When my glory passes by, I will put you in a cleft in the rock and cover you with my hand until have passed by. Exodus 33:22 NIV Say the three words that everyone needs to hear! “I AM SORRY” Marvel at the instantaneous healing that will take place! Peace of Christ ❤ Chynna

I love that follow the peace. I just made breakfast for my nine-year-old granddaughter and no matter what I do concerning her I feel love and joy.

You are so funny, if I could find a friend like you I’d be set for life!

So glad you worked it out and I love that you told each other what you need to hear:)

Allow God to meet Billy.

World peace begins at home.😊

I always say good health,food,shelter are the most important things in life .The other good things that come along are a bonus .God plays a important role he knows and loves us and we all need to serve him .

What helps me during conflict is saying "it's not about being right. It's about truth."

It can become very complicated and maybe sometimes we overthink on situations

First time watching and I find you (and Bill) to be so adorable!! To God be the glory!! ❤

I use a medium-sized clear plastic storage bin in the car to transport food! 😅

Chynna, start apologizing without expecting anything in return. Soon, Billie will begin to do that for you. You are correct, this is about pride. God bless you both.

When in an argument, think like it's a war with bombs and weapons. Your point is irrelevant. Peace is all that matters. Peace at all costs. It's all about ego. Shed that robe. The only time this advice doesn't work is when you are being manipulated or emotionally abused. Then just get out. Years ago I learned from one of the old time motivational speakers (perhaps Brian Tracy) about apologizing and shedding your ego. Best Life Lesson ever. Don't expect anyone else to change. If they decide to change it will have nothing to do with you. It's the Human Conundrum. Embrace it, take a deep breath, Praise Jesus, and move forward.

Women want to fix things. Let God do that. Give each other space. Praying together for work and family and the best next place.

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When i was bridging stage 3 to endstage 4, (liver) 2003. Closed my business, the only treatment available made me go blind, lose my hair & mind, loss my T&A, skin n bones, ultimately stopping the only experimental treatment available, i was preparing myself to go home to my Lord! I confessed all my sins and asked God to forgive me, 🙏🏼 he told me that I had unforgiveness in my heart 💗 in order to be forgiven I needed to forgive others! which started an inward journey. I lived so sick for the next 10 yrs , a NEW treatment came out 2015 I was cured!! my liver is regenerating, healing n renewing. Forgiveness is for us more then the other person, unforgiveness rot's our inner! Even though we do not reach our perfected glorified body until we're home with the Lord! God always looks at us and sees completed perfection in US! Take off the mask people! No matter how perfect we may think we are we are NOT! as long as we are here, there is always room for improvement. That's ok! Keep trying! We are here to serve God and others, not our flesh with sin (worldly pleasures.) The answers are in the Bible! God's living word will speak to each of us individually, personally, when we read it! Never Give Up bc our Lord Never gives up on us! It's us that turn our backs on him, and he lets us bc he gives us free will. The best thing about being brought to our knees is being retrieved, reconciled and renewed! Peace of Christ 😂😂🎉

I always remember Dr Phil's phrase: ''Do you want to be right or happy?'

I’ve never had a problem apologizing but my husband does, despite being a Christian. 40 years married and he’s still that way. Praying the Holy Spirit convicts him and many times hubby gets it. Love you Chynna ♥️🙏🏻

Why can't both of you say to each other, "I'm sorry I hurt you." It doesn't accuse the other of purposely hurting you, but it acknowledges that you each value your relationship over trying to prove who's right or wrong. Blessings 💗

I remember once arguing with my husband and it was just getting ready to lose it, instead I went into the living room when I opened up the Bible Wallah words of wisdom. I prayed one back in the room and we were able to resolve it immediately. Yesterday A friend of mine misunderstood something I had said and got angry I tried to explain but he stormed off. I wanted to call a friend and complain complain complain but instead I called a friend and prayed and prayed and prayed. Within 10 minutes he came back and he said when he sat down something in his heart was so overwhelming that he had to come back to apologize. This is absolutely huge because this person has frontal lobe damage and bursts of anger, but issue. His normal MO would be not to talk to somebody for a while afterwards. This is a true miracle of God

You ALWAYS come to the right conclusion. Giving up control. Excellent. In 1994 I was in my second year in the fellowship and a retired Cleveland Policeman said something I will never forget from the podium. He said, " Faith isn't faith until it's all you have left. Then it becomes faith" .

