Celibacy brings clarity and class in a woman. Put God first.

I've learned the empty spot in your bed is better than having the wrong spirit lying in it.😳😳😳 I'm on a honeymoon with the LORD😍😍

Sometimes sex blinds us from what we really are

It's so refreshing to hear a man be honest about what they're going through trying to keep their self sexually. Wow. BLESS you brother. Thank you for your honesty.

“Lust will never be satisfied, even in marriage.” Wow. Amen. Good to hear.

I've always thought sex should be something to show your love for your husband/ wife, that's it. I'm a 17 year old virgin right now, and i want to save myself for marriage, but whether i'll be able to or not i don't know. Any prayers would be greatly appreciated

This is honest - I appreciate the transparency

I felt this message. My bf left me and found someone within a month. He told me he doesn't like to be by himself. He prefer to be in a relationship ALL THE TIME. I assume he had her there all this time. Broken heart is no joke but God is in the midst. I'm trusting the Most High God. I pray for healing and strength. Lord, help me!!

This is so true but nobody talks about it. As a matured single female, I asked God for help and established boundaries in my male relationships. I dont encourage sexual conversations & avoid movies with heavy erotic scenes etc. You gotta know your limit!!

He chuckled when he said “I really like you for your mind.” 😂

I needed this!!!!! Fighting to stay pure while single .

Sex, lust.... IS something that NEEDS to be talked about. It is always a topic that can be a little mmm, embarrassing maybe? But still necessary. Always with the Bible. 👍🏽👍🏽

Mane I didn’t know where you were going with the title. Thank you for your realness. Please keep it up.

Soul ties are serious problems. My fight is at night and most of the women that I have been with came by night. I immerse myself in the Spirit and the word and fasting daily but at night those memories come to me like water for chocolate. I desire a Christian, Holy Ghost filled woman, but I also know Holy Ghost filled woman of God is often "in heat" also, even more than I am. I haven't had sex in a while so I know that I'll be "clingy" to her. Pray for me brother that I can stay strong in the Lord.

*R.E.A.L.* Talk brother Marcus! People avoid secular songs this is one of many avenues which creates a live wire between you and the adulterous spirit.. Brothers keep your eyes away from the ladies in revealing clothes.. Sisters stop looking at the Instagram girls you are jewels in the crown of God.. do not conform. 🙌🏾

Marcus I understand totally what your speaking about todays sexual immorality. I have two teen sons and I talk to them candidly about how walking in the flesh can be challenging for todays Christians. But here's the advice I give as we pray I tell them that God knows what's best for us why ignore his way. Because when you live in the flesh and have frivolous sex it leads to unwanted relationships, unwanted children broken marriages, cheating, betrayal, boredom, curiosity ( the enemy whispering in your ear) pornography, pervertedness, sadism, pedophilia, necrophilia, rape, stds, the abomination and the ultimate pain of death and losing your salvation. So is it really worth all of that for fifteen minutes to an hour of pleasure...🤔. I think not my brothers and sisters stay strong stay prayed up and get right with Jesus Christ.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Thank you 🙏 Even tho some ppl are ashamed I will comment Keep on preaching never quit God made you for this purpose 🙏

This is one if the main area the enemy use to keep Christians in sinful bondage sexual desire and enslavement,but God can set you free from it if you get down to Him in true repentance.

Thank you for being Real!!! We need to hear more of this. Especially for our young generation.

It’s funny because God will literally remove you out of all way of any men. To keep you where he wants . He who dwells in the secret place of the most high shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. God has hidden me for over 15 years. I didn’t understand rejection but God is in it somewhere. I struggle with feeling like is it me am I good enough but at least my soul isn’t in danger of hells fire.

Wow deep my brother! I had just discussed this same topic! I am going through right now and being alone sometimes hurts but God is working on me and keeping me in the midst of my storm.

