Tonight on #TheMarriageCoach Viewer's dilemma: ' I just discovered that my husband has been sleeping with our house-help. Should I leave him?' What will our coach, Wanjiru Kiama advise her? And what would be your advise?
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@geospeenterprises8286 Жыл бұрын
Nowadays this issue of househelps has become unbearable. Many men are sleeping with the househelps. Such a shame
@judygicimu5633 Жыл бұрын
Monica i pray one day i will give life story in this metha ya kagoni😢😢😢
@florencewanjikuo5445 Жыл бұрын
Today the discussion is 🔥 Thanks Kagoni for making this possible many people will take good advice....salimia our very able counsellor tunamupenda Sana... Pia wewe tunakulov🤗
@catherinemureithi9404 Жыл бұрын
Kudos was Kiama! You are such a truthful marriage counselor and I like the way you use the word of God
@ceciliaogola5597 Жыл бұрын
Wakiama l love your teaching
@judy413910 ай бұрын
Women should be deprogrammed from taking such men back.Its literally an insult mtu kurudi after such betrayal.Wakienda waende kabisa.Women r not cushions for absorbing mistreatment
@wanjasarova844611 ай бұрын
Great woman,our mum wa Kiama,,Really graced by God...wise counsel mom,God bless you
@susannyokabi178511 ай бұрын
Wonderful talk
@Suzie-Yule-Diadem Жыл бұрын
It's such a hard topic, loaded with wisdom,
@anitathuku372311 ай бұрын
I grew up as a christian but am now an atheist. I remember the bible says that it's ONLY adultery that can separate 2 people who love each. Forgiving adultery is like encouraging promiscuity. Siwezi
@irynejames516111 ай бұрын
And the God you knew when you were a Christian (as you claim) is the same God even when you claim to be an atheist. Its upto you.
@jom.893811 ай бұрын
@anitathuku3723- kudos! How is your relationship with an omuhusband interfering with your relationship with God? God is not a man so that he should lie- meaning men(your husband, yourself and I) are capable of listening to the father of lies and committing adultery and God has nothing to do with it. If a man decides that grass is greener over the fench- let him eat over there- a day is coming
@anitathuku372311 ай бұрын
@@jom.8938 I think your understanding of my comment is so shallow. Re read the comment because i will not explain to you like a 2 year old, or leave my comment and listen to the message said by the marriage counsellor.
@jom.893811 ай бұрын
@@anitathuku3723 - hmmm. Who hurt you? Shallow and speaking to adults as 2 year olds- tells that alot is going on. Insulting others will not heal your pain or issues. And from this 2 year old - forgiveness is not for the offender but for the offended. Peace
@gracenjuguna685211 ай бұрын
You are doing a good job mum
@marymugwe7150 Жыл бұрын
I love this mama
@joyjoy7660 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Monica n mum....ur topics are very educative n Godly,,mum wakiama augire arii gwataniro na bishop Jane kingori,✓ni ataranaga na ungai muingi muno,,,niii niliachwa na mimba ya 7mnth,,,akataftiwa bibi mwingine na mom in law,today it's 8yrs past,sijawahi olewa not dating am 34yrs,,,yeye alioa Ako na watoto....wakiama iguru riuii muthuri ucio wa uiritu wakwa niwe muthuri wakwa,,,we don't talk with him nor does he assist in any way,monicah na wakiama haha riu atia🤷
@wambuimuchai4230 Жыл бұрын
The truth is very hard to hear, and this wisdom is sometimes a bitter pill to swallow, but one thing I've learned is that a wife should keep herself fresh and value herself. Love Wakiama .
