I moved to Japan... was it overrated?

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TheStellarJay

TheStellarJay

2 ай бұрын

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@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
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@BF1_enthusiast
@BF1_enthusiast 2 ай бұрын
LET'S GOOO UPLOAD! BELL RING GANG WHERE U AT!
@ratoh1710
@ratoh1710 2 ай бұрын
ええぇぇ、すげえぇ。日本語上手だよね!
@IAmCymepka
@IAmCymepka 2 ай бұрын
that's exactly what I clicked on this video for!
@daymare0
@daymare0 2 ай бұрын
@@BF1_enthusiastRIGHT HERE
@mrdude7989
@mrdude7989 2 ай бұрын
Dear Stellar Jay how about you start another Channel where u post about your travel experience and other languages as well as countries u could make it a bit less effort then the gaming channel videos so you will still enjoy the time u have over there Name of that channel could be star Jay (like hotel stars and shi)
@watersxo
@watersxo 2 ай бұрын
Japanese people treat you like guests, but they constantly remind you that you are a guest.
@leviathan5207
@leviathan5207 2 ай бұрын
Mate of mine went to rural Japan for 6 months, before university started. He told me that he had never experienced such open hostility and racism.
@FeeshUnofficial
@FeeshUnofficial 2 ай бұрын
​@@leviathan5207yeah that checks out from what I've heard...
@archithrough
@archithrough 2 ай бұрын
A total red flag for raising a child there
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
​​​@@leviathan52076 months is nothing. Especially if he spend it with some family of kind ojiichan and obaachan playing doll house drinking tea every day like in those family exchange vlogs. But Japanese people never engage in a conflict or start a fight in the open like americans always do. They often do it passively aggressively behind your back instead while keeping up the mask of politeness (tatemae). They have to, because most businesses in Japan are client-centric and client is considered God. So they have to smile and be polite out necessity. There are times when the service person who just treated a Japanese guy in line before you politely and happily suddenly switches to a dull unimpressed character when it comes to your turn. Instead of direct confrontation you're simply snitched on to the higher ups like boss/police for thinking you were suspicious (ie, didn't look or behave like a Japanese person). You're viewed as a suspicious outsider alien and sometimes even an eyesore. They feel wary around foreigners as if you're about to paunce them or something because you're an outsider (literally gaijin, a person from outside) and they don't know what to expect from you. It causes people refusing to sit next to you in crowded trains or stand up and move to another seat or even car (sometimes mumbling grumpy while at it), people crossing to other side of the road just so they don't walk towards you on the sidewalk, people silently running away scared like hell when trying to ask the way in Japanese, talking shet about you standing right next to you (especially in Tokyo) thinking you don't understand them. Go anywhere where 2 or 3 people out of 10 are foreigners an you start hearing vocal complaints like "gaijin ooi naa" (there's too many foreigners, huh) from people around. They feel uncomfortable just by being around us, especially if they become the minority. At one of my previous part time jobs we had different ratio of foreigners and Japanese working together every day due to shifts, but one day we had a shift with mostly foreigners and only 2 Japanese (one being the boss but he was too busy being around). That other Japanese guy being the only one among foreigners kept repeating whole day how he's scared and uncomfortable for being "alone". As if they don't even view foreigners as humans but some low sub-human organisms. Try such fun time shenanigans like trying to find an apartment to live that doesn't allow any foreigners even if you have a Japanese guarantor. You're mostly limited to those companies who actually openly rent to foreigners like UR. The agencies themselves may take you in but it's when they call the actual home owners is when you start being rejected. It's becomes even funnier when you naturalize (become Japanese by jurisdiction, but not by face). During that famous global event foreigners who briefly left Japan for various reasons weren't allowed back for several months, even those who had permanent residency and families here. Just because they were foreigners and apparently only foreigners spread the virus. Japan has quickly shown its real face and that foreigners aren't welcomed here. That in difficult times like Japan just can easily shun us away, despite us being actual tax payers and contributors to the society. They left the ban only thanks to all the bad press and pressure the outside world to let at least the residents in. This attitude is even backed up by the state TV who made a ridiculous report about foreigners spreading more virus simply because they speak foreign languages so virus flows out of their mouths with more force due to sounds like P. While such divine language as Japanese doesn't do that. I wish I was joking. Google "Japan this is a pen" video. There are also nationalist groups who drive their trucks blasting their nationalistic slogans and music through megaphones. You can sometimes find them parked in public places like around metro stations where they are vocal against foreigners, especially local koreans (zainichi, residents who came before war or their descendants). You don't see all that when you're a freshly arrived lightheaded westerner on his holidays gawking at all the colorful store signs like in his Japanese anime.
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
​@@archithroughthe worst part would be allowing your child to go through the same horrible education system that crushes any semblance of individuality and critical thinking, and raises slave robots who throw away their lives for the sake of work and who can only butter up to bosses.
@grizzly9879
@grizzly9879 2 ай бұрын
"Walking from one end of Tokyo station to the other is like crossing the Maginotline" is a wild quote💀
@TheKewlPerson
@TheKewlPerson 2 ай бұрын
Tokyo Station doesn't even end it just connects to the next station... then the next one...
@jtho8937
@jtho8937 2 ай бұрын
Germans: *Heavy breathing*
@TheSonic1685
@TheSonic1685 2 ай бұрын
Sorry you didn't go to Japan and become Japanese bro.
@AiRPasternak
@AiRPasternak Ай бұрын
​@@jtho8937Germans: Easy, gg no re
@DomnulDarius
@DomnulDarius Ай бұрын
😂😂
@funkybassman6012
@funkybassman6012 2 ай бұрын
I did a year of graduate school in New Zealand and I 100% agree with you saying that if you have the opportunity you have to study abroad. It was genuinely one of the best years of my life and I seriously miss it every day.