I prayed and asked for help to bring every thought into submission to God's Word...not just sexually but in everything. This inspired me even more. Thank you ☺

I have to say, I appreciate this man’s honesty and realness. God really does use people in miraculous ways. Praise the Lord!

Thank you! The struggle is real. I’ve been told several times: “you fall in love with what you focus on” trying to get that focus, as it takes focus and more focus and even more focus 40,000 times a day, beating that body into submission. However, I’m older now and needing to say No to other lust of my flesh. God help us.

Thank you for your transparency and keeping it real. What a blessing!!🙏🏻👑

Truth indeed sets us all free stay real and true Prophet Pastor Marcus...

Soul ties are so real bro. I have to say, I'm 19 and there was one girl I was hooking up with casually. I stopped talking to her and all because I'm trying to do right by God but occasionally she'll send me something on Snap innocently and just seeing her name pop up on my phone does something. It's not good, and I mute her texts and everything because I'm praying for a wife and don't want to ruin it, but I see now the effect that my sin caused. If I had never slept with her, there would be no lustful thoughts with even just the thought of her, but they come. I'm not experienced in sex other than that, but I regret what I did. What makes it even harder is I know I could just hit her up if I wanted, and it tears me up. It's not worth it, man. If you want your Christian walk to be easier, don't do it man. There are consequences even you're safe about it.

I hope more people take this message to heart. Thank you for this truth from an old grandmother who hopes her young family members heed this truth.

That’s why it’s important to be honest.

Man.. I really feel your anointing. You’re like on a roll exposing the enemy... For the past few weeks the videos you post correlate with an attack I see in my own life... I’m 21. I enlisted in the marines last October and there’s still a halfway to go... I met a girl in December during my break and she’s an atheist, I tried laying with her but the Lord didn’t allow it... My ego and pride got hindered, it was embarrassing tbh... and when you were talking about listening to lustful music and feeding the flesh I kept thinking about my buddies and the way of life over here in service... They’ve been talking like crazy about going, drinking, and sleeping with women who pay for their service... I feel like I will fall brother Marcus... I feel like when I’m done with this month of training and I get to go home for the weekend I might lay with the girl that I met, even-though I know that the Lord wants her for His kingdom, and I know it’s wrong... God knows I’m conflicted and struggling. I’m praying about it... I’m asking Him to protect me during these times, but I’m scared man. Just having these thoughts...I feel like I can’t open up to anyone about it. Sometimez I think God wants for me to go through these things so that I’d have that as my testimony, but I don’t know, I pray that Jesus gives me the right thoughts and words when time comes, so that He can guide me out of temptation and into His presence. God bless you brother. I hope one day I can reach your level of self respect and honesty. May He bless you in regards of your deepest desires, for His will and glory, amen 🙏🏼

Wow I love this 2yrs ago and it's still relevant ✊👏🙏❤️❗

Thank you for being so transparent with this relatable topic. Thank you God for using this man! I grew up in church but new revelations were given to me through this word.

Brother pray for me man I been watching porn been trying to quit for a long time

Great message brother, felt the honesty in it.

Amen thank you Jesus for using this man in your ministries thanks brother Marcus for putting it out there straight & forward and no beating around the bush about things God bless you

JESUS paid it ALL on the cross, out of PURE LOVE and AMAZING GRACE for us..THANK U JESUS FOR SAVING A WRETCH LIKE ME!!

I stopped being friends with people because I have turned to Jesus and I see that all my “friends” are great sinners so of course I tried to tell them about God but this world has blinded them everyone thinks I’m a loser and lonely but I’m richer in friends then ever I’m friends with Jesus!

Sir you Really ended this on the RIGHT Note, with what the Word of God Says. Thank you for putting that TRUTH out There. There is THEREFORE NO Condemnation to THEM Who WALK NOT AFTER THE FLESH BUT AFTER THE SPIRIT, Thanks! Shalom.

