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I’m 52 yrs old and have never been in a long-term relationship

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Jim Agate

Jim Agate

Ай бұрын

In today’s video, I talk about “long-term relationships”.
#life

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@smackroscoe
@smackroscoe Ай бұрын
Count your blessings my Bro. You have missed NOTHING! You have your sanity, peace of mind & your $$$. Cheers!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@smackroscoe Hey Roscoe! Thanks man! And thank you for watching my video and commenting! I appreciate your support.
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Ай бұрын
57 yrs old, retired military and Law Enforcement, never Married and love my peace and freedom!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey man! Thanks for watching and I appreciate your comment. And thank you for your service!
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Ай бұрын
@@JimAgate -Thanks brother, love the channel
@dont6441
@dont6441 Ай бұрын
Jim, a lot of divorced men like me wish they were in your shoes. Congrats!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Don! Thanks for watching my videos man! And I appreciate your comments and your support!
@Bat_Boy
@Bat_Boy Ай бұрын
He didn't miss anything. Except, misery.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@Bat_Boy Hey Bat Boy! Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support.
@johndoe-qr6yd
@johndoe-qr6yd Ай бұрын
I just turned 40 and just found out I've not been in a long term relationship before. I don't try looking for any kind of relationship any more either, I just work and enjoy my free time dog walking and play video games and go to the odd concert every now and then. Life if chill.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@johndoe-qr6yd Hey john doe. That’s cool that you’re just going with the flow now. Sometimes things happen when we least expect it. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@ChrisAthanas
@ChrisAthanas Ай бұрын
I was married twice and you are NOT MISSING ANYTHING
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@ChrisAthanas Hey Chris! Thank you for watching and I appreciate your comment! Thanks for your support!
@silentrage5425
@silentrage5425 Ай бұрын
Brother, you ain't missing a damn thing! I was friends with a woman for two years before we started dating. We dated for 5 years before getting married. We were married for about a year when my daughter was born. She wanted to be a "Stay at home Mom." Sure, no problem, I made enough at the time. Just one week before my daughter's second birthday, I came home from work and she had run off with my daughter to some guy she met online. Not only did she clean out the bank accounts, she had faked paying the bills for 4 months. So, within 2 weeks all my utilities were shut off. Not only did she run off with my daughter, she took over $30,000. But, karma being the b*tch that it is, less than a week after I go sole custody of my daughter her new boyfriend kicked her out. Sadly for my daughter, her mother died broke and alone in 2014.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@silentrage5425 Hey Silentrage. Wow man, I’m sorry to hear all of that. But I’m glad you got your daughter back. Thank you so much for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
@MrWaterbugdesign
@MrWaterbugdesign Ай бұрын
I never had kids in the US for this kind of thing. And I bet mom wasn't charged with parental kidnapping and you had to go to court and fight for sole custody. Glad it worked out but I never wanted to risk all that. I'm 67, healthy and moving to SE Asia next year. There I will likely find a great young wife and have kids there. Aging out surrounded by my kids sounds good to me. Much different laws there. My kids will be American citizens on day and I'll have the US government on my side should mom want to try kidnapping. She also won't know about my assets or have access. I will be providing for a wife for her entire life and our kids through college whether I survive or not. And I have the budget for nannies, housekeeper and long term caregivers if and when I need those. So not being a dick, just protecting myself.
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Ай бұрын
Dang
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Ай бұрын
You may want to get a DNA test....might not be your kid!
@silentrage5425
@silentrage5425 Ай бұрын
@@MrWaterbugdesign The police couldn't charge her with parental kidnapping, because at the time she moved out there was no custody order. It was a real mess. The only thing the Sheriff could do is help find my daughter, and convince her mother to let me know my daughter was with her. But, to your point, my ex was ordered to pay $35.02 per week child support. That is 2 cent over the bare minimum they could order. She never paid a dime, and the courts refused to enforce the order. Also, your plan to use the US government to help protect your parental rights won't work. There was a case where the mother was a US citizen, and the father was a US and Israeli citizen. They were married and divorced in the US. The first weekend the father got the child, he absconded with the child. Neither governments lifted a finger to help get the child back to the mother. Lastly, you're 67 and going over-seas to find a "great young wife" has some real chomo vibes.
@allanmcintoshesquire
@allanmcintoshesquire Ай бұрын
Man I'm 36 and only had one Girlfriend my entire life and it only lasted 3 months. I'm a lone wolf type personality, sometimes I do think about trying to meet someone but to be perfectly honest I don't care for marriage or kids and just cant be bothered trying to invest emotionally in another human just for it to end as most relationships fail these days, so I guess I am just going to be a life long Batchelor.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@allanmcintoshesquire Hey Allan! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support!