@mochaaaq
@mochaaaq 2 ай бұрын
as a kiwi im glad to hear you loved our country that much
@NotMaxr3fund
@NotMaxr3fund 2 ай бұрын
Whereabouts did u study if I may ask
@maximan142
@maximan142 2 ай бұрын
Bruh I can only go to Pantheon Paris if I want to have a year or two outside, but why would I ever do it😂? Paris is so shitty, hobo ridden and dirty, not to mention expensive. I was there in person, most of France also. @funkybassmqn6012
@user-zf4kv9ou2i
@user-zf4kv9ou2i 2 ай бұрын
Nice I want to move there one day
@user-zf4kv9ou2i
@user-zf4kv9ou2i 2 ай бұрын
Nice I want to move there one day
@vexillian
@vexillian 2 ай бұрын
I like how, in a video about Japan, your gameplay strategy for the sponsored game is the kamikaze. Nice.
@UmamiPapi
@UmamiPapi 2 ай бұрын
Spicy.
@Michael-go4ix
@Michael-go4ix 2 ай бұрын
no chill xD
@KamikazeDaze15
@KamikazeDaze15 2 ай бұрын
Works every time ;P
@longiusaescius2537
@longiusaescius2537 2 ай бұрын
Safe edgy moment
@JDH___
@JDH___ 2 ай бұрын
HE HEARTED IT HE KNOWS.
@Duubly
@Duubly 2 ай бұрын
In an age of KZfaq where everyone strives to be so damn professional. Your structured, high quality unprofessionalism is a fucking joy to watch. Take my damn sub.
@fvai8203
@fvai8203 Ай бұрын
Idk about you but timeline is filled with KZfaqrs with an unprofessional tone.
@tomdcsupercat8111
@tomdcsupercat8111 Ай бұрын
Bros glazing like crazy 😭
@nothanks1508
@nothanks1508 Ай бұрын
@@fvai8203 likewise, also op is glazing hard
@RickGrimes807
@RickGrimes807 25 күн бұрын
The expression "glazing" gets me everytime 🤣🤣​@@tomdcsupercat8111
@WAFFLEDOM
@WAFFLEDOM 23 күн бұрын
what professional youtubers are you watching dawg 😭
@lazysloth08
@lazysloth08 2 ай бұрын
1:50 "my train was late one time" germans laughing and crying in the corner: look what the need to mimic a fraction of our power
@AhidoMikaro
@AhidoMikaro 2 ай бұрын
He was lucky not living on a JR line. They are late and stop for any minimal bad weather all the time. Somehow the other lines in the same area are always fine under the same conditions. One exception is when the trains are stopped because of "personal injury".
@noobgam6331
@noobgam6331 2 ай бұрын
​@@AhidoMikaro buddy you have no idea what it's like in germany. And with the amount of recent strikes where people just decide to shutdown half public transpott because they want to you can never trust it even remotely
@brvhtxxbxk
@brvhtxxbxk 2 ай бұрын
Same here in Belgium,its getting ridiculous nowadays. All that while they spike up the prices. Tempting to get my driver license.
@iiraingirlii
@iiraingirlii 2 ай бұрын
@@noobgam6331ikr
@ChalkyWaters
@ChalkyWaters Ай бұрын
aussie trains sitting in the corner:
@SnadBagg
@SnadBagg 2 ай бұрын
Im sorry that you had to interact with a Danish person, hope you can recover mentally soon
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
My liver may never recover
@watersxo
@watersxo 2 ай бұрын
I watched the video in 2x speed so I could finish it before everyone
@eratoz5096
@eratoz5096 2 ай бұрын
hustling everyday
@Popotato7777
@Popotato7777 2 ай бұрын
Get your head in the game bud, install the youtube enhancer extension and next time watch it at 16x
@alex.g7317
@alex.g7317 2 ай бұрын
@@Popotato7777that’s a thing? Is there 0.61x?
@kirito-iu4ce
@kirito-iu4ce 2 ай бұрын
​@@Popotato7777bro we need a 0.69x😅
@Popotato7777
@Popotato7777 2 ай бұрын
@@alex.g7317 Out there probably, but the enhancer only goes up and down by decimals, minimun is 0.1
@thecheck968
@thecheck968 2 ай бұрын
This video couldn’t have come at a better time for me. I’m graduating college in a few months and have been looking for a teaching position, when I stumbled into a job in Alaska. Mind you, Japan and the Alaskan bush are hardly comparable. But hearing you gush about your own experience definitely makes going to Alaska seem like less of an abstract.
@josephbassatt459
@josephbassatt459 2 ай бұрын
Hope you have fun over in Alaska, I think you should bring a fishing pole
@owentheoutlaw_
@owentheoutlaw_ 2 ай бұрын
Yo, same here. I'm almost done with my master's in computer science, and I was thinking about doing my PhD in Japan. BirdPerson made it sound really easy!
@ProtagInist
@ProtagInist 2 ай бұрын
I tried to study abroad twice, and both times I was smited by divine powers to stop me. Well okay not really, but i did land critical injuries that required surgury and months of physical therapy which forced me to cancel both programs. I've wanted to travel and study abroad so badly and it sucked to be accepted into two programs and still been unable to make it. Thanks for posting the video. Maybe this is the kick in the pants I need to try again. Third times the charm?
@lonestarr1490
@lonestarr1490 2 ай бұрын
Keep us updated as to which bone breaks on you this time.