The whole message was so.good ! The last part about fasting and presenting our bodies as living sacrifice spoke so much to me 🌷

🤣😂 I feel you all the way. I love your teachings the best. You're fully transparent and you make sure God gets the glory in any situation or topic.

Thank you for being opened Bro Marcus. Some people still don't get it that messages like these are meant for some of us because this is one of the topics desperately needed but rarely or not at all talked about in Church. Masturbating and Fornicating (Adultery of the heart) are real struggles, the secret sins people in the church try to hid and fail to confess for the fear of being spoken ill of or rejected as been a sinners. I thought after being born again it will stop but I was very wrong I had been struggling for years but I thank LORD for HIS grace. GOD bless you in Jesus name! Thank you for sharing will also share with friends and family

Love always recognizes love...

Lust is selfish, but love is intimate.

Chicago is so blessed to have you...

I feel you brother cause I'm the same way..just being honest. However, the Lord gives his children self control through the Holy Spirit. I'm holding myself till marriage cause it's God's Will (and I want to avoid any potential for unwanted pregnancy) but I do struggle with the thought. In the meantime, I working to walk better with the Lord (stay in the Word, pass Gospel tracts, and influence others for Christ). We gotta walk with the Lord in order to receive power to overcome it. It's good to have talks like this.

Not to mention it creates a soul tie with each person you sleep with. Then you need to have your soul ties broke to become whole again. Because each person you sleep with takes a part of you and you get a part of them. So you are not whole and this can bring demons into your life.

THANK YOU,BROTHER MARCUS. BEEN FOLLOWING YOU SINCE THE ARMY DAYS....BLESS YOU. I PRAY FOR YOU.🙏🏾💕💕

Man preciate this bro. I’m encouraged. thank you. For your testimony and your ministry continue man. Bless and save the lives of our generation.

People need to learn to discern the difference between healthy, God-given sexual desire vs. lust! What Marcus is describing @ 6:40 is lust, not "normal" or "healthy" God-given sexual desire. In fact, this exact situation is what happened with David's son raping his own sister because he was "so in love with her". Then as soon as he was finished, he hated her and kicked her outta bed. That's not a "man thing"; it's a LUST THING. It's demonic. Confess and repent. God's not gonna remove lust from anyone who refuses to own that it's WRONG, not "normal". It's actually a bloodline curse that God put on David's family for what he did with Bathsheba (see 2 Samuel 12). By the end of his life, David didn't even have sex with a beautiful virgin when they put her in bed with him! So, yes, even David the Adulterer repented of his sexual lust and was delivered from it. Many people have a generational curse of lust that they need broken in Jesus' name. Self-control is fruit of the Holy Spirit (see Galatians 5), so mature Christians can control themselves sexually and engage in sex as just a physical expression of love within marriage. Period. 2 Samuel 13:1-22: Now David’s son Absalom had a beautiful sister named Tamar. And Amnon, her half brother, fell desperately in love with her. Amnon became so obsessed with Tamar that he became ill. She was a virgin, and Amnon thought he could never have her. But Amnon had a very crafty friend-his cousin Jonadab. He was the son of David’s brother Shimea.a 4One day Jonadab said to Amnon, “What’s the trouble? Why should the son of a king look so dejected morning after morning?” So Amnon told him, “I am in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.” “Well,” Jonadab said, “I’ll tell you what to do. Go back to bed and pretend you are ill. When your father comes to see you, ask him to let Tamar come and prepare some food for you. Tell him you’ll feel better if she prepares it as you watch and feeds you with her own hands.” So Amnon lay down and pretended to be sick. And when the king came to see him, Amnon asked him, “Please let my sister Tamar come and cook my favorite dish as I watch. Then I can eat it from her own hands.” So David agreed and sent Tamar to Amnon’s house to prepare some food for him. When Tamar arrived at Amnon’s house, she went to the place where he was lying down so he could watch her mix some dough. Then she baked his favorite dish for him. But when she set the serving tray before him, he refused to eat. “Everyone get out of here,” Amnon told his servants. So they all left. Then he said to Tamar, “Now bring the food into my bedroom and feed it to me here.” So Tamar took his favorite dish to him. But as she was feeding him, he grabbed her and demanded, “Come to bed with me, my darling sister.” “No, my brother!” she cried. “Don’t be foolish! Don’t do this to me! Such wicked things aren’t done in Israel. Where could I go in my shame? And you would be called one of the greatest fools in Israel. Please, just speak to the king about it, and he will let you marry me.” But Amnon wouldn’t listen to her, and since he was stronger than she was, he raped her. Then suddenly Amnon’s love turned to hate, and he hated her even more than he had loved her. “Get out of here!” he snarled at her. “No, no!” Tamar cried. “Sending me away now is worse than what you’ve already done to me.” But Amnon wouldn’t listen to her. He shouted for his servant and demanded, “Throw this woman out, and lock the door behind her!” So the servant put her out and locked the door behind her. She was wearing a long, beautiful robe, as was the custom in those days for the king’s virgin daughters. But now Tamar tore her robe and put ashes on her head. And then, with her face in her hands, she went away crying. Her brother Absalom saw her and asked, “Is it true that Amnon has been with you? Well, my sister, keep quiet for now, since he’s your brother. Don’t you worry about it.” So Tamar lived as a desolate woman in her brother Absalom’s house. When King David heard what had happened, he was very angry. And though Absalom never spoke to Amnon about this, he hated Amnon deeply because of what he had done to his sister. 1 Kings 1:1-4: King David was now very old, and no matter how many blankets covered him, he could not keep warm. So his advisers told him, “Let us find a young virgin to wait on you and look after you, my lord. She will lie in your arms and keep you warm.” So they searched throughout the land of Israel for a beautiful girl, and they found Abishag from Shunem and brought her to the king. The girl was very beautiful, and she looked after the king and took care of him. But the king had no sexual relations with her.