@anonymoust3611
@anonymoust3611 Ай бұрын
44 years here. never married. never even made it half way. 11 months and that was enough for me.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@anonymoust3611 Hey T! Thank you for watching and I appreciate your comment! Thanks for your support.
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Ай бұрын
No kids, no ex's......can buy what I want when I want, go where I want, eat what I want..............it's amazing.....Alone but not lonely
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Thanks for your support!
@sfranklin9073
@sfranklin9073 Ай бұрын
I was in a beautiful marriage and in it for the long haul. The perfect wife for me. She passed away in March of this year. NOW, I am so screwed. There will never be another like her.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@sfranklin9073 Hey S Franklin. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just remember and cherish all the great memories. And let time sort everything out. Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your support.
@sfranklin9073
@sfranklin9073 Ай бұрын
@@JimAgate Thank you!
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss, you had a unicorn
@MrWaterbugdesign
@MrWaterbugdesign Ай бұрын
67 and never in a long term relationship I guess. Married 2x. First one for 1 year, she cheated, bye. I don't blame her. I knew that about her before marriage. She was hot and I was 26. Second marriage was 18 years...but "relationship"? Didn't feel like one. 15 years sexless. I retired in year 2, didn't tell her and she never figured out until she asked for a divorce. She wanted alimony and my premarital house. That's when I told her I hadn't worked in 15 years and would be the one seeking alimony and half her retirement savings. After researching she realized she was on the hook and agreed she keep her crap and I keep mine. It didn't seem like a relationship to me. Roommates. If "roommates" are a relationship then I had many having served in the Army. Not having a relationship in the US is a good thing. I've had a blast in my career and life. Very exciting. The only less exciting parts were when I was living with a woman. Endless compromise. Next year moving to SE Asia. There I'm not expecting a "relationship" either. But I do expect to find a really good wife to have kids with.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@MrWaterbugdesign Hey Mr Waterbug! Wow, that’s a crazy story! Thanks for sharing! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
@fudogwhisperer3590
@fudogwhisperer3590 Ай бұрын
I haven't been in a long term relationship either. I've found women insufferable too difficult to deal with and not worth my time money or effort. I'm almost 60
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Fu Dog Whisperer. Thank you for watching my video and commenting. I appreciate the support.
@stickman787
@stickman787 Ай бұрын
Been with 2 women about 3 years each. I wouldnt recommend it. Been single for about 4 or 5 years now. Not looking. Its been peaceful
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Muhbagg! Cool bro! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
@jumboJetPilot
@jumboJetPilot Ай бұрын
49. Never married. No kids. No LTR’s here too. Military life, international long-haul pilot life, and a high demand for your services on your days off from flying will do that to you!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@jumboJetPilot Hey Jumbo Jet Pilot! Thank you for watching my video and I really appreciate your comment. And thank you for your service!
@jumboJetPilot
@jumboJetPilot Ай бұрын
@@JimAgate thank you! I’m simply too busy for relationships myself. It’s just the way it goes; no regrets here!
@FrankBonessa
@FrankBonessa 12 күн бұрын
Last comment for the night. I'm glad i found this channel. Bad times lately. My best friend and extremely close brother. John just passed away a few weeks ago, no more woman and got in a motorcycle mishap and broke 2 ribs and my foot looks like Sasquatch. Enjoyable to watch a common sense guy talking reality. You are entertaining, keep 'em comin'.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 12 күн бұрын
@@FrankBonessa Hey Frank. I'm very sorry for your loss. And wishing you a speedy recovery from your motorcycle mishap. Keep your head up. Thank you for your encouragement and support.
@mathewelledge6649
@mathewelledge6649 Ай бұрын
Damn I had three long term relationships then. I mean I cheated on them but I was with them for that long too.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@mathewelledge6649 Hey Mathew. Yep, 2 years is a long time, in my opinion. Lol. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support.
@steelearmstrong9616
@steelearmstrong9616 22 күн бұрын
Living with them is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them definitely takes the fear out of dying. Silence is the best. Stay safe fellas. Enter at own Risk ☠
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 22 күн бұрын
Hey STEELE! Thanks for your support man!
@dystopia-usa
@dystopia-usa Ай бұрын
I had my fair share of longer-term relationships & such over the years & glad to still be single & never married today at 59. It's not worth it IMO, no matter what your animal hormones are telling you. Consider it bullets dodged.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@dystopia-usa Hey Dystopia! Thanks for supporting my channel. I really appreciate it.
@ChaiTogether
@ChaiTogether 29 күн бұрын
