduck3072 8 ай бұрын

Yes

@phastinemoon 7 ай бұрын

More like a telenovela

@samuelcavalcanti3345 7 ай бұрын

The "Daniela is not Brazillian" bit almost made me spit my water, like bruh i'm Brazillian and i'm wondering what does it have to do with anything? I'm laughing so hard right now trying to piece something together but it's just so random 💀💀💀

@dhekkafox 7 ай бұрын

Cara... Tbm... Tbm... Gringos nos acham psicopatas? Eu não faço ideia

@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 7 ай бұрын

Brazilian was too specific, but I'll admit that reading "Daniela" made me think this family is Latin american (as I am)

@hflo2375 7 ай бұрын

She said that because people in the comments on Reddit were saying Brazilian because of her name. It was an odd note from the commenters. Especially because she said their language is Spanish.

@ickybeast123 8 ай бұрын

I heard the whole thing, its crazy that these stories are in reddit

@rasheetaneja1017 7 ай бұрын

I understand what’s it like to have terrible parents. Sam’s ex should’ve respected his wishes and understand where he’s coming from rather then looking down on him. This is really shitty, I mean I feel bad for them all but I’m glad the siblings and the father supported each other.

@chaincat33 8 ай бұрын

"It's a good present for him because I value family" that is a backasswards line of logic

@MelodyRose96 7 ай бұрын

Like, it's nice to value family, but does it really matter when your family doesn't value you?

@kellharris2491 7 ай бұрын

It means she thinks she is better then him. Like I unlike you understand family.

@kenyabrunson4985 6 ай бұрын

@@kellharris2491 Yeah, she pretty much said that they were raised to hate mothers, so she had to teach him. Like no, girl. Just because you dislike your own mom doesn't mean you hate all mothers. And why would anyone love a mother who has been so awful to her own children?

@BraveryWing26 6 ай бұрын

I am so glad the enabler and the "Mom" got told and abandoned off.

@hitrapperandartistdababy 5 ай бұрын

Joe is a real MVP. A solid rock for his dad and his younger siblings. Absolute legend

@nurlindafsihotang49 3 ай бұрын

He is truly the 1st born.😊

@Sushi_Cat2793 6 ай бұрын

25:00 JULIO YESSSSS!! IDK WHY BUT THAT WAS THE BEST PART. JUST SAM BEING CALLED JULIO MADE ME SMILE SO MUCH-

@AlvinKazu 8 ай бұрын

Damn, he dodged some WTF there.... The EX-Fiancee turned out to be mother#2.... That's wild. I'm so glad it worked out for them all.. Sad it had to happen on his weddign day though.... Seriously, there were NO red flags before this? Maybe she figuerd she could undo some of the mask on wedding day as it's "too late."

@malario5235 8 ай бұрын

Ex deserved it she was just like eggdonor mom.

@royal-wolf 2 ай бұрын

Everytime someone is NC with a family member and the SO decides to invite them to the wedding, it always ends bad.

@ri.b.8700 7 күн бұрын

OP's family is awesome. You stand up, for and with each other. That's a true family, not a cult. PS: I hope my kids will be there for each other, through everything ,good and bad times.

@michellewallace5685 7 ай бұрын

Finally someone else knows what THAT kind of mom is like. Not all mom's are nice and perfect. Some are very awful people. Fully support OP and her family. I'm close with my dad too and people think it's creepy 🙄

@nurlindafsihotang49 3 ай бұрын

I call those wench egg&womb-donor. The term mother should only reserved to those worthy of the respect. Blood related or not.

@EzrealE1 8 ай бұрын

First this is a great saga, second op is clearly from Argentina (I will not say how I know), third hope we get a recap at the end of this year

@EpicBunty 7 ай бұрын

loved it. may her pursuit of happiness be fruitful.

@tsrgoinc 6 ай бұрын

Its makes perfect sense that Daniela invited the mother, they very much appear to be cut from the same cloth!

@shawnycoffman 3 ай бұрын

I, too, was raised by a textbook malignant narcissist. How this family is acting is completely normal and justified. Their mother was spawned by the devil and the only proper course of action is to keep her completely excised from their lives. Shout out to brother Joe for handling the wedding situation and for the best clap back I have heard in a long time. The man is a fearless warrior. I envy them their closeness, love, and loyalty to each other.

@Kakuyawolf3456 7 ай бұрын

I hope Sam's okay...dodged a bullet there

@winniesundust5709 3 ай бұрын

Family like yours is all the more reason to be NC. I pray you and your family are in good health and spirits now adays.

@The-Ace-of-Spades1 8 ай бұрын

God am I glad neither of my parents are like this 😌, really freaking hope my dad or his parents never act like this in the future, I really can see my grandmother possibly acting like this😅

@S-Possum 6 ай бұрын

I think the OP and her family are from the same country as I due to the mother language and how adoptions work. -- Soo happy everything is going well for them, they deserve it

@HippieInHeart 6 ай бұрын

Damn, I can 100 % emphasize with the first story. Having a horrible abusive excuse of a so-called "mother" making pretty much your entire childhood absolutely and completely miserable is bad enough, but when she's also an absolute master at manipulation and can convince pretty much everyone that she's a very nice and friendly person and people who dislike her are just bad people, it gets so much worse, cause you can't even really talk to anyone about it, except for people who know her as much as you do and have seen what a horrible person she is when she drops the nice-person-mask. I would 100 % have done the same if my wife had invited my "mother" to our wedding. Also, lmfao, "she has cancer" can relate 100 % on that one as well. Same with my "mother". Allegedly, according to herself, she had all sorts of things. Brain tumor, breast cancer, leukemia, bunch of other stuff too, all very severe and often incurable or deadly diseases. Somehow, though, all her supposed illnesses kept just getting better and going away eventually, despite her never recieving any sort of medical treatment for any of them. Top kek.