@gibbogobbo155
@gibbogobbo155 2 ай бұрын
I cast mega aids
@atharaxndx
@atharaxndx 2 ай бұрын
Take good care of your health brother
@exoticbutters8217
@exoticbutters8217 2 ай бұрын
@@lonestarr1490 crazy 💀😭😭
@alexmiddleton7348
@alexmiddleton7348 Ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me. I tried to study abroad twice, and now I am finally studying abroad after my 3rd try. My 1st try I got accepted in Fall 2019 and was supposed to study abroad in Fall 2020, but covid happened. So travel was shut down. My 2nd try was in Fall 2022 for 2023. I had to reapply through my uni's study abroad office. They required letters of recommendation, but the same professors I had didn't work there anymore. So I tried different professors, but one professor gave me a bad recommendation without telling me, so I was denied to study abroad. I even tried to appeal it for months. My 3rd try was in Spring 2023. I applied to a foreign university directly and got accepted. I finally studied abroad in Europe and I am here for almost 1 year now. Now matter how difficult or out of control life may be, never give up on your dreams. I finally reached my goal, even though it took time. Be patient. I definitely recommend studying abroad in a country that is not your native language. It will open your eyes. It will look good on your record/resume too. Keep trying! You are not alone. As long as you follow your heart, you will reach your dreams eventually! :)
@CrazyAxes
@CrazyAxes 2 ай бұрын
Dude thank you so much! It has been YEARS since ive seen a Japan video with info that wasnt already in a hundred other youtube Japan videos.
@Ramzan308
@Ramzan308 2 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks for real advice from real experience! I'm studying Japanese as well, Anki is really helpful, but the best thing is consistency!
@Limedisease
@Limedisease 2 ай бұрын
Happy to hear you had a great experience over there-- especially with meeting new people and quickly being able to make friends with them. Being able to live in another culture like that sounds dope and is an awesome thing to have under your belt as a life accomplishment.
@zeneck7387
@zeneck7387 2 ай бұрын
Really cool to hear. I'm actually going to study japanese in Japan the next academic year ( if everything goes well that is...) i can't wait !
@ManachanJapan
@ManachanJapan 2 ай бұрын
I hope everything works out! Greets from Japan
@matyasbaca3965
@matyasbaca3965 2 ай бұрын
The only bad (and the worst at the same time)part about studying and living abroad as a students is that you have to accept that one day, it's over, it's never going to happen again and it's up to you to be happy. I struggled with that for an entire year after coming home from my exchange year in the USA. My parents even started to think that it might have been a bad idea that they sent me there, because I was really depressed for a long time. Then I accepted it and I feel happy ever since then. It's hard, but it was amazing and now it can only be as amazing as I make it be...
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
The worst part for me is that me and my floormates were all super close and now we'll never live together again. We can visit eachother sure but it'll never be the same again. Especially because we were from all across the world. We had 2 australians, a Dane, Thai, Korean. Japanese, and me and we hung out like every day. Meeting up with all of us is basically impossible and even if we do it it'll be temporary... depression af
@LuddyFish_
@LuddyFish_ 2 ай бұрын
Reverse culture shock is awful. It makes you want to hang in the past and unable to cope with the present. It takes a lot of acceptance and reality checking to come to terms with it.
@UmamiPapi
@UmamiPapi 2 ай бұрын
If you want to you can plan to live here in the future. Long term goals are healthy.
@dethswurl117
@dethswurl117 2 ай бұрын
​@@TheStellarJay All you can do is smile because it happened, man :)
@lazybones107
@lazybones107 2 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, this will help me pick where I go after I finish schooling in the marines
@DaCat1337
@DaCat1337 2 ай бұрын
i love your bg music choices, especially from monogatari and sonny boy, youre real for that
@muffledpotat0245
@muffledpotat0245 2 ай бұрын
DUUUUDE TOKINI ANDY'S THE GOOAT, glad that channel got some rep, literally my only source of consistent Japanese study (except anki and mining) for 1.5 years. I actually cannot recommend his n5 grammar playlist enough to people who want to start learning japanese, and its also great for intermediate grammar as well as he goes up to n2.
@takutik785
@takutik785 2 ай бұрын
This video was very enjoyable!! I also love the fact that you put Toe over the last few seconds, incredible band with incredible music
@nyaenya
@nyaenya 2 ай бұрын
So happy that you had a amazing time in Japan! And I agree that studying abroad opens up to so many cool experiences! Hope you'll stay in touch with the friends you made in Japan!
@nicholasyoa86
@nicholasyoa86 2 ай бұрын
Really loved this video. Loved seeing what the experience was like in Japan itself (not a bunch of edits, or over-the-top optimism but literal personal opinion). As a person that really wants to experience Japan & loves and respects Japanese culture, looks like learning the language is definitely necessary to experience Japan to the best it can be. I've actually tried learning JP a few times but ....yea....consistency....is literally the one word that encapsulates language learning. I'll put in an order for a calendar now. Having a calendar in front of me, and ticking it is actually a really good way of showing how consistent I've been at it. And then when I'm ready I'll go over those tips perhaps. Thanks again, enjoyed this video :)
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it thanks for the tip!
@KOMBO-
@KOMBO- 2 ай бұрын
Finally I found a person that respects it and doesn't just want an anime utopia these are the ppl we need going to Japan to show them who we are
@DEXXofficial69
@DEXXofficial69 Ай бұрын
@@KOMBO- exactly! thats my mindset too and i hope there are even more who agree.