Chynna, Jesus will see you through. Stay busy. Stay strong. We are all praying for you.❤ lots of love and 😊 good vibes.

My husband and I are they same age as the two of you and have been married 36 years with three grown children. The key for us is as soon as something is bothering us we let each other know and get it straight immediately. Love watching the two of you and thank you for walking us home.

Jesus took it ALL…. Then said Father forgive them…. He did nothing wrong… that quickly gets me in forgiving mode!😊

I have experienced it is important to invite Holy Spirit into the space in our heart where we are resisting the process of asking or giving forgiveness and receiving total forgiveness. He often shows us that there is deeper a thread leading to to real issue causing that resistance. That is the actual powerful part of confession where when we agree with God in our confession HE shows us His Truth of the whole picture. His presence in the process then releases us internally and emotionally to receive HIS forgiveness and ultimate Healing which then empowers us by HIS strength to truly forgive and experience total freedom from the painful briers. Religion is doing God’s commandments in human strength. Relationship with Jesus is encountering Him personally as our GREAT Shepherd and lover of our soul who truly counsels us as His precious children and takes us so much deeper into Him. Only He truly satisfies our souls … our Living Water- He IS absolutely more than enough for us 🙌🏻 Shalom 💕💖💕🙌🏻💕💖💕

I always say"Sorry for my part in our fight"takes two to argue RIGHT❤ LOVE TO YOU GIRL❤

Disagreement is the spice of life. What ruins it is when you try to impose your will on the other person.

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My husband stopped coming to church with me and rarely prays with me and it's very important... the 2 of u are so much closer have u tried the whisper sorry or argument u place cheek to cheek and instead if yelling etc you whisper outloud......then either laugh cry or lovies n apologize n be so ok compared to the old ways ❤

Chynna I’m so happy to hear that you and Billy are praying together and going to church! It’s all going in the right direction! The ending of your video with Billy was beautiful! Always praying for you two! ❤ I think lots of us are going through hard times now. I know that we are and I hope you will remember Jerry and I in your prayers! We need them more than ever! We’re dealing with some really hard things now and can’t seem to find any peace! Please pray for a blessing in our life! Thank you so much for reading this! Love you and Billy! ❤🙏🙏🙏

You don't always have to "get your point across". That is a controlling maneuver and sometimes you need to just be still, be quiet.. and learn patience. Listen to him; really hear him. Billy is your husband, not a child. He doesn't need to be "taught". He's a smart man; he knows you by now.. and your beliefs.. sometimes you can reach him further by his observing you living your faith, not preaching it to him. Peace.

“ Love keeps no record of wrongs. “ 1 Corinthians 13 a reminder to me today….married 31 years. 💕✝️

“Pray it; don’t say it,” Gurrrrrl, those are my new words to live by! 😇🙏

i feel the same way about apologizing. I think that “ I didn’t do anything wrong” but of course i’m not perfect so apologizing even if you think you haven’t done anything wrong taking the high road is always the best:)

Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right. That's what Dr Phil says

Shalom! You are so sweet!!!!! I just baked cupcakes for the birthday girl and boy! So many birthdays upcoming! Baking is fun!!💕💕💕💕💕

My husband and I both apologize to each other. It takes longer some days than others

I read a book years ago, "Peace Maker" by Ken Sande. It was very helpful. Whenever you have a conflict, there is something wrong on both sides. A person can't argue by themself. So, even if it is tone of voice, or the way you communicate what you are trying to express....it could be a small peace. Sometimes, it helps to say sorry for your part. But, it takes a lot to get. So so hard. It takes Jesus to strengthen you through it, again and again.

Such great advice and apologizing is so simple for love, but hard for the ego. I know!!! Sometimes I say it to often as well. It’s hard when I know I am in the wrong. Totally going to try the pies- they look amazing! Love all your comments. This channel and now California Healin’ has been like a soul gym. Soul Fuel!! I am so grateful for the community and sisterhood. Uh oh spills-😮haha. Such a gift! Happy Birthday!! 🎉🙏🏼 Good stuff BillyB. Marriage is a lifelong process isn’t it?? We’re only at 21 years married, there’s no arrival anywhere in life except Jesus. I love you twos so much!!!!!!! Peace of Christ 🌸

"Your ego is not your amigo." 😄👍

I love seeing you do "normal" things like baking pies! They look so good! You're so talented.