@millicentnjeri6985 Жыл бұрын
i think the pain that one partner(victim) choses to live with after such betrayal is on their own, cz God permits divorce on such account, adultery....so He knew it is painful and a human being might not bear
@josephwabita866211 ай бұрын
Wakagoni we very funny that's why I watch your show Kwanza ukijifanya ati uko shocked ❤😂😅
@jacqueypatrick409011 ай бұрын
Such a wonderful program and it's true. Pay back time is always there. Ask my Dad after living us tukiwa watoi atì tha ici mutumia ùcio nìwe ethaga akìmùìtia ùteithio
@annewaithera2498 Жыл бұрын
Very nice topic
@judygicimu5633 Жыл бұрын
My bitter life story. Kwanza wangu alinitukana mbele yake n told me am a very stupid woman who never knew what happens in my own house😣😣😣those words ring a fresh to my mind daily since 2016 n last yr 2022 i still discovered their still together
@23BlessedLady Жыл бұрын
😢😢
@Perry_1234 Жыл бұрын
Take heart mama
@estherkieyakinyanjui7220 Жыл бұрын
Mimi nilitukanwa na mpango, but I thank God for He is still in control. Take heart mams
@abigaelsamuel1307 Жыл бұрын
And God has done you well
@winniemwash807511 ай бұрын
To those gals sleeps with their bosses hubbies may God see them
@charity4908 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅 roho wa mwiri...mahoya... oh my goodness😅😅
@jacklinewaweru59599 ай бұрын
If the wife is the agressive of the breadwinner and the man is idle.....automatically the man unless he has character will get into mischief.....women should get older women,dayschoolers.....wakiama you are wise ....many old wise women tell men around their forties are dangerous and can v destructive.....discuss when men and women get mid life crisis and how they should handle it ....
@marysamweru Жыл бұрын
Hi Monica where do we send $ for lunch. Queen Esther really blesses me and she’s so genuine.
@COUNSELOR_WANJIRU_KIAMA Жыл бұрын
M-pesa the same number on the screen and the name will be Esther Kiama. Asanteni.
@jushiyalemaiyan280 Жыл бұрын
They are not called med call them house help that is the good name please
@naominjeri5577 Жыл бұрын
True just serve him food..am the bread winner after he made funny decisions and was sacked from a very good job .. whenever he's around,he cooks food..but nampakulia .. it's just simple...vile hata wewe ukija nitakupakulia . Don't do shingo upande...guikira irio thani ti murigo..
@joyjoy7660 Жыл бұрын
.....ata wenye napatana nawao ni wanaume wawenyewe so I don't give a chance tondu ndingienda ona thuu yakwa igerere ruo gutarii mundu ungihota kuelewa uritu waguo
@janekogi6442 Жыл бұрын
Ata kiri muthinyiri Ngai,ndoi kuhoithia,ndathiaga kanitha,menyai kigitio giketwo kirimu no ta ngurwe ihetwo ruru
@janekogi6442 Жыл бұрын
Ndukiririe problem cia empty nest after retirement,Niki athuri matuage mutumia kairitu kanini ga kurorerwo thaa na arata ukerwo ndekwena,,nyumba ni thigithigi itathiraga,none based issues na many complain,if you don't adhere utaona chaputa makuuuni
@marynyaga8522 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@Sindi6308411 ай бұрын
I.left because he was planning to kill me...😢
@MyJOSE201311 ай бұрын
I strongly bilieve God punishes people with mipango ya kando since most people these days fornicate freely before marriage. How then can he allow you to enjoy marriage founded in sin 🤔
@annekimani117811 ай бұрын
True,
@carolinewanjiku6610 Жыл бұрын
A woman is the bread winner? How then does the man prove his manhood to others? He does the only thing that he can afford, move with cheap women to get.
@petersonkibara314911 ай бұрын
Nĩma ti wega , Kau gatihota ũtungata wa mũtumia. No gĩthĩna
@charity4908 Жыл бұрын
Psalm 53...those who say there is no God, they are fools...
@irenejoyce8456 Жыл бұрын
Wakiama & Kagoni, my mum had a lady who once(by God’s grace) had a tongue slip and said while laughing “saa zingine hata utakasirika ukojole mboga hehehe”. By 6.29am the next morning I’d helped her pack her bags and given her tea and she was at the stage with all her money and in matatu back to their home. Dikweda goma 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!!
@anitathuku372311 ай бұрын
What did she mean exactly by kukojolea mboga?
@irenejoyce845611 ай бұрын
@@anitathuku3723 literally to pee on the kitchen garden when she gets annoyed with my mum. I saw her out asap 👏🏽
@marynyaga8522 Жыл бұрын
Ii ma tondu niu ndaikirio nja na joint account igicenjio, no ngai no akandihiria
@beatricenjeri8502 Жыл бұрын
Pole sana
@eunicembia2318 Жыл бұрын
Is it a must to have a house help my friend ?
@ja9293 Жыл бұрын
narcissistic men never learn ........just leave
@waridim924910 ай бұрын
Athuri a Jamhuri nî Ngai, mxtcheeew! Pathetic!
@rosemarynyambura8227 Жыл бұрын
For a house girl , it is very painful &so shameful , forgiveness is so impossible