I believe you did an outstanding job presenting this message.

I recently discovered your channel and I wanted to say thank you. Rather than bring me back down to earth, your videos have served to elevate my perspective and rekindle my faith in scripture and its applications.

Again very good subject matter. I really do hope some young people are stopping by your channel to listen. This is a good for every age especially if you are single. A good reminder to mortify the flesh every day. Thanks Marcus

Many blessings....This video came at a point in my life where I needed it most....What an on time Word.

This is a must see for every TRUE Christian man.

Amazing!! This video really touched my heart when you said ‘’your soul is saved but your flesh is not saved ‘’ . Thank you so much ❤️

Thank you for keeping it real! I’ve been going through some stuff lately and for the past 2 days I’ve been watching your videos and spending more time with God reading my Bible and it’s been a blessing. I’m in the Potter’s house.

Women can be manipulated by what men speak, but self control and love are a will fulfill life decisions. I like sex with women too, but I know me, but Jesus Christ comes first and I'm not giving Satan a foothold. Thanks so much brother.

Good job brother. Simple and powerful wisdom.

Pastor Marcus continue to tell the truth! This sit down is needed and the church won't be honest it's the best policy. I found out telling the truth wins souls.

Thank you for keeping it REAL Brother Marcus! ❤💗 bless you!!

So so True...That's the problem, We wear too many masks, if only people would be transparent. I think it's a healthy subject to talk about and be real ..Sex was created by God, for Husbands and wives in a marriage, look I had sex outside of marriage..But now that I honor God to the fullest I'm willing to wait for marriage and experience the best sex ever with my spouse whoever,he may be.Do I think about it ,yes,but not lustfully anymore because I've grown closer to God and He has changed my thought process, I look forward to the intimacy in a greater way...So for now I ask God to give me the will to abstain...Thanks bro. For always keeping it real..Keep your light on!