LIFE IS TOO SHORT .LIVE EVERYDAY TO THE FULLEST❤❤❤

Ahh, marriage…wow not for cowards. I’ve been with my high school sweetheart since 1977. We’ve been married since 1979. I have never loved a human being so much, or hated a human being so much! You come to a place in your walk with Christ when you realize He is your husband…best friend. The most tender intimate conversations have been with Jesus. He is the treasure in my heart. I love my husband, but he doesn’t hold a candle to the Lord. The Lord knows my secrets…handles them like a delicate fragile flower in his hand. My husband like myself are fallen beings. We love with a imperfect love. We love each other to the best of our human ability. I couldn’t imagine life without my husband, but at the same time there has been lonely times when all I had was the Lord. Remember to look what you are longing for in Him not him.❤❤

"There's very few times when I actually feel like I'm wrong." Ba ha ha ha! That is SOOOO me, too! I also love the "be your own project" idea. Amen. I am not responsible for anyone else's spiritual walk but my own. Oh my gosh. Space Kitty is so beautiful! Thanks for the Space Kitty cameo. We all miss him!

God certainly does use our marriage to smooth out our rough edges, and help us to become better people, more Christ-like... but it takes alot of sweat & tears & humbling of one's will, to learn and grow and become overcomers! Your marriage is so relatable, and you're both such an inspiration... luv you both! ❤

Humbling yourself is contagious .

Matthew 5:9 "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God." When there is strife in the air, that's a sign that the enemy is at work trying to create discord and/or chaos. If you both acknowledge that then you can deal with things God's way and that will help defeat the enemy before they get a foothold with his fiery arrows of discontent. Chynna, there's a strange mist and a small orb in the video. At 13:11 there's a line of mist above Billy's head that comes down from the ceiling and vanishes from sight. And at 13:33 there's a spot of an orb that comes up from the floor over the hardwood, then it rises slightly and it vanishes. I thought that was interesting and I wanted to mention them in case you did not see them. I'm so sorry about your beloved Pokey. Our beloved furkids are pure spirit and their spirits do survive bodily death. Our dog Zeek showed up in a picture 7 years after he had passed. He is clearly seen in a photo we took of our dog Journey that we rescued 2 weeks after Zeek passed over. They were never physically on this property when they were alive but Zeek showed up in the same picture as Journey 7 years after he passed. We've heard the dog door open and close, we've heard a dog drinking water, and we've heard their claws clicking on the floors as if they were walking around in the kitchen and all of our dogs passed years ago. Thanks for your service to The Kingdom! May blessings of peace and joy be with you always. IHN!

Chynna, did you see the angel that flew over Billies shoulder from right to left behind him? Praise God! ( it was at the 13:13 minute mark)

Very sweet

Santa Barbara vs. New York? Yah……easy choice for me. California Dreamin!

How many of you saw that coming with the pies on the tilted car seat?

Hi, There is a beautiful little prayer that comes out of AA, I believe. It's called , The Serenity Prayer . "Lord, Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change ,. Courage to change the things I can ,and Wisdom to know the difference . " Amen . It's the best -especially when we're uncertain about our future . XO, God Bless !

You need to have more faith. I love watching the Amish. They have total faith. It helped me with my kids when they were younger. Be grateful for Billy’s path!!!! And get back in the saddle, let things go.

Your make up looks really good. I've hit that age that I need to change all my makeup for my new skin. Could you please go over that again? Sorry I'm off the subject of this video. Thanks

I hear you! We are on different pages. One knows Christ, the other doesn't. I know what you are saying I'm in the same place as you.

Try Trader Joe’s prepared piecrust. It is so much better than Pillsberry. It is delicious.

You can’t take California out of the girl. Tell Billie. ❤

Today is the day that the Lord your God made. Rejoice and be glad in it!

🍓🫐🥧 I saw that disaster coming with the pie juice, sadly. I hollered out "You're dribbling Chynna, you're drib-ble-ing" ~ but I guess you didn't hear me! Happy B-Day to your friend!🌹

Your ego is not your amigo ♥️😆🙌🏼so true tho

Boy oh boy, did I ever need the "I'm sorry" sermon! "Follow the Peace." I need to work on it and so does my hubby, he admits.