Love the mug!!🎉
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 29 күн бұрын
@@ChaiTogether Hey Chai! Thank you! ☕️
@s-c..
@s-c.. 17 күн бұрын
I’m the same, except female. I love my space & freedom! 👍
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 17 күн бұрын
@@s-c.. Hey s-c! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@wadelaurence6566
@wadelaurence6566 26 күн бұрын
Back again Jim. As I already said in a different comment. I'm 54. And have only been single for my first 19 years. I've spent most of my life with my Morena ( dark skin ) fhilipna. And I love her just as much as when I met her when she was only 18 ( she is 53 now ). Right now she is still in the Philippines. I can only get a month off work at a time. So I had to come back to Canada. She is stayed in the Philippines to set up investments and spend time with her family. She only sees them every other year. But I can't wait till she gets home. Well Canada. Home for now. My second home is the Philippines. And one day it will be my home. All I will need is my 13(a) spouse visa to live there. I can't own property there. So everything is in her name. Actually we just sold a property we were part owner near Alfonso. In Cavtie. But yeah. I guess I am in a long term relationship 🙂. PS: I have seen fort Santiago in Manila. Built in 1571. Stood in St Augustine church. Built in 1609 by the Spanish. And I have stood on Batangas Beach. Were MacArthur landed to retake the Philippines from the Japanese in world war II. And have videos of a 160 year old Spanish church in Alfonso with my drone. And videos of a church in Bicol. Built in 1724. And then buried by the mayon volcano in 1814. Only the bell tower remains above the ground. And videos of the Taal volcano. It goes off often. Last one was in 2022. A few months before one of my visits to the Philippines.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 26 күн бұрын
@@wadelaurence6566 Hey Wade. Thank you for sharing and thanks for your support!
@lizm.2246
@lizm.2246 Ай бұрын
I'm turning 40 & never have either.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@lizm.2246 Hey Liz! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! Thanks for your support!
@ChaiTogether
@ChaiTogether 29 күн бұрын
I’m 31, I’ve never either lol spiritual ties are another story lol 😂🎉❤
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 29 күн бұрын
@@ChaiTogether Hey Chai! Thanks for watching my video. I appreciate the support.
@Trumpvoter1
@Trumpvoter1 14 күн бұрын
Im 44 years old Single guy Never married live alone Peace and freedom Ive had a few girlfriends Seems like when i ran out of money they became unhappy😂
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 14 күн бұрын
Hey Jp! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support!
@salvaged_title
@salvaged_title Ай бұрын
I'm 52. Same boat. 👍
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Salvaged Title! Thank you for watching my video. I really appreciate the support.
@oceanhedonist265
@oceanhedonist265 Ай бұрын
Nice going, dude! 👍
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@oceanhedonist265 Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate it.
@misslori9725
@misslori9725 27 күн бұрын
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 27 күн бұрын
@@misslori9725 Hey miss lori! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! And thanks for your support!
@robbieross6646
@robbieross6646 Ай бұрын
Don’t feel so bad, most married people have never been in a “long term relationship” either.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@robbieross6646 Hey Robbie! 😂 Thanks man! And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
@johnnyr859
@johnnyr859 15 күн бұрын
Keep living the dream!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 15 күн бұрын
Hey Johnny! Thanks for your support man!
@whatever_it_takes6691
@whatever_it_takes6691 Ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on the Oofy Doofy Theory? Does the empowered modern female increasingly prefer the more submissive male?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@whatever_it_takes6691 Hey what's up! Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Well, the Oofy Doofy Theory seems legit. I mean, Kim Kardashian dated Pete Davidson. 😂 Thanks for your support.
@dueymiller5795
@dueymiller5795 Ай бұрын
2 years? Hell man, I haven't been in a long-term relationship over 2 months. I'm 64 years old and my best friend is my left or my right hand. Have a great relationship with them. They don't speak to me. My hands never asked me for money. And when I want sex they don't say no.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@dueymiller5795 Hey Duey. Thanks for watching my video! I really appreciate it!
@DigitalSwagg
@DigitalSwagg Ай бұрын
Ouch.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Digital Swagg! 😂 It's all good bro! Thank you for watching my video!
@briantishsutherland828
@briantishsutherland828 Ай бұрын
Confirmed bachelor is code for gay. I had an uncle that you remind me of. He didn't come to terms with his sexual preference until almost sixty years old. Be glad you got there without putting scars on anyone's heart.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@briantishsutherland828 Hey Brian. 😂 Thanks for watching my video.
@Playstationmmm
@Playstationmmm Ай бұрын
I hope my son doesn’t end of like you.. lol
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@Playstationmmm 😂🤣
@ZZSmithReal
@ZZSmithReal Ай бұрын
🏳‍🌈?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey ZZ. I'm heterosexual. Thank you for watching my video.
@Playstationmmm
@Playstationmmm Ай бұрын
😂
@Trumpvoter1
@Trumpvoter1 14 күн бұрын
@@ZZSmithReal he's not gay
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