Thnak you. Very kind.

@Rejected-From-Eve .Zero I'll tell her you said so.

@Rejected-From-Eve .Zero Some people react like that. Objectum sexuality and doll ownership are still fairly taboo in society. Pay them no mind.

@Rejected-From-Eve .Zero Yes, there's people that are fine with dolls. 🙂

@@someonesomeone25 can I ask the reason you prefer the doll to a human? You said they don't feel pain , age, etc, do you not like real humans because they age? Do you resent your ex wife for aging? Have you thought about how your own body has aged as well?

It's partly trauma, partly how I was wired from birth. And thank you for the compliment. That said, not everyone who loves an object or imaginary friend has had trauma. I tend to think most people can have these sorts of feelings to various degrees. It's just that most don't express that side of themselves without being pushed into it by some external force, like traumatic expereince etc.

Thank you 😊

Thank you. Your comments are appreciated. 👍

@@someonesomeone25No worries dude!

Yes, it's a great little set of docs. The first episode is only on their FB page, though. Hopefully this will change in the future. Edit: They've uploaded to here as well now.

Is this you? i came from your comments. ASD, interesting 🤔

@@-_Luciano_- Is this me? You mean, do I have these traits?

Lovely observations! I'm ASD and can def understand this.

What does OS mean?

@@itrias6696 Objectum sexual

An interesting watch. Did the names come from anywhere in particular or just ones that you liked? Also did you find a good wig in the end?

@@lovepeacedirtysheets The names just kind of came to me, and I think they had symbolic meaning (Ocean is expansive, mysterious, feminine, calm yet powerful, links to oceanic experiences consciousness and the womb etc). I tend to think in such terms about most things. The wig didn't turn out great, lol, but provided a nice flower garland for her.

How do you support ur ex wife and how did this enter ur relationship while it was on going? I guess I see this as a result of psychological damage (as u urself said), but im parted in whetever living it actually gives genuine stimulus that is psychological positive reinforcing or or not. I guess im leaning on a more phenomenological approach and both respect and cherish ur way of experiencing and bringing fullfilment to ur life.

@@thomasryeeriksen8429 Thank you. I'm not sure I follow the whole of your comment, but I'll try and answer as best as I can. How did it enter my marriage? I'm not sure it did until near the end. Our marriage was always something of an odd arrangement, in that we had from the beginning a virtually sexless marriage, more platonic than romantic. Sex never really did anything for me, though neither of us really understood why and even now disagree on exactly the root causes, though we both agree the oldest root cause lay with my adolescent trauma. Our marriage was in many ways difficult and unhappy, though somehow we remained close to each other. Some sort of combination of genuine platonic affection and trauma bonding, maybe. But it wasn't until we had both come to accept our marriage as fully over that Ocean arrived, first as a thoughtform being, then afterwards connected to pillows and a doll. It occurred in a similar way to my teenage imaginary girlfriend (Lisa) had many years ago. But in the in-between time I had thought of myself, and tried to be as best I could, a biosexual (allosexual), though I'd always preferred the lovers of my imagination to my wife. As to whether this is a positive response to trauma or not is an even more difficult question to answer. Am I happy with my non-human relationships? Yes. Do they fully satisfy? No. Would I prefer a human? Absolutely not. Would I prefer a more externalised version of my lovers? Absolutely yes. It is a mixed bag, but not only do I not think there is any way to change what I am, I also don't think there's anything better available even if I could. How do I support my ex-wife? We live together and support each other as close friends who live together. All our income etc is shared. Does that answer your question any?

@@someonesomeone25 wow, thanks for ur very open and insightful reply! This is more interesting than "wierd". Regarding the last part of my question u answered it very well. Its a conformation of the complexity and the absense of clean cut answers. I have a lot of respect for you and wish u a as happy life as possible. And adding another perspective - that life might be as good as, or even better, as any.