@jasonkarjadi4034
@jasonkarjadi4034 2 ай бұрын
I lived in Tokyo 4 years for university, and I didn't know Kyoto had that little public transport going, despite the amount of tourists coming in I also relate the part of being close to students from outside of Japan it also made me wanna learn their languages cool video 👍 it made me reminisce the fun times I had studying abroad there were a lot of downs, but I had a lot of irreplacable moments there I might go back to work there one day
@Lamppa
@Lamppa 2 ай бұрын
I'm going to study abroad for four months next October, to Osaka Gakuin University in Suita. I was in Osaka for 18 or so days back in 2019 just before COVID, which was also my first ever trip to Japan. I'm heckin' hyped, but filing all the paperwork can be a hassle and a half. A wonderful video, it reminded me how much fun I had back in 2019, and how convenient and fun Osaka is in comparison to many other locales. Even though the crime rate is high, it's still Japan's crime rates, so yeah. I do hope everything goes well and I get to Japan without issue!
@Orisu179
@Orisu179 2 ай бұрын
Holy shit this is exactly what I needed, thank you KZfaq. I went study abroad in Tokyo at around the same time as you, you get used to all the people after like a months lol. One thing I would say is that you missed Sapporo! I went there during the snow festival in feb and had an amazing time there -spending all my money on snow miku merchs-
@StampDev
@StampDev 2 ай бұрын
Osaka is such a great place! I Loved the quick train ride over to Kyoto too for the shrines
@vutysersuxxx5236
@vutysersuxxx5236 2 ай бұрын
Ngl never disapointed when the bird uploads happy you had an amazing time my man!
@sargesmoke3235
@sargesmoke3235 Ай бұрын
Currently on my study abroad exchange in Sweden and I wholeheartedly agree that this is one of the single best decision I made in my life, I learn to operate independently and every day felt amazing to experience. It is like time has slowed down compared to when I live back in my home country studying (these last six months felt so long compared to six months back home). I get to easily visit other countries and Swedish cities, and I met a lot of amazing people from around the world (almost died from excessive drinking my god). Of course, not every day is as exciting, somedays I like to take a break and just focus on myself but this opportunity has been absolutely fantastic, and I am already dreading the day I am going back.
@ratoh1710
@ratoh1710 2 ай бұрын
Wait did you study abroad in Japan during the fall semester? because if so there is genuinely a chance the Danish dude was one of my classmates. I'm doing Japanese Studies and we had our mandatory exchange to Japan this fall semester
@itsyellow2277
@itsyellow2277 2 ай бұрын
@TheStellarJay
@unuks9731
@unuks9731 2 ай бұрын
@TheStellarJay
@Mr.Spetznaz
@Mr.Spetznaz 2 ай бұрын
I was exactly thinking about doing a 2nd degree of electrical engineering there. this video timing couldn't be better!❤❤❤
@ky_jellybean
@ky_jellybean 2 ай бұрын
way to go to keep up anki even when you were in Japan. Since i went in October I broke my 3+ year streak. Getting back into it now. Really does help, even thought I've been reading every day and talking once a week. Way to go dude!
@kalebplayz7228
@kalebplayz7228 Ай бұрын
Great video as always! I’ve always wanted to move to Japan for a bit and I’m curious as to how you decided to go on your journey
@inoscopedjfk8207
@inoscopedjfk8207 2 ай бұрын
Thanks a ton for the Japanese learning tips, they are stellar! Also, Steven Krashen's philosophy is amazing
@SirRipster
@SirRipster 2 ай бұрын
I had a study abroad in korea last year and while there are some differences, It was a very similar experience to you. Honestly, if I was better with foreign language and actually learned Korean, I could see myself wanting to live there. The public transit and amazing food was hard to say goodbye too
@kunai9809
@kunai9809 2 ай бұрын
visiting is different from living there. Many describe it as hell. just google "75% of young want to escape South Korean ‘Hell’"
@SirRipster
@SirRipster 2 ай бұрын
@@kunai9809 You dont think I hear or talked to people about that while I was there? I 100% see the reasons why people want to leave, like bad gender roles, mandatory military time, crazy low fertility rates, etc. The biggest reason why it's hell especially for young kids is, crazy education expectations, long work weeks, low opportunities. If I was remoting working there, alot of the big downsides are reduced. But you are right, I would probably sooner move to japan or Germany
@sssyt4837
@sssyt4837 2 ай бұрын
@@SirRipsterJapanese and Koreans are not having kids. You might have helped them.
@sssyt4837
@sssyt4837 2 ай бұрын
@@SirRipsterJapanese and Koreans too having no kids.you might have also helped them by saying how relaxed western culture is.
@fujigoko007
@fujigoko007 2 ай бұрын
Traveling and living are different. In that respect, I don't think there is any country that is as different as South Korea. The older Koreans get, the less happy they become. It is said that the breaking point is around 50 years old. Japan is currently a society where more than 1.5 million people are dying, but we are holding on. South Korea will probably be overwhelmed by an aging population.
@TheVincentVanGogh
@TheVincentVanGogh 6 күн бұрын
As a student graduating High school and planning to study in Japan for University. I am grateful for this, it is very insightful❤
@amir_kazbek
@amir_kazbek 2 ай бұрын
I’m studying in Tokyo rn, but me and my friends are planning to visit Osaka this summer, cause it seems like a chill place. I admit that Tokyo is only a “big city” but I met so many cool people here and there’s always some new club/cafe/store/place to discover in here that it never feels boring.
@flynmai1369
@flynmai1369 2 күн бұрын
Sorry but TOKYO has waaaay more to offer than OSAKA. Just saying. and btw TOKYO is the largest and richest city on earth. The highest buildings are in tokyo AKIHABARA is in TOKYO and SHIBUYA is in TOKYO and so on... OSAKA is ok... but if you wish long time fun. TOKYO ALL THE FU WAY !!