@Z.O.1991 8 ай бұрын

The ex is just like their egg donor.

@CanadaWaxSolvent 6 ай бұрын

Unfortunately when you have to talk about an abusive family you have to accept that a lot of people just won't believe you, and others will go as far as to blame you. Those people should not be allowed into your inner circle. They did the right thing by getting far away from the fiancee.

@nurlindafsihotang49 3 ай бұрын

Especially if the family the type "face-saving" one.

@brycethebattlephoenix3720 19 күн бұрын

Nothing makes me happier than a family that knows when to put all differences aside and hunkers down to weather a storm together

@Ryuzen_Dragor 2 ай бұрын

Props to that family for their teamwork in bad situations. Hopefully they all have a wonderful life without anymore mother appearing like a witch in the woods. And hopefully if the brother get's married he makes it to the alter without any bad surprises.

@isaidajhooks7631 7 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry you guys had to go through that! I’m so sorry your mother was so vicious and toxic. It’s great that you guys were able to build such a beautiful bond. I’m glad Daniella didn’t get the chance to be the mother of Sam’s children. That’s great

@blackeyedincubus 7 ай бұрын

Yeah she had it coming. Sam opened his heart about his horrible mother and she betrayed his trust. And as harsh as this may sound, but it’s good that she did that. So he found out before making a mistake

@Chaosqueenngami 3 ай бұрын

For those saying that the OP lacked/lacks feminine influence in her life because she is no contact with her mom. It sounds like her dad was a perfect feminist influence himself . Telling her fiancé that her hand wasn’t his to give, perfect! We need to start normalizing that fathers can be great single parents too, and some women simply aren’t cut out to be moms. Daniela was obviously buying to the picture perfect family image that society likes. It’s toxic because that mentality makes family members forgive the unforgivable.

@Eric_Black134 2 ай бұрын

Your dad and brothers sound freaking AWESOME!!

@khaleesireyna731 4 ай бұрын

I've heard this story a few times from various youtubers but the sheer amount of "f*ck around and find out" energy coming at Daniela is legendary. Like, this idiot was told NUMEROUS times that nmom was toxic and she was rightly cut off. As someone who had to cut off both parents for my safety, security and sanity (huge abusive narcissists who would probably get along pretty well with "the cult family's" mom), I'd pull a Julia Roberts and run tf away if anyone brought them anywhere near me. Daniela at least deserves silver in mental gymnastics and gold in "make myself a victim" events in the narc olympics. She played herself and she still thinks she's the victim... yeah, brother dodged a nuke.

@starfangssecrets5118 7 ай бұрын

I’m so happy Sam is finding happiness again 💜

@kanikagaral7637 7 ай бұрын

If the older SIL didnt do this then why did the new girl thought she should. Good on the siblings to stay strong. Ur brother ignored lot of red flags in the beginning.

@falis3075 7 ай бұрын

24:28 ahhh classic dad with the cat... lmao

@soniczeromkx Ай бұрын

I need more, this cult is unhinged and caring and i love it 😂

@cris4ever70 5 ай бұрын

Spanish speakers? I know for experience this makes this drama 100% more intense lmaooo Good for this family, they are united, affectionate and resilient. They sound delightful. I hope someday I can create a family like this or marry into one.

@MomotheToothless 5 ай бұрын

Damn. Sam may have been heartbroken, but he definitely dodged a bullet.

@funakfunak2740 5 ай бұрын

The FIL was like: "Please just take her, we can't stand her either"

@bastianriv1124 6 ай бұрын

Holy sht the baby is from co worker in his 50s and married? 😂😂

@tiredofupdates 7 ай бұрын

imagine being more worried about a woman growing up without "feminine figures" than about separating a child from an abusive and psychotic mother who viewed her own daughter as competition for her husband because he refused to neglect her for being born female what sane person would choose teaching their kid how to "girl" - which isn't even a fucking thing - over keeping them safe and making sure they feel loved. that's messed up. if a parent is mistreating their child, it doesn't matter what sex they are, you protect that kid and let the nicer parent raise them. shouldn't even need to be friggin said.

@cyndirankin 3 ай бұрын

The lack of respect the ex showed was appalling

@BraveryWing26 6 ай бұрын

"We didnt attend the funeral" GOOD!

@muhshij8130 10 күн бұрын

The family is awesome!! Truly how a good close family should be. Shame about the mum but I guess that pushed them to be as awesome as they are

@treco2583 6 ай бұрын

I’d heard this before, but I hadn’t heard the last two updates!! They are an amazing family. That ex-fiancé’s family is really messed up. Can you imagine being dumped because your family is toxic? YIKES!!

@mercifulchickens 2 ай бұрын

And she was pregnant with the married coworkers baby??? Nah bro dodged a whole tactical nuke

@rinthedimensionhopper9007 7 ай бұрын

Sam almost married his mother

@ryanmackenzie6109 6 ай бұрын

The way the Ex was speaking about the mom and about what she thought Sam would do to her? I think she might have a guilty conscience. Sounds a lot like Ex saw herself in the mother, 'playing nice' to get married and all, and wanted to try to 'fix' Sam so she could get away woth walking all over him just like the mom tried with the dad.