I love that, "follow the peace." It needs to matter, to make it an issue.

Heard a pastor say: "All arguing is rooted in Pride" and for saved spouses to each other "The Jesus in me doesn't want to argue with the Jesus in You".......also sometimes when in a disagreement the best thing to do is just be quiet especially when the other spouse is having a difficult day.....

How about: " I love you..and I'm sorry "we're' 'struggling' right now..Let's just keep trying to do better, 'together'..." >>> "WE" messaging..with "mutual goal" of doing better, "TOGETHER" .. :>) :>).. No blame, No shame..Just 'mutual' concern, teamwork, and moving forward..

Most married people I know are straight up brave to make that commitment because it’s not always easy. When Jesus Christ is our example we have Him to follow. That’s how we need to be with each other & love that much. Let’s just try a little harder to be like Christ who told us to love God, Our Father, first, and our neighbors(that’s everyone) second.

What makes you think Billy doesn’t “see” you? It seems like he really knows and accepts you... that’s imho ... acceptance is the key to your sanity 😉🙏🏻✝️☮️

Chynna, thank you for today. I needed to listen to someone today and I believe Jesus put you here. I have been wrought with despair, worry, and anxiety over my elderly parents, my troubled sister. I am internalizing their pain and angst and it feels like heavy rocks on my chest. I love and pray to Jesus every day. Listening to you today gave me a lift to give me hope that I will feel better.

Chy Pies!!!!!!!!!

I love Jesus ❤️

I wish I could apologize to my husband, but he past three years ago he died unexpectedly. God is always testing us his purpose is to prove that our faith is real. Even though I’m struggling I will keep faith, Since covid I fell on a terrible hardship. I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I declined due to my health conditions. I suffer from lupus, and heart disease. I’m now waitressing but not making nearly enough to get by. I’m a single mom, my husband died suddenly years ago. I’m all alone. My children are autistic and non verbal, I’m overwhelmed. I recently started homeschooling them because they were having so many issues in school including bullying. Please pray for me. I’m struggling to pay rent, struggling to buying groceries, struggling to afford the tools I need to homeschool my sons. I WANT TO GIVE UP! But I TRUST in you JESUS. Even as I struggle providing for my children. I will keep faith in God. Faith over fear. Lord hear my prayers. I don’t understand why I’m going through this hardship for so long but I trust you LORD!

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My husband would never set down and talk to me like this. It never happens. I just forgive and move on, while he acts like, Duh, what happened?

Seek God first in everything. When we don't do this what a mess.

My son and I have the opposite problem, we rush to say I'm sorry or thank you. This does not make things any better. It means I don't want to offend you ever and I don't want you mad at me. Like with the fear of offending God, is that the same as being afraid of offending or hurting my son? I never want to hurt him, he does not want to hurt me, either, but we want to know each other and love each other. Are we really doing that when we hide behind an, "I'm sorry," when we really mean, an I'm afraid.

Really needed to be reminded to forward all issues to heaven today. Thank you so much!

Please pray for my Chloe & her Mom. We're crushed missing her.

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Hola, greetings from Mexico former Cali girl. I’m a pastor’s wife and one month old subscriber to your channel. Enjoying your show and love that you’re friends with Beckett Cook. That was a shock as I just finished his book and shortly after your show was recommended to me and then found out you two were friends! So cool! Love Buster marriage audio book is hands down the best. Chinese Seed Cycling is awesome for balancing hormones and you get to control it by yourself. Highly recommend. Keep looking up!

At 13:11 what looked like some kind of entity\spirit came down to the right of Billy. I managed to freeze frame it and it looked like a thin, wavy wisp of cloud. I'm not sure if there's any earthly\physical explanation for it or whether it was holy spirit linked.

Happy Mother's day Chynna!💐

Tit for tat. I remember being married to the person who kept saying 99% of the things that are going wrong in our marriage is your fault. One % is mine and there for you are the cause of our bad marriage. 20 years of hearing that. He's a 7 time cheater and I still stuck through thick and thin. Slapped me, lied and stole from me. And yet my love reaches into the heavens and by God's grace I got free of that abuse. So 10% 90% is just the controller trying to push the buttons of the other person. Always remember this one thing. Pridefulness is the number one killer of souls. It doesn't help people grow. It causes people to fold. Did you know it takes one whole person to get married and he is the other half. And yet if you ask someone to please meet in the middle their pride puffs out and once again the finger pointing started again. 50/50 is how I see most fights and disagreements. If you never talk back to the person who is trying to push the blame then they have more time to think about who is to blame. I love people so much. I only want the very best. But when your really dying to live. You'll give your gifts freely without percentage.