@hanoder
@hanoder 2 ай бұрын
How did you manage to last without subtitles
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
Being a typical westerner from a rich privileged country who litters foreign currency left and right while local economy tanks and spends each day being stuck in honey moon phase kinda helps.
@user-ek2jc1xf3y
@user-ek2jc1xf3y 2 ай бұрын
@@HaohmaruHL lmao what, most overseas students are not privileged, they save just enough money to make the trip over
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
@@user-ek2jc1xf3y You mean Vietnamese who keep working here illegally 3 jobs at the same time 400 hours a month and then get problems with immigration?
@Spudster203
@Spudster203 2 ай бұрын
@@HaohmaruHL hes studying abroad lmao, and he had a really good time ur literally hating for no reason stay broke
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
@@Spudster203 I first came to Japan as a study abroad myself. Tell me about it..
@Mayorski
@Mayorski 2 ай бұрын
I went last June for 3 weeks and I agree,the best part is the friends you and conversations you have from people willing to talk to you. I only speak a little Japanese to get me by but I still had tonnes of fun. ALSO idk if anyone cares but the Cafe Leblanc from Persona 5 exist in Tokyo and the guy who owns is really cool and I love him and if you ever go there because of me…say an Irish KZfaqr sent u
@QuackCow144
@QuackCow144 2 ай бұрын
what if I said an Irish youtuber said never to go here and that the owner is a bitch?
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
The only reasons anyone wants ot talk to you in Japan are: 1) To practice their English for free (or lose any interest in you immediately if you tell them you're not from US) 2) Spit out common stereotypes about other countries if you're not from US ("what, you're from Russia? Putin, matroshka, vodka"? Every damn single time, from many different people across the country) 3) Ask you when your leaving. 4) To keep you as a pet/accessory to boast to their friends (ie "check out token foreigner friend!"). After couple conversations when they've squeezed all the info they wanted from you your existence is erased from their memory. You'll never become the "uchi" (inside circle, like family and sometimes very close friends), sometimes even to the family after you've married to a Japanese person and entered the koseki family register. Meaning you'll never become a real friend, just some one time acquaintance. You'll always stay as "soto" (outside circle, anyone else) and be kept at a distance, communicated with by using forced politeness. So don't misunderstand people being nice to you as friendship. Especially in a country where the whole society is sheerly built on and operates by keeping the facade of politeness.
@Mayorski
@Mayorski 2 ай бұрын
@@HaohmaruHL ....did...did you read what I said about the Persona guy? He doesn't fall under any of your points. We talked for like 4 hours,he watches and comments under my youtube videos and gave me his vr chat username. That's a lot for somoene who's faking being nice. I completely understand the fake politeness,but its not all of them,I made a lot genuine connections over there. Buy ay man.....maybe I'm just naive
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
@@Mayorski well yeah, there are different weird or shunned minorities anywhere basically. You can easily become an exile here for non conforming to societal norms so maybe he has finally found someone to talk to.
@TomSM5
@TomSM5 Ай бұрын
@@HaohmaruHL Sounds like you've had bad experiences
@jamison8706
@jamison8706 2 ай бұрын
I'm also studying abroad in June for a month in the Kyoto and this makes it more exciting to be going!
@chingunganzorig
@chingunganzorig 2 ай бұрын
That’s stellar Jay! Glad you had fun in Japan.
@LeoLonzarich
@LeoLonzarich 2 ай бұрын
4:27 the doki doki music in the background 🥹
@zacharymcguirk6431
@zacharymcguirk6431 3 күн бұрын
I remember...
@harrisonjohnson4454
@harrisonjohnson4454 2 ай бұрын
3:14 A man has fallen into the river in Lego city
@squareeyes5907
@squareeyes5907 2 ай бұрын
Loved this video man, I am going for a trip in just under two months.
@imNexis
@imNexis 2 ай бұрын
i checked to see if i had the video playback speed turned up, wonderful stellarjay video.
@uiinpui
@uiinpui 2 ай бұрын
I'm guessing not
@notagood
@notagood 2 ай бұрын
Agreed
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq 2 ай бұрын
My Japanese friends left Japan it’s not a diverse country
@DccAnh
@DccAnh Ай бұрын
@@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq most countries isn't diverse, homogeneous is the norm, diversity isn't, diversity bring a lot of issue but provide no real benefit.
@keatonfuller7287
@keatonfuller7287 Ай бұрын
​@DccAnh last part of that comment is crazy
@DccAnh
@DccAnh Ай бұрын
@@keatonfuller7287 crazy ? What benefit does diversity bring to the table ?
@meowmura349
@meowmura349 2 ай бұрын
Im studying in Japan rightn now but since I'm in highschool and have a host family the experience is very different. Me and my family's personality is quite dofferent, which has resulted in a lot of hard times. Also, I can't really hang out with other's than my family that much, since all of my callsmates ar usually busy. Still, there are a lot of great stuff I've learned from living here etc. While I think that this maybe I had more fun while I lived in Finland, the things I've learned here are very important and will help me on the long run. I've also had many experience that while not fun perse, are still important to me and make me more happy and fulfilled. I hope to be able to come back here to stufy while im university.