He makes the names of the videos eye openers to spread the message to more people

I wish someone had had the strength to stand up and be this open and honest when I was in school. It would really have helped me understand and make peace with what I was feeling.

Thank you so much for sharing the things that most pastors or Christian don’t want to talk about.

That sin nature, that's what you call it. We were born in sin. But trusting n Jesus Christ and what he done at Calvary and accepting him . No condemnation is not held to you. If you are a true Christian ,repent daily. Enjoyed this

Thank-you for being real. God bless!

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought about this...it's very uncomfortable for me, but I feel like I'm not alone and someone else may need to hear it. I was about 15. I was only a sophomore. This senior guy in my high school convinced me that he loved me. I was a fool. I let him have what he wanted (my purity) out of fear of not being good enough and losing him. He immediately told his friends and had the school picking on me. He left me clueless and heartbroken. It really hurt me. It made me sick. I cried and I cried some more. I was never the prettiest girl in school. I just wanted someone to desire me for once. It's hard. I've had to learn the hard way that you can't trust people. Love is not easily found. God has dealt with me and my broken heart ever since then. I'm still fighting to love myself and believe that I can be desired by someone. I've learned to put my trust in God alone. The church I went to never spoke about sex. They always swept it under a rug like it was a horrible thing, but it's done the way God intended, I'm sure it's beautiful. 😢 ❤️ Please forgive me. This is a very deep subject for me. Please keep me in your prayers if you will. I have a lot of healing left to do. Thank you! God bless you!

Man Marcus bruh I litterally was crying to one of your videos and praying with it because I’m not that good at prayer but yuh were speaking my life and my soul reacted throu tears and asking The Farther for some help n letting him know how hard life is with Satan in control of this world. I get a lot backlash from trying to wake people up out of their sleep. And yuh said on your video I don’t need to waste my time with these type of spirits but I love them brother Marcus I ultimately want them to seek salvation from the most high. I kept asking god where is he taking me and what’s his purpose for my life and why is he doing all that he’s doing. and he answered. Heaven n broke down again. I just seek prayer from anyone with the heart to do so. Let Yah bless all of yuh.

Very good word Brother. Being real is the only way to be. This is the Grace of God that allows us to go thru the trials, repent and share our experience's with others. There is no one Holy, NO NOT ONE. If we could have overcome our flesh, Jesus wouldnt have had to die for us. Don't ever change, keep bringing the people the Whole Truth. I am so very blessed by your video's. God speaks to me through you all the time. Thank you.

this was refreshing to hear, thank yoi

Such wisdom from you young man. God bless. Keep spreading HIS word! ❤️

Keeping it real, down to earth, and giving the TRUTH brother Marcus. Props, blessings and continued courage to continue your testimony.

I'm not going to lie, the title made me not want to watch this video, but I've been watching you long enough Brother Marcus to know that it had to be a powerful message behind the title. I was right. Thank you so much for sharing this video it was very informative. God Bless You Brother Marcus.👏👏👏👏

Very helpful video..it's hard when you're being celibate ,and waiting until after marriage, especially when you really care for someone,but it will be worth the wait.

Thanks for being transparent and real!! This is truly a need to know for women...God bless you!!

I appreciate the honesty, realness, and reminder how to handle things better. Psalm 37:4

Thank you father God for this brother, keep him, sealed him up to the day of redemption. In Jesus Mighty name!

The thing with David and Samson is that they were powerful leaders and women love these kind of men. Men who are confident and secure in themselves, in a nutshell they love real alpha males who are assertive, direct, firm and strong. Why is there an increase of pastors having affairs? Because their leadership is very attractive to women. David and Samson were men who had options, options meaning having women finding them attractive, hence why other women found them attractive. Which confirms the saying, that we are attracted to what other people have and to what we can't have. It is very hard to be a man today because we are taught to be a certain way when in reality it is the total opposite. The buying flowers on the first date, putting your jacket on top of a puddle, etc does not work with women today. Being a nice guy and a weak man will get men nowhere with women. Young Christian men are struggling and churches need to do more for single men and women. It is not easy and this is coming from myself who is a hot blooded lustful man who loves sex with a passion. The struggle is real and I know how many of you feel. Keep your heads up and God bless you all.