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Chynna, are you always arguing about the same issue? Yes, be your own project. Work on yourself, not others!

Loved!

Piece of pie.

You look amazing and healthy! 🙏🏼🙌🏼 The East Coast seasons suit you guys. Love watching you guys during the seasons 🌷🌻🍁☃️

At 13:11 the Holy Spirit passed by the left side of Billy or maybe dust.

Oh noooo! Pokie…..😢 I’m so sorry! 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺

Have you tried writing down your feelings to your husband instead? Depending on the situation some men just don't like talking about it

Chynna making berry pies reminds me of the old folk song "Billy Boy": "Can she bake a cherry pie, Billy boy, Billy Boy? Can she bake a cherry pie, Charming Billy?" 😍🎶🎶 [FULL LYRICS]: Oh, where have you been, Billy Boy, Billy Boy, Oh, where have you been, charming Billy? I have been to seek a wife, she's the joy of my life, She's a young thing and cannot leave her mother. Did she ask you to come in, Billy Boy, Billy Boy, Did she ask you to come in, charming Billy? Yes, she asked me to come in, there's a dimple in her chin. She's a young thing and cannot leave her mother. Did she set for you a chair, Billy Boy, Billy Boy, did she set for you a chair,Charming Billy. Yes, she set for me a chair, there are ringlets in her hair, she's a young thing and cannot leave her mother. Can she make a cherry pie, Billy Boy, Billy Boy, Can she make a cherry pie, charming Billy? She can make a cherry pie, quick as a cat can wink an eye, She's a young thing and cannot leave her mother. How old is she, Billy Boy, Billy Boy, How old is she, charming Billy? Three times six and four times seven, twenty-eight and eleven, She's a young thing and cannot leave her mother. source: www.lyricsondemand.com/miscellaneouslyrics/childsongslyrics/billyboylyrics.html

I once heard a lady preacher talk about her relationship with her husband- instead of having an opinion(which I battle with continually) always she would take her husband to Jesus and say” Lord, he’s yours before he’s mine, please deal with him.I open my heart now for you to deal with me.” It humbles our hearts and allows us to relinquish control. Bless you Chynna and Billy.

Great content. Thank you.🙏🧡💕

"Jesus meek and humble of Heart make Our Hearts Like Unto Thine. Amen." Prayer of invocation for ourselves.

hiii chynna hugz and love to u and billy God bless you make me smile sweetie your about my oldest daughters age

Don’t say it and try to let it go!!!

Chynna this sounds exactly like a conversation my husband Josh and I had about a month ago!! I would be hurt by something he said or did but he wouldn't apologize. I couldn't understand why he didn't care that he hurt me!! Finally, after A LOT of talking and figuring out each other we came to the conclusion that what each of us needed was to empathize with how the other was feeling....exactly what you guys came to!:) Although for us we realized that we didn't need to say sorry to show empathy, but hear each other out and respond. We definitely apologize to each other when we are unkind and we know our heart was wrong. 19 years of marriage and still so much to work on!! :) Hon I'll be honest it sounds like you guys do have a good marriage, Billy loves you, is faithful and supports your ministry. I know my expectations are high and don't always, if ever, reach where I want them to be with my marriage. I pray for you both. Sorry this is so long! :) ❤️

You are so right! I learned the same thing trading St. Theresa of Lisieux autobiography, "Story of a Soul".

Say you’re sorry while you’re both alive because someday if he’s gone, you won’t be able to say you’re sorry anymore and vice versa

I have followed you for years and I am so proud of you for sticking it out in your marriage and putting in the hard work. I pray for you and Billy all the time. I know how hard it is to be yoked to someone who isn't born-again. It's like speaking two separate languages, but I respect Billy SO much for trying to understand and for putting in the hard work too. Praying for God to cover your marriage, bless you and keep you and be gracious to you both. ❤️💕❤️