@Pendji
@Pendji 2 ай бұрын
Now imagine experiencing tens of other countries instead of just returning to japan 8 times. You know, see the world. learn cultures. Not just go "im not a weeb but im a weeb"
@meowmura349
@meowmura349 2 ай бұрын
@@Pendji You really shouldn't just assume that type of stuff about other without enough information. I've travelled to tens of countries and experienced their culture in different amounts. Also my plan is to take transfer years to different countries one of which I'd like to be Japan. Also wouldn't it be kinda stupid to try and learn a country's culture, language, and way of life yet never go back to said country. Also I don't get your weeb point. Wouldn't living in Japan for a long time make someone not a weeb (if by weeb you mean the negative meaning, like weeaboo or japanophile). If you mean to just say that I like anime and manga, then yeah that's true. Not saying it ain't and also it isn't a bad thing. I just really don't get the point of your comment, like are you saying it's bad to be especially interested in one country over others? Aren't most people like that? Most people are mainly just interested in their home country and live there their whole lives. What's with you being so passive agressive towards me for being interested in Japan? It sounds like you just have a problem with people liking Japan especially. Maybe try being more chill next time.
@AlfredoMagbual
@AlfredoMagbual Ай бұрын
loved the video so much! i may have missed this detail but i’m curious as to why you didn’t stay in japan?
@deweydeweyinghisbest9071
@deweydeweyinghisbest9071 5 күн бұрын
Man thats my favorite channel on youtube rn
@idkaname123
@idkaname123 4 күн бұрын
I think it’s becoming mine too
@SASJinno
@SASJinno 2 ай бұрын
Not studying abroad while I was in college is definitely a regret. Highly recommend it to anyone that can make it work financially.
@fennec812
@fennec812 2 ай бұрын
I lived in Japan for 4 years, moving back. Honestly the universal red flag that people are going to have a bad time is not knowing the language. It’s true in any country, but especially in a culture like Japan, your ability to integrate is going to be directly correlated with your happiness. And your ability to integrate is going to be directly correlated with your language ability first and foremost. It’s fine not to “buy into” every cultural idiosyncrasy, but “when it Rome” is something people need to live by. Most miserable foreigners I’ve met in Japan were nigh illiterate, made no effort to integrate, and were always looking at how Japan was doing this or that “wrong.” No country is perfect, but it’s just a recipe for a bad time to live like this. The other thing is a lot of people stereotype hard… they assume all Japanese people are nice or racist and seem to willingly ignore examples that don’t fit their very specific conception of the country. This is also much easier to upkeep when you don’t have any language skills. Tl;Dr fucking study language if you’re studying or living abroad anywhere
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
100% agree with everything you said. Especially the stereotyping of japanese people... so many people talk about them like they're some sort of hive mind it's weird
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq 2 ай бұрын
@@TheStellarJayI think foreigners saw those interviews about dating in Japan and some Japanese people in the interview think cheating is normal
@polinyashechkak
@polinyashechkak 2 ай бұрын
your videos are so good bro you're a legend
@lowki2127
@lowki2127 2 ай бұрын
I went to Japan recently, and the worst part of my trip was that my flight got delayed and I landed at like 10 pm, but hanging out with my brother in Japan was cool
@owlere1752
@owlere1752 2 ай бұрын
Woah I was in Japan at the same time as you were lol! I actually felt the earthquake, I was in the Nagano prefecture. This video really captures the vibe of the experience lmaooo
@jcoxdj
@jcoxdj 2 ай бұрын
Felt that one too in Hakuba, Nagano
@malm7arb
@malm7arb 2 ай бұрын
I studied abroad/was an international student in the US during my uni time. First in California then moved to ohio. That shit was the loneliest time for me. Couldn't make any friends because all students already had their own friend group before joining uni and non were interested in making friendships with classmates. Didn't help that I never owned a car, so I was stuck on campus for most of my years. Maybe I should have went to Japan or somewhere in Europe with a good public transportation system.
@ItsMicahDesu
@ItsMicahDesu 2 ай бұрын
I studied abroad in Tokyo last September and I had such a great experience too! Here's to say I don't want to move there anymore LOL. I met so many friends across the world as well and I think its such an eye opener for people
@gloomxd2204
@gloomxd2204 2 ай бұрын
absolutely love the video and agree with a lot of points... except for the public transport part, let me clarify i stayed in both kyoto and osaka for several days and man was it amazing. in kyoto (while i was there) the bus was a standard fare of around 290 yen (less than $2). if you took the bus for an hour, you paid 290 yen, if you took the bus for one stop, you paid 290 yen. it was absolutely incredible. the lines were clear, the people were super friendly and overall it was a great experience. great video tho! :D
@tolaut
@tolaut 2 ай бұрын
Yeah i regret not studying abroad. Also, i just listened to Hollow Knight OST before this video, so you opening up with some HK music was hella weird but also based.
@finntherabbot
@finntherabbot 2 ай бұрын
7:40 litereally the best Japanese learning advice i've seen in a while! thank you a lot!
@orangenasa
@orangenasa 2 ай бұрын
I got to spend a year living in Kansai in 2022, also for studying abroad. And let me tell you it was a once in a lifetime blessing to be able to see all of Kyoto's beauty without a single tourist in sight. All in all, we had the same experience and I will 100% go to live there again, just not in Tokyo.
@nappersrespite
@nappersrespite Ай бұрын
actually made me feel more positive about learning japanese, i've been studying everyday for around 100 days now and i kinda felt like it wasn't helping much, so thanks for the tips, ig i'll just try harder lol
@fIayff
@fIayff 2 ай бұрын
I have done the exact same thing just a year ago :D Lived in Osaka, hated tokyo, love nara (Shame on your for not putting it in A!) and mate some awesome people. Just living there was so much more interesting and fun than living in my home country. Though the one key difference why I was so happy when I finally got back: I failed at learning japanese (the fifth language was just to much for mah tiny brain). So, ye peeps, what he said was absolutely correct: if you go there and can't speak japanese, the amount of people you genuinly connect can be counted on one hand.