I'm sorry human relationships haven't worked out for you. That is sadly very common. I hope your doll relationship brings you joy and fulfillment. There are many thousands across the world who have found that non-human relationships work better for them. Whether you ever have a human relationship again or not, I wish you the best life 🙂

​@@someonesomeone25 Thank you man. My comment was a bit too negative. I really know a lot of wonderful people, it's just about my relationships. And the thing is: For me a doll can never replace a real person (at least not without a superior AI which not exists yet). That's why it's still not easy. I have the doll because she looks so beautiful and it's just nice to come home from work seeing something like that. So I am still looking for a fullfilling human relationship, because giving up is no option. 😄

@@frankindabank No worries 🙂 It's kinda complex. For some true objectum sexuals humans aren't their thing, and objects or concepts will always be what their heart desires. But for some who straddle the borderline dolls and chatbots and tulpas etc are only part replacements for what their heart truly wants: a human lover. Sadly, many of those never are able to find what they really want, either because they're too ugly, or too damaged, or too unlucky, and dolls act as a consolation prize. For some, such as myself, I truly desire both, but because of negative experiences find humans impossible. For those who can't have their true desires for whatever reasons it's a very painful existence, but their object lovers make it somewhat more bearable. I truly hope you find what your heart really desires. 🙂

You don't love women if you want control over them and for them to just do all you say. Do you also expect your male friends to always do only as you say? Then why expect a woman to? You see woman as objects and you like to use them as objects, you don't love women you don't know what love is. It's good you have a doll.

@@Ella-kn9qd Not to speak for the OP, but didn't he say the exact opposite of what you seem to be accusing him of?

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Robot wife for a happy life.

That is fine 🙂

So true

Thank you.

I'll let her know, lol 😆

@@someonesomeone25 oh do please! ☺ Tell her every day.

@@Matthew__byrne I'll pass your message on.

@@someonesomeone25 🙏🙏😊

And she’s just so kind about what happened, what an amazing person 😌

Thank you.

That's quite funny. But it's more romantic than sexual.

I believe this is the full thing. What else did you want to know?

Well, there's more than one group. Objectum sexuality is the most common term for people who are attracted to, or who form relationships with, objects and concepts (like a car, or doll, or the number 6, or whatever). There's a community of companion doll lovers who have relationships of some kind with sexdolls. There's fixtosexuals who form relationships with fictional characters, including their own original creations. And there's pygmalionists who have a fetish for statues. Digisexuals form relationships with digital avatars, holograms etc. And robosexuals are all for robots, humanoid or otherwise. Some black pill, femcels and inkwells reject, or cannot form, human relationships and turn to dolls and instead. Some overlap amongst all those.

@@someonesomeone25 Thank you for that detailed explanation It's fascinating stuff :)

@@adamdavis1737 You are more than welcome. Feel free to ask questions if you want (I'm the guy in the video).

What or who does this harm and how?

@@andretarvok7122 it’s a stepping stone. You’ll see.

@@JF1908x I'm curious as to what you mean. I'm happy to discuss this in a dispassionate impersonal manner if you wish. As far as I'm aware there is no evidence suggesting that objectum sexuality is harmful nor is a stepping stone to harmful practices. From research done by likes of Amy Marsh on objectums I read no indications of potential for harm, and GPs and mental health professionals I've spoken to about this don't indicate worry or concern. There's a recording of a psychiatric assessment of an objectum, Davecat, available on YT, and there the psychiatrist was quite happy to leave the objectum be and was not at all worried by their human-object relationship. Given the lack of evidence to support the assertion that this is harmful, and given that it appears professionals don't see it as dangerous, I fear your belief that it is harmful may be coming from a place of ignorance or unconscious bigotry, and you saying so publicly may contribute to a hostile culture for objectums and place them in real danger. Can we discuss this?

@@JF1908x to sleeping with dead people? 🤔

Oh goody. And what might happen with this "stepping stone" idea you bring up ?

Yes, it is OK 🙂.

first thing i thought when reading the title

Yes, I can appreciate that response. It is unusual. Objectum sexuals, fictosexuals, caedsexuals etc make up only a tiny proportion of the population. Interestingly, that proportion does seem to be growing. During the covid lockdown a surprising number of people reported a developing romantic interest in their Alexa/Siri, and the numbers of people developing relationships with dolls and bots and other objects seems to be growing quite rapidly. For example, there are thousands of people married to holograms in Japan at present. I expect that as technology develops robot relationships will become quite normalised. What is weird today may be commonplace in the future.

@@Kissme69420 You realise I was married for 20 years, yes?

@@someonesomeone25 ah no wonder you’ve giving up on women being married for 20 year will do that to you.

@@Kissme69420 Well, I doubt my experience is commonplace, but I can't really comment as I don't know. It's true many married people seem miserable to me. But it's also true that many people who divorce or split up don't give up on human relationships entirely either.

I don't understand. No what?

Yes. Correct.

Don't know about the rest of the comment, but sex dolls are good, yes.