Thank you for your honesty Marcus! I am a woman who has wanted the answers to these questions many times! A guy I know told me some of these things also, and he said the same things you are. It's great that some guys are willing to share the truth because it brings it to the light and it then can defeat the darkness in it! Let light shine out of darkness!

Omg you’re speaking the truth. I like how you’re opened with what you’re saying. 🙏🏾

Thank you a lot for this brother! So much wisdom.... this is something I struggle with so this really hit home. God Bless 🙏🏻

Jesus often separated himself to pray after huge spiritual accomplishments because He knew that when virtue goes out, one is vulnerable. So let the Lord strengthen us in a quiet place so that we don't use something of the flesh to give us a false high.....cause after a huge win in spiritual things, the devil is waiting...just like in Jesus' first temptation.

Thank you Brotha Marcus. I appreciate the word you have given. May GOD Bless and keep you and your family.

Bless God my kids are all grown was a single parent..now waiting on God..Keep telling the truth and word..God bless you happy New Year🙏💞

This is such a great video, thank you I appreciate your honesty, we need to hear this kind of truth in the house of God as well. Thank you for being bold enough to be obedient to speak up.

I don't know how you do it, but a lot of your videos that come up in my YT feed, address the issue I face at that exact moment. It's scary. I am looking to know and love God, but I left the faith 30 years ago. It's said the path to follow the Lord is narrow and treacherous. Well, the the path back to the Lord is also very hard. The more I see the flaws in my life, the more I struggle. But like a man who is drowning, you keep reaching for air. There is no choice. Please pray for me. I need the Lord's help, but am very thankful I found the need to swim for air.

I'm grateful for how the Lord kept me for nearly 10 years of celibacy! Now I'm happily married to my wife/soulmate/good thing who was 33 years a virgin!! Myyy God Hallelujah!!! Keep preaching brother!!

Nothing but facts my brother, I love watching your channel. I love the honest conversations that you have and the questions that we all have ourselves . That’s why I have been celibate for three years. I do not entertain it because I know if Im around a certain person in a one on one situation something can happen so I don’t put myself in the situation. I pray to continue on this journey of celibacy and good relationship with God. God Bless

Thank you!! Was wondering about this..

Your my favorite God has anointed you God Bless and i will be sharing this video. I know i have to fast more to break the sexual demons that is on me.

Marcus you explained my husband too a tee thank you for helping me understand .God richly bless you and the ministry God has given you.

U are sooo on point. King David n Samson were men called n did great things but also fell to temptation n I totally relate. Thank the Lord for ur discernment n messages to us all to help us. May the Lord watch over u n ur children too 🙏🙌💗

It takes courage to be honest

Sex outside of marriage ie wrong lust ,fornication is sin but let every man have his wife and every woman have her husband it’s better to be married than to burn I fell into that sin of fornication for 5 years in a relationship I left cause I can’t keep living in that sin God warns us about this very sin that can lead to hell.Amen brother speak truth I stop having sex with this same guy and it was just about sex that’s it thank God I left no more walking right before God compleltely!

Wow....amazing word. Last night our Pastor spoke on worship. And worship in spirit and truth. Talk about confirmation.

I have yet to find a lifelong single person who is convinced singleness is great and fulfilling lol

This was a good video

Amen! Thank’s for keeping it real. Keep preaching truth Marcus. God bless you.

Thank you for being so honest and reminding me that it is imperative to not only worship in the spirit but in truth! The living sacrifice! I needed that breakdown today ! Thank you!

I guess the right prayer to pray would be to ask God to control your sex drive