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq 2 ай бұрын
It’s the same thing when immigrants move to another country
@fjorddenierbear4832
@fjorddenierbear4832 Ай бұрын
I don't see how someone could hate Tokyo. I lived in Kyoto, but Tokyo was better. That said, I'm going to visit Osaka sometime soon-ish I think.
@dudemp4
@dudemp4 2 ай бұрын
The glazing is insane
@flareAMVs
@flareAMVs 2 ай бұрын
Great learning advice in your video, very based. I would be careful of doing listening with Japanese subtitles though as reading tends to improve faster for people from what i’ve seen and their listening can get left behind if they start to rely on the subs. But it is really great advice.
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
True, I had this problem at a certain point and forced myself to turn off subs on simpler shows/movies. Plus the regular classes taught in japanese were REALLY hard and obviously no subtitles so I had to get a lot better at listening comp
@EgonCom
@EgonCom 2 ай бұрын
Its funny you uploaded it when i was in japan on vacation :P
@alexm.a.d892
@alexm.a.d892 2 ай бұрын
Honestly these problems aren't exclusive to Tokyo, any metropol is like that, Paris, Madrid, Istanbul, if it has many skyscrapers it is a telltale sign of the city being business oriented. If you wanna live in another country, avoid highly populated cities
@TheNobleFive
@TheNobleFive 2 ай бұрын
I disagree. Osaka is awesome
@XGD5layer
@XGD5layer 2 ай бұрын
Tokyo is by far the largest Metropolis in the world by population with 40 million people by 2023. The second most populous city has 10 million people less. But honestly it was fine without the tourists
@Webbyhx
@Webbyhx 2 ай бұрын
7:43 I think you got the wrong Oshi there, but if not I will make sure to read Child's Push
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
You right
@AhidoMikaro
@AhidoMikaro 2 ай бұрын
I knew it that the mountains you showed before looked very familiar. Just a bit different angle/distance.
@joey6763
@joey6763 2 ай бұрын
am learning german, can’t wait to visit soon, korean definitely my next language and if i can conquer that i might decide to start learning japanese
@TheStellarJay
@TheStellarJay 2 ай бұрын
Korean writing system will cripple your willpower to learn any other language because it's so good
@andrewli8900
@andrewli8900 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunate you didn't go to sapporo, sapporo is easily s tier
@kasiasinior8332
@kasiasinior8332 2 ай бұрын
The shit that the Japanese military used to do to civilians back in World War II was terrifying!!!
@eratoz5096
@eratoz5096 2 ай бұрын
the shit the usa did to japan inww2 was imeasurably inhumane
@haruhirogrimgar6047
@haruhirogrimgar6047 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely abhorrent. Like, we should cover that in history class almost as much as the holocaust level of abhorrent. All I got was a passing mention of Nanking. No details, nothing about Korra, nothing about their internal sex slave industry, nada. We got a few documentaries on WWII germany's actions, and that was it.
@DrFumiya
@DrFumiya 2 ай бұрын
More like the “Japanese army” not Japan. A country’s government and military does not represent its people. It’s the people with money and power who are at fault. Civilians from both sides suffered because of them. The army had too much power. Never a good thing. More people need to know the difference to avoid misunderstandings and stop the cycle of war.
@googleit1131
@googleit1131 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, and what the west did in most wars, including WWII, was also bad. Everyone sucks when you look at history.
@neotuxxedo
@neotuxxedo 2 ай бұрын
@@DrFumiyaI think it’s better to say a country can change, not that it defined its people. The Japanese mindset was widespread, which is why civilians would sign up to be kamikaze pilots. There are horror stories of Japanese women pushing their kids off cliffs than jumping just so they wouldn’t get captured. But most of that was the governments fault tbh.
@Owjdnskoakansbskk
@Owjdnskoakansbskk 2 ай бұрын
I’m going to language school in Japan next year. I’ve been there twice and I know where the good parts in and around Tokyo are, and I’m not telling anyone because I’m sick of Japan being a KZfaq trend. I’m not doubting you legitimately love it, in fact you probably feel the same way I do, but you know the ones I’m talking about. If I can’t get a visa to stay there I’m probably going to swing into an even worse depression than the one I’m in now after returning to the US after my trip there. I moved out of the US a few years ago and after being gone I really hate being back. It’s not all it’s propaganda’d up to be.
@helveklikk
@helveklikk 2 ай бұрын
I was literally just in Nishinomiya, and was at the same river for hanami as you showed in the intro clips...
@g_rr_tt
@g_rr_tt 20 күн бұрын
This is a youtuber's perspective and not of a foreigner who actually has to work a real job to survive there. >doesn't ride the morning train >doesn't get randomly searched by police at least once a week >doesn't get to work overtime for free >doesn't get to pay Japanese taxes on top of American taxes what the youtuber gets to do: >make a video about Japan and collect a decent paycheck >spend it all on fun things in Japan because they have uber free time >positive feedback loop
@jayc33day
@jayc33day 3 күн бұрын
Ironic coming from you
@datpotatoes4005
@datpotatoes4005 2 ай бұрын
I'm currently on my second year of college, this year coming to a wrap soon... I don't know if I have any chances of going abroad; if I am even mentally capable for such a big change in life. BUT it does sound interesting.
@brvhtxxbxk
@brvhtxxbxk 2 ай бұрын
Exactly all of this,it really hit when u said u miss Strong Zero,i tried ordering the green grape strong zero but its impossible to order. Im so glad im going to japan this May to get totally knocked out again by strong zero(and also to explore and sight-see),Osaka is indeed an amazing city,every evening was different,met amazing people there,always a banger.
@L.P090
@L.P090 2 ай бұрын
Ur overrated boom roasted Jk love you bbb Big black bird
@chukyuniqul
@chukyuniqul 2 ай бұрын
A rooster is a bird, and we all know what's the other name for it.
