I quit my first marriage after 7yrs with three precious babies Stayed single for 5 yes Met my current husband We have now been married 19 yrs n ours have been a very great marriage. I thank God so much for His grace

I stayed in an abusive marriage for 22 years for the sake of my 3 precious children. I realized staying was actually very unhealthy for them.i left in 2021 and I'm now able to breathe again taking one day at a time

Very informative session. Sometimes,we Men fail our wives.....Bigtime. In the eyes of God,this woman really tried.

Oh dear this story is true for every home I Mt Kenya region. People growing up glorified those who drunk daily and spent all there time drinking. My uncles walked that path then ended up hopeless despite holding respectable job. Let's reflect and change

❣️♥️🌹since there is no expert in marriage I will learn from others. And avoid what I should avoid

This is the story of my life mungu Tuonee huruma we women I became single while married

She is a wise and hardworking woman 😊...i have learned a lot as a 21yr old lady

Good wives are hard to come by but men overlook that and assume that when wives are good and faithful and homemakes they are foolish and that they were meant to be that way. To me I think there's a crisis in generations both our parents and ours their children. This is why : You know I find it hard to understand how men who got married along time ago have been mistreating their wives . (This is evident because this is not the first story you are bringing like this one metha ya Kagoni . ) When us their children are finding a challenging time to get women who have the character and wifely values like being homemakers and supportive wives.

To everyone reading this.. If you your parents ever warn you of a person....sit down think twice....ask questions....n sit down again and think harder.... our parents see things we don't see....and they almost if not always have our best interest in their hearts... Secondly never be too spiteful to go back home to admit and apologize to them.."they saw right and you was right"...as much as youd think you too grown up for it.kiburi yako itakuumiza bure.. remember a parent's love is to see you outlive them and have a better life than them...(rem the prodigal son) 3. Never ignore red flags... they'll come haunt you oneday.... staying with a toxic partner while giving yourself false hope of 'he will change' that's foolish.... people change when n for who they want.... 4.Never give your children as an excuse of staying in a toxic marriage...it does more damage to them than good... remember children mould their characters and personalities around the environment they are first introduced to when they come to life... If you show the shitty marriage is the way of life... they'll never see themselves of deserving any better 5.Never be afraid of 'what society will say' being a people pleaser Will rob you life...and destiny... many times society don't even care...it's your foolish ego holding you back 6.Stop calling come we stay cohabitation..especially pia marriage hata that doesn't have blessings from parents...no church involved. God ordained...God doesn't ordained unities based on selfish interest...lust and toxicity Am disappointed in this woman blaming his father for her useless marriage...note even crediting him (her father) for securing her a job that turned out to be her saving straw... atlast

Very strong woman. Kudos Njoki for sticking it out for so long and always doing the right thing. you made all the right choices except rushing into marriage. It is well.

Humble request,Monica give us an episode to show that Marriage really works...It will go a long way in inspiring those who have decided to take this path of marriage

I left after 38years and I am done.i had planned to love,care cook wash sleep with him but ........

A lot of wisdom detected in this lady, i just love her, i wish i can tell my story too.

Njoki ur life story has moved me cos it is a photo copy of my life.leaving this marriage is a nightmare cos he can't stand on his two feet.

Mine does not drink ,but I also left all projects I had at home because of unexplainable things, marriage is toughest job you can be assigned next to parenting

I am married clocking nine years now but I understand this lady fully😮... Atleast she had a job thanks to her Dad.

I personally know this lady,,,,,we schooled together and were brought up together,,,,she was really hard working,,,,it pains to see how drinking can waste and there r still people drinking carelessly as if there was no tomorrow,may we learn from you,,God bless you Njoki and ur family,may you never lack,,,,,

Woooiiii Ngai Wa atumia no ariuka.

Thank you Monica for the shout out ❤

Very educative.. I can relate to that my mum ameishi kuvumilia juu yetu now 34yrs in single but married

Ni dakenio ni rugano rwa mutumia uyu very encouraging..