@L.P090
@L.P090 2 ай бұрын
@@chukyuniqul 😳😏
@angrycapsicum6027
@angrycapsicum6027 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful country, but I'm too lazy to learn Japanese and I'm not sure that I'm ready to be made a victim of xenophobia at this stage in my life.
@HaohmaruHL
@HaohmaruHL 2 ай бұрын
You can learn it for your own good like for the input of your favorite shows/games. Because learning it for working in Japan would mean you'd simply have to get better at Japanese just to get better at worshipping your boss and butter up to him as polite as possible. Not really a motiving final goal for learning a language, huh. I remember my first year and a half in Japan, attending the language school. Being so positive and naive. Finally getting some peace after finally being free from my piece of sh country. Every day felt like an adventure with so much to explore, just like the guy in this video. Little did I know, lol. No wonder there are so many foreigners living here looking for mental health professionals..
@Amelie_exe
@Amelie_exe 2 ай бұрын
Lmaoo it’s funny this video popped up I’m in a similar position rn studying abroad in Japan in a smaller city called Okayama!
@byhorizon6155
@byhorizon6155 2 ай бұрын
Are your Anki Decks up for download anywhere?? or if they are at a point where they contain too much advanced things, do you have recommendations for lower intermediate decks. I really really do not want to make my own from scratch 😭
@randomyoutuber4189
@randomyoutuber4189 2 ай бұрын
68 views in a minute, fell up.
@niii3873
@niii3873 2 ай бұрын
Americans when they visit a country with culture and tradition:
@lordofthevallies2280
@lordofthevallies2280 2 ай бұрын
Im planning on studying abroad there to learn to draw Manga, and im quite excited!
@zookthemelon
@zookthemelon 2 ай бұрын
I’d love more videos like this, more variety
@LEWIS1992
@LEWIS1992 2 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ, slow down. Why are you talking so rapidly like you're desperately trying to keep the attention of Tiktokers?
@danteinferno175
@danteinferno175 2 ай бұрын
This video in one word: annoying
@user-tg9io9xv2n
@user-tg9io9xv2n 2 ай бұрын
Ikr. it has to be the most insufferable I've ever watched
@meowfia4032
@meowfia4032 Ай бұрын
Why he is literally just saying that he enjoyed his time in japan
@Ocer.
@Ocer. Ай бұрын
I would be very interested in hearing more about your recommendations for learning Japanese
@angrymango42
@angrymango42 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I’ve already graduated and started the corporate rat race so too late to study abroad. Loved the video!
@nickfranssen6893
@nickfranssen6893 2 ай бұрын
Yooo, TheStellarJay is an AJATT(/MIA/Refold/Migaku/"Immersion")er? Nice, I'm glad to see another success story! Trying to get 100 hours of listening in this month, to push my listening up to my reading level. Wish me luck!
@itsmegiorgio
@itsmegiorgio 2 ай бұрын
1:10 in Tokyo you can take a 30m train and be in Nikko. An equally ancient temple ground immersed in nature
@pablo_the_zolo
@pablo_the_zolo 2 ай бұрын
very cool video i enjoyed it :)
@Elfhelm
@Elfhelm 2 ай бұрын
I've been with wife to Japan last year in April for 3 weeks and we went to Tokyo, Kyoto and Osaka, for the bigger cities and damn, even Tokyo was nice - sure, it's megacity, but at the same time, you have quite a bit of greenery and large parks too, while streets are mostly clean all the time. Food was great when we checked places beforehand, staff was always nice and we really didn't have that many negative experiences. We plan to go back in few years, it would feel bad not to really.
@soupersquid6666
@soupersquid6666 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for turning me on to Anki. I’m sure it will be super useful
@TheNobleFive
@TheNobleFive 2 ай бұрын
Don't forget WaniKani.
@Hypert0nic
@Hypert0nic 2 ай бұрын
I just returned from a semester in Barcelona and I totally feel you lol. Being back SUCKS, it was such an incredible experience. Worst part is that everyone gets tired of hearing you talk about it after 5 minutes haha.
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq
@AbimaelLopez-hz3qq 2 ай бұрын
My friend worked in Barcelona my friend didn’t like it and left I think studying is different
@Andynic12
@Andynic12 2 ай бұрын
I studied abroad in Japan for 6 months back when I was in college, and just like you i wish i could have stayed. Its been 9 years and rhe feeling still hasn't changed.
@SpinningTurtle66
@SpinningTurtle66 9 күн бұрын
It's a real shame my university course doesn't have a study abroad option. From what I hear from anyone who has done one, if you really prepare and try your best it can be one of the best experiences of your life. I've also heard lots of people absolutely hate it but nothing is perfect of course. Glad to hear you had such a positive experience!
@Zylefer
@Zylefer 2 ай бұрын
Any suggestions for ways to save when studying abroad? Currently in a local college to save, just worried about the costs of everything.
@DarkeyOfficial
@DarkeyOfficial 2 ай бұрын
Wow, kyoto is a must visit place. My friends and I wanna visit that place in a year 🙏
@VeryNerdyBird
@VeryNerdyBird 3 күн бұрын
when did you start learning japanese? was it like way before going abroad or did you start when you already were abroad?
@zenguy0334
@zenguy0334 2 ай бұрын
I'm in Japan right now on a study abroad too, and I can attest, its pretty great. Any tips on learning the language?
@zenguy0334
@zenguy0334 2 ай бұрын
oh I just got to the "give up section"
@SurelyNotKaihei
@SurelyNotKaihei 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate the music choice of Sonny Boy Rhapsody at the end of the video.
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