After this story, I hope people will go slow on judging ladies who decide to give up on the marriage institution. Njoki is really a patient woman. Indeed God was with her in her whole journey..

Mi naona gen z watahave kuwa dayscholars kwa marriage.this kids have seen a lot enough for them to decide marriage is a scam 😢

I am in a similar situation, 16 yrs in marriage with an alcoholic man, it is very challenging especially being a housewife but u put up with it for the sake of the kids. i hope one day i will be able to restart my life too.

Am not yet married but i always love listening to this stories hadi mtu anaogopa

you are strong woman keep it up. Ningukuria kiuria. Wee niwaracaiirio ni muthuri ucio? okorwo anja ni aca ubatii kuhoya kirathimo kuri aciari aku nigetha ukendia kana uguranire ciana ciaku, umenyerere muno ndukendie na ndwatwariirwo wahota kwirianiria

My story here. 24 yrs, married but single, madharao, cold war, God give me direction.

This is a very great woman,wise clever,reasoning is high.i wish she went to college

I love Njoki 's spirit and focus. Nevertheless i don't like the way she is blaming her late father simply because he did not tell her why he and by devote they ( both parents) diidnt tell her why they were not supporting their marriage. Firstly did she ask them why they were not ? Secondly since she knew from onset that he was a drunker Why did she take time to learn his behaviours ? Why rush in the institution of marriage. In her story the parents are coming out strongly as a very loving , Supportive and responsible. No wonder the father went all the way to look for her at Nyeri to take her empowerment letter. Including making sure she signed the letter .of empowerment he helped her acquire. despite the fact that she was married. How many would wish to have such kind of parents . He even went a head to giving her a plot. He sibbling are also good. I have a feeling if Nloki was a little bit patient the parent could have taken her college. I would have loved if Kagoni asked her whether her sibbling were taken to college or were supported to settle. That not withstanding I love the way she (Njoki) was able to pick herself up easily and moved on with her life. The story is resourceful.

Story worth listening,,congrats brave woman you are a conqueror and u will go far.

Woii Njoki wa muraguri...plot ya Gathoge yanyua mae...it is well!

Am 26 yrs and going through the same ,i would really want to talk to this mum, Monica please get me intouch with her

can't wait

This is exactly my life story with my ex husband,I was going through that 😭,he can't pay school fees,he can't buy food or paying bills 😢,pesa yake ilikuwa ya pombe na bangi ,na nikimuitisha pesa ni vita😢,weeeuh I was single but married at that time,but. I thank God niliondokea hiyo uchungu,saa hii nangangana my life yangu na watoi wangu

Me too married for twenty three years but now am feedup. Kukaa na mlevi ni kazi. Hiyo kiatu mwenye huwa ameivaa ndiye huwa anahisi hiyo uchungu.

Strong woman beautiful ❤mama

Aki Wamama wanajua kujipanga, that's awesome

Waah... What a story... You are going far my siz

I love the way she is hardworking, no wonder wishes to become single, ni mambo inatupatanga

Better late than never my sister.

I got married in 2018 but sai mahali imefika i better quit for my peace of mind

You're going very far njoki keep it up

Such an inspirational testimony 🎉❤

The things women go through for their kids. Another truly remarkable story. ❤

Nice lady, very bright. Was a very good wife

This is a very patient woman and a very smart one

Really wazazi hupata shinda. After only one year after school you blame the parents for failures.

I got married in 2019 left 2022 I came to realise u cannot change a man

Madam, congrats but you took soo long to live. You are not alone. The part that you did everything is the best part. You will never look back n regret anything congrats.. so many have done the same. God knows it all.

This s real.A woman can b patient 4 long bt akiamua, ameamua. M I left after 25yrs & I don't regret.

she is right. single motherhood is not good but sometimes the circumstances are such that.............. you have no choice!

Very very educative, you are straight forward lady ❤

She is wise and full of wisdom,Monica you need to interview the likes of our mum's, who have been in marriage for the last 40yrs and enjoying marriage institution. To motivate our generation

Waooo that was amazing

I have learnt a lot from this lady.... May God bless and keep her. May I be wise in everything I do, 23 years is not little. From this story, if it's not working, please speak out, be loud about it, if nothing changes, pack while you are still young.

This story is exactly what I went through.

KANGIREGA NYINA GATIHONAGA.UNGIORIRIE ACIARI MARAREGA NIKI.

Such a strong lady

My story exactly 😢😢😢Encouraged sana

Hardworking woman💪

Sorry cuzo for you went through

You came out victorious ma weru

Wee Better mi after 11yrs nilienda nkiendanga aki

They will not change because of you ,only God can change men

Waiting

This is me now am in marriage only for my kids wasikuje Kuni blame ati niliwatoa kwa baba Yao....I think I can't change a man unless he decide s to change

This also a story of my life so we r many but now am at peace

Kuria kungi Martha ni uiru wa arume kuria atumia aouninite micii.muthuru ndendaga mutumia ungika undu ukuoneka no ugurire irio irio ithire.actually no body knows what to do

Watching...

Tuko wengi akky😢

Never as woman lady le be slavery for any man or human in this world 🌍 👈🏽 life is to short love your self and always love your self &care your self first of all

Women women. Lo! Endurance, perseverance, resilience. Must women wait for such a long time. Is it really worth it.

If it's not working it is not working no matter the years

Sipatagi hapo kagoni unasema (join)

Wueeh,kweli pombe ni hasara tupu.

This is a common practice today, women take advantage of men , once a woman becomes rich, or rather able, most run and leave the husband wailing in pathetic conditions Generally women don't have mercy at all , once you get broke , kwisha

I only saw my youthfulness in my children

I left after 27yrs

she's like my mother, nimempenda sana

🙌

Hi Kagoni. Number ya bountiful Safaris haionekani please. Send it here

Just like me,almost ten years single but married 😢

😢i can relate

This is my story for my life true

Alcohol in families comes from somewhere, prayers changes things. It seems Alcohol is in this family , pray for your children not to continue the legacy

I have gone through this also

Njoki is wrong to apportion blame to her parents. Surely her parents said no to that relationship from the word go! They did their best to stop it. So let her take accountability for accepting that marriage!

Agikuyu ona aingi aria matanyuaga nio oru makiria...

Story of my life , went back after sixteen yrs thinking he has changed only for him to eat all the school fee I had saved for my kids

The best thing her dad did was to get her that job

Marriage works sure though sometime we take it as an accident...i believe wanaume need to change, women need to be taken care of

So sad 😢

Here is the deal, making money is one thing and investing it is another thing all together. The gentleman did not have wisdom of investing his money rather he just made merry. We walk towards beer, beer does not have control over us.

Wish she didn’t mind how people will say.

Following…..

That my dad no acoholic we never know what he earn he is employed by government you will never here any rumors that he has a sidechic he never provide for his family bt he is working how can you now describe such shually my mum is a sinhle mother of 4 she have to provide for as in everything and even he come to eat what he has not provide and never question about his money i have learn alot from marriages especially with my family bt for me i said is a no go zone first am working to better my life b4 marriage 8f i find such a man i just run away without looking back.

Tiga kublame aciari tabathari, mekire ouria monire best to their knowledge.

Mama Weru you are a strong woman. Yaani i grew up with your kids at Gathoge and they are still great friends but I never knew this is what they were going through. May God repay back the years lost.

We would like to hear the other Side of the Story Honestly, From My Experience these women come here to Whitewash themselves forgetting to Speak the Truth. Persevered for 23 years and Left when the Money RAN OUT Just call it as it is People . We live with you daily Kikuyu Women and We know what your Spirit is like. Sad Our Young men don't Take time to Study these women Carefully

Nikii monica umuthi diraigia kai utarareka mugeni uyu aheane rugano ni ciuria nyingi uguo